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what I got seems a touching love story rather than a ghost one, 555

1:27 very similar to Chinese traditional concept of raising kids

Please explain the head piece thats joined between the wedding couple, when does this happen , why does it happen, how does it happen, who does it. Thanks andi

If you were allowed to marry a white guy, your family was not that strict. You were not oppressed in anyway by your family or culture.

Very comprehensive! I can tell you’re a great MC. Thank you very much for the video. It helps my husband and his parents see the run down of the day ❤

Happy 2024

Sorry for looking at ur eyes

I am so glad you made this video. I visited Thailand this summer and my biggest culture shock was to see Thai kids in school, behaving so differently than in Europe. I was amazed that all the kids seemed so calm, relaxed, smiling, thankful and very well behaved. I did not see any loudly crying or going into tantrums kids like it is so common in Europe. Since my trip I am trying to find out what is the background of this behavior. Finally I got the answer, thanks to you. It is very interesting to see the other side of the picture as well.

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how much money do u put in the box and what if you received a digital invite?

I don't think this is true at all

Thank You Dear for information❤ I understand that first man must be loved by wifes Family 🙏 Thats realy important. In Western culture we are more individualustic 😊 But if you realy love person you will be dedicated to Her family as well ❤ and vice versa ❤️

Is it true that it’s up to the eldest daughter to support the parents as they get older. What about the other children. Do they have any responsibilities?

It's like the Voodoo Queen buried in New Orleans cemetery.

Well, I'm not surprised, by this way of life. I can see it can be very challenging to move forward with The Times and changing world.

Better have lots of money, they're the most money hungry girls in the world.

So what if you don't know how old someone is, do you just not Wai them in case they are younger even if they are in a respected position? I'm an old lady so I could have a teacher that is younger than me for instance, or friends parents who are younger than me.

So if you have. To do this to 2 different people, for example, your girlfriend's parents. Do you stop bowing and then bow to the next person? Lower your hands and then re bring your hands back up?

Thank you for the story!

I love this wedding Nd suddenly wish to marry thia boy 😊 coz I'm Buddhist too

thanks. very interesting

fanny sounds i like it

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"Neang Neath" is the Legendary Khmer folk tale that occurred in Battambang province in the late 1800s. The story was told throughout the country in the 1900s. Thai has made this tale into series and films, which is called "Mae Nak Prakkanorng," and has changed a few scenes from the original Khmer story.

Almost similar to malay wedding always have loud music the better 😂

What’s an average cost for sinsod ? And rings/gold

i hope the world can find a balance of respecting your elders while also being encouraged to be an individual

100% accurate as it relates to my Thai girlfriend. It really rattled me in the beginning when she started talking (and asking me) about bathroom stuff. My thought was, "There are some things you just don't need to know." Lol!

Clearly descriptions! Meaning stories , I love your video so muc

The video is so cool the best video I have ever seen in TH-cam

What you describe in this video is being like a surrogate spouse to your parents...and an extension of them... It is called "enmeshment" and a form of narcissism in families. Narcissistic family’s image/status is everything. There is a lack of communication, no boundaries, children even as adults become surrogate spouses. There are control issues, love is conditional, there are family roles you must follow, there are secrets and maintaining the ideal public image is vital. Adults are emotionally childish, and blackmail and manipulation are common. It’s very unhealthy, these life- long bonds are a form of covert incest (behave like the child is a love-life partner, also known as emotional incest, is a type of emotional abuse in which a parent relies on a child for emotional support, and in Thailand financial support) , there are no boundaries and there is constant intrusive behavior(intrusive behaviors are a common form of control exerted by overstepping boundaries, either physical or psychological), and it's very toxic. Narcissistic parents are enmeshed in their children's lives. Enmeshed parents cross their child's boundaries by doing things like controlling their decisions, interfering in their relationships, or NOT letting them do things themselves. There are nonexistent boundaries, unhealthy relationship patterns and a lack of independence among family members. Children who grow up in enmeshed families often carry these patterns forward into adulthood, unaware of the cycle they are perpetuating. In Thailand you call it culture or family traditions, closeness and loving etc., that it is not. It's not closeness as you describe, it's emotional abuse, manipulation, and conditional love. It’s a very primitive family hierarchy, exploitation and responsible for all your social problems. I met many Thai ladies that were extremely unhappy in their lives following these traditions and being controlled by intrusive, entitled parents(a sense of deservingness, being owed, deserving special treatment) and, wishing they were free to live their own lives. More and more educated enlightened people in Thailand and South East Asia are becoming more aware these dynamics as well. They also interfere in their cognitive development, and are barriers to learning. To describe it as positive and loving, I don't go for it. I see it is linked to high levels of prostitution, child labor, high teen fertility (Thailand ranks second in teen pregnancy, among its nine ASEAN neighbors), high divorce rates (divorce rate in Thailand from 27% in 2006 to 39% in 2016. 3 times the average rate) and single parenthood (major factors financial, parenting styles, discipline, poor relationships with extended families) are among the highest in Asia. I am always wondering why Thai men abandon their own children, are blamed for being unfaithful or have GIGS? I don't know why any educated successful confident man Thai or other would want to be in a relationship like this? Enmeshment is detrimental to your mental health, privacy, well-being, cause developmental delays, and serious problems with addiction and codependency. Being an enabler (people that support/protect unhealthy people and make it easier for them to continue their destructive habits/abuse), to such a sense of entitlement, toxicity and abuse, and to be silent or have positive feelings about it, calling it culture, I cannot. It doesn't matter where you are in the world, "abuse is abuse". Cultural abuse, is where a person uses cultural identity to control or exploit other people and use aspects of their culture, traditions, to benefit from (emotionally and financially) and even if it inflicts suffering on others.

lolololol the guy is funny

Also wondered how long it lasts? What kind of time in hours we talking about?

What’s a “connector”?

I live in Thailand and music is everywhere in our village. A funeral 5am music, party music, Budda day music. If I want quiet I walk the dogs around the rice fields, I love it all,🙏

just found the channel , has it stopped ?

Sawadee ka, I was adopted from Thailand by Swedish parents at the age of six weeks, so I'm trying to learn about my native culture. Obviously I speak Swedish as my native language, and in a western way, but sometimes I feel I'm too nice to people, so I'm not sure if I'm subconsciously Thai by culture. I was adopted as a baby so I lived in an orphanage in BKK.

Mea nak always have different story No one know what happened. Some people say her husband kill her

Thank you for sharing!

Great advice! Going one level too high is fine for Farangs. BTW: If you are going to wats, you might also need to learn to show your respect to monks who are sitting. Khun Bon might do a video on it for us.

I have had very bad experiences with speaking to Thai people. not just 1 or 2 but with a lot. They look and speak humbly, but they don't think humbly. They don't appreciate your time or efforts at all. Just very bad experience.

living in Thailand for several years, I noticed that it is not a very sophisticated society !! some people are picky and susceptible !!

Good interview.

Easy answer is it’s for stupid people. Simpletons need to be told when something is funny.

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Good info. Thanks.

Been with my Thai girlfriend for 2 years... The problem that I find is the language barrier... makes for a NO Communication "relationship".... Very Quite House.... Can't talk or discuss anything which leads to massive communication problems.... Mainly I don't have anyone to talk too.... She's running all around talking to all her friends and I don't have a clue what is going on... If you are "Lucky" enough to find a Thai Lady that speaks English consider yourself Very Lucky... good Luck

Interesting points of view, I relate to both sides of the same coin. I am with a Thai lady and I went to Thailand to meet the family . I am from USA where we are somewhat spoiled yet we have no culture . It’s more win win and greedy . Thai culture is more fine and reserved by tradition. We both I assume the younger generation is outside of these patterns yet as they get older and suffer a bit , it is then that they will see through more companionate eyes and older values set in ,, yes yes , we become our parents . Thank you

I started getting hooked on Thai movies and series. I have noticed that they are very obedient to their elders. And because of that, I got curious because even some of the recent movies I watched have the same theme, like "children being VERY obedient to their parents".Also, I've read some of the comments and I read a few affirmations here. Does this culture still exist in the majority of the Thai community nowadays?

"parents own you?" Interesting.