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Well said! 🥹

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Im in my sixties. I dress for comfort now , more than style. But some men are colour shy with dress. And i think that is one reason why men dont like dressing up. I know a guy and he put on a pink shirt that he bought one day , and his daughter remarked to him , dad you are wearing a pink shirt , have you turned gay.

It’s always better to look good than to feel good. Always err on the side of MARVELOUS!!

Hmmm...maybe because we live in a society where wearing a suit isn't required by most of our jobs?

I’m scared of the prices

People are drawn to newer styles because they're often more comfortable and practical. It's easy to get caught up in the "newer is better" mindset, but ultimately, wear what you feel good in. Don't force yourself into a "classic" style just to appear cool. Be yourself and express your own unique style!

Lol this is just propaganda so shop can sell more suits

I love being left out by using a little bit of updressing. While everyone is wearing running shoes and nike shirts, im wearing matching belt and shoes, a good pair of jeans and a nice tucked in shirt, casual but updressed for others

I would argue it's more about the ratio between $$$ & status. if I had the $$$ I would def like to have a couple tailor made suits but then I don't have nowhere 2 go vice versa if I had the status unless I'm going out for business or high profile events, imma be in sweat pants & hoodie going 2 grocery store #TheStruggle on top of the fact that allot of men R overweight & outta shape which makes dressing elegant even more uncomfortable

As I'm thinking about it now, it's weird how our culture has shifted to if I go to Starbucks to work on my computer or walking around our local town, people would probably ask if I were wearing a suit or a blazer, what's the occasion? Like an hour day currently we need a special occasion to dress up more formally. If theres no occasion just wear whatever. Even wearing pajamas is acceptable sometimes now in public, its crazy! Lol idk if thats the norm but im not teaching my kids to look that way in public.

Well I drive a semi truck for a living and I do have a desire to dress elegant so I guess I'll be on my way to doing my job in a tailored suit (I'm not joking)

Elegantly stand out today by wearing leather jacket+white shirt, leather belt, blackjeans+biker leather shoe ALL EYES WAS ON ME✨ I do wear leather when riding wear formal while driving

Caring what other people think of you’re outfit is one of the most unmasculine things lol Just put that shit on and rock it If you feel insecure in an outfit it’s probably because it ether doesn’t fit right, doesn’t match the occasion, or you’re over weight/ out of shape,

It's not just about how men dress, society wants men to set the bar lower for everything.

If opposition (or just attention) from people you don't even engage with is something that inhibits you, you are no man. You are a woman. If you don't take financial advice from a person, why would you give a damn what they think about you in general? What alphabet people in rags with pink hair and metal in their faces think about what you look like just shouldn't be a concern...

I disagree, people just don't give a fuck and don't think or they just wanna wear the low brow "street wear" their braindead peers do (young people)

I wear suits etc, bespoke items, and I don't care what anyone says .... I once had a female say "huh, can tell who you voted for" looked me up and down and smirked while her friend called me a loser .... I was wearing a suit, white shirt, black tie and black shoes with tie pin etc.. they walked off with a mock laugh, they were dressed in I can only describe as miss matched second hand looking rags and training shoes, they smelled too, of B.O. and their hair looked dirty.... Here in the UK if you don't "fit in" you are targeted, for mocking and smirking... I immediately went to my tailor and ordered a new jacket ... And went home to shower. Youth culture here is non existent, it's ALL trackeis (track suit bottoms, tight, worn short) huge expensive but cheaply made trainers (Nike Adidas etc) and an ill fitting one size fits all black puffa jacket worn with the hood up to look "gangsta" or a black hoodie, (that isn't even "puffa" and incredibly poor quality) they ALL dress exactly the same...grown men aren't much different, they are generally told what to wear by their partners or peers ... I refuse to do this, I was "dressed" by my ex, and I was miserable, I fell into that mould of being told what to wear to suit her (for her peers, after all a man is just another possession to these females to show her status and bleed dry, ok I'm generalising, but prove me wrong...) as soon as I divorced her I immediately ordered a suit, threw all my old clothes in a bag and donated them to charity, I completely filled my wardrobe with fine wool sweaters, Italian knits, tailored trousers, jackets and suits, and bespoke shirts, quality shoes and underwear, (no supermarket 5 pack of boxers) and socks, accessories like a decent quality gents umbrella, etc, I bought hand made coats, and I refuse to wear trainers except for working out (she saw weeks later and her face dropped, it was wonderful)... At home I'm in men's lounge trousers and t shirt, but I'd sooner die than be seen out in them ... I get looks, comments etc ranging from "you look smart? Going some special?" to "uhg who does he think he is?" And "saddo" from very scruffy dirty looking miserable people who are only happy if EVERYONE is miserable too, again generalising, but the resentment is often palpable from both sexes, my gay friends also lament the day men stopped looking like men, not all homosexual men are ultra feminine and they personally despise the "straight gay men" as they described them to me, they too dress classy and refined, but they'll tell you it's rare in their community too... I dated a female who told me I tried too hard apparently by wearing trousers and not jeans and I actually shaved!! I walked out. . Fk that, I don't want my best dressed day to be when I'm lying in my coffin and I certainly won't be dictated to for any reason esp personal choices like clothing.. You are what you wear. Smart, clean, masculine, stoic, capable, fresh, or scruffy homeless looking drop out who obviously doesn't wash in the morning before going to the local shop for their can of monster, critical I know...but I fight back.... It IS a choice. You just have to step out of the hive mindset. Sadly until the fat cats sat behind the desks tell them what to wear it'll never change, I truly believe we have seen the last of the masculine, clean showered well dressed stylist gentleman.

Reading the comments I like the thought "dressing up is the new non-conforming" at 68 years old I've been too guilty of blending in to casual t-shirt, jeans, overshirts etc. Time for change I think. Many thanks for this video.

even saitama said when he first wear his hero suit. he is embarrass at first but everyday he wears he will get used to it.

To hell with society’s “norm” 😂😂😂

I broke the unwritten casual dress code at work once and won't do it again. Nothing but negative attention from people all day.

Ok to be fair these guys look like they’re from 1910 not dressing elegantly

bro the gays are not hating on your suit 😭

With coddling of criminals, and going bankrupt from a self defense case in court, men dress like homeless. It's the educated liberal way of society.

Its more like tryna not get mugged in the uk

Good list.

I'm 35 and decided to level up my clothing this year. People mock me saying it's mid-age crisis, but my wife's and other women looks says otherwise.

I have personal issues about when men go out with their women to important gatherings and wear street wear while she is dressed in a dress and heels..it urks me

Me and my buddy are used to dress well since the first years of high school. Recently I got a job as a warehouse/sales-office worker and always wear a shirt, tailored trousers and oxford shoes,which is basically as my manager dresses. The other day the owner's son came in and pointed out the way I was dressed and told me to put on jeans and "twenty-year-old shoes". The way I took it is that he feels so insecure that he wants me to dress down, and that's why I'll keep dressing well.

AS A BLACKMAN ITS EVEN WORSE ,YOU SUPPOSE TO WEAR HIPHOP CLOTHING !

I started to dress well everywhere, especially in my working place, many people judge me or even called me on that: "I'm overdress and asked me if I'm going somewhere - like wedding" and btw I'm working in office, so this thing should be normal, but it's not, even our high manager don't dress that well, in my eyes, most of the times I overshadow him with my clothes. Most of my colleagues wear simple clothes, nothing to stand out. After some time, most of my colleagues get used to my new style, but they will always judge you. For all guys, that want to wear something better, it's hard from the beginning, but you will get used to it and after some time, you will never want to wear those "simple" clothes again.

We havevto make the distinction between men and boys. Men dress how they want. Boys dress to fit in and for validation.

If you're larping as a peaky blinder it doesn't make you "masculine" it doesn't make you an "alpha" or a "sigma" it just makes you an autistic weirdo. This isnt going to get you laid, get you paid or improve your health, fitness or education. You're pretending to be a self help masculinity channel but you're childish. I'm betting you're no older than early 20s, probably not very wealthy, or born into wealth, and probably can't even bench 225. I highly doubt you're anyone with any credibility to be preaching personal growth and masculinity.

In a nutshell: We're afraid of being labeled a "dandy man" if you know what i mean

You shouldn't dress to make yourself happy. You dress to whatever society perceives as the right way to dress, that's how you dress for success. Dressing up to feel good about yourself is both feminine and childish. And being edgy and trying to dress cool, only makes people think you're a weirdo. Its always the autistic virgins doing this shit. Unless youre in a role where dressing up everyday is the norm then doing it just makes you weird. And it's a waste of time, money and effort. Most jobs have a dress code and unless you have some corporate office job it usually doesn't involve a suit, you can't do much labor in a suit, you can't workout in a suit, wearing a suit only slows you down, restricts your movement, takes more time to put on, takes more time to maintain. It's irrational

Moste men are too fat, thats it

You have to somewhat conform to social norms or everyone will just think you're autistic. And you probably are if you're going around formally dressed up in casual life, especially if you're rocking the fedora and all. Also it's completely irrational to blow thousands of dollars on fitted suits to wear every day unless your job requires it. Most people don't have the money for that. And its difficult to work in a suit, or to do anything active. There's no logical or practical reason to do this. Focus on actual self improvement, not dressing up just to make people think you're someone you're not. No successful businessman would tell you to blow thousand of dollars on suits unless you're already rich.

You whats works having a Group dressing similair makes everything wearable.

define ‘dress well’.

One who thinks for himself is an Alpha Male!

I don’t think it’s mostly about standing out and looking different from the rest of the crowd. I think it’s because many men are overweight and don’t think they would look good in a tailored outfit.

I would say 99% of the reason for casual clothes is convenience and practicality. Especially for someone who is quite active. It’s hard to beat jeans and boots for most outdoor situations. I prefer clothes I can rely on and not worry about getting dirty or damaged. While it’s nice to dress up for occasions, I don’t think there is anything masculine about being overly fussy with clothing, especially if your clothing prevents you from wanting to get your hands dirty.

I am 28 and since I joined a historic student fraternity I dont wear T-Shirts and Jeans and casual stuff like this anymore (just in my own 4 rooms when I chill). I exclusively wear anything from a shirt and chino and up to full suite, for winter a long coat and leather mittens. Always clean shaven and fresh Hair. At first you feel overdressed, but you will get used to it. It also opens many doors I feel and I've got many compliments from women. But you need to know a bit about mens wear, you cannot combine just anything, there are certain rules, and I feel most people even in business space make a lot of terrible choices regarding this. Andone more thing: Its not that expensive actually, when I started out I just needed to know my sizes and I started by buying used stuff for cheap money. Most people use their suits one or two times and then sell them for cheap.

You mean elegantly!

A friend of mine worked in a small german tech company. He is quite small (around 5ft 3) but he chose to wear nice boots and a 3 piece suit) He did this for a few weeks until his Boss came to him (his boss is wearing casual clothes) and told him to stop wearing these clothes cause they make him (The Boss) look bad.

i love dressing as a drug dillah nobody wants to mess with me

Sheeople 😂

Some people are way too worried about what others opinions and crave for attention. 😊

Since turning 50, I have raised the bar in my daily clothing. I got mocked for a bit. But I just smiled and said, "I want to dress my age, like a Man not a schoolboy". That was enough, and they backed off.