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Peace brother . Thank you so much for your wisdom and guidance

damn... but women also get laid with guys that they dont know.... cheat with a guy that they just met in a bar... dont even know his name.... no "connection" at all .. just physical attraction ....and have torrid sex without questions.... soooo?

Because women dont want sex and I dont like men.

You are amazing you are so clear can concise with your advice. I went to your video because I'm currently just dating a guy. We encountered a little hiccup which I personally don't wish to deal with. Cheating after drinking. I know that no relationship is absolute. But the fact that we're not even married triggered me to seek some additional help before abandoning our connection. However the fact that it's happening before we even decide to go further in the commitment. Concerns me because at this time I can walk away unscathed with just a few tears. I so appreciate your help it gave me clarity. Sometimes we think we can resolve things in our own head. And, be our own therapist. I consider myself to be a very grounded rational person. But my feelings for this gentleman are different than some of the other relationships I've had in the past. So before I made this decision I want to make sure that I looked at all my possible resources. He's not an idol for me because I actually do love myself first. I just want to make sure I'm crossing all my t's and dotting on my i's. I said all that to say that thank you thank you for sharing your knowledge on TH-cam. I'm trusting God that I'm making the right decision. And I stay in prayer. And hope that my decision leads me towards growth. But thank you so very much. 🙏🏽

The cheater also needs to go NO CONTACT with the affair partner. And if the cheater has a porn addiction - they need help. The victim needs to do things for themselves like going to the gym so they're not stuck. Working out helps the mind and the body. It lowers your stress and levels out your resting heart rate and blood pressure. It keeps you moving and releases aggression. When you focus on your form while you're exercising you don't have intrusive thoughts, you're not thinking about anyone but yourself and that's a good thing. Working out clears your mind and gets you out of the fog.

What about if he is still cheating 😩

I always enjoy your videos. Much better than all these toxic alpha gurus out here. Appreciate the insight brotha.

Really really useful. Thank you! I'm in the very destructive stage and even though I've decided to stay, I need to manage that much better.

Archive it😂

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Please help me understand 🤗 If love is sacrificial giving for the benefit of the person you are loving, doesn't learning to speak their love laguage so that they feel loved fall into that sacrificial giving🤔

"You have to divorce the fantasy in your head so that you can stay married to the stranger in your bed" 🙌👏👏👏

So glad I stumbled upon your channel...thanks for your great material 🙏🤗

Thanks so much...great tips

I stepped out of the relationship and entertained a total of 3 other men online never in person, he found out and chose to revenge cheat. He messaged other women online bought pictures and received free pictures as well. I’m a very insecure woman and I’ve been dwelling on the fact that the other women have no resemblances to me in any way not race not weight nothing. So it really hurts because in my eyes he sought out those women because that’s what he actually wants. He’s apologized and I’ve apologized it’s been about 3-4 months since everything came out but nothing is getting better because I can’t stop dwelling on it and bringing up how I feel that he’s not attracted to me anymore. I desperately need advice as someone who struggles with depression and self harm this has been a terrible ride. I just want us to be okay again and to move on but I really can’t move on it’s been impossible to not even think about.

A lot of women their hormones are out of whack after a couple to a few years in the relationship especially after having kids. Women need to exercise, eat a more magnesium and omega 3 filled diet AND drink their water, eat their salads / whole grains - you her partner will see a world of a difference in her libido.

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so basically if it’s not as you said “ to your own detriment “

good example is just doing the dishes or taking out the trash or coming in the kitchen if she’s cooking and just count up behind her and wrapping your arms around her and kiss her .. small maybe but still stuff you do not to be rewarded but just because it comes naturally and just done because you live them

and visa versa don’t try to “prove” your love but rather just live them in the ways you’ve spoken about..

and visa versa don’t try to “prove” your love but rather just live them in the ways you’ve spoken about..

How about if you're not yet married? So technically a boyfriend /girlfriend relationship. Is this applicable? I found his infidelity after 2 yrs, where he already changed and everything is smooth and have plans to get married. I don't want to lose his hope that someone believes on this kind of people. I am not a saint or hero. Definitely I am not God. However, I just want to be the person that says and think that sinner can still find it's way back to light. Yet, as part of defense and the validity of what we had felt because of their actions and can't deny that I have fear of what if in the end I failed to make it happen.

Sounds like nonsense

ATP I'm really only here so it doesn't break up my home.... I've been trying to make time for therapy but as busy parents its freggin impossible.

Woman with the old bait and switch. Want out it's going to cost you.

This is related to when someone says, you know how to push my buttons, however the person creates a negative in their mind and punish their mate

Always speaking facts!

Bruh lack of sx is only in marriages where the woman isn't attracted to him

As a man thinketh, so is he! The people you meet, books you read, and ideas you hear shape who you become next year....

You must be from H-Town- 5th ward bees-- Good message my brother of another color. Good luck with your channel

This is SO GOOD!!!

This the one!!!!

Can you suggest great Christian counselors. My spouse and I are going through this and I’m terrified we won’t find the right professional.

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I wish I could catch you live but I have a hectic schedule but you are blessing

Bless God for you brother

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This is so good thank you!!

You lost me when you said that the victim needs to take a hard look at themselves. The victim did nothing wrong.

Amazing. Amazingly convicting. 🧡🧡🧡

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Wow wat an amazing video having u as a therapist I’d conquer the world prolly 😅

Man of God my brother in christ please keep doing what you're doing keep making videos you are helping more people than you realize even if people that don't like or subscribe sir please believe me they see you and hear you we see and hear you watching you have helped me and my wife my brother God bless you and I pray that he turns everything you touch into to gold. Amen

My wife confessed to me 6 months ago of an affair 15 years ago. I am so hurt and torn as to what to do. I know we love each other and are different people now , but the hurt is so deep. I don’t know if I can forgive her. We have been meeting with our pastor for help.

Mr Brantley, I have a question. If a man identifies his calling but the woman is still yet to know her calling or she doesn't know her calling. Should I still marry her?.

I always initiate to my boyfriend to have sex and Im not blunt about it. I tell him “I want you and I want it.. NOW”. He always comply but I wish he initiates more than I do. I hate the feeling when I am the one to ask for it. Ugh!