Oversharing about my life, seeing my ex etc While trying Burger King Addams Family Meal |Vlogtober15

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  • @Womenofhue
    @Womenofhue 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +225

    I remember feeling so depressed on my 30th birthday because I wasn’t married and didn’t have a child yet. Fast forward two years later I met my now husband at 32 years old and got married at 34 years old and had my first child at 35 years old. Delayed but not denied baby it will happen for you based on God timing.

    • @jaywill147
      @jaywill147 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      I love this testimony….It gives me hope . I am praying that the Lord remembers my womb too….Married at 39 Now 41…..I am praying that God blesses my womb. I’m so depressed as I’ve been trying to conceive since we got married & no result …..😭😭😭😭

    • @ayana23654
      @ayana23654 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Praying for your breakthrough ​@@jaywill147

    • @caroledwards5768
      @caroledwards5768 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      That’s what I am saying God and time

    • @jasmindelpleche2712
      @jasmindelpleche2712 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      ​@@jaywill147keep praying darling god answer prays in his own time his time is the best time.

    • @chumnat
      @chumnat 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@jaywill147 🙏🙏🙏🙏praying for the same blessing too as well dear

  • @amandacreations5325
    @amandacreations5325 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +62

    Baby girl it's ok I understand you well. I got pregnant at 35 with my first child . Here I am today with two beautiful daughters 2 and 4 years old. I love you Alicia Kim. Stay positive always and continue to do de do

  • @monaleemcleod2170
    @monaleemcleod2170 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +70

    I feel that way many times. Wasted years, but then I trust that all things will work for my good.

  • @sandygodblesspickney3845
    @sandygodblesspickney3845 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +49

    I got married at 26, separated at 42 , and am now filing for divorce at 46. This is how I feel at times, i waste my young years with an abusive man😢... Big up kim❤

    • @shaunawalters3340
      @shaunawalters3340 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Praying for your continued strength and your safety. Sending 🙏 🫂 ❤❤❤❤

    • @ASMRbutter-fly
      @ASMRbutter-fly 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Same

    • @keirra041288
      @keirra041288 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      God got u!

    • @kenieshamckoy4665
      @kenieshamckoy4665 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yep I can so relate to your story.

  • @jennifergeddes719
    @jennifergeddes719 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +48

    Alicia I started over three months shy of my 41st birthday and I didnt have an education. I went back to school, got my degree and now working my job.

  • @KushiteGoddess7
    @KushiteGoddess7 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +106

    Kim I know that “running out of time” feeling very well but trust me, you’re not. In my 20/30’s I had my share of dead end relationships or men that I thought would be my forever. Anyways fast forward I met my now husband 4 years ago. We got married last year 2023 I was 41 and he is 48 and after having 4 miscarriages our last one being April of this year, I’m so elated to say now in October I’m into my 2nd trimester. Now I’m 42 and my hubby is 49 and we will welcome our 1st baby girl in February 2025 God willing. Stay encouraged and keep being a wonderful respectful young lady. 😘

    • @UNRULYMARSHA
      @UNRULYMARSHA 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Congratulations! Wishing you a safe rest of your pregnancy and a safe delivery

    • @TSmith-du9my
      @TSmith-du9my 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This is a blessing..so happy for u

    • @Bigyaadfamily
      @Bigyaadfamily 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Congratulations!

    • @maizelhylton8505
      @maizelhylton8505 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Love to you kim ❤️ ❤️

    • @talkreds7489
      @talkreds7489 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Congrats to your babygirl

  • @syd2151
    @syd2151 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +47

    Alicia, don't worry about it. There are so many people who started over in their 40's and 50's. Nothing happens before the time 😊

    • @rosebertram9932
      @rosebertram9932 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      That's me I started over in 2019 and I'm much more at peace.

  • @kerrtho123
    @kerrtho123 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +47

    Kim you're so right, God doesn't make mistakes. Anything he has done is well done

  • @TheGotohub
    @TheGotohub 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    You’re truly an inspiration for women, young girls especially. I’m 27 and married with a son however couple days ago my husband let me know he wants to move forward separately after having dinner that I prepared as I do every evening and also kissing me and our child and telling us he loves us before going to work that morning. I’ve been through a lot in life especially starting out as an immigrant in the US and to think that this person was the one on the sideline to see the different phases of my life then want to inflict such hurt on me saddens me. It’s like I’ve been sleeping with the enemy. Now I don’t know what direction to take as we have 4 month old baby we have to raise together so I can’t not see him. I definitely relate when you say it gives anxiety each time even getting a text message from him regarding the baby gives me such a distraught feeling. I’m a praying person and I’ll continue to seek God because I can’t show any signs of weakness or break down infront of my baby. This has changed the dynamics of the household and for the effort and time I’ve put into being what I thought was a good wife and in building up my family it’s all gone just like that. I want to say I pray it gets better but I really don’t know if it will. In ending I’m trying the approach of just focusing on my son and whatever extra time I have I put it into my work and seeing other ways to uplift myself. Just thank you for your words of enlightenment in maneuvering life after a break up.

    • @jilly-annkeyes3882
      @jilly-annkeyes3882 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I'm sorry to hear. I too started out similar. Plus going through a divorce now from a man I thought would have been around forever. I pray for ur strength. Xoxo

  • @arleneking3904
    @arleneking3904 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +51

    Kim you are so strong I know you’re helping a lot of people who are in their 40s and 50s please Continue to post these videos I admire you so much. Keep up the good work and your King is coming no worries.❤❤

    • @zaleenarasul5058
      @zaleenarasul5058 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I agree with you 💯 she's truly an inspiration to many of us❤

  • @maxjohnson8474
    @maxjohnson8474 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +149

    Kim, please do not borrow grief from the future. Be present and embrace the moment and trust GOD. This is only a season of your life and with God and time, you will be ok.

    • @LillianSmith-b2c
      @LillianSmith-b2c 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      SO TRUE 🙏🫖🍵🍵🪻

    • @shanaeisdivine
      @shanaeisdivine 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Great message!

  • @salmonfamily4527
    @salmonfamily4527 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Im 35 and about to start over all again. Thanks for letting us know how you feel. God will make it work out for all of us that starting over again.

  • @empressnicky1724
    @empressnicky1724 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    Girl, I love your responses to the questions. You would be an excellent motivational speaker 💞
    Hope everyone got a positive takeaway from this video

  • @julietpaden6025
    @julietpaden6025 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +39

    Take notes, ladies never let a man controls or dictate how you live your life, kim you are still young the right one will come and you will get that family❤

    • @allisonthomas8099
      @allisonthomas8099 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Boo worth her grand father , he is forty years older than her , he lived his life already , so why hold or manipulate her life, Boo needed to get a woman five to ten years younger than him, god will send a loving , caring person for her

  • @NickkiCambridge
    @NickkiCambridge 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Strength of a Woman, you got this Kim I've started over one to many times. I am 49yrs and finally at peace with the way God is steering my life.

  • @Jude-nz2ld
    @Jude-nz2ld 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

    BABYGIRL, REMEMBER TO WATCH A FUNNY MOVIE OR A COMEDY SHOW PER DAY EVERYDAY. YOU WILL FEEL A BIG DIFFERENCE IN YOUR BODY AND FRAME OF MIND. LAUGHTER IS THE BEST MEDICINE!

    • @JANET.19645
      @JANET.19645 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I can tell you 30’s was my worst yrs. I was just dying for it to pass. In the 40’s much better in 50’s challenging now I am 60 I am not stressing lol🤣🤣

    • @JANET.19645
      @JANET.19645 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Some people think having a house is a walk in the park! That’s why some rather apartment as you explained

  • @SandraWeekes
    @SandraWeekes 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Hi Alicia, do not let your past regrets haunt you. Life is a learning process, and you just have to learn from what you think are the errors you have made in the past. Do not dwell on the past. Just pray and God will take control of your life and he will direct your path. How we have our life planned in our minds and on paper don't mean that is the way it is/ was meant to be. Do not rush life. Just enjoy it and take each day at a time. What is for you is for you. Make peace with your pass. I love your vlogs. Keep on doing the do. ❤

  • @toya9729
    @toya9729 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I don't think your running out of time. It's a time for your rebirth, getting to know the grown, strong and extraverted you. The best version of you is on the way 🤗

  • @mitchellmiller6035
    @mitchellmiller6035 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Kim please please don’t allow anyone or anything to stress you ,you work so hard trying to let things work and it didn’t you will lose your self if you try to fix things you can’t control ❤️🙏🏾🌹

  • @Keepingitposh
    @Keepingitposh 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +58

    This video feels like you talking about my life so much I literally had teary eyes watching it 😞 . Thanks for your transparency you really out here helping people like myself 🤍 .

    • @unbotheredchico
      @unbotheredchico 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Hugs

    • @tamara8061
      @tamara8061 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I feel like she is talking about my life too!! Some way some how we all have had similar experiences at one point in our lives. Feeling like we have invested so much time with someone and everything goes down the drain. But as the Lord says he will bless us with double all what the locusts has stolen. Keep the faith. I understand. I too share your sentiments. For the holidays I think you should bring your mom to be with you or perhaps visit Jamaica for the holidays. But you know best. Either way give yourself GRACE.

  • @soniagarrick3627
    @soniagarrick3627 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Hey Kim. My daughter had her baby at 37. She too was disheartened about her life . To be honest I was concerned too about not getting a grandchild from her but I never projected my feelings onto. her. Fast forward…shortly afterwards she met my lovely son in law and now I have my gorgeous grandson who just turned 7 years old. She gave birth totally naturally without any painkillers etc. We all go through life worries but remember life is not a straight road. It has lots of bumps but don’t worry, you soon don’t have time fe we cause you too busy with yu family 👍🏾. You are young. Keep going. Things do not remain the same. ❤

    • @Tammy-sd3sc
      @Tammy-sd3sc 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      We had our son when I was 38. I was labeled high-risk but God brought us through it. Our son is truly a blessing from God. There's hope.

  • @shaylaro1941
    @shaylaro1941 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I am very proud of you Kim, one of the things I love about you is that God has been your first priority in everything that you do.❤

  • @dawnlafayette5477
    @dawnlafayette5477 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +49

    Girl I am in love with your positivity 😊

  • @welcome8791
    @welcome8791 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    I admire your strength & courage Kim. God is able 🙏🏾

  • @robertaphillip2084
    @robertaphillip2084 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Girl this vlog was powerful and a testament to your growth! Keep your head high! Keep investing in yourself! This week I went on a random drive because of your message for us to live life! Thanks for sharing and inspiring us!❤❤❤❤

  • @dbodbo8510
    @dbodbo8510 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Kim please stay prayed up, God is good. Trials turn into Lessons, and Lessons turn into Blessings. You will be fine and you will have your children/family. Keep your FAITH! 🙏🏾

  • @rockyboo3759
    @rockyboo3759 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Kim the rest of your days shall be the best of your days 🙏

    • @Catalinaparis
      @Catalinaparis 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️

  • @rosamondmaylor5558
    @rosamondmaylor5558 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Kim, just live. God will put in place what he has for you. Please do not allow your age to rush you into anything that's not for you. Society puts stress on women to be married, have children, etc.
    Not all women have that path. Trust and have faith that God has you. Much 🥰

  • @marviav3071
    @marviav3071 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    You're not running out of time. You're still young. This is just a time of healing. You need to heal first before you think about anything. Continue to live, have fun, and do things you love. God will align your life with the right attachment if you have patience and trust yourself. The good thing you have a car and can drive yourself independently

  • @arlenejackson2125
    @arlenejackson2125 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Love this big woman talk. Keep up the good work Kim. ❤

  • @julietteford8391
    @julietteford8391 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    You are right on time, Kim . It's all about God. He got you young lady!! My daughter is also 34 years old, and she is my only child who didn't make me a grandma. Kim, you have time to have your own child or even adopt. Blessings when your time comes

  • @Rika-zr5nk
    @Rika-zr5nk 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I know that feeling because i have given away my best years too but, i learn alot through the lessons. We have to hang on to god promise, your family might just be right around to corner girl, keep praying and believing. ❤

  • @lovelymika21
    @lovelymika21 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Kim I really admire you❤... I'm lovinggggg the daily vlogs. As a young woman navigating her early thirties, you're a breath of fresh air. When October done what we fi do. 😩

  • @kadinesimpson9162
    @kadinesimpson9162 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I am 31 and i feel like i haven't accomplished anything but we shouldn't think like that at all because we still are young and have strength to push ourselves forward. U being 34 doesn't mean u can't have the things u want. If u want a child go ahead and have one,do it for yourself. Don't do it because u want a long lasting partner because most of us wont have that, sadly. And remember we have one life to live,we were born alone and we are going to die alone no matter if we have someone or not. I love you kim u inspire me so don't be sad or doubtful ok

  • @platinumfloraja
    @platinumfloraja 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    You got this baby girl🎉 I am starting over at 53 years old. Divorced from a toxic nasissist.
    Kim, you are doing great.

    • @cheyennepotagold1575
      @cheyennepotagold1575 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      And here I am starting over at forty and thinking I can't go any further ❤

  • @Pinkmareexo
    @Pinkmareexo 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    Im happy for these everyday vlogs i hope you'll doing vlogmas too kim❤

  • @kathleenhyacinth2163
    @kathleenhyacinth2163 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Prayers moves mountains Kim stay in prayers stay in the word. You are doing well. Trust God he will see you through he never fails. ❤❤❤

  • @MarleneSmith-i6b
    @MarleneSmith-i6b 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    God will send your Boaz when the time is right
    Always remember God got you!!!

    • @Ladyinwaiting447
      @Ladyinwaiting447 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      This is l Beyond Profound😭😭😭

  • @monicalee479
    @monicalee479 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +255

    Kim,just live your life one day at a time. Things will fall into place as you rightly say. I got married at 36 and have my first child at 37 9 days short to my 38th birthday have the second at 42. They both are healthy healthy.

    • @stephaniestewart8271
      @stephaniestewart8271 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +48

      I got married at 40 then had my second at 40 too now 43 pregnant with the final baby.
      My first child was at 29, I totally understand how she feels, but God is great and He is an ontime God, let us pray for Kim continually.

    • @rushellbrown8310
      @rushellbrown8310 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      I had my first a few months ago at 37

    • @alicianembhard4482
      @alicianembhard4482 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Lemme jump in too. First at 35 and second at 41. Both healthy. I had kids when I felt ready.

    • @maryscott1272
      @maryscott1272 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      First time commenting, Kim it will be well with you. I waited until I was ready. Had my 1st child at 35 and 2nd at 38. Got married at 34. God is able and he will bless you with the right person,.keep trusting God, he is faithful

    • @clairehall8518
      @clairehall8518 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Kim you did the best thing and moved away from negativity, animosity of an ex and a country who pretty much either works two three jobs, or keep themselves to themselves. New Jersey is a nice place and you will meet people and the chance to experience the weather spring, autumn, summer, winter. Continue to have faith as j had my one and only child at the age of thirty four. Women are having babies in their 50s There is no right time to have children, just go with the flow. Yes you may regret wasting a good few years with a toxic person. But you are now free from him. Stay close to your family, continue to visit your brother and try go and see your mom life is short. I had one child she was 19 years old not sick and passed away in my arms. At least you continue to visit your nephew and perhaps go look for your mom.

  • @keishamiller4374
    @keishamiller4374 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    I have the same feelings too kim but whatever you cannot control let it go just do the work on yourself and you will be rewarded just believe that you will be ok..

    • @stephaniestewart8271
      @stephaniestewart8271 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Please do not stress yourself out.
      Go to church, learn new hobbies, read, but enjoy your own company.
      It was hard for me at first, I had my first child at 29 yrs just after leaving UWI, then bought a house with the help of my mom then went in and out of relationships but I still had faith and attended church every Sunday.
      But please don't go hard on yourself, learn new hobbies, read, go to church and always pray.
      Blessings to you .

  • @lisamcnamee7437
    @lisamcnamee7437 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Alicia Kim I know you have faith and you will be fine. Keep trusting the good Lord and he will see you thru!! So proud of you girl❤❤.

  • @renenugent9827
    @renenugent9827 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I can relate to this vlog. You are on the right path, keep doing well. I admire you. 😊

  • @NickyG876
    @NickyG876 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Girl I know that feeling,I swear am feeling the same way ,watch your video really motivate me ,just know God is still in control

  • @SandraAshby-sr9tl
    @SandraAshby-sr9tl 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Kim ,you are a strong woman , been watching you for a while now. Do what ever makes you happy without having to answer too anyone. ❤

  • @joseyjeat2071
    @joseyjeat2071 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    14:20 man you are so correct!!! Thank you for sharing❤❤ I think me and others needed to hear this❤.

  • @VybewithCal
    @VybewithCal 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Girl congrats on your journey

  • @asaireneikejah
    @asaireneikejah 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Love you girl❤
    I am more confident now as a 32 year old divorced mother of two, and truth be told things I deal with now, I couldn’t have dealt with them if I was in my 20s

  • @pamelajohnson323
    @pamelajohnson323 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Hi kim this video was therapy , you answer the questions to the point , you gave advice i really enjoyed watching your videos . God's blessings and protection be with you always.much love❤

  • @LovelyHomesLH
    @LovelyHomesLH 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This whole vlog was a whole inspiration !! From the time I found your channel your authenticity has been so inspiring!! ❤

  • @janeagriffin9580
    @janeagriffin9580 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Alicia... you have to go with the flow you are still young... God is in total control... He will continue to Bless you🥰

  • @desireehammond5336
    @desireehammond5336 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Thank you for your vulnerability, I resonate so much with what you shared❤ continue to trust the timing of your life

  • @Golden08
    @Golden08 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Girrrl you're about to live your best years. Get ready to embrace it fully. Easier said than done but you must believe it❤️ Just keep going❤

  • @bmj2424
    @bmj2424 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Hi Alicia. I’m so glad to hear that you are having therapy as I could tell you were struggling. I’m am mum of a 36 year who says the same thing about running out of time. But you are absolutely right about God and HIS timing for your life. You are a beautiful woman and God has the right person for you. So continue to do the work on your healing journey and give the rest to God. Love 💕🩷💕 in abundance. Bev 🇬🇧🇬🇧💕🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🌹🌹🌹

  • @cdmango5756
    @cdmango5756 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you for keeping constant. It gives me something to look forward to at the end of the day. Blessings Girlfriend!!

  • @nadinedaley3879
    @nadinedaley3879 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Don't stress over what is already gone just take it as a lesson learned , brush yourself off and move on with your life you are still young live your life don't let any make you feel unhappy

  • @viviennejohnson4273
    @viviennejohnson4273 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Alicia you’re at piece because you’re free and can go where you choose whenever you want.

  • @LifeWithSK
    @LifeWithSK 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Enjoyed this video. Keep pushing through Kim. You got this 🙏🏽❤️.

  • @ChrissiSmith-l9s
    @ChrissiSmith-l9s 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Kim, not to worry. Everything is in God's timing🙏. As you mentioned, "perfect timing". And God's timing is perfect and his season is right. You WILL have kids and a family...i had my first child at 39 and wasnt worried about the clock,because God orders our life.. he has good things in store for you. Keep praying and see him work out Everything for you, in his perfect timing. I pray all God's choices blessings upon you dear😊

  • @joan-ann
    @joan-ann 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hi Kim❤️, I am so happy for you. Your inspiration is fabulous. You are doing a fantastic job. You remind me so much of when I was your age now I am 50 years old. I don’t give a damn what people say if you’re too good if you do bad people still talk do you And your inspiration and your knowledge your experience you are doing great. Enjoy your life. You are the perfect place where you should be because now with the experience, you know the good and the bad and who you are now❤ I am loving your confidence. Keep up the good work.

  • @jenniferhaynes8625
    @jenniferhaynes8625 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm glad that you are doing your self -care Kim,you are so beautiful,and inspiring.We have been seeing you move from one place to the next and hold things together as best as you can.
    We can all say that we wish you the best.❤❤❤

  • @sydiaRay
    @sydiaRay 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Omg. Kim, the comforting words you have for yourself and also sharing with us is truly amazing . Thank you so much to share your strength ❤

  • @sophiasutherland105
    @sophiasutherland105 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    In God’s timing he does all things well. Only man goes with age and time, God does not. God will give you back everything that you have lost out on, he will redeem your years. You have resilience Alicia Kim!!! ❤❤❤❤❤

    • @pameliaphillips993
      @pameliaphillips993 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Kim dont worry yourself my dear.NEVER REGRET A DAY IN YOUR LIFE. GOOD DAYS GIVE YOU HAPPINESS,BAD DAYS GIVE YOU EXPERIENCE WORST DAYS GIVE YOU LESSONS AND BEST DAYS GIVE YOU MEMORIES quote

    • @sharonroach7694
      @sharonroach7694 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Exactly. This is so true.

    • @stephaniestewart8271
      @stephaniestewart8271 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@@pameliaphillips993I love that quote❤❤❤❤❤

  • @taneishabrown5806
    @taneishabrown5806 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Kim, I was right where you are once, take it from me, you’re going to be fine. I’m now married and my son just turn 3. If I knew that I would be here now, I would have wasted less time on worrying or thinking about it, but we are human, we can’t help the feelings sometimes. Everything is going to be so good, the bigger the hurt, the more amazing it will be.

  • @AbigailRaffington
    @AbigailRaffington 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You are so inspirational and just a breath of fresh air daily

  • @shermsja876
    @shermsja876 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Been watching from kim had 1000 subs i am so proud of you hon

  • @michelle76678
    @michelle76678 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Keep rolling in the positive way i am so proud of you, enjoy your new life up up

  • @simoniathomas3497
    @simoniathomas3497 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Hey Kim, i believe you are blessed and God has been truly good to you. Its better you found out the faults of your ex and gi through this separation now than later, it gives you a chance to learn as you go forward, you will see the red flags early in future relationships and know what to look for in a good man. Imagine this happened when you were up in age, it would be devastating. It's a blessing in disguise because at least you have tge chance to pick up yourself and start afresh while you are still young. If he loved you that much he would have come after you, it is his lost and your gain hun, count it a blessing. God have yu back,continue looking positive and keep healthy you will find true love.

    • @theofficialfriendlyretrievers
      @theofficialfriendlyretrievers 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You don’t know the two sides of the story. Try to just stay encouraging and don’t throw stones at her ex or her.

  • @Vetteve
    @Vetteve 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I just love her pray that God bless you with all that he has in store for you, such a lovely sweet person with a humble spirit❤

  • @beverley1778
    @beverley1778 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm really proud to see of you dear, maturity comes with experience and you've got it. You're confident strong and accretive. God got you girl, your an inspiration to a lot of us women both young and old. Thumbs 👍 to you ❤ always.

  • @JacquelineStewart-zq4qc
    @JacquelineStewart-zq4qc 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Kim you are a real motivational speaker.Love you Kim God got you girl❤❤❤❤❤

  • @tamiekathompson8874
    @tamiekathompson8874 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love that about u dont care what ppl say about u whether good or bad and not living your life for ppl confidence

  • @SimpleIslandGirl
    @SimpleIslandGirl 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Hey Kim, I was just wondering about you today especially where having a child is concerned. God is good, just have faith and keep trusting him and everything will fall into place. I fully understand what you're feeling, because I have been there. Just keep being you and keep trusting God.

  • @KymJsRoom
    @KymJsRoom 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m a silent watcher of your channel and I must say…redefining what success means to you, celebrating each part of your journey no matter how small, embrace the flexibility you now have, focus more on gratitude, seek out inspiration not comparison, and just be kind to yourself and remember that your worth isn’t tied to external achievements or timelines. Treat yourself with compassion and allow yourself the space to grow in your own unique way. That’s what has helped me at 33 ❤ so i definitely agree with your advise

  • @dorrettdixon4990
    @dorrettdixon4990 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You are a strong girl. Just take it one day at a time and trust God. You inspire so many persons and you are truly loved. Just continue to be you

  • @Barbiefull1
    @Barbiefull1 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Very proud of you. ..you have to stay strong ..your best years are yet to cone girl you are still alive and so you can accomplish your goals stay faithful.leave the past in the past. Love you.

  • @winsometulloch7667
    @winsometulloch7667 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    You go girl! Your videos are so encouraging and interesting

  • @victoriasmith2518
    @victoriasmith2518 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Alicia! The North East generally has well-stocked Public Libraries. After obtaining a library card , you can reserve the books 📕 on the bestseller’s list and save a lot of money 💰.

  • @IJNIP-sb4tu
    @IJNIP-sb4tu 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    In regard to filming while riding the train, take the Path Train or New Jersey Transit to 33rd St./34th St. statons and shop along 6th & 7th Avenues during the holidays. Walk over to 5th Ave. and see the department store windows dressed up for Christmas/ winter solstice season.

  • @mellisahill2598
    @mellisahill2598 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    If i love kim one more time am so motivated watching her vlogs..I know she motivate and inspired alot of us to keep pushing and being independent 💪 😊

  • @winsomesinclair4766
    @winsomesinclair4766 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Kim just hold the faith and pray 🙏 to God he will show you the way

  • @joyharper4481
    @joyharper4481 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I hope you get to see your brother. Don’t stress about going back to Florida, just pray .

  • @lavishkay4321
    @lavishkay4321 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Kim we would love to have a updated makeup tutorial 😍😍 eats all the time

  • @atlanticqueen1838
    @atlanticqueen1838 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Kim u never no how strong u r until u have to in order to keep afloat….u r awesome and to survive here in America is tough and to do it by urself is huge and u r doing an awesome job of that. Keep ur chin up hon❤

  • @rastawright71
    @rastawright71 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    I got emotional when i heard you say you best years were wasted or something like that. Kim you are living your best life on your own discovering new things doing you doing what u love living life experiencing new things every single day. Everything will slip into place just wait and see and when you look back the past will be like a ficker in the distance. Gwan do di do and we got u out yah ❤

  • @caseyhendricks1603
    @caseyhendricks1603 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Kim, you remind me of myself. We over think things, just take life on day at a time. We have to let go and let god take the wheel.

  • @nikkic2710
    @nikkic2710 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It never too late sis...give urself some grace and thanks for mentioning that oftentimes you dwell on ur regrets and might be losing out on time to which we ought not to but we are all humans...for the way how the time moving.....mon! it have you think like that....but do not dwell on the past.....Move towards ur future Dearest..blessings and praying your continuous strength and courage 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @britneyG1837
    @britneyG1837 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    girl enjoy your life, I am 31 and i had to walk away from a 10 year relationship as it wasn't serving me in no way....Right now a god and time me say. He knows best and nothing happens before the time.

    • @Stephan-y9i
      @Stephan-y9i 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Wow, I'm in for 15 years and well in my 30's. About to do the same. Wasted my youth 😢 but God is awesome and I'm trusting him to send my forever love🎉

    • @britneyG1837
      @britneyG1837 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Stephan-y9i Yes i wasted my youth but I am really glad it ended.

  • @elainerichards8423
    @elainerichards8423 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Kim you have a great idea on life. I love your motivational talk about the age management. Keep sweet girl, you are happy and it's no problem to cry. Be the best of the opportunity that comes to you. 🎉

  • @olivebrown9330
    @olivebrown9330 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Totally understand you Kim. As the saying goes “one cant cry over spilled milk”. Try not to reflect on the negative aspects of your life too much. The feeling will come, but dont stay in that mode for too long. You’re picking up the pieces nicely. Continue to allow God to guide your steps. You will get the family you so richly deserve❤️🙏🏾.

  • @IamSash
    @IamSash 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I don’t think you’re running out of time sugar, God wanted you to experience everything you did… things will fall in place in due time ♥️ I know people have kids at 40. A lot can happen in 5 years. If it should be, it will be. You’re looking really pretty btw, you do look at peace ♥️

  • @alanaaguillera6366
    @alanaaguillera6366 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I admire your strength and resilence as a young woman and you had quite a journey. However saying you wasted your best years is not a fair statement. If your previous relationship did not take course and you stayed back in the C'bean, you may not enjoy tht lifestyle you hv now. That journey you previously experienced, was just a transportation to where you are now, always be thankful for all the experiences good & bad. You are also quite right to live it up in your 20's, but life always throw curve balls tht we all hv to face whether we want to or not. All the best as usual, continue being an inspiration to others. I love hw you evolved.

  • @erinstevens1991
    @erinstevens1991 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Lean on your faith and trust that He will work things out. It may not be the way that you think, but trust in Him. He knows the what, when, where and how. Be still and watch Him work. As always, Peace & Love.

  • @Chanti_92
    @Chanti_92 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Big up Kim thank you every day for the Vlogs. We appreciate you.❤❤❤❤

  • @TashabyNature
    @TashabyNature 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    First off I just want to say life is such a journey girl, just take it day by day. Also, you said this was your first winter so I just want to give you some advice on the road since it’s the part that gives me the most trouble. Make sure tires are good enough and just be a bit mindful if there is a lot of snow. Not sure how much it snows over there, I’m in 🇨🇦. Love you girl your such a ⭐️

  • @mykilaughs5768
    @mykilaughs5768 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You are so authentic! It is easy to love you!

  • @anneilia
    @anneilia 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m 27 and married, expecting my second child and I was in a whole depression for months because I felt I was giving up a lot of myself and my life and wanted to wait longer, so I guess we never know what’s the right decision. Ultimately there are pros and cons to everything. As you said we’re doing life for the first time.

  • @kadmta1
    @kadmta1 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Sweetie, you are still young. Keep your chin up and continue to do you. Everything will come into place💕🙏🏼💕🙏🏼

  • @simoneC-i6r
    @simoneC-i6r 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Everything will work out in perfect timing ❤

  • @Rika-zr5nk
    @Rika-zr5nk 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Nothing is done before the time Kim, everyone make mistakes and we cannot see our tomorrow so just trust god and proceed.

  • @shanaeisdivine
    @shanaeisdivine 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    God is still writing your story Kim. Forgive yourself for your mistakes knowing it was all apart of God’s plan and try to focus and live in the now moment, taking it day by day.
    Thanks for being vulnerable with us. You’re loved and supported more than you know.