Ep 1.1 | Podcast Pilot - Is it ok to be friends with your ex while married?
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 12 ก.ย. 2024
- Welcome to the Pilot Episode of our Podcast! After 9 years, we’re finally back with a modified version of “The Relationship Series” that we used to do before the kids. During this episode, we will answer the question: is it ok to be friends with your ex while married?
Chapters:
0:37 - Intro + Marriage 365 IG Post
4:18 - Our IG & TH-cam Poll Results
10:57 - Larianne’s exes who are still in love with her
14:44 - Words of Caution from Alyssa
16:18 - Larianne’s opinion
19:58 - Closing
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Like you guys podcast pilot….Thumbs up!!!! Great Topic✨🥰✨🥰🙂
Thank you so much! I'm glad you enjoyed it :)
Nice set up. You guys seem so at ease doing this!
Thank you! It's a lot easier to talk to a camera than it is to talk to a live audience haha
Yay, the podcast is here! I think in your case it's easy to be friends with your exes because sex wasn't involved. Once sex is involved friendship is tough.
I can only imagine! I’m not friends with any of the guys I’ve made out with lol
Amazing setup peeps
Thank you! My mic wasn't working lol but we learned our lesson for Episode 2.
Sending blessings to you both, I truly enjoyed watching your podcast it was amazing to watch you both on a different level. I look forward to watching you both for future podcasts. Take care now.
Thank you so much for tuning in!
Roody is so chill and calm but if dude were to get out of hand, Roody would throw hands!!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣.
Rightfully so.
100%! Don’t underestimate Roody lol
Good job
Thanks!
I understand why the guys may have reached out because it goes back to how we define intimacy......you can have a very profound affect on someone without ever having slept together.....Intimacy is not primarily about sex but honesty......those can be some of the realest connections depending on how transparent you were with them in the past and how transparent they were with YOU....HOWEVER it is not okay to be friends with someone that has openly said they are in love with u when you are married because you don't want to feed a connection like that....that's where u can get into emotional affair territory......so cutting it off was the right move... you could have kept it going just to stroke your ego but you didn't do that....👍🏽
Hello my favorites podcasts. Yes i think u and ur ex can be friends as long as ur partner can trust u also from ur ex can respect ur marriage and won't violate ur marriage but not gonna go out and hang out but can communicate on social media or phones conversation and depends of the kind of conversations we're having
I agree! Keep things respectful.
I feel like many people would say no because they realize how dishonest/secretive some people can be about their motives for doing things whether intentional or not...they claim their motives are innocent when in truth they have an agenda they don't want the current partner to know....most times they are aware of it.....They could possibly be lingering around an ex to keep tabs on them and see if they are dating someone new....they could also be hoping for another chance with an ex so they make sure to stay in sight and in mind rather than out of sight out of mind.....I found that a lot of people get in relationships or situation-ships to rush the process of getting through the pain of a breakup...they still have feelings for the ex but want to prove that they are un-phased and can move on quick......I would say no just because I don't want the mental anguish of worrying about how deep the relationship really is vs. what they are telling me it is......I would be too afraid of being the collateral damage in their love story.... I do realize that situations where children are involved are different because both your partner and his or her ex has to be there for the children but it's dicey because kids can help exes rekindle old feelings....and since you can't and should never ban a parent from seeing their ex if they have kids, u will be the odd person out anyway ....I guess generally, in order for me to say it was alright, the romantic relationship would have had to have been over for at least 2 years for me to get involved at all......Sometimes you have to spell out what you mean by over 🙄(sex) because some guys will claim they haven't been with the ex romantically in years but through the ex you learn that a sexual relationship still takes place from time to time and the last time was 3 weeks before he met the new person 🙄🤣 I AM SO GLAD YOU BOTH TRUST ONE ANOTHER......I HOPE THAT ALWAYS REMAINS THE CASE.....
Having trust definitely changes things. As long as boundaries are set and maintained, then it is possible to be friends.
I’m the kind of person who likes to ride things out to see what happens, even if other people suggest I do otherwise. But it turns out that everyone was right and I should have just never allowed the connection to be made again. You live and you learn!
@@RoodianneTide the biggest part is that you were always transparent with your husband....that way u didn't strengthen the connection by having secrets with just u and this guy.....I wish more guys had that respect for their marriage/relationship ......I feel like many guys would use it as an ego boost and a test to see whether they could withstand the temptation, and the girlfriends or wives would be non the wiser....Unfortunately that was my experience....you did something right in the situation so it's okay....
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