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hand out or hand up

I don't like other people - none of them - and they don't like me, and so we just stay away from one another as much as possible.

Every one is a victim of procrastination 😢

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The Texas version: You feed them raccoons and they’re gonna keep coming back

Yes, One has to to be careful and follow the rules as above plus two: -distinguish and avoid people notoriously sking for help, not from need but taking the easiest way to obtain goods. -give only what you have in aboundance, if goodwill or sympathy, yield goodwill , sympathy not goods or work. Paul,69, retired teacher.

Never let people take your help for granted.

Boy nothing is more true than this!!!

Ayn Rand's philosophy of Objectivism is based on rational self-interest which is very similar to the message in this video. Altruism or self-sacrifice to others without regard to ones own needs is a philosophy that has led entire nations into disaster. "Common interest before self." Popular slogan in Germany circa 1933

Unfortunately, if you have a karmic debt to repay, you have to do it. When it is time to no longer do it, you will no longer do it.

It's impossible to teach some people to do it themselves. Took way too long for me to finally stop helping folks. Lesson learned.

Our main responsibility is to show others how not to cause suffering for themselves, not to allow them to cause us suffering as they are causing themselves.

"Never do for a person what they can do for themselves"~ Some lazy ass stoner 🤣

Hence, dont be a martyr.😅

And this is why I passed on Buddhism back when I sought spiritual enlightenment. Horrible advice.

Yeah...its all about BALANCE. If people aren't willing to reciprocate the sacrifices of your compassion and sympathy, it's a NO BUENO....

Self sacrifice is not noble, but bad. No one should receive something for nothing. This is the real immorality against society. Fredrich Nietzsche was correct. I guess 180 IQ is good for something after all.

It’s about knowing when to reach out, when to hold on, and when to let go.

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Most people are out for all they can get so once they spot a giver it's take advantage time.

💯% agree.

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You can be selfless but not to those who are selfish. There are many of them nowadays.

Any way you could convince your editors to leave out the floaters??? lol what a horrible distraction to the story.

Well no one is helping me so i guess that says more about the

This story beautifully captures the essence of why selfless help, without balance, can become self-destructive. The journey of Tenzin is such a profound reminder that compassion starts within-when we nurture ourselves, we can give from a place of strength and sustainability. On my channel, 'Unmasking the Shadow,' I often delve into these themes of boundaries, self-care, and finding balance amidst life’s challenges. The lesson here resonates deeply: giving without mindfulness can lead to burnout, but when we honor our own needs, we can serve others more meaningfully. To anyone watching, how do you balance compassion for others with self-compassion? Have you experienced moments where you gave too much at the expense of your own well-being? Let’s reflect and grow together."**

Helping people is not bad , neglecting yourself to help others is

You have to learn to say no, otherwise people will mistake your kindness for softness.

I’ve learned how to use the word “no.” People will use you if you let them.

Sweep your own front porch .

I used to help everyone now no one says even hello 👋 its ok God bless but my friends rhe pets 🙏 they more loyal

Great advice thanku so much love x

This is a problem with the way the certain government people hands out billions to other countries. Hopefully it changes soon .

True compassion requires balance. Thanks.

Do good, regardless to who, but later, do not cry. If you help dumbs, they will attack you as response. "Stay away from dogs, from bad workers, from the mutilation" Paul of Tarso, Pharisee, Benjaminite.

Don't help evil people, otherwise help away! Buddha was a magic beleiving moron.

The world is exhausting. Doing the right thing seems counterproductive and harmful.

So quirky

Why helping others before yourself can ruin your life. Fixed it.

This teaching against God's will.

Borrowed money are never returned.

A life without compassion isn't worth living

No good deed goes unpunished. 😢

True

I have never helped people financially only with advise..

Most people are in need because of their bad behavior.

Sometimes you can help others without it costing or causing you any harm. Be more decerning and dont be such a selfish barstard!😊

I guarantee NONE of the villagers helped HIM.

No need to be that extreme, its about balance.