And how do you know he slapped her though? Were you there? NO. Some witnesses said they didn’t see him hitting her but the other way around. We don’t know the whole story
@@dancer22273 Did you watch the police body cam when they got pulled over by police? Brian had visible cuts, and scratch marks on his face and arms. The police took pictures of his marks. Gabby had zero visible signs of cuts, scratches or marks on her body. The police were actually going to take Gabby to jail. Brian can be heard asking if " he could go to jail in her place" The police end up just separating the two. They took Brian to a hotel, and gave Gabby the van to drive wherever she wanted for the night. Also, there was a double homicide that happened close by in same general area that Brian, and Gabby were last seen at. Nobody is even talking about that????? I agree the fact that Brian disappeared, vanished and supposedly ran off into hiding. ( who knows what happened to him) Definitely makes him look guilty.... Just too many what if's in this case.... Sad situation
Yeah I know psychiatrist either but the second he hopped out of that car to confront the cops he acted extremely shady that was the first red flag that I saw in the video when it comes to him
He’s not dead. Brian killed his fiancée, then went home and had a walk and bike ride, took money from her and has vanished. He has a new ID and new cell phone, he is too into himself to kill himself.
@@MAGGOT_VOMIT we’ll see when the autopsy report comes. we truly don’t know what happened but if it was self defense, then he should have said so. He’s a coward and he killed her in a rage. it’s all too obvious just not solid proof beyond reasonable doubt.
He’s not that sophisticated to do what you are saying, pretty clear he’s dead in a swamp somewhere. He’s a narcissist so suicide is his last way to make this all about him.
@@mileshalpern9320 when they "lose control" and physically hurt you out of a subconscious reaction, them killing you is one extreme incident or life changing moment away from happening.
“It’s incredibly dangerous to leave an abuser, because the final step in the domestic violence pattern is: Kill her.” - Leslie Morgan Steiner, AMERICAN AUTHOR AND ADVOCATE FOR WOMEN’S RIGHTS
He’s not dead ! Why would you hire a lawyer for a dead man,Ok so the parents have him in a mental hospital so he don’t have to go to jail for killing gabby !😡😡😡
Also he stole her money. Why would he steal her money if he was planning to off himself? Most likely he did so because he wanted to use it to aid with his escape.
yes maybe they did help him...22yo kids are not that slick or smart to commit murder and hide their trail or evidence...and kids always take their wallet and phone...if anything, he will have withdrawals from not being on the net or talking on the phone...maybe the parents told him to leave it...and the parents to me do not look upset of his disappearance or the death of gabby...
A real narcissist will greatly enjoy the nonstop attention from the whole world. Everyone is looking for him, his picture everywhere. Brian is getting off on this and he’s sky high exhilarated with self importance now. There is zero chance that he committed suicide. He thinks he will make it and he’s enjoying every moment that he’s free with everyone looking at him.
I’m full blown psychopath. I know he’s enjoying this. He cares nothing about the danger nor guilt. It’s all feeding his narcissism, and all the world’s attention feels better than sex.
@@coronavirusisacommunistchi845 that will change when he is finally caught. He won't last long having to look over his shoulder constantly paranoid at getting caught. Everyone has seen his face, how is he isn't going anywhere if they put out a reward
and they honestly feel it's not their own actions. If someone hits you, leave they don't want to be reminded of it. That's where resentment sets in, possibly.
He is definitely alive. I can't stand Dog but I think he has a better chance at finding him first than police who spent $1mil to search where his parents pointed them 😂
To all woman & men: recognize abuse, physical, mental or emotional. Detecting the early signs is essential. Stand strong, stand for your right to live a happy life!
Tristan Ruby: This is very complicated. The abuse can be very subtle at first. Marry a guy & then have kids & become dependent on the guy & his income. That’s when a lot of the abuse starts. He knows he’s got her in that spot because she usually doesn’t have money or a career that can sustain & support her & her kids. Growing up, girls have to learn to be independent, have a career & be able to support themselves. They should learn to advance their education before backing up a guy’s. So many women support guys thru school so they can attain a solid career & once they’re successful, dump their wives for someone whom they think they deserve. Ex. Betty Broderick did all she could for her husband & once successful, he split from Betty & married his secretary. The abuse was overwhelming. She shouldn’t have killed them but they drove her nuts. Young girls in love think that it will never happen but the insidious abuse starts creeping up & life turns to HELL.
This type of abuse is so subtle at first. He was so easily able to charm those police officers. Their relationship starts off like that. So charming at the beginning and then the narc will slowly test your boundaries by doing something small. It's very easy to brush it off with a bad day or something like that. The psychological abuse these types inflict is immense. To most people the narc comes across as a great guy. Glad the Dr. is writing a book about it. There needs to be more awareness about this type of abuse especially for young girls/women.
@@Secter84 At first because he was assessing the situation. Re-watch it and pay attention to how interested he is about what she's saying about him but how he doesn't ask if she's okay or show any concern other than about what she told them. Then he relaxes after he realizes the one cop is on his side and had a difficult ex. Then he calls gabby crazy and tells the police she has problems, and she backs it up with self deprecating comments. After that he's not nervous at all and they are chatting the whole time on the car ride and he's smiling and completely at ease. Brian didn't once act concerned about her at all in the car with the cop.
THANK YOU DOC!!! A LOT of emphasis has been put on depression in recent years. Its time to create MASSIVE awareness on Narcissistic Behavior. Any person who's recovered from a narc relationship recognized what was going on in the police stop in Moab.
I was in n abusive narcissistic relationship. I also grew up with a narc father who abused my mother in May way possible yet she refuses to leave him. I no longer have contact with them and I’m a lot calmer. After being in this type of relationship, it’s like coming out of a battle. A battle with yourself and with the devil. These people really are evil. I always used to think narcissists were people who were overly vain. It’s more of the covert manipulative behaviour like Brian Laundrie. They always play the victim while making the victim feel guilty all the time. It starts slowly making a person unsure of themselves. This is how they gain control. Whenever I meet a narc now, I run. Brian dirty Laundrie WILL be caught!
Gabby's best girlfriend has said that when Brian got out of control Gabby would come stay with her. About ten to twelve times in a year, or about once a month. In one occasion he was "hearing voices". This is a sign of real and serious Mental Illness.
My abuser use to be calm and let me seem overly emotional. Then he'd hide out and I'd, stupidly, hide with him until the search ended. It's a REAL cycle. I'm thankful to be here. God bless Gabby & all the other women who have had to deal with this 🙏
I’ve been through something similar as you Laura, so seeing myself in Gabby, this case hits so close to home and I’m devastated for her. I wish I could have hugged her and told her she was strong enough to leave.
@@mackhomie6 stores, people.. they'd see what he did and maine has a zero tolerance law so the d a. Would press charges. Without me they didn't have much if a case. This us a man that dragged me through the woods telling me I'd never see my family Again. I truly thought I was going to die that day... but I loved him.
I still cant get over the fact that the police let him run away... Gabby was already missing, he came back without her and refused to talk to the cops and nobody followed him???????
@Sam judah He was beyond suspect from the very start. One would think that he could be under surveillance at least. Then that massive investigation of the 25,000 acre swamp by hundreds of people costing millions of dollars. I heard that it’s still going on. I think that was just a ruse by the parents. I don’t think that killer ever stepped foot in that alligator, snake & mosquito infested swamp. There’s something really fishy as to why that swamp is still even a consideration. Somebody’s making big $$$$$ money off it. Someone suggested that they’re probably looking for a cell phone or wallet. Don’t think so. Those people are probably stumped & this is the only thing they can think to do & make a lot of money for themselves. Shoulda kept an eye on the guy in the very beginning & would have saved a lot of time & money.
I can’t think of any narcissist who ever committed suicide. Their sense of self-preservation is extremely high and they lack empathy which feeds feelings of guilt for wrongdoings. So, I don’t believe Laundrey has any plans to kill himself or turn himself in. Somebody knows where he is and they will eventually do what’s right.
hes not a diagnosed narcissist. this on psychiatrist said he might be and the only evidence he has is the bodycam footage. im not saying he isnt im just saying he may not be so dont make assumptions. shouldnt really be speculating like its the end of a tv show anyway
Exactely! Mostly narcissism comes from child hood trauma, something could be very screwed up in that family, also looking at how much Gabby blamed herself while she seemed so broken.
Unfortunately this is what narcissistic abuse looks like.. They will twist your mind into believing that you deserve to belittled, criticized, screamed at, made to feel so you are worthless, etc etc.
Gabby was stupid beyond measure. She should have left Brian the first time the abuse ever occurred. As my drill instructor used to always say, “The only cure for stupidity is death.”
I hope that if ANYTHING can come from this… it’s more awareness of narcissistic personality disorder. NPD touches so many lives and yet so many victims never realize what’s happening to them. It’s truly heartbreaking and more people need to understand that this is seriously twisted abuse.
One thing that occurred to me is that they dropped him off without food, clothing, money, supplies in the wilderness after he came home without her. And are saying nothing bc the public be damned and shame on their son
@@catherineostrom7575 you're an idiot. Ya they could have. Instead they took him camping!! They could have cut him off completely if he refused to say what happened to their future daughter in law.
I spoke with my mom and she said that! With a lot of pain she would force me to talk to police with proper representation. But this is not the first time I see a family blindly helping their murderous son escape and hide... other cases similar to this show that some families are evil
@@martineshamzin7535 unfortunately like someone commented his type needs a girl friend if he is a narcist he needs people to wait on him because dont like being alone and they also order people around and are controlling and get upset if people dont jump right away
He was jealous she had so much guts to quit her job and try starting her van life vlog, she probably had more attention on Instagram then him and he didn’t like that he was just her co pilot really… what a selfish narcissist. Couldn’t let her have her cake! People who arn’t jealous of others help them rise up! He was definitely jealous of her. P.s. making his stamps from cartoons created by others isn’t anything interesting. You can only run from the world for so long Brian!
@@jamesringler987 I agree. He is a young man, and is very unlikely to stop dating. You would hope no one would be foolish enough to date him, but we both know this is unlikely. And I simply don't trust that the FBI cares much. Not after knowing how they failed to look out for the Olympic Gymnasts, How they failed to look into the Parkland killer even after twenty reports that the was dangerous. But there really isn't much I can do about it but hope for a good outcome. I just don't know why they keep on looking in the stupid swamp! He would have to be Bear Grills to avoid them this long. He has to be somewhere else.
@Apollo he was very possesive and remember he told the cops he was afraid she'll take the van and leave. Also he heard voices. So it could be voices telling him she wants to leave or she said it. He went into a rage and killed her
He is too self absorbed and a coward to be suicidal. His parents didn't report him missing for 3 days and don't seem to concerned that he would harm himself
@@Thefloorsspeakyiddish almost 8 billion people in the world and suicide is such a small fraction of the death worldwide. I realize you're ignorant and young, but don't sound stupid mate. Enjoy your life, but most people are terrified of death. Suicide is never a cowards way out...
@@ThefloorsspeakyiddishSuicide isn't necessarily cowardly. Japanese Samurais used to do it frequently. I don't believe he's dead or at least that he committed suicide.
He had her brainwashed to think all this was her fault. If she behaved herself he wouldn't be so angry to her. This is a domestic violence relationship, So sad not one of those officers were trained to see this. Sadly Gabby dies for not having the intervention she needed...RIP
Maybe you're right. She said, "I was apologising to him," in the bodycam video. She's not an abuser. She saw herself as being in the wrong. Girls who abuse their BFs don't apologise while they're doing it. She was just confused and in an emotional state. Another thing that sticks out on the bodycam video is that he never once said, "Is she OK?" Bless her. I don't blame those police. They must see stuff like this all the time. They separated them for the night. What else can you do in that instance?
Gabby wasn't brainwashed. She was attracted to the abuse and in love with the abuser and was trying to fix him. Classic case. This has happened squillions of times throughout history. Women want this- which is why arranged marriage is so good for women in the long run. Don't believe me. Look it up.
Brian loves himself. No chance of him taking his life. His parents made him this way. Entitled and thinking he can “ flip off accountability.” Can’t hide forever. Karma is waiting for Brian.
You don’t know what his parents did or didn’t do and it’s unfair to target them he’s their kid who knows what he told them Ted Bundy had most people fooled and he was a monster unless you’ve had a child of your own you have no idea what you would do in their shoes
@@abram730 He probably realized she truly did love him so wanted to be loving toward her. Narcissists know when someone genuinely loves them and will return gestures of love so long as it benefits them.
@@aria759 Her life revolved around herself, not Brian. Her van with Brian driving her, her career with Brian doing much of the work, her money with Brian getting no pay, her fans to fill her need for constant and excessive admiration as Brian sat quietly there, her rules that Brian had to follow. She needed his free labor, and that is different than love. When he broker her rules she would attempt to beat him into submission. For example Brian entered the van with dirty feet, and moved her food, so she beat on him for hours.
The Aug 12th police stop vid in Utah tells it all!! Gabby was violent and abusive!! Utah cops were going to charge HER with Battery!! She tried to wreck them in front of the Utah cops by yanking the steering wheel!!! Later, Brian grabbed her face and pushed her away then jumped in the car and locked the doors. You only do that when you're being attacked by wild animals or violent meth-addict Gabbys!! Brian is a HERO!!! He survived domestic abuse from that violent abusive meth-addict trash!!
Someone in another video said there is evidence of gabby intentionally bruising herself......... I will believe it when I see it but hopefully it's not true.
I hope we find him...and then you guys SOOOOOOO INTERESTED IN THIS STORY, take your time to find the hundreds of murders that are still at large in Detroit, Chicago, and Atlanta. ...oh, you guys don’t care, gotcha.
those neighbors saw a lookalike I am sure, the son wasn't even back in FL he hightailed it from o ut west and probably paid cash for some stranger that looked like him to drive the van back to FL and disappear
One of the most disturbing things is that this girls last days/weeks were spent being abused by a monster, probably filled with so much pain and sadness. Please may she find peace and please may this pathetic excuse for a human being put his cowardice on the shelf for a moment and do the right thing by Gabby, something he clearly didn’t do whilst she was alive.
Boo hoo , she was probably getting lots of attention from other men online and he was fed up with her but it doesn't mean he killed her , he couldn't have done it ! How ?
@@ruthaakamonica5602 WTF is wrong with you? She’s dead, he’s on the run. What more do we need to know? You sound hateful & callous & I hope you get the help you need since you are either a predator or one of their sympathizers. Either way you sound predator-adjacent. Please seek help for your lack of empathy & disturbing views on women.
It’s very sad. But if everyone would treat every missing person like Gabby we would solve a lot. And murders would go down because people would know were all watching
Over 800,000 kids go missing every year Just in the USA-that’s Over 2,100 A DAY. There are children being shot & murdered in broad daylight at minimum, on a Weekly bases totaling in the high hundreds Every year,Just in Chicago, & Nobody seems to give a 💩, INCLUDING the so called leaders of BLM, now sitting up in their multimillion dollar homes, with No offers to rally or help pay funeral expenses .How many times have you gone into Walmart & looked at the missing kids/adults bulletin boards???A Black male student went missing-did Joy Reid run any story on Him, just found floating in a lake/pond, possibly half naked???She’s sooo pissed a White girl gets air time, BC she was apparently a popular You Tuber with a following around the world, Missing under Very weird circumstances, & Not just Sally next door Nobody, even Neighbors don’t know, but is she Reporting on the Daily Black on Black murders of even 1 city???Is She Begging Every day for help??? Nope. People are Sleepwalking, & it’s been engineered that way by leaders Top to Bottom,& CNN & MSM, & when you are Oblivious to what’s happening, you Don’t have to Care until You get slapped with Reality,& find out you are literally One in a million, now living a Nightmare.
This missing person's case, though, had a known suspect right from the beginning. Some cases go cold because there's no known suspect so there's simply not enough information to provide to the public.
The people who own the media decide which stories make the cut and which ones don’t, if they can’t somehow push an agenda and distract us with it then it’ll go on the news. Otherwise, it gets lost with all the other *real* stories and *real* news.
After he killed Gabby, he drove 2,500 miles to go back home as if nothing happened. This guy has self control, he had plenty of time to think about hiding. He planned everything with the help of his parents.
Sounds like he’d been planning it all along. From the trip idea was probably his idea from the get go, to building the van. Ha, make sure there’s no tracking device! Lol but Angel Ethan was watching over Gabby & the video of the van came out. The video of the police body cam was released. Too bad the right cops were never on her side though. If only the right ones could’ve been on call the times she needed them to be. The law hasn’t been for her… yet. 😢 I gotta have faith that will change. We all do!
the primary psychopathological condition of murders is actually narcissism, not anti-socialism. Especially family killers. So narcissism is usually a prerequisite for this type of crime.
honestly SHOCKED that the people investigating this case and searching for him still believe he’s in that reserve. he is long gone, and they are giving him even more time to get even farther. the search must be expanded immediately.
I don't believe they think he is in the reserve, their looking for evidence. I'm guessing of either Brian or his parents being in the area and possibly dumping evidence. They have to check it out either way.
Right, especially for the fact that the Laundries gave them this information. Why would they suddenly give the FBI this information when they haven't been cooperating all investigation long? No, they trying to buy their son more time to escape, or just throw them off in the wrong direction. He likely fled the country
@@lorel9371 They can't bug their house, that is illegal unless they have previous actual evidence that they committed a crime. They also seized all their electronics and did an EXTENSIVE search of the home. No burner phones were found.
You all need to take my word for this - in that video, he acts EXACTLY like how I used to act before I became self-aware of how I was sub-consciously manipulating people. I also struggle with narcissism. Things I am now aware about. But I'm telling you guys, he is a professional manipulator and a very, very smart individual. It's no wonder he cannot be found. Side note, my situation never led to something like this, obviously. But I was still straining relationships for sure. If you are able to act as convincing as Brian is in the police video, then please seek help for yourself and others. I strongly urge you to seek salvation through Jesus Christ and a relationship with Him. Only He has the power to truly transform lives permanently.
His parents took him “camping” for 3 days which means they took him to New York (or another out of state location) and drove straight back. Brian can and will live for months in the woods and he is most familiar with the Appalachian mountains. He has trained himself for this for a long time.
His friends say he most likely is camping alone somewhere far away like the Appalachian Trail since they know he’s capable of living on his own in the wild!!!
@@trainrecked there are survivalist that live off the land and then there are survivalist that live off of other peoples work. He’s more of that type survivalist that lives off of other peoples work. The dude didn’t work. He lived off his parents. Gabby worked. She saved the money for the trip. She saved the money and purchased the van and she financed the trip. Not him. He was far too “amazing” for work. 😑 He’s already proven lifting a credit card and committing felony bank fraud works within his moral compass. They have that on video. The 2 people who picked him up hitch hiking were going to be his alibi that he was not at the van when she died. Likely his parents said leave and from there they gave him a chunk of cash, new ID and took him to Georgia to the Appalachian Trail. I’m quite sure he is fully outfitted for cold weather outdoor catch me if you can. In all actuality if he can make it into late October on the trail then he’s clear to Canada. He’s not going to come across anyone until spring.
@@tarajohnson6268 the new ID may be a stretch, and Canada probably isn't a great destination, not meaning he wouldn't try it, but otherwise, I think you've got something.
Lol his friends full of BS they helping him or some are just a guy like Brian always gonna have a friend who is just as bad or worse that will help him.
@@chuckrobinson599a fake ID in Florida is extremely easy and readily available. And I agree Canada is probably not a good choice but they speak English and with a fake ID it’s the gateway to everywhere. In 4 months it’ll be that much easier for him to escape to anywhere. The trail is a great place to hid out and it was an easy drop off point for his womb & sperm donators. I don’t believe he’s going to be living in the rough for too long though. He’s a pansy and I’m sure he has a couple creepy pals that will help. Birds of a feather flock together
As soon as I saw the police interaction in Moab UT bodycam footage, I was flashing back... my ex-husband is a narcissist-psychopath, just like Brian is. I nailed it then and I have not changed my beliefs. Brian is not going to kill himself. His feelings of self-importance will not allow himself to go that far. He honestly thinks that what he did was justified.
Interesting. Is it possible to have a whole family of narcissists, tho? I had never heard of it, but here it is. The entire family of Laundries act like one narcissistic unit. HA!!!! Everyone else is thinking bout his parents too.
@@martineshamzin7535 It's possible, but I'm thinking that Brian grew up in a toxic dysfunctional family... his parents, and I think it's mom who is the narcissist, not dad, as we see interaction with Christopher Laundrie with people asking him questions (small interactions, but just the same, it's some interaction), but NOTHING with Roberta, whatsoever... pure coldness towards everyone. She's the self-centered one, IMHO. So, Brian learned by being in it, 24/7, doesn't know any better. It's what he considers 'normal'.
@@rhondaalbrecht I agree. Either he learned it, or he inherited it, but I also think from her. Brian is rather textbook the way he is smiling and laughing at the cops while Gabby is bawling, and blamed her for the fight entirely, and she just completely takes the blame. No one even brought up that she is a 100 lbs, and very unlikely to really be a big threat to him, or that the van belonged to her.
@@martineshamzin7535 The supervising officer of the Moab UT PD did bring up the fact that 'look at her, she's all of 120 pounds, compared to him', when he left it up to Officer Robbins (the bodycam footage came from him) to decide whether or not to charge her, and then he washed his hands of the whole affair and left, leaving it to Robbins to finalize. It was Robbins who decided it was a 'mental health issue' rather than domestic violence, so that he could avoid making an arrest. It's funny, that was his f/up for his entire career, because now the state is investigating the department, and the police chief has since resigned. Everyone said that these two did a perfect job, and I'm going, no, they screwed the pooch on this one, BIG time, violating state law that REQUIRED them to arrest one or the other, or take both in. If Robbins had done his job according to state law, Gabby would be alive and safe and sound at home with her parents by now, instead of being carved up for forensic pathology to determine her manner of death, awaiting to be put in the grave she doesn't deserve to be in.
I'm quite sure he's still alive. He won't off himself (yet), I think he still thinks he can get away with this. I even thinks he likes him being talked about, being seen as a "skilled survivalist" and that he's been able to hide all this time. I think his narcissistic ego is actually greater than ever.
I thought that too. This may be a thrill for him. Maybe he'll join some international mercenary group and never surface. He would have to leave the country to do that.
Im so disappointed and outraged to think his parents are possibly helping him. If he is found dead I would not be surprised. Truly a coward. He’s guilty until PROVEN innocent in my book. I’m sorry Gabby, may you get the justice you deserve soon. 🕊
Yeah, so too were the Duke Lacrosse players guilty until proven innocent. As for his parents, when and if you are a parent, you might understand not wanting you kid to get the Death Penalty no matter what he did. Foolish to think otherwise, the love parents have for their children is not a matter of reason, it is a matter of instinct and heart.
@@mileshalpern9320 kids or not what he did is WRONG. If they are helping him hide it is morally WRONG. They are not teaching him responsibility for what he might have done. If he didn’t do anything he shouldn’t be hiding but his actions say otherwise. No one said he should get the death penalty but he needs to be responsible EVEN if he didn’t do anything wrong. He owes that much to Gabby’s family. He owes that to Gabby.
I think he is enjoying this. Much like other sick minds he is now a "somebody." And he's not going to give that up easily. He wants to be The Invisible Man. But also the most WANTED man.
All of us Narcsisist survivors sittin here like 👀…. Knew it ! Ever since the first video I seen of when gabby and Brian when they were pulled over , I seen how honest and gentle she was and he was unemotional and blamed her for everything …. So many red flags 🚩
I hope they catch him soon. I think when the police finally question him, he'll claim to be the one being abused and that he accidentally killed her in self defense during a fight. He's a POS.
The Aug 12th police stop vid in Utah tells it all!! Gabby was violent and abusive!! Utah cops were going to charge HER with Battery!! She tried to wreck them in front of the Utah cops by yanking the steering wheel!!! Later, Brian grabbed her face and pushed her away then jumped in the car and locked the doors. You only do that when you're being attacked by wild animals or violent meth-addict Gabbys!! Brian is a HERO!!! He survived domestic abuse from that violent abusive meth-addict trash!!
There is no record that he violent, they have the toxic relationship, you saw the pictures when she cried for you did not see when she hit him you saw it on his face that is probably why he took her phone, they might have gotten into another physical altercation and he might have killed unintentionally no one knows until the autopsy we can speculate over and over.
I just felt for Gabby watching her cry while sitting in car. She endured a toxic relationship with this guy. She was a sweet young woman who took the abuse, rather than end it and hurt his feelings. Some stay out of habit. Gabby is with the Lord. Want her to know we all cared and were hopeful for her to come back to her “mother and family.”
Why do we treat women like helpless children? She dated this guy for four years and was engaged for one. She wasn't kidnapped into that van. Even after things were getting violent, she stayed in that situation. I have no doubt that he was abusive. I also have no doubt that she was as well. And, she was, actually, determined to be the aggressor in this incident. It continues to amaze me that the press will play the 911 caller over and over, but they don't play the witness talking to the cop on the phone saying that she was the one hitting him. They never play the clips where she admits to initiating the violence, twice, while talking to police.
This guy is a full on narcissist. I know because I have 2 children with one. They come across and cool, calm and collected and, when they make you break down because of the psychological torture they put you through, they tell people you're the crazy one. And people believe them because they have a way of being very convincing. I am so heartbroken that Gabby wasn't able to get away and I seriously hope this &%*! gets caught so he can be held accountable for his actions probably for the first time in his life thanks to his enabling parents.
Actually, Gabby is the nut because she admitted to police she hit him first while he was driving. Its possible that he finally got fed up with her crazy ass beating him. Even the officer said it was not a domestic issue, but a mental health crisis. Sometimes its the bitch who fucks up.
@@RambosMullet79 …You forgot to mention the 911 call that said Brian was slapping Gabby. Gabby was defending herself! Murder is murder. It’s also a sin. God records everything so, God knows that Brian was the agressor! He saw everything. Your opinion matters not!
If he’s dead, his parents & their atty get off, too. I’m certain tho, that his parents mega stressed & pleaded with him not to harm self because, of course, that mama’s baby means the world to her, no matter what he may or may not have done.
He was/is definitely a psycho. Hid her licenses, abused her, was a loner and more. In many of Gabbys videos on IG it looked as if she had just finished crying =(. People say Gabby was typically happy and positive. I think she felt sorry for him, knew about some of his issues and thought her staying with him would help him
This guy skipped over two weeks Brian disappeared in Utah. He never stayed in the motel cops provided, he knew he was guilty and ran! Two days later at their camping place Kylen Schulte who worked at the shop that reported the 911 call was brutally murdered-MoonFlower in Moab UT And was Crystal Turner brutally murdered. Brian disappeared from the 12th thru 19th in UT. Gabby stayed in a hotel in SLC UT. the staff never saw Brian Laundrie. Brian turned up in FL a couple days and flew bk to UT the 21st. Then he took Gabby to WY and killed again.
I also bet it was his idea to take the cross country trip, to get her as far away from her family and friends as possible(he's insecure). So he could manipulate, control, ABUSE AND ultimately kill her. With his interaction w/police, he immediately, immediately begins trying to control the situation and begins talking over her. My sperm donor has showed for my past 38 yrs of life he is a narcissist and abuser. I knew Day 1 what had happened and stated it. Sad bc they make others feel useless and not loved.
Ikr & the guy that made the 911 call. That’s all the poor girl really had. Dang sad I tell ya! Her beautiful soul was tormented out of this cruel & uncaring world. May she finally rest peacefully in the arms of the lord.💕🙏🏼💕
I read that she, the officer, noticed that their relationship was toxic. She actually told Gabby that if she wanted to step out of that relationship, that was the opportunity to do it.
With what we've seen so far 1)being completely calm, and even in good spirits after allegedly being abused by Gabby 2) taking her van, leaving her stranded 3) unauthorized use of someones debit card: This is a man who's calculated and only looking out for himself. I am extremely doubtful he'd kill himself.
Of course it was her credit card. It doesn’t appear that he held a job other than working for his parents. She on the other hand had a job which she quit to travel across country with him. A narcissist like Brian would feel entitled to use her funds as his own to get him home without a shred of guilt.
She worked for his parents didn't she? It was her van, her career, her fans, her money, her ego, her rules. The typical setup a narcissist constructs up for themselves, where they are at the center of everything and those around them are totally dependent on them. Brian was her property, and she didn't even let him have a phone. When Brian broke her rules, she beat on him.
Something that stands out to me is the neighbor’s, family’s and friend’s lack of shock and disbelief that he likely killed her. People were shocked in the Chris Watts case, and in the BTK killer case. However, it is possible I just have not seen it .
@@russodidit Ewwwww that Rader guy gives me the creeps soooo bad! I can’t even think about Wichita without pairing it with his name. I don’t ever want to visit that city. So creepy. How do people get to be that sick & evil? My guess is that they’re born with the devil 😈 already in them like my sister.
I don't need to be a psychiatrist to read Brian Laundries behaviors...but the Utah police need one...narcissism for sure...charming...glib..laughing after hurting someone he loved, letting them take the blame and/or blaming the other person, bullying type behaviors, dishonesty, using someone else's tenderness to take advantage of them, psychologically abusive, controlling and power issues, feeling empowered and lacking empathy when he knew she might go to jail for what he did...being a coward when its time to take accountability and also playing the victim when their games NO LONGER work for them in manipulating others.
Gabby’s dad is mentally stronger than me. I would have been arrested on the Laundrie’s front lawn by now trying to get answers if that was my daughter that he took.
They didn't go the movies, they went on a long far away road and and he returned without someone's baby girl. My advice is to rush right over and get answers right away, break some limbs so he can't run. 🤲💪🦵🦶👃🦴👀🦷
He is a narcissist and a damn good one. Look at how he uses his hands to distract the police. The police are idiots also for not paying attention to that. His hand movements are a dead giveaway followed by him smiling and laughing. Cops fell for that bigtime.
I knew it! I called narcissistic abuse the moment I saw the bodycam footage of Gabby sobbing that they’d been fighting all morning. Poor thing. I hope the eyes of millions of young people are opened to the reality of emotional and psychological abuse due to this case 💔
Just like my ex husband, a month before he beat me up put me in hospital the Saint George police did nothing. I’m disabled with a neurological disorder. Never once did the police protect me, I needed help thank god for the dove center. These perpetrators are very good at what they do! Utah is a patriarchal state, they don’t train the police about domestic violence! Told by the Saint George prosecutor.
I actually disagree with you. They totally seemed to want to do it by the book. He DID have more physical signs of abuse than she did. They could have just let them drive off together. Don't blame law enforcement for not doing enough. They did what they could. And honestly, if it really was just what they said then talk about how ridiculous. Requiring cops to over react to every situation is how we get a REAL police state. No thanks. I'd still like to have some rights thanks.
It WAS the cops fault for not seeing the fact that he did NOT want HER at the domestic violence shelter, but he would rather be homeless for a night than allow her to be around people that could maybe recognize what's really going on.
@@heatherweir2948 I'm not sure if you know but, there was a 911 call prior to them being stopped ... reporting male slapping female, white van, florida registration.
Poor sweet gorgeous young lady. Rest In Peace, Gabby. I thought he was extremely narcissistic from that footage when I first saw it. You can tell by his body language how narcissistic he is
I do not think he would kill himself. It is so sad to see Gabby take on responsibility for everything to police while Brian laughs with police and calls her crazy. It is infuriating.
@Jome The police never receive enough mental health training in the police academy to recognize antisocial personality disorder . It’s just like when you see some schizophrenic man getting shot by police when refusing to lay on the ground because what they don’t realize is this person has voices speaking to them plus the police. Imagine multiple screaming inside your head all day. So this police footage of Gabby and Brian being stopped just proves that police do not recognize the signs of narcissistic or antisocial personality disorder. I would not want to be those police officers right now.
He’s not suicidal ! He’s been on social media. He was doing 35 miles over speed limit & reckless driving. Cop didn’t handle situation. With everything that’s happened-Brian remains only ‘a person of interest’ , driving to FL in his deceased GF’s van. Finally , a warrant , for using her CC. We need change in domestic law enforcement !
Mexico, dressed as a woman and tattoos burned off... speculative but narcissistic sociopaths think they are so superior, and crafty to evade accountability.
Narcissist, not sociopath. Sociopathy doesn’t work that way anyways. God this comment section is filled with people who don’t know what they’re talking about with psych just running their mouths creating misinformation. Please stop.
My fiancé of several years…. Who I knew since high school….. mirrored this entire situation. Brian’s mannerisms are exactly like my fiancé’s. Long story short, I left him and he murdered a husband and wife and then stole their car and hung himself in the woods an hour away. I know he loved himself too much to kill himself. So he decided to put their lives on me and send a message. One he told me the day I left him. That I took away his only opportunity to spend his life with someone he loved. The only way he felt he could take his own life was to take theirs. A couple who had been happily married for 50 years. Brian is no different. The only thing keeping him alive would be his narcissism. If he hasn’t died yet, he will soon.
OMGOODNESS that’s just horrific for you dear girl. I know a bit about that sort of thing though. It’s all about making you feel bad, cos that makes him feel good, great even dizzy with delight. Once you know the only gambit here is making someone die or break inside is the ultimate goal of their stunted soul, you can know it’s not personal, feels like it. But it’s not. If he didn’t blame you, he’s moved onto the very next person on his warped mind to say it all to. You know the dreadful truth though? After he called you .....he hung up and called the next girl on his list...if his mother was alive...said the same thing to her and his sister. Girlfriends before and after you, some of them got the exact same call. The more people he destroys the utter bliss and joy he feels. Depraved wretched being he is. Not you though precious girl, you’re the heart and soul, the morning lights the evening star, the beating pulse that holds all those she loves so close. You shine.
He didn't killed innocent people to send you a message. He didn't killed himself to make a statement for you, he did because he was too proud to get arrested and suffer as he did to people. He's a coward and at least he's with the devil now his true love
The psychiatrist is describing lot of men who killed their partners in my country, Italy. In 99% of the cases they kill themselves shortly after the killings of the wife/fiancé and children. But we also have cases similar to that of Chris Watt where the killer is positive he can get away with it and start a new life. What scares me most are the first category of killings, killing+suicide because they are like terrorists, you can't stop them and value life, even their own, as nothing..
Its the police's fault for releasing them with no actions on the road stop. Thats why they have such an immense search to show they care after its to late. When you need them they are never around its sooo sad. Rip Gab
Neither wanted to press charges against the other. The police tried to get Gabby to leave him....at least they got them to separate for the night. But you can't force adults to stay away from each other. Don't blame the police. Watch the ENTIRE body cam video, the police were very professional and did the best they could....some people just won't accept help....
I think they know where he is, just haven't told the media and are looking for him while whoever behind the screens is getting the information they need. How else would anyone know about money and when Gabby was murdered but him or his disgusting parents?? RIP Gabby. 🦋
Star Child: Is LE still wasting time & millions of dollars in that swamp? Amazing how Laundries were so silent till they offered tips as to where ( NOT ) Brian was. He was NEVER in that swamp. They seamlessly pulled that one off. Gabby’s parent probably discovered the activity from her bank. When someone is reported missing, their bank info is usually checked. Gabby’s murder was discovered because a couple spotted her van & the area was searched. If that couple hadn’t reported it, who knows if her body would ever have been found. Has LE found any useful info at all? I can’t think of any. It seems that so far, the Laundries are weeks ahead. That murderer is long gone. He probably keeps his mask on &, hat & sunglasses. Wherever he is, I doubt they even know anything about what he did so no one is looking for him. He could easily change his appearance, shave his eyebrows, get a nose job. He could even do a Caitlyn Jenner.
In the body cam footage, the officer say the witness (on record) said it looked like he was pushing her off of him in self-defense. So different story from what was said on the 911 call,. But they had 1 more witness to get a statement from.
Or even parents holiday home if they have one. They took him in their camper van hiding and could have left him there with all the supplies while they returned.
@@cyncyoung11 since they bought a new camper & took the old one for the 3 day trip- I believe they’ve set him up in some remote spot. Family in NY - I think. Don’t know where - but he’s hunkered down in the middle of nowhere spot . He’s still doing social media. This just gets more bizarre !
As you can see and hear in the Video. Brian, really wanted to know what see said to the Police, since he couldn't hear her. At that instance, I would have tried to get a response from him. And officer of the law should have training on that.
AGREED!!! if they can be heartless, then why can't any of us be heartless towards them!! They have given zero f**ks about Poor Gabbys death!! They're disgusting individuals. RIP GABBY!!
I said that too! the old neighbors saw a lookalike I am sure, the son wasn't even back in FL he hightailed it from out west and probably paid cash for some stranger that looked similar to him to drive the van back to FL and disappear
Please find something on parents and push them to open theirs mouths! Unreal!! If my adult child would go missing for a day I would be taking on national TV, crawling though bushes and swim in the water with crocodiles at the reserve. They are guilty as much as Brian!
Well, it seems to me that if Brian really is a narcissist in the truest sense of the word, he's eventually gonna get too big for his britches and accidentally give himself away. It's just a matter of time.
Brian Laundrie is a Narccistic Sociopath, Evil to His Core. Gabby Loved life it was all over Her cute demeanor. May God Bless Gabby's Parents & Gabby may you Rip.😢😔
At this point in his game, there is a federal warrant…No way that I’m going down for him if I’m a friend or family member. I don’t believe he’ll be found alive. He’s not gonna go to jail. Can you imagine? He wouldn’t last a day.
Actually he would survive in jail, if he was smart he would work out very hard, he could put some bulk on that frame, and his crime is actually a respectable one in prison, he is not a cho mo, he is young, yeah, really jail is the best place for him
They spared the rod and spoiled the child . He seems like the kind he have to have his way or he becomes all traumatic and to soothe him they obliged him.
I was in a relationship with a narcissist who killed his first girlfriend and got away with it. Not that he even disclosed that information before we got married. He charmed everyone. I found myself apologizing to him for defending myself, too. As someone who has lived through it, it's creepy how difficult it is to pin narcissists. I didn't trust anyone new for a long time.
@@rhysil213 i was in a relationship with a narcissist too. Fortunately I got away unharmed, but he wouldn't back off after I broke up with him. He stalked me relentlessly. I did not trust anyone for more or less ten years... I had nightmares that he still stalks me. Everyone thought he was so nice because he was so charming. After we broke up he would show up at my uni to offer me red roses in front of all my class mates begging for me to get back to him and my classmates were like aaaaw he is do sweet, he loves you etc. Little did they know that he was verbally and physically abusing me, that he was gaslighting me and he was manipulative and a pathological liar... He wanted to isolate me from my friends and family... He was too jealous and causing fights all the time... If any other male talked to me... I would have such a hard time at home because he was jealous... I got away luckily, but I'm pretty sure he will commit domestic violence, if not worse... I feel bad for his current girlfriend. The psycho is actually still creeping up on my profiles and adds me to his network even though I've declined multiple times. I'm still scared to trust people because of him. His web of lies and gaslighting messed me up. Narcs mess up your life 😔
In my opinion, the reason Gabby’s Dad didn’t see red flags is because you need to spend a very large amount of time around them, like your spouse, sibling, parent. Being in the SAME household (LIKE w/His Parents who worked so the kids were together alone for big enough periods of time for things to go on regularly ) may have led to at least one red flag. Which may be why BL decided for them to go to Florida to live with His parents not hers. I don’t want him to blame himself for not seeing. It’s NOT Gabby’s Parents faults at all! Brian only began openly for passerby’s to notice his behaviour of locking her out ETC, in mid August THAT WE KNOW OF, due to her being missing on the news, it jogged the memories of at least 2,3 of the known witnesses. So in my experience in my own life & then my daughter’s, when they begin to unravel at some point and lose control and have a huge bigger than usual Narc Rage, it’s easy to hide it in a house, not as easy in a tiny van. They did camp places that were also very remote so it could have been happening for months or weeks at least days up to the first witnessed incident then involving the 911/police cam video we all see and then the 27th of august, in the restaurant. 🌸❤️🩹RIP SWEET GIRL💜🌸 Prayers&understanding 💔 ❤️🩹from a bereaved parent who’s 19 yr old daughter was taken from me in a DVI just over 3 yrs ago. She WILL be with you always, your heart hurts terribly now, but her smiles will fill the pain eventually to whatever extent your heart heals. But justice also MUST come for BL.& His Parents. it’s not unclear what has happened here in millions of people’s minds including mine and with all the clues and evidence we have so far. I pray they find him before he can hurt anyone else. I apologise for the lengthy comment.
That Cop that Drove Brian to the Hotel Was Telling inmate things about his own Wife for World to hear and telling it to a Killer I feel so bad for his wife Now that's a Narcissist right there 😳
Right? I would be furious if I found out my husband was telling my personal business to strangers and now the whole world gets to hear about it. Absolutely disgusting!
I'm so tired of hearing criminals described as "gentlemen". It would never occur to a gentleman to "slap a girl". The correct nomenclature in this case is "male individual"
Gentlemen dont hurt women. This was ABUSE!! You are most correct. Someone should check out his Pinterest account. I was very dark and horrifying. I think he was either multiple personalities or demonically possessed. WOW!!
YUP YUP YUP i was shouting in agreement during this. i was abused in a relationship by a narcissist and i know for a fact brian is too- i see what happened to me in their situation. my ex even strangled me, i'm just lucky enough to still be alive... but i can see it clear as day. ANY domestic violence expert would have seen the signs, this is why experts need to be on scene to all potential DV calls.
My thoughts and prayers are with Gabby's family as her funeral I believe is this weekend. Having said that, it's time to share some of the media spotlight with other missing persons, like 5 year old Summer Wells, who's been missing since June 15, or Keeshae Jacobs, that has been missing since Sept. 26, 2016. As it's important to find Laundrie, who evidently murdered Gabby, the media could be doing so much more to help the families of other missing people instead of their daily swamp coverage.
I don't think cops in general most of them I don't think care about the public I mean they have to keep crime down to a certain amount but they could hire psychics there's ones that have successfully found people quickly yet they hardly ever hire them they could be finding so many more people and an investigator stated about the summer well case if they don't hire psychics cuz I kept mentioning it they don't hire him because they don't find the bodies quickly and he thinks that they're just trying to rip the police off but I think that's just a dumb untrue excuse cuz they could hire psychics that have been successful at finding missing people quickly in the past that way they can prevent them from getting fake or corrupt ones just trying to get money I think the cops let perpetrators get away too often on purpose so they provide more work for the police to do putting more money into the police department cuz the more they spend the more funding they get the justice system in the medical system are both money markets there's very few people who actually care neither but I agree we need to pay attention to all the missing people more I think they ignore a lot of them for population control it's a really sad thing I used to work for the government and when I found out something illegal was happening in a disability workplace that was getting disability money they were purposely firing clients even ones that were doing well even the disable trainer was fired he was doing an awesome job so no reason to fire him then clients work started to decline cuz no accommodation just so they could rehire new ones and get more funding cuz they get tons of Federal disabled money every time they hire a new person only they pocketed it and I told governor Christina gregwire and she ignored and they get votes from companies in exchange for ignoring illegal red tags when I lived in the shelter cuz I have a bone marrow condition on disability and couldn't afford rent like a lot of disabled on the list to get Section 8 the shelter staff half of them would make fun of clients pick on them and I read in the newspaper that there are shelters they get shut down cuz they purposely make it more chaotic so they can get more funding and then they pocketed and they drive around with $50,000 cars when it got shut down cuz they didn't fix the electricity excetera I lived in The Domestic Violence Shelter some of the staff were very mean and corrupt and wouldn't let us go through the donations until they took all the good stuff first and kids wrote their Christmas list a rich woman bought a kid video game boy system and the lead took it and gave it to her son making the boy cry one of the leads did heroin in the bathroom this is supposed to be a place of safety and to get away from abuse and we're getting abused by staff which just further breaks down people self-esteem I and other disabled get picked on by most of the Paratransit schedulers when a school counselor called the cops on my dad and he had to take domestic violence classes while I was in foster care where. I got starved she said I stole money when I didn't and they brought me back to my dad who had not changed despite I told the cops he still abused me they did nothing when I called the cops and CPS on my uncle for rape and molestation and beatings on family members they laughed and said you're probably making this up then a lady at a store called CPS on the same uncle and they had to investigate my cousins are brainwashed to keep quiet so he got away with it I say a special prayer for all the missing people in the world and I pray that our justice system in America in general changes the way they do things and quit being so corrupt
@@michaelschaefer1904 no they are not. The condition called narcissistic personality disorder, or NPD, affects only about 1 percent of the population. Get your facts straight.
@@StephanieTihanyi that % reflects narcs who have sought treatment and have been diagnosed. Most narcs will never seek treatment, they move on and find their next victim.
He is a narcissist. A narcissist will never take responsibility for their actions, never understand why people find them at fault, and he is not going to take his own life because he doesn't think that he did anything wrong. I feel so bad for what Gabby must have gone through at the hands of this monster. In that traffic stop video it's obvious that he had been terrorizing her for weeks.
She was more the narcissist. She constructed a life that centered around her. Her van, her career, her money, her rules, her fans showering her in the admiration she required as a narcissist. Brian was just her dog, made completely depended on her, and not even allowed to have a phone, thus isolating him. When Brian broke her rules she beat on him. She beat on him for hours that day she was almost arrested for domestic. Brian offered to go to jail in her place.
@@abram730 Do you even know what you're talking about? She had posted one video, 1. She didn't have fans yet, she didn't have any of what you're babbling on about yet. What she did have was a narcissistic exfiancee who did everything he could to separate her from her family and friends, isolating her, pushing her to purchase that Van and go camping and be in the outdoors which is what he wanted. If you actually took the time to understand who Brian laundrie is... the fact that he just wanted to be outdoors all the time, then you would understand that this was his perfect idea of how he wanted to live his life. The fact is, he was a controlling bastard and murdered Gabby. If you don't see that then maybe you're an abuser as well?
Brian has a very dark side of him. They need to catch him before he does this again, It won't get better for him or his parents. He's the Spawn of the Devil!
Narcissists are a nightmare to have as a neighbour, they usually love the attention from the police as they play their victim card. He is being hidden by a relative.
I hate when people use the word "gentleman" for a guy who is anything but. "The gentleman was slapping the girl." Gentlemen don't slap girls
And how do you know he slapped her though? Were you there? NO. Some witnesses said they didn’t see him hitting her but the other way around. We don’t know the whole story
literally.
May I have this Dance "let's Dance the night away"
@@ivi122 That's a direct quote from the 911 caller
@@dancer22273 Did you watch the police body cam when they got pulled over by police? Brian had visible cuts, and scratch marks on his face and arms. The police took pictures of his marks. Gabby had zero visible signs of cuts, scratches or marks on her body. The police were actually going to take Gabby to jail. Brian can be heard asking if " he could go to jail in her place" The police end up just separating the two. They took Brian to a hotel, and gave Gabby the van to drive wherever she wanted for the night. Also, there was a double homicide that happened close by in same general area that Brian, and Gabby were last seen at. Nobody is even talking about that????? I agree the fact that Brian disappeared, vanished and supposedly ran off into hiding. ( who knows what happened to him) Definitely makes him look guilty.... Just too many what if's in this case.... Sad situation
I’m not a psychiatrist, but here’s my diagnosis….he’s shady af.
Preach brother
So true
Yeah I know psychiatrist either but the second he hopped out of that car to confront the cops he acted extremely shady that was the first red flag that I saw in the video when it comes to him
Exactly 🧐
@@dylantedlock460 Oh yeah me too. He's all Mr. Charming, I'm a good guy, I didn't do anything...BS!! Typical abuser.
He’s not dead. Brian killed his fiancée, then went home and had a walk and bike ride, took money from her and has vanished. He has a new ID and new cell phone, he is too into himself to kill himself.
@@MAGGOT_VOMIT we’ll see when the autopsy report comes. we truly don’t know what happened but if it was self defense, then he should have said so. He’s a coward and he killed her in a rage. it’s all too obvious just not solid proof beyond reasonable doubt.
Welp that’s what we all want to believe in order to get justice
@UCaqQ5SMXLwNHPag-odPeU6Q Where do you get that Gabby was on meth???
@J Davis i see a bruise on left or right arm actually
He’s not that sophisticated to do what you are saying, pretty clear he’s dead in a swamp somewhere.
He’s a narcissist so suicide is his last way to make this all about him.
the second someone touches you physically in a relationship out of frustration. It’s over. End it. No questions.
I would tend to agree with that. Certainly if someone does something with the intent to cause physical harm, it's simply inexcusable.
@@mileshalpern9320 when they "lose control" and physically hurt you out of a subconscious reaction, them killing you is one extreme incident or life changing moment away from happening.
the pattern is that when they end it the abuser kills them, they called off engagement, she may have wanted out and that's why he killed her
“It’s incredibly dangerous to leave an abuser, because the final step in the domestic violence pattern is: Kill her.” - Leslie Morgan Steiner, AMERICAN AUTHOR AND
ADVOCATE FOR WOMEN’S RIGHTS
She was scratching and hitting him and attacking him.
His parents don’t act like they are concerned that he might be dead.
Exactly. If they felt like he might harm himself they wouldn't have waited to report him missing. It doesn't make sense unless they know he's ok.
The truth will come out, hopefully sooner than later. All the truth...🙏🙏🙏
He’s not dead ! Why would you hire a lawyer for a dead man,Ok so the parents have him in a mental hospital so he don’t have to go to jail for killing gabby !😡😡😡
Also he stole her money. Why would he steal her money if he was planning to off himself? Most likely he did so because he wanted to use it to aid with his escape.
Correct. They would be on TV begging him to return and say something like "please Brian, come home, we love you, don't hurt yourself"
He's not suicidal. He's in flight mode and his parents helped him escape.
yes maybe they did help him...22yo kids are not that slick or smart to commit murder and hide their trail or evidence...and kids always take their wallet and phone...if anything, he will have withdrawals from not being on the net or talking on the phone...maybe the parents told him to leave it...and the parents to me do not look upset of his disappearance or the death of gabby...
Robert Godlewski So Right
I agree
Right. The fact that he took off for Florida to me says he was in self-preservation mode
I think it psyop what the ptb up to
It's a beautiful thing that the world is awake to narcissism.
A real narcissist will greatly enjoy the nonstop attention from the whole world. Everyone is looking for him, his picture everywhere.
Brian is getting off on this and he’s sky high exhilarated with self importance now.
There is zero chance that he committed suicide. He thinks he will make it and he’s enjoying every moment that he’s free with everyone looking at him.
I’m full blown psychopath. I know he’s enjoying this. He cares nothing about the danger nor guilt. It’s all feeding his narcissism, and all the world’s attention feels better than sex.
All this attention makes him feel like the most important man in the entire universe
@@coronavirusisacommunistchi845 that will change when he is finally caught. He won't last long having to look over his shoulder constantly paranoid at getting caught. Everyone has seen his face, how is he isn't going anywhere if they put out a reward
He’s so narcissistic that he’s posting on Instagram and Facebook now lol
He blames her for all his problems. He's out there, they will get him.
Hope they get him soon
and they honestly feel it's not their own actions. If someone hits you, leave they don't want to be reminded of it. That's where resentment sets in, possibly.
He is definitely alive. I can't stand Dog but I think he has a better chance at finding him first than police who spent $1mil to search where his parents pointed them 😂
He didn't blame her for anything at all....
It was horrifying hearing her blame herself for his abuse. Poor girl. Rip x
To all woman & men: recognize abuse, physical, mental or emotional. Detecting the early signs is essential. Stand strong, stand for your right to live a happy life!
100% agree!!! ❤❤
Tristan Ruby: This is very complicated. The abuse can be very subtle at first. Marry a guy & then have kids & become dependent on the guy & his income. That’s when a lot of the abuse starts. He knows he’s got her in that spot because she usually doesn’t have money or a career that can sustain & support her & her kids.
Growing up, girls have to learn to be independent, have a career & be able to support themselves. They should learn to advance their education before backing up a guy’s.
So many women support guys thru school so they can attain a solid career & once they’re successful, dump their wives for someone whom they think they deserve.
Ex. Betty Broderick did all she could for her husband & once successful, he split from Betty & married his secretary. The abuse was overwhelming. She shouldn’t have killed them but they drove her nuts.
Young girls in love think that it will never happen but the insidious abuse starts creeping up & life turns to HELL.
@@lorel9371 correct :")
@@lorel9371 ki
This type of abuse is so subtle at first. He was so easily able to charm those police officers. Their relationship starts off like that. So charming at the beginning and then the narc will slowly test your boundaries by doing something small. It's very easy to brush it off with a bad day or something like that. The psychological abuse these types inflict is immense. To most people the narc comes across as a great guy. Glad the Dr. is writing a book about it. There needs to be more awareness about this type of abuse especially for young girls/women.
thanks, Dr. TH-cam. haha
Covert narcissists are horrible, mine left me four years ago still trying to find myself after the damage mrs h goetsch inflicted.. beware
? is why hasn't the foresenic report been released.
To me he looked like he was nervous in the police body cam video.
@@Secter84 At first because he was assessing the situation. Re-watch it and pay attention to how interested he is about what she's saying about him but how he doesn't ask if she's okay or show any concern other than about what she told them. Then he relaxes after he realizes the one cop is on his side and had a difficult ex. Then he calls gabby crazy and tells the police she has problems, and she backs it up with self deprecating comments. After that he's not nervous at all and they are chatting the whole time on the car ride and he's smiling and completely at ease. Brian didn't once act concerned about her at all in the car with the cop.
Everything Laundries has done to this point has been self survival. He will not kill himself. He’s out there.
finally, a pretty good post that's reasonable.
Well that's good news. I'm glad hes OK.
@@MsCwebb tf you mean he’s okay , weirdo fr
@@MsCwebb Most people say he's not o.k. Most people say he's terrible.
@@MrJuvefrank Gabby Fajito Burrito? 🌯
Him doubting her goals honestly broke my damn heart. If “the love of your life” can’t even support you, who can?
What is so sad and failing is the body cam footage imo
Self love is the best love❤️
Yourself? lol
@@jayg5391 thank you lol
Ugh same 😖😖
THANK YOU DOC!!! A LOT of emphasis has been put on depression in recent years. Its time to create MASSIVE awareness on Narcissistic Behavior. Any person who's recovered from a narc relationship recognized what was going on in the police stop in Moab.
Very true, narcissistic people are very deceptive they are evil!
Absolutely,Thank you.
100% agree. The red flags are so easy to see when you have been through it. I hope this case brings awareness to narcissism.
@@markuswx1322 there is a spectrum, my ex loved to Cary and play with knives, worried me a bit…
I was in n abusive narcissistic relationship. I also grew up with a narc father who abused my mother in May way possible yet she refuses to leave him. I no longer have contact with them and I’m a lot calmer. After being in this type of relationship, it’s like coming out of a battle. A battle with yourself and with the devil. These people really are evil. I always used to think narcissists were people who were overly vain. It’s more of the covert manipulative behaviour like Brian Laundrie. They always play the victim while making the victim feel guilty all the time. It starts slowly making a person unsure of themselves. This is how they gain control. Whenever I meet a narc now, I run. Brian dirty Laundrie WILL be caught!
his parents helped him bail. the dude is heartless and emotionless. he would never blame himself enough to kill himself
If he does I don't think it's because he blames him so, it's because he would rather not get caught and spend the rest of his life in jail
I think he would if he knew the police were about to close in. He's a coward, someone like him wouldn't last 5 minutes in jail.
Hollow soul
I think that he thinks it was her own fault that it ”happened”.
I was married to a narcissist and it was allways ”my own fault” that he hit me.
Can you link any interviews or anything quoted by his parents that make you think that? I've not heard or seen them act any type of way. Links please
Gabby's best girlfriend has said that when Brian got out of control Gabby would come stay with her. About ten to twelve times in a year, or about once a month. In one occasion he was "hearing voices". This is a sign of real and serious Mental Illness.
Huhhhhh she did not say that
@@anchenishsimba3275 Yeah she did, she said it in an interview
Brian stopped taking his medication and once he killed the 2 women he came back to kill Gabby.
@@anchenishsimba3275 Her friend said within the first year of their friendship she stayed with her 7-10 times.
Love the way people diagnose a criminal minded person as having a mental illness. Years ago they were called a criminal today they are mentally ill.
My abuser use to be calm and let me seem overly emotional. Then he'd hide out and I'd, stupidly, hide with him until the search ended. It's a REAL cycle. I'm thankful to be here. God bless Gabby & all the other women who have had to deal with this 🙏
I’ve been through something similar as you Laura, so seeing myself in Gabby, this case hits so close to home and I’m devastated for her. I wish I could have hugged her and told her she was strong enough to leave.
@@bellab8639
As a survivor, it gives me chills. You can't trust anyone. It's scary
hed hide out from what? why was there a search
@@mackhomie6 stores, people.. they'd see what he did and maine has a zero tolerance law so the d a. Would press charges. Without me they didn't have much if a case. This us a man that dragged me through the woods telling me I'd never see my family Again. I truly thought I was going to die that day... but I loved him.
gabby was also abusive so ...🤷♂️
I still cant get over the fact that the police let him run away... Gabby was already missing, he came back without her and refused to talk to the cops and nobody followed him???????
The can't follow him without proof that he committed a crime. He was only a person of interest at the time.
it is so weird, I am sure the UK police would have done something, the US law is quite poor
@@beaulieuonnp593 Exactly. God forbid the civil rights of murderers might be violated.
@Sam judah You can't detain someone that is just for being a person of interest.
@Sam judah He was beyond suspect from the very start. One would think that he could be under surveillance at least.
Then that massive investigation of the 25,000 acre swamp by hundreds of people costing millions of dollars. I heard that it’s still going on. I think that was just a ruse by the parents. I don’t think that killer ever stepped foot in that alligator, snake & mosquito infested swamp.
There’s something really fishy as to why that swamp is still even a consideration. Somebody’s making big $$$$$ money off it.
Someone suggested that they’re probably looking for a cell phone or wallet. Don’t think so.
Those people are probably stumped & this is the only thing they can think to do & make a lot of money for themselves. Shoulda kept an eye on the guy in the very beginning & would have saved a lot of time & money.
I can’t think of any narcissist who ever committed suicide. Their sense of self-preservation is extremely high and they lack empathy which feeds feelings of guilt for wrongdoings. So, I don’t believe Laundrey has any plans to kill himself or turn himself in. Somebody knows where he is and they will eventually do what’s right.
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hes not a diagnosed narcissist. this on psychiatrist said he might be and the only evidence he has is the bodycam footage. im not saying he isnt im just saying he may not be so dont make assumptions. shouldnt really be speculating like its the end of a tv show anyway
Vulnerable narcissism look it up bud
If someone is hiding him he could end up hurting that person too
Hey now, narcissists can suffer from depression too.
Make Laundrie's parents pay for the costs of the wild goose chase they sent law enforcement on.
Where does it stop than?
It’s funny that even Dog the Bounty Hunter has t caught up with him yet.
He behaves like his parents. Calm when things are terribly wrong
Because he knows, he is innocent
His parents don’t look “calm” to me. The dad looks angry and the mother looks hyper and tense.
You mean he is clever?
@@pedros3 if I was innocent, then I definitely would not disappear.
That only makes him look guilty nothing else
Exactely! Mostly narcissism comes from child hood trauma, something could be very screwed up in that family, also looking at how much Gabby blamed herself while she seemed so broken.
She suffered not realizing she was in a sick relationship.
Those kind of dumb girls always go for those type of guys.
@@Snooy40869 so right.
She liked getting hit? Bc she loved him and he will change? Yes, he changed into a killer
Unfortunately this is what narcissistic abuse looks like.. They will twist your mind into believing that you deserve to belittled, criticized, screamed at, made to feel so you are worthless, etc etc.
Gabby was stupid beyond measure. She should have left Brian the first time the abuse ever occurred. As my drill instructor used to always say, “The only cure for stupidity is death.”
I hope that if ANYTHING can come from this… it’s more awareness of narcissistic personality disorder. NPD touches so many lives and yet so many victims never realize what’s happening to them. It’s truly heartbreaking and more people need to understand that this is seriously twisted abuse.
agreed. Narcissism should be an essential subject for study, at any age.
The people who stay with people with NPD are not “victims”. They are simply stupid; too stupid to leave.
It took me way too long at 62 to realize my "mother" had narc personality disorder. She was awful.
@@cm1133 it’s different in every situation, but more often than not, narcissists threaten their partners when they try to leave.
@@cm1133 That's exactly the type of thing a narcissist would say.
He is too important in his own mind to take his own life. This is a big game to him. Cat and mouse on a grandiose scale.
He somewhere smiling it’s a game to him
Go Brian, go!!!! 😄👌
it's called manhunt. and he's winning
@@NoPrivateProperty lmao
Exactly
My parents would force me to talk to police if I returned without my fiance... It's pretty obvious that they are helping him.
One thing that occurred to me is that they dropped him off without food, clothing, money, supplies in the wilderness after he came home without her. And are saying nothing bc the public be damned and shame on their son
He's an adult. The parents can't FORCE him to do anything.
@@catherineostrom7575 you're an idiot. Ya they could have. Instead they took him camping!! They could have cut him off completely if he refused to say what happened to their future daughter in law.
I spoke with my mom and she said that! With a lot of pain she would force me to talk to police with proper representation. But this is not the first time I see a family blindly helping their murderous son escape and hide... other cases similar to this show that some families are evil
He might be the leader of the pack.
I dont understand how you could kill such a beautiful soul and all she wanted was to do a van vlog and have fun. Brian youre time is coming bud
Lets hope he doesn't get away and date another woman to death.
@@martineshamzin7535 unfortunately like someone commented his type needs a girl friend if he is a narcist he needs people to wait on him because dont like being alone and they also order people around and are controlling and get upset if people dont jump right away
He was jealous she had so much guts to quit her job and try starting her van life vlog, she probably had more attention on Instagram then him and he didn’t like that he was just her co pilot really… what a selfish narcissist. Couldn’t let her have her cake! People who arn’t jealous of others help them rise up! He was definitely jealous of her. P.s. making his stamps from cartoons created by others isn’t anything interesting. You can only run from the world for so long Brian!
@@jamesringler987 I agree. He is a young man, and is very unlikely to stop dating. You would hope no one would be foolish enough to date him, but we both know this is unlikely. And I simply don't trust that the FBI cares much. Not after knowing how they failed to look out for the Olympic Gymnasts, How they failed to look into the Parkland killer even after twenty reports that the was dangerous. But there really isn't much I can do about it but hope for a good outcome. I just don't know why they keep on looking in the stupid swamp! He would have to be Bear Grills to avoid them this long. He has to be somewhere else.
@Apollo he was very possesive and remember he told the cops he was afraid she'll take the van and leave. Also he heard voices. So it could be voices telling him she wants to leave or she said it. He went into a rage and killed her
He is too self absorbed and a coward to be suicidal. His parents didn't report him missing for 3 days and don't seem to concerned that he would harm himself
Suicide is a coward's way out, he's dead
@@Thefloorsspeakyiddish almost 8 billion people in the world and suicide is such a small fraction of the death worldwide. I realize you're ignorant and young, but don't sound stupid mate. Enjoy your life, but most people are terrified of death. Suicide is never a cowards way out...
@@ThefloorsspeakyiddishSuicide isn't necessarily cowardly. Japanese Samurais used to do it frequently. I don't believe he's dead or at least that he committed suicide.
He is a narcissist, and to self centered, to take his own life. He thinks that he is the smartest person, in the room. Any room!!!
He literally had a playlist called 'self absorbed' on his Spotify playlist. It's nomadic statik
He had her brainwashed to think all this was her fault. If she behaved herself he wouldn't be so angry to her. This is a domestic violence relationship, So sad not one of those officers were trained to see this. Sadly Gabby dies for not having the intervention she needed...RIP
Maybe you're right. She said, "I was apologising to him," in the bodycam video. She's not an abuser. She saw herself as being in the wrong. Girls who abuse their BFs don't apologise while they're doing it. She was just confused and in an emotional state. Another thing that sticks out on the bodycam video is that he never once said, "Is she OK?" Bless her. I don't blame those police. They must see stuff like this all the time. They separated them for the night. What else can you do in that instance?
Susan you are 100% on this.. cops should've been trained & plus normal common sense. So sad for Gabby.
Gabby wasn't brainwashed. She was attracted to the abuse and in love with the abuser and was trying to fix him. Classic case. This has happened squillions of times throughout history. Women want this- which is why arranged marriage is so good for women in the long run. Don't believe me. Look it up.
That's so true. Good guys are boring to women. They crave that edge and unfortunately this one met a psycho.
Brian loves himself. No chance of him taking his life. His parents made him this way. Entitled and thinking he can “ flip off accountability.” Can’t hide forever. Karma is waiting for Brian.
If he loved himself than why did he live as Gabby's slave?
You don’t know what his parents did or didn’t do and it’s unfair to target them he’s their kid who knows what he told them Ted Bundy had most people fooled and he was a monster unless you’ve had a child of your own you have no idea what you would do in their shoes
@@abram730 He probably realized she truly did love him so wanted to be loving toward her. Narcissists know when someone genuinely loves them and will return gestures of love so long as it benefits them.
@@aria759 Her life revolved around herself, not Brian. Her van with Brian driving her, her career with Brian doing much of the work, her money with Brian getting no pay, her fans to fill her need for constant and excessive admiration as Brian sat quietly there, her rules that Brian had to follow. She needed his free labor, and that is different than love. When he broker her rules she would attempt to beat him into submission. For example Brian entered the van with dirty feet, and moved her food, so she beat on him for hours.
@@abram730 I don't know why he would propose marriage to her then if it was really that way, unless he's a masochist.
i too found it odd that she was crying and shaken and he was all calm
Ladies tend to be too emotional
Absolutely. At the same time he seemed nervous and as if he was really trying to act calm and would occasionally smile at the police… very odd
The cop seriously said they witnessed a domestic abuse, AND DID NOTHING. They should be held accountable for this as well.
The Aug 12th police stop vid in Utah tells it all!! Gabby was violent
and abusive!! Utah cops were going to charge HER with Battery!! She
tried to wreck them in front of the Utah cops by yanking the steering
wheel!!! Later, Brian grabbed her face and pushed her away then jumped
in the car and locked the doors. You only do that when you're being
attacked by wild animals or violent meth-addict Gabbys!!
Brian is a HERO!!! He survived domestic abuse from that violent abusive
meth-addict trash!!
@@MAGGOT_VOMIT haha nice fan fiction
So sad.. So pathetic. I feel terribly for Gabbys parents. She truelly seemed like such a kind soul!
Someone in another video said there is evidence of gabby intentionally bruising herself......... I will believe it when I see it but hopefully it's not true.
She struck me as simple, a little too gentle. An easy mark for Laundrie.
Have any of you heard about the connection to those 2 girls being mudered?!
@@barbw13 I heard that authorities have ruled that there’s no connection.
@@lorel9371 Yet..the authorities are not telling us. They can't and shouldn't. But they know more definitely.
He’s escaping and hiding. He didn’t commit suicide.
@@Val-ee4hd I'm surprised he's evaded authorities even this long, to be honest.
I hope we find him...and then you guys SOOOOOOO INTERESTED IN THIS STORY, take your time to find the hundreds of murders that are still at large in Detroit, Chicago, and Atlanta.
...oh, you guys don’t care, gotcha.
If he's a narcissist like the good doctor claims then he would never kill himself in a million years
those neighbors saw a lookalike I am sure, the son wasn't even back in FL he hightailed it from o ut west and probably paid cash for some stranger that looked like him to drive the van back to FL and disappear
One of the most disturbing things is that this girls last days/weeks were spent being abused by a monster, probably filled with so much pain and sadness. Please may she find peace and please may this pathetic excuse for a human being put his cowardice on the shelf for a moment and do the right thing by Gabby, something he clearly didn’t do whilst she was alive.
Boo hoo , she was probably getting lots of attention from other men online and he was fed up with her but it doesn't mean he killed her , he couldn't have done it ! How ?
@@ruthaakamonica5602 You sound like narcissist yourself.
@@ruthaakamonica5602 WTF is wrong with you? She’s dead, he’s on the run. What more do we need to know? You sound hateful & callous & I hope you get the help you need since you are either a predator or one of their sympathizers. Either way you sound predator-adjacent. Please seek help for your lack of empathy & disturbing views on women.
um gabby was also physically and mentally abusive. they were both turds.
@@crieverytim Only cowards hit and kill women.
The police have completely underestimated the ability of some one like this to get away with the help of his parents
It’s very sad. But if everyone would treat every missing person like Gabby we would solve a lot. And murders would go down because people would know were all watching
they haven't found him. So far just another missing person.
MIKE ‼️…..🤣🙄
TREATING ALL “ MISSING PERSONS “
THE SAME AS THIS CASE, IS NEVER
GOING TO HAPPEN❗️
NOT ENOUGH TIME OR MONEY ❗️
Over 800,000 kids go missing every year Just in the USA-that’s Over 2,100 A DAY. There are children being shot & murdered in broad daylight at minimum, on a Weekly bases totaling in the high hundreds Every year,Just in Chicago, & Nobody seems to give a 💩, INCLUDING the so called leaders of BLM, now sitting up in their multimillion dollar homes, with No offers to rally or help pay funeral expenses .How many times have you gone into Walmart & looked at the missing kids/adults bulletin boards???A Black male student went missing-did Joy Reid run any story on Him, just found floating in a lake/pond, possibly half naked???She’s sooo pissed a White girl gets air time, BC she was apparently a popular You Tuber with a following around the world, Missing under Very weird circumstances, & Not just Sally next door Nobody, even Neighbors don’t know, but is she Reporting on the Daily Black on Black murders of even 1 city???Is She Begging Every day for help??? Nope. People are Sleepwalking, & it’s been engineered that way by leaders Top to Bottom,& CNN & MSM, & when you are Oblivious to what’s happening, you Don’t have to Care until You get slapped with Reality,& find out you are literally One in a million, now living a Nightmare.
This missing person's case, though, had a known suspect right from the beginning. Some cases go cold because there's no known suspect so there's simply not enough information to provide to the public.
The people who own the media decide which stories make the cut and which ones don’t, if they can’t somehow push an agenda and distract us with it then it’ll go on the news. Otherwise, it gets lost with all the other *real* stories and *real* news.
After he killed Gabby, he drove 2,500 miles to go back home as if nothing happened. This guy has self control, he had plenty of time to think about hiding. He planned everything with the help of his parents.
good point
EXACTLY!!! COMPLETELY AGREE.
Sounds like he’d been planning it all along. From the trip idea was probably his idea from the get go, to building the van. Ha, make sure there’s no tracking device! Lol but Angel Ethan was watching over Gabby & the video of the van came out. The video of the police body cam was released. Too bad the right cops were never on her side though. If only the right ones could’ve been on call the times she needed them to be. The law hasn’t been for her… yet. 😢 I gotta have faith that will change. We all do!
@@pslm23 yup, great point!! 👍🏻
@@jadez57 Greaat point!!! 👍🏻
Did you hear the psychiatrist say “this person dies not have any core values”. He gets it from his parents. Hence, them assisting and abiding.
The 1st gator to eat him gets a trophy and a swamp named after him.
He's probably brown and stinky now.
Don’t name the swamp after him , should b named after gabby a person that deserves it and need to be remembered
I just spit. 🤣
That just feeds into his ego. The gator should definitely eat him though, but leave some DNA so we know its Brian
You've got it.
You know who else was narcissistic? Chris Watts and we all know how that story ended.
Lol he wasn’t diagnosed with it
It's in their demeanor Chris watts also smurked/smiled when realizing the cops weren't on to him yet
the primary psychopathological condition of murders is actually narcissism, not anti-socialism. Especially family killers. So narcissism is usually a prerequisite for this type of crime.
Exactly!
Brian sympathizers probably: “Prove he was a narcissist.” “Prove narcissists kill people.” “Prove Gabby wasn’t a narcissist.”
honestly SHOCKED that the people investigating this case and searching for him still believe he’s in that reserve. he is long gone, and they are giving him even more time to get even farther. the search must be expanded immediately.
I don't believe they think he is in the reserve, their looking for evidence. I'm guessing of either Brian or his parents being in the area and possibly dumping evidence. They have to check it out either way.
I'm honestly SHOCKED that you believe they're still searching the reserve if they don't have evidence or good reason to believe he's in there.
Right, especially for the fact that the Laundries gave them this information. Why would they suddenly give the FBI this information when they haven't been cooperating all investigation long? No, they trying to buy their son more time to escape, or just throw them off in the wrong direction. He likely fled the country
@@lorel9371 They can't bug their house, that is illegal unless they have previous actual evidence that they committed a crime. They also seized all their electronics and did an EXTENSIVE search of the home. No burner phones were found.
I don't think they're looking hard there. This is to throw him off and make him feeling he's safe where the leads are taking the fbi
You all need to take my word for this - in that video, he acts EXACTLY like how I used to act before I became self-aware of how I was sub-consciously manipulating people. I also struggle with narcissism. Things I am now aware about. But I'm telling you guys, he is a professional manipulator and a very, very smart individual. It's no wonder he cannot be found.
Side note, my situation never led to something like this, obviously. But I was still straining relationships for sure. If you are able to act as convincing as Brian is in the police video, then please seek help for yourself and others. I strongly urge you to seek salvation through Jesus Christ and a relationship with Him. Only He has the power to truly transform lives permanently.
His parents took him “camping” for 3 days which means they took him to New York (or another out of state location) and drove straight back. Brian can and will live for months in the woods and he is most familiar with the Appalachian mountains. He has trained himself for this for a long time.
Dude u acting like u best friends with him. “He has trained himself for this for a long time”
He is long gone outside of country. He enaf selfish Narcissistic SOCIOPATH to torture him self.He is going to kill again.
No evidence he came back from that Ampang trip.
@@lilianadodevska6073 haha, thanks Dr. TH-cam.
Yea he was cold enough to premeditate this and his parents had everything ready it seems for his hasty escape, funny that
His friends say he most likely is camping alone somewhere far away like the Appalachian Trail since they know he’s capable of living on his own in the wild!!!
But he needs other peoples credit cards! Some survivalist..not!
@@trainrecked there are survivalist that live off the land and then there are survivalist that live off of other peoples work. He’s more of that type survivalist that lives off of other peoples work.
The dude didn’t work. He lived off his parents. Gabby worked. She saved the money for the trip. She saved the money and purchased the van and she financed the trip. Not him. He was far too “amazing” for work. 😑
He’s already proven lifting a credit card and committing felony bank fraud works within his moral compass. They have that on video. The 2 people who picked him up hitch hiking were going to be his alibi that he was not at the van when she died.
Likely his parents said leave and from there they gave him a chunk of cash, new ID and took him to Georgia to the Appalachian Trail. I’m quite sure he is fully outfitted for cold weather outdoor catch me if you can.
In all actuality if he can make it into late October on the trail then he’s clear to Canada. He’s not going to come across anyone until spring.
@@tarajohnson6268 the new ID may be a stretch, and Canada probably isn't a great destination, not meaning he wouldn't try it, but otherwise, I think you've got something.
Lol his friends full of BS they helping him or some are just a guy like Brian always gonna have a friend who is just as bad or worse that will help him.
@@chuckrobinson599a fake ID in Florida is extremely easy and readily available. And I agree Canada is probably not a good choice but they speak English and with a fake ID it’s the gateway to everywhere. In 4 months it’ll be that much easier for him to escape to anywhere. The trail is a great place to hid out and it was an easy drop off point for his womb & sperm donators.
I don’t believe he’s going to be living in the rough for too long though. He’s a pansy and I’m sure he has a couple creepy pals that will help.
Birds of a feather flock together
No way is Laundrie going to do away with himself. He's demonstrated a complete lack of remorse.
Yup demon-strated
This comment aged like his decomposition
He was gator food.
As soon as I saw the police interaction in Moab UT bodycam footage, I was flashing back... my ex-husband is a narcissist-psychopath, just like Brian is. I nailed it then and I have not changed my beliefs. Brian is not going to kill himself. His feelings of self-importance will not allow himself to go that far. He honestly thinks that what he did was justified.
@Blown Gasket that's how a person becomes a narcissist. They learn it from their parents.
Interesting. Is it possible to have a whole family of narcissists, tho? I had never heard of it, but here it is. The entire family of Laundries act like one narcissistic unit. HA!!!! Everyone else is thinking bout his parents too.
@@martineshamzin7535 It's possible, but I'm thinking that Brian grew up in a toxic dysfunctional family... his parents, and I think it's mom who is the narcissist, not dad, as we see interaction with Christopher Laundrie with people asking him questions (small interactions, but just the same, it's some interaction), but NOTHING with Roberta, whatsoever... pure coldness towards everyone. She's the self-centered one, IMHO. So, Brian learned by being in it, 24/7, doesn't know any better. It's what he considers 'normal'.
@@rhondaalbrecht I agree. Either he learned it, or he inherited it, but I also think from her. Brian is rather textbook the way he is smiling and laughing at the cops while Gabby is bawling, and blamed her for the fight entirely, and she just completely takes the blame. No one even brought up that she is a 100 lbs, and very unlikely to really be a big threat to him, or that the van belonged to her.
@@martineshamzin7535 The supervising officer of the Moab UT PD did bring up the fact that 'look at her, she's all of 120 pounds, compared to him', when he left it up to Officer Robbins (the bodycam footage came from him) to decide whether or not to charge her, and then he washed his hands of the whole affair and left, leaving it to Robbins to finalize. It was Robbins who decided it was a 'mental health issue' rather than domestic violence, so that he could avoid making an arrest. It's funny, that was his f/up for his entire career, because now the state is investigating the department, and the police chief has since resigned. Everyone said that these two did a perfect job, and I'm going, no, they screwed the pooch on this one, BIG time, violating state law that REQUIRED them to arrest one or the other, or take both in. If Robbins had done his job according to state law, Gabby would be alive and safe and sound at home with her parents by now, instead of being carved up for forensic pathology to determine her manner of death, awaiting to be put in the grave she doesn't deserve to be in.
I'm quite sure he's still alive. He won't off himself (yet), I think he still thinks he can get away with this. I even thinks he likes him being talked about, being seen as a "skilled survivalist" and that he's been able to hide all this time. I think his narcissistic ego is actually greater than ever.
I thought that too. This may be a thrill for him. Maybe he'll join some international mercenary group and never surface. He would have to leave the country to do that.
True, but when he gets caught, it could be a different story
How do you have that much insight into his personality
Em B: Do you think he’s reading all these?
Well, if he is, he better keep RUNNING!!!!
BEAR will get you in the slammer before you get the needle.
Im so disappointed and outraged to think his parents are possibly helping him. If he is found dead I would not be surprised. Truly a coward. He’s guilty until PROVEN innocent in my book. I’m sorry Gabby, may you get the justice you deserve soon. 🕊
Yeah, so too were the Duke Lacrosse players guilty until proven innocent. As for his parents, when and if you are a parent, you might understand not wanting you kid to get the Death Penalty no matter what he did. Foolish to think otherwise, the love parents have for their children is not a matter of reason, it is a matter of instinct and heart.
@@mileshalpern9320 kids or not what he did is WRONG. If they are helping him hide it is morally WRONG. They are not teaching him responsibility for what he might have done. If he didn’t do anything he shouldn’t be hiding but his actions say otherwise. No one said he should get the death penalty but he needs to be responsible EVEN if he didn’t do anything wrong. He owes that much to Gabby’s family. He owes that to Gabby.
I think he is enjoying this. Much like other sick minds he is now a "somebody." And he's not going to give that up easily. He wants to be The Invisible Man. But also the most WANTED man.
All of us Narcsisist survivors sittin here like 👀…. Knew it !
Ever since the first video I seen of when gabby and Brian when they were pulled over , I seen how honest and gentle she was and he was unemotional and blamed her for everything …. So many red flags 🚩
To me his behaviour and body language is similar to Chris Watts.
Scarily similar
I know so similar
Oh my gosh, that’s so true - creeeepy
Cause they are channeling the same energy. Devil exists. Just not in the way people think.
This guy had reminded me of Watts from the beginning.
Hes a narcissist/ sociopath to me
No guilt
Totally focused on himself
We haven't even heard from him since she's been dead so for you to assume he has no guilt is pretty stupid.
we have no idea if he feels guilt or not. All we know is he is obviously scared and running
@@robd5307 Good for you for maintaining logic and reasoning. Everyone thinks they're a physchiatrist all the sudden.
I hope they catch him soon. I think when the police finally question him, he'll claim to be the one being abused and that he accidentally killed her in self defense during a fight. He's a POS.
@@tannerannichiarico7255 i was with a
Narcissist like him
I have a degree
And did an program for Codependency
So im speaking from my own experience
I'd be more concerned that he may hurt or kill more people vs. hurting himself
The Aug 12th police stop vid in Utah tells it all!! Gabby was violent
and abusive!! Utah cops were going to charge HER with Battery!! She
tried to wreck them in front of the Utah cops by yanking the steering
wheel!!! Later, Brian grabbed her face and pushed her away then jumped
in the car and locked the doors. You only do that when you're being
attacked by wild animals or violent meth-addict Gabbys!!
Brian is a HERO!!! He survived domestic abuse from that violent abusive
meth-addict trash!!
@@MAGGOT_VOMIT When did they let you out of the padded party room?
There is no record that he violent, they have the toxic relationship, you saw the pictures when she cried for you did not see when she hit him you saw it on his face that is probably why he took her phone, they might have gotten into another physical altercation and he might have killed unintentionally no one knows until the autopsy we can speculate over and over.
@@terrywilder9 😂
@@ursulamullikin4723 . . . and you probably write love letters to serial killers!
I just felt for Gabby watching her cry while sitting in car. She endured a toxic relationship with this guy. She was a sweet young woman who took the abuse, rather than end it and hurt his feelings. Some stay out of habit. Gabby is with the Lord. Want her to know we all cared and were hopeful for her to come back to her “mother and family.”
She was the agresive one
.. please look at
All the 1.30 minutes video
Why do we treat women like helpless children? She dated this guy for four years and was engaged for one. She wasn't kidnapped into that van. Even after things were getting violent, she stayed in that situation. I have no doubt that he was abusive. I also have no doubt that she was as well.
And, she was, actually, determined to be the aggressor in this incident. It continues to amaze me that the press will play the 911 caller over and over, but they don't play the witness talking to the cop on the phone saying that she was the one hitting him. They never play the clips where she admits to initiating the violence, twice, while talking to police.
O he
This guy is a full on narcissist. I know because I have 2 children with one. They come across and cool, calm and collected and, when they make you break down because of the psychological torture they put you through, they tell people you're the crazy one. And people believe them because they have a way of being very convincing. I am so heartbroken that Gabby wasn't able to get away and I seriously hope this &%*! gets caught so he can be held accountable for his actions probably for the first time in his life thanks to his enabling parents.
Actually, Gabby is the nut because she admitted to police she hit him first while he was driving. Its possible that he finally got fed up with her crazy ass beating him. Even the officer said it was not a domestic issue, but a mental health crisis. Sometimes its the bitch who fucks up.
@@RambosMullet79 …You forgot to mention the 911 call that said Brian was slapping Gabby. Gabby was defending herself! Murder is murder. It’s also a sin. God records everything so, God knows that Brian was the agressor! He saw everything. Your opinion matters not!
I think he is too. Entitled and self involved.
@@RambosMullet79 yeah so naturally the answer is to kill her cause he was fed up with her crazy ass beating him, right? You’re sick.
I know. I am married to a Brian Laundrie.
I want them to find him alive. He needs to face the consequences of his actions. If he's dead it will feel like he's gotten the easy way out
Then let's hope it's the fbi that finds him, and not the overinflated securityguards called "cops"
Surprised you didn't say "they wouldn't be looking for her like this if she was black!"
If he’s dead, his parents & their atty get off, too.
I’m certain tho, that his parents mega stressed & pleaded with him not to harm self because, of course, that mama’s baby means the world to her, no matter what he may or may not have done.
He was/is definitely a psycho. Hid her licenses, abused her, was a loner and more. In many of Gabbys videos on IG it looked as if she had just finished crying =(. People say Gabby was typically happy and positive. I think she felt sorry for him, knew about some of his issues and thought her staying with him would help him
This guy skipped over two weeks Brian disappeared in Utah. He never stayed in the motel cops provided, he knew he was guilty and ran! Two days later at their camping place Kylen Schulte who worked at the shop that reported the 911 call was brutally murdered-MoonFlower in Moab UT And was Crystal Turner brutally murdered. Brian disappeared from the 12th thru 19th in UT. Gabby stayed in a hotel in SLC UT. the staff never saw Brian Laundrie. Brian turned up in FL a couple days and flew bk to UT the 21st. Then he took Gabby to WY and killed again.
I also bet it was his idea to take the cross country trip, to get her as far away from her family and friends as possible(he's insecure). So he could manipulate, control, ABUSE AND ultimately kill her. With his interaction w/police, he immediately, immediately begins trying to control the situation and begins talking over her. My sperm donor has showed for my past 38 yrs of life he is a narcissist and abuser. I knew Day 1 what had happened and stated it. Sad bc they make others feel useless and not loved.
The fact that his parents aided and abetted him seems to give him power over facts.
Well said.
I’d like to hear from the female officer at the Utah stop. She was the only one there trying to hear gabby’s perspective
Ikr & the guy that made the 911 call. That’s all the poor girl really had. Dang sad I tell ya! Her beautiful soul was tormented out of this cruel & uncaring world. May she finally rest peacefully in the arms of the lord.💕🙏🏼💕
Same
I read that she, the officer, noticed that their relationship was toxic. She actually told Gabby that if she wanted to step out of that relationship, that was the opportunity to do it.
@Eat My Ass Well look at that, people actually did want to hear her comment. Maybe YOU'RE the hole? 😅
Wonder why the female officer’s body cam footage wasn’t released?
With what we've seen so far 1)being completely calm, and even in good spirits after allegedly being abused by Gabby
2) taking her van, leaving her stranded
3) unauthorized use of someones debit card:
This is a man who's calculated and only looking out for himself. I am extremely doubtful he'd kill himself.
Of course it was her credit card. It doesn’t appear that he held a job other than working for his parents. She on the other hand had a job which she quit to travel across country with him. A narcissist like Brian would feel entitled to use her funds as his own to get him home without a shred of guilt.
She worked for his parents didn't she? It was her van, her career, her fans, her money, her ego, her rules. The typical setup a narcissist constructs up for themselves, where they are at the center of everything and those around them are totally dependent on them. Brian was her property, and she didn't even let him have a phone.
When Brian broke her rules, she beat on him.
@@abram730 Well she didn't kill anyone.
Something that stands out to me is the neighbor’s, family’s and friend’s lack of shock and disbelief that he likely killed her. People were shocked in the Chris Watts case, and in the BTK killer case. However, it is possible I just have not seen it .
??? Dennis Rader looks EXACTLY like someone who murders people. Terrible comparison!
@@russodidit Ewwwww that Rader guy gives me the creeps soooo bad! I can’t even think about Wichita without pairing it with his name.
I don’t ever want to visit that city. So creepy.
How do people get to be that sick & evil?
My guess is that they’re born with the devil 😈 already in them like my sister.
I don't need to be a psychiatrist to read Brian Laundries behaviors...but the Utah police need one...narcissism for sure...charming...glib..laughing after hurting someone he loved, letting them take the blame and/or blaming the other person, bullying type behaviors, dishonesty, using someone else's tenderness to take advantage of them, psychologically abusive, controlling and power issues, feeling empowered and lacking empathy when he knew she might go to jail for what he did...being a coward when its time to take accountability and also playing the victim when their games NO LONGER work for them in manipulating others.
Yes you are right, and Gabby obviously the Victim here
Where Sund: You nailed this.
Thanks for reinforcing this!
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Gabby’s dad is mentally stronger than me. I would have been arrested on the Laundrie’s front lawn by now trying to get answers if that was my daughter that he took.
They didn't go the movies, they went on a long far away road and and he returned without someone's baby girl. My advice is to rush right over and get answers right away, break some limbs so he can't run. 🤲💪🦵🦶👃🦴👀🦷
I believe dad handled it the way he's taught his kids. Respectfully which says a lot...
@@Murder2osix and maybe get yourself killed or arrested.
A self important self gratifying narcissist. He is alive.and he believes he's the victim and good guy.
Narcissists believe their is a hero and a villain and he is the hero. Everyone including Gabby is to blame.
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Parents think their victims too
He is a narcissist and a damn good one. Look at how he uses his hands to distract the police. The police are idiots also for not paying attention to that. His hand movements are a dead giveaway followed by him smiling and laughing. Cops fell for that bigtime.
@@j.d.contreras392 agree
I knew it! I called narcissistic abuse the moment I saw the bodycam footage of Gabby sobbing that they’d been fighting all morning. Poor thing. I hope the eyes of millions of young people are opened to the reality of emotional and psychological abuse due to this case 💔
He’s not dead he’s hiding somewhere his parents keep him hiding 🙈
Maybe the family has a bug out shelter.
Just like my ex husband, a month before he beat me up put me in hospital the Saint George police did nothing. I’m disabled with a neurological disorder. Never once did the police protect me, I needed help thank god for the dove center. These perpetrators are very good at what they do! Utah is a patriarchal state, they don’t train the police about domestic violence! Told by the Saint George prosecutor.
My experience in Australia very similar to yours. It's an abusive mans world 😡
The police are comlicit.There were witnesses of Laundrie hitting her.They should have arrested Laundrie for domestic battery.
I actually disagree with you. They totally seemed to want to do it by the book. He DID have more physical signs of abuse than she did. They could have just let them drive off together. Don't blame law enforcement for not doing enough. They did what they could. And honestly, if it really was just what they said then talk about how ridiculous. Requiring cops to over react to every situation is how we get a REAL police state. No thanks. I'd still like to have some rights thanks.
It WAS the cops fault for not seeing the fact that he did NOT want HER at the domestic violence shelter, but he would rather be homeless for a night than allow her to be around people that could maybe recognize what's really going on.
@@heatherweir2948 I'm not sure if you know but, there was a 911 call prior to them being stopped ... reporting male slapping female, white van, florida registration.
Poor sweet gorgeous young lady. Rest In Peace, Gabby. I thought he was extremely narcissistic from that footage when I first saw it. You can tell by his body language how narcissistic he is
I do not think he would kill himself. It is so sad to see Gabby take on responsibility for everything to police while Brian laughs with police and calls her crazy. It is infuriating.
@Jome The police never receive enough mental health training in the police academy to recognize antisocial personality disorder . It’s just like when you see some schizophrenic man getting shot by police when refusing to lay on the ground because what they don’t realize is this person has voices speaking to them plus the police. Imagine multiple screaming inside your head all day. So this police footage of Gabby and Brian being stopped just proves that police do not recognize the signs of narcissistic or antisocial personality disorder. I would not want to be those police officers right now.
He’s not suicidal ! He’s been on social media. He was doing 35 miles over speed limit & reckless driving. Cop didn’t handle situation. With everything that’s happened-Brian remains only ‘a person of interest’ , driving to FL in his deceased GF’s van. Finally , a warrant , for using her CC. We need change in domestic law enforcement !
Sociopaths don't kill themselves. They're too important.
Mexico, dressed as a woman and tattoos burned off... speculative but narcissistic sociopaths think they are so superior, and crafty to evade accountability.
Narcissist, not sociopath. Sociopathy doesn’t work that way anyways. God this comment section is filled with people who don’t know what they’re talking about with psych just running their mouths creating misinformation. Please stop.
Hence ur profile pic, showing the whole world u don't even know ur real pic.
My fiancé of several years…. Who I knew since high school….. mirrored this entire situation. Brian’s mannerisms are exactly like my fiancé’s. Long story short, I left him and he murdered a husband and wife and then stole their car and hung himself in the woods an hour away. I know he loved himself too much to kill himself. So he decided to put their lives on me and send a message. One he told me the day I left him. That I took away his only opportunity to spend his life with someone he loved. The only way he felt he could take his own life was to take theirs. A couple who had been happily married for 50 years. Brian is no different. The only thing keeping him alive would be his narcissism. If he hasn’t died yet, he will soon.
Send us the link to this??
OMGOODNESS that’s just horrific for you dear girl. I know a bit about that sort of thing though. It’s all about making you feel bad, cos that makes him feel good, great even dizzy with delight. Once you know the only gambit here is making someone die or break inside is the ultimate goal of their stunted soul, you can know it’s not personal, feels like it. But it’s not.
If he didn’t blame you, he’s moved onto the very next person on his warped mind to say it all to.
You know the dreadful truth though?
After he called you .....he hung up and called the next girl on his list...if his mother was alive...said the same thing to her and his sister. Girlfriends before and after you, some of them got the exact same call.
The more people he destroys the utter bliss and joy he feels.
Depraved wretched being he is.
Not you though precious girl, you’re the heart and soul, the morning lights the evening star, the beating pulse that holds all those she loves so close.
You shine.
He didn't killed innocent people to send you a message. He didn't killed himself to make a statement for you, he did because he was too proud to get arrested and suffer as he did to people. He's a coward and at least he's with the devil now his true love
So it takes a psychiatrist to tell us that he has “narcissistic tendencies”?? 🤦🏼♀️
Not all of us can detect it, so yeah, it does for some of us.
Everyone on the Internet really thinks they’re experts
@@irism6423 if u ever been in one yourself, you can sense it from a mile away..
The psychiatrist is describing lot of men who killed their partners in my country, Italy. In 99% of the cases they kill themselves shortly after the killings of the wife/fiancé and children. But we also have cases similar to that of Chris Watt where the killer is positive he can get away with it and start a new life. What scares me most are the first category of killings, killing+suicide because they are like terrorists, you can't stop them and value life, even their own, as nothing..
Its the police's fault for releasing them with no actions on the road stop. Thats why they have such an immense search to show they care after its to late. When you need them they are never around its sooo sad. Rip Gab
Neither wanted to press charges against the other. The police tried to get Gabby to leave him....at least they got them to separate for the night. But you can't force adults to stay away from each other. Don't blame the police. Watch the ENTIRE body cam video, the police were very professional and did the best they could....some people just won't accept help....
I think they know where he is, just haven't told the media and are looking for him while whoever behind the screens is getting the information they need. How else would anyone know about money and when Gabby was murdered but him or his disgusting parents?? RIP Gabby. 🦋
The credit card theft was most likely used on his way home and not on the run
Bank records. Maybe they should’ve done that earlier before he ran away
Star Child: Is LE still wasting time & millions of dollars in that swamp? Amazing how Laundries were so silent till they offered tips as to where ( NOT ) Brian was. He was NEVER in that swamp. They seamlessly pulled that one off.
Gabby’s parent probably discovered the activity from her bank. When someone is reported missing, their bank info is usually checked. Gabby’s murder was discovered because a couple spotted her van & the area was searched. If that couple hadn’t reported it, who knows if her body would ever have been found.
Has LE found any useful info at all? I can’t think of any. It seems that so far, the Laundries are weeks ahead. That murderer is long gone. He probably keeps his mask on &, hat & sunglasses. Wherever he is, I doubt they even know anything about what he did so no one is looking for him. He could easily change his appearance, shave his eyebrows, get a nose job. He could even do a Caitlyn Jenner.
So in another words the cops let him get away after he physically slapped her and got the cops called on him?
Yep. Their police report even cites Gabby as the aggressor! It was classified as a "mental health" incident.
they were both abusive POS.
In the body cam footage, the officer say the witness (on record) said it looked like he was pushing her off of him in self-defense. So different story from what was said on the 911 call,. But they had 1 more witness to get a statement from.
He’s hiding out at a distant relatives or unknown friend’s place in some fashion. Storm shelter? Preppers hideaway. Not out risking being seen.
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Or even parents holiday home if they have one. They took him in their camper van hiding and could have left him there with all the supplies while they returned.
@@candlewax5234 actually , that’s my 1st guess !
Which relative would agree to hide a murderer??? He's hiding on his own, which appears to be his usual preference.
@@cyncyoung11 since they bought a new camper & took the old one for the 3 day trip- I believe they’ve set him up in some remote spot. Family in NY - I think. Don’t know where - but he’s hunkered down in the middle of nowhere spot . He’s still doing social media. This just gets more bizarre !
As you can see and hear in the Video. Brian, really wanted to know what see said to the Police, since he couldn't hear her. At that instance, I would have tried to get a response from him. And officer of the law should have training on that.
Parents helped him escape !His parents are HEARTLESS and he has been raised by HEARTLESS PARENTS .
AGREED!!! if they can be heartless, then why can't any of us be heartless towards them!! They have given zero f**ks about Poor Gabbys death!! They're disgusting individuals. RIP GABBY!!
They are good parents. They helped their child when he needed it.
If it was an accident they did the right thing.
@@coronavirusisacommunistchi845 LMAO!!!
@@RalphieMaysGhost IF......IF..... LOL......Maybe you missed the memo about Gabbys manner of death!!! Smh!!!
Brian is definitely NOT out in the swamps of FL. He is well hidden, probably in an old family friends basement, he could hide for years and years.
I said that too! the old neighbors saw a lookalike I am sure, the son wasn't even back in FL he hightailed it from out west and probably paid cash for some stranger that looked similar to him to drive the van back to FL and disappear
The first time I watched the body cam I thought the guy seemed like a sociopath.
And it’s been confirmed.
Just looking at their little videos he looks fake like he's forcing his happiness.
Classic case of narcissist vs empath! It never ends well!
Please find something on parents and push them to open theirs mouths! Unreal!! If my adult child would go missing for a day I would be taking on national TV, crawling though bushes and swim in the water with crocodiles at the reserve. They are guilty as much as Brian!
I think they killed him , no bry no case
Well, it seems to me that if Brian really is a narcissist in the truest sense of the word, he's eventually gonna get too big for his britches and accidentally give himself away. It's just a matter of time.
What I understand is narcicissm is untreatable. It is a hard wiring of the brain.
Brian Laundrie is a Narccistic Sociopath, Evil to His Core. Gabby Loved life it was all over Her cute demeanor. May God Bless Gabby's Parents & Gabby may you Rip.😢😔
Narcissists get off on *inflicting* harm but they won't self harm, especially not suicide. He's very much alive and hiding.
At this point in his game, there is a federal warrant…No way that I’m going down for him if I’m a friend or family member. I don’t believe he’ll be found alive. He’s not gonna go to jail. Can you imagine? He wouldn’t last a day.
Actually he would survive in jail, if he was smart he would work out very hard, he could put some bulk on that frame, and his crime is actually a respectable one in prison, he is not a cho mo, he is young, yeah, really jail is the best place for him
It shows how he got that way his parents hiding him out like he's entitled.
They spared the rod and spoiled the child . He seems like the kind he have to have his way or he becomes all traumatic and to soothe him they obliged him.
They are just so much smarter than the rest of us, Gabby saying it's all her fault and she tried to apologize sounds pretty sad.
I was in a relationship with a narcissist who killed his first girlfriend and got away with it. Not that he even disclosed that information before we got married.
He charmed everyone.
I found myself apologizing to him for defending myself, too.
As someone who has lived through it, it's creepy how difficult it is to pin narcissists. I didn't trust anyone new for a long time.
@@rhysil213 i was in a relationship with a narcissist too. Fortunately I got away unharmed, but he wouldn't back off after I broke up with him. He stalked me relentlessly. I did not trust anyone for more or less ten years... I had nightmares that he still stalks me. Everyone thought he was so nice because he was so charming. After we broke up he would show up at my uni to offer me red roses in front of all my class mates begging for me to get back to him and my classmates were like aaaaw he is do sweet, he loves you etc. Little did they know that he was verbally and physically abusing me, that he was gaslighting me and he was manipulative and a pathological liar... He wanted to isolate me from my friends and family... He was too jealous and causing fights all the time... If any other male talked to me... I would have such a hard time at home because he was jealous... I got away luckily, but I'm pretty sure he will commit domestic violence, if not worse... I feel bad for his current girlfriend. The psycho is actually still creeping up on my profiles and adds me to his network even though I've declined multiple times. I'm still scared to trust people because of him. His web of lies and gaslighting messed me up. Narcs mess up your life 😔
In my opinion, the reason Gabby’s Dad didn’t see red flags is because you need to spend a very large amount of time around them, like your spouse, sibling, parent. Being in the SAME household (LIKE w/His Parents who worked so the kids were together alone for big enough periods of time for things to go on regularly ) may have led to at least one red flag. Which may be why BL decided for them to go to Florida to live with His parents not hers. I don’t want him to blame himself for not seeing. It’s NOT Gabby’s Parents faults at all!
Brian only began openly for passerby’s to notice his behaviour of locking her out ETC, in mid August THAT WE KNOW OF, due to her being missing on the news, it jogged the memories of at least 2,3 of the known witnesses.
So in my experience in my own life & then my daughter’s, when they begin to unravel at some point and lose control and have a huge bigger than usual Narc Rage, it’s easy to hide it in a house, not as easy in a tiny van.
They did camp places that were also very remote so it could have been happening for months or weeks at least days up to the first witnessed incident then involving the 911/police cam video we all see and then the 27th of august, in the restaurant.
🌸❤️🩹RIP SWEET GIRL💜🌸
Prayers&understanding 💔 ❤️🩹from a bereaved parent who’s 19 yr old daughter was taken from me in a DVI just over 3 yrs ago.
She WILL be with you always, your heart hurts terribly now, but her smiles will fill the pain eventually to whatever extent your heart heals.
But justice also MUST come for BL.& His Parents. it’s not unclear what has happened here in millions of people’s minds including mine and with all the clues and evidence we have so far.
I pray they find him before he can hurt anyone else.
I apologise for the lengthy comment.
I just hope Brian is found. We need justice for Gabby 💕
That Cop that Drove Brian to the Hotel Was Telling inmate things about his own Wife for World to hear and telling it to a Killer
I feel so bad for his wife Now that's a Narcissist right there 😳
Right? I would be furious if I found out my husband was telling my personal business to strangers and now the whole world gets to hear about it. Absolutely disgusting!
Omg you guys are so dramatic.
@@madison_kr just crazy
Right
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@@deee674 It’s not dramatic to expect privacy out of my husband on my personal matters.
Dude kills his girl then uses her debit card, how gentlemanly
I'm so tired of hearing criminals described as "gentlemen". It would never occur to a gentleman to "slap a girl". The correct nomenclature in this case is "male individual"
Gentlemen dont hurt women. This was ABUSE!! You are most correct. Someone should check out his Pinterest account. I was very dark and horrifying. I think he was either multiple personalities or demonically possessed. WOW!!
YUP YUP YUP i was shouting in agreement during this. i was abused in a relationship by a narcissist and i know for a fact brian is too- i see what happened to me in their situation. my ex even strangled me, i'm just lucky enough to still be alive... but i can see it clear as day. ANY domestic violence expert would have seen the signs, this is why experts need to be on scene to all potential DV calls.
My thoughts and prayers are with Gabby's family as her funeral I believe is this weekend. Having said that, it's time to share some of the media spotlight with other missing persons, like 5 year old Summer Wells, who's been missing since June 15, or Keeshae Jacobs, that has been missing since Sept. 26, 2016. As it's important to find Laundrie, who evidently murdered Gabby, the media could be doing so much more to help the families of other missing people instead of their daily swamp coverage.
Amen! Too many people missing and no coverage whatsoever.
I don't think cops in general most of them I don't think care about the public I mean they have to keep crime down to a certain amount but they could hire psychics there's ones that have successfully found people quickly yet they hardly ever hire them they could be finding so many more people and an investigator stated about the summer well case if they don't hire psychics cuz I kept mentioning it they don't hire him because they don't find the bodies quickly and he thinks that they're just trying to rip the police off but I think that's just a dumb untrue excuse cuz they could hire psychics that have been successful at finding missing people quickly in the past that way they can prevent them from getting fake or corrupt ones just trying to get money I think the cops let perpetrators get away too often on purpose so they provide more work for the police to do putting more money into the police department cuz the more they spend the more funding they get the justice system in the medical system are both money markets there's very few people who actually care neither but I agree we need to pay attention to all the missing people more I think they ignore a lot of them for population control it's a really sad thing I used to work for the government and when I found out something illegal was happening in a disability workplace that was getting disability money they were purposely firing clients even ones that were doing well even the disable trainer was fired he was doing an awesome job so no reason to fire him then clients work started to decline cuz no accommodation just so they could rehire new ones and get more funding cuz they get tons of Federal disabled money every time they hire a new person only they pocketed it and I told governor Christina gregwire and she ignored and they get votes from companies in exchange for ignoring illegal red tags when I lived in the shelter cuz I have a bone marrow condition on disability and couldn't afford rent like a lot of disabled on the list to get Section 8 the shelter staff half of them would make fun of clients pick on them and I read in the newspaper that there are shelters they get shut down cuz they purposely make it more chaotic so they can get more funding and then they pocketed and they drive around with $50,000 cars when it got shut down cuz they didn't fix the electricity excetera I lived in The Domestic Violence Shelter some of the staff were very mean and corrupt and wouldn't let us go through the donations until they took all the good stuff first and kids wrote their Christmas list a rich woman bought a kid video game boy system and the lead took it and gave it to her son making the boy cry one of the leads did heroin in the bathroom this is supposed to be a place of safety and to get away from abuse and we're getting abused by staff which just further breaks down people self-esteem I and other disabled get picked on by most of the Paratransit schedulers when a school counselor called the cops on my dad and he had to take domestic violence classes while I was in foster care where. I got starved she said I stole money when I didn't and they brought me back to my dad who had not changed despite I told the cops he still abused me they did nothing when I called the cops and CPS on my uncle for rape and molestation and beatings on family members they laughed and said you're probably making this up then a lady at a store called CPS on the same uncle and they had to investigate my cousins are brainwashed to keep quiet so he got away with it I say a special prayer for all the missing people in the world and I pray that our justice system in America in general changes the way they do things and quit being so corrupt
@@jasminefrichtl806 Was that one long sentence ???????
It doesn't take a psychiatrist for most people to realize he acted like a narcissist!
Most people are narcissists these days.
@@michaelschaefer1904 no they are not. The condition called narcissistic personality disorder, or NPD, affects only about 1 percent of the population. Get your facts straight.
Gabby was also a narcissistic.. sorry not sorry.. she was
@@StephanieTihanyi that % reflects narcs who have sought treatment and have been diagnosed. Most narcs will never seek treatment, they move on and find their next victim.
He is a narcissist. A narcissist will never take responsibility for their actions, never understand why people find them at fault, and he is not going to take his own life because he doesn't think that he did anything wrong. I feel so bad for what Gabby must have gone through at the hands of this monster. In that traffic stop video it's obvious that he had been terrorizing her for weeks.
Too bad the cops didn’t see it she would be alive today
She was more the narcissist. She constructed a life that centered around her. Her van, her career, her money, her rules, her fans showering her in the admiration she required as a narcissist. Brian was just her dog, made completely depended on her, and not even allowed to have a phone, thus isolating him.
When Brian broke her rules she beat on him. She beat on him for hours that day she was almost arrested for domestic. Brian offered to go to jail in her place.
@@abram730 Do you even know what you're talking about? She had posted one video, 1. She didn't have fans yet, she didn't have any of what you're babbling on about yet. What she did have was a narcissistic exfiancee who did everything he could to separate her from her family and friends, isolating her, pushing her to purchase that Van and go camping and be in the outdoors which is what he wanted. If you actually took the time to understand who Brian laundrie is... the fact that he just wanted to be outdoors all the time, then you would understand that this was his perfect idea of how he wanted to live his life. The fact is, he was a controlling bastard and murdered Gabby. If you don't see that then maybe you're an abuser as well?
Brian has a very dark side of him. They need to catch him before he does this again, It won't get better for him or his parents. He's the Spawn of the Devil!
Who wants to find out his/her daughter is dead? This is a very difficult situation for Gabby's family.
Quite an understatement. I feel so sad about what her family must be going through. It must be absolute devastation.
Narcissists are a nightmare to have as a neighbour, they usually love the attention from the police as they play their victim card.
He is being hidden by a relative.