what a hoe...you all know who i am talking about. She probably was thinking about Ned and thinking this could be her future dress with him thinking he was gonna leave his wife and child. Yeh right.
It’s unfortunate, really. For starters, it’s unfair for the other girls. Alex really had people fooled. That dress looked pretty on her, but she threw everything away. 10 years down the drain for some guy.
2:08 "i just want to put something on and feel like a bride" i know most of us are wondering how she could go through with her engagement while cheating but from what she said in the video, it sounds like she just wanted the status of "bride/wife." she clearly didn't care about honoring her partner's wishes for monogamy or committing to him
I know this probably isn't the reason for reposting, but I've been trying to find one of the dresses on here again because I remembered thinking it was so gorgeous and I wanted to add it to an inspiration board on Pinterest. Thank you!! I couldn't find it anywhere until this video 🙏
I’m here for the other girls because I have art block and I just generally love how happy they looked-She-who-shall-not-be-named is forever banished. Edit: Realization time-I’m aromantic and asexual to boot, but planning weddings for funsies is indeed, fun. Anyone want a Tanglewood wedding under a giant ancient tree, with a black and white swan wedding dress (custom designed by me-yes, I’m an art nerd) with one of the most prestigious orchestra in the US playing the music and a coronation-esc banquet? Perfect balance of elegance and extravagance and a crap ton of fantasy flair, under a vaguely starry sky or with fireflies. Hire me.
I just wanna offer some food for thought. First, to be clear, there is very little you can do in life that will hurt another person more than cheating on them. It is a given that betrayal in a committed relationship is extremely traumatic and especially cruel if done willfully and carelessly. However, humans are very imperfect beings, and we live at the whims of instincts that were created out of millions of years of environmental influences that decided which personality traits were or were not more likely to get you to a place in life where you could propagate your DNA to the next generation and have them thrive to the point where they did the same. That's how evolution and natural selection just work. So here we are with a lot of instincts we don't truly understand and cannot truly control, made especially hard because they activate without conscious decisions being made, while the semi-artificial society we've created for ourselves is full of strict expectations, and expectations are step 1 in the 2-step process of disappointment. If you've ever spent time with someone you're not meant to be with, and found yourself feeling something you're not meant to feel, you should feel at least a little compassion for the two people who made mistakes here. Nowhere near the compassion you should feel for the people they hurt, but this is not a black and white world where you can only feel nothing or everything. Several times in my life, I have developed feelings for someone I cannot be with, lest I hurt their partner or the person I'm meant to be with, who is the most important person in the world to me. I couldn't prevent these feelings. The feeling of falling in love occupies a space that is different from the one enduring love occupies. Very few long-term couples can keep the falling-in space occupied; it's just not how the process works. I could only resist these feelings, I could not stop them from showing up and attacking me in the first place. I'm happy to say that I have always been successful, but the truth is that I am an extremely self-aware, self-analytical, self-critical person with an annoyingly strong sense of ethics (read: thinky autist) and I think I have some innate advantages over the typical person. I can understand the concept of being a little less skilled, or being weaker, and just giving in, because the world is honestly a pretty dark place sometimes and love is a beacon in the darkness. I don't know what the nature of Ned and Alex's relationship was, it might just have been really stupid hookups in the storage room with no real depth, or it might have been that they were both not with their actual soulmate and they were realizing it too late after recognizing what they needed in each other. Only they and their partners really know whether they feel appropriate shame or just annoyance at being caught. I'm not a religious person, but I have always found the phrase, "There, but for the grace of God, go I," to be an idea I need to remember, i.e. I could make such a mistake. And I've made mistakes. Not that one, but other terrible ones. I just don't feel like, in the absence of any evidence of overt cruelty, I am in a position to point fingers at two people who simply fell in love. I can say they didn't handle it right, I can say they owed their partners so much more than to let them find out the hard way, but I can't say it shouldn't have happened or that I don't understand how it can happen and that it's a crazy evil thing to do. It's not. It's just something they didn't do right. When you do it right, you tell your partner it's over, you break it off cleanly, and then you proceed. Not doing that is their sin. (I am not commenting on the manager/managed dynamic. That could also be problematic, but I really feel like consenting adults can both be pressured and also act out of free will in such a situation. I'll leave that for the lawyers to figure out, if it comes to that. I certainly hope for Alex's mental health that it was truly mutual and consensual and not due to a power imbalance.)
PS: Yes, I did just write a small novel on a small channel's repost of someone else's video. I know, I know. But sometimes I want to talk about something, partially for the sake of sorting out the thoughts and feelings in my own head, and in the hopes that at least one person might read it and take something useful away from it to improve their own life. I am what I am and I'm not going to apologize for it.
seems that alex and will got together so young that she never really dated a lot of other people. just makes everything that happened make a little more sense at least.
She knew he was married and had kids, and he knew she was engaged and an employee. Someday, when Neds children have to find out everyone knows they’re family history, I hope Ned and Alex get everything ripped up again instead of his kids getting the hate.
I remember watching this video for the first time and absolutely loving it. The difference in video style and people was great. I remember learning that both Kelsey and Alex were engaged and being so delighted for both of them, and now it’s gonna be always remembered as the video where Alex was cheating on her fiancé when this video was produced.
Crowns and tiaras are two different things. I do not understand why people confuse the two. Crowns can be worn by kings and queens. Tiaras are traditionally came be worn by anyone lower than them.
You know, she also said that the dress with the "boobs and legs out" made her look ready for a royal wedding😂. It's ok, people in the States get things like that mixed up easily. It's so funny just because that dress wouldn't be allowed on any royal wedding, she looks super lovely in it though and it is kinda regal looking.
The U.S. was literally created out of a desire to reject monarchy lol. Why would we know about that? Although there are tons of things wrong with us too lol. Just saying you have to look at history to understand where people are coming from
I know kelsey and jared broke up, but god they were cute in this video; I hope they can still be friends after their conscious uncoupling, cause they just… remind me of me and by best friends. the teasing, the laughing, the compliments, knowing each other so well. they seem to really love and care about each other, and I hope they’re both doing well.
I had a moment when I fell for a co worker and instead of pursuing I self sabotoged for months remembered my morals and values, ejected and got out of there
I'm genuinely happy YB did her own video of trying on dresses and she did not have to do it in this video Seeing Alex in videos like this just leaves such a bitter taste
Saw on yb (or yb’s friend’s ig - yes I stalked their igs. Haha) Will was invited to yb’s wedding. Glad that they’re still friends. Since yb posted before with herbert, alex and will like they became friends.
imagine throwing a 10 yr old relationship for a fling with a married man with kids. lmao. alex for sure belongs to the streets. really hope no man falls into her traps again.
Alex's ex(I guess) looks like gentle giant, who would give best hugs... and Alex threw it all away for quick pop... I hope Ariel (+kids) and Alex's ex (I do not remember his name... someone please help me) are oki and ofc Eugene, Keith and Zach are okie...Shame on Alex and Ned... they deserve each other if you know what I mean
what a hoe...you all know who i am talking about. She probably was thinking about Ned and thinking this could be her future dress with him thinking he was gonna leave his wife and child. Yeh right.
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That Kat person is such a pick me girl. Intolerable to watch.
The gorl in the open relationship is just embarrassing lol
Woof none of this aged well at all 😅 I can see why they deleted it
I don't know why watching the old intro made me kinda sad.
How do we know she was cheating during this? What was the timeline
You can look it up
It’s unfortunate, really. For starters, it’s unfair for the other girls. Alex really had people fooled. That dress looked pretty on her, but she threw everything away. 10 years down the drain for some guy.
Everyone talking about Alex, I’m so torn about Kelsey and Jared 😓 But don’t get me wrong I’m glad she chose Hippo over him 💀
2:08 "i just want to put something on and feel like a bride" i know most of us are wondering how she could go through with her engagement while cheating but from what she said in the video, it sounds like she just wanted the status of "bride/wife." she clearly didn't care about honoring her partner's wishes for monogamy or committing to him
I was really sad about Kelsey and her boyfriend's break up. I think they met on one of the buzzfeed Tinder episodes and they'd been together so long.
There is something about her face... it's just so... bland. I keep forgetting what she looks like. Her face reminds me of pudding.
I know this probably isn't the reason for reposting, but I've been trying to find one of the dresses on here again because I remembered thinking it was so gorgeous and I wanted to add it to an inspiration board on Pinterest. Thank you!! I couldn't find it anywhere until this video 🙏
This is probably going to be the only time alex wears a wedding dress
I knew she cried and all but she still lack of emotion... you feel that something was off. Now we know why.
Love Kelsey’s hair here ❤
Me too!
Thanks for saving this!
I’m here for the other girls because I have art block and I just generally love how happy they looked-She-who-shall-not-be-named is forever banished. Edit: Realization time-I’m aromantic and asexual to boot, but planning weddings for funsies is indeed, fun. Anyone want a Tanglewood wedding under a giant ancient tree, with a black and white swan wedding dress (custom designed by me-yes, I’m an art nerd) with one of the most prestigious orchestra in the US playing the music and a coronation-esc banquet? Perfect balance of elegance and extravagance and a crap ton of fantasy flair, under a vaguely starry sky or with fireflies. Hire me.
I loved this video so much, I was sad to learn they took it down😢
I just wanna offer some food for thought. First, to be clear, there is very little you can do in life that will hurt another person more than cheating on them. It is a given that betrayal in a committed relationship is extremely traumatic and especially cruel if done willfully and carelessly. However, humans are very imperfect beings, and we live at the whims of instincts that were created out of millions of years of environmental influences that decided which personality traits were or were not more likely to get you to a place in life where you could propagate your DNA to the next generation and have them thrive to the point where they did the same. That's how evolution and natural selection just work. So here we are with a lot of instincts we don't truly understand and cannot truly control, made especially hard because they activate without conscious decisions being made, while the semi-artificial society we've created for ourselves is full of strict expectations, and expectations are step 1 in the 2-step process of disappointment. If you've ever spent time with someone you're not meant to be with, and found yourself feeling something you're not meant to feel, you should feel at least a little compassion for the two people who made mistakes here. Nowhere near the compassion you should feel for the people they hurt, but this is not a black and white world where you can only feel nothing or everything. Several times in my life, I have developed feelings for someone I cannot be with, lest I hurt their partner or the person I'm meant to be with, who is the most important person in the world to me. I couldn't prevent these feelings. The feeling of falling in love occupies a space that is different from the one enduring love occupies. Very few long-term couples can keep the falling-in space occupied; it's just not how the process works. I could only resist these feelings, I could not stop them from showing up and attacking me in the first place. I'm happy to say that I have always been successful, but the truth is that I am an extremely self-aware, self-analytical, self-critical person with an annoyingly strong sense of ethics (read: thinky autist) and I think I have some innate advantages over the typical person. I can understand the concept of being a little less skilled, or being weaker, and just giving in, because the world is honestly a pretty dark place sometimes and love is a beacon in the darkness. I don't know what the nature of Ned and Alex's relationship was, it might just have been really stupid hookups in the storage room with no real depth, or it might have been that they were both not with their actual soulmate and they were realizing it too late after recognizing what they needed in each other. Only they and their partners really know whether they feel appropriate shame or just annoyance at being caught. I'm not a religious person, but I have always found the phrase, "There, but for the grace of God, go I," to be an idea I need to remember, i.e. I could make such a mistake. And I've made mistakes. Not that one, but other terrible ones. I just don't feel like, in the absence of any evidence of overt cruelty, I am in a position to point fingers at two people who simply fell in love. I can say they didn't handle it right, I can say they owed their partners so much more than to let them find out the hard way, but I can't say it shouldn't have happened or that I don't understand how it can happen and that it's a crazy evil thing to do. It's not. It's just something they didn't do right. When you do it right, you tell your partner it's over, you break it off cleanly, and then you proceed. Not doing that is their sin. (I am not commenting on the manager/managed dynamic. That could also be problematic, but I really feel like consenting adults can both be pressured and also act out of free will in such a situation. I'll leave that for the lawyers to figure out, if it comes to that. I certainly hope for Alex's mental health that it was truly mutual and consensual and not due to a power imbalance.)
PS: Yes, I did just write a small novel on a small channel's repost of someone else's video. I know, I know. But sometimes I want to talk about something, partially for the sake of sorting out the thoughts and feelings in my own head, and in the hopes that at least one person might read it and take something useful away from it to improve their own life. I am what I am and I'm not going to apologize for it.
We reap what we sow
seems that alex and will got together so young that she never really dated a lot of other people. just makes everything that happened make a little more sense at least.
Yeah, she never got like any opportunities with other people. Makes sense to a certain extent but doesn’t excuse it
@@emmac.j.8374 for sure doesn’t excuse it but it kinda makes sense as to why.
It's funny because she could easy cheat with other guys but no she chose the married one who is also her boss. Really know how to pick em
She knew he was married and had kids, and he knew she was engaged and an employee. Someday, when Neds children have to find out everyone knows they’re family history, I hope Ned and Alex get everything ripped up again instead of his kids getting the hate.
I remember watching this video for the first time and absolutely loving it. The difference in video style and people was great. I remember learning that both Kelsey and Alex were engaged and being so delighted for both of them, and now it’s gonna be always remembered as the video where Alex was cheating on her fiancé when this video was produced.
Wtf is the modern world coming to. 10 years ending in cheating. Open relationship? Wtf
10 fucking. Years.
Kelsey is really such an amazing person!
Damn dude this is hard to watch lol
These girls are definitely the kind of friends I want so much in real life and in books!!! 💖💖
I'm glad u reuploaded it! I feel so happy!!!
Just found out on the podcast that Desiree is single and no longer with her girlfriend…. Everyone in this video is now single….
Noooo that’s actually awful
Aww.. From what podcast? What episode?
Damn...
Oh damn...
Crowns and tiaras are two different things. I do not understand why people confuse the two. Crowns can be worn by kings and queens. Tiaras are traditionally came be worn by anyone lower than them.
You know, she also said that the dress with the "boobs and legs out" made her look ready for a royal wedding😂. It's ok, people in the States get things like that mixed up easily. It's so funny just because that dress wouldn't be allowed on any royal wedding, she looks super lovely in it though and it is kinda regal looking.
The U.S. was literally created out of a desire to reject monarchy lol. Why would we know about that? Although there are tons of things wrong with us too lol. Just saying you have to look at history to understand where people are coming from
Can we just take a minute to appreciate how incredible and badass of a human being Kelsey is! What an icon!
highkey I am in love with the woman who runs(?) the boutique
owww🥰 this is so cute hope no one is cheating in this video❤
I know like the drama is Alexandria, but the pink haired girl doesn’t love her girlfriend
Why would you say that??
I know kelsey and jared broke up, but god they were cute in this video; I hope they can still be friends after their conscious uncoupling, cause they just… remind me of me and by best friends. the teasing, the laughing, the compliments, knowing each other so well. they seem to really love and care about each other, and I hope they’re both doing well.
Idk if they are buddies but he is buddy’s with the girl who sent him the photos of Alexandra cheated with Ned in the club lol 😆
I don't agree on open relationships
@Dwalf-Lettuce2002 why do we care?
She's said on the podcast that they are still the best of friends and hang out when posible. Really healthy break up it seems!
Rooting for Desiree. Here's hoping that her relationship is the only one to survive this video.
Just saw a comment saying they’re not together anymore either
@emmac.j.8374 dang, so none of the relationships from this video made it?!
this video is cursed
What kind of person says yes to her partner when she cheating on him with her boss just digusting and she has no morals
You guys are asking the same question but no one is willing to look in deeper :/
Curious. What do you mean?
Did Kelsey and her partner break up? I saw a dog video with her in it where she said she went through a break up ( I think that was her)
Yep
My brain can't handle what Alex's saying... WTH...
I had a moment when I fell for a co worker and instead of pursuing I self sabotoged for months remembered my morals and values, ejected and got out of there
Good for you!! You did the right thing. For me, as soon as someone's married i lose anyyy attraction towards them like just NOPE
I'm genuinely happy YB did her own video of trying on dresses and she did not have to do it in this video Seeing Alex in videos like this just leaves such a bitter taste
Saw on yb (or yb’s friend’s ig - yes I stalked their igs. Haha) Will was invited to yb’s wedding. Glad that they’re still friends. Since yb posted before with herbert, alex and will like they became friends.
imagine throwing a 10 yr old relationship for a fling with a married man with kids. lmao. alex for sure belongs to the streets. really hope no man falls into her traps again.
Agreed with the caveat of Ned is equally guilty. No one accidentally cheats.
This didn't age well...
It’s a shame that the circumstances surrounding this video ended up being so deeply unfortunate because otherwise the video is good
Yeah, and I searched for this purely to see Kelsey
what date was this uploaded on their channel?
February of this year
This was one of my favorite videos before all that happened, now it is hard to look at it (but thank you for re-upload)
Alex's ex(I guess) looks like gentle giant, who would give best hugs... and Alex threw it all away for quick pop... I hope Ariel (+kids) and Alex's ex (I do not remember his name... someone please help me) are oki and ofc Eugene, Keith and Zach are okie...Shame on Alex and Ned... they deserve each other if you know what I mean
His name is Will 😭
@@CitrusPencil Will awww 🥹🥹🥹 thank you
She didn’t look excited to be engaged like something is off