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Omg, first 7 min is just about smth else. I respect you, but please mark the content's beginning.

I am trying to get this. But I wish you unpacked how parenting can be non judgmental? As a parent you are trying to shape a child to be prepared for life. Not in a tough love way, it can be just basic stuff. Non judgmentalism sounds a lot like license. How can you ever correct behavior? Yes, implying that the kids are “bad” might the difference.

Oh my god, real content starts like after 100 minutes 😂

Thank you! ❤

I prefer the magnatiles as a autistic adult

Thank you! This answers all my questions quickly and distinctly!

Integrated family systems as a therapy has helped me so much in healing from my childhood.

Thank you for reassuring me that I"m not crazy. My child started daycare this month and i expected opportunities for transition, rather than just hand him over and go. Everyone around me is saying this is how school is, and all I keep saying is that it doesnt have to this traumatic if there is an adequate orientation process in place. I will be using the tips you shared at home. Thank you!

I went through a difficult period in my life, and self-compassion saved me. Now, I'm taking self-compassion as my doctoral research. I'm always grateful to Dr. Neff.

Thank you :) very helpful & straight to the point 👍

Cindy, this episode was incredibly insightful, especially your focus on proactively planning difficult discussions about divorce with children. It’s clear you truly understand the needs and challenges of families during such times. I’ve sent you a DM on Instagram to connect further and discuss more. Thank you for sharing your wisdom!

Cindy, you’re a beautiful woman

I follow DrRamini She has saved my soul & my sanity as I heal from narcissistic abuse She is the worlds leading expert on narcissistic abuse

Toddlers and teens seem to both be a big transformative phase where this is super helpful. There seems to be less tolerance for teens/preteens needing that guidance where we automatically go into power struggle seeing an adult instead of a child who needs that same guidance

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Thank you for the invaluable information. Thank you for focusing on this subject.

The narcissist does not know thyself. They know only the lower self. This is evil. They cannot relate to the higher self, the Spirit. The soul. They lack feelings of regret, remorse, empathy, sympathy. Things that make us connect as humans here on the earth.

Doctor Ramani 💚

How can I get her new book?

I follow Dr. Ramani so I am here.

Protecting against Narcissim and other Psycological disorder is protecting against KILLER. Its about live and death. Its about your existence or their existence. So fight or run!

God bless you for doing this video. You answered all my questions!! ❤❤❤

I was in Goodwill and and saw this and I have no idea what it was. So I looked it up. I am also a homeschool mom too many babies. Thank you for these

Some good advice thank you. I am a parent of a toddler who is starting daycare and I am an educator myself. 😊

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Hi! From the podcast😀

The first person I heard talking about this was Dr. GABOR MATE maybe 23 years ago , no other person understand and have compassion for all Humans -

She talks more about herself than what I came here for. waste of time

So what do you do if your child is showing stress signs?

Thanks. I saw an ad for this game and wanted more info. It all sounded pretty vague, but your video helped. Gonna get this for Christmas to play with my kiddo.

Dysregulation is a new term to me. I used to take a park and ride bus home on the freeway for a 20 minute ride or so, then a 5 minute drive home. The bus engine would roar at the high speed, but it didn't really bother me. However, when I would get into the house, if the TV was on, it would sound like it was blaringly loud to me. I always had to turn it down. It made my nerves raw. After a while, I always needed it turned back up again, but I always wondered what it was that made it seem so overwhelming initially.

I never had kids myself, but I have this memory of sitting in a waiting room at a doctor's office alone. A mom and her toddler came in. She brought over a laundry basket they had in the waiting room that was full of toys. I sat and watched the two of them. She pulled out a toy and handed it to her son on the floor. He very slowly and carefully began to explore the toy and play with it. What I began to notice is she couldn't leave a happy child alone. She started to try to hand him another toy, but he was busy with the first one. So she got short tempered and insisted he take the next toy. This kept playing out with each next toy. I said nothing, but I was absolutely dying to say to her, "Someday you'll be bringing him back here complaining that he has attention deficit disorder." I think in our society we mistakenly believe that a child is developmentally slow when they are actually focused and intelligent. Remember when using flash cards with babies was all the rage for developing their intelligence? Have you ever read Harrison Bergeron by Kurt Vonnegut?

Thank you for bringing Bruce Perry for this discussion. We need more of his information everywhere!

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I'm not a mom, but this conversation helped me a lot! Thanks for that!

Also, Dr. Sarah Bren's new course sounds a bit like "Deeply Feeling Kids" a term coined by Dr. Becky at Good Inside as well. Love seeing all these amazing women helping us parents understand and support our kids better!

Just discovered your podcast/channel! I'm a marriage and family therapist and think this is an amazing resource for my clients who are new parents or thinking about/planning their growing family. I think this is a really important part of family planning, and wish this was talked about more! Thank you!

This is a commentary not a how to

6 minutes to START saying anything about the real theme… omg

My daughter is a very anti social person. She is only comfortable with her family in our house hold. It’s extremely concerning because we struggle to have anyone watch her because she cry,yells and kicks if we leave. Hoping I can gain some insight here

Useless information 😢

Thank you so much Bruce for this episode, this is very helpful for me as a social worker, God bless you always.

I have a question. Dr Bruce says that children that experience trauma early on then go to a safer more stable environment don't get the benefit and still have the problems, even when a lot of love and support is given. How can adoptive parents help their children? Is there hope to help them out of the instability and destructive behaviour? I personally thought once the traumatised child is put in a loving environment they will heal and do well.

how is it going?. very unusual . 👐

I love this episode. You have enlightened me and educated me doc.

Not going to watch this, intro is too long, but couldn’t agree more with the title. If yelling worked, you wouldn’t need to do it constantly!

I LOVE BRUCE PERRY!!! 👏🏼❤️😅🙌🏼 I can listen to him talk and explain again and again, day after day.. Thank you Bruce!!🙏🏼😃 I also love Curious Neuron, and I really get the excitement around having Bruce come in and join you. 🤩 Thank you all, for all of your work. It’s such a precious gift for me, my child and so many others, to be able to learn so much from such brilliant people like you! It’s way past my bedtime. I just had to hear this episode through. (Bruce competing with Bruce, as I also wanted to read “What happened to you?” which is sitting on my nightstand this very moment.😂). Feel free to come by if you ever go to visit Denmark..❤️🙌🏼😅 Love Nathja ❤

Bruce Perry is a great doctor who understands human beings. Also, the word resilience is often used by white people to mask and avoid confronting trauma and the reality of our environments. Yes, im white. Thanks for the episode!

Just finished listening to this episode. The conversation is incredibly informational and accurate. As an elementary school teacher, I was totally able to relate to the part where Dr. Perry and Hovington's discuss "wanting the system to change, but getting sucked into implementing practices that go against your philosophy." It is always a pleasure to listen to Curious Neuron - topics and discussions leave you reflecting on yourself as a parent/teacher/educator.

Any advice for how to gently prepare a toddler (currently 14 months will be closer to 16/17 months when in care) for sleeping without being nursed to sleep? Currently I am the only person able to get my child to sleep at any time except when she is in the car. We currently cosleep and feed to sleep.