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I am definitely getting myself heels !!!

08:52 a hottiee arghhh💘

03:48 that makeup 😍

your are so prettty💕

love love love your outfits🤍

hiiiiii chisom 💕

Thanks for having a moderate and accurate approach about what is happening in Iran, many people just ignore our suffering or belittling it

I guess I don't understand something about this life. Why are those looks fashion crimes? What's so illegal about Shein? Is there any difference between the looks in the movie and the host's style? Why is 2020 pronounced as something that was 50 years ago? Makes zero sense to me

do movie directors even research a little before doing remakes- ?

In older version Mean Girl the trio were named "The Plastics", but the new version take it the name too literally 😅

In general, it is almost impossible to make a good re-creation of a truly iconic movie; I never understand why they actually try. No matter how good the actor is, they will never be able to portray the character nearly as good. But yes, fashion wise was especially bad. Regina was supposed to be glamorous, almost like a barbie doll, and the other two are also leaning in to that aesthetic, but in different ways. They had rules that made their styles cohesive, almost like a uniform; even when it was not Wednesday, you would instantly be able to tell they were a 'plastic': - On Wensdays they wear pink (and they did it a lot the other days too) - Don't wear tank tops two days in a row - Only ponytail once a week - Only wear jeans or track pants on Fridays (which means they wore skirts on most days) The original style was hyper feminine and glamorous; a clear 'I am better than all of you' style. This is not what we see in the new movie...

I think it’s very interesting how women have taken modesty clothing to make it work for them tbh. It makes me think of the COVID mask. Technically it’s covering your face but some people actually liked it because they didn’t have to put as much effort into their looks while wearing it. Even athletic wear may been as a woman sexualizing herself but it can actually be a way to be comfortable without too much effort.

Emergency intercom AND sex in the city referenced? Hell yeah

The sad thing is modesty does not protect women. The middle east, red states, and in general ultra conservative religions has horrible sa culture issues. You do it for religious regions for your beliefs. Do not do it for men. The more conservatives you have the higher sa statistics. Covering for men is pointless.

I love my Koi Tira Mary Jane platform shoes faux leather edition that I bought from EMP

I was always the ugly and boring girl that wore boring clothes. I was never really interested in fashion because I didn't value myself and I hated the acne and slight overweight. But now that I lost weight, have no acne, I got more interested in wearing the clothes that flatter me, for myself. I know my body type is theatrical romantic and my face essence a mix of romantic and ethereal. I'm mesmerized by femme fatale, vamp-like, mysterious witch styles and dark colors and I got inspired to create my own style by research and art, photography, show characters, my favorite music. Aesthetics are not completely bad, you just have to find your personal style that matches your hobbies, your identity, your everyday life activities AND your body type (13 kibbe body types is a good way to start to learn about the many different body types)

omg i remember mars!!!

Freedom of choice 🙌🏾

I believe it's just much easier to put ourselves into a box. Aesthetics are not only about fashion but also about our lifestyle. Finding ourselves in this world, our goals, routines, etc. is sometimes so overwhelming as we feel super lost while growing up. So simply choosing an aesthetic is kind of like having a life template to follow. As someone on my 20s, I definitely understand the people who choose that path. What stopped me from going deep on those boxes was very simple: I'm poor. Those aesthetics are so much about having things, it's a very consumist culture. And it's not only about clothes or makeup, but also skincare, the cup you use to drink your coffee, having a standing desk, a beautiful bedroom, a yoga mat and accessories, a gamer setup, and so on.

Whether modest or not, the choice is up to the person to decide. Whether, they have been taught this right from age or decided to phase out of the teachings, religious or not, it's still their choice and their comfort. What is a given however, is that the whole point of modesty was intended for the male gaze, or protection thereof. Thus, I would say its the responsibility of men to respect not only the choice of how women dress, but also respect their bodies as well, that means not sexualising them or seeing them as an object to be kept away or used.

I grew up Mormon but left the church before I had to start wearing garments. Here in Utah, there is a new work around that if youre in gym clothes you dont need to wear them, so women walk around in gym clothes 24/7 and claim they were just heading to or getting back from the gym.

I was clicking on this video ready to hear bad things about our hijab, but thank you so much for speaking up for us girly 🫶🏻🥹

no one wants to talk about how modesty is an inherently sexual concept. when you enforce modesty on children, you are sexualizing them. people have a lot of cognitive dissonance around this, and say they are protecting children from being sexualized by others. i have empathy for this point of view but ultimately i think it's backwards and harmful. modesty as a social construct is something i think about a lot, so i really enjoyed this video

I really wish you'd expanded on the rise of modest fashion in response to the comodification of womens bodies. There have been lots of comments from revert muslims who, even if they struggle with head covering, find being intentionally more modest with clothing liberating. I also think theres something to be said about women's age and expected modesty. Ive seen those videos of mothers comparing girls and boys toddlers clothing and its actually really concerning. But also, there's somewhat of a stigma around mothers and women of a certain age dressing more risque. And also the consideration that some womens bodies are considered not modest even when they cover up because actually theres a lack of clothing that caters to them. I think theres a lot more to this discussion

Thank you for representing Islam well🫶it’s so refreshing to hear a take that has nuance when it comes to women’s modesty in Islam and not painted as a strange thing that oppresses us. I love wearing my niqab and hijab and our religion says that there is no compulsion in religion. You can’t force your religious practices on others. Thanks for clarifying that people who force women to dress a certain way in other countries who claim it’s “Islam” are not actually representative of what the faith teaches. I also love how you brought up the role of colonization, im Algerian American and in Algeria the French invaded and wanted to “westernize” us like you mentioned, effects are still shown in our country but Alhamdulilah Algeria was able to gain independence and kick out the French. Thanks for using Muslim women as the voice for Muslim women on the Islam segment! We also have modesty in speech, dress, food, vision, and other aspects in common with our Jewish brothers and sisters! 🫶May God guide and bless us all !🤲🏻

they missed the fact that the plastics are supposed to be dressed like an ideal of what teenagers can look up to and want to look like. that's what gave them so much social power. they were ADMIRED. they should be dressed like the people whose clothes you go to shien to find dupes of and nothing is quite right because shien is ass. they should be dressed in clothes that will make other people envious. not shit you can literally get for $10 on shien. honestly everything in this movie is so boomer trying to make stuff relatable to gen z

going topless should be illegal for all, UV ist tooooo strong and the night is too cold.

So I really love modest fashion. Modesty to me is power over my body. It gives me the comfort of knowing who is allowed to see what parts of me, knowing that’s entirely my decision that no one can take away. I’m Christian, I personally don’t believe God shames his creations for displaying the bodies he gave us, but I find value in covering most of myself. I love my body, and I find a lot of strength in knowing I’ll only show it to people who will love it as much as I do. To me, modest fashion doesn’t have hard and fast rules. It’s not modest just because it’s 3 inches past my fingertips, or if the shoulder strap is as wide as my hand. Modesty is a vibe, if I feel good in it, it’s modest. If I feel uncomfortable in it, time to pick something else The problem with wearing anything as a woman is you’re going to receive judgement for it. I know if I wore short skirts I would get shit, but I tend to also get a lot for dressing like this too. People will think I’m doing it for men or accuse me of not being a “girls girl” (???), and I’ll also get creeps who put other women down because they think I want to hear that. Women’s bodies will be policed no matter how much or how little of it is seen, and I think that’s the biggest issue that transcends beyond the concept of modesty

I really appreciate you mentioning the role of modesty in colonialism! A lot of people overlook it when they discuss this topic but it’s so important I’ll only speak to what I know, but the purity culture in evangelical christianity is known to contribute to making children, especially girls, more vulnerable to abuse. It can also cause trauma and sexual dysfunction that affects people into adulthood and even for a lifetime. In my experience correcting a girl or woman’s modesty was often just a disguise for sexual harassment…

The societal judgement affects men too. Men dressing any way outside of the traditional masculine norm will be stigmatized as either gay (derogatory) or creepy perverts.

no matter what excuses anyone tries to use, the reality is that there's a tag on your ass if you're even vaguely femme. and sorry to anyone who thought they could work with it or cover up enough to avoid it...the tag was put there when you were born and other people(including other women) will just stick it back on. Public or private, still property.

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I think some of the outfits are cute, BUT they really don't fit the characters. The characters wouldn't wear those.

This video is so interesting, thank you for talking about modesty!! I’m not a modest dresser but I love hearing about it from you

as someone born in 04, it is slightly painful to hear clothes from the 2000s be referred to as vintage. but if they wanted to go for a gen-z feel i think they could have easily gone with mcbling for regina and something similar to coquette for the others and still kept the original spirit of the film.

Im muslim and im modest and i chose so. And if someone chose to not be modest that’s okay. If i want to get in the water with a lot of fabric thats my “problem”. If someone wants to get in the water with a bikini thats fine and their “problem”. Men also need to be modest in islam. Its like covering their knees to belly button

This video is so incredible, from arguments to just being respectful. Christianity is often criticised in videos and such criticism often comes across as judgey or offensive, as a practising Catholic, but yours honestly didn't come across that way at all. I really appreciate how you adressed those arguments and how respectful you were of different people's choices; it really kept the video on track and made it really easy to follow along the course of the debate!! ♥♥♥

the other day i got angry at an influencer posting about how certain dresses are not modest enough for wedding guests. from what she said, you'd think she was modeling sheer clothes, but they were regular black tie dresses with cleavage. anyway, i commented something like "sorry i don't want to wear a turtleneck to a wedding" as mostly sarcasm, whoch lead to dozens of people, unfortunately mostly gen z women, calling me a wh*re in the replies and insinuating that i'd only want to wear a cleavage to seduce men at weddings. like what if i were, but tbh it's because deeper cleavages make my body more proportional and i don't get sad and insecure as i do with covered collars. i didn't really believe in modesty as a concept before this, but now i'm 1000% sure it's just a way to judge women.

Fashion is always political because whether you like it or not it’s completely a way to control women and use what you wear as an excuse for grape as if elderly and children aren’t graped as well. This also strongly stems from religion , it was never women’s choice to cover their bodies head to toe in clothes including their face. They needed to as a way to deter men’s atrocities and violent sa away from them and that was the only thing they could do. It was never about self respect just oppression and control

Love how you were respectful about Islam! I’m Iranian and Muslim, and the way you worded it was beautiful. Feeling seen !!

love this

Don't matter how I'm dressing, I'm still going to behave like a goblin. *Lock your windows*

Good topic 🙏🏾

Very interesting!

What aesthetic is this? Walking outside. Thank you! 😂

Your honesty just saved me $90 (black Friday sale) thank you

I thought this was AMAZING. You have great taste. I also think Gretchen also likes to red and cady likes to wear button-up tops which I think the new movie attempted to replicate.

The second Janis outfit is so perfecttt

I don't have an aesthetic, subculture, personal style or anything and I feel sad because I wish I could look cool and feel confident 😢

I also wanna include an honarable mension!! Miko Nakadai is a character from Transformers Prime (a show I was obsessed with as a kid) though she rlly only wore one outfit for the entire show she was my fav alt girl as a kid. She’s a huge fan of metal, punk rock, and loud pop culture. She honestly reminds me of Magenta (P.S. if u ever make a part 2 pls include her!!)