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哇，我觉得你是一个非常英俊和富有同情心的男人。再次祝你好运！

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hi tyler and i want to be famous, im dad

Those surgeries are so risky dude, please be careful and don't compromise at cost of your overall health! And imagine being a cis man and meeting a trans man who is taller than you, which is a very real thing that happens. It's a little like every man can go bald. I also really don't like to be smaller than my younger brother, it SUCKS so bad and it's not even that I want him to be smaller - just something feels wrong about that circumstance, like it shouldn't have been this way. All I want to say is, cronic pain is AWEFUL (speaking from experience) and you really don't wanna be a little bit taller (maybe not even to an extent that helps your dysphoria) just to experience pain for the rest of your life. Much love!!

as a stealth transfem its interesting to see the parallels in transmascs- cool video!!

It ain't like charity type sht u need to earn it

oil up and youll get famous

Imma follow! ❤

As long as Tyler keeps creating, I think he's gonna do great

i'll follow you on your journey, i hope your dream comes true! <3

you're not a man 👍

cool thank you for sharing dude!

Good luck Ty! Can I interview you before you’re famous?

Well to be famous you probably have to be good looking and I’ll tell you, you have looks, hope this gives you confidence 😊

buy a mic gng

good luck Tyler 🫶

I‘m cis and I never thought about this. Man, being trans sounds difficult in so many ways, I‘m sending you some strength!

You will never be a man ♥

Very happy for you, you pass insanely well!

So the narrative taking place here seems like you're experiencing exactly what decent cis-men go through (not fitting in with the negative stereotype of men) and then feeling as though you should be exempt because you're a trans-man. Like the example you gave about your gf being jealous of having female friends. Men are allowed to have female friends just as much as women are allowed to have male friends. The jealousy is the issue there, but the way you talk about it is as though the fact that you're trans means she shouldn't be jealous. You should be addressing the fact that she shouldn't be jealous if she trusts you, period. Many cis-men really relate to the idea that the world sees you a certain, toxic way and you feel frustrated because the world doesn't see you as who you really are, for you, that would be the world understanding you're trans, because a transman has a much more positive stereotype than a cis one. As a cis man, that would be the word man not carrying the stereotypes of deviancy, violence, and toxicity that it does. That is the reality for every decent man. It seems it bogs all of us down equally.

Yea im a trans man, and to everyone im 100% a man, but to my friends i still one of the girls. Not a girl, but one of them

Man must be tough, really what I'm hearing is that you feel distanced and can't be truly understood by anyone around you which is sad, I feel like with at least your gf idk how serious you all are but reassuring her that you feel that connection with other women as an ex-woman yourself just because of your upbringing and not because you feel interested in them as a now man, she has to be able to see that, although in many cases different people prefer the opposite gender as friends which isn't bad or going to result in unfaithfulness it's just people you align more, I am a more straight forward logical woman (I dont really identify w gender though ahah Im alright w it) and I have WAYYYYY more male friends regardless of their orientation. To be honest I can relate feeling alienated and it's very frustrating, I had years and years of that feeling until I decided I wouldnt care about what other people felt about me and I just dumped info everywhere anytime (in conversations where I was asked about it) Maybe for you it might help to find other ftm people? Idk if there are any groups in your area but there might be. For now I wish you the best and I send you a hug and some tea with chocolates 😄🍵🍫✨ Take care man 👍🏻

YES! Like, some people don't understand that I lived girlhood when I was a child and know I'm figuring out what it's like to be a man. It's not the same, but it's the same process

You will never understand how to be a real man

❤love your videos

just want to say i love watching your videos. it's like finding a friend across the internet who shares my really specific identities, experiences, and struggles. please keep making them, as long as you feel okay with it :)

also asian, ftm/ftn, similar age as you, almost completely stealth living as a cis man. what you described is very relatable. it's a very fine and often terrifying line to walk -- between maintaining stealth and acting how i'm most comfortable/natural. not to mention the extra layer of caution one has to take when considering our race and ethnicity, in that the masculinity expected of us comes from many more complicated sources than people realize. i'm grateful that my environment is quite friendly to queers, so for (ostensibly) a man to display gender nonconformity is a bit less dangerous than in many other places. wishing you all the best in everything. would love to chat more with you too.

as a trans guy, i really dont want to shun away from saying what i need to say no matter the issue but i feel bad when women dont think i can relate and empathize experiences when we do.. its almost dismissive but i dont mind saying that im trans just so others understand. i think the issues at hand are more important than "exposing" my identity and i wont want to be labeled as a "cis guy" when im passing

transmasc erasure is definitely real, we need more rep (from a fellow transmasc). I understand the part abt women not getting how you relate, it almost feels like there's a weird rift because many women are understandably wary of men, but being raised as a girl u understand where that wariness comes from, but now to women u appear as someone they should be wary of (sorry if I worded it bad). its like people forget we don't automatically become like cis men the moment we transition, those experiences of being treated as a girl e.g sexism are still there. there's also the issue with a lot of people associating masculinity with being toxic and oppressive, when it doesn't have to be that way. sorry if it was wordy lol

' If I am worth anything later, I am worth something now. For wheat is wheat, even if people think it is grass in the beginning ' Vincent Van Gogh (paraphrase) I know im just some internet stranger but ur videos helped me feel seen, and im sure a lot of other trans guys would feel the same. its not easy to open up on the internet like that. I understand the desire to be seen, its human, but ur sm better than a lot of famous content creators who just make ragebait and clickbait. these things blow up fast but die just as fast, whereas genuine content will always be appreciated. thank you for what you do :)

I think some people may become famous for one hit wonders, but at least your videos are consistently good and appreciated by your viewers.

yeah I agree that it probably just comes down to luck, if I were to ever get fame I'd like it to be in this fashion too, just somebody living my life. also maybe you could make advice videos/more informational videos sit-down style like this. maybe based on your life experience, I see these on my recommended a lot so maybe that can help w/ reach

An LGBTQA+ ally and part of the community: I am happy to see your progress and voicing out your journey as a trans individual :)

❤🎉

Can't wait to see this channel hit in the million Ty deserves it❤

New member ❤

From a fellow ftm asian person, congrats ^^

nice!

Thank you so much for sharing! As an Asian guy who is pre-T, this is all super helpful to hear! I love the chill vibes of this video too

My jaw has become more prominent and I lose my “baby” fat on my face as I’ve gotten to 25. This is without T. The facial fat faded over time to give an older appearance in the face, I don’t know how exactly T impacts this but just know time is on your side

Thank you for putting your journey out there, it helps a lot. I’m currently 2 months and a bit on T, excited but disoriented; and it is really comforting to see and hear so profoundly how other people felt or feel in their own transition

When this video popped up on my feed I thought "hey how is he doing? it´s been a while since the last time I watched one of his videos", and you look so much confident now, I´m so happy for you 🤍

good LORD you're so fine congrats to you!!!

Awesome video 💪👏🏽

congrats man !! you look great !!

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You are so good looking!

I'm a cis man and 5ft 6in, so I guess I can relate to what its like to be born shorter than average for men.

But why?