GOALS ARE BS- Episode #43

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    Subject: Goals, desire, what do you really want
    Answers the Question: What do you really want out of life?
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  • @robichard
    @robichard 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow, this woman knows how to communicate using her entire physiology. Very powerful Alexi. I love watching you !

    • @AlexiPanos
      @AlexiPanos  8 ปีที่แล้ว

      thank you robichard, I really appreciate that!

  • @leontomalik5019
    @leontomalik5019 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    You've grounded me so much right now, i've almost forgot why am I doing what i'm actualy doing everyday.
    THANK YOU LOVE

  • @retalneo
    @retalneo 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I think this video sums up the essence of life

  • @janemorba
    @janemorba 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Beautiful you are speaking right to my soul's journey! Love your vision. Soaring

    • @AlexiPanos
      @AlexiPanos  8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +jane morba Thank you for watching and commenting, it means a lot

  • @FeelGoodWithin
    @FeelGoodWithin 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    That's so true!!! enlightening video!!! Keep making more videos!!! World needs more women like you🤗

  • @TheComiKen
    @TheComiKen 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You're speaking my language, lady!
    I was definitely on the Tony Robbins and self-help train, until I started learning what you've shared here.
    Keep it up :)

    • @AlexiPanos
      @AlexiPanos  8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +TheNextMangaKing Amazing :) Happy to know I'm not alone! ;)

  • @nadjaleslie
    @nadjaleslie 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your videos are so inspirational to me! I get so caught up in the trap of if I were _____ , then I would be happy. And your words have encouraged me to seek joy in today. Yet when I thought about leaving you a comment, my first thought was "I will wait to thank her once I'm successful, then I can tell her how important she was". Funny how backwards that is.
    But now I've noticed that's immediately where my thinking goes.
    I'm currently in recovery for a life full of addiction, and it's easy to get trapped in self pity and also the idea that recovery is easier than addiction. Well, to be honest, it's probably the hardest thing I've ever done- having to feel my feelings is painful. And I keep thinking "once I can feel my feelings, I'll be happy and then I won't have to feel my feelings." Which now I know is not the truth. Living and growing through the pain today is the truth.
    So thank for all that you do, because I believe we need to show more gratitude in this world.
    Also I started an Instagram a couple months ago where I think about the things in life I'm putting off for happiness, and do them today instead. It's @IfIWereThinIWould. I've been slacking on my posts because it is super scary! But today I have the courage to continue. Thanks for your inspiration.

    • @AlexiPanos
      @AlexiPanos  8 ปีที่แล้ว

      WOW thank you so much for this amazing comment Kaitlin, I am so glad you decided to post on here. Pursue your pain and know that there are breakthroughs on the other side. Truly appreciate you!

  • @aimeeane
    @aimeeane 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow..that was a pretty simple yet mind-blowing idea.thankss for this video Alexi!!! We are all after the feelings not the actual things and titles. Time to tattoo this onto my brain. (lol)

    • @AlexiPanos
      @AlexiPanos  8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      +strangegoods hahahahha yes!! I would do the same if I could! It's always a practice remembering this one because society is ingraining us with the opposite idea!

  • @MsEst1988
    @MsEst1988 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Alexi!! This was such a powerful word. Grateful for this video today, will continue to do the work to focus on the feeling.

    • @AlexiPanos
      @AlexiPanos  8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +MsEst1988 Awesome

  • @Motiveinmotion
    @Motiveinmotion 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great points in here...
    Gotta be content right now, on your way to your ideal life! If you're happy with the journey, which is all we get (the present moment) then we can always progress. Be happy now; be happy then too.
    Keep up the awesome work empowering people!
    - Evan

    • @AlexiPanos
      @AlexiPanos  8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +Evan Teague Thank you for sharing this love! I truly appreciate you!

  • @hbicguide9215
    @hbicguide9215 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is so good & so valuable AND SO HELPFUL! Thank you for this talk, I think many of us think we want something and often it all falls back on something deeper. The material things are never the answer. They're nice, but they aren't our REAL goal! But really... you are goals lol

  • @KevinHumphrey
    @KevinHumphrey 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love this idea and so true, we already have it and need to find it internally

    • @AlexiPanos
      @AlexiPanos  8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Kevin Humphrey Thank you for watching and commenting, it means a lot

  • @jesicaarndt5003
    @jesicaarndt5003 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    omg so true!! I busted my ass for years in college doing something I loved and was so excited about. once I finally graduated, I was the highest I ever felt. then a few months later it was like I didn't care anymore. it was such a confusing feeling.

  • @wassilasila4464
    @wassilasila4464 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    absolutely right !!

    • @AlexiPanos
      @AlexiPanos  8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you SO much love!

  • @millerturq4418
    @millerturq4418 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That camera man is like "I CAN'T KEEP UP SLOW DOWN"

  • @s_tyagi
    @s_tyagi 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    in awaken the giant by tony Robbins he actually says that what we want in life is usually how we want to feel and he also says to set a new goal right before your about to achieve your current one so you don't feel like is this all there is.

    • @AlexiPanos
      @AlexiPanos  8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Shobhit Tyagi yeah Tony does dive deep into the flow of achievement and feeling!!

  • @angelavenegas6904
    @angelavenegas6904 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    YES, YES and YES!!!

  • @gathogowanjiru6960
    @gathogowanjiru6960 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    one eye opener thank you love from kenya

  • @beautyalchemy584
    @beautyalchemy584 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yaaass!

  • @unbrokenfellowship
    @unbrokenfellowship 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I so needed to hear this this morning...and I stumbled across you. thank you.

    • @AlexiPanos
      @AlexiPanos  8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +Destiny Ziarkowski amazing! Love when that happens, and so happy you found me!

  • @awaworldart
    @awaworldart 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you Alexi!!!💕💕💕🙏🙏🙏❤️💕💕💕💕💕💕❤️❤️💕💕💕💕

  • @TheOfficialLevi
    @TheOfficialLevi 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love this Alexis, thank you

    • @AlexiPanos
      @AlexiPanos  8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Levi Thanks Levi!

  • @jazleblanc7536
    @jazleblanc7536 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for the video !!!

  • @KyleBenjaminTurner
    @KyleBenjaminTurner 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love the animations + really needed this motivation! Thank you.

    • @AlexiPanos
      @AlexiPanos  8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Kyle Turner Beautiful! Glad it resonated!

  • @butterfly9274
    @butterfly9274 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    omg!so true😉you rock!

    • @AlexiPanos
      @AlexiPanos  8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +butterfly9274 Awwww thanks butterfly!!

  • @AskHeatherG
    @AskHeatherG 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    incredible!! Love your channel :)

    • @AlexiPanos
      @AlexiPanos  8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +AskHeatherG Thank you Heather! Happy you found me!

  • @fizzyroll
    @fizzyroll 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    wow your videos are amazing. Thank you!

  • @soniathompson4559
    @soniathompson4559 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi beautiful alexi, wow this is incredible!!! You are amazing, so so inspiring and empowering. It just evoked the most incredible feeling of liberation within me, Thankyou so much for that!!! I love you I love your teachings and encouragement for all. Your spirit is so incredible, you are doing an amazing job keep it up!! I really would like to meet you to be in your presence for ten minutes or even ten years!! and share our like mindedness I know incredible things will happen. SHINE BRIGHT XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX

    • @AlexiPanos
      @AlexiPanos  8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Sonia Thompson Thank you so much beautiful! Your messages are so heartfelt!!! I'm in australia and I can feel it all the way on this side of the world!

  • @Rvtccc
    @Rvtccc 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amazing video Alexi!

  • @queenAmhanda
    @queenAmhanda 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    wow i was thinking about what u said a moment ago !!! wow must be true!!!! thank u

    • @AlexiPanos
      @AlexiPanos  8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Qyeen Ka Synchronicity! Love when that happens!

  • @gondergirl6127
    @gondergirl6127 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    love love love

  • @laneuhler873
    @laneuhler873 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Another great video hits the stack!!! :D We are all LOVE- we are all worthy! Choose LOVE! :D Thank you SO MUCH Alexi! Keep up the EPIC work!!! #GIVELOVE♥AWESOMELY!:D

    • @AlexiPanos
      @AlexiPanos  8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Lane Uhler Thank you SO much love!

  • @GoatTHEGreat
    @GoatTHEGreat 8 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Awesome video and solid set of knowledge put forth here.
    Thank You!
    By the way, was that Preston sitting in the shadows back there?

    • @AlexiPanos
      @AlexiPanos  8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      +Goat THE Great hahahah Yup! Way to catch the cameo!

  • @elecha4254
    @elecha4254 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks l found it.

  • @gdixonfitness
    @gdixonfitness 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    interesting video Ms.Alexi!

    • @AlexiPanos
      @AlexiPanos  8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +gdixonregeneca thank you :)

  • @1937Adrian
    @1937Adrian 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Awesome vid!

    • @AlexiPanos
      @AlexiPanos  8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +Adrian Hawker Thank you!!!

  • @growinglegendary3008
    @growinglegendary3008 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    dope!

  • @beowolf4572
    @beowolf4572 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Kept getting distracted by that dude in the background lol

  • @Janesophie
    @Janesophie 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    WOWWWW

    • @AlexiPanos
      @AlexiPanos  8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for watching and commenting, it means a lot

  • @voodooros
    @voodooros 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey Alexi, my question is this. If we don't set the goals, how else do we live our lives?

    • @AlexiPanos
      @AlexiPanos  8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      +voodooros Goals are great if they are powered with a strong WHY and they're not the basis of our future happiness "I'll be happy when I get....." The problem with goals is we set them thinking they'll complete our lives in some way, not knowing that we can choose to feel happiness, love, security, peace, respect, etc now. So set goals to see what you can create---but know that the FEELING most of us are after under our goals, we can choose now ;)

  • @taviamillward1182
    @taviamillward1182 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    *S I G H* that was my sigh of relieve when you I watched this video. In the moment I felt pursuing my dream to be a screenwriter was all I ever need. I am still currently pursuing by raising funds to help me get to Vancouver Film School. It has been so stressful. But I realise now that my dream is not all that I am. I am not making room for any the opportunities and secretly I always felt good just motivating other people and giving motivational talks to my peers who goes through the same struggles as me. So in a nutshell. T H A N K Y O U !! G O D B L E S S Y O U R S O U L

    • @AlexiPanos
      @AlexiPanos  8 ปีที่แล้ว

      AMAZING Tavia!! and you are so welcome. I appreciate you!

  • @sixtineoumallon5130
    @sixtineoumallon5130 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    grease?

  • @jazleblanc7536
    @jazleblanc7536 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    You & Preston talk the same! That's cute

    • @AlexiPanos
      @AlexiPanos  8 ปีที่แล้ว

      haha yeah we have a similar style! :) thank you!!

  • @DmitryExplorer
    @DmitryExplorer 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Bri!!iant!

  • @elecha4254
    @elecha4254 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Whats the name of your back ground song please.

    • @AlexiPanos
      @AlexiPanos  8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Ele Cha Flight to Tokyo :)

  • @shreyas170986
    @shreyas170986 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi Alexi, this video did not make much sense to me. You mentioned, that its the feeling that we should all go for. But how do I know what is the feeling of having a million dollars, unless I have them. Or how does it feel to have the perfect body with 6 pack abs, unless I see those abs in the mirror. Or how does it feel to travel the world, until I actually do travel. If I don't have goals, what hope am I carrying? If I don't have goals, where is my life heading? Looking forward to your reply :)

    • @AlexiPanos
      @AlexiPanos  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hey there! What feeling do you want to CREATE?! That is what you visualise. Of course you do not know what it will TRULY feel like until you have it--but it is not the million dollars, the 6 pack abs or anything else that will actually provide happiness--be happy RIGHT NOW---the feeling you wish to have, you can have it RIGHT NOW---you don't need to wait for the car, the house etc to complete you. Goals are great to keep us on track, but it is the feeling that we are truly after! Hope this supports!

  • @Col2109
    @Col2109 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So want to challenge this......... and I can't .. Cheers for it anyway.. colm maguire...:)

    • @AlexiPanos
      @AlexiPanos  8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Col2109 ;) sending a huge virtual hug your way!

    • @Col2109
      @Col2109 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Only saw that now.. :) back at you

  • @rayanderson9725
    @rayanderson9725 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    U did an amazing job with this video I feel like I should send it to fouseytube he's going through what u just explained right now and needs some guidance

    • @AlexiPanos
      @AlexiPanos  8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +Ray Anderson Thank you Ray! Yes, always welcomed to share if you feel someone would benefit from it!

  • @1stNightingale
    @1stNightingale 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's like this person does not understand what goals are. She says goals are BS and then openly admits that she doesn't help her clients set meaningful goals.

  • @CabbageSandwich
    @CabbageSandwich 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    How much Alan Watts are you watching?
    You need to watch Alan Watts.
    :|

    • @AlexiPanos
      @AlexiPanos  8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +meepo44fromroblox LOVE Alan Watts. Been a huge fan of his for years. He's the truth!