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Boldfinds
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เข้าร่วมเมื่อ 10 ธ.ค. 2020
Full time eBay reseller based in Surrey. Please follow my channel for all reselling related content and Ebay tips and tricks.
£300 A Day PROFIT. Easy isn't it...
Welcome to The Parcel Drop. I speak about what ever is on my mind including Work, Life ,Growth And challenges we face.
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Hi mate, I've been thinking about joining the technsport group but I'm hesitating. Watching his videos I wonder how relevant they are with him in America. The volume he finds compared to us and the brands we don't have in the UK. How useful and relevant do you find it?
Maybe you need spiritual time Do some reflecting and gratitude to God for giving us life and that should keep you going You will always win when you put God first
@@user-cn5xy2bn2j sure
Hello James did you say £18 or £80 a day eBay costs?
@@kdad-00 £80 mate. Included all my personal bills as eBay is my job 👍
@ wow that was a quick reply. It’s expensive living and working ain’t it. Keep on going mate if anyone can do it through all the ups and downs to can do it. I’ve been watching and listening to you mostly on TH-cam over the years and the hard hard work it takes. Keep it up mate. Kdad Kevin
@ cheers mate! On the cool down at the gym 🤣
I'm not sure how easy it would be to find 15 x £20 profit items per day. I find on an average sourcing day I can find about £100 profit worth of items. I don't know what more I could do that I could improve that. If I get lucky I might find an occasional high value item or a decent facebook marketplace bundle but on average I think £100 in my situation is where I am
@@MasterofPieces good to see you mate! It’s not easy at all but it’s possible I’ve seen people do it. The key is a mix of ways to find stock and having a source would make it less strain. I’m thinking 20 listed making 15 is actually more doable. You smash it for part time mate should be proud
I Clicked on this video ,hoping to watch a boot sale video , But what a waste of time ,it was all about you 👎👎👎🤑
@@MalcolmJames-sg3zg yep my channel so it’s about me 😂 make a channel and you can make it about me instead of you if you fancy 🤣🤦
Reporting for duty
@@technsports I see you! 👀
Fab car.sern lots of Xmas decorations up in my area.put mine up in 8 days.but love to see them.nice one leanne🎉xx
Thanks for watching!
Problem you have is time Took you 8 hrs to source 15 good items now you have to go home pick and pack items sold then list your 15 items for the day,. Your 8 HR day just become 14 hrs plus. Watched your mate video other day gentleman marketeer he did video went gym then packed his orders then went sourcing all afternoon. No mention of listing at all. The problem with you tubers make it sound easy £300 a day bloody hard work you need suppliers you won't get that just going charity shops and bootsales. Not being negative but it's true. Not trolling either but your giving a false impression that it's easy.
@@bezzle123 absolutely it’s bloody hard! Not once have I ever made it out to be easy. Let’s break down yesterday. 6am wake up 6:30 gym 7:30 orders packed and labels printed 8:15 left home 3:45pm parcels dropped at shop 4:30pm insta live for an hour. 6:00pm 15 items photographed and listed Finished at 8:00pm. How can I make this day shorter it’s simple. Get better knowledge meaning less time in the shop researching. I would guess I left behind 50 items yesterday which would have met the metrics but due to knowledge I have to spend more time looking for what I know. Also the goal would be to have your listings scheduled and ready to go the day before you do a huge sourcing trip so once home the day is done. That would be the plan. It’s possible for sure 👌
@boldfinds Did you do this process again today? And 2moro? 14 HR days prob be on less than minimum wage at the moment in fact you will be. The time spent sourcing is the killer.
@bezzle123 yep 15 live again today most of the items from vinted and the 5 extra from yesterdays hunt. Also went local and picked up a few more. It’s a grind for sure there is no two ways about it and I agree with a supplier life becomes a little easier. I stand by what I said before I’ve never ever made this look easy and I challenge you to find the video showing that. Have a good day
@@boldfinds Maybe not you but lots you tubers do people like George Ross making out it's easy and then take £50 to bootsale as they are skint. Think finding suppliers the hardest part as it's the most time consuming. Wish you well on the grind though.
@ appreciate your viewpoint on it all. I stress though none of this is easy
Head down mate source source source dont worry about targets or goals just get out there & find the good items that sell. We want 2 consecutive £10k months within the next 6 months then you know you are on the right track BOSH 💪
I’m very target driven. But yes I’m a sourcing machine at the moment
I've resold part-time since 2016 on ebay. For me the listing is the hard part as it's the bit I'm least motivated to do. Sourcing gets easier the more relationships you make. Keep multiple plates spinning. I've made mistakes over the years and am still learning but a few things that changed my mentality that I've learnt from others on reselling are; a) Remember you're in the selling business not the storage business (sometimes it's better to get something sold that hold onto it in hope you can rinse out a bit more in profit.) b) Increase average selling price (not necessarily focused on profit margin alone), it will usually take as much time to list a £10 item as it will to list a £50 item. c) Level up your sourcing. Build long lasting relationships with multiple functions e.g. dealers, charity shops so you know every day/week where you're certain to be getting some of your stock from. As your relationships strengthen, it also removes some of your competition. However, be aware that plenty of others will also be trying to build the same relationship or sometimes things change e.g. charity policy change and you lose one of your sourcing feeds. Always have multiple sourcing feeds set up. d) Utilise multiple selling mediums. I only use Ebay for online selling currently, however offline I have multiple selling mediums that I use which help me diversify the items that I purchase. e) Tell people you're a reseller. It seems surprising but when I've been honest with people I'm building a relationship with, that's tended to help the relationship grow faster. Some people will choose not to sell to you, or will price items up but in my experience, it's the minority. I tend to refrain from telling random stalls at bootfairs that I'm a reseller, however if I want to build a relationship with a dealer or charity shop I'll be honest with them. f) Pay it forward. Part of the reason for the relationships I've built is because in addition to paying them for items, I pay them back with the knowledge I've gained. e.g. I help one of my local charities price up their items and have helped them raise more money on items that may have ended up in landfill. I've also helped dealers before, e.g. electronic recycling and house clearance to understand what their items are and the value. g) Consistent listing and write good quality item titles. g) There's enough stock out there and niches for everyone who wants to, to be able to do reselling, however everyone will have different goals and their revenue will vary.
James, I live for these videos and the motorway bridge mate! Also, we need The 10K drop where you run a 10k before dropping off the parcels. These are way too short. 😂
@@rhyslewis9593 haha let me work up to that! Might need to do it when I’ve had a no sale day and pretend they are all in the back pack! I can’t wait till they close the m25 for a weekend and I won’t need to cut the camera 😂
if it get to the point the parcel to heavy you need to take the trolley on parcel drop . :)
@@luciescarbootsaleloot7277 I get enough looks with the camera lol
Can we get the walk back please I’m enjoying this 😅
@@CheltenhamVintageToys what you don’t see I actually get a Uber home 👀
great video but would it be 60k to 65k after tax and cost of goods
@@Lisa-cj8cu I’m looking at profit numbers so that’s after cog has come out not sales numbers. The deductions will still be tax vat and cost to run the business - the cogs
Any update?
@@muhammadsaeed6057 I done an update video on the channel
From one reseller to another I know how you feel, I've had two miscarriages but just had our 3rd baby so don't worry it will happen x If Leanne wants someone to talk to she's more than welcome to message me x P. S. Love your channel 👍
Sorry to hear you got scammed but did anyone else chuckle out loud a little when the item revealed itself to be a wooden stick 😂
are you using a crosslister?
"Vinted had some great finds, but I was never fully convinced by their buyer protection. 🤔 Ditchit has solved that problem for me! Now I can shop with peace of mind, knowing my purchases are fully protected."
I do enjoy your content . I am always interested in how other resellers run their businesses and how we are constantly reflecting and refining what we do .
I like these walk and talks!
I enjoy making them! ❤
Wow what a great video. Truly emotional and true words. I am the same with eBay and a bad day can affect me for days sending me to a dark place. Can't wait to watch more of these types of videos.
Locking in mate
@@technsports appreciate it boss geeza fella matey
Any gimp suits in the costumes? I’ve got a friend that likes to dress up.
@@APMerry dm me
Well done on the weight loss great start James 🎉
@@DeniseWinton-d9n thanks!
Give yourself a pat on the back ur doing great. I was in hospital due to kidney problems. The consultant told me if I'm not a water fan. Now drink robinsons summer fruits dilute squash. It's easy to drink a sports bottle full. And 0 sugar.
That’s so wrong they keep your money that long on vinted they don’t in France
@@alisanimalantics56490 it’s the 14 day distance selling thing
What I find helps with the water is having a dedicated bottle (I use one of the metal insulated screw top ones) and making sure I empty it x amount of times a day. I also don’t like drinking cold water so drink warm water as I find it goes down easier (especially in winter).
@@MatthewMills. I have about 3 water bottles just need to have one attached to me
Really enjoying these, keep them coming!
@@SheSellsCarPartsUK thanks! I enjoy making them
Some good points. Always good to check every so often and take stock.
Where's the new motor? 😁 boldmobile
@@retrobootdisc next week on TPD lol
Great news about your new car James. Have a good weekend.
Come join me down the bungee studio geezer not only will you loose the weight you want to but you’ll feel amazing and super human like. 🤜🏼
@@ThriftUpLookSharp bungee studio? I’m gonna check this out 🙌
Great way to start the day, thank you mate
@@fuzzyfeetfootwear cheers bro! Love the insta flips!
this one hit me hard was not sure how to put it in words but here we go early 30s i found out that i cant have kids. i was firing blanks. at the time i just wanted to kill myself so the wife could find someone who could give her what she wanted. i am still here and she stuck by me and we have a great life still hurts even now. but can say when it does happen for you. when that baby grows up its going to be so proud to call u daddy because i know i would. your a amazing person and your going to be awsome role model for your family xxxxxxxxxxx
Mate this broke my heart. Sending love. Thank you for the kind words and for all the support with the channel over the years ❤️
What a time to be alive! Beautiful autumn friday walk #RuleYourOwnWorld
@@TeeShirtSunTan Christmas just round the corner 🍾
Great video. Thank you. 🌻🌻
@@sallytaitt6204 thanks sally have a great weekend
Thanks for reminding me to drink the water, writing this as sipping the routine coffee ☕️ - well done on the weight loss - one step at a time
@@JammyDodgerFlips coffee > water
well done on the weight loss dude, I've dropped a couple of KG as well.
@@CheltenhamVintageToys nice one Lee 👊
Morning dude
@@thegentlemanmarketeer 🥇happy Friday mate
Them jackets were Niice. I’ve recently started collecting jackets. 😅🙈 not much room left in my wardrobe for clothes I actually wear.
I fucking hate vinted
Really enjoyed not seen a vinted bundle buy on here thank you 🎉
you can tell he new he looked at you to see if you were looking what a tramp
Well worth buying, you’d pick up something you could sell for £50 if it was £5 this lot of tat might get you triple that.
Keep your heads up keep moving forward 😊❤
Really sorry to hear this news dude, Sending love and hugs to you both xx
There is a pounds worth of brown tape on it, what is point of selling this?
Very brave thank you - praying for you and your wife God bless
Hi Keep going remain positive. My wife had an early miscarriage, we also two failed attempts at ivf. We both got to the stage of we can’t do this anymore it was heartbreaking, but we had to go through the agony to reach the joy. We adopted our first seven years ago age 3 and our second three years ago age 2. We would not change anything on our journey because if we had biological children we would not have our two beautiful children and we love them to the moon and back. Things happen for a reason I wish you all the best on your journey.
Sorry for your loss both of you. 🌻🌻