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Excellent Material

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Please do a video on how to deal with the flying monkeys. Is keeping relationships with them possible if they can't see what they are doing? I'm sick of loosing family, but I have zero tolerance for the gaslighting and blameshifting they have bought in to and use themselves.

This is my whole family. Drama and chaos. It is satanic influence that drives these people. They have been given over to a depraved mind. It's quite unnerving witnessing the crazy making behaviour they use to try and manipulate everyone around them. They are liars and deceivers.

Awesome teaching 😊 thanks

I can listen to you all day . I just love the way you broke this down%. Gave me an eye opener . Thanks 👍

Thank you for this lesson and the one on resentment. It has made me realize that I am not the problem. My husband has issues from his past that he needs to deal with to be a good partner. Thanks!

Any studies in the referring to telling children the lie about Santa, (saint nick, father Christmas) and religious notions

Is it religion or is it a need for personal development in righteousness

It's hard after all dignity and respect from our fellow man, has been destroyed, by the system and diagnosis to look forward for better days

A question is there in fact evil people that' purposely try to destroy u, mentally

As someone with a depressive personality type. This was helpful for me to reason within, about my incorrect rationality. What truly helps me progress is my stress levels are very low,

As a Christian I hear the bible talk about the king of the north, saying he didn't think in his heart he could course war, but that he did, I see each one of us might not believe our own corrupt nature which is dormant in us

This is 100% my sister. 7yrs younger. Everything was always a crisis. I had to stop everything and talk it thru for hours - forget that I had grad school exams etc etc. Had to find her RA when she was in college to see if she was OK. Had to uphold her thru everything. When she had a devastating incident while abroad w her husband - she complained to my parents that I wasn’t there for her enough had she taken a moment to ask how I was doing she would have seen my life was no cakewalk. She vented and vented and when you tried to give her help she would say “ya but….” Nothing helped. Ever. Then one day I said “you need to stop saying that my life is easier than yours”. She would always compare and blow my life off as easier. When I said that - it was tue end of our relationship. She again at the age of 37 complained to our parents about me. Again. Then she cut it off saying I was dramatic and abusive towards her (for having boundaries and confronting her off the cuff remarks). And that was that. Unfortunately she wanted me out of her life but not my husband and kids. She said I couldn’t take HER family away from her. And my parents sadly agreed. So here I am 14 years later still balancing that my husband and adult kids still see her but I have no contact. She even tried to split me and my husband up - AND talk to my mother in law about how I was not a good wife for my MIL’s son. And rumors of infidelity were going to be spread before my mil put a stop to it. 31:30 It’s crazy-making. But I have a life without her now and my husband and kids know who I am. My friends and family know who I am. Thank you for this. Spot on.

Thank you so much for this and other videos. This is so very helpful. I wish I could share this w the person that needs it. So how do you stay in a relationship when the partner gaslights you? After some time - you break down and it is easier to leave than keep hearing personal attacks. I’m not selfish. I’m not lazy. I’m not unhealthy. I’m not physically NOT fit. I’m not all the things thrown at me for the past 10 years. Sooooo. I argue perspectives. I try to change perspectives. Why? Bc I don’t want my partner to think these things about me. How can I live w someone who thinks such things. It is so hard when instead of agreement or an apology I get: “You didn’t hear me right.” Or “That’s not what I was saying” or “it shouldn’t matter what I think”. How the heck does one resolve those character attacks from a gaslighter. If I say “Sorry you think that way.” And move on - it does nothing or very little for my healing. At some point tue gas lighter will lose the pleasure of my sharing my life w them.

Gary I miss you much you were the you’re the best the Counselor that I’ve ever had but you moved to Seattle😭I left you a voicemail is there any possible to connect with you again my marriage is falling apart

I’m half way thru. Amazing insight. Excellent content. I’m sorry you understand this so well. I came to YT for some managing content and this was perfect for me to hear. I feel less alone and needed this extra regulation tool. 🙏 thank you !!!! Best of luck and your channels success. ****they are definitely time deaf !

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Ignorance & Paranoia: Madness: Human Willingness Is Distinctive of Human Intention, and Ignorance Can Not Self-Pre-Serve: Madness Can Not Plan. 1. Ignore Definition: "refuse to take notice of or acknowledge; disregard intentionally." : Ignore Etymology: "late 15th century (in the sense ‘be ignorant of’): from French ignorer or Latin ignorare ‘not know, ignore’, from in- ‘not’ + gno-, a base meaning ‘know’. Current senses date from the early 19th century." 2. Ignorance Etymology: "Middle English: via Old French from Latin ignorantia, from ignorant- ‘not knowing’ (see ignorant)." 3. Paranoia Etymology: "mid 18th century (in paranoia (sense 2)): modern Latin, from Greek, from paranoos ‘distracted’, from para ‘irregular’ + noos ‘mind’." 4. Madness Etymology mad | Etymology, origin and meaning of mad by etymonline Respectively. Tanika Nakeya Lewis, 6127

Amazing….

I have a fear of indecisive men.

Absolute nonsense!!! The type of dynamic you're explaining is the dynamic of a simp. 'A guy who caters to a woman's desires with the ideology of scarcity and fear of losing her'. A man path is to conquer the world around him and to come home to a peaceful, feminine, subservient woman. A man who's living his purpose (examples: building businesses, investing, inventing/ creating new products) is a man who attracts women or in marriage, is a man who keeps his wife satisfied by the lifestyle he creates. "Happy wife, happy life" is the philosophy you're teaching it's backwards. "Happy LIFE happy WIFE" is the correct philosophy for a successful relationship.

Colossians 2:8

This is extremely informative and makes me sympathetic to victims of gaslighting. I like how Dr. Bell states that the gaslighter is not evil (Eph. 6: 12) but it's how they grew up and sad.

Thank you ♥️

Your video (and website) has just reached Southern Brazil! I can't have enough words to thank you!!!❤️