Dedra's TNBC Journey
Dedra's TNBC Journey
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The pathology report looks great!
Great news everyone - I have clear margins and no cancer spread to my lymph nodes as per the pathology report - I couldn't have asked for better news! Here more details in today's video.
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Surgery week!
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This week I had what I thought would be a lumpectomy. Turns out it was a partial mastectomy - a larger procedure, because they found more tissue that needed to be removed than anticipated. I 100% trust the doctors though and am healing well.
All the feels... All the feels...
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Am I an imposter? Am I frightfully ill? I absolutely know that the truth is somewhere in between. However, my feelings are all over the place still... Cancer is a tough illness, not the least of which is because of the emotional toll it can cause.
Pre-surgery visit and other medical updates
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This week I had my pre-surgery appointment. In this video I talk about what may or may not be coming up for me next.... I'm trying to embrace the process!! Surgery is Oct 23rd...
This is the news I wanted to hear!
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Today I got great news about my genetic test results, and we officially scheduled the lumpectomy for Oct 23. Thank you for all the prayers, crossed fingers, and well wishes!!
Finding a new outlook
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Today my violin teacher had a great analogy for me that I hope will improve my outlook on this cancer process. I'm very thankful!
Self-care in the face of cancer
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This is about my last few days trying to do my best to take care of myself, my students, my body, my health, my mental state... I want things to be as strong as possible before surgery and chemo. It's going to be a long road...
Doctors and School and all that in the same day!
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Today I had 2 helpful doctor appointments, talked to an amazing specialist on the phone, taught 4 classes, had 2 work meetings, and more... It was a long day. Telling my afternoon class about my diagnosis wasn't easy - I am scared of chemo and surgery still, and I don't want them to be afraid... I was as simple about it and as positive about it as I could be, reassuring them that I would be fin...
First appointment as a cancer patient was a success!
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Today went really well at the UVA breast center - the cancer care there is top notch and I'm really feeling that! I'm very lucky. As an overview, my treatment plan will be surgery then chemo. The doctor was very reassuring that the cancer was caught early and we can do this!
Going to work after the diagnosis
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Today I was back in the classroom... so good yet so surreal to teach and have a 'normal' day with all this looming over me. The kids make me sane!
The Strength of Friends and Family
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In this video I talk about how important it is to have a community, and how I appreciate everyone. One thing I neglected to mention today is my GP - he actually called on a Sunday to ask if I had any questions about the diagnosis and make sure I had a plan going forward. I'll see him Wednesday morning, too, to follow up on my visit with the surgeon at the UVA cancer center on Tuesday. Thank you...
About TNBC - stats and explanations
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Triple Negative Breast Cancer (TNBC) is a difficult diagnosis to hear. If you'd like to learn more, in this video, Alex will tell you about the stats and help explain my diagnosis. Like and subscribe to follow my journey.
The emotional process of the first 2 days
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This video describes how I feel. The emotions of a cancer diagnosis are huge. This is life changing, earth shattering type stuff. The stages of grief are not linear - they all get thrown at you like a grenade. Please like and subscribe to follow my journey.
Art therapy - my first self portrait
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My dear friend Jackson suggested I do a self portrait to help me connect with myself. Since I couldn't sleep, I took the time to do so this morning. Here is my description of the process and the outcome. Please like and subscribe to follow my journey.
Describing my biopsy procedure
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About the biopsy - it was an "automated stereotactic breast biopsy". Don't let them tell you it isn't difficult, or it will only 'pinch'. Please like this video and subscribe to my channel to follow my journey.
Welcome to my VLOG - and my diagnosis
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Welcome to my VLOG - and my diagnosis

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  • @heathergould4906
    @heathergould4906 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Outstanding!!!

    • @demareed
      @demareed 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I am so relieved!!

  • @rebeccalindell4093
    @rebeccalindell4093 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Woohoo Dedra! Amazing news!

    • @demareed
      @demareed 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I'm so happy!!

  • @rebeccalindell4093
    @rebeccalindell4093 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You Rock Dedra! Stay Strong and heal well!

    • @demareed
      @demareed 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      thank you!!

  • @canopus_reborn
    @canopus_reborn 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Whats your social media?

  • @heathergould4906
    @heathergould4906 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

    No crystal ball, but I CAN tell you that the majority of my survivor patients have had lumpectomy and radiation with no chemo, but I don't know the percentage of those who were also TN

    • @demareed
      @demareed 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I'll do whatever helps but I'll be glad if I don't need it!

  • @kellyjones9199
    @kellyjones9199 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Music helps and heals

    • @demareed
      @demareed 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

      yes :)

  • @KrinavantuViswamaryam
    @KrinavantuViswamaryam 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Namaste

    • @demareed
      @demareed 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

      namaste!

  • @Keeter904
    @Keeter904 หลายเดือนก่อน

    1:02 smh! That vidco juice is poisonous. Where have you been for the last several years? If you drank previously it likely resulted in your cancer. Those who go back for another drink should be treated for mental illness because it's apparent they are seeking to self harm. 😏 If you will carefully follow my instructions there's still hope. Call it an act of kindness or simply meddling on my part-it's up to you. However, it disturbs me to see people suffer from life threatening health conditions because they've bought a bill of goods. Although my following statements may seem bizarre, you must understand that it needs to be this way to reach you. Some things are just too difficult to say here (if you know what I mean), so please write down the capital letters from the following paragraph in the order you encounter them. Then, study and divide them into individual words to form a coherent thought. Understand? Okay, here it goes: Frogs Often Leap Lightly Over Water. WILLIAM has More Adventures by Keeping In Shape. Ostriches occasionally Need X-rays. Fish Often Rest Comfortably while Ants Navigate Complex Environments Rapidly. Cats Understand Rules Easily Sometimes. Some people find it hard to decode so I will translate part of the message but cannot completely translate. I hope you understand. Follow William _____ on _ for ______ _____. many blessings. 👍

  • @rebeccalindell4093
    @rebeccalindell4093 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So happy to hear!! Continue to stay strong! ❤

    • @demareed
      @demareed หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much!!

  • @sue8500
    @sue8500 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great news!!!

    • @demareed
      @demareed หลายเดือนก่อน

      I am so relieved <3

  • @inamoratopiano
    @inamoratopiano หลายเดือนก่อน

    AMAZIIIIING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ❤🧡💛💚💙💜

    • @demareed
      @demareed หลายเดือนก่อน

      I feel like I am in an amazing position to handle this. <3

  • @2083afsha
    @2083afsha หลายเดือนก่อน

    I am delighted to hear that Dedra. You are in my prayers. Stay strong!

    • @demareed
      @demareed หลายเดือนก่อน

      thank you so much!! i feel so ready to beat this now <3

  • @kellyjones9199
    @kellyjones9199 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The shoulda, coulda, woulda can get you! And most of them won't happen. ❤ You will make it through. Family and friends can help!

    • @demareed
      @demareed หลายเดือนก่อน

      thank you my friend!

  • @kellyjones9199
    @kellyjones9199 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The unknown is scary

    • @demareed
      @demareed หลายเดือนก่อน

      it really is... the more I see doctors, the better I feel, for the most part

  • @heathergould4906
    @heathergould4906 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Such amazing news! You have made me eager for the day when I perform contrast enhanced mammography.

    • @demareed
      @demareed หลายเดือนก่อน

      I think it saved my life <3

    • @heathergould4906
      @heathergould4906 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@demareed I think you're correct

    • @sarahm.barnes6951
      @sarahm.barnes6951 หลายเดือนก่อน

      All wonderful news!! I appreciate the update!!

    • @Keeter904
      @Keeter904 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@demareed I recently came across this video and feel compelled to share some positive and very optimistic information with you. Call it an act of kindness or simply meddling on my part-it's up to you. However, it disturbs me to see people suffer from life threatening health conditions. Although my following statements may seem bizarre, you must understand that it needs to be this way to reach you. Some things are just too difficult to say here (if you know what I mean), so please write down the capital letters from the following paragraph in the order you encounter them. Then, study and divide them into individual words to form a coherent thought. Understand? Okay, here it goes: Frogs Often Leap Lightly Over Water. WILLIAM has More Adventures by Keeping In Shape. Ostriches occasionally Need X-rays. Fish Often Rest Comfortably while Ants Navigate Complex Environments Rapidly. Cats Understand Rules Easily Sometimes. I will translate part of the message but cannot completely translate. I hope you understand. Follow William _____ on _ for ______ _____. many blessings. 👍

    • @Keeter904
      @Keeter904 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@demareed I recently came across this video and feel compelled to share some encouraging information that should bring a sense of optimism. Call it an act of kindness or simply meddling on my part-it's up to you. However, it disturbs me to see people suffer from life threatening health conditions. Although my following statements may seem bizarre, you must understand that it needs to be this way to reach you. Some things are just too difficult to say here (if you know what I mean), so please write down the capital letters from the following paragraph in the order you encounter them. Then, study and divide them into individual words to form a coherent thought. Understand? Okay, here it goes: Frogs Often Leap Lightly Over Water. WILLIAM has More Adventures by Keeping In Shape. Ostriches occasionally Need X-rays. Fish Often Rest Comfortably while Ants Navigate Complex Environments Rapidly. Cats Understand Rules Easily Sometimes. Some people find it hard to decode so I will translate part of the message but cannot completely translate. I hope you understand. Follow William _____ on _ for ______ _____. many blessings. 👍

  • @tomrisen8778
    @tomrisen8778 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love you, Dedra :-)

    • @demareed
      @demareed หลายเดือนก่อน

      thank you tom

  • @nureniftekhar5353
    @nureniftekhar5353 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You're truly an exceptional teacher

    • @demareed
      @demareed หลายเดือนก่อน

      thank you - and thankful for you!!!

  • @nureniftekhar5353
    @nureniftekhar5353 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Proud of you Dedra ❤

  • @heathergould4906
    @heathergould4906 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm so glad you listened to your body. It leady the way!

    • @demareed
      @demareed หลายเดือนก่อน

      melatonin helped too :)

    • @Keeter904
      @Keeter904 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@demareed I recently came across this video and feel compelled to share some encouraging information that should bring a sense of optimism. Call it an act of kindness or simply meddling on my part-it's up to you. However, it disturbs me to see people suffer from life threatening health conditions. Although my following statements may seem bizarre, you must understand that it needs to be this way to reach you. Some things are just too difficult to say here (if you know what I mean), so please write down the capital letters from the following paragraph in the order you encounter them. Then, study and divide them into individual words to form a coherent thought. Understand? Okay, here it goes: Frogs Often Leap Lightly Over Water. WILLIAM has More Adventures by Keeping In Shape. Ostriches occasionally Need X-rays. Fish Often Rest Comfortably while Ants Navigate Complex Environments Rapidly. Cats Understand Rules Easily Sometimes. Some people find it hard to decode so I will translate part of the message but cannot completely translate. I hope you understand. Follow William _____ on _ for ______ _____. many blessings. 👍

  • @sarahm.barnes6951
    @sarahm.barnes6951 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You are so.oooo brave!! Thank you for sharing your journey with us!!

    • @demareed
      @demareed หลายเดือนก่อน

      It's healing and grounding to share, as well as might help others...

  • @heathergould4906
    @heathergould4906 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you so much for sharing!

    • @demareed
      @demareed หลายเดือนก่อน

      I hope this helps at least one person <3