Tyla Takai
Tyla Takai
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My 10yr transition, female to male. FTM. From testosterone to top surgery.
This video is all about my whole journey transitioning from female to male and why my journey has been delayed and put on hold over the years. I started transitioning at the age of 16. That’s when I first identified as a male. I’m turning 28 in 2 weeks time and just had top surgery 6 days ago.
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My experience in a females prison as a transgender male EP2 Prison life
มุมมอง 8654 ปีที่แล้ว
yeeeaa im back with episode 2, part 2 of my life in prison. i am a transgender male who spent some time within a females prison. some think my time in there was "a walk in the park" lol living with 500 women. It was the complete opposite but an real EXPERIENCE to say the least. I hope you enjoy watching this is my SECOND EVER UPLOAD!!!
My experience in a females prison as a transgender male...
มุมมอง 7K4 ปีที่แล้ว
heyyy so this is my first ever upload. in this video i share with you all a little on my experience in prison. I don’t touch on everything so I will have a follow up video still to come. I was in prison in 2018, in a females prison. What I experienced in there was nothing but mind games with the screws. At first I felt broken I felt destroyed, but something ticked in my head. Something told me ...

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  • @gunterkeegan670
    @gunterkeegan670 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    For the last time, you are you DNA; you cannot change your identity. Clearly you think as a woman because thats is what you will always be. Even after bottom surgery you are neith M nor F, you're effectively other in its true form.

  • @JustinMiller-zw9cl
    @JustinMiller-zw9cl 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Man I dint like girls but as a transexual women she is really attractive.

  • @3bah4y
    @3bah4y 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I searched for a video like this for a while thanks for sharing your experience this is exactly what I was looking for. Very brave of you thank you.!

  • @christiandalrymple-johnson5432
    @christiandalrymple-johnson5432 ปีที่แล้ว

    Congrats bro🎉

  • @Sarahnatalie
    @Sarahnatalie 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The fact that you got to decide where you wanted to go is troublesome. You didn’t want to go to a man’s prison because you felt vulnerable with I am assuming fear of sexual assault. I totally understand that. What upsets me is that fear isn’t taken into consideration from cis women who protest they don’t want transwomen in female prisons. The self ID law that Labour want to pass will allow any person to identify without therapy, cross sex hormones or gender reassignment surgery. I truly believe once you break the law you wave your right to self ID and go to the prison of the sex you were at birth. Allowing transwomen into female prisons is a disgrace for women. I’m a gay woman and I think trans people should be made safe but not at the expense of making women less safer which is exactly what is happening.

    • @Celephinn
      @Celephinn 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      T-Women are not a threat to C-Women.

  • @deznuts1841
    @deznuts1841 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    u lucky u ain't go to a man's prison fool u have to do more than a press up they press that ass in

  • @deznuts1841
    @deznuts1841 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    my guy really u think it's a fucking duty to putt u in a woman's prison their shouldn't be no complaints on your situation u could be thrown in a mans prison and be raped every fuckin day ppl who aren't gay get raped almost everyday so sit tf down complaining about be ing called a lady smfh u a lucky mf

  • @antoniomajor9357
    @antoniomajor9357 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You want be a man why not go to the men prison lmao

  • @antoniomajor9357
    @antoniomajor9357 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You want be a man why not go to the men prison lmao

    • @tylatakai9081
      @tylatakai9081 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lmao because I didn’t feel comfortable as I haven’t had surgery yet. I was given the choice and I chose to stay in the “females” prison.

  • @MasterjngReizowolf
    @MasterjngReizowolf 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    ✊🏽🫡 goals my g.

  • @bobmartino8073
    @bobmartino8073 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Not trying to be a smart ass but if you are a man who identifies as a woman, what is wrong with being called a lady? serious question with no disrespect intended.

    • @fehaymfekayi5893
      @fehaymfekayi5893 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      its a female who identifies as a male.

  • @someonesomewhere1500
    @someonesomewhere1500 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I saw a video explaining what happens to trans women in a male prison. It was horrible.

  • @galegrazutis964
    @galegrazutis964 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Why don't you think about all this before you commit crimes!???

    • @tylatakai9081
      @tylatakai9081 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Because sometimes things go wrong in life and you make wrong choices. I took the wrong path and I except what I chose to do with my life at that moment in time was wrong and against the law. I was mentally unstable and also my housing situation was unstable therefore I made silly decisions. However what matters is being able to turn your life around and not being a statistic. 4 1/2 years later you could never imagine what I have previously been through!

  • @geoffcarr1044
    @geoffcarr1044 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    If you’re a transgender male you should go to a male jail/prison , you want to be a man but want the benefits of your female birth gender

  • @Jojo-zy5zd
    @Jojo-zy5zd 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Congratulations on ya top surgery, looking amazing to say you have only recently had it done. Hope recovery continues to go well.❤️

  • @P03ticJustice
    @P03ticJustice 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Why didn't they put you with the men like they do when transwomen go to female jail. Why does everyone have to take female spaces. If you're a man you belong with the MEN!

  • @blackflag5148
    @blackflag5148 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You're a woman HAHAHAHAHAHAHA 😂😂😂 BE A WOMAN!!!!! HAHAHAHHAHAHA

  • @rt-dreco136
    @rt-dreco136 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You sound and look like a real man my boi I would neva think u was a women if I seen you or talked to you lol

    • @tylatakai9081
      @tylatakai9081 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks!! That actually means a lot as even now 2 years later I feel I don’t fully pass! And most people commenting on this has been negative 😕 I’m doing an update in the next week as a lot has changed positively and want to share it!

  • @lordfreeza_
    @lordfreeza_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lol funny how u never see transmen asking to be put in mens prisons..

    • @tylatakai9081
      @tylatakai9081 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      This the thing bro I would fully have went to a men’s prison if i felt I passed. Also if I had undergone surgery too. At this stage in my life I had the public still calling me miss and sister assuming I am female from my feminine features I still held. I also hadn’t had surgery so I have female chest (quite large too) and female genitals. It don’t take a genius to work out where I would feel more vulnerable and at risk? I felt awkward going to a women’s prison also but felt less at risk for some reason.

    • @lordfreeza_
      @lordfreeza_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@tylatakai9081 why do you think that transwomen don't feel the same way about womens jails? ...

    • @lordfreeza_
      @lordfreeza_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@tylatakai9081 you can pretend all you want but when it comes down to real things like prisons the truth comes out.. even you don't believe that bs deep down

    • @tylatakai9081
      @tylatakai9081 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lordfreeza_ the transgender woman in the woman prison I was in was put on a separate wing for the safety of everyone. However men’s prisons do not provide this “safer place”

    • @lordfreeza_
      @lordfreeza_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@tylatakai9081 also I love how you say "assuming I'm female" .. lol no you ARE female

  • @Himithy_Jones
    @Himithy_Jones 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    So you went to a Women's prison (by choice) but didn't want to be called "Ladies"???? Did I hear that right?

    • @tylatakai9081
      @tylatakai9081 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah that’s correct! Since there is other transgender people within the prison not just me you would think they would use pronouns and names more appropriately.

    • @leelee5593
      @leelee5593 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I guess In some states you get housed based off your genitals 🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @madamelogicbombdropperblac7799
      @madamelogicbombdropperblac7799 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      If you identify as a man and want to be treated as a man and commit a crime as a man, then why not go to a male prison. You cannot have your cake and eat it too.

    • @josephinebournes8212
      @josephinebournes8212 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@tylatakai9081 Then wouldn't the logical solution be to transfer to a Men's prison since you're a man?

    • @tylatakai9081
      @tylatakai9081 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@josephinebournes8212 yes I understand your thinking however due to me not having surgery yet I felt more vulnerable going to a men prison at the time.

  • @LittleMsLibra8
    @LittleMsLibra8 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I understand you identity as male but seriously biological women in a male prison is incredibly unsafe. Biological men are killed and raped in men's prisons. There should be no debate on this. Prison is not summer camp. You should be focusing on doing your time and coming home to live your life. I honestly feel like placing trans-people in prison based on their gender identity is incredibly problematic for everyone involved. They're may be some compromise if gender reassignment has occurred, but without it, it's not a good idea for both sexual and physical health reasons.

    • @tylatakai9081
      @tylatakai9081 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Of course this can be up for discussion as your opinion I shouldn’t have been in a females prison then right? Yet I fully believe where my sentence was served at that particular point in my life was the right place

    • @LittleMsLibra8
      @LittleMsLibra8 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Tyla Takai no I think it was right for you to be in the female prison since you hadn’t had reassignment surgery. But even with the surgery, I feel there are still potential problems that a men’s prison would present. Just being tried period in prison is a risk and men knowing you’re biologically female could just make you or any other trans-man vulnerable to attacks and make the difficult experience of serving a prison sentence even more difficult.

  • @goingmonotheist783
    @goingmonotheist783 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You know.. cis males and females in prisons get abused, and abuse eachother all the time.. why come trans people think life will be different in prison for them either way? Do females don't abuse other females in female prisons? How is this really not just giving prisoners abuse preferences~

    • @tylatakai9081
      @tylatakai9081 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I don’t even understand your point here to be honest. I don’t think you realise the problems transgender people face being locked up. I do understand cis males/ females encounter problems when locked away also. Of course males and females abuse each other. Please explain what your trying to get at?

    • @goingmonotheist783
      @goingmonotheist783 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @UCOSR08zSgOic4EROfOK3wlw Please teach me.. how so.. Are prisons fundementally sexual safe places? Or are they fundementally places that accomodate for sexual humanity? Or any kind of humanity to begin with~

    • @tylatakai9081
      @tylatakai9081 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@goingmonotheist783 No prison is safe! A Male officer who worked on my wing had his keys taken off him for entering women’s cells without permission and some ladies had made allegations against him but yet he still remained working there. I just honestly can say myself I decided to go to a females prison because I genuinely felt as if I would be more safer. From stories I’ve heard from both males and females prisons, females prisons tend to be a lot more calm then men’s.

    • @goingmonotheist783
      @goingmonotheist783 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@tylatakai9081 What I'm getting at is that the prison system itself is a system that doesn't recognize the abc's of humanity, especially sexually or emotionally.. It's literally a place that takes cis people (male and female) and isolates them from humane sexual health for years and years, people literally end up screwing and raping eachother, even if they aren't gay.. and no one ever cared.. Then you guys jump in this very criminal system, and now the place that literally has no sense of humanity in it to start with, will totally allow anyone to just be where ever.. Unless you yourself can atleast tell me how you can solve the prison rape problems first.. I really don't think there's anything more ridiculous than expanding the rape rooms in ways that can infact get people pregnant.. You know what's ridiculous.. You ignoring this in the name of your own innocence IN A SYSTEM THAT ISNT.

    • @goingmonotheist783
      @goingmonotheist783 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@tylatakai9081 That's the whole point!!!! How the hell do you think it's gonna be safer with adding more males! You literally considered the female prison safer BECAUSE IT DOESN'T HAVE THE KIND OF PEOPLE IN MALE PRISONS!!!! do you really not see at all how literally opening the door of female prisons to male inmates is a potential problem????? Why are you wasting your time imagining that HELL will become a humane place?? It's literally a place defined by using humanity (not wanting to do corporal punishment), to literally oversee prolonged human abuse.. Everywhere!

  • @reeddior
    @reeddior 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is the only video I’ve found, and one of the only pieces of info in general on a trans man in prison, wether it be women or men’s. Glad to hear they asked you how you present, gave you the option of men’s or women’s prison and the “trans pack” sounded great in theory - but too bad you didn’t have access to it... not sure what would happen if I were incarcerated in my country.... I’ve always wondered what might happen if I did though. Just got my name and gender marker changed legally so I wonder if I would even have the option to go to a woman’s prison. Even if it didn’t affirm my identity, I’d still prefer it over possibly getting sexually harassed and horrible shit happening in males prison. The only way I could prob get by is by rapping or making art for people - I heard that’s respected and can become a business where you do tattoos or sell custom songs lol.

    • @tylatakai9081
      @tylatakai9081 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hey that’s crazy to hear this is the only info you have came across. I’m happy I shared my experience for that reason. It is a daunting thing not knowing where you could end up but I’m greatful here in the uk I was given a choice. Yes your right you have to earn your respect in some kinda way. I am creating a project in the uk to help Transgender people in prisons so please stay tuned for my next videos. Check out my Instagram also @translucentfund

    • @reeddior
      @reeddior 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@tylatakai9081 imma definitely give you a follow man, and check out your next vid + subscribe. It was really interesting, I appreciate you sharing this. Yeah idk what it is but it’s mostly mtf experiences I hear about... I’ve been digging around in prison experience related content for a while too... I found a guy who writes articles that transitioned WHILE in prison but that’s a different story. Maybe it’s things that people would rather not talk about since being trans in itself and doing time in itself are both taboo. But I fuck with people who spread and expose the truth, we don’t need any more bullshit!

    • @tylatakai9081
      @tylatakai9081 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@reeddior yeah you hit it spot on bro. I been researching to try and understand the figures of transgender people in prisons in the uk and it is a number we have never known, for the fact a lot of people end up hiding that they are transgender or even from the LGBT community. This is to avoid any possible “problems” with other inmates or even the screws. A lot more needs to be done over here that’s for sure and bro it’s my mission now to at least try to make an impact.

    • @leonbell5141
      @leonbell5141 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Can’t anyone just say their trans to get into a sex prison of their choice

    • @Sarahnatalie
      @Sarahnatalie 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@leonbell5141 this is where it becomes extremely problematic. I have no doubt the majority of trans people just want to get on with their lives and cause no harm. BUT there will always be people who exploit the system for their own game. By allowing self ID and trans people to be able to choose what prison they go to we open up multiple safety issues for women. This trans man wanted to be a man in every other area of his life and expected society to confirm that UNTIL he was faced with the harsh reality of a man’s prison. This is a massive double standard. Women in female prisons are supposed to just let transwomen in no questions asked. Both groups cis women and transmen fear the same thing, rape and violence. Male pattern violence is very different to women’s. Men commit roughly 97% sex crimes and a extremely higher proportion of violent crimes compared to women. This male pattern violence transcends into transwomens crimes as well. The transwomen going into female prisons have a high chance of having committed a sexual/violent crime. Transwomen commit crimes exactly the same pattern as cis men. Think about that long and hard.

  • @MIDOGALI
    @MIDOGALI 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    The trans men wanna be in the woman's prison. The trans men want to be with the women too.

    • @tylatakai9081
      @tylatakai9081 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      No that is not the case! I as a trans man would have rather be where I belong in a mans prison but it was my choice to stay only because I’m at the start of my journey.

  • @Narniabalogums
    @Narniabalogums 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sounds like such a frustrating experience for you

    • @tylatakai9081
      @tylatakai9081 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      It was unfortunately. I’m hoping things have maybe changed somewhat.

  • @cannacris9292
    @cannacris9292 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Keep sharing, don't stop

  • @princessamani
    @princessamani 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Loved part 1 and 2. Keep em coming :)

    • @tylatakai9081
      @tylatakai9081 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hey thanks I appreciate it, more to definitely come.

  • @wormi8261
    @wormi8261 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for talking about this from a trans mans view! I’m writing a paper about trans inmates and this really helps.

    • @tylatakai9081
      @tylatakai9081 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hey, no problem I’m happy this could help you. I would love to give it a read.

  • @jimothybellware1979
    @jimothybellware1979 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Interesting as hell to hear your story bro

    • @tylatakai9081
      @tylatakai9081 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks I appreciate you listening! I hope this helps people speak up also and make change happen! The corruption in there is REAL!

    • @JayThe0
      @JayThe0 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@tylatakai9081 nother ftm here, this info /advice is blessed

    • @tylatakai9081
      @tylatakai9081 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@JayThe0 Appreciate it 🙏🏽

  • @Leah-lz8pv
    @Leah-lz8pv 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Induction wings are always hectic. X

  • @Leah-lz8pv
    @Leah-lz8pv 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yeah. Every prison I've been in had a salon. I worked in the one in Eastwood park a few years back. 👍

    • @tylatakai9081
      @tylatakai9081 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah it’s good they do have them facilities but I feel it should be more unisex either way as not everyone wants just women’s treatments.

  • @Leah-lz8pv
    @Leah-lz8pv 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Btw I bet the women loved you.... You are easy on the eye.

    • @MrTripleXXX
      @MrTripleXXX 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's not really the point here. Being stuck in the prison based on the gender you were born as vs the gender you really are is seriously messed up.

    • @Apetitegirly
      @Apetitegirly 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@MrTripleXXX yeah she just mentioned it chill

    • @leonbell5141
      @leonbell5141 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lucky guy with no surgery…and all those ladies like a kid in a candy shop…as a straight male if I was doing life I’d say I was a female trans to get into a womens prison..isn’t this open to abuse 🤔

  • @_scorpiwhore
    @_scorpiwhore 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for sharing your experience, can't wait for more.

  • @manlikealex
    @manlikealex 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was very insightful bro! Big up yourself for reaching a point where you are comfortable being open and thank you for sharing!! Looking forward to the next vid!! 🔥🔥🔥

    • @tylatakai9081
      @tylatakai9081 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      ManLikeAlex thanks I appreciate it! Yeah ima fill the next one with more juicy stuff lol. 💪🏽 me being open is the only way to allow change...