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I reasonate with this so much I really proud of you to talking about this so publically, the Muslim/ Somali community can be very intense and judgemental Partly the reason why I'm so scared to put myself out there as a Somali girl who doesn't really follow the Somali way of life But I'm sending so much strength to deal with all the negative comments

Toxic aunties have nothing better to do than shit stir 😂😂😅😅

You reap what you sow.

My defence I shower them with praises that’s how to deal with toxic Aunties & uncles! Specially when I was a roadman without a campus! They be like “ war wax isku fal dayuus yahoow wareersan” and I will be like Edo that uunsi on you smells lovely. Uncles I just tell them Laandheere laan dheere dhalay they love that

Women have given birth from the start of humanity without anything to dull the pain. Just like your mind DULL

Girl with poppy is a morron. Sty out of the arguments. A military responce to take out militancy is a "completely diffent circumstance to murdering 1400 innocent festival goers. What military advance did that achieve foe hamas?? It was a message of evil intent.

Who was that woman? You held your own against hostile forces there. Stop the genocide!! Free Palestine!!

Keep going be you walaalo Noloow! Just make peace with hooyo the rest don’t stress about.

The world has gone insane I’m so glad you have a heart and are speaking up 🩷🩷🩷

Queen is back ❤️

Your really educated, posh, well spoken and I feel maybe your community might feel threatened, particularly as it’s a male dominated, I think your awesome and Respect and wish that you achieve all life’s goals, thanks to you, you will pave the way for many Somali women to be liberated and free

Your really brave, people should be free to love whoever they wish as long as there not hurting anybody, I like your open mindedness and hope u find true love, the comments on here are so extreme and so narrow minded, I hope these people don’t get in the way of u finding love with a non Muslim partner, I wish u all the happiness

Dear dahaba have you checked your vitamin d3 levels ? And try to eat more vitamin c foods like sauerkraut ❤❤❤

Get well soon Dahabo! Your authenticity and vulnerability is so inspiring. As always your safety and health is most important, take good care of yourself. Love the content

Welcome back Dahaba ! I have missed seeing your lovely face but I am glad to hear you took some time to process things alone, never feel bad about putting yourself first Looking forward to whatever content you decide to keep posting! - a young Somali girl v inspired by you ❤

TalkTv is lying for Israel again

Welcome back sweetheart ❤❤❤❤

Cheap and clean 😂😂🤦🏾🤦🏾

This girl is clearly lost and needs to learn the religion before speaking on issues without knowledge. Islam is about following Allah law set for men and women not follow your wims and desires. May Allah guide you

everything I say is with love even though it may sound harsh first of all it completely allowed in Islam to marry outside "the culture" but you can not marry a non Muslim (as a women). also men are not allowed to marry Anyone, they are forbidden to marry a women who has no religion and if the women is non Muslim she has to be practicing ( in what every religion she is) and I know this sound harsh and you have convinced your self your out here "living your best life" but as you said your a Muslim so firstly you should be trying to cover up your sins (weather you like it or not what your doing is a sin in Islamic contexts) so not only are you not covering up your sins your proudly talking about them and alao encouraging others that it's fine to do so. I know your speaking from a kind place and you think your helping but this is misguided information and not at all advice you should give young girls yes we all sin All of us, but encouraging girls to marry non Muslim men is crazy. that marriage will be void accoring to islam so that person will be commuting zina for the rest of there life. like i said above we all sin but we can't play with religion so it fits our own narrative and then down play the consequences like it's just a light matter. yes there is alot of issues with cultural practices being mixed with Islam and that wrong (like being forced to marry only someone from your culture or race) but just becuase that wrong does not mean we disregard Islam all together. it's our jobs as grown Muslims in the west to filter out the culture from the religion and practice true Islam and not just disregard the whole religion becuase we disagree with cultural issues that have nothing to with Islam. may Allah guide all of us inshallah

potential attention seeker?

may Allah guide us all <3

First off, you’re not wearing modest clothes, secondly it’s forbidden to date someone before marriage.

Sweetheart, happiness is fleeting. It’s even discouraged for Muslim men to marry Ahlul kitab. As a Muslim woman, this is a commandment from Allah. If this is something you chose to do, go ahead BUT don’t encourage other young girls to do the same.

Very sad to see this

Dating advice for women: don't do it :) thats all

astaghfirullah girl what is this

If she considers herself a sincere muslim, then she wouldn't question this ruling that Allah was bestowed upon us. Does she believe in parts of the quran and rejects other parts like the Jews and the Christians?

may Allah guide us all ameeen.

im sorry but this is really bad advice for young Muslim women trying to navigate the complexities of dating. Encouraging them to 'live their life however they please' disregards the importance of faith and the values that should guide these decisions. What kind of advice is this? It offers no meaningful direction or consideration for Muslim women's religious and moral framework. Your advice on dating is indistinguishable from the predominant secular perspective and doesn’t offer anything meaningful to a practicing Muslim audience. I think your intentions are well-meaning but this is truly misguided advice :(

This women is a filthy Majeerteen woman from the United Kingdom 😂

What about marriage? If he’s not Muslim I doubt think you’ll be able to get a Nikkah. Even if you got married legally, the marriage wouldn’t be islamically valid… that scares me. I would rather have a union that is pleasing to Allah first and foremost. Different culture is fine though

❤❤ You're so pretty.

Your brave, must be getting lots of dirty looks from Muslims, yes if they guy loves you, I don’t understand the problem, I have seen a few Muslims getting extremely angry about it, me personally, if the person loves you, I’m cool with it, I’m South Asian male myself

Sis you finna find out the hard way that Allah swt ALWAYS wants what is best for you ❤ May Allah open your heart to learn more 🤲🏽

I use to think the same, that it was unfair. But now I agree with Muslim women not marrying a non Muslim. It is because a non Muslim guy may not implement the rights that a Muslim wife should have. It’s to protect Muslim women not to be financially abused , to be taken care of basic needs. The religion actually set standards to protect Muslim women. A Muslim man can look after a non Muslim women the Islamic way.

Girl as a Somali girl who is dating a White Atheist guy I would like a story time about your dating experience. I am 28, I live with my family but my mum doesn’t know about my boyfriend. My siblings absolutely adore him but we are fairly new so I am waiting until I can tell my mum about him. I dont care about the backlash from the community.

So your advice for muslimwomen is: dont follow islam, follow what your desires??? Girl God is all knowing, He made the rules, why do you think you know better? May Allah guide us all, this is just sad :(

If you are a muslim yourself pls delete this vid because a lot of what you have said is terrible advice for young muslim women. Im sorry but it's the truth, Islam should be at the heart of everything you do, not your desires. And that's exactly what you have said in the vid. May allah guide you

Islamic stance is not permissble for muslim women to date/marry outside religion, however we can marry anyone that is muslim, regardless of what culture/race they are. We dont follow what we want we follow what the Quran tells us to

Mashallah sis! You look amazing

but how do you justify having s*x outside of marriage as a muslim woman

We are just like Tom cats we piss on every tree making it ours and defend the territory! Don’t know if it’s a Muslim thing but very Mali. Even a qamarji like me sometimes find myself being very defensive! Just take it as a compliment Abaayo you are too precious that’s why.

I have seen this happen in London. And I believe they still have feelings for each other now. But too much happened. I understand it's complicated on both sides. You are brave to approach such topics. But if we cannot come together and discuss such how are we to progress?

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The thumbnail is fire girl looks super slay ❤❤❤

Yes babes the struggle is real out here I lost my potential person due to my parents not approving nd I have been living in sadness .

Soo many topics you discussed! Youre soo right proceed with caution and make sure you’re both willing

Lovely, keep up the good work.

I've lived in this area for 34 years and have never been inside this cemetery.