Dear Saswati, Anger is a sign of weakness. It stems from a weak vital. When confronted with someone who is prone to anger there are three possible responses one can give. First is to completely ignore the anger and stay poised. If it is difficult to do so while the person is around then move out of his force field until the anger subsides. It is true not only of anger but of all psychological forces that they spread as a contagion just like a physically contagious disease and if one enters in close contact with a person through sympathy, attachment and physical proximity then that forces has a tendency to enter oneself. One has to be very careful and strong to avoid such contagion which is unfortunately the cause of much needless suffering in human beings. Second way is to face or rather confront him with calm courage and firmness not conceding to his demands just because he is throwing a tantrum. Such confrontations may be uncomfortable but often tame the other person's anger before the stronger force of calm strength. Third way is to appeal to his reason and to his deeper spiritual elements. At the same time to look upon all these with a benevolent attitude that understands the inherent limitations of human nature and knowing thus develops a sunny tolerance and compassion towards those caught up in this dark web. The fourth way is to bring down a higher force of Peace or Love and Harmony in the atmosphere of the person. If one is not equipped to do so then offer him to the Divine Mother and pray to Her to help him. As you can see these methods form an ascending hierarchy and one has to see where one stands and the kind of relation one wants to keep with the person. Best of course is to inwardly if not possible outwardly cut off from such a person and detaching oneself go about pursuing your true life goals trusting Her Grace to change things when She deems fit. affectionately alok da
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Thanks for a very lucid and enlightening talk.
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Such great body of works Dr.Alok, Thank you very much ...
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Very well explained the difference between Dharma and adharma. Thank you Alokda, thank you 🔥🙏
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Thank you sir. It can't be simpler than this.
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One question Alokda,
If I'm a seeker, How to deal with an oppressor and anger ?
Dear Saswati,
Anger is a sign of weakness. It stems from a weak vital. When confronted with someone who is prone to anger there are three possible responses one can give.
First is to completely ignore the anger and stay poised. If it is difficult to do so while the person is around then move out of his force field until the anger subsides. It is true not only of anger but of all psychological forces that they spread as a contagion just like a physically contagious disease and if one enters in close contact with a person through sympathy, attachment and physical proximity then that forces has a tendency to enter oneself. One has to be very careful and strong to avoid such contagion which is unfortunately the cause of much needless suffering in human beings.
Second way is to face or rather confront him with calm courage and firmness not conceding to his demands just because he is throwing a tantrum. Such confrontations may be uncomfortable but often tame the other person's anger before the stronger force of calm strength.
Third way is to appeal to his reason and to his deeper spiritual elements. At the same time to look upon all these with a benevolent attitude that understands the inherent limitations of human nature and knowing thus develops a sunny tolerance and compassion towards those caught up in this dark web.
The fourth way is to bring down a higher force of Peace or Love and Harmony in the atmosphere of the person. If one is not equipped to do so then offer him to the Divine Mother and pray to Her to help him.
As you can see these methods form an ascending hierarchy and one has to see where one stands and the kind of relation one wants to keep with the person.
Best of course is to inwardly if not possible outwardly cut off from such a person and detaching oneself go about pursuing your true life goals trusting Her Grace to change things when She deems fit.
affectionately
alok da
Thank you very much Alokda, will try to follow this
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