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Hey come back please I’m 19 and lost in life ❤😂

Good :)

Hey I`m a new subscriber and wouldn`t mind to have your instagram to say hello sometime. I like some of your videos but couldn`t find your insta

2024 update: I’m in my first relationship 🤍🤍🤍🤍

I think most introverts carry a certain set of abilities unique to their disposition. I've found being an introvert gives me alot more empathy towards others, I think by listening so much and observing I'm able to get in people's shoes easier. Life is definitely difficult as an introvert but idk if I'd change that. Usually the people who stick around in my life are people who are open and non judgmental and that's because they had to make the effort to get past my introverted nature to understand me better. Either way, great video, I'm late to the party but definitely can relate to everything you said.

Christianity is not the religion that Jesus preached, they took his words and changed them (just look at how many contradiction and lies there are in the bible, from prophets comitting adultery and incest, contradicting genealogies, numbers, and the list is long... just the story of Saul becoming Paul has different versions in the bible from the narrations of Paul himself!!). Worshipping Jesus is idolatry and is a way of Satan to put people astray from the purpose of our life : worshiping the one and only God. Trinity is a big lie, it doesn't even hold itself logically. Look at what these lies has got you to do, you're doing your best to believe in them, but your heart is rejecting them because deep down you know they are not true. Look for the truth within your soul, God has created us with an inclination for goodness and righteousness. Be honest, truly honest, you deserve that, you don't know when you're gonna die, it can happen at ANY moment, and you don't wanna be full of regrets when it happens. Jesus is not God, He's a dear prophet to Allah (Allah means the one and only God in aramaic, hebrew and arabic). Jesus was born without a father just like Adam and Eve. He was given miracles by the will of Allah just like other messengers that were sent to us before him. Your heart isn't at peace, because it is missing the truth from Allah. You're beautiful, very beautiful, and that's ok for you to not be the most beautifull woman in existance because this life is nothing but a trial (so be wary of Satan's whispers who's our sworn enemy and will do anything to make us sin and disobey Allah). The only thing that matter is how much you love, fear, trust Allah and follow His commands. You could have never existed, yet Allah gave your everything! And by this life he's giving us a chance to go to Paradise. Why would anyone turn his back on Him and worship anything else? Worship the One who created Jesus, Allah, the One that Jesus prayed to. Read Quran to know the real story of Jesus quran.com/1 , not only that, but also the full truth that Allah is sharing with us in His own words, to help us and protect us in this trial. Here are few verses from Surah (Chapter) An-Nissa (Women) (it's the 4th Chapter of the Quran), verse 155 to verse 159 (it talks about the jews and what they did) : _(155) : ''˹They were condemned˺ for breaking their covenant, rejecting Allah’s signs, killing the prophets unjustly, and for saying, “Our hearts are unreceptive!”-it is Allah Who has sealed their hearts for their disbelief, so they do not believe except for a few- (156) : ''and for their denial and outrageous accusation against Mary,'' (157) : ''and for boasting, “We killed the Messiah, Jesus, son of Mary, the messenger of Allah.” But they neither killed nor crucified him-it was only made to appear so. Even those who argue for this ˹crucifixion˺ are in doubt. They have no knowledge whatsoever-only making assumptions. They certainly did not kill him.'' (158) : ''Rather, Allah raised him up to Himself. And Allah is Almighty, All-Wise.'' (159) : ''Every one of the People of the Book will definitely believe in him before his death. And on the Day of Judgment Jesus will be a witness against them.''_ Check also Surah Al-Maidah (the Table in arabic, it's about a miraculous table that Allah sent down from the sky after the disbelievers at the time asked Jesus to prove his prophethood with this specific miracle, and Jesus asked Allah to fulfill their demand) the 5th Chapter. And Surah Maryam (Mary in arabic, the mother of Jesus may Allah be pleased with them both) the 19th chapter. You'll find there even more details about Jesus' and Mary's story. May Allah guide us all to the truth and to the path of those He's pleased with. Ameen

Hello ava, how are you? I wanna make sure you are okay. I miss your videos so much.

25? These are rookie numbers my friend.

I saw a couple of your videos and I have to say you are a really intelligent and articulate person. Your level of self awareness is impressive and i really appreciate people that have this ability. I look up to you in that regard. I like you a lot. I want you to know my honest opinion and its going to sound SUPER rude... I see why guys are douches and fboys, even when it hurts you girls. Because it works. Because the female brain wants it and is too lazy to take the matters of your happiness into its own hands. You could roll with a shy guy from who you know is at least a good guy and then teach him what you want from him. Make up for his shyness with your own energy and try to be outgoing to help guys like him and most of all: ultimately yourself too. Ever wondered why hes shy? Because he is just like you. BC he is not a douchebag. Because he cares about other people, especially about you. Because he is not secure about you and how you feel and about what makes you happy. He is literally DYING to know. He is the guy that is actually interested in YOU. ...but no, instead u choose to let youself get bootycalled XD Thanks for this reminder how women work, i almost forgot it.

are u still single? wana go on a date hehe

You are beautiful

Hi everyone! Thank you for all the new comers and comments on this video and past videos! I don’t really post on here anymore but I’m very active on tiktok and post things similar to what I would talk about on TH-cam. Much easier for me to make TikTok’s so if you want to join my community over there feel free! User name is: softavacodo

At least you have dated I have never even dated, kissed a guy. All I have is my daydreams😭

Hi why don’t I upload any more is there any videos coming up soon?

Where are you now?

dont you think its a bit dishonest to say youve been single for 25 years when youre only 25? i mean youre not gonna get into a "real" relationship before age 16 anyways... more like 18-20 realisticly does being single ignore casual flings/ONS for you or not? for comparison i had 1gf at 17 which lasted a month or two (and i dont even count that as a "proper" relationship, because we were too young and dumb to know what a relation even means) and then one real relationship 19-22. been alone eversince and im 36. and i am not doing casual flings/ONS. i hate when ppl tell me how lonely they are and they bang someone else on tinder every month

31 and single my whole life. It's not something I tell people only to close friends due to the vast amount of shame I feel 😩. I have been with men but the topic of an official relationship was never brought up, then one day something happens and we "separate" and I am left feeling hurt and abandoned. I get so envious of people with someone, I feel like such a loser. I understand how some people settle cuz they don't wanna be alone. I haven't reached that point yet though.

Hi how are you ..? I live in New York

This is exactly my character, I don by know if I'm an introvert 🥺🥺

I’m 25, turning 26 in March. I’ve no problem being single but at times it hurts more when society makes small little reminders about stereotyping teens and 20yr olds as always dating, always having an ex if they are single. When it’s used through marketing especially around Christmas, that’s pretty hard. Any guys watching, don’t pick up the guitar to pick up girls… I can tell you for someone who picked up the guitar for the love of music, did college, uni, brought the roof down in my city’s local venues that women don’t want to date you just because you can do a fast solo. I’ve had opportunities, but I’m fairly picky. In fact, one girl even started stalking me, learned the words to all my albums and would constantly message me. I think when the right person comes along you’ll know it. Focus on career, hobbies, what brings you meaning in life, and love will follow.

When that person comes along you will know but you must act on your intuition or they could get away. When you get those vibes don't be afraid make sure they know. I think your sweet and very attractive you just need to chill out a little bit .I'm the same way I guess. Take my advice I don't use it.😁😘

Having standards is one thing having unrealistic standards is another if guys are asking you out and you keep saying no then what are you looking for and are your standards way to high nobody is perfect you know.

I’m in my 30s and I had one boyfriend in my late teens, early 20s, it was a horrible and toxic relationship. I really had very little interest in dating after that. But in my late 20s I started desiring a relationship, so I put myself out there and it was a horrible experience. Most guys just wanted hook ups, or were married/ in a relationship, if a new a guy liked me I gave him all the green lights in the world and it wouldn’t go anywhere. So, I took the sage advice to stop looking for love and focus on me. Then one day I realized I’m in my mid 30s still single with one prospect who hasn’t called me in weeks. I can’t even get to the 1st date stage, it’s so frustrating. Lucky for you you are still young, at my age most ppl are in a relationship or committed to being single. Shit, when your gyno says you might want to start looking for someone if you plan on having kids soon, you realize you’re on the wrong side of your biological clock. And with no prospects comes the acceptance of never having a child because time has run out on you. I just always knew I would find someone, I just knew it, well I guess the joke is on me.

I'm with you girl

Hey! :) No pressure at all, but I hope we get a life update from you

Did you try to take a look in your friend zone it might surprise you

ughh i can relate to this so much...i have a feeling that this happens to only single child (who has no siblings), im assuming you're a single child too like me and somehow that has made us more shy and introverted i guess and in my case my parents dont let me hangout or go out alone with friends and that has made me get adapted to just being by myself alone and because of that i donno how to socialise anymore, it feels like people are constantly judging me and whatever comes out of my mouth is bullshit, i donno how am i gonna survive the rest of my life being like this :(

seriously even ive gotten so comfortable with being single forever that even if there is a slightest possibility of a relationship it kinda scares me since im an introvert and also there is this fear that the guy will stop liking me and will move onto someone else, sometimes i think i subconsciously dont want to get into a relationship and so i fall for guys who i know wont like me back and as for the guys who have asked me out they are all sweet but i dont feel anything for them like you said, and also i live in a country where my religion (Catholic) is a minority and so the chances of finding a Catholic guy is so less but i want to end up marrying in a Catholic family and my parents wont obviously entertain inter-religion marriage. so all of this sometimes makes me feel like im gonna be alone forever and it sucks but i believe in God i know i will find the right guy at the right time, maybe if i found the right guy now i would end up losing him and so God is making me wait i guess..

im so glad you made this video and also surprised as my situation is same as yours im 21 and ive only been kissed once and im also shy and introverted and have a lot of insecurities with the way i look and also want a genuine relationship with a genuine guy. i also believe in God, i know there is someone out there for me who will love me for all my good and bad stuff who would one day make me realise that all this waiting made sense and was worth it. Thank you for sharing this cuz all this time i felt so lonely and i dont even know one person who has never been in relationships. im happy being single but it does sometimes hurt plus ive also faced rejections, im the kinda person who has always been in one sided relationships, either the person i like doesnt like me back or vice versa. it sucks a lot but i still got hope. By the way, you are so beautiful im sure you're gonna find a really great guy who will keep you happy and will understand all your insecurities, i hope i find mine too :)

im not depressed but sometimes i feel like i should just disappear from this planet all the reason behind what im going on with now was because of my mental health disorder i had during my childhood and teenage period

Great that you're virgin no more not like me 😅 its totally ok we are humans we make mistakes I'm really happy for you I hope one day if we happen to be alone our rest of our life we wont feel lonely no more

I'm a guy and I've never had a relationship. Same situation, but I'm also extremely picky

I am 25 and I have been single for all this time too. Thank you for this video.

Hey, How is it going? Please respond. Sending love your way ❤️

The reason I’m single is because I don’t fit with everyone else in society at my age I always compare my self to others at my age

omg I have been through exactly the same thing as you.completely related

Oooh.... I'm not the only one who's single in entire life

About to turn 29. Last time I was asked out on a date was 9 yrs ago. 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️ I'm very comfortable being single as u are. But I'm not trying to push myself outside of my comfort zone lol

I have been pondering the same question for why I am single for such a long time, maybe cuz I dont fit in everyone's physical expectations or something like that but then I realised that no matter even if I am in a relationship, the point is to make ourselves feel loved which funnily enough struck my mind that if thats the case, why dont I just love myself unconditionally? And sidenote, you look gorgeous as heavens!!! And yeah, I did cry while watching this video :')

Stay single the heartbreak sucks!!!

i feel you im single too and my relationships have been very short lived. prolly cause im hard to ve with

The best advice that I can give for those dwelling with those emotions of singleness. Get up and volunteer your time at a charity organization. Also look for ways that you can give back to humanity. Once you do that you will find yourself hidden giving of yourself

I wouldn't count anytime before 12 years of age! Nobody has a relationship before that. You've been single for 14 years.

u r so pretty and good i would have asked you out..

Hi there! I’m turning 25 in a month and came upon your video by chance. I haven’t really been in a relationship either and that has been eating me up for a couple of years now. Even in a traditional society like mine it is quite weird to stay single for such long time. Thanks for making this video. It helped me feel like I’m not alone. Hope this comment finds you well and healthy.

Thats surprising. You seem well put together.

Same boat

It is recommended that you find somebody to date before you hit the wall, has your sexual market value will plummet dramatically

While it does not offend me that women are single for an extended period of time, it's just that they're not the type of women you should date. There's always a reason why a woman is single, which is a big warning sign for men in general. It does not mean that you can't be friends with them. It's just that you do not pursue dating.

I’m almost 27 and I’ve just been in situationships and casual sex. I haven’t really been on a “real” date. I’m on dating sites and it does suck being single. I don’t mind them I’m more confident in life now and my head is more together than it was earlier on.