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Practice Intimacy
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Hello! I'm Jami Lynn Bula, a couples and sex therapist.
I've been obsessed with sex, love, and relationships since I was a child. I think the correct description would be a "natural-born romantic." But then I got a bit older and realized I was TERRIBLE at romance. I had no idea what I was doing in love and got hurt often.
So I started to teach myself all about healthy partnership and sexuality. I began to study psychology, Tantra yoga, and neuroscience...trying to figure out how to have epic love and mindblowing sex.
These interests brought me to the world of therapy, where I was able to help couples practice all the skills I'd learned over the 10 years of my research. But I can only see so many couples...So I decided to bring this information to a larger audience!
Everyone deserves healthy, life-giving love and pleasure. This channel will teach you the skills you need to create a life full of love and sexual satisfaction.
I've been obsessed with sex, love, and relationships since I was a child. I think the correct description would be a "natural-born romantic." But then I got a bit older and realized I was TERRIBLE at romance. I had no idea what I was doing in love and got hurt often.
So I started to teach myself all about healthy partnership and sexuality. I began to study psychology, Tantra yoga, and neuroscience...trying to figure out how to have epic love and mindblowing sex.
These interests brought me to the world of therapy, where I was able to help couples practice all the skills I'd learned over the 10 years of my research. But I can only see so many couples...So I decided to bring this information to a larger audience!
Everyone deserves healthy, life-giving love and pleasure. This channel will teach you the skills you need to create a life full of love and sexual satisfaction.
Try THIS Tantric Sexual Practice for Increased Connection and Pleasure
Explore a new way to connect during sex with this tantric sexual practice. Learn about yab yum and how tantra yoga can enhance intimacy and connection in your relationship. Try it today!
Sending you so much love and gratitude for watching!
XO,
JL Bula
Want to learn more skills for self-healing and improved mental health? Check out my Boundaries course at:
www.practiceintimacy.com/boundaries-create-your-peace-1
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Music: 'Lion' by Sapajou
Free download: bit.ly/3q6w8mW
DISCLAIMER: This content is not therapy, nor is it a substitute for therapy. If something in this video is activating, illuminating, or intriguing to you - please seek a trained professional to explore the topic with
0:00 Stillness in sex
1:46 Start sex by attuning
4:05 Ground your partner at the end of sex
6:00 Yab Yum
9:36 Become a sexy weirdo with me!
Sending you so much love and gratitude for watching!
XO,
JL Bula
Want to learn more skills for self-healing and improved mental health? Check out my Boundaries course at:
www.practiceintimacy.com/boundaries-create-your-peace-1
****Get Weekly Tips & Tools, Sign-Up for the Newsletter****
practiceintimacy.com/newsletter
________
Music: 'Lion' by Sapajou
Free download: bit.ly/3q6w8mW
DISCLAIMER: This content is not therapy, nor is it a substitute for therapy. If something in this video is activating, illuminating, or intriguing to you - please seek a trained professional to explore the topic with
0:00 Stillness in sex
1:46 Start sex by attuning
4:05 Ground your partner at the end of sex
6:00 Yab Yum
9:36 Become a sexy weirdo with me!
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Very true & realistic.very helpful, thank u!!! Also liked unbiased greeting to humans!!!!
Lol
You did have to bleep those few certain words? I feel like I hear it on TH-cam often, unless podcasts are different?
Heavenly info baby. You're a queen 🏆 I enjoy oral pleasure with my wife a lot. So I love it.💛
Heavenly info baby. You're a queen 🩳
Thank you! This made my day. I haven't been active making videos recently and this encouragement helps me feel inspired to create again!
Spot on, after go’ogling around I realized that everything by Merle Winestol was improved and now you can have her screaming with joy using a couple simple moves. What he teached before was pretty good, but now it’s on another level and she’s the one begging for more
Wow thanks, I didn't realize that Merle updated his favorite way to make her explode in pure bliss, it’s amazingly satisfying. Although what he suggested before was fairly good, it doesn’t even compare, I did it go’ogling Merle Winestol, and she just can’t have enough now.
Tantric yoga has nothing to do with sex don't listen to false teachers
really enjoying all your videos
Wow thanks, I didn't realize that Merle updated his favorite way to make her explode in pure bliss, it’s amazingly satisfying. Although what he suggested before was fairly good, it doesn’t even compare, I did it go’ogling Merle Winestol, and she just can’t have enough now.
meh
I have a strong cuckold fetish. I want to one day live the lifestyle. On that note and related to the lifestyle, I have a kink with lingerie. Meaning, whenever I’ve overheard women discussing the sizes of their garments, that will turn me on too. (That said, I still don’t understand how the sizes for bras are figured out.)
Thank you!
Do you have practise course ? Im so behind with it...
I'm currently creating a practice course for couples to increase their emotional and sexual intimacy. I will definitely share a video about it once it's ready to go!
Partner to our right eye for gazing? And us left eye? ❤
Hey @joannabarcikowska6409! Thank you for watching! You're both looking into the left eye. Your partner will look into your left eye and you'll look into their left eye. When you look at their face, you'll actually be looking at the eye on the right side (ahhh confusion), but that's their left. I hope that explanation helps. Thank you again for watching!
I love how you describe these experiences, as I have done them and had the most erotic yet calm and sublime moments of deep connection, like a meditation together. I LOVE your wisdom and style! Thanks for spreading the word of Tantric love!
Really Hoping You Gain The Recognition/Accolades/Appreciation/Audience That You So Deserve. Boosting For The Algo. Many Can Benefit From Your Delivery & How Cogent & Intentional The Subtance Of Your Message Is. Brilliant & Beautiful.
Thank you so much! I so appreciate your encouragement and the time it took to share your support!!
Are fetishes genetic i heard somewhere that body related fetishes are genetic please guide
This chicks hilarious 😂😂😂
Knock this crap off. You are no expert because there are no experts. Just because its something you enjoy you don't have to tell the world
Fake
Atomic, on the level/scale of atoms. Everything is Energy. Everything Is Information. Everything is Awareness.
If u want pizza then its food you need so get a salad because salad is also food. Thats her arguement. 😂
Thank you Jami Lynn....Love the way you beautifully and naturally express yourself. You are adorable! Stillness, as you describe it, sounds really pleasurable. Looking forward to experience it.
I appreciate your kind words, it makes a huge positive impact knowing people are enjoying these videos! Thank you so much for watching!!
Can you please make more videos because I like them so much
Thank you for watching and for all your supportive words!
You are a sweetheart
I love you so much
Hello beautiful girl
You look so good in red lipstick
You are a sweetheart
Can you please make more videos because I like them so much
You are so funny
You are so funny
Do you recommend any guided meditations that go along with this?
Hey @Sdk299! Thank you for watching! Unfortunately, I don't have any suggests for guided meditations. I'll make some to add to the channel and reply to your comment with the link when it's live :)
Your hair is so beautiful
Thank you!
I love you
I like you
You are a beautiful woman
Bro Stop😭
How are you feeling today
Hello beautiful girl
I fall in the wounded feminine archetype and oh how I wish I was able to be apart of this retreat.
I know these archetypes personally .. they are never a stuck set point just an awareness to get to grow from ❤❤ and yesss You can be in This retreat ! What’s in the way?
Welcome back. Balancing options is definitely hard, especially if they are all desirable. Someone reminded me that the term "decide" basically means "cut (or kill) off" all other options. It makes sense that doing that can cause grief about the things being killed off even while being excited for the chosen priority.
Such a great reminder. I've heard that etymology before too and I love the reality check of "killing off" what's not a priority. Thanks for watching and sharing!
Hello, Thank you for what you’re doing on TH-cam. I actually just found your page. As far as my sexuality is concerned, I grew up very “sheltered” in a sense. All around my upbringing was and still is very sex-negative / buttoned up about the topic. I’m a mid-30s disabled virgin who’s never been on an official date or kissed a woman. Long story short, I have a feeling monogamy won’t be as suitable for me as I once thought. Related to my physical disability, I’ve dealt with self-esteem / confidence issues for years in this area of my life. (I’ve been on a few dating apps but haven’t had much luck. It took me 27 years before I saw a woman naked in person. My friends took me to a strip club, and we’ve gone back to the clubs almost every year since. It’s been my only real in person experience.) I absolutely love learning / talking about sexuality. I’m extremely passionate / nerdy about learning anything and everything there is to learn. My insanely high drive is made worse by my lack of experiences. It bothers me a ton that our society doesn’t discuss sex enough, especially not around the disabled community. Thank you more than my words can describe for all that you’ve done-and I’m sure will continue to do-for someone like myself! Our society needs more people like yourselves!! P.S. In your opinion, why is it that I connect more easily with this community-the sex-positive / ENM community-overall than I can with the vanilla community at times? For some reason, every bit of self-esteem and confidence I’ve struggled with in this area of my life goes away when I talk to you all. I’m confused yet relieved as to why this happens.
Hi @M-xlz3! Thank you so much for watching and sharing a bit about your life. I wish more people would talk about what it's like to navigate sexuality in an ableist world. One of my favorite people talking about the overlap of sex and disability is Andrew Gurza, he's out there educating to public about this incredibly important topic. Check him out if you can! As for your question on why it's easier to connect with people in the sex-positive/ENM community over the more traditional or vanilla community: I think it's probably easier because there's less repression and shame in the openly sex-positive spaces. Those people have often done a lot of work to change the internalized shame-driven narratives of the wider culture. They had to. For those of us who are kinky, queer, ENM leaning, or happily slutty...it's necessary to do the work to shift our internal experience of sex and self-love. I'm glad to know you're finding your people in these "fringe" communities. My hope is the freedom, compassion, and diversity of the sex-positive communities will become the cultural majority one day. Fingers crossed! Sending you tons of love and well wishes on your sexual journey. I hope you are able to have more and more of your desired experiences. XO, Bula
@@practice.intimacy Thank you for taking the time to respond to me. I greatly appreciate it! I’ll definitely check out the stuff you suggested! And yes!!!! I completely agree. I wish more conversations would take place in our abeist world as well. And as far as the question I asked, I absolutely loved your explanation. I’ve never heard that, but I believe that’s exactly why I connect more easily in these communities. Thank you for such a detailed response to my question. It was very helpful, and it relieves a ton of “why questions” going on in my mind about that question and myself in general. You’re amazing!!! P.S. And oh, for sure!! I’ve definitely found my people in these communities. Since finding you all and talking to a lot of you, I’ve found a sense of peace that I’ve truly never found anywhere else in my life. The peace I feel runs so deeply within me. It’s absolutely incredible!!
Thanks for sharing these ideas...always good to explore better, more intimate conversations
Why would anyone thank her for sharing her opinion about her own se# life ?
as a dude this was very helpful thank you
I met a woman online that was super kinky.asked if i wore satin panties i told her no .now shes gone. Whatever.😅
They bring up cis and trans and lose all credibility.
Wow thanks, I didn't realize that Merle updated his favorite way to make her explode in pure bliss, it’s amazingly satisfying. Although what he suggested before was fairly good, it doesn’t even compare, I did it go’ogling Merle Winestol, and she just can’t have enough now.
In this video you take about how sex can feel like your a bit of an object when your partner is in the mood, however in my relationship we are having a hard time. I have the higher sex drive and we have had conversation where it's now lead to me not feeling like I can say if I'm in the mood because I don't want to pester but now it feels like we can only do it when he is in the mood and he starts it but I dont feel seen... Like I just feel like we are having sex because * he felt like it* it's hard to explain to him that what is happening between us doesn't feel intimate anymore. I want to feel sexy and wanted because he wants to make me feel good, not just because sex crossed his mind because he's thinking about his own needs. Please help we are struggling so bad
I can't seem to find the correct way to explain my needs to him without sounding like I'm bored of what we have, I feel like sex when I want it most always some how goes wrong and doesn't feel right and it makes me sad, that feeling of " I want to enjoy this and be able to cum because my partner wants that for me to" just doesn't ever happen lately. I feel like hard work
I also give lots of oral sex and play with him and I enjoy it I make sure he's enjoying it and everything is fine, until it comes to me. There's a lot of limitations on what he actually enjoys doing when it comes to being the giver and the enthusiasm just isn't there. It's a turn off
Hi @PaigeFalmer! I'm so sorry to hear y'all are struggling with this. First, I want to normalize the fact that there are many couples where the woman has a higher sex drive than the man. People don't think this happens, but it's actually really common. I suggest trying to talk to him about how you're feeling, then ask whether or not he's interested in working on how y'all have sex. This is very much a request, you're asking him to change his behavior to make you feel more content. Hopefully he's a yes to working on this with you. Since I don't know exactly what's happening with each of your sex drives, I can't offer tailored exercises to practice. However, if he's on board to have sex more frequently, then adding a edging/semen retention practice would help him for turned-on more frequently. You could also make some changes around boundary work and not taking his lower sex drive to mean he doesn't want you. I find that boundary work combined with a really delicious and loving solo sex practice are really good ways to feel greater satisfaction when your partner naturally has a lower drive. I hope this is helpful!!! Wishing you and your sweetie all the best! Thanks for watching :D
It says you help couples exactly how. Financially?