Coach David Ades
Coach David Ades
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Your Inner Compass
It's "love"; it's "God"!; it's "truth"; it's you!!! It's nothing, everything, and in-between. Only one thing is certain: It *is*. You *are*. Leave the details up to the devil.
Your inner compass is a quiet whisper. It lives beneath the falsehoods of the inner critic, the stupidities of our world, traumas, and so much more. It's been beaten, bruised, and so much more. It's the you that you don't even know. It's more you than you will ever be.
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Trust the process(?)
มุมมอง 1059 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา
WHAT PROCESS? LOL. IT'S YOU!! LOLLL *goes insane* *shaves head* (oops already did that) Book a free 15-30 minute consultation: www.calendly.com/coachdavidades See more & get in touch: coachdavidades www.tiktok.com/@coachdavidades coachdavidades Davidadeslifecoach@gmail.com Support the channel: www.paypal.com/cgi-bin/webscr?cmd=_donations&business=HMFGMQL6ND48Q¤c...
YOU ARE A BURDEN!! :)(:
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Hey, you! Stop not being a burden! Er, wait. Stop don't be a burden! No, I mean.. ugh I'm so annoying :( Acceptance is what allows for change. Book a free 15-30 minute consultation: www.calendly.com/coachdavidades See more & get in touch: coachdavidades www.tiktok.com/@coachdavidades coachdavidades Davidadeslifecoach@gmail.com Support the channel: www.paypal.com/cgi-b...
Learning to Love (Again?)
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Love is the only answer to empty existence. Schedule a free 30-minute consultation!: www.calendly.com/coachdavidades See more & get in touch: coachdavidades www.tiktok.com/@coachdavidades coachdavidades Davidadeslifecoach@gmail.com Support the channel: www.paypal.com/cgi-bin/webscr?cmd=_donations&business=HMFGMQL6ND48Q¤cy_code=USD #mentalhealth #traumahealing #d...
PAY attention $$ (self-improvement)
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The (average) quality of your attention will determine your (average) experience of your life. The "secret" to your "next level" of psychological freedom (and other kinds of freedom) is attention. You know this already. You are told to journal (pay attention to psyche), you are told to meditate (pay attention to your psyche), you are told to exercise (pay attention to your body), and the list g...
Work smarter not harder (self-improvement)
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Things are already working. You don't have to try so hard. The degree to which you try too hard correlates to how unaware you are that things are in progress. You do not fail to try hard enough, you fail to slow down, shut up, and actually help yourself swim. Schedule a call (free 30-minute introduction): www.calendly.com/coachdavidades See more & get in touch: coachdavidades www....
Sustainable Self-Improvement
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You're lazy! You lack discipline! Just kidding. Give yourself the benefit of the doubt that the things that inhibit you from functioning in the way that you wish and the versions of yourself that feel so inhibited are worthy of your respect. As a complex human being, the things that inhibit you, stress you, frustrate you, are not meaningless inconveniences. If you want to grow, you will have to...
Beating Yourself Up
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Beating yourself up can be helpful when, for example, umm.... hmmm. Beating yourself up can be helpful... when you're.... in a competition to see who can beat themselves up the fastest? All jokes aside, it makes sense to consider the idea that, in order to be better versions of ourselves, we might have to eliminate some things from ourselves AKA "beat ourselves up" a little bit. But on a day-to...
Fostering a Carefree Nature
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To foster a carefree nature, we must direct our attention towards the psychological building blocks of being carefree. In this video I suppose that there are two (main) components to a carefree nature: 1) A sense of safety, belonging, security, etc., in oneself 2) A liberated appetite for life My website: www.coachdavidades.com $50 Coaching Calls Free 15-30 Minute Introduction: www.calendly.com...
Opening Up to Life
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Opening Up to Life
How to Be Present
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How to Be Present
Mindfulness in the Worst Moments
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Mindfulness in the Worst Moments
The "How to" of Authentic Self-Actualization
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The "How to" of Authentic Self-Actualization
Obsessed with "Alpha"
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Obsessed with "Alpha"
Self-Support
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Self-Support
How We Sense Purpose (or don't)
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How We Sense Purpose (or don't)
Showing Up for Yourself Over Time
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Showing Up for Yourself Over Time
Healthy Masculine Support
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Healthy Masculine Support
Be Dumb to Enjoy Life
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Be Dumb to Enjoy Life
It's Hard to Be Alone
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It's Hard to Be Alone
Restoring Personal Energies
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Restoring Personal Energies
Your "Self" is a Separate Person
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Your "Self" is a Separate Person
Connect to your Dark Side thru Creativity
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Connect to your Dark Side thru Creativity
How to Reward Yourself
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How to Reward Yourself
Stop Caring About What Other People Think
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Stop Caring About What Other People Think
Therapy Taught Me How to Be Selfish
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Therapy Taught Me How to Be Selfish
Depression to Hypomania and Back
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Depression to Hypomania and Back
I'm too Lazy to Self-Improve
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I'm too Lazy to Self-Improve
Find Support for Yourself NOW
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Find Support for Yourself NOW
How to (Healthily) Get Away from Yourself
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How to (Healthily) Get Away from Yourself

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  • @FSarah-sm6em
    @FSarah-sm6em วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you so much for the great video. I've been trying to focus more, on the things that my inner voice wants me to do the most. And that feels great.

  • @ddaeguqt
    @ddaeguqt วันที่ผ่านมา

    That bit near the end where you gave concrete "homework" (if you will) was really helpful. Really puts things into perspective

  • @meriksen_
    @meriksen_ 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Really well said. Thank you for such a great insight. 💙🙏👏

  • @MelindaValencia-ui3xl
    @MelindaValencia-ui3xl 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Mine is just the opposite I would do anything not to ever cry again

  • @FOOMIZE
    @FOOMIZE 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    “Spending enough time failing to treat yourself as if you do matter” reallllly hit me. I think just that one line alone gives me some insight with what I’ve been doing wrong my whole life and how to move forward. Thank you.

  • @reneurbanovich
    @reneurbanovich 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Love the metaphor of the pillar… 😊

  • @meriksen_
    @meriksen_ 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hi Coach 😁 Hi Bill! That was actually awesome. I still have to remind myself on a regular basis that it's okay to need or want or ask because it is still a reflex to feel like a burden. Do you know one thing I loved about it on a personal level? 🤔 I think 6 months ago I would have had a totally different reaction to this video then I did tonight. And one reason that excites me is because when I was taking in what you were saying.... Which I do think applies to what I struggle with... I wasn't afraid to feel what normally used to bring me so much pain I used to want to cover my face from it. I like that through coaching with you and through my own climb for growth that I no longer hide from painful feelings. It's such a freeing feeling to be like... "Yeeaaaaa.. ughhh.. that's so uncomfortable.." And then just feel it without sinking down..... **Instead of** feeling it and literally wanting to bury myself into a hole and not let anybody see me or not feel it at all. 🙌 And I'd also say I'm glad I see the necessity of feeling it and also being realistic about the truth... because when I used to hide from it, it just felt unbearable and it felt hot like a hot poker so you never wanted to feel those feelings... Where as now there's been so many times where it's been a safe space to feel them whether in a coaching call or doing it on my own that I realize it's not always pleasant but it really is where the growth starts. ❤ And it doesn't bury me anymore to face what used to hurt or be hard. 🙌💪🙏 I enjoyed how you said it's okay to consider that you are a burden and accept that to the deepest step that is. And then I see where you went both sides of it. Super helpful. I will never be able to thank you enough for all of your coaching! It has been a rare experience because very few people listen to the extent you listen and just give a really safe and present place to "feel" things in real time without struggling so much. This week I reflected how much I've appreciated not going up and down so often in my thoughts or feelings but really just starting to accept myself and like myself and realize there's things to work on but there's also good things and I'm good with it. I don't feel like my identity is being shaken every 2 minutes. I LOVE THAT!!! 🙌🙌🙌 Thank you for your awesome videos! And I hope you have a 🎉great🎉 Wednesday since it's already Tuesday night! 🤗 Bye coach! Bye Bill! 😁

    • @CoachDavidAdes
      @CoachDavidAdes 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Bill says hello. Er, goodbye 😜 Thank you for all of the love, Monika. You're a super star 🌠 Please stay the way you are. No--even better--continue to become more of who you are 🫵💪

  • @VLADMOTIVATES
    @VLADMOTIVATES 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Bro you are such an underrated human being. I Hope this channel get the recognition it deserves.

    • @CoachDavidAdes
      @CoachDavidAdes 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      That's such a sick compliment 🤘 Takes one to know one, chief

  • @beartheburn3863
    @beartheburn3863 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Why do I sound like myself

  • @MobPsycho100c
    @MobPsycho100c 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Inner child I'm 14 this video helped me alot dow thanks

  • @reneurbanovich
    @reneurbanovich 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Well said! It comes from somewhere!

  • @tuxedogaming546
    @tuxedogaming546 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I need to know how to cry because last 5 years I don’t know why I can’t cry

  • @piyaliroy3417
    @piyaliroy3417 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Now a days i don't feeling crying at all

  • @andriidanylov9453
    @andriidanylov9453 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hi David, it was a very deep thinking about existential problems. Many of us live in solitude. We percept the world like love does not exists on this planet. But it exists and it should be part of our life. I wish to have some switch to enable back that feeling.

    • @CoachDavidAdes
      @CoachDavidAdes 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      if we assume that the switch exists--which we should--then it is you. you are the switch. there are some things about yourself, and about your life, that you must "switch". no?

    • @andriidanylov9453
      @andriidanylov9453 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@CoachDavidAdes True. I have an issue with fear that is so toxic and blocking happiness and willing to go to the unknown to seek happiness and love there. First it was COVID that cut off a few years and now it's a war in my country. It will disappear and I will go forward.

    • @CoachDavidAdes
      @CoachDavidAdes 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@andriidanylov9453 I'm not sure if it will disappear, but I am sure that you can grow stronger so that it doesn't bother you so much. Then, it doesn't matter if it disappears or not. Consider scheduling a free consultation with me, even if we don't book any sessions together. Peace.

    • @andriidanylov9453
      @andriidanylov9453 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@CoachDavidAdes Hi David. Yes. I will come back. I just faced with some extremely painful family problems that suppressed me very hard. I finished one project successfully from 2023 and try to finish in near future. It is extremely hard and eating a lot of my time. I try to come to You a little different person who complete and overcome many problems and internal mental issues linked to that. I have watched only fourth part of You videos and have a lot of to watch. Sometimes I hear that You are talking very wise things but I can just feel it because overloaded with bad mood or feel of despair and think that I will come back to them when I will be more peaceful. Wish You a great summer.

  • @meriksen_
    @meriksen_ 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Pay attention...... And then you die. 😄😄😄 I really enjoyed your lighthearted and fun banter during this. 😁 Another excellent video! 🙌🙏🙌

  • @rifaatrafiq9994
    @rifaatrafiq9994 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    So tiring!!

  • @Loveddeeply626
    @Loveddeeply626 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Inner-critic

  • @ArtemisiaDS3
    @ArtemisiaDS3 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Last time I cried was at my uncles funeral. That was about 6 year ago. Wish I could cry but it never comes.

  • @redbluebae4397
    @redbluebae4397 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    THANK YOU

  • @EroticZaa
    @EroticZaa 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I'm sorry.. 😭

  • @meriksen_
    @meriksen_ 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    ❤️❤️❤️🙌

  • @spiritconjure2996
    @spiritconjure2996 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I'm lile a merman I'm unable to cry because mer people can't shed tears underwater so we take the pain even harder than humans can. I'm a merman. I can't cry. It's hard for me to cry.

  • @reneurbanovich
    @reneurbanovich 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Love ❤ work in progress❤

  • @madhurisharma4577
    @madhurisharma4577 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Now i know why all this is happening to me. Thank you ❤

    • @CoachDavidAdes
      @CoachDavidAdes 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      slowly you will know

  • @VLADMOTIVATES
    @VLADMOTIVATES 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    thanks for this David, is this something related to shadow integration?

    • @CoachDavidAdes
      @CoachDavidAdes 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      yes. you've got the right idea

  • @RohanGulig
    @RohanGulig 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I dont know why i cry very easly .. i feel i am very week … this feeling is really dipressing for me … i cant control my emotions … i dont know whats wrong with me i feel very very wek

  • @mazfarnadeem1846
    @mazfarnadeem1846 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    There is no way tbh. Dying is the solution to everything but its not right so we gota go thru whatever it is. 🤷🏻

    • @user-cl3bd3kz7d
      @user-cl3bd3kz7d 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      We'll die..every single person will die. But It hurts so much when We can't express our feelings, even if someone insults, it doesn’t give any feelings... I'm sick of myself...Maybe I hate myself...

  • @marsship921
    @marsship921 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Damn a honest life coach

  • @peacefulmillionaire
    @peacefulmillionaire หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you david. I just went upt from bed sitting down with the feelings. I experienced it in the last times exactly the way you talked about. It is childhood pain and I resonate with the feeling of wanting to cry. You helped me now again with the reminder that nothing is wrong here. Being just present with the feeling and allow us to feel as full as we can is the most important thing I think.Thank you David for a perfect reminder and I wish you all the best, if you want tell me/us a little bit more of your story,..

  • @TripleAaAngel
    @TripleAaAngel หลายเดือนก่อน

    I juzt need to get it out bro i cant keep it in puberty is hard man i knoe people are going threw worse but still its just life went from perfect to girlfriends exes dead family it just rushes in

  • @nesroulina6821
    @nesroulina6821 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I came from instagram and this is the best thing happened to me today , your word hit in to the deep of the subject i already feel that something is happening inside it's like believing in sth for too long and now i realize it's not my truth or who i am , it's the inner critic and the prouve is that i did some great achievements in my life that a lazy person _like the one my inner critic try to say i am_ can not dooooo🎉🎉🎉

    • @CoachDavidAdes
      @CoachDavidAdes 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I thought I had already responded to this! This is a lovely comment. I hope you are having a lovely day.

  • @AaronTapp
    @AaronTapp หลายเดือนก่อน

    What does feeling something mean anymore damn. Idk I just go through the motions ngl

  • @KyIe-nj4tq
    @KyIe-nj4tq หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m trying

  • @Michael-xp4cd
    @Michael-xp4cd หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is such a good point. The mind will do anything to survive.. it’s not conceded with happiness/success.

  • @caresseabarquez148
    @caresseabarquez148 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is me, it’s hard for me to cry even though i’m experiencing a very sad fleeting moment.

  • @SharonQuincey
    @SharonQuincey หลายเดือนก่อน

    but its been almost a year, i just want to be able to let it out

  • @beautifulmonster4u
    @beautifulmonster4u หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow… this was on point. Thank you.

    • @CoachDavidAdes
      @CoachDavidAdes หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you Kimberley. My pleasure.

  • @naitsirhcchristian1432
    @naitsirhcchristian1432 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What is the title of this particular topic? I feel like inside an emotional coffin right now.

  • @sweety2817
    @sweety2817 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you soo much...I really needed this clear explanation

  • @bubbajojo4851
    @bubbajojo4851 หลายเดือนก่อน

    thank you for this, this makes me feel heard, coach david

  • @MikeyIava
    @MikeyIava หลายเดือนก่อน

    love these videos man . a couple have made me cry and feel better . thank you

    • @CoachDavidAdes
      @CoachDavidAdes หลายเดือนก่อน

      So dope to read. Thanks Mikey.

  • @scottdaris
    @scottdaris หลายเดือนก่อน

    Where’s the ❤ button on this damn platform? This message hit hard, got teary even. Thx David.

    • @CoachDavidAdes
      @CoachDavidAdes หลายเดือนก่อน

      Haha, you found it! Thank you too, brother💪

  • @EnglishCassettes
    @EnglishCassettes หลายเดือนก่อน

    What a great video, thanks David

    • @CoachDavidAdes
      @CoachDavidAdes หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much!!

  • @Oliviamsoleil777
    @Oliviamsoleil777 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Loving this🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽So on point!!!! And definitely resonates. Emotions. Like waves, can not be stopped. Did you know that Guilt, Shame, Abandonment, Powerlessness, Boredom, just to name a few, all fall under Sorrow? The charge of each emotion creates and enforces beliefs that initially may have served in whatever capacity. But no longer serves after the event or incident.

  • @ozymvndiaz
    @ozymvndiaz หลายเดือนก่อน

    Still waters run deep, but unlike narcissus , the reflection in the water wants nothing more than to drag me deep below. But we both end up sitting in the bank forever. Thank you for pointing out the double edged sword. I wouldve ended in death by a thousand cuts.

    • @CoachDavidAdes
      @CoachDavidAdes หลายเดือนก่อน

      ozymandiaz lifts!!..? let's go \m/

  • @cqpandorabear
    @cqpandorabear 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    😂 so good

  • @Keith-tz2jy
    @Keith-tz2jy 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I've lost everything already in life. Except my own life

  • @francisjipson6749
    @francisjipson6749 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Inner-critic

  • @niacrockett7293
    @niacrockett7293 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’ve been this way since my tbi and stroke. Smh

  • @vlonepr3d4tor
    @vlonepr3d4tor 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    watched this cuz i seriously cant feel anything chat am i cooked