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Men are ghosting society because they're treated like dumb animals
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Men are ghosting society because they're treated like dumb animals
When people cut off toxic parents to save their sanity
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When people cut off toxic parents to save their sanity
10 Things you can do to save money in 2025
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10 Things you can do to save money in 2025
You aren't working your way out of this economy with just one job
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You aren't working your way out of this economy with just one job
Estranged Parents know exactly what they have done
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Estranged Parents know exactly what they have done
The Narcissist is An Emotional Parasite
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The Narcissist is An Emotional Parasite
Unreal Man Needs Help Carrying His Boulder-Sized Ego
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Unreal Man Needs Help Carrying His Boulder-Sized Ego
Incoming "Unreal Man" Response Video
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Incoming "Unreal Man" Response Video
So I need to ask the question..
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So I need to ask the question..
Moving on forward!
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Moving on forward!
Another rant about this terrible economy ; I don't have much hope for 2025 .
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Another rant about this terrible economy ; I don't have much hope for 2025 .
Its time to move on..
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Its time to move on..
Mi Primer Video En Español
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Mi Primer Video En Español
People who you thought were close to you will end up trying to sabotage your life
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People who you thought were close to you will end up trying to sabotage your life
I knew this day would come
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I knew this day would come
I can explain my absence...
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I can explain my absence...
"Working Harder" Wont Work in this Economy
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"Working Harder" Wont Work in this Economy
Why Men Are Completely Giving Up In 2024
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Why Men Are Completely Giving Up In 2024
Please check out my new A.I Youtube Channel NeatNiches A.I
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Please check out my new A.I TH-cam Channel NeatNiches A.I
The Average American Cannot Afford to Live in the U.S
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The Average American Cannot Afford to Live in the U.S
Where have I been?
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Where have I been?
Goodbye Millennial Steam and Dbdr, you will both be missed!
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Goodbye Millennial Steam and Dbdr, you will both be missed!
Stonewalling a Narcissist
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Stonewalling a Narcissist
If they didn't care about you before, then why would they care about you now?
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If they didn't care about you before, then why would they care about you now?
Should you reconnect with you Narcissistic Parents?
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Should you reconnect with you Narcissistic Parents?
The moment I knew it was never my fault..
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The moment I knew it was never my fault..
So I made a mistake...
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So I made a mistake...
Moving out soon..
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Moving out soon..
Thank you for 4k+ Subscribers!!
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Thank you for 4k Subscribers!!

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  • @heyy1829
    @heyy1829 13 นาทีที่ผ่านมา

    men are soft nowadays, look at this dude crying about the unfairness of the world like a little femininst. pathetic.

  • @DMTGOD
    @DMTGOD ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

  • @DMTGOD
    @DMTGOD ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    🆒🆒

  • @opseeker
    @opseeker ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Parents need not only to admit that they've had negative actions but also to empathize to the hurt that they created and their repercussions.

  • @MontyRoyal963
    @MontyRoyal963 2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    You're right

  • @rancherkate
    @rancherkate 2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    How do you make your videos look so easy?

  • @wihjuiofjwojfoi
    @wihjuiofjwojfoi 2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Society still expects men to be breadwinners of the house and wear the pants in the relationship in a society where the woman are the most dominant, masculine, toxic, mentally ill than ever. They take half our wages but don’t wanna live modest and traditional

  • @The-Black-Robin
    @The-Black-Robin 2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I recommend attempting to travel and leave the west if the opportunity arises

  • @wihjuiofjwojfoi
    @wihjuiofjwojfoi 2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Women and society is a joke and all of society is bending over backwards for women

  • @Xbox---WNTRZz
    @Xbox---WNTRZz 7 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Just laugh and smile thats what i do now 😂😂

  • @APsGTG
    @APsGTG 9 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    This society is schizo and broken. Understand that and you’ll feel no pain about walking away from it. Things are not normal in these streets, stop trying to force yourself to be apart of a twisted up situation. Find hobbies, enjoy them, play retro video games, watch sports, workout at home, eat healthily, cook, and most importantly get close to God. Make enough money to survive and thrive, avoid people as much as necessary. You will be much happier. You don’t have to be miserable in these times, with God on your side and some intelligent emotional and physical self preservation skills, you can be VERY happy.

    • @APsGTG
      @APsGTG 9 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Ps: the women are broken far beyond repair. Don’t even step foot into the landmine, and if you do, don’t say you weren’t warned.

  • @eternal_learner9943
    @eternal_learner9943 10 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    4:45 - That's one of the reasons why these problems don't get solved. Most men have a fragile ego that they want to protect, and they would rather hold crumbs in their hand and laugh at another man who doesn't have them than band together and fight for a bigger piece of the pie. Don't confuse this with that silly political term, but this behavior is the true toxic masculinity that keeps men down.

  • @ZalhTube
    @ZalhTube 11 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    You can get a 3 bedroom house with a yard and 5 mins from a tropical beach where I live for 1600USD

  • @The_Garrett_White_Show
    @The_Garrett_White_Show 16 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Life is a joke

  • @danielb3863
    @danielb3863 16 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Doughboy’s house from Boyz in da Hood just sold for 600k. That house 40 years ago was 20k.

  • @IshvaraGodCazimi
    @IshvaraGodCazimi 16 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    This soyciety h a tes men

  • @roastbeef4918
    @roastbeef4918 16 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Got falsely accused of threatening a customer yesterday. The customer was a fat white woman. So naturally, even though I was vindicated and proven to be in the right. I was still given a 1 day suspension from work and transferred to a different project. Suddenly, I feel a strange sense of misogyny.

  • @IshvaraGodCazimi
    @IshvaraGodCazimi 17 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    My mom is a real piece of sh narcissist but I think she rarely hid my stuff if at all but she did take a bunch of my trading cards and put it under her storage I really want to sell it cause I could use the money

  • @IshvaraGodCazimi
    @IshvaraGodCazimi 17 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Is it just me or are women extremely narcissistic and most men are too because they are basically spiritually women ?

  • @somerandomfatguy.3384
    @somerandomfatguy.3384 17 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Its scrary how this vid forshadowed.

  • @ZalhTube
    @ZalhTube 18 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    That is why you have to keep to yourself and don't tell anyone when leveling up.

  • @Chad88-33
    @Chad88-33 19 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I had a covert narc mom, but I never went through anything quite like this. Sorry you went through that and I'm glad we got out of our situations to regain our sanity and self-esteem.

  • @adianmarshmallow973
    @adianmarshmallow973 21 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Do you think this life is a gift?

    • @deconstructingnarcissism3062
      @deconstructingnarcissism3062 15 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Life can be a gift but it depends on your situation. I know life could be so much better if we weren't wasting it away working just to barely stay afloat in thie economy

  • @ZalhTube
    @ZalhTube 21 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    The man hating media and ads have been around for decades. They don't portray reality but rather what they want.

  • @ZalhTube
    @ZalhTube 21 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Slaves are not allowed to complain.

  • @jeanvu
    @jeanvu วันที่ผ่านมา

    I’m a 5’7” below average in the face, and always felt like a rat. Exception being when I was 7-13. I’m probably the most reserved and quiet guy you will ever meet. I’ve also been called stoic a few times and someone once made a joke to me saying, “please don’t shoot up a school”

  • @Anarchizer
    @Anarchizer วันที่ผ่านมา

    I used ChatGpt to pull myself out of depression. Started to move lately after 8 months of straight up sitting in front of the computer 24/7. It even created a psychological profile according to the data I fed it due to asking questions about various things and its pretty accurate.

  • @Dubhthach
    @Dubhthach วันที่ผ่านมา

    Same shit is happening to me, I am currently saving for a place.

  • @danielgrimes8312
    @danielgrimes8312 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Very close...not at that level, but very close

  • @Tronnixx
    @Tronnixx วันที่ผ่านมา

    I think the lesson is to take personal responsibility for our own belongings and not rely on anyone for storing anything that is valuable to us. Narcissist can misplace any thing that we have and tell us that we're forgetting it or dont know where but could be moving things around. Can't trust them.

  • @ironwill8596
    @ironwill8596 วันที่ผ่านมา

    STOP CRYING ABOUT IT BOY!! GO DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT! YOU THINK THE FOUNDING FATHER'S SEAT AROUND AND CRYED ABOUT THEIR PROBLEMS NO! U THINK GENERAL MACARTHUR CRYED ABOUT HIS PROBLEMS WHEN HE LOSTED THE PHILIPPINES NO! STAND UP AND DO SOMETHING OR DO NOTHING WITH YOUR LIFE IT'S UP TO Y.O.U!!

    • @yung_Latios
      @yung_Latios วันที่ผ่านมา

      Losted💀

    • @monoinsomniac
      @monoinsomniac 23 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Founders were Freemasons

    • @roastbeef4918
      @roastbeef4918 16 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      GOBBLESS HOSS, HAWG CRANKED. DEB TOOK MY DAWG IN THE DIVORCE

    • @beloved-child
      @beloved-child 2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Found the out of touch boomer

  • @VibinWithRunnTheSnowman
    @VibinWithRunnTheSnowman วันที่ผ่านมา

    16:15 great video! Keep working on memory test to improve.Dont give up! Dont let narcissist win they typically attack people they see with great potential.

    • @deconstructingnarcissism3062
      @deconstructingnarcissism3062 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@VibinWithRunnTheSnowman thank you!! I know. My parents clearly saw potential in me and wanted to smash it I know that now.

    • @VibinWithRunnTheSnowman
      @VibinWithRunnTheSnowman วันที่ผ่านมา

      @deconstructingnarcissism3062 Yeah as kids this thought is pretty much unfathomable but it's actually the truth and very few kids can see this. I know a kid that did and never allowed these manipulation games to truly hurt him and he always knew to not let others define his self-worth or tell him what he is and isn't. Narcissist want to very nuch tell you what you are and typically that person is always someone underneath them.

  • @VibinWithRunnTheSnowman
    @VibinWithRunnTheSnowman วันที่ผ่านมา

    6:29 it is so sad children go through this. I could even give more slack to people doing this to strangers even though its still terrible but their own BLOOD. Gaslighting your kids then insult them and try to devalue them by the manipulation they created then play victim if called out. If hell exist id picture demons having the brain of a narcissist. You MUST go no contact with these monsters the problem is kids dont have this choice and most dont know this behavior is wrong and most will typically think they are the problem because kids are pure and dont really understand manipulation. Very few kids have very high self worth when young and wont allow boundaries being crossed

    • @deconstructingnarcissism3062
      @deconstructingnarcissism3062 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@VibinWithRunnTheSnowman yes no contact is 100% a must lest you waste your entire life being their puppet and torture doll. I have seen comments on other channels on Narcissistic abuse about how some victims finally escaped at 40, 50, or even 60 years old!! Could you even imagine?!? Your whole life is gone!!

    • @VibinWithRunnTheSnowman
      @VibinWithRunnTheSnowman วันที่ผ่านมา

      @deconstructingnarcissism3062 Yeah exactly! Some people realize they have/are being manipulated in 40s and up I've seen those comments too and I was like holy crap. Typically if a child still deals with a narcissist parent they have became a narc as well like if a zombie bites someone they are now zombies. Healthy people/ empathic people MUST go no contact. Narcissist DONT EVER CHANGE. They don't want to hear new ideas, they don't want accountability, they don't want open conversations. You must run. A lot of narcissist really only had kids for someone to need them and look at them as amazing and all knowing all the time also. Narcissist typically start disliking their kids once they're around teenage because that's when you start developing your own thoughts and personality

  • @VibinWithRunnTheSnowman
    @VibinWithRunnTheSnowman วันที่ผ่านมา

    Its still hard to comprehend people are this evil. Narcissist think these things out and have ZERO care for it severely damage you. Its all about them being in control and them never being wrong and they try to establish this to children from birth. They lack empathy for others so they dont care how anything they do hurts anyone. I couldnt image mentally screwing with my kids head so he doesn't even know whats reality and losses his mind and his own self worth. Pure evil

    • @deconstructingnarcissism3062
      @deconstructingnarcissism3062 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@VibinWithRunnTheSnowman they had me to the point where I almost locked myself up willingly into a mental hospital. I was already forced to go twice and it was a horrible experience. I experience all sorts of mental issues that I can only describe as an out of body like experience where I feel like I'm watching a movie of myself and I notice myself dissociating constantly. Bright lights also hurt my eyes/mind is very cloudy and I can't think straight. I have never found someone who could properly diagnose me. I'm pretty certain I do have brain damage though. I know for sure its not in my head because people have mentioned it to me at work and other people in my life as well.

    • @VibinWithRunnTheSnowman
      @VibinWithRunnTheSnowman วันที่ผ่านมา

      @deconstructingnarcissism3062 Wth oh my goodness I'm so sorry man 😨. What's so sick is I gurantee your parents didnt think for a second how much this effected or will effect you. It's all about them doing anything and I mean ANYTHING to be in control and never look wrong. Then If they screw with your head so much or you are admitted to a hospital they then go "you get admitted to mental hospitals you don't know what you're talking about." Utterly freaking sick and worse than some villians in movies/anime. I've seen narcs clearly liying, attacking, manipulating then they try to do the "someone's crazy game" but it's all trickery. Sadly as a kid you will naturally trust your parents so most kids aren't strong enough to completely disagree/ set boundaries with their parents and not depend on their parents to validate them, so instead the parent screws with the kids brain Then the narcissist will say "you're blaming me for all your problems" that THEY created. Narcissist are evil monsters and narccism should be talked about wayyy more to warn people.

  • @professional.commentator
    @professional.commentator วันที่ผ่านมา

    I dealt with a lot of gaslighting, but it mostly came from some so-called "friends." They would say a lot of things that would turn out to not be true or would mess with my stuff. My parents gaslighted too but luckily not to the same extent as those "friends."

    • @deconstructingnarcissism3062
      @deconstructingnarcissism3062 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@professional.commentator I did as well with my best friend or at least in my traumatized brain thought he was for over 15+ years. I finally had the courage to cut him out and never look back!!

  • @professional.commentator
    @professional.commentator วันที่ผ่านมา

    Oh you were a Yu-Gi-Oh fan too? That's awesome man! On the topic of the Egyptian God cards. I actually had those too. I think they might've been fake though. Anyways, the thing is my dad threw them out and he said it was an accident because he thought it was "garbage." I did leave them on the table for maybe like an hour, but like it was so messed up that he didn't even ask anyone if it was trash or not. Even my mom was like, "what is wrong with you?"

  • @adianmarshmallow973
    @adianmarshmallow973 วันที่ผ่านมา

    My mother is the same as yours. It’s crazy how similar are lives are. I’m 24 tho a little young

    • @adianmarshmallow973
      @adianmarshmallow973 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Only brother I have has severe autism. He can’t talk and has seizures

    • @deconstructingnarcissism3062
      @deconstructingnarcissism3062 15 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      I'm so sorry. Did you manage to escape her? If not you need to!! I will be developing an exit strategy in a future video for people stuck at home with Narcissistic Parents.

  • @cameisenberg2370
    @cameisenberg2370 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Having a dad that has not taught me how to be a man is infuriating. My mom is a great mother but was so busy having three jobs to support the house and also I had a job working 12 hours a day 5 days a week. I’m unfortunately in the same boat with my Narcissistic dad. He treats me like a child even at 26. I currently live with my mom and work a minimum wage job. Planning on getting my CDL after saving a decent amount of money and move out of state from down south to the Midwest.

  • @cameisenberg2370
    @cameisenberg2370 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I’m unfortunately in the same boat with my Narcissistic dad. He treats me like a child even at 26. I currently live with my mom and work a minimum wage job. Planning on getting my CDL after saving a decent amount of money and move out of state from down south to the Midwest.

  • @Bstevie8292
    @Bstevie8292 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Especially how low jobs pay. Don’t blame men ghosting society for that reason.

  • @Bstevie8292
    @Bstevie8292 วันที่ผ่านมา

    They hate on a man being masculine in society.

  • @WolfWhite-kj1nr
    @WolfWhite-kj1nr วันที่ผ่านมา

    Narcissists are trying to erase you and make you into their own little mirror where only good things can reflect; it's disturbing...

    • @deconstructingnarcissism3062
      @deconstructingnarcissism3062 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Yes. You're their puppet to control, use, and abuse until you're an empty shell of a person. Nice to hear from you again glad you enjoyed the video!

    • @WolfWhite-kj1nr
      @WolfWhite-kj1nr วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@deconstructingnarcissism3062 it's nice to see you posting again and you know I'm always here if you need anything, take care 🙏💕

  • @nenasadie
    @nenasadie วันที่ผ่านมา

    This happened to me too. I stopped smoking years ago, but I remember once having bought a new packet of cigarettes. They are taxed to the hilt in my country and very expensive. Well, I suddenly couldn't find them. I searched everywhere, then eventually I found the unopened packet in the rubbish bin. I KNOW I didn't do that. Smokers don't throw away their cigarettes - they just don't. So I asked her why she threw away my cigarettes, and she told me to my face that she hadn't touched them and that I must have done it. I knew then that all those vague suspicions I had all my life that she was moving things, hiding things, and throwing my things away. It was all true.

    • @deconstructingnarcissism3062
      @deconstructingnarcissism3062 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Its all a crazy making tactic they do and its meant to severely erode your sense of sanity. This abuse causes REAL brain damage when exposed to it long term. It has still affected my memory till this day. I know much of the time where my things are now because they aren't being hidden from me but when I lived at home something or multiple things went missing EVERY DAY!!

    • @VibinWithRunnTheSnowman
      @VibinWithRunnTheSnowman วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@deconstructingnarcissism3062 I am so sorry you experienced this purely wicked evil behavior.🙏🏼 Studies have shown dealing with narcissist literally does cause brain damage. Narcissist are freaking evil monsters who typically create more narcissist through their children or ruin their childs brain. Most kids don't have the selfworth at a young age to be able to be rejected by everyone even his parents if he tells the truth and still love themselves. Im glad narccism is getting more awareness and more people are talking about it ( not just calling people narcissist for petty reasons but the actual true evil nature of narcissist) Narcissist will take their own soul out of their body, stomp on it, take a crap on it, spit on it, then hit you with it if they thought it would give them some type of pathetic childish power play then stuff it back into their body. They have no morales, no ethics, just monsters. If youve ever watched self aware narcissist videos they'll confirm the typical evil behaviors narcs do and its freaking disgusting evil and pathetic.

  • @bebdaumon3948
    @bebdaumon3948 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I experienced this too.... and it's not just parent's but a lot of friends that I thought were friends did this to me too. stole toys, even had a basket ball in my basement and my best friend gas lit me that we stole his basket ball. My sister bought the basket ball years ago like in the 90s and he insists that this ball was given to him by his family member and I went to his house and stole it. Even though that never happened and he had no proof. He took it and I didn't care because I don't play basket ball. I am more of a hockey fan. Then he goes on and tells everyone I am a thief. Yet, others know I don't play basketball. My cousins and my sisters used to play it with my cousins as a kid.

  • @enemyofthesheeple
    @enemyofthesheeple วันที่ผ่านมา

    Society is full of horrible people women especially are disgusting human beings. Leave them be theyll get theirs.

  • @JokerCat9
    @JokerCat9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Reminds me of the origin of the term gaslighting. A husband manipulated his wife into believing she was insane by dimming the gas lights in their home and denying it.

    • @deconstructingnarcissism3062
      @deconstructingnarcissism3062 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@JokerCat9 yes just like the movie "Gaslight" thats exactly the type of abuse I mention in this video.

  • @rancherkate
    @rancherkate วันที่ผ่านมา

    I'm really sorry. Big hugs

    • @deconstructingnarcissism3062
      @deconstructingnarcissism3062 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Its ok. I just want people to know about this abuse because it wasn't talked about at all when I was going through it. I talked to friends but they told me I was going crazy. This type of abuse is really really sick to do to someone.

  • @chellur9562
    @chellur9562 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I had the 3 Egyptian god cards aswell j remember having my grandma get them for me for my birthday at some japanese joint in a mall

  • @DigitalRainn
    @DigitalRainn วันที่ผ่านมา

    your parents gangstalked you😆 thats horrible man. I basically blame my parents for destroying my mental health with their divorces and countless violent arguments around me as a child. I can relate in some ways I guess but my parents never hid my stuff, thats odd

    • @deconstructingnarcissism3062
      @deconstructingnarcissism3062 วันที่ผ่านมา

      They would show up to my job unannounced and even call my boss if I didn't respond to my mothers text or calls at work...

    • @michaelbiland5575
      @michaelbiland5575 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@deconstructingnarcissism3062That's horrible and incredibly controlling. Do you live far away from your parents?

    • @deconstructingnarcissism3062
      @deconstructingnarcissism3062 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@michaelbiland5575 yeah I live a state away from them thank god..

    • @michaelbiland5575
      @michaelbiland5575 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@deconstructingnarcissism3062 Awesome that is very good to hear.

  • @Positivepurposetarot
    @Positivepurposetarot วันที่ผ่านมา

    Narcissistic people do this. It’s hurtful!! It’s not just gaslighting to make you think you’re crazy it’s also because you didn’t put your things where they thought your stuff should go. It’s control. Now I will say me having ADHD and a child with ADHD, I misplaced stuff a lot and blamed other people and my son did the same thing. Me knowing my kid would find what he misplaced within a couple of minutes. I never hid his things or gaslighted my kids. Just saying. I’m sorry you have experienced this with people you should feel safe with and trust.