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Welcome to Allure Secretary.
Discover the secrets of Timeless Elegance and Effortless Style!
Our channel is dedicated to bringing you the best in high-end fashion, classic style tips, and luxurious lifestyle inspiration. Whether you’re looking to elevate your wardrobe with iconic pieces or learn the art of elegant living, you’ve come to the right place.
Discover the secrets of Timeless Elegance and Effortless Style!
Our channel is dedicated to bringing you the best in high-end fashion, classic style tips, and luxurious lifestyle inspiration. Whether you’re looking to elevate your wardrobe with iconic pieces or learn the art of elegant living, you’ve come to the right place.
Why Men Don’t Dare to Dress Well: The Fear of Standing Out
Many men feel the desire to dress elegantly, yet hesitate to step out of their comfort zones.
Why is this? In this video, we explore the psychological barriers, social pressures, and personal insecurities that prevent men from embracing a refined style.
Discover how to overcome these obstacles, reclaim your confidence, and dress in a way that truly reflects your personality and values. It’s time to break free from fear and make elegance your own.
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Why is this? In this video, we explore the psychological barriers, social pressures, and personal insecurities that prevent men from embracing a refined style.
Discover how to overcome these obstacles, reclaim your confidence, and dress in a way that truly reflects your personality and values. It’s time to break free from fear and make elegance your own.
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Great ai channel. But elegance isnt just about wearing a suit. It can be smart casual.
you need to have a reason to dress elegantly. In other words to be rich. If you are poor and dres posh, you will look silly
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Especially during winter time I dress up more elegantly and even in a relatively conservative city like Hamburg it always draws some attention. I did not even shy away from wearing black tie at my company's christmas party when everyone else wore casual clothes. And the reactions speak volumes as they are always appreciative from both women and men. Then I realize that many people would like to dress up well but are a bit afraid of perhaps being the only one doing so.
I'm just a blue colour worker so I just 'dress' in my work clothes, maybe if I was some duke with a castle sure I'd dress like it.
I pulled the all white style with a white trenchcoat. All people where looking but i only got positive feedback. I have to say it takes a lot of confidence to pull it off because people will look at you. Maybe not everyone will make compliments about the outfit but you need to dont give a f. As long as you feel good in the cloths it looks good but if you dont feel confident enough it will look bad on you.
What a very flawed video. Define elegance. Even menswear has evolved since we last wore tree barks. So you're just going to define male eleganct dressing by way of Western suit and tie? Nonsense. What if elegance for me is a beautiful Japanese Kimono robe made from the finest silk? What if elegance for me is dressing up like a High Elf from Middle-earth?
Elegance isn’t confined to a suit and tie, nor does it require tree bark or elf ears. It’s about intentionality, refinement, and confidence, whether in a silk kimono, a tailored blazer, or a mithril tunic. If Middle-earth inspires your style, then by all means, let Rivendell rejoice in your wardrobe! 🤣
@AllureSecretary thanks. I'm actually in the process of growing my hair long so I could Elrond my way to of this life! (I'm equally flabbergasted you chose Rivendell! It's my adopted Middle-earth realm.)
@@charmedprince Ah, aspiring to Elrond’s grace and wisdom, an admirable goal! Rivendell may be your adopted realm, but here, we cultivate elegance that transcends even Middle-earth. If you’re ready to refine your journey, I’d say subscribing is the first step toward true mastery. Shall we make it official?
@AllureSecretary gaahhh, I'm a sucker for sweet talks. Alrighty then, I'll subscribe, but, fail me not on your upcoming rollouts!
@@charmedprince Welcome
Currently a college student in western PA. I do not particularly dress elegant. Jeans, cowboy or leather boots, Tshirt, flannel, etc. One could call it country. I definitely stick out among the crowd of young adults. Very rarely do I see somebody wearing jeans, and I never see leather boots, and rarely shoes. I notice the trend of sweatpants, hoodies, and lots of socks/sandals. The casual wear of the 80s is now seen as something foreign compared to modern trends.
Men don’t dress well because we don’t want to suffocate from heavy, layered garment in warming environments. Men don’t dress well because we don’t want a large closet. Men don’t dress well because we don’t want to spend time on dressing well. Men don’t dress well because women spend so much time on dressing well that we don’t want to compete with them or act like them. Men don’t dress well because we know that garment quality has disappeared anyway.
Dressing well and looking good as a man is a test to catch your haters
Im happy to live in a European country where this isn't as big of a thing. But i do feel bad for North Americans who seem to face this problem more...
It's the same in Australia, people dress like crap here.
Dress like you're going someplace better later.
Dress yourself well, don't dress up as someone else. A nice suit is amazing, a Tommy Shelby-cosplay is cringe. Also, hilarious thing about dressing "masculine" is that you can get ready to get called gay 20 times a day.
This video only applies and speaks to a very small percentage of men. The majority of men don’t dress for others or care about social norms to the extent they will conform to something they don’t like wearing. There’s a reason we call it a “monkey suit”. Dressing “refined”, “sophisticated ” and “elegant” isn’t interesting to most men. And it’s not even a problem of money, since most people who care about fashion can buy expensive clothing, yet prefer clothing that look casual, even thought it can cost equally or even more than a tailored suit. PS: Masculinity and being masculine is how men (as a majority) behave. It’s not what they wear, nor is it bound to tradition.
I dress well mainly I wear a leather jacket and grey jeans or blue jeans a brown leather belt and brown steel toe boots and a tank top or graphic t or just a white tee and i also wear a Wrangler jacket thats kinda brownish with a grey hood
What if you want to be a spook
This is a topic I didn't know was being tackled by other people. I always wear a simple pair of sturdy pants in a dark greenish brown color and a few others with different dark colors, with a pair of black work/military boots. And a dark prussian-blue knitted long-sleeve shirt, almost like a sweater, I don't really know the difference between the two, and another one in dark olive with the same style. With a dark gray water-proof cotton trench coat as a jacket (gets wet and cold where I live). Not just that, my hair is always just in a simple left-side parting that's shorter on the sides, you know the type. When people see me in such a style it makes me feel out of place, especially with everyone wearing style-less clothes that are only stupidly expensive because they're branded by some corporation, and their hair in an NPC ass broccoli cut with a fade, calling me an NPC and pushing me to get the same cut and same NPC style. And when I say no, I like what I am, they'll call me a try-hard.
I wanna dress like the guy in bloodborne tho
Is this the fashion theory of a MAGA supporter? The boring stress on expressing traditional masculinity and the grotesque examples of “fluid fashion” leave no doubt.
My rebellion has adopted this cause. It is not a lingering thought of mine, ever, to dim myself down but I also benefit from exquisite taste so 😅
Today’s casual clothing makes you look like you don’t care about the way you dress even if you do.
Ironically, casual fashion, which began as a rebellion against the dominant adult society, has become so dominant that it excludes other fashions. What we truly want is a world where each person is free to choose and no fashion is dominant.
At the job I work. Dressing more formal is required. I honestly started to feel more confident and and better about myself. Self improvement, even with little things can really help self confidence and overall happiness.
14:00 the guy in the stock footage had his pants button undone lol Great video man! It a;; started with me with trench coats other long coats. Suspenders are overdue for a comeback and are much more comfortable than belts!
A kilt is always an attention getter!
I typically dress well I don’t care if I stand out haters gonna hate no matter what you do
Usually the way I feel like dressing, I'll throw stuff together and feel good about myself and go about my day. That's about it.
Thats so true, haha
tell me the name of this voice AI ❤ It's really great.
My daughter buy a pair of shoes for $50.00 she walk about 5 minute the shoes fall apart right at the mall I buy an Italian shoes for $400.back in 89 I still wear it 2024 nice when you buy cheap stuff they don’t last do you research before you buy bdxy best quality
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You just got a new subscriber.
13:15 Very good tip. This is also the way I did it.
I'm not. Too late to be scared.
Well said! 🥹
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Im in my sixties. I dress for comfort now , more than style. But some men are colour shy with dress. And i think that is one reason why men dont like dressing up. I know a guy and he put on a pink shirt that he bought one day , and his daughter remarked to him , dad you are wearing a pink shirt , have you turned gay.
It’s always better to look good than to feel good. Always err on the side of MARVELOUS!!
Hmmm...maybe because we live in a society where wearing a suit isn't required by most of our jobs?
I’m scared of the prices
People are drawn to newer styles because they're often more comfortable and practical. It's easy to get caught up in the "newer is better" mindset, but ultimately, wear what you feel good in. Don't force yourself into a "classic" style just to appear cool. Be yourself and express your own unique style!
Lol this is just propaganda so shop can sell more suits
I love being left out by using a little bit of updressing. While everyone is wearing running shoes and nike shirts, im wearing matching belt and shoes, a good pair of jeans and a nice tucked in shirt, casual but updressed for others
I would argue it's more about the ratio between $$$ & status. if I had the $$$ I would def like to have a couple tailor made suits but then I don't have nowhere 2 go vice versa if I had the status unless I'm going out for business or high profile events, imma be in sweat pants & hoodie going 2 grocery store #TheStruggle on top of the fact that allot of men R overweight & outta shape which makes dressing elegant even more uncomfortable
As I'm thinking about it now, it's weird how our culture has shifted to if I go to Starbucks to work on my computer or walking around our local town, people would probably ask if I were wearing a suit or a blazer, what's the occasion? Like an hour day currently we need a special occasion to dress up more formally. If theres no occasion just wear whatever. Even wearing pajamas is acceptable sometimes now in public, its crazy! Lol idk if thats the norm but im not teaching my kids to look that way in public.
Well I drive a semi truck for a living and I do have a desire to dress elegant so I guess I'll be on my way to doing my job in a tailored suit (I'm not joking)
Elegantly stand out today by wearing leather jacket+white shirt, leather belt, blackjeans+biker leather shoe ALL EYES WAS ON ME✨ I do wear leather when riding wear formal while driving
Caring what other people think of you’re outfit is one of the most unmasculine things lol Just put that shit on and rock it If you feel insecure in an outfit it’s probably because it ether doesn’t fit right, doesn’t match the occasion, or you’re over weight/ out of shape,
It's not just about how men dress, society wants men to set the bar lower for everything.