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This isn't just in relationships, this happens in female teenagers who see this, think they can hit men and not get any reprocussions

Phil and steve try to say what they are trying to say behind the guns at their heads.

I agree that you shouldn't put your hands on a woman in anger, I also think that a woman should never put her hands on a man in anger. Self-defense, yes, no matter the gender of the aggressor, and no matter the gender of the victim.

My older sister is a narcissist very textbook i live with her and my mom and shes getting kicked out soon but the abuse ive taken from her is just horrible i was raised to never hit women and she knew that so i wouldnt hit back even if she was hitting me, i would try to restrain her and it would work and after i would she started crying as if i ever hit her, its verbal and physical abuse from her i am now 20

Moral of the story: feminists are idiotic.

My ex fiancé once threatened me with a knife after I brought up that she wasn’t helping me much in keeping our home clean for I did everything after coming home late from work all while she would party with her friends. Her parents wouldn’t believe me and even cops wouldn’t do anything about it when I showed them video. I almost took my own life over this until I grabbed my things and moved out when she was out with her friends again.

My first girlfriend would was kind of physically abusive. I wouldn't say she ever beat on me or truly trued to cause serious harm but she would hit me in my testicles because she thought it was funny, after I told her to stop doing that numerous times, and she would also slap me in the face over very minor squabbles, usually if she felt like she was proven wrong. One time she slapped me in the face in front of a bunch of my friends, which was very humiliating. I will preface this by saying I should have acted in a much more mature way, and should've controlled my temper and had a talk with her later in private, but I did not. When she slapped me I raised my voice to her, I don't really remember what I said because it has been so many years but I do remember that I did not insult her nor did I try to embarass her. I believe it was something along the lines of just telling her to stop and that it wasn't okay. Anyways, she proceeded to get extremely emotional and start crying, prompting her friend to come over and berate me. (This was in highschool at lunch btw). I then had multiple people treat me as a villain and I had to be the one to apologize, in which for the rest of our relashionship she never let me forget it. Again, I should have reacting in a more mature and calmed way, but I suppose I was just tired of being humiliated and her thinking it was okay to do these things. Not necessarily justification but it's what so many men go through, being vilified for sticking up for themselves even though they are the victims

take this as you want, but I've once said "I know i should be the last person to be saying this, being a white American male, but I don't feel equal to others." because I really don't, I'm belittled by others all the time and teased all the time and I feel disgusting and not like a person, but I'm afraid of voicing an opinion like that because, well, of what I am and what the reputation of others before me has done to mine and other's image.

So did you man up?

It Sucks Being A White Male In This Decade

I saw a video before seeing this. And only 1 comment (out of all i saw) had a good ending th-cam.com/video/6zM8Dj0lK8E/w-d-xo.html&lc=Ugx4rTGKS6PJIGJ_-Ip4AaABAg.A5MGRtjcSYXA6FpG0xz4Sb

Self defense is a god given right

It's genuinely really sad that we cant even defend theirselves from Physical abuse because " oooh women are so underprivileged and hard done by"even though that fact stopped being true more than 5 decades ago and tell men to "man up pussy"

nice title i hope your not a conent farm.

I have literally seen girls in my school, making fun of guys’ dead parents, without so much as a teacher raising her voice… ..but I’ve seen guys get called to the principals office simply for roasting them like lukewarm water

Bring back masculinity, what is this garbage.

Dang, EVERYONE agrees

I was accused of hitting a girl after I turned down sex. Truth is she groped me and I pushed her away. I had people talk about me behind my back and even my life threatened by her dad. I got assaulted but I should have wanted it I guess. I was never abused because I didn’t let her. But I was constantly berated and even told “you will never be loved”. I’m sure I’m being dramatic but it still stings and gives me more anxiety than I need.

I dated a girl for about five months, and she wasn't physically abusive, but very mentally abusive (with the occasional s**ual abuse). Anytime I wasn't with her (whether I'd be with family, friends, or doing my own thing), she'd constantly blow up my phone with messages about how much she missed me (which was kinda cute, but irritating). Whenever I'd tell her I needed to leave, she'd guilt trip me about not being there. However, I wouldn't allow her to thrash me, because that's not who I am. I would instead fight back, and tell her about how unreasonable she was being. She would also threaten to leave me if I ever got mad at her for something she did (she would screw up, I'd call her out, and she'd paint herself as the victim). As far as the s**ual abuse went, she would constantly force me to s*xt with her (even if I didn't want to), and had me touch her inappropriately even though I was uncomfortable (for the sake of not getting in trouble, I won't say it, but I felt like an animal). I was unwell. My eating became bad (I wouldn't eat during the week when around her, and then stuff my face full of food on the weekends), my grades were dipping, and I had no time to myself. Long story short, it was really bad, and I tried to get out several times. I finally got out, and I had learned that, because I was very busy, she had cheated on me with a friend of mine behind my back for three months, and once I ended it, she had one less guy to use as a toy, and used my friend as a rebound (they didn't last long). She tried to get me back by flirting with my other friends and classmates (which didn't work, because I was doing much better without her), and she finally threw in the towel after like three months of trying to get me back. It's been almost two and a half years, and I myself have been doing much better mentally, posting content on TH-cam, and trying to be a better guy. I've been asked about this occasionally, but I always talk about this experience now as a learning opportunity. I don't wish my pain on anyone else, but I don't wish it to go away either. I know what to do now in a situation like this, and that's all that matters.

That first clip made me coil in cringe

This is why I don't want to be in a relationship. You can't have drama. You can't be abused. You don't have to worry about money, if you are able to save money.

As someone who had a lunatic girlfriend in highschool (wasn’t allowed to talk at ALL with other girls) I agree, it does become war. Later I hatched a plan and in one fell swoop, I broke her. At first the whole grade shunned me. It was when I was able to find who really was my friend. I tried to defend myself at first and was met with the “you couldn’t have just stayed with her to avoid this?”. Eventually she moved on and was even worse with another guy, leading to a restraining order. At that point everyone was shocked that I wasn’t lying in the first place.

That Dr.Phil clip is what made me go from finding him semi funny to just disliking him outright.

I cannot even believe "Dr" Phil gave that pathetic advise to that man when his violent wife attacks him! Disgusting

Dr Phil is one hell of a scumbag

I had a friend who took his life because his Ex-girlfriend Sexually assaulted him and when he wanted to talk about his ex girlfriend lied to her friends and said he raped her and nobody believed him and he took his life because he couldn't take it anymore

shame on any abuser and shame on anyone with a title who discredits a man’s abuse

Without elaboration, i know a man very close to me who went through domestic violence and to this day hasnt told anybody i believe, im hoping it gets better soon, i want him to feel better-

It isn’t THE media. It’s OUR media. And we WILL lie if we think ‘the media’ will believe it.

I used to think Woody was innocent for many years but you need to do some more research. Start by watching Allen V Farrow. Listen to the taped calls between he and Mia. Especially the one where she says you hurt her, how can you live with yourself etc. it will bring tears to your eyes, it wasn’t fake. All of the nannies and tutors around her said she was actually hoping the charges weren’t true and kept checking with Dylan to make sure she was sticking by her story before they went forward. She knew this would destroy her career and their lives in many ways. She didn’t want it to be true and she didn’t coach her for it to be True. Also consider the fact that the award-winning caseworker from New York believed Dylan and wanted to prosecute, but was fired when he wouldn’t shut up about it because the mayor was calling them telling them to let it go. Also consider the fact that the Yale group who investigated him and interview Dylan had their contemporaneous notes destroyed, which is never done. Why would you destroy evidence like that unless there’s something important to hide? The same guy in New York who was fired was communicating with them during this time and it’s in his notes that they told him they believed Dylan as well. And don’t forget to consider the fact that Woody changed his story about ever being in that attic once they found his hair and skin cells up there. Is that odd to anyone? And don’t forget he wouldn’t take a paragraph provided by law enforcement, but only one his legal team arranged. If it was my daughter and I was innocent, I’d take any damned polygraph test they wanted to give me. Just keep doing research and your common sense will eventually tell you he did it. I take no pleasure in saying that as I was a huge fan of his films, but the truth has become quite evident.

Judge the character, not the gender.

Pronouns chosen the way they are, because my partner identified as female during some of the incidents, in some non-Binary and now after it all male: I had a partner that built me up. They were trying to better me, make me realise the ways in which I sabotaged myself. They comforted me when I struggled and I comforted them when they struggled. But they also tried to isolate me. They told me my friends and acquaintances showed subtle signs of discomfort when I did certain things. Things only they could notice, because they had way more experience than me and because I have certain neurodivergent traits that make it harder (not impossible) for me to read people. We argued often, mostly because I got very still and silent, when something happened I couldn't deal with. That made them very upset and caused me to shut in even further. When I "stonewalled" them, they would barely try to get through and immediately go to blaming me for the entire argument. They would then storm off, angry and awaiting me, to come and figure out what exactly it was they were upset about, without them giving me any clue. They tried to mold me to their liking, tried to make me into somebody I couldn't be and make me dependent on them. I don't know how much of it was intentional, or "subconscious" behavior caused by their own traumatic experiences, but I got emotionally abused in that relationship. Even after finally ending it and realising what had happened to me with the help of friends, they still tried the same thing twice more. Telling me how I was making other people uncomfortable, without anybody but them noticing or telling me. I loved that person and they actually helped me figure things out about myself. They moved me forward in life and gave me hope and strength. But as the relationship went on, those positive moments became less and less frequent. It was toxic for both of us and while I tried my best, I bet there were also moments when I could have done better. In the end, cutting that relationship off was the best choice I could make. Edit: I completely disagree with your take on the Depp V Heard case, but abuse of males by females should still be taken seriously.

At least for some women, this is true. I don't think your traditionalist, ultra-religious Christian woman is going to be seeking out gang members. I still remember when I was on the comments section of a clip of Amon Goeth beating the shit out of his...IDK, his personal slave, a Jewish woman, and some chick was like "I'm sorry but he's hot." Some people have weird ass fantasies. Which is fine; I have an issue with it when they start to let it affect their perceptions of actual events or, worse, influence their own actions to others' detriments. I would say that usually submission fantasies are less harmful, but it can get bad when people project such fantasies onto others, and yeah, people do that.

Has anyone successfully received any assistance in SoCal? Like even counseling might help. Left an physically abusive relationship and family is not any better

This is why I’m gay, I don’t want woman to accuse me of harming them or putting my funky self on child support (This is a joke, but I am gay married man though lol)

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I dealt with a year of narcissistic abuse at the hands of someone I loved. Half the time I tell my story I get told I was at fault for being a doormat or because she herself was a trauma survivor I’m not the victim and she is

I was in a abusive relationship and no one believe me when I tried to say I was hert

Dr Phil is a joke, that first clip enrages me everytime

Dr.phil is a cuck

I was raped by a woman as a child. But hey, blame the male child, right? He just needs to man up.

I’m sorry to say this but men are the main ones who say this to each other woman hardly do

Yeah bro patriarchy really sucks like I hate having to bury emotions and that be seen as normal.

Abuse is abuse, whether you’re a man or woman. And I believe that an abused or bullied man has the right to defend himself and fight back if necessary. Equal rights should mean equal rights. The main issue with that is the cops/court will likely take the woman’s side because she could play victim to it and gaslight you.

Sherry should be rotting in prison and Amber Turd should be sleeping on the sidewalk while her daughter gets taken in by a loving family.

Mostly no one also doesn't believe that a woman can be a victim of another woman It's like they can never do harm In Spain it has been considered "sexual abuse" the fact of getting kissed without permission after an "incident" happened Not only women can kiss without someone's permission, now men can go to jail for it

Thank you so much for making this video, I needed to hear all of this

what happened to equality? I believe that it is not right to be a misandrist piece of shit. Period, if you're a woman pissed off about the inequality in the past and act like this, you're no better than the men whom were seen the way they were in the 1800s and 1900s. im tired of youtube removing my comments about how misandry is not okay and whatnot. im tired being feeling like i have to keep everything a secret (the amount of times i've said "I'm fine" when I just wanted to break down is staggering) edit: youtube flagged this comment as potentially being offensive. What for?

I don't care what genitals you have; you do not hit others

Ah yes. My favorite type of logic. If a woman's swings at you, just walk away.