Also a working mom. I feel like intention is the key to this question. I think a lot of people are just trying to understand and make conversation and there’s also a lot of people who ask to judge.
She means it’s obvious they are with their dad if she is working out of hours … or… that it should not matter because a male surgeon won’t be asked that question
I always wonder about parents who have demanding jobs and how they do it. I don't feel like i have support outside of paid childcare. But i wouldn't ask.
I’m curious too! But the more I thought about I realized no one would ask a male surgeon who is watching his kids. Even if they are working mothers themselves it’s really not appropriate for them to ask. Maybe if you wanted advice or maybe because everything is so expensive these days almost everyone has to work 😅 but that still wouldn’t be right to ask🙃 Also just for confidentiality purposes it’s no one’s business. Telling people could make your child a target especially if you are a well known figure. So after falling down this rabbit hole of thoughts I can understand where she’s coming from 😅
Also a working mom. I feel like intention is the key to this question. I think a lot of people are just trying to understand and make conversation and there’s also a lot of people who ask to judge.
She means it’s obvious they are with their dad if she is working out of hours … or… that it should not matter because a male surgeon won’t be asked that question
Merry Christmas Dr Grunch and your family.
I always wonder about parents who have demanding jobs and how they do it. I don't feel like i have support outside of paid childcare. But i wouldn't ask.
Its not there business who is watching your kids. If you wanted them to know, you would tell them.
Sorry hon, scary but some people's brains just don't work right! And that's me being nice!😅
That's not an odd thing to say, it's a valid curiosity question. 😂😂
It's a very sexist question
I’m curious too! But the more I thought about I realized no one would ask a male surgeon who is watching his kids.
Even if they are working mothers themselves it’s really not appropriate for them to ask. Maybe if you wanted advice or maybe because everything is so expensive these days almost everyone has to work 😅 but that still wouldn’t be right to ask🙃
Also just for confidentiality purposes it’s no one’s business. Telling people could make your child a target especially if you are a well known figure.
So after falling down this rabbit hole of thoughts I can understand where she’s coming from 😅