People each have their own grieving period. For some, it may take longer than others. A person needs time to grieve and take time to heal....only then, they will be able to move on and accept someone new into their life.
I wear the same shoe you walked in....i change and change so much to fit his needs, I lost myself along the way....after 19 yrs I finally find myself again and refused to be some ones blame for his own unhappiness and his sorrows....I walked out and found my own happiness, the happiness that I deserved...I no longer carry his pain, his longing , his sorrow and his unhappiness...I never felt so free in my life... Life changes in unexpected ways, but no one should not have to live in anyone else's shadows....you own your own shadow, your own destiny and your own happiness....
Ib tug txiv zoo li ko ces tsis thag yuav lawm mog, yuav Los tsis zoo dab tsi nyob ua ke los xiam sij hawm thiab caij nyoog xwb, twb tsis xam muaj yus tsua hais txog tus tuag xwb leej twg yuav nyob nrog tau, kav tsi tawm mus zoo tshaj yawg ntsuag yawg nrauj thiab yawg dab tsi los yog uv tsis taus lawm ces nyias mus nyias zoo dua mog
Ntuj yuas hmoob aw tuag lawm es tsis sawv lawm es yog yus ua tsis taus ib siab ces txhob yuav lwm tus los tsim nawv mog.........yog yus tsis over tus qub ces.....txhob yuav lwm tus kiag li nawv
Cov txiv neej zoo li ko ces cia nws ua neej nrog kev npau suav nrog tus tuag xwb os txhob nkim.sib hawm rau nws yog koj thiaj uv nws los ntev npaum ko yog lwm tus ces bye nws ntev lawm.os
Ntuj os teb aw....ib tug txiv es lo twg los tsis npaum nws tus niam loj xwb ces ntshe kuv tsis xum yuav nws li thiab os....kav tsij cia nws ua yawg ntsuag kom txaus2 nws tso.
Ua neej nyob Tsi hais poj niam los txiv neej li yog tias yus hlub thiab nco yus tus txij nkaum heev li Tsi muaj leej twg los pauv tau li ces cia nyias dai nyias tej me nyuam.... es zoo dua mog hmoob, peb ua neeg nyob Tsi txhob xav hais tias luag hlub2 luag tus es yus mus yuav es ntshai yuav hlub yus no tab sis yuam kev xwb ov...
Tus me niam tsev koj txhob tu tu siab os mog vim koj tus tseem nyob hos nws tus twb tsis nyob rau haus lub ntiaj teb no lawm thiab ntse koj yeej zoo tsis npaum li nws tus niam thiab os koj txawm zoo kaum yam los tseem tshuav ib yam koj zoo tsis raws nws li tus niam thiab os
Niag neeg phem yeej phem ua zaj twg los yeej phem. Hais lus los yeej nyuaj cov neeg zoo li no cia nws nyob nws. Cov neeg no yog kuv yog nws tus poj niam yuav nrog kuv pw yuav tau them nyiaj thiab.
Txawm yog li es thiaj tias xiam yuav yawg nrauj nws cem yus los yus thiaj zoo cem nws thiab yawg ntsuag ces lawv tias lawv tus zoo2 kawg vim lub ntuj qee xwb
Ok, you need to leave your current husband right away. Clearly he is not over his deceased wife. I don’t know why he married you if he wasn’t ready to move on. He’s still living in the past. Please do yourself a favor and remove yourself from the situation. If he loves you he wouldn’t compare you to his dead wife.
Tus txiv neej ko yog nws hlub hlub nws tus poj niam xwb os tus txiv neej ko muaj 100 leej ntshe tsuas muaj nws ib leeg zoo li ko xwb os koj txhob tu siab os mog koj cia li muab xav tias nws tus poj niam mas lucky tau ib tug txiv zoo no xwb os mog
Tu siab npaum ko es pheej hniaj hnub nyob ua dabtsis naw. Tej tus txiv es hais lus mob yus npaum ko es koj tsis ris siab li lov. Tus txiv ko tsis tsim nyob yuav poj niam ntxiv lawm os. Yog nws hlub nws tus qub niam npaum ntawv cas nws tsis ua yawg ntsuag kom txog hnub tuag na.
Nco2 tus tuag lawm ces mus ua neej nco xwb txhob yuav cov ciaj los tsim txom li no mas koj los cas yuav nyiam niag thaub tsis muaj siab ntsws ko ua luaj li thiab es yuav nyob quaj li ko tej tus neeg tsis muaj siab ntsws li ko tsis tsim nyog koj uv thiab quaj rau nws lawm vim nws tsis paub txog tias koj tu siab li os mus hlub tus neeg uas luag hlub yus zoo dua sijhawm tsis tos koj os mog me vivncaus
Tus txiv yawg ntsuag 1 twb yog nws tsis hlub nws tsis ntuj neeb nthuav yaig kho nws tus poj niam los yog tus txiv thiaj tuag 2vim yog ntuj mob teb yuav nws tus pojniam thiaj 3 twb yog nws tsim2 thiaj tuag no nawb tsis tus txiv los yog tus niam luag tuag lawm los yog muab nrauj lawm mas zoo li no nawb nws noj hnub qhuas qab qhuas tsau ces tus no nej tseg kiag nawb nej yuav los tsis txog twg li nawb thiab nej mus txog tom nws lub tsev es me duab daim nplawg ntia tim tej phab ntsa ces tsum kiag nawb nws muab koj saib zoo li ib tus ntsaum me2 xwb nawb thiab nws tseem nij hnub mus thuv nws tus niam los yog tus txiv lub ntxa ces tsum kiag nawj thiab nws tseem muaj nkawd daim me2 nyob hauv nws lub vallas mas tsum kiag nawj hom neeg no koj txawm mus yuav tau nws los lub neej yeej tsis txog twg nawj
Nyig txiv ruam, tus tuag twb tuag lawm na, tus ciaj tseem nyob ho tsis hlub, ho hlub2 tsua2 tus tuag nws twb tsis nyob nrog koj, tus ciaj thiaj hlub tau koj es koj yuav ua neej nrog tus tuag lov, yog koj hlub thiab nco tus tuag npaum li koj hais ko ces txhob yuav tus ciaj cas ho xav muaj tus poj niam thiab ma, koj ruam dhau lawm koj lub hlwb ces tsi puv 100% koj thiaj tsis pom thiab hlub tus ciaj, ho pom thiab hlub tus tuag xwb na pua yog.
Tus me niam tsev tus txiv tsev ntawm koj yog ib tug neeg ruam tsis txawj xav thiaj hais tej lus zoo li ntawv rau koj tsis yog txhua tus yawg ntsuag yuav phem yuav coj lub siab twm2 seeb lim2 hiam li koj tus txiv os qhia rau koj tias cov neeg coj tus xeeb ceem zoo li koj tus txiv no tsis tas yuav es yuav uv nyob lub neej tsaus ntuj nti tsis kaj siab txhua hnub li koj li os
Tu txiv zoo li kj tu no ce nws tsua pom nws txoj kev tu siab xwb nws g nco qab hais tia yus yeej muaj kev tu siab ib yam li nws xwb nws tsuasxav hai tias ntshe yus g muaj kev siab nws ib leeg thiaj tu siab xwb no
So sad please go find your happiness. Everybody grieve differently but when it comes to your living partner and you’re not making change to your life then You don’t deserve another partner who came prepared to love.
I understand his pain and suffering, but I don't understand why he's going to remarry if he's going to mope around like a baby. If you made the decision to move forward and heal, don't stand there moping around mentally torturing another person. Either you strap up and move on, or continue to mope around and do as you please. Losing someone you cherish most is never easy, but torturing yourself in the process will only make things worst.
Xav kom hnov ntau zaj neej neeg txog tus txiv hlub nws tus niam nkauj ntxhav qaib li no ntau me ntsis....cas txhua zaj mas yeej hnov tus txiv muab tus niam tsim nkaus xwb?????
I honestly don't know how you are even able to stay in that dreadful marriage for that long. Especially with someone who isn't affectionate towards you and criticizes every little thing that you do by comparing you with his dead wife. He was supposed to remove those pictures of his dead wife down before getting married to you in the first place. If he can't let his dead wife go then he's not worth it, you'll only be wasting your precious love and time. You've given him plenty of time to mourn and get over her but it's obvious that he's purposely not wanting to start a life with you so don't waste your time on someone who's only bringing you down... so keep your head up, stay strong and move it along!!
These words are kinda harsh. We all wish for someone to love us this much. I get how she feels but honestly, we don't know how to help another thru grief in a healthy way. Not just that but we don't have to be married or keep living that life. And honestly, stop taking that to heart. He honestly loved his wife. If It was me I would rather divorce n be a friend then sit there n just cry everyday bc ur so hurt everyday
Yog tsis muaj leej twg ntxiv lub rau zaj no ces ua ib siab tso tus txiv tsev ruam no mus ua neej nrog nws lub neej npau suav es nws mam mus tsa nws tus poj niam tuag ntawv los nrog nws ua neej vim nws yog neeg vwm lawm.
Me viv ncaus aw yog yuav uv ces uv koj thawj2 tus txiv xwb ces koj lub neej twb g puas. Kpj xav kom.nws hlub2 koj li nws tu poj niam mas g muaj li o vim koj twb g yog nws es koj yuav ua cas muaj qhov zoo li nws na
Nws nco nco es nws tus twb los tos nws mus tau 3 xyoo lawm os yus niam nco luag npaum li cas luag mus luag lawm es yus lam nrog tej me me nyuam nyob xwb os
OMFG!!! I would've left him already...I understand he misses his late wife and all but he shouldn't expect you to live in her shadow...If he cannot move forward with you then let him live with his own misery...selfish bastard..you should love yourself and leave him
You need to leave him, he doesn't love you. You'll just keep getting hurt over and over. Not worth wasting your life with him when you could have been with someone who love you.
I’m unsure why Hmong people are so quick to marry after their spouse dies. I’ve seen men within a year or even six months is remarried after crying and burying the love of their life. The man hasn’t even been able to grieve his love or been able to process this tragic event. Hmong people, marrying another isn’t a solution to grief. Allow yourself all the time in the world to process before going into another complicated relationship.
Ua tsaug rau koj zaj dab neeg tu siab os..Kuv xav mas koj mus yuav tus txiv uas tseem tsis tau tso nws tus niam loj tag es nws lam yuav koj xwb los tsis hlub koj li koj ke ntshaw os...kuv yog koj ces ua twb zoo nrog nws tham koj tej ke ntsaw thiab xav es yog nws ua tsis tau rau koj ces tso nws tseg es koj mus nrhiav lwm tus yuav ua hlub koj mog.. vim tus txiv no tsuas xav txog nws kev nyiam xwb tsis txawj hlub tsis tau koj li koj ntshaw os..es koj txhob mus nyob nqhis kev hlub thiab txom nyem li koj os..
Nyob zoo os niam laus may aw koj puas kam muab koj xov tooj rau kuv os vim kuv muj neej neeg ntau heev li pub rau koj tham pub ntiaj teb mloog os. Me niam laus.
Koj tus txiv qhuas tus niam tuag lawm sawv tshaj koj dhau ces koj yuav nrog nws nyob ua ke tsis taus ntxiv. Tsis tas li los koj ho zam tsis taus nws qhuas tus tuag lawm thiab ces neb ob leeg thiaj tsis muaj qhov sib piv nyog thiab sib haum taus nyob ua ke. Yog neb yuav sib qaws ua neej nyob ntxiv mus, neb yuav tsum txawj plhis lus hais thiab luj lus tswj neb ob leeg kom sib haus taus! Yog zoo muab neb tej lus sib khom luj rau saum rab teev qab tsi, neb ob tog yuav hnyav tau xwm yeem tiaj ntees tib yam nkaus thiab xwb.
NEJ PUAS PAUB HAIS TIAS NWS LAM HLUB NWS TUS POJ NIAM QHIA QHUA XWB ES NWS TUS POJ NIAM THIAJ LI YUAV TUS TUS SIAB ES THIAJ LI YUAV TAU MOB CES KHO TSI ZOO LAWM XWB NAWB...
Tu niam tsev yog npaum li ko lawm ces yuav tsis nyog lawm os....ua dab tsi lo tsis cuag tu tuag lawm ces txhob yuav zoo dua mog
People each have their own grieving period. For some, it may take longer than others. A person needs time to grieve and take time to heal....only then, they will be able to move on and accept someone new into their life.
Zoo li ko lawm ces cia nyias mu nyias thiaj li tsis mob siab tu siab li ko os tus viv ncaws aw mloog koj zaj neej neeg mas nrog koj tu siab os
Zoo li no tso mus yus nyob yus kaj siab tshaj
Kuv lub neej mas tu siab ib yam li koj li os sister.
Uag cas yuav ntshaw ib tug txiv hlub2 poj niam li tus ko li os tab sis ho pab tu siab rau tus niam tshiab thiab neb ob leeg txaus hlub ib yam os mog
Viv ncaus aw txhob tu siab os mog peb ua poj nrauj lawm ces yus zoo npaum li cas los luag yeej tseem tsis suav tias yus yog neeg zoo os mog
Yog koj tus txiv ua li koj mas tutu siab kawg nkaus li nawb ,kav tsij txav tawm mam nrhiav lub neej tshiab ua is mog
Me niam luas txoj kev mus ua niam ob yeej zoo li no nawb es tseem ntsuav cov me nyuam tseem yov ua rau koj thiab os mog ua siab tev2 nawb mog
Tusiab tiag22 li osss
Zaj neej neeg no tu2 siab heev
Sim neej no. txiv yawg ntsuag mas txhob yuav nawb .. txiv yawg ntsuag siab phem phem . tsis muaj neeg paub . tsis muaj tus pom nawb ...
I wear the same shoe you walked in....i change and change so much to fit his needs, I lost myself along the way....after 19 yrs I finally find myself again and refused to be some ones blame for his own unhappiness and his sorrows....I walked out and found my own happiness, the happiness that I deserved...I no longer carry his pain, his longing , his sorrow and his unhappiness...I never felt so free in my life... Life changes in unexpected ways, but no one should not have to live in anyone else's shadows....you own your own shadow, your own destiny and your own happiness....
Nrauj tau lawm.
Tus txiv neej ntawm ko mas nim ua cuag li ko sib hlub npaum li ko ces mu nrog nws pw thiaj li zoo pw li nws hais os
tej zaum yuav poj niam sai dhau rau nws txoj kev nco tus qub tsis tau ploj
Wow. He’s not someone I’d want to be married with. :(
Me aw kv mloog kJ cov neej neeg tag ces kv ntshai kawg li es kv tus txiv tso tseg tau 3 xyoo no es yeej g mus yuav txiv li os
Ib tug txiv zoo li ko ces tsis thag yuav lawm mog, yuav Los tsis zoo dab tsi nyob ua ke los xiam sij hawm thiab caij nyoog xwb, twb tsis xam muaj yus tsua hais txog tus tuag xwb leej twg yuav nyob nrog tau, kav tsi tawm mus zoo tshaj yawg ntsuag yawg nrauj thiab yawg dab tsi los yog uv tsis taus lawm ces nyias mus nyias zoo dua mog
Ntuj yuas hmoob aw tuag lawm es tsis sawv lawm es yog yus ua tsis taus ib siab ces txhob yuav lwm tus los tsim nawv mog.........yog yus tsis over tus qub ces.....txhob yuav lwm tus kiag li nawv
Cov txiv neej zoo li ko ces cia nws ua neej nrog kev npau suav nrog tus tuag xwb os txhob nkim.sib hawm rau nws yog koj thiaj uv nws los ntev npaum ko yog lwm tus ces bye nws ntev lawm.os
Ntuj os teb aw....ib tug txiv es lo twg los tsis npaum nws tus niam loj xwb ces ntshe kuv tsis xum yuav nws li thiab os....kav tsij cia nws ua yawg ntsuag kom txaus2 nws tso.
Zaj neej neeg no zoo
Xav tias yuav mus ua ib neej los mloog kJ neej neeg tag Xwb txaus ntshai Dhau lawm os me aw
Tus txiv tsev no mas yuav ua tau meem txom ua luaj lis os ntuj Aw nco bauv koj ces cas tsis tuag lawm qab os hmoob aw
Ua neej nyob Tsi hais poj niam los txiv neej li yog tias yus hlub thiab nco yus tus txij nkaum heev li Tsi muaj leej twg los pauv tau li ces cia nyias dai nyias tej me nyuam.... es zoo dua mog hmoob, peb ua neeg nyob Tsi txhob xav hais tias luag hlub2 luag tus es yus mus yuav es ntshai yuav hlub yus no tab sis yuam kev xwb ov...
hais tau zoo heev os
tu siab heev li os
Niam txais tog txiv txiv txais nta ces yeej tsis puv 100% is, tab sis luag hlub yus li cas ces yus hlub luag li ntawv xwb mas hmoob
Tus me niam tsev koj txhob tu tu siab os mog vim koj tus tseem nyob hos nws tus twb tsis nyob rau haus lub ntiaj teb no lawm thiab ntse koj yeej zoo tsis npaum li nws tus niam thiab os koj txawm zoo kaum yam los tseem tshuav ib yam koj zoo tsis raws nws li tus niam thiab os
Niag neeg phem yeej phem ua zaj twg los yeej phem. Hais lus los yeej nyuaj cov neeg zoo li no cia nws nyob nws. Cov neeg no yog kuv yog nws tus poj niam yuav nrog kuv pw yuav tau them nyiaj thiab.
Cas nrog kij tu siab ua luaj os tus niam tsev aw
Txawm yog li es thiaj tias xiam yuav yawg nrauj nws cem yus los yus thiaj zoo cem nws thiab yawg ntsuag ces lawv tias lawv tus zoo2 kawg vim lub ntuj qee xwb
Ok, you need to leave your current husband right away. Clearly he is not over his deceased wife. I don’t know why he married you if he wasn’t ready to move on. He’s still living in the past. Please do yourself a favor and remove yourself from the situation. If he loves you he wouldn’t compare you to his dead wife.
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Tus txiv neej ko yog nws hlub hlub nws tus poj niam xwb os tus txiv neej ko muaj 100 leej ntshe tsuas muaj nws ib leeg zoo li ko xwb os koj txhob tu siab os mog koj cia li muab xav tias nws tus poj niam mas lucky tau ib tug txiv zoo no xwb os mog
Puas muaj ib tug txiv neej zoo li zaj neej neeg no tiag ma los ua rau kuv twb tsis nceeg li os
Tu siab npaum ko es pheej hniaj hnub nyob ua dabtsis naw. Tej tus txiv es hais lus mob yus npaum ko es koj tsis ris siab li lov. Tus txiv ko tsis tsim nyob yuav poj niam ntxiv lawm os. Yog nws hlub nws tus qub niam npaum ntawv cas nws tsis ua yawg ntsuag kom txog hnub tuag na.
Ntuj aw...niam tsev aw....muab niag j muag yawg nplaum ko ntsaig kiag mo koj tseem nrog nws nyob los koj twb ntsaig nas nws kawm nas siaj j muag yawg ntsuag ko niag hmoov hlob niag poj niam thiaj tuag nas koj tsis ntshai tsam nws tsim tsim koj koj ho tuag no los niam tsev
Nco2 tus tuag lawm ces mus ua neej nco xwb txhob yuav cov ciaj los tsim txom li no mas koj los cas yuav nyiam niag thaub tsis muaj siab ntsws ko ua luaj li thiab es yuav nyob quaj li ko tej tus neeg tsis muaj siab ntsws li ko tsis tsim nyog koj uv thiab quaj rau nws lawm vim nws tsis paub txog tias koj tu siab li os mus hlub tus neeg uas luag hlub yus zoo dua sijhawm tsis tos koj os mog me vivncaus
Tu niam lau kj ua zoo lo luag nco tu tuag xwb ce cia nw mu khawb tim ntxa lo ua neej nrog nw ma kj pheej quaj na
Yog nco tus tuag npau kom es mus yuav lua los ua dab tsi
Great story
This guy is not ready for another marriage. He can't let go of his past. He just torturing himself and his new wife.
kJ zaj no mas phim kv kawg os me viv ncaus aw
Lub neej niam tog txiv nta yeej tu siab li ko os tus viv ncau aw!!!
Lady leave him and tell him to let you know once he's ready and serious for marriage.
Lub neej zoo li no ces yog kuv, kuv muab tso cia lawm lau ntshe yuav kaj siab dua
Tus txiv yawg ntsuag 1 twb yog nws tsis hlub nws tsis ntuj neeb nthuav yaig kho nws tus poj niam los yog tus txiv thiaj tuag 2vim yog ntuj mob teb yuav nws tus pojniam thiaj 3 twb yog nws tsim2 thiaj tuag no nawb tsis tus txiv los yog tus niam luag tuag lawm los yog muab nrauj lawm mas zoo li no nawb nws noj hnub qhuas qab qhuas tsau ces tus no nej tseg kiag nawb nej yuav los tsis txog twg li nawb thiab nej mus txog tom nws lub tsev es me duab daim nplawg ntia tim tej phab ntsa ces tsum kiag nawb nws muab koj saib zoo li ib tus ntsaum me2 xwb nawb thiab nws tseem nij hnub mus thuv nws tus niam los yog tus txiv lub ntxa ces tsum kiag nawj thiab nws tseem muaj nkawd daim me2 nyob hauv nws lub vallas mas tsum kiag nawj hom neeg no koj txawm mus yuav tau nws los lub neej yeej tsis txog twg nawj
Es zoo li kJ zaj no tiag kv mas tu tu siab laus li no os xav tias lwm tim muaj tiag nco qab no yus mam los ib txiv hluas nraug thiaj yog tus yus no os
koj tsis tau thov yuav nws nws tuaj nrhiav yuav koj. Tus txiv neej no yog neeg vwm lawm.
Cov niag txiv ruam zoo li koj niag ntawv ces cia nws tuag mus nrog nws tus niam nyob xwb thiaj zoo nws siab
Li cas los swb tus ib yog uv ces uv tus qub zoo dua vim neb sib y ntshaw neb thiaj sib yuav thaum neb hluas y me tub me nyuam ntxhais
Tus txiv neej ntawm kos lam ua xwb os nws tus niam tuag lawm yeej tsi zoo tshaj npaum lis cas os yog tsi ciaj es nej sim mus nug meb
Nyig txiv ruam, tus tuag twb tuag lawm na, tus ciaj tseem nyob ho tsis hlub, ho hlub2 tsua2 tus tuag nws twb tsis nyob nrog koj, tus ciaj thiaj hlub tau koj es koj yuav ua neej nrog tus tuag lov, yog koj hlub thiab nco tus tuag npaum li koj hais ko ces txhob yuav tus ciaj cas ho xav muaj tus poj niam thiab ma, koj ruam dhau lawm koj lub hlwb ces tsi puv 100% koj thiaj tsis pom thiab hlub tus ciaj, ho pom thiab hlub tus tuag xwb na pua yog.
Tus me niam tsev tus txiv tsev ntawm koj yog ib tug neeg ruam tsis txawj xav thiaj hais tej lus zoo li ntawv rau koj tsis yog txhua tus yawg ntsuag yuav phem yuav coj lub siab twm2 seeb lim2 hiam li koj tus txiv os qhia rau koj tias cov neeg coj tus xeeb ceem zoo li koj tus txiv no tsis tas yuav es yuav uv nyob lub neej tsaus ntuj nti tsis kaj siab txhua hnub li koj li os
Tu txiv zoo li kj tu no ce nws tsua pom nws txoj kev tu siab xwb nws g nco qab hais tia yus yeej muaj kev tu siab ib yam li nws xwb nws tsuasxav hai tias ntshe yus g muaj kev siab nws ib leeg thiaj tu siab xwb no
Hmmm, if you're too tu siab, why not divorce him?
caag yuav txaus tu sab dhau
Puag thaum kuv me nyuam ntxhais loj hlob los. kuv yeej ib txwm hais rau kuv cov Viv Ncaus hais tias kuv yuav tsis kam yuav cov txiv Yawg ntsuag li. Lawv noog hais tias yog vim li cas kuv ho hais li ntawd . Kuv qhia rau lawv hais tias vim yog luag tus poj niam tuag lawm ces txawm nws phem phem npaum cas los luag yeej yuav muab qhuas qhuas es cem yus piv zias rau niag tuag lawm xwb Ces yog koj lawm os tus Viv Ncaus. Koj paub lig dhau heev lawv os.
Holy crap this lady is in competition with the living with her first husband and now in competition with the dead so sad.
So sad please go find your happiness. Everybody grieve differently but when it comes to your living partner and you’re not making change to your life then You don’t deserve another partner who came prepared to love.
I understand his pain and suffering, but I don't understand why he's going to remarry if he's going to mope around like a baby. If you made the decision to move forward and heal, don't stand there moping around mentally torturing another person. Either you strap up and move on, or continue to mope around and do as you please. Losing someone you cherish most is never easy, but torturing yourself in the process will only make things worst.
Xav kom hnov ntau zaj neej neeg txog tus txiv hlub nws tus niam nkauj ntxhav qaib li no ntau me ntsis....cas txhua zaj mas yeej hnov tus txiv muab tus niam tsim nkaus xwb?????
Oh yo!!! Pojniam hmoob ces nrhiav2 cai li os.
Tus poj hmoob siab ntev...yog koj zoo npaum koj uas cas hov uv tsis tau toj thawj tug txiv nas...xws li koj pheej qhuas tias koj thiaj yog tus zoo xwb....
Sister, you done the right thing. He is always mourning his ex. You deserve so much better. Move on with your own life.
Tus thaub laus ntawv ruam2 dhau lawm os
I honestly don't know how you are even able to stay in that dreadful marriage for that long. Especially with someone who isn't affectionate towards you and criticizes every little thing that you do by comparing you with his dead wife. He was supposed to remove those pictures of his dead wife down before getting married to you in the first place. If he can't let his dead wife go then he's not worth it, you'll only be wasting your precious love and time. You've given him plenty of time to mourn and get over her but it's obvious that he's purposely not wanting to start a life with you so don't waste your time on someone who's only bringing you down... so keep your head up, stay strong and move it along!!
Tus Txiv zoo li koj tus kos muab lawb lo tau mas...
These words are kinda harsh. We all wish for someone to love us this much. I get how she feels but honestly, we don't know how to help another thru grief in a healthy way. Not just that but we don't have to be married or keep living that life. And honestly, stop taking that to heart. He honestly loved his wife. If It was me I would rather divorce n be a friend then sit there n just cry everyday bc ur so hurt everyday
Yog tsis muaj leej twg ntxiv lub rau zaj no ces ua ib siab tso tus txiv tsev ruam no mus ua neej nrog nws lub neej npau suav es nws mam mus tsa nws tus poj niam tuag ntawv los nrog nws ua neej vim nws yog neeg vwm lawm.
Tus txiv tsev ko muab nco nws tus qub pojniam es xiam hlwb lawm os. Yeej noj nyiaj xiam hlwb los ntev lawm thiab yog tsis yuam kev, muab nws lawb zoo dua yog nws tso tseg tsis tau nws kev hlub qub dhau los.
Sad story brother
Yog Kuv ces tsis nyob lawn os
Me viv ncaus aw yog yuav uv ces uv koj thawj2 tus txiv xwb ces koj lub neej twb g puas. Kpj xav kom.nws hlub2 koj li nws tu poj niam mas g muaj li o vim koj twb g yog nws es koj yuav ua cas muaj qhov zoo li nws na
Tus me viv ncaus aw kv muaj 15 xyoos xwb es kv los kv tus yawg ntsuag
Nws nco nco es nws tus twb los tos nws mus tau 3 xyoo lawm os yus niam nco luag npaum li cas luag mus luag lawm es yus lam nrog tej me me nyuam nyob xwb os
G raug leej twg tus ntawv g nkag siab
Never too late to go away
Txoj kev yuav yawg ntsuag ces tu siab heev li thiab os..
This guy.
Koj niag txiv no ces ntshe yog toom txhob thiab hlau kho kom nws mus cuag nws tus niam loj xwb mas plaub thiaj tag.
Hi
Tus me niam tsev aw..cas kj tseem nyob tau 6xyoo os kv ces twb tsi txog 6 hli twb npaiv npais lawm os...
Nres dim nres koj xwb os,, tsi muaj ib tus neeg yuav perfect npaum ntawv os..
OMFG!!! I would've left him already...I understand he misses his late wife and all but he shouldn't expect you to live in her shadow...If he cannot move forward with you then let him live with his own misery...selfish bastard..you should love yourself and leave him
Mloog kJ hais cov niag Yawg nrauj los cas yuav phem Ua luaj
Muab nws lawb Kiag xwb ma ..nws twb g hlub koj nrog nyob zoo dab g
You need to leave him, he doesn't love you. You'll just keep getting hurt over and over. Not worth wasting your life with him when you could have been with someone who love you.
I’m unsure why Hmong people are so quick to marry after their spouse dies. I’ve seen men within a year or even six months is remarried after crying and burying the love of their life. The man hasn’t even been able to grieve his love or been able to process this tragic event. Hmong people, marrying another isn’t a solution to grief. Allow yourself all the time in the world to process before going into another complicated relationship.
This man is so selfish 😡 Poor sister....
Ua tsaug rau koj zaj dab neeg tu siab os..Kuv xav mas koj mus yuav tus txiv uas tseem tsis tau tso nws tus niam loj tag es nws lam yuav koj xwb los tsis hlub koj li koj ke ntshaw os...kuv yog koj ces ua twb zoo nrog nws tham koj tej ke ntsaw thiab xav es yog nws ua tsis tau rau koj ces tso nws tseg es koj mus nrhiav lwm tus yuav ua hlub koj mog.. vim tus txiv no tsuas xav txog nws kev nyiam xwb tsis txawj hlub tsis tau koj li koj ntshaw os..es koj txhob mus nyob nqhis kev hlub thiab txom nyem li koj os..
Nyob zoo os niam laus may aw koj puas kam muab koj xov tooj rau kuv os vim kuv muj neej neeg ntau heev li pub rau koj tham pub ntiaj teb mloog os. Me niam laus.
Koj tus txiv qhuas tus niam tuag lawm sawv tshaj koj dhau ces koj yuav nrog nws nyob ua ke tsis taus ntxiv. Tsis tas li los koj ho zam tsis taus nws qhuas tus tuag lawm thiab ces neb ob leeg thiaj tsis muaj qhov sib piv nyog thiab sib haum taus nyob ua ke. Yog neb yuav sib qaws ua neej nyob ntxiv mus, neb yuav tsum txawj plhis lus hais thiab luj lus tswj neb ob leeg kom sib haus taus! Yog zoo muab neb tej lus sib khom luj rau saum rab teev qab tsi, neb ob tog yuav hnyav tau xwm yeem tiaj ntees tib yam nkaus thiab xwb.
NEJ PUAS PAUB HAIS TIAS NWS LAM HLUB NWS TUS POJ NIAM QHIA QHUA XWB ES NWS TUS POJ NIAM THIAJ LI YUAV TUS TUS SIAB ES THIAJ LI YUAV TAU MOB CES KHO TSI ZOO LAWM XWB NAWB...
So sad 😢
Tu siab kawg😭😭😭
Koj muab koj tus txiv ko xa kiag mus ntuj tawg mus nrog nws tus pog nyob xwb mas. Yog nws tseem nco npaum ko.
Good story... Zoo mloog kawg
Niag zoo li ko ces ruam mas.