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Withdrawal has got to be the best way to end a friendship. I have had a friend tell me she doesn't want to be friends anymore, and it shattered my world. I would have preferred that they just withdrew, and as a result, I prefer to just withdraw from friendship because I don't want anybody to experience that pain. And conversation might just lead to the person resenting you

Hmmm, I think you need to be careful with the first issue raised. This is how abuse can start. She should tell her sister but mainly because her husband is abusing his position. I hope she is okay.

Off topic, but your newsletter is top tier. 👌

All I know is you’re confident until it’s time to have certain conversations

I broke up with a friend whom we've been together from the university, served together, worked in the same organisation, went for Masters together. The day I made up my mind on the friendship, I just wrote the chat, showed my wife and another mutual friend with the reasons, he tried to say he'd fix things, I told him I was done. That was it. I occasionally say hello, but I make sure not to reach out on special days because I'm not his friend anymore.

I don't like to have a serious conversation. I usually try to avoid the conversation in its entirety. I don't think a friendship requires a conversation for starting or ending it though.

Truth is friendship breakup is always hard but it is what it is

Her mom is the weapon fashioned against her. She needs to do her strong thing.

OMg *clicks su.... 😅

Audience name suggestions: F&J's Said Squad (or just Said Squad); ISWISters; The Unsolicited. You're welcome all.

There are some situations just ghost

Hello Ladies. Trust this comment finds you well🤪🤪🤪🤪

I love this podcast so much. Literally the best. You both are hilarious

Looool what if you want to manifest that they are well 😂😂🙃🙃

Do you people realize how hurtful it is to have a person tell you they don't want to be friends anymore? For one in a romantic relationship there is an official ask but for a friendship there is no official ask so why does there need to be an official break up. I think it is better to withdraw to be honest. Many times people take a hint

I also don't think I can have the conversation of ending a friendship. It's awkward. I don't feel awkward about talking about sex. With a partner. Or friends. Not shy at all. I don't think there's a lot I can't talk about with someone I care about.

Building on what FK and her friend discussed: I'm a confident gurrlll. I'm an independent woman. I'm 32. I don't feel less fulfilled. I'm living my life as full as I can. I often get lonely. It comes and go but I acknowledge it. I relate with what FK's friend was saying. It's a real thing. We can't 'self love' our way into not being lonely.

High key need the template for the mid year review!

High key need the template for the mid year review!

Having that conversation to end a friendship is very awkward and the fear of being the bad person regardless of your valid reason. I did avoid having the conversation and now I know better to have had the real conversation instead of disguising it.

Fk is always on some humour nuggets. How can she say how about just a normal door no security put oil and draw a cross.😂😂

I liked before watching😂 0:32

I love FK’s wearss!😅

I feel having a conversation if you’re tired of a friendship is better than just changing your behavior towards them without a warning.😅 Loved the episode as usual and I hope (not trust) you’re well❤ An aside: y’all have the best ads, like it’s engaging and funny, and I don’t feel the need to skip😂✨

Real talk, I say it often but it can never be overstated; FK and Jola are beautiful young women and I pray they know/believe that within themselves 🙏🏽 Love the episode as usual 🖤💚💛

I'm part of the 60% 🎉🎉

Hello hope this message doesn’t find you well, Those of you that aren’t subscribing endeavor to subscribe. I’m just telling you! Bye!

Nothing prepared me for 22:30😂😂 Y’all should fix up please 🙏🏽

I said the “cheerio” with a British accent and it vexed me even more

Big Rage has the perfect naija mocking laughter! 😅😅😅😅

I ran from Twitter to TH-cam without without slippers when the notification popped up 😂

Fk’s commentary on rating friendship through an internal audit / review hit me square in the face

12:49 on what fk is saying. It's the way you'll look around when something is misquoted or misinterpreted and you'll see everyone nodding head in church. It's so shocking like eyin o kin ka bible yin ni

This is quite honestly one episode that I would have preferred to watch the entire thing. ❤❤❤

I don't know what you guys did but it feels like old times again, thank God because your pod was going downhill. Keep it up, I totally enjoyed this episode.

We need to have Harmonie back! Loved this episode

Harmony is actually a very calm guy

I really love this episode,love how u guys are so sincere to yourself

if you want to get in the wedding business , you both would make fun emcees

😂😂 Nah FK is on to something with the glasses. I feel like my glasses cut off part of your vision when I take them off it’s like I’m able to see the fuller picture.

This is a great episode because both fun and serious aspects covered. We need Pastor Ayeye on this pod soon. Love the ISWIS podcast simply the best.

I have listened to the entire 3hr plus podcast version twice.. Came here to watch their physical gesticulations.. This episode is 👌❤.. Please bring Harmonie again😂😂

"Workically" 😂. I love this podcast.

42:17 when Harmonie reduced his financial score. LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL! You guys are funny abeg.

I just came here to shout “J mamzy “ 🤣🤣🤣 Harmony is a riot

Where is the part 2 now?

I think having Apostle Emmanuel Iren would be great for this kind of conversation

Haven't watched this, my heart really goes out to my girls FK and Jola. I really wish they'd listen to Pst. Nkechi Ene or Pst. Mildred Kingsley-Okonkwo. When they do, they'll see why I'm saying this.

Harmony is my mood for Jola’s love life🤣

Please we want Pst Ayeye on the pod