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Strategically Ever After: How Charlotte's Determination Found Her Mr. Husband (SATC Analysis)
Join me on a captivating journey through Charlotte York's quest for love in the iconic series 'Sex and the City'. In this video, we delve deep into Charlotte's unwavering determination to find her "Mr. Husband" and how her strategic approach to dating helped her get what she wants, and what she doesn't.
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Welcome to Insights By V, your go-to place for insightful videos on relationships and self-development! Drawing from Tv Shows, Movies, personal experiences, thorough research, and general insights from others, I tackle complex topics in a fun, lighthearted, yet insightful way. My aim is to help you foster better connections with yourself and those around you. Whether you're exploring love, seeking personal growth, or simply curious about human connections, there's something here to inspire and entertain.
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  • @azurite187
    @azurite187 11 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    WHERE IS CARRIE’S FAMILY ⁉️🤷🏻‍♀️

  • @knitwitchpgh
    @knitwitchpgh 14 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    0:40 FULLY DISAGREE Charlotte and Samantha had so much growth!

  • @jakobwagner8032
    @jakobwagner8032 14 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I think this video gives the clearest determenation of who Sue is: it's not Elizabeth or Sue as self or identity but her consciousness which gets to inhabit 2 bodies but dosent have a face itself. There is no true self, its a construct that our consciousness uses as a mask to engage with humanity. There is no Sue and there is no Elisabeth, there is a consciousness that uses identity and sense-of-self to navigate the world as best as it can. We can also read that the Sue-Self is unsustainible without Elisabeth, the consciousness needs Elisabeth to sustain itself and wants to be Sue to feel happy and worthy of love.

  • @SarahNA09
    @SarahNA09 15 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Carrie was awful to all the other characters, but what she did to Aiden is pure evil. The entitlement, abuse and manipulation is disgusting to watch. I hate how the writers made her so idolized by Aiden throughout the entire show and the second movie.

  • @zoeleene
    @zoeleene 16 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Carrie is so abusive. Who wouldn't want to move to another continent to get away from her?

  • @IconVlog.
    @IconVlog. 19 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    My name is Mary so you are always directly talking to me 😂

  • @samozivkanadmenic9492
    @samozivkanadmenic9492 19 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Wow, it was nice to listnen to you. Like you are that great friend who keeps it real, it's such an great analysis. I never watched SATC even tho I'm millennial but now I can appreciate quality of the series while watching the flaws of the characters.

  • @kikinatrone
    @kikinatrone 21 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Girl, you are so right. In a world with bad people, there is very little you can do to stop bad people from being bad. It's like saying we should teach people not to k1LL people. Bad people will be bad. BUT we as a society should STAND up for those abused and STAND up to those who abuse. Call them out! Not look the other way cause it is your friend and you "should mind your own business"

  • @meloderieugif2294
    @meloderieugif2294 วันที่ผ่านมา

    We all know in real life Big would never marry Carrie or any women under 25

  • @knitwitchpgh
    @knitwitchpgh วันที่ผ่านมา

    43:38 im working class and i will 10000% have a prenump. I do have my own home im paying for, and my own salon. But i want it for things such as aquiring inheritances and family items. And also just having protection from vindictive attacks. Divorce is a very realistic thing to happen and ive worked too hard on my salon for 4 years, and if i got married in the next two years, and then in 10 my salon is so successful and my partner leaves me and gets HALF of my 16 years of hard work? Nah bisshhh i support people protecting themselves. You never truly know someone until you break up with them. Js

  • @crystalglopez91623
    @crystalglopez91623 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Charlotte did the work.

  • @witchf4ce310
    @witchf4ce310 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I think you’re right about people deciding for Trey and that has caused him to listen to others more. Because he said himself he was raised by his nanny, and his mother was barely home except at night when she drew him a bath. And nannies are very much like teachers telling kids what to do, what is right etc.

  • @fourthgirl
    @fourthgirl วันที่ผ่านมา

    Steve is a Man-Boy. This is not to be confused with Mama's Boy. I believe he is an only child to an alcoholic Ma who handled everything...sort of. No mention of a father in Steve's world. Ma still calls him Stevie. Steve was allowed to exist without expectation. Steve doesn't have friends and has apparently worked as a bartender since 21. He picks up on hook ups at the bar, never having to show them his hovel he lives in. His best benefits is that he is cute and is great in bed. He has never picked up a career driven, insecure woman like Miranda. Even when broken up, Steve doesn't know how to properly handle his diagnosis of testicular cancer and has to come to Mama Miranda to make everything better.

  • @Khfjrs
    @Khfjrs วันที่ผ่านมา

    Simo knew it was inappropriate to ask Nour to turn around, he clearly did it to get back at Hajjar for the cake comment, he even said "I thought you were open-minded, what's the problem". Shows how vindictive he is in relationships. A true demon

  • @SayfumaniMyG
    @SayfumaniMyG วันที่ผ่านมา

    How can anyone with a functional brain watch this?

  • @ednabunker1498
    @ednabunker1498 วันที่ผ่านมา

    more please

  • @rejectionisprotection4448
    @rejectionisprotection4448 วันที่ผ่านมา

    The biggest red flag with Aidan was how quickly he moved on after Carrie. Not sure of the exact timescale but it wasn't THAT long afterwards and the point was emphasised by him carrying a baby. Aidan wanted a wife (appliance?) and family. He tried to convert Carrie into becoming a trad wife baby making machine pumping out little Aidans, which is what he eventually got.

  • @toomuchinformation
    @toomuchinformation วันที่ผ่านมา

    At 19:30. You nailed it. Adrian is very performative in his nice guy persona.

  • @SigmaSigmaSigmaJgirl
    @SigmaSigmaSigmaJgirl วันที่ผ่านมา

    Please do a video on why some women, Gen X and Gen Z, find it sacriledge to constructively criticize Carrie and/or SATC.

  • @toomuchinformation
    @toomuchinformation วันที่ผ่านมา

    I preferred Big to Aidan. Reason being that Carrie could always be her messy, authentic self with him. In fact he was the only person who accepted her as she was. Aidan liked Carrie's energy but didn't like the way it manifested itself and so he kept trying to control and mold her into something she wasn't.

  • @Toogayforschool
    @Toogayforschool วันที่ผ่านมา

    Omg why didn't i see your notifications!❤😢

  • @promisejackianja8458
    @promisejackianja8458 วันที่ผ่านมา

    One thing I did respect about Charlotte was her approach in dealing with men she knew she saw marriage potential in and men she knew were just around for a good time. She wasn’t just a delusional hopeless romantic and knew when it was time to put a man in a certain category. She also knew despite her conservatism that as a woman she had the liberty to do so

  • @Mochipotamus
    @Mochipotamus วันที่ผ่านมา

    33:45, I think you’re trying to say “flipped the script” ! 😂❤ love your videos!

  • @sthehedgehog
    @sthehedgehog วันที่ผ่านมา

    “what assets? the rice!?” i’m screaminggg 😭 thank you for another entertaining & enlightening video queen. i’m loving all the analysis videos but my for sure favorite is carrie. all her decisions hurt my brain too much to wanna psycho analyze her in depth my first time watching lolol

  • @saima.nijhum
    @saima.nijhum วันที่ผ่านมา

    I love love loooove watching your videos. But there are way too many ads.

  • @amandabun
    @amandabun วันที่ผ่านมา

    What asset……? ‘The rice?! 😂😂 funny as x

  • @bel9849
    @bel9849 วันที่ผ่านมา

    the doggie sleeping in the back 🥹❤

  • @Avoranation
    @Avoranation วันที่ผ่านมา

    When i was younger i like carrie, then i liked samantha, but now i feel a combo of charlotte and miranda would be best. Probably align more with miranda. I always thought she had the best relationship but geez, your videos showed me how wrong i was!

  • @Avoranation
    @Avoranation วันที่ผ่านมา

    48:06 it's the name i guess. Boys keep their last names and keep the family line going. Obviously, in todays age, a woman can keep her name and it not affect anything and that would be just as good an option.

  • @christinemartinez7464
    @christinemartinez7464 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Sometimes, when people truly love someone and get hurt, they make big changes-hitting the gym, updating their style, or changing their appearance. Heartbreak can push people to reinvent themselves, both as a reaction and a step forward. I think Aiden changed because he was genuinely heartbroken, not because he wasn’t nice.

  • @FishareFriendsNotFood972
    @FishareFriendsNotFood972 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Pre nups are not just for rich people, it can also be to lay out money that will be protected for the wife in the event she becomes a stay at home mom (setting up an account in her name and laying out what assets should be in her name after childbirth and parental work). It can be planning for future assets, even if you currently don't have much, lol

  • @lexanolimits
    @lexanolimits วันที่ผ่านมา

    Can’t wait for the next video❤

  • @agata4826
    @agata4826 วันที่ผ่านมา

    We have the same saying in polish: jak cielę na malowane wrota 😅

  • @liliebilie
    @liliebilie วันที่ผ่านมา

    Smith and Harry are the best partners in the show

  • @J.Soffer
    @J.Soffer 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You are my favorite!!!

  • @helena1136
    @helena1136 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    the comparasion of the views of Carrie and Charlotte about love was so on point

    • @insightsbyv
      @insightsbyv วันที่ผ่านมา

      It was so fun to make🤭✨️

  • @AlexNur07
    @AlexNur07 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Please don't become a woke channel. There are only 2 genders.

  • @caseyw.6550
    @caseyw.6550 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Stop the meter is WILD. 😂

  • @amandabun
    @amandabun 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Now I have something to watch whilst chilling on bed 🥳. Looking forward to this upload x

  • @WeezyMcClosely
    @WeezyMcClosely 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hot Take: Steve is a vulnerable narcissist.

  • @AlexNur07
    @AlexNur07 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    She didn't develop. She had the same mentality. The only thing that changed about her is accepting a not so handsome looking man as a husband. The one who changed the most is Samantha, then Miranda, then Charlotte. Carrie remained the same awful person.

  • @frenchie5787
    @frenchie5787 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    In my opinion, Charlotte asked Trey to marry her simply because she was expecting to hear the proposal, but as it didn't come out of Trey's mouth, she felt compelled to say it just so she could hear it. She physically couldn't hold her breath anymore in that very moment. Also, this was building up in her mind because she thought Trey was very much suggestible.

  • @SoobySays
    @SoobySays 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Yessssssss I’ve been waiting for this!!

  • @J.Soffer
    @J.Soffer 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Girl!! You absolutely spit many bars! Lol 😅❤

  • @witchf4ce310
    @witchf4ce310 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I’m so curious about Slovenia. Because it’s one of those countries I think most of the world don’t think about and a lot don’t even really know about (maybe except heard the name once or twice.) could you ever share some things about Slovenian culture? Greetings from Sweden (but I’m from Greece)

  • @K674944
    @K674944 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Absolutely delighted to see another video from you 🙌

  • @ireefree2024
    @ireefree2024 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    For me Trey is everything in the shopping window but nothing inside of the shop 😂😂😂 The worst he was about the baby theme. That was sooo insensitive thing and cruel and not funny at all. Also he's the worst example of a mama's boy. The scene of him in the bathroom with his mother still haunts me 😮

    • @insightsbyv
      @insightsbyv วันที่ผ่านมา

      Ahahahha🤣

  • @sabina.T
    @sabina.T 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    43:00 " what assets, the rise" killed me 😂😂😂

  • @rachael8078
    @rachael8078 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    18:08 Trey admitted he didn’t want to be married to anyone but still got married to the right person, a special person in his own words. So Miranda’s theory doesn’t apply to charlotte

  • @69SalterStreet
    @69SalterStreet 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Reverse engineered?