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Coach David Ades
เข้าร่วมเมื่อ 26 ต.ค. 2020
$50 Coaching calls + Free 30-Minute "introduction" call:
Your Inner Compass
It's "love"; it's "God"!; it's "truth"; it's you!!! It's nothing, everything, and in-between. Only one thing is certain: It *is*. You *are*. Leave the details up to the devil.
Your inner compass is a quiet whisper. It lives beneath the falsehoods of the inner critic, the stupidities of our world, traumas, and so much more. It's been beaten, bruised, and so much more. It's the you that you don't even know. It's more you than you will ever be.
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Your inner compass is a quiet whisper. It lives beneath the falsehoods of the inner critic, the stupidities of our world, traumas, and so much more. It's been beaten, bruised, and so much more. It's the you that you don't even know. It's more you than you will ever be.
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Book a free 15-30 minute consultation: www.calendly.com/coachdavidades
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See more & get in touch:
coachdavidades
www.tiktok.com/@coachdavidades
coachdavidades
Davidadeslifecoach@gmail.com
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Support the channel: www.paypal.com/cgi-bin/webscr?cmd=_donations&business=HMFGMQL6ND48Q¤cy_code=USD
#mentalhealth
#traumahealing
#depressionsupport
#anxietysupport
#innerchild
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Trust the process(?)
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WHAT PROCESS? LOL. IT'S YOU!! LOLLL *goes insane* *shaves head* (oops already did that) Book a free 15-30 minute consultation: www.calendly.com/coachdavidades See more & get in touch: coachdavidades www.tiktok.com/@coachdavidades coachdavidades Davidadeslifecoach@gmail.com Support the channel: www.paypal.com/cgi-bin/webscr?cmd=_donations&business=HMFGMQL6ND48Q¤c...
YOU ARE A BURDEN!! :)(:
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Hey, you! Stop not being a burden! Er, wait. Stop don't be a burden! No, I mean.. ugh I'm so annoying :( Acceptance is what allows for change. Book a free 15-30 minute consultation: www.calendly.com/coachdavidades See more & get in touch: coachdavidades www.tiktok.com/@coachdavidades coachdavidades Davidadeslifecoach@gmail.com Support the channel: www.paypal.com/cgi-b...
Learning to Love (Again?)
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Love is the only answer to empty existence. Schedule a free 30-minute consultation!: www.calendly.com/coachdavidades See more & get in touch: coachdavidades www.tiktok.com/@coachdavidades coachdavidades Davidadeslifecoach@gmail.com Support the channel: www.paypal.com/cgi-bin/webscr?cmd=_donations&business=HMFGMQL6ND48Q¤cy_code=USD #mentalhealth #traumahealing #d...
PAY attention $$ (self-improvement)
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The (average) quality of your attention will determine your (average) experience of your life. The "secret" to your "next level" of psychological freedom (and other kinds of freedom) is attention. You know this already. You are told to journal (pay attention to psyche), you are told to meditate (pay attention to your psyche), you are told to exercise (pay attention to your body), and the list g...
Work smarter not harder (self-improvement)
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Things are already working. You don't have to try so hard. The degree to which you try too hard correlates to how unaware you are that things are in progress. You do not fail to try hard enough, you fail to slow down, shut up, and actually help yourself swim. Schedule a call (free 30-minute introduction): www.calendly.com/coachdavidades See more & get in touch: coachdavidades www....
Sustainable Self-Improvement
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You're lazy! You lack discipline! Just kidding. Give yourself the benefit of the doubt that the things that inhibit you from functioning in the way that you wish and the versions of yourself that feel so inhibited are worthy of your respect. As a complex human being, the things that inhibit you, stress you, frustrate you, are not meaningless inconveniences. If you want to grow, you will have to...
Beating Yourself Up
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Beating yourself up can be helpful when, for example, umm.... hmmm. Beating yourself up can be helpful... when you're.... in a competition to see who can beat themselves up the fastest? All jokes aside, it makes sense to consider the idea that, in order to be better versions of ourselves, we might have to eliminate some things from ourselves AKA "beat ourselves up" a little bit. But on a day-to...
Fostering a Carefree Nature
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To foster a carefree nature, we must direct our attention towards the psychological building blocks of being carefree. In this video I suppose that there are two (main) components to a carefree nature: 1) A sense of safety, belonging, security, etc., in oneself 2) A liberated appetite for life My website: www.coachdavidades.com $50 Coaching Calls Free 15-30 Minute Introduction: www.calendly.com...
The "How to" of Authentic Self-Actualization
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The "How to" of Authentic Self-Actualization
Connect to your Dark Side thru Creativity
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Connect to your Dark Side thru Creativity
Stop Caring About What Other People Think
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Stop Caring About What Other People Think
How to (Healthily) Get Away from Yourself
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How to (Healthily) Get Away from Yourself
Thank you so much for the great video. I've been trying to focus more, on the things that my inner voice wants me to do the most. And that feels great.
That bit near the end where you gave concrete "homework" (if you will) was really helpful. Really puts things into perspective
Really well said. Thank you for such a great insight. 💙🙏👏
Mine is just the opposite I would do anything not to ever cry again
“Spending enough time failing to treat yourself as if you do matter” reallllly hit me. I think just that one line alone gives me some insight with what I’ve been doing wrong my whole life and how to move forward. Thank you.
Love the metaphor of the pillar… 😊
Hi Coach 😁 Hi Bill! That was actually awesome. I still have to remind myself on a regular basis that it's okay to need or want or ask because it is still a reflex to feel like a burden. Do you know one thing I loved about it on a personal level? 🤔 I think 6 months ago I would have had a totally different reaction to this video then I did tonight. And one reason that excites me is because when I was taking in what you were saying.... Which I do think applies to what I struggle with... I wasn't afraid to feel what normally used to bring me so much pain I used to want to cover my face from it. I like that through coaching with you and through my own climb for growth that I no longer hide from painful feelings. It's such a freeing feeling to be like... "Yeeaaaaa.. ughhh.. that's so uncomfortable.." And then just feel it without sinking down..... **Instead of** feeling it and literally wanting to bury myself into a hole and not let anybody see me or not feel it at all. 🙌 And I'd also say I'm glad I see the necessity of feeling it and also being realistic about the truth... because when I used to hide from it, it just felt unbearable and it felt hot like a hot poker so you never wanted to feel those feelings... Where as now there's been so many times where it's been a safe space to feel them whether in a coaching call or doing it on my own that I realize it's not always pleasant but it really is where the growth starts. ❤ And it doesn't bury me anymore to face what used to hurt or be hard. 🙌💪🙏 I enjoyed how you said it's okay to consider that you are a burden and accept that to the deepest step that is. And then I see where you went both sides of it. Super helpful. I will never be able to thank you enough for all of your coaching! It has been a rare experience because very few people listen to the extent you listen and just give a really safe and present place to "feel" things in real time without struggling so much. This week I reflected how much I've appreciated not going up and down so often in my thoughts or feelings but really just starting to accept myself and like myself and realize there's things to work on but there's also good things and I'm good with it. I don't feel like my identity is being shaken every 2 minutes. I LOVE THAT!!! 🙌🙌🙌 Thank you for your awesome videos! And I hope you have a 🎉great🎉 Wednesday since it's already Tuesday night! 🤗 Bye coach! Bye Bill! 😁
Bill says hello. Er, goodbye 😜 Thank you for all of the love, Monika. You're a super star 🌠 Please stay the way you are. No--even better--continue to become more of who you are 🫵💪
Bro you are such an underrated human being. I Hope this channel get the recognition it deserves.
That's such a sick compliment 🤘 Takes one to know one, chief
Why do I sound like myself
Inner child I'm 14 this video helped me alot dow thanks
Well said! It comes from somewhere!
I need to know how to cry because last 5 years I don’t know why I can’t cry
Now a days i don't feeling crying at all
Hi David, it was a very deep thinking about existential problems. Many of us live in solitude. We percept the world like love does not exists on this planet. But it exists and it should be part of our life. I wish to have some switch to enable back that feeling.
if we assume that the switch exists--which we should--then it is you. you are the switch. there are some things about yourself, and about your life, that you must "switch". no?
@@CoachDavidAdes True. I have an issue with fear that is so toxic and blocking happiness and willing to go to the unknown to seek happiness and love there. First it was COVID that cut off a few years and now it's a war in my country. It will disappear and I will go forward.
@@andriidanylov9453 I'm not sure if it will disappear, but I am sure that you can grow stronger so that it doesn't bother you so much. Then, it doesn't matter if it disappears or not. Consider scheduling a free consultation with me, even if we don't book any sessions together. Peace.
@@CoachDavidAdes Hi David. Yes. I will come back. I just faced with some extremely painful family problems that suppressed me very hard. I finished one project successfully from 2023 and try to finish in near future. It is extremely hard and eating a lot of my time. I try to come to You a little different person who complete and overcome many problems and internal mental issues linked to that. I have watched only fourth part of You videos and have a lot of to watch. Sometimes I hear that You are talking very wise things but I can just feel it because overloaded with bad mood or feel of despair and think that I will come back to them when I will be more peaceful. Wish You a great summer.
Pay attention...... And then you die. 😄😄😄 I really enjoyed your lighthearted and fun banter during this. 😁 Another excellent video! 🙌🙏🙌
So tiring!!
Inner-critic
Last time I cried was at my uncles funeral. That was about 6 year ago. Wish I could cry but it never comes.
THANK YOU
I'm sorry.. 😭
❤️❤️❤️🙌
I'm lile a merman I'm unable to cry because mer people can't shed tears underwater so we take the pain even harder than humans can. I'm a merman. I can't cry. It's hard for me to cry.
Love ❤ work in progress❤
Now i know why all this is happening to me. Thank you ❤
slowly you will know
thanks for this David, is this something related to shadow integration?
yes. you've got the right idea
I dont know why i cry very easly .. i feel i am very week … this feeling is really dipressing for me … i cant control my emotions … i dont know whats wrong with me i feel very very wek
There is no way tbh. Dying is the solution to everything but its not right so we gota go thru whatever it is. 🤷🏻
We'll die..every single person will die. But It hurts so much when We can't express our feelings, even if someone insults, it doesn’t give any feelings... I'm sick of myself...Maybe I hate myself...
Damn a honest life coach
haha!!
Thank you david. I just went upt from bed sitting down with the feelings. I experienced it in the last times exactly the way you talked about. It is childhood pain and I resonate with the feeling of wanting to cry. You helped me now again with the reminder that nothing is wrong here. Being just present with the feeling and allow us to feel as full as we can is the most important thing I think.Thank you David for a perfect reminder and I wish you all the best, if you want tell me/us a little bit more of your story,..
I juzt need to get it out bro i cant keep it in puberty is hard man i knoe people are going threw worse but still its just life went from perfect to girlfriends exes dead family it just rushes in
I came from instagram and this is the best thing happened to me today , your word hit in to the deep of the subject i already feel that something is happening inside it's like believing in sth for too long and now i realize it's not my truth or who i am , it's the inner critic and the prouve is that i did some great achievements in my life that a lazy person _like the one my inner critic try to say i am_ can not dooooo🎉🎉🎉
I thought I had already responded to this! This is a lovely comment. I hope you are having a lovely day.
What does feeling something mean anymore damn. Idk I just go through the motions ngl
😂😂😂
I’m trying
This is such a good point. The mind will do anything to survive.. it’s not conceded with happiness/success.
Concerned
This is me, it’s hard for me to cry even though i’m experiencing a very sad fleeting moment.
but its been almost a year, i just want to be able to let it out
Wow… this was on point. Thank you.
Thank you Kimberley. My pleasure.
What is the title of this particular topic? I feel like inside an emotional coffin right now.
Thank you soo much...I really needed this clear explanation
thank you for this, this makes me feel heard, coach david
love these videos man . a couple have made me cry and feel better . thank you
So dope to read. Thanks Mikey.
Where’s the ❤ button on this damn platform? This message hit hard, got teary even. Thx David.
Haha, you found it! Thank you too, brother💪
What a great video, thanks David
Thank you so much!!
Loving this🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽So on point!!!! And definitely resonates. Emotions. Like waves, can not be stopped. Did you know that Guilt, Shame, Abandonment, Powerlessness, Boredom, just to name a few, all fall under Sorrow? The charge of each emotion creates and enforces beliefs that initially may have served in whatever capacity. But no longer serves after the event or incident.
Still waters run deep, but unlike narcissus , the reflection in the water wants nothing more than to drag me deep below. But we both end up sitting in the bank forever. Thank you for pointing out the double edged sword. I wouldve ended in death by a thousand cuts.
ozymandiaz lifts!!..? let's go \m/
😂 so good
I've lost everything already in life. Except my own life
Inner-critic
I’ve been this way since my tbi and stroke. Smh
watched this cuz i seriously cant feel anything chat am i cooked