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4:36 is where you'll wanna start.

amazing video but i feel this is talking to a very specific audience. my case would be living in a small town, in a country in which gay marriage isn't even legalized yet. yes, there is gay life, but mostly in cities. this doesn't speak to me so much, 😅

What made you have a low t cell count? Sorry i dont understand what illness you have. Is this cancer?

I dont understand gay men who want to sleep around with other men and be in a relationship with their partner. Split up and be single then. I could never stay with anyone who wanted to be sexual with other men. Then theirs the contamination risk of diseases. Yunk.

Being single is easier in many ways. I believe you can meet someone out in the supermarket or out in the patk or knitting club. It doesn't have to be on a dating app.

I never wear shorts as i feel my legs are too short and bulky. Tights and lycra just look too exposing for me. I cant stand gyms that play loud piped music & have mirrors everywhere. Too many people around when i exercise makes me very anxious. Its a no from me.

I like your new beard, screw what any one thinks. You look way younger than 60. I feel at 51 my dating years are over. Luckily i like living alone!

How about video of the Old House?

You look waaaay younger. Your face body and voice everything...well done bra ❤🎉

Lovely! Thank you! Happy Christmas to you!

And to all a good night!

May many new warm memories be made in front of the that fireplace.

Keep up the awesomeness, bud

Merry Christmas! Your home is magical

🤩 wow!!!!! That’s amazing!!! Well done, significant achievement 👍👍👍 Nb query: with government colluding with land developers to create more high density residential premises in their megacity fantasies, did you guys consider moving into a modern apartment in Boston eg to be close to amenities?

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♥️ I can relate to this Thanks for your healthy attitude Kind regards

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No tv in the house. There is but att the moment it has a black blanket on it, just don’t even remember it’s there. Only goes on when the man watches it He’s been away for a few months with his sister doing old people stuff. When he comes back, will probably give up the master bedroom for him to chillax and veg out in front of the TV. Hoping to make up the guest bedroom for me He’s been off sex for approx 15 years, maybe more, I forget - has been a total drought. Maybe if he’s relaxed this time… I think I was nearly getting some about 6 months ago, but he changed his stance etc. Whatever I think tv news stresses The Man enough without adding extra expectation and stress. He’s always been a tv person, while I haven’t, it’s such an unproductive time suck Consequently, I have pretty much avoided this whole US election thing too. Though, I did tune into online media via TH-cam reels for outcome results, I didn’t want to be completely ignorant. It will all be over in another 4 years (unless the grim reaper visits sooner) Sharing: while the popular culture gay lifestyle is slowly evolving towards more maturity, there’s years to go yet; I I really needed the humanity aspect of your channel, what I can relate to, so thanks for sticking with it and setting a positive role model Sharing: you should check out the 50+ And Fit Facebook group. It’s open to all creeds in society 50 years of age and over, where people share their progress story uploads. There’s incredible physiques right through 70’s, 80’s, 90’s. I’ve been watching your progress via your TH-cam channel uploads, I think you started at 60 or 56 and here you are today, so, keen to see your continuing results, very inspiring, very motivating Kind regards

…what happens to people who use a lack of judgement -> hospital ER room We all make judgements every day, what clothes we’re wearing, food we’re eating, TH-cam content we’re watching etc etc It’s highly inappropriate context to be called out using the process of exercising a judgement call to protect yourself or your children and loved ones etc, in a weaponising way. That’s what socialist activists do, the look for intentional interjecting normal thought process to create social chaos to te-engineer narratives to suit their socialist agendas It’s not on (that’s a healthy judgement call!) Kind regards

Polygamy = relationship dead end for me Once you reach that point where you’re having those discussions, staying in “an arrangement” becomes absolutely pointless and meaningless You share house together. Bank accounts together etc etc, a whole format of life. That’s what a stable relationship entails and is about. Then that harmonic routine becomes jeopardised, even to the point of income jeopardy - big fat f*ck you off no thanks go let that whoever babysit you and your bs It’s very easy: the only way my relationship lasted for over 30 years monogamously - is go to the right restaurant and get the most delicious meal that you know you’re gunna love every dang time 👍👍👍 Lots of place have kept the same menu concept for years, people stil go to MacDonald’s and to fancy Italian restaurants where the meal choice is consistent. There is comfort in stable faithful consistency. People who need to eat out at lots of different restaurants and lots of different meals are foodies - it’s a really poor analogy to compare with a person. I’m a foodie, but it doesn’t mean I’m equally sl*tting around having random extramarital affairs because I’m lost my self worth

Thanks for the tips! I’ll definitely put them to use. ❤

Yes indeed! All very good rational advice. Good hearted mature gay (and hot) men are out there who want to settle down with a partner. Keep looking in the right places (close to home, or move and look in a new area) and you'll find him. He's there and he'll be overjoyed when he finds you too! I met my now husband when I was 55 and he had just turned 70. I'm now 73 and he's 88. Recently married after an 18 year extended partnership. Happy and aging as gracefully as possible (not easy, but much better with each other.) I love Joey's advice: " Have an open heart and a good sense of humor and I'm sure you will find love again."

I agree 💯…. And you look great!

This has to be the funniest Thanksgiving dinner story that I have ever heard. I hope you had a nice Thanksgiving today!!!

Best to you and yours, man. Your a good story teller

On this day of thanksgiving i want you to know i am thankful for all you do and provide

You are like the rocks at Stonehenge nothing knocks you down. Think of all you have survived. You will survive this too.

I also went news dark. I have to be able to find my joy and be able to function without fear. While I will still be voting in midterms I am doing my best to even remove the beast's name from my life in all aspects. Much Love friend. Your office looks awesome!

I have cut off most of my friends and even family members who voted for The Orange One and have ceased using FaceBook to lessen the amount of negative news I see and hear. I’m still on TikTok and will be moving everything over to Blue Sky, slowly but surely. My husband and I are trying to stay positive and be there for each other, and of course surround ourselves with positive energy and light.

Feliz Año Nuevo

Yes! Thank you for going news dark cause i am too

Meeting people outside apps, and not getting into anything long-distance is a privilege for gay men who are wealthy from buying homes in gay areas when it was affordable or ones who are making good money for the rent in these areas. Despite the beautiful passionate life I live in the mountains, I am too far away from bars and my income too low in my profession to make a financially stable life in a big urban center where I have close distance access to single gay men and hang out places besides the apps. I am wondering if there are other men over 50 like myself are finding for love in less urban areas of the country, who are willing to date long distance but move in together and make it close distance?

I want to find my future hubby do u think hinge would be a great way to start I would really prefer to meet ppl in person but I don’t like bars or the ppl that come w it they just wanna hookup as much as ppl on Grindr

Hello from the future. My mom was from Ipswich and we spent a lot of time there growing up. I went to Crane's Beach (as locals call it) many times and knew of the Castle, but didn't go up the hill until 2018. I stayed at the Inn in July 2022 and this October. I love it there. This video was great. Thank you for making it.

How do you find a boyfriend that actually wants relationship,all they want is something quick and short. I tried every single dating app for years and nothing,even if i find someone they usually block me when we start talking seriously. NOT EVERYTHING IN LIFE IS SEX

I remember listening to your podcast when i was 17-18 while at work. I always imagined you being a lot older than you were because of your podcast name. Im 23 now and bro you look so young(and handsome)!!! Im glad to run into your content again, something about your voice and laughter. Happy to know your still going strong with your podcast.❤❤❤

Good for you!

Looks fab. Just such a home I would love to have. Congratulations, and may peace and success follow you two always. Greetings from Kenya.

Congrats on your new home , may you make many joyus memories.

Looks amazing Joey, congratulations to you and Paco.

I love this guy

Older? Older and bolder, papa.

Yayyyy

I want to say you look extremely extremely well for 60 keep up the great work Thank you

I want to believe, but...some people leave in small cities, towns, where is mo gay community, where your friends and family are straight or closeted, and the society is not gay friendly...in such situation grindr seems to be the only option...so what to do then? Is moving far away the only way??

Great advice and relatable experiences. thank you (you were recommended by cranky old gay guy).

Where are you moving to

Beard is looking big!!

I love wet feet 😍