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life lately: cohortsgiving, momsgiving + why i was scared to start the vlog | weekly vlog
Hey loves! Welcome back to The Simmer Down Diaries! This week’s episode is full of real-life moments, fun events, and cozy family chats. We kicked things off with a busy Friday morning and school drop-off with the girls before getting ready for DMS Cohortsgiving-such a fun event with lots of love and community vibes. Then came Momsgiving 2024, where we celebrated motherhood in the best way possible.
I also opened up about something that’s been on my heart-why I was hesitant to start this vlog. So many people online position themselves as experts, but that never felt right for me. I’m not here to be an expert-I’m here to be an example of what everyday love, business, and parenthood could look like in real time.
Also, if you’re in the DC, Maryland, or Virginia area, you have to check out District MotherHued! It’s an amazing community-driven nonprofit for Black moms that has meant so much to me over the years. From hosting unforgettable events like Momsgiving or the Momference to creating spaces where we can connect, recharge, and just be ourselves-it’s truly one of a kind.
Learn more and get involved:
📸 Instagram: districtmotherhued
💻 Website: www.districtmotherhued.org
Let me know what you think of this episode-I love hearing from you! 🫶🏽✨
0:00 - life lately + weekly recap
00:42 - friday morning welcome
04:33 - otw to school w/ the girls
08:44 - getting ready for cohortsgiving
14:21 - dms cohortsgiving montage
15:45 - saturday morning chat
19:28 - momsgiving 2024
20:08 - sunday night chat: mom guilt + sharing feelings
28:54 - why i was scared to start my vlog
♡ F O L L O W M E ♡
◦ Instagram: / noemiegaines
◦ Substack: / noemiegaines.substack.com/
◦ Our Family Channel: / www.youtube.com/@KierandNoemie/
◦ Business inquiries: hello@noemiegaines.com
Catch you in the next one!
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navigating change: private school regrets, faith journey + real life reflections | weekly vlog
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Hey loves! Welcome back to The Simmer Down Diaries! This is another super chatty episode-longer than usual, but I wanted to share more of what’s been on my mind. I’m working on keeping these under an hour moving forward, but let me know what you think of this format! This week, I opened up about my journey back to Catholicism and shared some honest thoughts about whether private school is still...
saying goodbye: pet fish funeral, daddy-daughter nyc date + leaning on friendships | weekly vlog
มุมมอง 41916 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา
Hey loves! Welcome back to The Simmer Down Diaries! This week’s episode is a super chatty one-it’s over an hour long, but I wanted to see what my unfiltered rants really look like. Am I crazy, or is this relatable? Let me know-I’m open to suggestions! This week, we navigated goodbyes, laughter, and leaning on my village. We said goodbye to Emery’s pet fish (R.I.P. DJ!) with a little funeral tha...
mom’s reaction to my vlog, halloween + holiday photoshoot bts | weekly vlog
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Hey loves! Welcome back to The Simmer Down Diaries! This week’s episode is packed with special moments: I finally shared my vlog journey with my mom, and her words of encouragement meant everything. We also celebrated Halloween with the kids and took you behind the scenes of our holiday photoshoot-it was hectic but so worth it! As a creator, it’s easy to get stuck in your head, but this week I ...
unfiltered mom life: sick toddler, kamala harris rally, halloween prep + more | weekly vlog
มุมมอง 54014 วันที่ผ่านมา
Hey loves! Welcome back to The Simmer Down Diaries! This week has been another whirlwind: dealing with a sick toddler, attending the final Kamala Harris rally before the election, and juggling Halloween prep with our Christmas photoshoot plans. It’s been emotionally heavy, but spending time with my girlfriends has made it a little easier to navigate. I also share a cozy moment cooking dinner fo...
doing it scared: first vlog reactions, mom life + pumpkin adventures | weekly vlog
มุมมอง 88914 วันที่ผ่านมา
Hey loves! Another episode of The Simmer Down Diaries is here, and this week we’re diving into a little bit of everything: launching my vlog (doing it scared!), some interior design inspo in Em’s room, and soaking in all the fall vibes with pumpkin painting and a trip to the pumpkin patch in Maryland. Life is a mix of chaos and cozy moments, and I’m so excited to bring you along as I figure it ...
anniversary trip almost cancelled?! mom life, hurricane drama & finding balance | weekly vlog
มุมมอง 82821 วันที่ผ่านมา
Hey loves! Welcome back to The Simmer Down Diaries! In this episode, we’re celebrating our anniversary with a trip to Curaçao-but it almost didn’t happen! Between a hurricane disrupting flights, worrying about my mom flying in to stay with the girls, and a layover in Miami, it was a rollercoaster of emotions. Thankfully, everything worked out, and we managed to make the most of it. Vlogging is ...
new beginnings! my first episode + mom life, finding balance & more | weekly vlog
มุมมอง 90728 วันที่ผ่านมา
Hey loves! Welcome to the very first episode of The Simmer Down Diaries! 💫 I finally took the plunge and started vlogging! This one’s a little mix of everything: sharing moments of motherhood, balancing work and family, and finding harmony in the little things. Join me as I navigate this new journey, and hopefully, we can inspire each other along the way! Follow me for more real-life moments, m...

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  • @rachelraquelRandR
    @rachelraquelRandR 2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Happy to be here ❤

  • @latisewilson4561
    @latisewilson4561 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Listen. The way you are so calm in the morning - with a commute. I commend you 🙌🏾 I'm inspired to be better. Enjoyed the vlog ❤

  • @_britttanee
    @_britttanee 5 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    It definitely comes off as relatable!

    • @noemiegaines
      @noemiegaines 4 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Thanks love!! 🙌🏾

  • @kirac3129
    @kirac3129 12 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I definitely need an want to hear what you have to say ! Im going thru same things emotionally. It’s just a relief when you know you’re not alone in your thoughts ….. your page came up for me for reason ! GOD did ! Thank u ! I will watch faithfully !:) 🙏🏼😊

    • @noemiegaines
      @noemiegaines 4 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      I'm so glad you found me-I'm hoping to create a space where we can support each other through it all. 💗

  • @Trice_Marie84
    @Trice_Marie84 13 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Love your content. Glad you decided to jump!!

    • @noemiegaines
      @noemiegaines 4 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you so much! And me too 💗

  • @BrenaeJ
    @BrenaeJ 16 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I had no idea you had a channel but I’m so glad I found it. I adore yall ❤

    • @noemiegaines
      @noemiegaines 16 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Aw, thank you so much! I'm so glad you found me! 💕

  • @leslinepittman
    @leslinepittman 17 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    New subscriber! Love your content.

    • @noemiegaines
      @noemiegaines 16 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you so much for joining the fam! 💗

  • @JustRina1
    @JustRina1 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I literally love your vlog. So inspiring ❤️. I’ve been wanting to start vlogging but have been in my head (overthinking )and haven’t started yet.

    • @noemiegaines
      @noemiegaines 16 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Do it!! I was honestly so scared to start too, but sometimes you just had to do it scared! I never expected the turnout to be what it was. I'm sure you have such amazing things to share that someone can take some gems from.💗

  • @Sheetacoop
    @Sheetacoop 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hi Noèmie! Can you please share the epis recipe when you get a chance? Thank you kindly ♥️

    • @noemiegaines
      @noemiegaines 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Here it is - www.noemiegaines.com/blog/epis

  • @IamMarisaChrista
    @IamMarisaChrista 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Damn am I the only one that flush the dead fish down the toilet?!?! lol idk how I feel about fish spirits floating around my backyard. 😂😂😂

    • @noemiegaines
      @noemiegaines 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Lmaoo you are NOT alone!! 😂 We definitely considered the toilet route, but Emery insisted on a ‘proper’ funeral. Hopefully, since we were good to him, he’s a friendly fish spirit chilling in the yard! 🐠👻💗

    • @IamMarisaChrista
      @IamMarisaChrista 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @ ah okay, it was a really sweet touch especially the memories part “I would look at him and then he looked at me…” 🤣🤣🤣

  • @Rie_Defined
    @Rie_Defined 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    So proud of you sisterrrrrr!! These vlogs bring me so much peace Keep up the great work 🫶🏾

    • @noemiegaines
      @noemiegaines 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Aww, thank you sis!! 🥹💗 That means so much coming from you. I’m so glad the vlogs bring you peace-that’s exactly what I hope for. Love you and appreciate your support more than you know! 🫶🏾

  • @latisewilson4561
    @latisewilson4561 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    These vlogs are like catching up with my internet sis after a long week lol ...not to beat a dead horse- but, love the vibes ❤

    • @noemiegaines
      @noemiegaines 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      This is exactly how it feels when I’m filming-like a weekly debrief with my internet fam! 🥹💗 Thank you for being here and for loving the vibes-it means so much!

  • @beethorn
    @beethorn 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I love it here. Not only are you doing your own thing but you’re posting consistently!! 👏🏾👏🏾 Hopefully Emory’s foot is almost healed, if not already.

    • @noemiegaines
      @noemiegaines 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you so much! 💗 I’m really trying to stay consistent, so hearing that means a lot! And yes-Emery gets her cast off in early January. She’s been managing it like a champ!

  • @tierraharris3996
    @tierraharris3996 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Awww Emory crying about her fracture almost made me cry lol

    • @noemiegaines
      @noemiegaines 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Right?! 🥹 Luckily, she’s totally fine now-it was just the shock of it all that really got to her. She may be a little dramatic, but honestly… it was still pretty traumatic! Thank you for watching and for the love!

  • @ruthannbrown8804
    @ruthannbrown8804 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I love these type of content and I love your family. Fan love all the way from Jamaica 🇯🇲

    • @noemiegaines
      @noemiegaines 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you so much! 💗 We love Jamaica! Kier and I have been so many times, and it’s always such a special place for us. Sending lots of Caribbean love from this Haitian girl to you! 🇭🇹🇯🇲

  • @clarecampbell9004
    @clarecampbell9004 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I am coming from the Family Channel. I am enjoying the content. Miss you guys!

    • @noemiegaines
      @noemiegaines 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you so much for coming over! 💗 I’m so glad you’re enjoying the content-it really means the world. We love sharing these moments with you!

  • @QueenKae85
    @QueenKae85 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Taking her socks off can help with her flips! Great vlog.

    • @noemiegaines
      @noemiegaines 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      You’re so right! Those socks were definitely working against her! 😂 Thank you for watching and for the tip-we’ll try that next time!

  • @nzingharobinson2034
    @nzingharobinson2034 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you for giving me something to tune into while I log in my cardio! Love the name btw! Watching you process your overthinking and being so vulnerable is empowering!!

    • @noemiegaines
      @noemiegaines 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      This means so much-thank you for tuning in friend!! 💗

  • @yoadriennelocks8333
    @yoadriennelocks8333 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Another great episode… I love it here!

    • @noemiegaines
      @noemiegaines 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you so much! 💗 I’m so glad you’re enjoying it-I love having you here!

  • @tramichalle
    @tramichalle 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I’ve never been to New York and this is so special my inner child is smiling so big! I never had my dad he’s alive but not ever around and this is so special

    • @noemiegaines
      @noemiegaines 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      🥹💗 I’m so glad this moment resonated with you. Sending so much love your way-and I hope you get to experience New York someday! Thank you for sharing something so personal.

  • @tramichalle
    @tramichalle 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Yes like you said I was inconsistent with posting but with these babies and every single activity for the holidays it was a lot

  • @tramichalle
    @tramichalle 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I was so sad too ❤

  • @tramichalle
    @tramichalle 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You are such a beautiful wonderful mom and wife love it here ❤

    • @noemiegaines
      @noemiegaines 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you so much! 🥹💗 That really means a lot coming from you. I’m so excited to see your journey on here too-you’re going to do amazing things!

  • @yoadriennelocks8333
    @yoadriennelocks8333 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I am truly a fan. I found you via your hubby but I am so glad that I stayed for you. You are my new BFF in my head. What a joy watching you figure it all out. We are so different yet so alike…

    • @noemiegaines
      @noemiegaines 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      This made my whole day! 🥹💗 Thank you so much for sticking around and connecting with me. I love that we can be so different yet still relate on so many levels. I’m so glad you’re here-let’s keep figuring it out together!

  • @tierraharris3996
    @tierraharris3996 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    And shout out to Nessa, love some fancy homebody and love that you aren’t a fashion girly lol.

    • @noemiegaines
      @noemiegaines 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Right?! Nessa and Fancy Homebody are the best! I live in her pieces-they’re comfy but still make you feel put together. And listen… I will happily leave the fashion girly lane to the pros! 😆💗

  • @ShelbyLynnPoati
    @ShelbyLynnPoati 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Love the name and your vulnerability, loving your content ❤

    • @noemiegaines
      @noemiegaines 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thanks so much! It really means the world to me 💗!

  • @Sheetacoop
    @Sheetacoop 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I was in town for Howard’s 100th homecoming in October. Had the outcome been different, I would’ve been back for inauguration. That day after election feeling was mutual. Sydney is funny to me 😂 She definitely made everyone smile during the funeral. RIP DJ The OOTD sweat edition? Authentic.

  • @gutenabend100
    @gutenabend100 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Sydney shaking up DJ Fishmael in the beginning literally sent me to the outermost edges of the galaxy! 😂😂😂😂

    • @noemiegaines
      @noemiegaines 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I’m so glad you enjoyed that moment! Sydney is such a character-she’s always bringing the chaos. 😂

  • @AlieshiaTV
    @AlieshiaTV 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    6 year old daughter????

    • @noemiegaines
      @noemiegaines 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Wild right? Lol love her little self though 💗

    • @AlieshiaTV
      @AlieshiaTV 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@noemiegaines yeah lowkey! Glad yall are able to connect though!

  • @AlieshiaTV
    @AlieshiaTV 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    The nail melted 😢

    • @noemiegaines
      @noemiegaines 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Smh and it was definitely my fault!

    • @noemiegaines
      @noemiegaines 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Right?! 😢 I legit almost burned my nail off! Lesson learned… I’m keeping my hands FAR away from the heat next time! 🔥💅🏾

  • @Trice_Marie84
    @Trice_Marie84 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Beautiful family photos ❤

    • @noemiegaines
      @noemiegaines 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Aw thank you! I love how they turned out! 😍

  • @Trice_Marie84
    @Trice_Marie84 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Love the hair color

    • @noemiegaines
      @noemiegaines 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you!! 💗

  • @Sheetacoop
    @Sheetacoop 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    ♥️

  • @tierraharris3996
    @tierraharris3996 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thanks for sharing the trivia podcast for kids!

    • @noemiegaines
      @noemiegaines 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      You got it! Glad you enjoyed that little shout-out. 💗

  • @tierraharris3996
    @tierraharris3996 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This was really great and inspiring. I enjoyed it from start to finish ❤

    • @noemiegaines
      @noemiegaines 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Wow, thank you so much! It really means the world to hear you say that. 💗

  • @latisewilson4561
    @latisewilson4561 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Loved everything about the vlog 💞..... you could do a Colgate commercial- your smile is perfect lol

    • @noemiegaines
      @noemiegaines 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Awww, thank you! 💗 I’m so glad you enjoyed the vlog!

  • @RaquelMartinPhD
    @RaquelMartinPhD 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You’re doing GREAT job with these vlogs. I love it when my mom visits too. Russell always says she’s his favorite person 🥰

    • @noemiegaines
      @noemiegaines 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you so much!!

  • @RaquelMartinPhD
    @RaquelMartinPhD 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    We all do that check to make sure it’s not poison lol

  • @pvup9777
    @pvup9777 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    ❤🎉

  • @andrearomero2692
    @andrearomero2692 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Congratulations ❤🎉

  • @simplydrea.
    @simplydrea. 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Girl! You just snatched so many thoughts from my head that I couldn't articulate! Thanks for sharing ❤

    • @noemiegaines
      @noemiegaines 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Ahh, thank you!! 💗 I’m so glad it resonated with you. Sometimes putting those thoughts into words feels like a release. Sending love and so much gratitude for being here! 🫶🏽

  • @LGreene92
    @LGreene92 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Love the vlog!! I love your level of transparency and vulnerability. The self therapy session was so good. I need to start doing that more

    • @noemiegaines
      @noemiegaines 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you so much! 💗 I’m glad the self-therapy session resonated with you. It’s something I’ve been working on-giving myself space to reflect and be real. You’ve got this! Starting small makes a big difference. Sending you love and encouragement! 😊

  • @SabrinaGéna-q4j
    @SabrinaGéna-q4j 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Excuseeeeseeeeee me!!!!!! You not sharing that you have a channel Mrs!!!!! 😂

    • @noemiegaines
      @noemiegaines 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Lol y'all know by now how I like to get in my own way!! I'll do better sharing next time 😂 but thank you so much for showing me some love 💗

  • @Sheetacoop
    @Sheetacoop 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hello Noémie, my name is Rasheeta. I figured I should introduce myself since you’re speaking directly to me with this session of yours at the kitchen table. Thank you for thinking it through on camera. It wasn’t meant for just you. Happy to be here ♥️

    • @noemiegaines
      @noemiegaines 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Heyyy Rasheeta, thank you for introducing yourself! It really warms my heart to know that this resonated with you in such a personal way. I was definitely sorting my own thoughts, but knowing it connected with you too makes it all so worth it. I’m so glad you’re here 💗.

  • @reese-arnold
    @reese-arnold 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I like how you give us either a recap or a preview in the beginning for the intro so far!

  • @mazycklb
    @mazycklb 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    “I feel like im exactly where im supposed to be doing exactly what im supposed to Do, but why doesn’t it feel good?!” Is SUCHHHH real self dialogue! I love that you created the language and safety you needed to process your feelings! I needed to see this, we need more of this!

    • @noemiegaines
      @noemiegaines 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you so much! 💗 That inner dialogue is so real and something I’ve wrestled with a lot. Creating the space and language to process those feelings has been such a journey, and I’m so glad it resonated with you. We really do need more of these honest conversations-I’m so grateful to share this space with you!

  • @mazycklb
    @mazycklb 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    “I feel like im exactly where im supposed to be doing exactly what im supposed to Do, but why doesn’t it feel good?!” Is SUCHHHH real self dialogue!

  • @CassidyGrace410
    @CassidyGrace410 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I'm so grateful for you taking the leap to do these vlogs. I've seen you on IG and get the feeling that you're a pretty dope person. Keep showing up and letting your light shine. ❤️

    • @noemiegaines
      @noemiegaines 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you so much! This truly means the world to me. 💗 Taking the leap to do these vlogs has been scary but so rewarding, and hearing this kind of encouragement keeps me going. I’m so grateful for your support and so happy to have you here. 🫶🏽

  • @KatiDTownsel
    @KatiDTownsel 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I had to stop this video and slide into these comments because sis…I feel so similarly to you! To have achieved so much and now feel…”meh” for lack of better words lol. I truly commend you because I realized that I’ll have the initial thoughts/feelings, but never take the time to work through them like this. It’s motivating me to pause and reflect deeper than what now seems like surface level self-talk. So thank you for sharing this and inspiring others. Ok, let me finish the video now! 😂

    • @noemiegaines
      @noemiegaines 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Wow, thank you so much for this! 💗 I completely get that ‘meh’ feeling-it’s so real. It means so much to know that sharing my process is resonating with you. Pausing and reflecting isn’t always easy, but it’s such a game-changer when we give ourselves that space. I’m so glad this is motivating you to dive deeper-you’ve got this! 🫶🏽 Now go finish the video and tell me what you think lol 😂

  • @yoadriennelocks8333
    @yoadriennelocks8333 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I don’t even know why I am here, lol. I love you and your family. I am probably old enough to be your mom but I love it here for some reason. I’m sure I am not your targeted demographic but …

    • @noemiegaines
      @noemiegaines 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you so much! It looks like your message got cut off, but from what you said so far, it truly made my day! 💗 It means so much that you’re here and enjoying this space. I love that this community can connect with so many different people-it’s a beautiful reminder that connection has no limits. So grateful to have you here!