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Elim Counselling Services
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Elim Counselling Services is a Christian Counselling service located in Ottawa, Canada. Our primary goal is to help people cope with and overcome life’s challenges. Although Elim incorporates psychological techniques and interventions used in other clinical settings, Elim counsellors are practicing Christians who are trained in psychology but also in trained in understanding spiritual issues which are often raised by clients.
Elim is a not-for-profit professional counselling organization that provides professional counselling from a Christian perspective. You can find out more about us by clicking our website link below. You can support us by becoming a monthly member by going to our Patreon link below. Donations help us provide free counselling to the most vulnerable sectors of our society as well as providing free resources such as these podcasts. You can also donate by other means on our website.
Website: www.elimcounsellingministry.com
Patreon.com: www.patreon.com
Elim is a not-for-profit professional counselling organization that provides professional counselling from a Christian perspective. You can find out more about us by clicking our website link below. You can support us by becoming a monthly member by going to our Patreon link below. Donations help us provide free counselling to the most vulnerable sectors of our society as well as providing free resources such as these podcasts. You can also donate by other means on our website.
Website: www.elimcounsellingministry.com
Patreon.com: www.patreon.com
Haunted by the Past: Parenting Challenges from Childhood Adversities (Prt. 2)
Welcome to Part 2 of our series, "Haunted by the Past: Parenting Challenges from Childhood Adversities."
In this episode, we continue our exploration into how childhood traumas and adversities impact parenting. Today, we'll discuss four more types of parenting challenges that stem from these past experiences. Our focus will be on:
Neglectful Parenting: Understanding the roots and consequences of emotional unavailability.
Authoritarian Parenting: Balancing authority with empathy and understanding.
Inconsistent Parenting: Addressing the unpredictability and its effects on children.
Over-Involvement: Recognizing when involvement becomes overbearing and how to create healthy boundaries.
Join us as we delve into these issues, offering biblical insights and practical counseling tips to help you overcome these challenges and cultivate a nurturing and supportive family environment.
Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more insightful discussions on parenting and mental health.
Support us at www.patreon.com/elimcounselling or through our website: www.elimcounsellingministry.com.
Check out some of the other awesome episodes of ElimCounselling Services:
1. Adult Daughters of Controlling Fathers. th-cam.com/video/0Zj0GIcjjcM/w-d-xo.html
2. The Truth About Incubus and Succubus Demons. th-cam.com/video/LHGnhlEil0A/w-d-xo.html
3. Jezebel: The Negative Effects of a Psychopathic Mother. th-cam.com/video/6UPvkYI1tI8/w-d-xo.html
4. Healing Fatherhood Wounds (King David and Absalom): th-cam.com/video/--Oe4BPVmVw/w-d-xo.html
5. How to identify and Overcoming a Narcissist's Gaslighting (Part. 1): th-cam.com/video/iyZ68K4Hmfg/w-d-xo.html
6. Abraham and Isaac: Sacrifices and Personal Growth: th-cam.com/video/Zzx1ejpmtfQ/w-d-xo.html
7. Overcoming the Fear of Success: th-cam.com/video/8XLZ_OmgfaM/w-d-xo.html
ABOUT
In this weekly show, award-winning psychotherapist, Michael Hart, explore mental health and relationship issues from a Biblical perspective. Biblical stories come to life as we look at them through psychological lenses. For example, exploring adoption through the Biblical text in Exodus tells of Moses' adoption into Pharoah's family. Sibling Rivalry, Couples Communication, Controlling Sexual Desires, How to Choose the Right Spouse, are just a few of the over 240 topics covered on this channel.
Like us on Facebook: ElimChristianCounselling
Follow us on Twitter: elimcounselling
Follow us on Instagram: elimcounsellingservice
Find out more about us at www.elimcounsellingministry.com
Support us at www.patreon.com/elimcounselling
In this episode, we continue our exploration into how childhood traumas and adversities impact parenting. Today, we'll discuss four more types of parenting challenges that stem from these past experiences. Our focus will be on:
Neglectful Parenting: Understanding the roots and consequences of emotional unavailability.
Authoritarian Parenting: Balancing authority with empathy and understanding.
Inconsistent Parenting: Addressing the unpredictability and its effects on children.
Over-Involvement: Recognizing when involvement becomes overbearing and how to create healthy boundaries.
Join us as we delve into these issues, offering biblical insights and practical counseling tips to help you overcome these challenges and cultivate a nurturing and supportive family environment.
Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more insightful discussions on parenting and mental health.
Support us at www.patreon.com/elimcounselling or through our website: www.elimcounsellingministry.com.
Check out some of the other awesome episodes of ElimCounselling Services:
1. Adult Daughters of Controlling Fathers. th-cam.com/video/0Zj0GIcjjcM/w-d-xo.html
2. The Truth About Incubus and Succubus Demons. th-cam.com/video/LHGnhlEil0A/w-d-xo.html
3. Jezebel: The Negative Effects of a Psychopathic Mother. th-cam.com/video/6UPvkYI1tI8/w-d-xo.html
4. Healing Fatherhood Wounds (King David and Absalom): th-cam.com/video/--Oe4BPVmVw/w-d-xo.html
5. How to identify and Overcoming a Narcissist's Gaslighting (Part. 1): th-cam.com/video/iyZ68K4Hmfg/w-d-xo.html
6. Abraham and Isaac: Sacrifices and Personal Growth: th-cam.com/video/Zzx1ejpmtfQ/w-d-xo.html
7. Overcoming the Fear of Success: th-cam.com/video/8XLZ_OmgfaM/w-d-xo.html
ABOUT
In this weekly show, award-winning psychotherapist, Michael Hart, explore mental health and relationship issues from a Biblical perspective. Biblical stories come to life as we look at them through psychological lenses. For example, exploring adoption through the Biblical text in Exodus tells of Moses' adoption into Pharoah's family. Sibling Rivalry, Couples Communication, Controlling Sexual Desires, How to Choose the Right Spouse, are just a few of the over 240 topics covered on this channel.
Like us on Facebook: ElimChristianCounselling
Follow us on Twitter: elimcounselling
Follow us on Instagram: elimcounsellingservice
Find out more about us at www.elimcounsellingministry.com
Support us at www.patreon.com/elimcounselling
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This truly helped me to understand what is going on with me... So what now???... How do i not feel like dying. Who do i trust? I hate pillz, we are below poverty level, we need real help. My husband fightz ADHD & PTSD/anger/depression & i fight OCD, BPD, & depression... Both co-dependant... I think... Been try'n to figure this out for yearz... Feel'n like we are goin nowhere but down.
Appreciate you sharing how godly grief processes emotions and replenishes us, with the importance of balancing social and alone time. This was very helpful!
So grateful for this advice! Being aware of the 5 warning signs to avoid relationship issues is a total game-changer for couples. Thanks for sharing!
I have a video. It is true of a succubus on my ex while he was sleeping
Communication is key to a healthy relationship, couples of all stages will benefit from tuning in and learning how to communicate effectively. This podcast delivers!
A timley show that tackles social & mental issues in today's challenging times. A much needed program that adresses real issues and boosts spirits. I strongly endorse this show!
Thanks for clarifying, Dr.Hart! Love & lust have differences. Love creates a strong foundation with trust, respect & emotional bonds. While lust fades, love sustains.
I found this lecture short but immense. It conveyed a fulfilling message that was both inspiring and encouraging. Thank you for sharing.
Love how the Lost Coin story connects to self-worth in a deeper way. Thanks for sharing-such a cool perspective!
Such a unique program with biblical and psychological principles, fostering health and wellness to revive and heal core family values.
God never spoke to Eve. That was why it was so easy for the serpent to tempt her away from obedience:- to her it was having to be obedient to her husband, to whom God had delivered the way the truth and the life, and as we all know, no woman is going to stand for that. A good example of narcissism is where inadequately qualified people make TH-cam videos in which they imply that they have more qualification than is the case, and give a lot of not well-informed advice in the field they have appointed themselves expert in.
I find this topic highly relevant to the experiences of many people today. Coping with distress can be a significant challenge, especially when faced alone. Thank you for providing valuable guidance and encouraging words, which are truly appreciated.
This topic also resonates with me as it's a common experience for many individuals today. Navigating distress can be overwhelming, particularly when trying to cope solo.
Thank you, Dr. Hart for sharing your expertise. It's reassuring to know that there are logical explanations, like "Sleep Paralysis," for experiences that can seem mysterious and unsettling.
Interesting Podcast! I want more of this episode, I want to learn more about this topic.
@@Fidel-b6t Thank you! Remember to subscribe we have new episodes coming .
Cassandra's deliverance from the sex trade industry is a testament and a shining example how one can find hope, healing and even God in the darkest of circumstances. A truly remarkable story!
Cassandra's transformative journey provides a safe space for healing and deliverance offering guidance and support for those affected by the sex trade.
Narcissistic behavior can indeed manifest in any environment, from personal relationships to professional settings, and even within spiritual communities. Bringing awareness to these patterns through discussions helps people identify and address them effectively. By understanding these dynamics, we can protect ourselves and foster healthier interactions.
That’s heartbreaking. Dr. Hart’s podcast on generational trauma is a real wake-up call. Spotting these signs is a big step toward healing.
A loveless marriage can be a challenging trial, but with God's grace along with Dr.Hart's guidance and professional expertise, marriages can be rescued for couples to find renewed love and purpose.
Abusive relationships often go unspoken due to fear or shame. This podcast segment educates and encourages seeking professional help, empowering us to break the silence and foster a supportive community.
Forgiveness is a process. Rebuilding after an affair demands a willingness to confront the past where couples can emerge more stronger and resilient, rebuilding trust and transparency. A valuable resource for couples!
I enjoy how this podcast shows how hardtalk can strengthen relationships by addressing issues head-on and resolving conflicts in a healthy, honest way.
Thanks Dr. Michael Hart! Your wisdom on parenting styles has made a real impact. Healthy growth and development are key.
This podcast was incredibly helpful! I've struggled with a phobia of spiders and snakes but your advice has inspired me to take action and overcome my fears. Thank you for sharing your insights Dr. Hart.
Understanding that a relationship can suffer trauma might encourage more empathy and compassion between partners, as they realize that their issues are affecting the 'life' of their relationship."
By focusing on the relationship itself, this approach could help avoid the blame game and instead foster a cooperative effort to heal and grow together.
This concept encourages a deeper understanding of how negative patterns can affect the relationship as a whole, which could lead to more effective solutions."
If relationship trauma isn’t addressed, it makes sense that it could lead to long-term issues like a lack of closeness or even divorce. It underscores the importance of early intervention
Viewing the relationship as an entity that can suffer from trauma could revolutionize couples therapy by focusing more on the dynamics between partners rather than just on individual issues.
This idea highlights the importance of mutual responsibility in a relationship. Both partners need to be aware of how their actions impact the 'health' of the relationship itself."
Understanding that relationships can suffer from trauma might help couples become more proactive in addressing issues before they escalate
Successful communication in a relationship means being able to discuss difficult topics like money without letting the conversation devolve into unrelated arguments
Financial issues can be particularly challenging, but if couples learn to communicate with respect and understanding, they can prevent these problems from causing long-term damage.
Healthy communication involves acknowledging the other person's feelings and concerns, rather than deflecting or bringing up past issues that only fuel the fire.
The moment a conversation turns into a laundry list of complaints, the original issue gets lost, and both partners end up feeling frustrated and unheard."
t's easy for communication to spiral out of control during a heated argument, especially when emotions are high, but staying on topic can prevent further damage.
Bringing up unrelated issues during a fight is a defense mechanism that only deepens the divide between partners, making it harder to resolve the original problem.
Couples often find themselves in endless cycles of arguments when they fail to communicate openly about their financial expectations and concerns.
Resolving financial disputes requires both partners to stay focused on finding a solution rather than blaming each other for past mistakes."
The first sign of communication breakdown is when partners start deflecting the conversation instead of addressing the issue at hand, which only leads to further misunderstandings
When financial stress arises, it's crucial to approach the conversation with empathy and patience rather than defensiveness, to prevent a simple discussion from turning into a major conflict."
Effective communication involves staying on topic and addressing one issue at a time, especially when it comes to sensitive subjects like finances
Big fights often happen because one partner feels unheard or invalidated, leading them to bring up past grievances instead of addressing the current issue.
Clear and focused communication is key in resolving financial issues. If partners start deflecting or shifting the topic, the original problem gets buried and unresolved."
When couples stop listening to each other and start bringing up unrelated issues during a disagreement, it’s a sign that communication has already started to fail
Financial issues are often the root of major conflicts in relationships, but it's the breakdown in communication that escalates these problems into big fights.
Many couples underestimate the impact of vulnerability. If one partner feels unsafe sharing their true feelings, it can lead to emotional distance and unresolved issues
Couples who understand and address the importance of vulnerability are more likely to build a resilient relationship that can withstand challenges and heal from past traumas.
Vulnerability should be seen as a strength in a relationship, but when it's abused or dismissed, it can leave scars that are difficult to erase
Addressing the trauma caused by broken trust in vulnerable moments is key to rebuilding a healthy connection between partners.