thanks so much for all your comments & support I had no idea so many people went through the same thing as me😭 I hope everyone is in a better place now💘
you’re the best for wanting to stay home and protect your family like the things you’ve went through and going through like i am SHOCKED youre amazing dez 💗
I went through something similar to your story but sometimes you just gotta go to things like that to make you who you are and make you stronger keep your head up and keep it pushing bae ❤️🩹💕💝🎀
I hope you and your family heals from this. I’m so sorry. I understand what you guys are going through. Stay positive Des. Your supporters love you and Alexis for always being real. 🤍🤍🤍
Men r terrifying. He literally messed the house up to avoid fatally hurting one of yall (throwing a disastrous fit cuz he knows he can't hit) That violence was so close to transferring to another person. Im so sorry. So glad it seems the dust has settled❤
She was probably telling him like stuff that really hurt his ego because my dad used to do that to me 😭 I had to learn to just shut up and not argue with him
This explains why he wasn’t at vickys birthday party :( poor Vicky and all of you I’m so so sorry 🥺 but may God give you all strength and may He always protect ALL of you ❤️
The way our parents' relationship can fall apart at any moment no matter what stage you are in life is so depressing and scary. I'm so sorry you went through this :( To a new year ❤
I’ve watched a few tt lives of your moms but I had no idea how much yall went through, the fact that we all witnessed the house in the mountains being built, the love and money put into it and for him to just crash out, besides that I’m so glad you were there to intervene and protect your mom, I’m beyond sorry, hope everyone’s doing better♥️♥️♥️
it’s honestly the worse feeling seeing how our parents can fall apart or loose themselves after being together for years. i can relate to this on so many levels because i personally witnessed this with my parents, it’s honestly the worst feeling. I hope your mom, your siblings and you are doing better. i’m glad you were there for your mom and sisters. wish yall the best ❤❤❤
i’m so so sorry you and your family had to go through something so horrific like that :( and honestly it takes a lot to talk about those things on social media but trust me, you’re helping others who have gone through something similar by speaking about your experience and seeing that you’re doing okay regardless of what happened. so happy you’re safe and okay, always wishing you the best 🫶🏻
If he breaks/hits stuff ESPECIALLY the home he put money into the people around him are next. He obviously doesn’t know how to control his emotions & his actions will forever scar your family. Thank you for sharing love, I hope all of you are safe ❤
i noticed a few videos back on yours and lexi’s that he wasn’t around like before , i hope all of you are doing better mentally! DV is hard to overcome and to witness 🤍 sending lots of love
My parents were my first heartbreak they inspired me to love my future kids unconditionally and to give them everything I never had as a DV survivor thank you for not leaving your mom alone in that situation and thank you for sharing your story I haven’t watched you in a few years but the growth is amazing keep preserving 🫶🏾
my dad was like this throughout my entire childhood, i am 21 now. he was an alcoholic and would physically abuse my mother, break the houses belongings that my mom worked hard for, and later when I turned 15 he cheated on my mom. it took my mom for my dad to cheat on her, to finally leave. god bless your mom for leaving, she deserves the world. love you dez, thank you for sharing your story i hope things get better. they will. little by little!
girl ive been thru this shii before, that defs takes a toll on your mental but this makes you grow stronger and better 🫶🏽 love you & your family! wishing yous all the best new year ❤️
I’ve been watching dez for the longest , breaks my heart cause her dad looked really supportive always there for his kids , hope she’s doing better stay safe dez we love you ❤
wow girl as a supporter that found you BECAUSEE of your family channel with your parents, hearing this is so surreal and saddening. i wouldn’t ever expect him to do that, or to treat people like that, especially the mother of his children, and his DAUGHTERS. im so sorry you and your family had to deal with that, and i hope ur mama stays away from him 😅 im glad you all are safe and weren’t physically harmed❤
Don’t pick on yourself girl 🥺 don’t feel bad for moving back with your parents either why? Because what if you hadn’t been there? How would the girls be? WHERE would they be? What would be of mom rn ? ✋🏽🥺 honestly maybe it was a blessing in disguise because you were there for your mom. Alexis is in Mexico and the girls are too young to fully understand. I hope you heal and you’re doing better ❤️ but you’re amazing for protecting and standing up for your mom ❤️ love you 🥺
The way I’ve been in the same situation and I know the hurt your family was put through, my heart goes out to you all. Especially seeing the man that’s supposed to love and protect you hurt you like that but it does get better. ❤
face card is giving😻, but omgggg dez i’m so sorry you and bby delizah had to go through this, you’re definitely so strong for being there for ya mommy during a scary time, DV is nothing to play with especially having a baby around, and being a smaller woman compared to a man. I hope he gets the help he needs and apologizes for acting that way towards you. Once alcohol comes in it’s a different ball game especially for an alcoholic 💔i speak from experience, keep being the best mommy and daughter you can be 💋💓
thank you for confining in us and telling us what you and your family went through 😢 it has been beautiful to see you grow from a young girl to now a mommy and hearing that this event happened right as were you ready to start a new journey, is tragic, i wish you nothing but health and happiness for you and your family, dezzy 🩷
family is so fucked sometimes but as long as u stay as beautiful inside as u r out u will be rewarded with so much more happiness and love im so proud of u
This is giving me serious deja vu because i’m LITERALLY going through the same thing. My birthday is May 28th and when i turned 20 last year is when things took a turn for the WORST. I don’t have any children but im a full time college student and barely made it thru the semester 😭 my heart is with u girl
Thank you for always being so transparent, this is why you’ve always been my favorite TH-camr. Everyone goes through real life struggles, I’m happy you have your babygirl to look at & make you feel more of a drive in life & motivation. You’re so strong des! I hope you do go back to school & find hobbies that make you happy to get 2025 going, god got you! 😭❤️❤️
i've been going through a tough time with my dad this past month as well. the betrayal and heartbreak is something i can't even begin to explain. i wish you a good new year!
the experience you went through with your dad gave me so much flashbacks, I grew up with my dad being violent towards our house and my things, my sister things and my mother. I never fully understood why he was like that towards us when I was younger. Thank you for speaking out about that, made me feel seen about the stuff I went through with my dad. I hope you know you matter! you’re a great mother and you deserve so much better ❤
Watching this and hearing your story makes me feel like I’m not the only one who’s going through the same thing with my family. It sucks that things come between family and honestly Dez you’re a very strong woman. ❤
Personally DESSS I’ve watched you for yearssss now and this is heartbreaking!!!! Like the way you’ve always had a good heart does not go unnoticed. The same way you decided to help your mom and family out despite the fact you were strugggling i hope God blesses you this year. I could not imagine the toll this took on you and how much stressit caused. You most definately look like you did not settle for all tssssss. I’m praying for your sucessss upcoming in 2025❤❤❤ love you destiny.
Your authenticity has always been at the top. Blessing are to come your way and we will she you prosper in many aspects. We love you LITERALLY can’t wait to have to back 💗 thank you for sharing!
i am sorry mama that this happened to you it’s so much but you are truly so strong minded and strong overall in general and you always have been getting to watch you over the years and seeing how you have grown and continue is so beautiful like you truly you should be very proud of yourself of how independent you are strong you are not only for yourself and your baby but for your family too like you sticking up for your mom and supporting her just shows how much of a great daughter and person you are you are so loved by all of us we missed you so much and im so glad and relieved that you are in a better stable place by yourself and you did it by yourself truly all love so happy you are okay and your family🙏🏻💗
Girl I feel you so hard on the dad situation, I’m a middle child and I’ve ALWAYS felt like I was the one who needed to step in and resolve the issues before shit got intense or physical between my parents bc my siblings weren’t head strong enough unfortunately 🤦🏽♀️. But Im so happy for you that you got out of that situation❤ I can’t wait to get to that point. This video is really encouraging
Girl I feel like we have the same life…I’m going through basically the same thing w my family started April 2024 shit still going on and it really does affect how you look at life and you get more private and distance w EVERYONE. You are a bomb ass mom for taking your daughter out of that environment don’t forget that. I pray that you continue to prosper and congrats on the new apartment 🩵!!
When Covid first hit, I religiously watched your channel as it helped me sm getting through that time. It saddens me to hear what you’ve had to experience in just these recent months. We’re proud of you for choosing your peace, and we all love you 🩷
Hey Dez! I’ve been a silent viewer since high school and all I have to say is that you are loved and amazing. All of your accomplishments have been an inspiration and Im sorry things got taken away. As someone who has recently dealt with the betrayal of my father and stuff I feel you & know u deserve the absolute best in life. ❤
So sorry you guys went through that, wishing you guys a better year this year 🩷🩷 P.s. this makes Michael and Vickys dance at her sweet 16 makes me cry harder
I feel u every way possible about protecting ur mom. I’ll really risk my life for my mom. it lwky got me emotional bro but i’m so proud of u dez cus lord u are strong asf for putting up w all that shit. 2025 is gonna be a better year for you and your family fs. ❤
You’re an amazing big sister dez, I remember my sister being there for me when my parents had their own issues as well. I promise your sisters will never forget the moments you show up for them! ❤️
i’m honestly really happy you posted something like this and sharing your experience because a lot of us have been through stuff with our family and just talking about something so personal like this can help and this definitely has helped me feel better with the situation I have going on and making me feel like I’m not alone in this but I’m really happy for you and your daughter and I’m glad you guys are doing better than before. as humans, we all will experience situations like this and all we can do is improve ourselves for the better, no matter how negative the situation is, it’s gonna give us character development and prepare us for the real world. I hope the best for you guys and post as soon as you can! we all love you dez❤
I went through a similar situation with my family when I was about 12. It’s so hard and no one ever understands that feeling unless they’ve been through it. It’s the worst feeling when you’re watching your family fall apart. You are so strong!
Please stay safe Dez! I hope you, your sisters, and your mom break free from him before anything worse happens! 😢❤ Domestic violence comes in all forms and you, your mom, and your sisters deserve a life free from any form of abuse! 🫶 Sending you a big hug and many blessings your way!🥹🙏
I really hope this year goes well for all of you and yours sisters and mom I’ve been following you since I was in 9th grade and I’ve seen you go through so much I know you can push through
I’m so sorry this happened to you, I went through something similar with my dad when I was 16 with my 5 month old son. I would never wish that type of trauma and pain on someone. May you all recover from this traumatic experience and find comfort ❤❤❤❤
you’re so strong like literally, i’m sure that was so hard to deal with and so stressful and not to mention going through postpartum and a break up at the same time! i’ve always loved watching your content, legit since 2018 and it breaks my heart to hear you had a difficult year but i’ll be manifesting for you queen🥹
dez, i am so sorry that you had to go through this. there is never a place for abuse/ violence. you are such a strong and protective mom though, and i am glad that you are recovering ❤
Girl I’ve been a silent supporter for years and this hit so close to home😭 god is so good and you are going to elevate so much this year. Alcohol and drug abuse is so hard to deal with, my dad is in rehab now for meth but it’s taken him 30 years to want to get help. Forgiveness is hard and only on your terms, but thank god he isn’t digging himself deeper
It’s one thing to fight with your BD during PP and have to be on and off with them, but it’s a COMPLETELY different heartbreak to not have the option to go back home and it be peaceful and loving. I’m so sorry all this happened at the same time. I can’t imagine how alone and defeated you must’ve felt ESPECIALLY as a new mom. You’re so strong 🫶🏼🫶🏼 keep going for your baby girl and protect you and her at all costs.
literally grew up with you dez, deadass since i was 14 now i’m 20. to see you still staying positive for you and your daughter even through all this trauma is so inspiring. so similar to my family situation too so this be feeling like therapy watching fr. we love you 🫶🏻
my parents were also going through a divorce last year and it was the worst. I feel like i’ve been numb and couldn’t express my feelings on how i truly felt and how it has affected me to anyone. also seeing my parents in a different light was hard because the ugliness of divorce brings out the worst in your parents and a side of them i never thought i’d see. I understand your feelings and i hope this year brings you and your family some peace and light to y’all’s lives 💓
ive been a silent viewer for years I been watching your videos since i was in HS you’re my comfort influencer/ youtuber (even tho im a bit older than you lol) and my goodness i couldn’t imagine dealing with all that postpartum you are such a strong young woman and i admire you truly for sticking up for your mom and supporting her but also supporting yourself and your baby girl. you’re going to just keep coming out of everything in life stronger and brighter. you didn’t deserve that, neither did your family you “dad” is so wrong. i wish i could give you a hug Dez thank you for your strength, you’re a wonderful mother
for all that you went through recently, so happy to see you came out thinking positively and eager to keep pushing! 🫶🏼 Congrats on your new apartment! Hoping we get an apartment tour soooon 😊 STAY UP QUEEEEENNNN DONT LET UR CROWN FALL🤪
Girl I am so so so sorry u and ur family went thru tht, it’s crazy wht ppl go thru but im so happy ur doing good now for u and ur baby! Protect yo peace girl, ur sound so positive rn lol keep it up 💖💖
I’m really happy you’re okay dez! you’re amazing daughter and mother and I’m so happy to see how much you’ve grown over the years, I hope 2025 only gets brighter for you and your daughter!
15:21 girl was he on meth or on some type of drug ? Because thats what a person lost on stuff like that.. do its really sad to see a person you love turn into someone unrecognizable pray that he gets out of what ever addiction he might be in girl i hope you heal and i hope you forgive him , not for him but for you because you dont need to carry that it’s unnecessary luggage that can affect other parts of your life i hope your dad chooses to let that stuff go because until they truly decide for them selfs its when things change its really traumatic to go through something like that but it also shows you to have empathy for others that have gone through something like that . I personally have been through something like this and it hurts but its thought me empathy for others that may be going through that instead of judging them you know its like they go through it longer then you think because its a loved one that they are not trying to give up on but at the same time your the one getting the hits , anyways im happy your on the other side of this and in a better place you and your family and i hope it continues to go up from this , let these be lessons and not setbacks ❤prayers
As someone who resonates with her story so deeply I thought the same thing as well. That’s what my dad was on when stuff got crazy the way it did for her.
Something similar SO CLOSE LITERALLY TO THE TEA happened to our family as well. I was in my junior year and when you say that literally flips your whole world around. Cus it DOES!! I was so down bad at such a horrible horrible place but when you say good times come you’re so right they do!! So much quicker than what we think too. I understand you dez and thank you for this explanation you are so heard and everything you feel even now is so valid and I hear you sis and I understand you. Thank god you’re headed in a better place for both you and your baby I’m so excited for you to be posting your regular content again I can’t wait to see what’s coming for you and what blessings are in store for you this year sis. GOD BLESS YOU ❤ and get your ass back on that content shit and get your bag back up baddie b we love you😘😘
im so sorry you had to go through that dez, i've definitely been there before with my parents. I hope at the least your dad can reconcile with you all and sincerely apologize but even if he doesn't you have such a strong support system with your mom and siblings and us here! we're rooting or you all and i hope you all can live peacefully now.
Girl I’m going thru almost the exact same shit!!! Life will be hard and it’s sad not everyone understands but yes it will get better, keep protecting your mother and hopefully she also see’s a way out of that relationship and it is not worth staying because it also affects the children’s mental health!! I hope you are doing well and I’m happy you found an apartment!
I’ve been going through a hard time too girl I moved away from my parents out of state around 2022 and things are looking better. I’m glad you got out of that situation I missed watching your videos !
As a new young mom as. 20 year old I’m finally going take some college classes as well nervous yet excited! But you are so strong so proud of you ! You got this momma ! 💕💕
Ughh I feel you so much, I’m so sorry you had to go through this. My parents and I have such a toxic relationship, it used to be physical abuse now it’s more emotional, they’re now divorced but it’s still so draining. It’s always something, it’s sad how the ppl who are supposed to protect you are the ones making you feel so bad
I’ve been supporting your channel since we were in middle school and now to us both having babies last year and as much as I hate this for you, having this type of situation to relate to with you helps me look at things differently. I’ve been going through a lot since I started watching your channel since back then with similar situations with my dad and I always would wish I had a family like yours and hearing this news helps open my eyes that everybody goes through stuff like this, I need to keep going happily and not dwell. I left my dads house with a backpack of stuff and walked 4 hours in fl June weather to my bfs house at 17 in 2023 after him almost taking my life, ended up getting pregnant shortly after and ended leaving shortly after that to my grandparents bc of the toxicity from him and his family. I had my baby in april and now 19 and been struggling letting go of my old life and figuring out what’s next for me but this video has helped me feel not alone and more confident in what my future has to come so thank you for sharing 💓 I’m so sorry you had to go through that, I’m wishing you the best & praying you can heal from this 🫶
same thing with my dad when i was a child, WAS NOT PRETTY putting ME in danger and laying hands on my mother, really does change the way you see things. sorry u went through that des❤ glad ur doing way better
I’ve been watching you and your sister for a long time and it breaks my heart to find out what happened, I’ve been there girl! I’ll forever support you and your family❤
i agree, when you go through something so life changing , it actually helps you to be stronger. my bd broke up with me out of nowhere when my daughter was only 1 month old, i was going to school and had to do the mom thing myself and had to do it with a broken heart. And ofc family issues, alcoholic mom and my dad was toxic. But i honestly am glad that my bd left because i know that i deserved more than him. My daughter just turned a year old two days ago, Im planning to go to college too and I have two jobs, But im happier than When i was in a toxic relationship. It gets sm better and you start to open your eyes, Im only 19 But its better for this to have happened now than later. Glad to see you doing good, I have been watching since your middle school vlogs💗
thanks so much for all your comments & support I had no idea so many people went through the same thing as me😭 I hope everyone is in a better place now💘
you’re the best for wanting to stay home and protect your family like the things you’ve went through and going through like i am SHOCKED youre amazing dez 💗
I went through something similar to your story but sometimes you just gotta go to things like that to make you who you are and make you stronger keep your head up and keep it pushing bae ❤️🩹💕💝🎀
I hope you and your family heals from this. I’m so sorry. I understand what you guys are going through.
Stay positive Des. Your supporters love you and Alexis for always being real. 🤍🤍🤍
“If you get physical with my mom I’ll get physical with your mom” “that’s my grandma, I love her” HAS ME DEAD AFFFFFF
Men r terrifying. He literally messed the house up to avoid fatally hurting one of yall (throwing a disastrous fit cuz he knows he can't hit) That violence was so close to transferring to another person. Im so sorry. So glad it seems the dust has settled❤
how a father destroys his daughter’s home is beyond me. he took his anger on all of yall, not just your mom. that ain’t no dad.
She was probably telling him like stuff that really hurt his ego because my dad used to do that to me 😭 I had to learn to just shut up and not argue with him
@@Leslie-qj1dd so because a grown ass man doesn’t know how to control his emotions, everyone else has to learn to shut up? 😭😭 what??
@@oookie1946yes! You have to go through it to understand it. Either that or move
@@oookie1946 notice how I said “i” as in my own experience 💀
@@Leslie-qj1ddno your first sentence was you assuming what happened with HER
This explains why he wasn’t at vickys birthday party :( poor Vicky and all of you I’m so so sorry 🥺 but may God give you all strength and may He always protect ALL of you ❤️
I was expecting to see the daughter and dad dance it would’ve been so cute but at least Michael stepped in
@ dude yes!! I’m so happy Michael stepped in 🥺😭 that made me tear up
The way our parents' relationship can fall apart at any moment no matter what stage you are in life is so depressing and scary. I'm so sorry you went through this :( To a new year ❤
Deliza has the strongest most protective mommy ever ❤️I’m so sorry you guys are going through this
I’ve watched a few tt lives of your moms but I had no idea how much yall went through, the fact that we all witnessed the house in the mountains being built, the love and money put into it and for him to just crash out, besides that I’m so glad you were there to intervene and protect your mom, I’m beyond sorry, hope everyone’s doing better♥️♥️♥️
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it’s honestly the worse feeling seeing how our parents can fall apart or loose themselves after being together for years. i can relate to this on so many levels because i personally witnessed this with my parents, it’s honestly the worst feeling. I hope your mom, your siblings and you are doing better. i’m glad you were there for your mom and sisters. wish yall the best ❤❤❤
i’m so so sorry you and your family had to go through something so horrific like that :( and honestly it takes a lot to talk about those things on social media but trust me, you’re helping others who have gone through something similar by speaking about your experience and seeing that you’re doing okay regardless of what happened. so happy you’re safe and okay, always wishing you the best 🫶🏻
Domestic violence is real. I’m sorry Dez. Hope you and your family are okay.
That’s insane…it’s a different type of heartbreak when a father does evil to his daughters…I’m so sorry Dez…I hope you and your family heal ❤
If he breaks/hits stuff ESPECIALLY the home he put money into the people around him are next. He obviously doesn’t know how to control his emotions & his actions will forever scar your family. Thank you for sharing love, I hope all of you are safe ❤
i noticed a few videos back on yours and lexi’s that he wasn’t around like before , i hope all of you are doing better mentally! DV is hard to overcome and to witness 🤍 sending lots of love
thank you for the unfiltered tea you don't know how relatable you are to ppl we don't care if u don't post for another 3 months we love u!
My parents were my first heartbreak they inspired me to love my future kids unconditionally and to give them everything I never had as a DV survivor thank you for not leaving your mom alone in that situation and thank you for sharing your story I haven’t watched you in a few years but the growth is amazing keep preserving 🫶🏾
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my dad was like this throughout my entire childhood, i am 21 now. he was an alcoholic and would physically abuse my mother, break the houses belongings that my mom worked hard for, and later when I turned 15 he cheated on my mom. it took my mom for my dad to cheat on her, to finally leave. god bless your mom for leaving, she deserves the world. love you dez, thank you for sharing your story i hope things get better. they will. little by little!
girl ive been thru this shii before, that defs takes a toll on your mental but this makes you grow stronger and better 🫶🏽 love you & your family! wishing yous all the best new year ❤️
I’ve been watching dez for the longest , breaks my heart cause her dad looked really supportive always there for his kids , hope she’s doing better stay safe dez we love you ❤
the chills i felt bro i am so sorry, a new mother should never be put through this let alone by their own father. wish u the best this new year ❤
wow girl as a supporter that found you BECAUSEE of your family channel with your parents, hearing this is so surreal and saddening. i wouldn’t ever expect him to do that, or to treat people like that, especially the mother of his children, and his DAUGHTERS. im so sorry you and your family had to deal with that, and i hope ur mama stays away from him 😅 im glad you all are safe and weren’t physically harmed❤
Don’t pick on yourself girl 🥺 don’t feel bad for moving back with your parents either why? Because what if you hadn’t been there? How would the girls be? WHERE would they be? What would be of mom rn ? ✋🏽🥺 honestly maybe it was a blessing in disguise because you were there for your mom. Alexis is in Mexico and the girls are too young to fully understand. I hope you heal and you’re doing better ❤️ but you’re amazing for protecting and standing up for your mom ❤️ love you 🥺
The way I’ve been in the same situation and I know the hurt your family was put through, my heart goes out to you all. Especially seeing the man that’s supposed to love and protect you hurt you like that but it does get better. ❤
i love how authentic you are and i am sorry you had to go through that dez that is so hard.I wish nothing but the best for you this new year.
face card is giving😻, but omgggg dez i’m so sorry you and bby delizah had to go through this, you’re definitely so strong for being there for ya mommy during a scary time, DV is nothing to play with especially having a baby around, and being a smaller woman compared to a man. I hope he gets the help he needs and apologizes for acting that way towards you. Once alcohol comes in it’s a different ball game especially for an alcoholic 💔i speak from experience, keep being the best mommy and daughter you can be 💋💓
I love you 😭🫶🏼💘 thank you so much for always supporting me friend
thank you for confining in us and telling us what you and your family went through 😢 it has been beautiful to see you grow from a young girl to now a mommy and hearing that this event happened right as were you ready to start a new journey, is tragic, i wish you nothing but health and happiness for you and your family, dezzy 🩷
i completely understand and so sorry u had to go through that, but so happy ur better and back now!🩷 love uuuuuu
family is so fucked sometimes but as long as u stay as beautiful inside as u r out u will be rewarded with so much more happiness and love im so proud of u
i'm so sorry that's so crazy for you to go through all that freshly postpartum and your sisters ur mom like omg i feel so bad for all of you
This is giving me serious deja vu because i’m LITERALLY going through the same thing. My birthday is May 28th and when i turned 20 last year is when things took a turn for the WORST. I don’t have any children but im a full time college student and barely made it thru the semester 😭 my heart is with u girl
Thank you for always being so transparent, this is why you’ve always been my favorite TH-camr. Everyone goes through real life struggles, I’m happy you have your babygirl to look at & make you feel more of a drive in life & motivation. You’re so strong des! I hope you do go back to school & find hobbies that make you happy to get 2025 going, god got you! 😭❤️❤️
i've been going through a tough time with my dad this past month as well. the betrayal and heartbreak is something i can't even begin to explain. i wish you a good new year!
This girl never catches a break, I hope the best for you Dez. You deserve it all
the experience you went through with your dad gave me so much flashbacks, I grew up with my dad being violent towards our house and my things, my sister things and my mother. I never fully understood why he was like that towards us when I was younger. Thank you for speaking out about that, made me feel seen about the stuff I went through with my dad. I hope you know you matter! you’re a great mother and you deserve so much better ❤
Watching this and hearing your story makes me feel like I’m not the only one who’s going through the same thing with my family. It sucks that things come between family and honestly Dez you’re a very strong woman. ❤
Personally DESSS I’ve watched you for yearssss now and this is heartbreaking!!!! Like the way you’ve always had a good heart does not go unnoticed. The same way you decided to help your mom and family out despite the fact you were strugggling i hope God blesses you this year. I could not imagine the toll this took on you and how much stressit caused. You most definately look like you did not settle for all tssssss. I’m praying for your sucessss upcoming in 2025❤❤❤ love you destiny.
Your authenticity has always been at the top. Blessing are to come your way and we will she you prosper in many aspects. We love you LITERALLY can’t wait to have to back 💗 thank you for sharing!
first time coming across ur channel, and wow you’re incredibly strong bro. my heart is with you and your family 💗💗
i went through a similar thing and i havent talked to my dad in years. thank you for sharing your story, makes us all feel a little less alone
i am sorry mama that this happened to you it’s so much but you are truly so strong minded and strong overall in general and you always have been getting to watch you over the years and seeing how you have grown and continue is so beautiful like you truly you should be very proud of yourself of how independent you are strong you are not only for yourself and your baby but for your family too like you sticking up for your mom and supporting her just shows how much of a great daughter and person you are you are so loved by all of us we missed you so much and im so glad and relieved that you are in a better stable place by yourself and you did it by yourself truly all love so happy you are okay and your family🙏🏻💗
Girl I feel you so hard on the dad situation, I’m a middle child and I’ve ALWAYS felt like I was the one who needed to step in and resolve the issues before shit got intense or physical between my parents bc my siblings weren’t head strong enough unfortunately 🤦🏽♀️. But Im so happy for you that you got out of that situation❤ I can’t wait to get to that point. This video is really encouraging
hope this year is better and brings you happiness dez
Girl I feel like we have the same life…I’m going through basically the same thing w my family started April 2024 shit still going on and it really does affect how you look at life and you get more private and distance w EVERYONE. You are a bomb ass mom for taking your daughter out of that environment don’t forget that. I pray that you continue to prosper and congrats on the new apartment 🩵!!
When Covid first hit, I religiously watched your channel as it helped me sm getting through that time. It saddens me to hear what you’ve had to experience in just these recent months. We’re proud of you for choosing your peace, and we all love you 🩷
Hey Dez! I’ve been a silent viewer since high school and all I have to say is that you are loved and amazing. All of your accomplishments have been an inspiration and Im sorry things got taken away. As someone who has recently dealt with the betrayal of my father and stuff I feel you & know u deserve the absolute best in life. ❤
I’m sooooo sorry you went through that . All of you are so strong and have such beautiful bright auras. I’m happy you’re going much better now .
So sorry you guys went through that, wishing you guys a better year this year 🩷🩷
P.s. this makes Michael and Vickys dance at her sweet 16 makes me cry harder
I feel u every way possible about protecting ur mom. I’ll really risk my life for my mom. it lwky got me emotional bro but i’m so proud of u dez cus lord u are strong asf for putting up w all that shit. 2025 is gonna be a better year for you and your family fs. ❤
You’re an amazing big sister dez, I remember my sister being there for me when my parents had their own issues as well. I promise your sisters will never forget the moments you show up for them! ❤️
i’m honestly really happy you posted something like this and sharing your experience because a lot of us have been through stuff with our family and just talking about something so personal like this can help and this definitely has helped me feel better with the situation I have going on and making me feel like I’m not alone in this but I’m really happy for you and your daughter and I’m glad you guys are doing better than before. as humans, we all will experience situations like this and all we can do is improve ourselves for the better, no matter how negative the situation is, it’s gonna give us character development and prepare us for the real world. I hope the best for you guys and post as soon as you can! we all love you dez❤
I went through a similar situation with my family when I was about 12. It’s so hard and no one ever understands that feeling unless they’ve been through it. It’s the worst feeling when you’re watching your family fall apart. You are so strong!
Please stay safe Dez! I hope you, your sisters, and your mom break free from him before anything worse happens! 😢❤ Domestic violence comes in all forms and you, your mom, and your sisters deserve a life free from any form of abuse! 🫶 Sending you a big hug and many blessings your way!🥹🙏
I really hope this year goes well for all of you and yours sisters and mom I’ve been following you since I was in 9th grade and I’ve seen you go through so much I know you can push through
I’m so sorry this happened to you, I went through something similar with my dad when I was 16 with my 5 month old son.
I would never wish that type of trauma and pain on someone.
May you all recover from this traumatic experience and find comfort ❤❤❤❤
you’re so strong like literally, i’m sure that was so hard to deal with and so stressful and not to mention going through postpartum and a break up at the same time! i’ve always loved watching your content, legit since 2018 and it breaks my heart to hear you had a difficult year but i’ll be manifesting for you queen🥹
I’m proud of u Des no matter how things get we improve glad yall are okay we will always support your family love u godbless your family and more
dez, i am so sorry that you had to go through this. there is never a place for abuse/ violence. you are such a strong and protective mom though, and i am glad that you are recovering ❤
Girl I’ve been a silent supporter for years and this hit so close to home😭 god is so good and you are going to elevate so much this year. Alcohol and drug abuse is so hard to deal with, my dad is in rehab now for meth but it’s taken him 30 years to want to get help. Forgiveness is hard and only on your terms, but thank god he isn’t digging himself deeper
It’s not easy being the mediator in family arguments, I bet it took a toll on your mental, hope everything is okay now❤
So glad you felt comfortable to share with us. So happy you are doing better ❤
arguing with ur dad is so painful so i get it girl. i hope things go well!!!
It’s one thing to fight with your BD during PP and have to be on and off with them, but it’s a COMPLETELY different heartbreak to not have the option to go back home and it be peaceful and loving. I’m so sorry all this happened at the same time. I can’t imagine how alone and defeated you must’ve felt ESPECIALLY as a new mom. You’re so strong 🫶🏼🫶🏼 keep going for your baby girl and protect you and her at all costs.
had a similar thing happen and it does shake u to your core, that betrayal is something u don’t expect
so happy to see that you’re continuing to grow and heal yourself ❤ sending sm love
literally grew up with you dez, deadass since i was 14 now i’m 20. to see you still staying positive for you and your daughter even through all this trauma is so inspiring. so similar to my family situation too so this be feeling like therapy watching fr. we love you 🫶🏻
I love dez so much, humble queen, always helping her fam not afraid to talk about real struggles. 💞💞
i’m so sorry you had to go through this❤️ sending love to you and your sisters❤️
my parents were also going through a divorce last year and it was the worst. I feel like i’ve been numb and couldn’t express my feelings on how i truly felt and how it has affected me to anyone. also seeing my parents in a different light was hard because the ugliness of divorce brings out the worst in your parents and a side of them i never thought i’d see. I understand your feelings and i hope this year brings you and your family some peace and light to y’all’s lives 💓
Omggg I’ve been watching you since I was 13 ); it’s crazy how much you grown up
ive been a silent viewer for years I been watching your videos since i was in HS you’re my comfort influencer/ youtuber (even tho im a bit older than you lol) and my goodness i couldn’t imagine dealing with all that postpartum you are such a strong young woman and i admire you truly for sticking up for your mom and supporting her but also supporting yourself and your baby girl. you’re going to just keep coming out of everything in life stronger and brighter. you didn’t deserve that, neither did your family you “dad” is so wrong. i wish i could give you a hug Dez thank you for your strength, you’re a wonderful mother
had a similar experience a few months ago & my father crashing out, clothes ended up in garbage bags ;( i’m so sorry dez sending u sm healing
Ugh girl I get that, ppl say I’m materialistic but I just value my stuff sm ik the pain of coming back home and everything’s destroyed
awww i missed you dezzy im glad things are turning rightside up for you and your babygirl, i hope for nothing but the best for you and your family ❤️
i pray this year is lighter for you & your family dez 💕💕✨
for all that you went through recently, so happy to see you came out thinking positively and eager to keep pushing! 🫶🏼
Congrats on your new apartment! Hoping we get an apartment tour soooon 😊
STAY UP QUEEEEENNNN DONT LET UR CROWN FALL🤪
“life gets better, HAVE HOPE”🙏🏼🙏🏼 preach mama we love u sm love!!!🗣️🗣️
Girl I am so so so sorry u and ur family went thru tht, it’s crazy wht ppl go thru but im so happy ur doing good now for u and ur baby! Protect yo peace girl, ur sound so positive rn lol keep it up 💖💖
I’m really happy you’re okay dez! you’re amazing daughter and mother and I’m so happy to see how much you’ve grown over the years, I hope 2025 only gets brighter for you and your daughter!
15:21 girl was he on meth or on some type of drug ? Because thats what a person lost on stuff like that.. do its really sad to see a person you love turn into someone unrecognizable pray that he gets out of what ever addiction he might be in girl i hope you heal and i hope you forgive him , not for him but for you because you dont need to carry that it’s unnecessary luggage that can affect other parts of your life i hope your dad chooses to let that stuff go because until they truly decide for them selfs its when things change its really traumatic to go through something like that but it also shows you to have empathy for others that have gone through something like that . I personally have been through something like this and it hurts but its thought me empathy for others that may be going through that instead of judging them you know its like they go through it longer then you think because its a loved one that they are not trying to give up on but at the same time your the one getting the hits , anyways im happy your on the other side of this and in a better place you and your family and i hope it continues to go up from this , let these be lessons and not setbacks ❤prayers
That’s what I was thinking
As someone who resonates with her story so deeply I thought the same thing as well. That’s what my dad was on when stuff got crazy the way it did for her.
Something similar SO CLOSE LITERALLY TO THE TEA happened to our family as well. I was in my junior year and when you say that literally flips your whole world around. Cus it DOES!! I was so down bad at such a horrible horrible place but when you say good times come you’re so right they do!! So much quicker than what we think too. I understand you dez and thank you for this explanation you are so heard and everything you feel even now is so valid and I hear you sis and I understand you. Thank god you’re headed in a better place for both you and your baby I’m so excited for you to be posting your regular content again I can’t wait to see what’s coming for you and what blessings are in store for you this year sis. GOD BLESS YOU ❤ and get your ass back on that content shit and get your bag back up baddie b we love you😘😘
I hope you’re doing better sis it’s the worst situation ever 😭 thank you for the love 💕
im so sorry you had to go through that dez, i've definitely been there before with my parents. I hope at the least your dad can reconcile with you all and sincerely apologize but even if he doesn't you have such a strong support system with your mom and siblings and us here! we're rooting or you all and i hope you all can live peacefully now.
Dez us og fans are proud to see the person you’ve became you are a strong individual and you’ll over come this much love 🫶🏼🫶🏼
What’s crazy is that your mom being the classy lady she is said he was still a good dad when addressing the whole situation… whole timeee
we love you dez, I’m so sorry for what your family and what you have been going through this past almost year now.
Girl I’m going thru almost the exact same shit!!! Life will be hard and it’s sad not everyone understands but yes it will get better, keep protecting your mother and hopefully she also see’s a way out of that relationship and it is not worth staying because it also affects the children’s mental health!! I hope you are doing well and I’m happy you found an apartment!
I’ve been going through a hard time too girl I moved away from my parents out of state around 2022 and things are looking better. I’m glad you got out of that situation I missed watching your videos !
it’s sad to see how common this is, it takes such a toll on your mental health . hope ur doing better dez 🩷
As a new young mom as. 20 year old I’m finally going take some college classes as well nervous yet excited! But you are so strong so proud of you ! You got this momma ! 💕💕
Ughh I feel you so much, I’m so sorry you had to go through this. My parents and I have such a toxic relationship, it used to be physical abuse now it’s more emotional, they’re now divorced but it’s still so draining. It’s always something, it’s sad how the ppl who are supposed to protect you are the ones making you feel so bad
I’ve been supporting your channel since we were in middle school and now to us both having babies last year and as much as I hate this for you, having this type of situation to relate to with you helps me look at things differently. I’ve been going through a lot since I started watching your channel since back then with similar situations with my dad and I always would wish I had a family like yours and hearing this news helps open my eyes that everybody goes through stuff like this, I need to keep going happily and not dwell. I left my dads house with a backpack of stuff and walked 4 hours in fl June weather to my bfs house at 17 in 2023 after him almost taking my life, ended up getting pregnant shortly after and ended leaving shortly after that to my grandparents bc of the toxicity from him and his family. I had my baby in april and now 19 and been struggling letting go of my old life and figuring out what’s next for me but this video has helped me feel not alone and more confident in what my future has to come so thank you for sharing 💓 I’m so sorry you had to go through that, I’m wishing you the best & praying you can heal from this 🫶
so we all went trough it in 2024 but glad to see u back n posting ❤
same thing with my dad when i was a child, WAS NOT PRETTY putting ME in danger and laying hands on my mother, really does change the way you see things. sorry u went through that des❤ glad ur doing way better
I love you Dez! I’ve been watching you for years now and it feels like I’m on ft with a friend ❤️sending you lots of hugs💞
I’m so sorry about your parents and your situation 🥺❤️ I hope everyone is in a much better place now.
Glad you and baby girl are safe and I love to see you post
I’ve been watching you and your sister for a long time and it breaks my heart to find out what happened, I’ve been there girl! I’ll forever support you and your family❤
I hope you and your family are ok and he's behind bars and your mom is free to be happy much love stay strong
i agree, when you go through something so life changing , it actually helps you to be stronger. my bd broke up with me out of nowhere when my daughter was only 1 month old, i was going to school and had to do the mom thing myself and had to do it with a broken heart. And ofc family issues, alcoholic mom and my dad was toxic. But i honestly am glad that my bd left because i know that i deserved more than him. My daughter just turned a year old two days ago, Im planning to go to college too and I have two jobs, But im happier than When i was in a toxic relationship. It gets sm better and you start to open your eyes, Im only 19 But its better for this to have happened now than later. Glad to see you doing good, I have been watching since your middle school vlogs💗
Magnetic Aura book by Takeshi Mizuki ain’t for everyone, it’s for people who actually want to get ahead.
I’m so sorry you’re going through this, i’ve been watching you for a long time and I just wish you the best🤍🤍