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She sounds like a Mother on the Verge of a Breakdown. I APPRECIATE her for realizing that she needs help and Didn't hurt her children...
That part yes…obviously being away from her is best. However, she does not seem like it’s a mental breakdown, this clearly comes off as a lazy trash can that doesn’t want to be a mom. Not because it’s hard but because she just doesn’t want to. A mom that is struggling would make sense. She just sees them as a burden and she can’t chase her hoodrat dreams. If it were a mom who is literally working her ass off with legitimate jobs and barely getting by then yes. But she’s a welfare stripper who just doesn’t want to be bothered by the obligation to be a mom.
She summed it up with one word. Overwhelmed. Nuff said.
EXZACTLY, cause alotttt of women had unalived their kids do to stress...i give her props....and this interviewer is 🤮 trash
She already broke down.
I agree. I’m glad she realizes she can’t parent them right now and is trying to do the responsible thing by giving them to their dad.
Her parents didn’t want her. She doesn’t want her kids. That Generational curse stays undefeated, never misses. Praying for her babies.
ABSOLUTELY
Like they say if you raise your kids you won’t have to raise your grandkids
Thank you for this comment! One day people will start looking into generational trauma! It’s so sad and so hard to break! Pray for them all!!
Pray for her if you wanna really break the curse
I defeated it-I have never abandoned my kids. I have never had help with my kids, and my mind has never thought about this being an option because of what I went thru.
This is the first interview that gave her a chance to tell her story while holding her accountable. No tea just straight to the point and asking all the appropriate questions! Great job!
I've loved this interview she didn't give in to her tears I'm happy to see her held accountable but still tell her story
Yes, I 💚 ❤ I was in love with the back to back questions!!!!
@@HoneySuckle123 same lol ❤️
Agree
agreed!
This host is extremely insensitive and lacks empathy. Being judgmental when you're a BM as well is tough. Give people grace. Give a word of encouragement. She has already done what she has done. She needs motivation to jump back in and make things right.
I agreee
I don’t like how she judges people who have children before they’re married, being married isn’t gonna change anything, marriages end all the time, there are so many divorced couples with children now it’s insane
@@Rebecca_Baileyyes so true why did she get a chair that swivel then tell her host to stop moving she come across as rude and unprofessional she talks Down to that girl so uncute of her
All so true!! & why is she so judgemental when she herself is a single mother!? lol
I’m licensed to do therapy as part of my career and this was a cringe.😬Not everybody should give advice.
To all single mothers raising children through struggle, unprotected, unsupported YES ITS HARD AF please don’t give up. Find the strength to give your children your love and educate them. That’s it! They don’t need the materialistic shit. You are not “damned if you do damned if you don’t” you are their biggest blessing and if you shift your perspective they are yours as well.
Thank you beautiful for saying this these young women need support, compassion and empathy not judgement
❤ THANK YOU
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I love this 🥹 thank you ❤
She’s a dead beat mom
i dont like this interviewer she seems judgemental and her attitude aint nice. People struggles and sometimes plans dont go how you want it to its life. Mental health is real atleast sh e hasnt killed her kids shes done what she thought was best
Shes real and honest. In a world full of mostly fake people putting on a mask in front of the camera and being someone else completely different when the camera is off , I find her personality and interviewing style refreshing.
I agree. Her interview style is very judgemental
I agree with all of you yet as I continue to watch it shows how great Alexus’s mental stability is.. she is emotionally intelligent and very well aware. She did what is best for HER .. and by the end of the interview there is more of an open mind and less judgment on my behalf
Very judgemental! She just looked down on her the whole time.... way to give her confidence!
Shes lying and the interviewer was calling her out on them. If you're on birth control, why take a plan B. Then you're in a relationship with a man that R 'd you ---twice--for 3 years? Then you had an ectopic pregnancy with twins, then it wasn'tectopic? Then the hospital told you that your "boyfriend " not husband, has to sign off on you getting your tubes tied?? LOTS of excuses here....Idk
Regardless of her being “irresponsible or not taking accountability for having those 5 kids” she is a mother who is struggling mentally. That alone is an illness a lot of women kill their own children over. I salute her for being strong enough to say she physically & mentally can’t do it alone. I am a single mother of 2. I knew I had a POS baby father the first time I got pregnant by him but thought bringing another baby into his life would straighten him out & get to his responsibilities. Nobody is perfect we all have made up fantasies in our minds we’re human. I too, struggle everyday mentally, physically, & financially with my children bc we have zero help or support. I pray she keeps her word & gets those babies back into her care when she is stable enough to do so. But like I said, i salute you Alexus. Not many women open their mouths about situations like this bc of the embarrassment that comes with it. Stay strong. God knows your true intentions 🫶🏼🙌😢
I agree whole heartedly am I'm a mother of just one
Love this comment👏🏾💯 the host is seriously pissing me tf off with her fucking rude ass attitude cuffing and puffing Jersey shore ass accent 🙄🙄 like gtfoh using this girl for clicks and degrading and I’m black and don’t have a kid or kids but this serially pisses me off and then she asked the same question twice when the girl clearly said she put her kids in HOMES WITH PEOPLE SHE ALREADY KNOWS🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🙄🤬
Am I the only grow up woman in the world. Am I the only one who realizes if a man don't want to marry you obviously he don't want a baby by you. Am I the only one who realizes that if I can't afford this baby with the money I make maybe I should protect myself with condoms and birth control before I sleep with this bumb, so I don't be left raising the baby on my own. I'm not the only woman in the world who said forget him if he don't want me I'm not going to have a baby by him to try to keep him? I mean y'all need to wake up it's 2024? You cannot trap these bumbs by having these babies. They not gonna stay. You will suffer. Wake up
I guess I had the best parents it is to have because I knew at a teenage age that if a man don't want to marry you he probably don't want to have a baby by you. Am I the only woman in the world who say let me get me some condoms and some birth control before I have sex with this bum because he probably not going to help me take care of no babies. Now it's 2024 woman out here still having babies by no good men to try to keep them. 2024 still girls are out here not giving a care in the world about having babies putting them through poverty. Come on y'all need to wake up and think about these poor babies that don't have to be here suffering because of selfish reasons.
💯 agree
I’m sorry I’m really trying to sit through this but I can’t stand an interviewer that is biased. You literally don’t know this girl and barely listen to what she says. It’s no need to be rude and judgmental. Just ask the questions and be professional.
I don't think she's being biased. She's saying what all of us wanted to say
Yes she was very mean.
Yes, I can’t finish watching this. She looks stoned and her attitude is too nasty for me.
This ‼️ ‼️ ‼️
I taught I was the only one that noticed it 😡 she probably just pulled in the interview for views 🤬
I hate how the host interviews very judgement and tries to put the guest down. Yall peeped how when she was explaining what jobs she had the host went straight to your not dancing anymore ? Just a nasty attitude with no real reason. Or when she said she was too old for a modeling contract. The host needs to heal her own wounds behind the scenes because it’s shows in how she carries herself
Come on somebody 😊 💛
Exactly in the beginning talking abt wanting to have a real reason to post blah blah gurl I can never watch her she suppose to not had a feeling abt it she wore the way she felt on her face & disrupting her ugh
Facts
I think it's beyond the host being judgmental, she seems like a C-U-Next-Tuesday in general, that's the overall demeanor she projects. She has a superiority complex. Also not intelligent at all. Really not understanding how her channel gained any popularity. Maybe it's just the looks
Interviewer needs to have more compassion tbh the slurred speech looks high as a kite just completely embarrassing in my opinion. Great for the mother answering questions hopefully she gets her stuff together and gets help.
😂
absolutely the host seemed very exploitative
Whether she is lying or not, I feel bad. She had a very hard time articulating. She was a baby having babies while already in a bad situation with her own mother. I pray she gets it together.
I agree with you as well.
Shes definitely lying. If you're on birth control, why take a plan B. Then you're in a relationship with a man that R 'd you for 3 years? Then you had an ectopic pregnancy with twins? Idk
Don’t have xxx
@@gigiluv1028 thats just not how reality works. people will have sex. people are dilutional to think just saying well don't have sex then will actually work. also are you a nun or something why cant you type out the word sex.
what she did is wrong. It’s going to traumatize her children, but I don’t like that society holds mothers to a different standard than father‘s, fathers leave their children behind every single day. It’s not OK at all. It’s actually quite disgusting but let’s treat everybody the same. Also, the same people who are sending, sending her hate and calling her A terrible person are the same people who would be commenting “why didn’t she just give them to foster care” if she ended up doing something terrible to her children and herself!!!!
i’m only 21 about to be 22 and I cannot imagine having three kids, mind you I’ve taken the steps to not have three kids, but just the thought since shivers down my spine. I do feel like when you’ve had a hard childhood (her father, not being there, and her mother being an alcoholic ) because of other people it becomes easy to blame other people for your actions later in life because it was usually the other person’s fault in your childhood. I hope she works through that.
I will keep her in my prayers and pray that she finds peace and healing for herself and her children.
You're right, why are they not holding their father's accountable?
& then they call us bitter when we stop half ass dads from causing damage
Mama’s baby’s, daddy‘s maybe… Honey it’s 2024. These men are not sticking around. They are children with sticks and a privilege of creating life that they cannot take care of. social media Big right now, everybody should know the. pros and cons of having a baby😢, This young lady had no guidance no structure at home because one of her parents maybe both of them gave up on her. After listening to this podcast, best thing she could’ve done for those kids was to place them in better homes. Somebody need to take her uterus so she don’t create another life!
I will also. 💯
Yesh it is wrong i read an article about a 13 yr old boy that took his life bc of the physical and sexual abuse he endured in foster care.
She should’ve never came on here. Y’all don’t give af about her or her kids or their pain
Exactly. The interviewer had a stank attitude. Her facial expressions said A LOT. 🙄
Exactly! She had this woman on here to pass judgement, make her feel worse and for views. She didn’t physically hurt her children she was asking for help as she was probably at her breaking point.
I dont understand her. Or the people defending her. Giving her kids up was the right choice. However, going on live, posting videos, doing interviews and podcasts while she laughs about how she got pregnant and how she didnt want them and all the excuses are absolutely not okay. Her oldest boys at the least have probably already seen all of these. And over time all of her children will see this and i can assure you this and ger behavior is unforgettable and possibly unforgivable. As a child whose mother did the same this and never having my dad in my life and having a mom who openly talks about how she gave us all up because it was too hard and to hard to be sober or raise us, its still a painful mental problem 20 years later.
She needs to understand that all of this will have consequences with her kids. She absolutely did the right thing asking for help and giving her kids to be who could care for them. But she just tore her kids apart and is on the internet trying to go viral and be famous and its just sad. I hope she gets the help she needs but more i hope her kids do. 😢
PAY ATTENTION: when she spoke on modeling she said she IS going to do it no matter what anybody says or how anybody feels… but speaking on her children she has excuse after excuse and gave up. She is selfish. She’s making stuff up as she goes. It’s astonishing
I knew I wasn’t the only one.. she could be a MA but scared to take the test yet she’s confident in having a modeling career.. delusional
I’m a glad ppl are seeing through the bs
It’s giving master manipulator/sociopath. She seems to be only happy and energetic while talking about her and her dreams or wtv….. poor kids 😢
Yeah. That’s a really good point. I try to give people the benefit of the doubt but I just can’t with her. She’s upset with the dad for not having time for the girls because he’s having 2 other kids but she is essentially saying the same thing. How does she not see that? You can’t hold other people to a higher standard than you hold yourself. I think the kids are probably better where they are now. She made the right decision. Problem is she has no plan, no effort. She should have the same dedication to getting her kids back that she has to becoming a model.
Hope is not r rated
Right.. those tears dried up immediately.
Telling her you not judging her but throwing shade asking is her other baby daddy just a random guy is crazy 😂😫
Yes the interviewer needs Jesus in her heart😊💛
She literally judged the ENTIRE time!🥴
This whole dang interview was shady.
@@IamTaraMoneeRight!!!!!
Right I thought the same and she seems annoyed
As a woman afraid of having children I really appreciate this interview.
Yeah, a blue print of what not to do!
@@Mrs_SheSaid right but this is no shame to the woman interviewed. I’ve had some of the sexual trauma and abuse she’s experienced as well. I really don’t want anyone to feel the the way my family and father made me feel. I constantly question my existence and experiences… until I can get in better control of this I need to wait. God will let me know when the right time is.
If it's any comfort, it is said that often people who are most fearful/careful about having kids make the best parents because they understand the magnitude of parenthood.
Same here!! 29f, too scared to have kids. I scroll thru the “regretful parents” subreddit daily just for a quick read. I love my life and my freedom. Child free life is so slept on.
@@WhateverLibragirl me too. Having a child is too expensive nowadays too.
I was shocked at the Interviewer’s demeanor and callousness. Just Wow. Also I am not judging this young lady or anyone else for their choices. We’re not supposed to. I hope she gets the help she needs and those babies get the love, care & security they need
I like this interviewer she's real!!
This interview was horrible
🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️💯
I know
I think her first mistake was making it other people’s business.. Fam these are literally not your kids and you’re sitting there high and mighty like you’re better than her.. these are usually the worst parents (if they have kids) that judge young women like her. They will be the first to trash her rather than help her mentally or spiritually. You have no idea what mental space she came from when she put herself and her children through what she did.. Imagine literally getting mad because a woman gave her kids up because she didn’t want to or couldn’t raise them because it was detrimental to the children’s lives. Who gives a damn if you believe her story or not she couldn’t take care of them and now they’re with other families would it have been better to keep them and mess them up mentally??? It’s not as simple as using birth control when it comes to mental illness or behavioral disorders.. The meaning of psychotic is to keep doing something and expecting a different result, she had no help, no self love, no love, no guidance, and no common sense… She was invited to this interview to be judged let’s just call it for what it is, is this lady going to help her with resources??? I’ll wait..
I totally agree
best comment ive seen on here so far her attitude is horrible keep taking about abortion. she seems horrible so better hope she never goes through the mental struggle. dont judge people you dont know what people are going through
@@letaniaallison3333 thank you you’re exactly right. I’m happy there are others who know this is truly effed up
@@Cybelecelestethegoddess 💯 EXACTLY!!! You took the words right out of my mouth!!! 👏
Yess exactly what I said I feel like she should be cancelled taken off the stream there’s other women lady’s or even teens watching this and the fact that she sat there the whole time bashing her and talking to her as if she was a kid was so wrong where supposed to help each other as women not talk bad or judge the next cuz it could be you !!!
Truth is she did right, she said herself she will be homeless in a couple of weeks. She made sure they were sheltered. Hopefully she does what she need to in the next 6 months
Precisely. I was raised in the system and went through hell. But it is better to have shelter and food no matter if it’s with bio moms or not.
She has an excuse for every kid she brought into this world 😒 plus it seems like she’s making up the stories as she goes🤦🏽♀️ it’s a lot of “I dunno” “I don’t remember”. What a tragedy!!!!
I felt bad at first cause if she was 15 and he was 22 thats disgusting. But nah 😂 what the hell
Exactly
Fr
She was raped. So no one heard that in the beginning?? wow
How aren't you sure of how old you were when you gave birth to your children 🤔
Interviewer lowkey seems judgey
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Not low-key, she judgmental af! Not to mention high as a kite.
We need to be more judgy. People have no shame. They just keep f#cking up.
The courage it took for her to say out loud that she can’t give them what they need to be kids. I respect that so much. It’s a different kind of mother’s love. Good luck sis.
Well said sister!❤️
You wrong for letting her sit through this interview with her shirt open
She is wrong for wearing that to a video podcast. She presented herself that way. Let me guess she needs help with her clothing too!
Yes I would of had her put on a shirt over her outfit especially why she is sharing her story her kids are involved this is not a good look in my opinion. CPS does watch TH-cam videos
That appears to be her way of dressing. I don't see button holes.
@@trulyamazing2972 you are correct they do watch, and still her adult choices. Just like she chose to give her kids away. We cannot and are not responsible for some of the things adults do. If she wanted to do better she would be doing better.
@@685JONESY just my opinion from what I've witnessed with my own eyes . CPS is always watching
I’m actually touched by her story. I’ve learned it best to have empathy if you want to have true view of the world. We can’t judge someone when we don’t know what they’ve been through. Yeah she put herself in this, but let’s not act like we’re all above making mistakes. This young lady has had a tough life, and five children at 27 is not easy let alone one child. She was looking for love and caused herself heartbreak.
You have empathy for a dead beat mother…
@@MichaelFarrow-mt2xz as you’ve had sympathy for the people in your life who are less than perfect. Don’t judge folks and then look for grace when you do something inconceivable to another persons perception of what’s acceptable. No hate though. 💗
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@MichaelFarrow-mt2xz exactly brah… it’s crazy out here
@@bsherman4353 lmfaooo sad
Idk but this interviewer is coming off very judgmental & passive aggressive like stop being fake & act how you really wanna act tf
It’s giving she was playing friend on the phone and when the cameras switched on SHE SWITCHED ATTITUDES !!
I couldn’t agree more
@@KarmaCurse-mi6mr And vaping lord TH-cam isnt where she needs to be . A mental hospital getting over her trauma and therapy.She isnt over the trauma and rapes.
and the too old for modeling comment.. well that’s a little subjective. She’s 27. If it’s runway then that may be hard to break into, but she just needs an agent to help her with that.
I wish I could hug her. There are many black women suffering in silence, raising babies alone, crying at night, depending on a broken system that is created to keep them trapped in a cycle of poverty. Many of us will continue to suffer from the poor choices that were made generations before us. I believe that the power is within to break generational cycles. Our children shouldn’t have to suffer from the poor choices we make. As a black woman who is childless, I empathize with women who have babies unwed. The choices we make today will impact generations to come, every decision we make should be in efforts to better ourselves & our children. I pray for her mental healing & her children’s wellbeing. May our ancestors continue to protect her & her family!
Best comment ❤
It took 5 kids to realize that?
@@dp7047 exactly.
Yall make way to many excuses for ppl… she DEAD WRONG
@@dwayneouzts5897 and you like millions of ppl on the web don’t comprehend. Where in my statement did I make an excuse for her decisions?
I can't even finish this interview . She pissing me off .
Omgggg for real! She’s clearly fabricating certain parts / dancing around questions. I knew she was full of BS when she said that the kids aren’t mad and they understand🤣
What should piss you off are the mothers who have been murdering and beating their kids 🤔
I agree. This is a hard watch.
She seems like a master manipulator 🧐🤨
I was yelling at my phone watching this interview! So I feel u, no accountability among females these days, just sad.
I get it now, she had kids too young and kept doing it now she’s having a mental breakdown
The way she keeps saying sorry. It's appernt she has been through some kind of abuse.
Rightt! People never know the background of others & immediately judge. She’s finally telling her story & yet this interviewer asking the right questions BUT it’s like this interviewer is so nonchalant to her situation.. in MY OPINION.
@@deanbradestine3093so gave them to foster care where the threat of molestation is very high.
She didnt just HAVE children. She literally explained that she was SA'd and that was the result of her first 2 kids.
Its disgusting that people keep overlooking that part.
Raped at 15 wow . My sister was raped and she hasn't gotten over it has fell apart at 55. This lady should not be interviewing her. She is clearly unstable from severe rape and abuse. And this is from a therapist.
Her Lies will be exposed And everything she say will be held against her. Damn SHAME! Her story dont add up... she wa twd to abort, she dont want her kids, she running around interviewing to be VIRAL! Disgraceful Mothers and other women Make any excuses to EXCUSE the poor decision making. Now the children will suffer...either way! Either with mom or in foster care. She is selfiah!
I'm feeling the same way it's really disgusting and disturbing
She’s being accused of killing the father of her 3rd baby the “coke head” she’s talking about
@@liismaarii8450whaaat? 😳
@@liismaarii8450 yes, that. They took her kids from her for a year during that time. She's leaving out so much
I’m a single mom with two kids and I don’t know how I’m doing it. It takes a lot to tell people you can’t handle it.
She screaming victim constantly meanwhile she got a vape in her hand. Grow up and take care those kids. Those poor kids gonna know what’s right because of how much they’ve been wronged this is ridiculous
Nails too...can't keep her damn shirt closed
Having a vape in her hand ? Really lol ridiculous it could be for her nerves. The interviewer been blowing the whole time and that’s what you pulled out? 😂😂
No sin is greater than the other Amen😊💛 🙏🏾 🙌🏾
You guys asking what the vapes got to do with it? It shows that she doesn't take this as seriously as this is. What do her kids get to calm themselves through this? Everything in their lives just got flipped!
@@denisereyes1509yeah I know, everyone’s calling the interviewer callous and judgmental, she has the same demeanour in each interview, it’s her personality, everyone’s become such snowflakes recently, it’s all about “feelings” I’m sick of hearing it
This is sad. I had 3 kids and no matter what I stuck out the hard times. This generation is unreal
Same ❤when I was 16 I had my first one & then 17 their like twins now my kids are 17,16, 14&7 I dk what I would di with out mine
I’m with you I had one child at 19, and another one at 22. I was a single parent in Los Angeles for 7 years. Never once thought about giving them up. By the way both of my parents were deceased so I I had no help, but figured it out.
Every generation is unreal . Let’s be fr
She literally said that she was raped like 3 times how in the hell did yall miss that?? omg. Your situation is not hers. We gotta stop comparing ourselves to others as you probably wouldn't have survived all that she has.
Her rape story not adding up🤥🤥🤥🤥
When people come from childhood trauma or have a mental illness asking them why is pointless. In that moment they don't know why. It's not until they heal they understand why they did the things they did. She deserves Grace. She needs on going counseling and support. She's not bad as people trying to make her to be.
Saying her kids understand and she can hardly grasp or understand life blows me.. I truly pray for her and those kids ❤
She’s severely depressed. Stressed and anxious so sad for those children they don’t deserve this
Yesss she does..she needs healing ❤
Is Elle high? She looks and sounds dipped. If she’s using, especially as a mother, she doesn’t have room to say anything to anyone.
This other chick has nothing but excuses.
She is from NY and I think lives in LA. It’s legal in both states pookie boo 😂 😻
And literally in her video she talks about shrooms 😂
That pill definitely kicked in..had to take something to get through this interview
She is FULLL of excuses dear lord . She sounds like my BD - so
Much but …. But ….. but
Have u been raped? I hope not, if not u have no clue what that does how it pretty much the rest of your life ur affected by that, on top of she got pregnant from the rape, what that did mentally and emotionally to her I have no clue but I’m certain it did have an affect, then when u go years of not healing that type of trauma it turns into mental health issues, so many today lack empathy and that’s sad
As a mom who lives in Ohio….. I’ve never had my childcare, medical, or stamps taken unless you DONT recert & provide pay stubs🤔. I know a trifling “mom” with 6 kids, pregnant, & no job who gets free childcare cash/food assistance🤔. It sounds like a bunch of excuses….
Exactly ty
My mother did my brothers and myself the same way. In 1973 she gave myself and my four brothers away to foster care our ages were 2,3,4,5,6 and never tried to get us back. I finally met my mother when I was 38 and she acted like she did nothing wrong no apology or im sorry. I am 52 now with no relationship with her.
I'm so sorry. Do you have a relationship with your brothers at least ?
This was hard to listen to. She blames everyone/everything but herself
I heard her say she messed up. She’s not perfect. But she has taken accountability. She’s very misguided, worldly. Needs Jesus and lots of therapy and off social media.
Im a single mom of 3 raised them on my own their father passed 13 years ago it its hard when u dont have a support system never judge someone especially if u havent been in their shoes not everyone has a good and a bad choice sometimes u have 2 choose between 2 bad choices and make a decision be more compassionate and understanding towards others u dont have to agree with it but learn to be open to others
Amen 😊 💛 🙏🏾 🙌🏾
I’m proud of u
I get it now. She lost control of herself and now everything is catching up to her. She is trying to get help. I remember losing control, getting exhausted, then making excuses because I’m tired mentally. But I pray she matures spiritually mentally and emotionally. I get it I come from that dark place
Amen 😊 💛 🙏🏾 🙌🏾
Terrible story! Dysfunction at the highest level. Praying for the children! I hope this young lady learns to be accountable and gets real help.
She seems like a very sweet girl. It's crazy that she wasn't able to receive any help even from the government. That must have been so frustrating for her with all those children. She genuinely seems sad about the hand she's been dealt with in life and that she doesn't actually want to give her children away. I do believe this is temporary. In fact, the internet will make sure it is. I hope she gets all the support she's been lacking up till now
I think she will too. It seems like she exhausted all resources and couldn't get help and just didn't know how else to get someone's attention for that help. Govt help is bs and extremely difficult to get and the host I don't think can understand that cause shes never had to struggle financially so she will never understand that part. I really hope she does what she says and gets the babies back n proves everyone wrong. I do understand not wanting to go back to dancing even though Elle says it does pay your bills but she's a girl that has been SA and being around those type of men that's in those clubs is triggering for a person that's been through that.
Women like you are the reason why horrible ones like the one in this video will continue living such lifestyles. Absolutely NO accountability-none whatsoever ! It’s sick !
BS! it is not hard to get government assistance especially w that many little kids @kristene6985
The interviewer has wayyyyyy too much Botox !!
@@kristene6985I am a single woman with no kids and i agree the govt resources, to even get approved is ridiculous. I just forgot about her abuse situation and the reason why she wouldn’t want to be around those men at the strip clubs.. you made a good point that it can be triggering for her.
This is the most disturbing video I’ve ever watched
Yep horrible
This woman is obviously fragile and needs love and support. She knows she made a mistake and had kids when she wasn't ready. She clearly can't turn back time. I wish I could hug her and tell her I'm sorry for what she's been through. Not bash her and give additude.
She wants to be the victim. No accountability.
Exactly I know I wasn’t tripping
Well with truly no accountability she would have aborted 5 time in a row instead. Least she gave birth although yes it probably would have been better to be on some kind of bitrh control. Usually people learn their lesson after doing something once....
@@erickwalker11 if she would have gotten abortions that definitely doesn’t mean she wouldn’t have accountability…obviously she was raped in the beginning. Somebody should have helped her and teach her she doesn’t HAVE to have kids if she’s not ready. Abortion is a choice, every woman has that option they just need the support.
Welp She has plenty of free time and quiet time now with zero kids to study for the fake test she’s talking about
😂
Lol exactly
Except she has an excuse for EVERYTHING.
My exact thoughts
I salute this woman please pray for her this girl need us not us talking about her but us supporting her 💕💕
From everything she's said on social media seems like she's always had help with her kids. She's seems upset that her support system wants a break or wants to be compensated for having her kids for days at a time. She took them to CPS as a punishment to those people. They didn't need to go to CPS. She's selfish and don't really want her kids.
Maybe she need to stop living in her fake make believe mind, get off social media and grow up wow she is annoying on a whole other level
Yes she’s lying
💯💯💯
She's getting all the clout she wanted off of this situation. Maybe once her 15 minutes of "fame" is over she'll get it together.
Yeah, I agree. She's was super annoying, all over the place with her stories. She doesn't articulate her words when she's talking. And the host had me cracking up, you can tell she was annoyed by her too. Lol, anyways, I'm glad I wasn't the only one who found her annoying.
@@courtneyp.9421yes she is. Let's see what she does with this clout money.... wonder if she'll get her kids back.
It's a whole lot of, um so like this & that. Each story is everywhere.. Idk feels off. God, please bless these babies with their needs & wants🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
I hope these babies are safe & loved!!!!!
Yes, May the Lord Yeshua look after the little ones and may He help this woman break the generational curses that plague her 🙏🕊🌈
As a person that lives in her city she’s lying a lot and the way she jokes about giving them up on social media has no bounds
🧐🧐 you rightttt
There is no accountability and she plays the victim to much....
Absolutely
She stated several times where she messed up and was just living the way she wanted to live. She needs to get lots of help when she’s ready. If she ever will be.
Exactly
Not a parent and scroll thru the “regretful parents” subreddit daily. Just to keep myself on track 😊
Did this girl say a plan b and birth control cancel eachother out??? 😂😂😂😂😂 so that’s how she got pregnant again 😂😂😂
And why would she need a plan b if she was on birth control in the first place ? 🤨😂
Why didn’t anyone help her with her shirt?
not one pin in sight !
For views. They could have paused it for her.
Dont feel sorry 4 her she could have put every child up for adoption right after having them.. how is she smiling through this interview??
Sometimes I laugh instead of crying. I think it’s a coping mechanism.
Giving one child up for adoption is not easy imagine doing it to 5 kids. I was SA and choose adoption it wasn't easy .
My question is what’s the difference? They are still split up and she still doesn’t have them. At least they know who their family is and will be able to come back for them
@@flybyky820bc they had time to bond with the mom and the other siblings. That’s more traumatizing than not knowing them from the jump
You clearly didn’t listen at all
As a woman who learned the reality of her family at 23. I can only imagine the pain your children will feel when they see this.
❤Sending them more love than their heart can hold, I see love surrounding them. ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
This woman is in crisis. This heartbreaking. I pray God protects her kids. 🙏❤️
I genuinely feel bad for her bc she is a productive of her environment and she is suffering for her bad decisions and parental mismanagement. However, I can tell there are a lot of mistruths in this story . I know how death benefits work and that is not the truth. I know for a fact how this works in the legal field and she does not need his mom and if she did she can be court ordered. Baby girl needs to be honest.
Sigh… she is delusional. Modeling & music? Not to mention she has an excuse for everything. Lack of accountability
If she could make up too 100-200k and she misses her kids….testing anxiety wouldn’t stop her. This sounds like lazy drug behavior
The best thing you can do for someone in her predicament …connect her with resources
I agree a lot of delusion and not taking responsibility going on here. I think all states may be different I remember on that show teen mom, fayrah tried to get social security for daughter and she was denied and the denial letter from SS said the mother of the father denied it because the father never acknowledged the child as his own before he died. She even had the dna test and everything so she was fighting the parental grandmother for death benefits. She ended up getting it like years later but idk if it’s bc the grandmother finally agreed to it or she won in court. I think they wanted visitation so maybe they agreed. So I think she may be telling the truth there. You can see that teen mom clip online of her reading the denial letter.
@@brittanyadams217 I don’t remember her situation but it’s likely she needed to take additional legal steps . I don’t remember the exact case I had but she had to establish paternity (through a court order) so she could provide it to SSA
The interviewer made me turn this video off , just judging this girl as if you’re the jury and she’s on trial the shade is real… if you can’t be impartial you should not be doing interviews !
Come on somebody, someone that has common sense. I just lefy a comment and hopefully she sees it because this is just so wrong in so many ways. She suppose to give her a platform to tell her story and have a heart posture of Christ or dont simply have her on. This young lady is battling with demonic forces and its a spiritual warfare thats going on. She needs to be careful and give God the glory that its jot her Amen😊💛 🙏🏾 🙌🏾
The kids are the victim not this grown woman
The interviewer is great. The girl who left her kids is a mess
I agree , I feel as though she (the host) should’ve left her emotions out of the interview and just ask the questions she needed to ask. The person being interviewed isn’t perfect, but she sounds like judge Judy just dry judging…….giving mean girl
I think this little girl really just has no idea what she's doing and needs guidence, a mentor. I grew up with so many women like this. They're just lost because they don't know any better. I needed a good cry. Her and her babies will be in my prayers🙏🏼
When you asked her aren’t you afraid of what’s gonna happen to them in foster care & she answered w no because I know who they’re with but truth is you never truly know someone & what they’re capable of. The people who have hurt me as a kid are people that I thought I could trust.
I don’t like how this interviewer asks questions
Me either it’s annoying and I also don’t like her energy towards her either it’s pityful !
I don't like how she vapes and blows the smoke at her
I truly appreciate you sm as a woman… you are so real.. and respectful.. I feel the love ❤
As a single mommy of 3 and one with autism, I feel deeply for her. God does give us grace, everyone shoulda coulda woulda these situations but you don’t know unless your exactly in the same experience to the T- with her background, you can see she’s deeply rooted in trauma.
she is lying...if she is 15....he couldn't be older than 19/20..she said he didn't meet the 5 year mark...he couldn't have been 21/22 bc that would be 6/7 years
Thanks. That was bugging me
I wish the interviewer was a little more understanding or come off with a bit more compassion. 😢 This young woman has her reasons, and she just did what she knew HOW to ASK for HELP!! She loves her children ENOUGH to ask for help!!
❤❤❤I wish I knew or was able to help her financially!!! However, God is knocking, let's lift her in our prayers, rather than DRAG her
I’m actually surprise girl didn’t go off on her. Interviewer needs to show more compassion. Just rude!
I TOTALLY AGREE WITH YALL!! Not throwing shade on the interviewer... I'm sure she's just asking questions that everyone else is asking.
She looks exhausted... Poor thing...
I have 4 kids, put myself through RN school, and passed my NCLEX! If you’re hungry enough for it…. You gonna go get it 👏🏼
My mom did the same thing and Is a NP now
Congratulations you was blessed to make it out unscathed. Did you have a support system? Did you have your kids father for help?
Very few women can work, go to school, and take care of 4 kids alone . The cost of daycare alone will eat you alive..
I try to council young women try your hardest not to have children out of wed lock.
Do not have more children that you can afford on your own in your financial present state.
If life goes left, women get stuck, holding the bag every time. 😢
@@kimberlymcdonald7405 Yes, you can not go to RN school with 4 children and work full time without a support system and I know this first hand as I am in nursing school right now with only one child! Clinicals are all day and school is all day. I have my grandmother and my husband to help me out!
@@kimberlymcdonald7405I was married for 5 years and was with my sons dad for 7 you can do everything right and become a single mom and have to start over after being a stay at home wife. Ultimately it is the man’s choice to stay.’
Good for YOU. She is not you.
Why is it 27-year-old mother of five talking about modeling and music.
😂😂😂😂😂
EXACTLY
She has arrested development. Hearing her talk, I would have thought she was about 15 years old. Her mind hasn't matured
I said the same thing why out of all careers
Still stuck in a teenager's mindset
All I hear is excuses , as a mother of 3 boys with no parents I did everything to make sure my kids don't grow up in a broken home , this is beyond sad to say you don't want your kids 😢
Same! The lack of accountability is WILD! Also notice how she never speaks about how all this clowning behaviour she never once said “it was hard on my kids, being this unstable, and having men in and out of their lives” nah, it’s all “me me me me” . The selfishness is crazzyyyyy. You watch she will for sure have another kid to some bozo!
Exactly
I’m not a parent but in order to be good parent don’t you need to take care of yourself. Not saying her situation is right just asking
And if she ain’t great wasn’t it better for her to let them go where they be loved and cared for
@@Babylah-cy9ho I can agree with you on that. Yes! But what Elle was getting at, is that this woman has made terrible choice after terrible choice. She doesn’t even know the people she left some of her kids with. She hasn’t seen them in years and who knows who has access to those kids. That’s how babies get molested! Because of these very scenarios!
I have second hand embarrassment with this one. Praying for those babies, their mother isn’t equipped. That’s the problem.
@@PiscesYam amen 🙏!
Its really hard to be a mom. And a single mom is even harder. At least this mother didn't kill her kids like many you end up seeing on the news. She did the right thing in the situation and mental state that she was in. 5 kids is very overwhelming I'm sure.
But why didn't she get on birth control
i can’t sit thru this 😫 it’s cringey
so she can't figure out transportation to work every day, but she can for all these lil interviews she's been doing..🤔 she's too busy coming up with excuses to actually try. sad af.
& nails stay done also … hmmmm makes you wonder right?
My thoughts
This is for the host. If you are going to interview someone, have compassion and not judge. You brought this woman on to make her look like a fool. It may not be your hard time but everyone goes through trails. Encourage another woman. Because there is going to be a time where you need grace.
She made herself look like a fool, she didn’t need the host for that
You took the words right out my mouth…she’s a complete clown
Amen grace amen, we all mess up and we all look like a fool in Gods eyes.. we’re supposed to carry each other burdens… the host is being to harsh making her nervous I’m sure the girl regrets being on the show ..
The host was so hard to listen too -
Fuck no. That host was not having it just like most of us!! That woman IS a fool and she should know better to do these interviews.
I don't believe a single word she say's, I can tell a liar when I see one and she's narsissistic with it
Plan b and birth control does not cancel each other out. “I was just being irresponsible” should have been her answer. These types need to get implants.
Exactly because even if you take it because you missed a dose of your BC you still have to resume taking your BC.
The hormonal cocktail can conflict with each other you don't realize it's a delicate balance to initiate each phase
@femdivinemind7777 it would trip out your hormones but there's a zero percent change you would get pregnant from taking both of them.
If a woman is on birth control there shouldn't be any reason to take a plan B in first place
I have had 2 kids this exact same way. Plan B does NOT work.
I’m not going to judge a broken misguided woman. I really hope she finds the self worth and love within herself to get her babies. She did what she thought was best regardless. We never know where our mental will take us. This why u see a uprise in child murders because the mental break these mothers have or trying to bring a father figure around. Listen I’m not here to judge those tears.
Edit: Only thing I can’t f with is saying she didn’t want them
Edit again: How don’t u trust the dad?? But carried his child for 9months? I just got questions not judging just wondering
I am.....Yall do it to men. She ain't No different! Best to admit you just don't want your child. Instead make up all these lies. Damn SHAME. She is a Disgrace of a Momma. Too many women champion this ignorant shit coming out her mouth. She wants to be VIRAL! That's It!
Nothing wrong with judging. It protects you from nonsense in the long run.
@@UniversalStand yea we can judge what is apparent to us.
I totally agree. She says they were everything she wanted she can't accept the fact that she didn't want them and was savagely irresponsible. Do the work and figure this shit out god had plans for her and she has not obliged ❤😢
People in these comments judging this girl. But people are leaving their 3 year olds at home to go on vacation!!! I command her having the awareness…This could have ended much worse! Generational Trauma is so real !
Awareness after 5 children that now are stuck in foster care...?
Girl take the test while it’s fresh in ur head! I did medical assistant trust me. Been one for 20yrs
You asked really good questions, very sensible questions, this is a very good interview as in the way you showing us exactly whats going on. Clever.
It’s a super sad situation, especially for the kids….Because they didn’t ask to be here :( But honestly she made the right decision giving up her kids to CPS…You hear to many horrible stories of parents murdering there kids ….. Right now she is unable to provide the love and care her kids need and deserve right now 🙏🏻 Praying for her kids!
Accountability has gone out the window now and days me me me lmfao
So many women who struggle with infertility… life isn’t fair.
YES!!!! This woman is selfish. It truly breaks my heart.
That’s a different topic, it’s has nothing to do with this. Take that up with God.
Yeh that’s krazy how many woman want so desperately to be a mother and here she is just throwing her blessings away !! So sad
We can not continue to allow our young girls to be so easily Manipulated!
She takes no accountability
None...look at what she's wearing.. she isnstill advertising. Smh
@@maryuhh89that is very predatory and disgusting of you to say.
How? She is taking accountability by working to better herself so they can get in a better situation.
@@darkwitchie4527 its not. It’s the truth. She could wear ANY other dressed up thing that covers her chest. I don’t want to see what color her bra is. Predatory means I like it and I don’t. Learn the English language oh “smart” one. You’re the type of person to commit a crime and then call the cop racist for arresting you.
And she’s not being accountable. She had 5 children with different fathers. Then created more trauma to them by rejecting them. People who grow up without a parent KNOWING that parent didn’t want them makes it harder for them. She raised them n then gave them up and now is on podcast showing her bra acting like she has humility.
@@darkwitchie4527 What is the meaning of the word predatory?
: inclined or intended to injure or exploit others for personal gain or profit
How am I gaining anything from HER disgusting outfit?
One thing I can say is I appreciate her honesty and ability to admit to where she’s at. We have seen time and time again parents killing all of their kids during a mental breakdown and every one says why didn’t they reach out why didn’t that hand them off to family or CPS and get help.
Despite of her inconsistencies she made the best decision for her children at this time. Hopefully, she can get the help she needs aside from employment and housing to fully be able to parent her babies.
It's hard enough without kids. I could not imagine having kids especially this day and age. This is one of the most honest conversations with a young parent. To admit openly that you don't want your kids is damning. I'm in no way condoning this, but I am glad that she is honest. People need to stop acting like parenthood is the hugest blessing when all I see are parents struggling daily. It's fucked.
I'm a mother of 4 their was killed a year ago. His death brought me and my daughters closer than I would've ever imagined. It's really how you deal with trauma, an if you choose to keep fighting. Prayers for her children 🙏🏽
Question of the hour.. Is a toxic biological parent being “there” more beneficial than being non - existent & not ever knowing that toxic parent… She is clearly a victim of abuse & continues to choose bad decisions from irrational choices due to exposure to toxic behaviors, lack of support, healthy love, & merely surviving in this chaotic life…having sexual relationships with men who never knew how to love her… having children while you already don’t know how to love yourself or anyone else is bound to put u in situations that you & your child will lose. I’ve seen many women have mental breakdowns & just give up regardless if there is someone who needs us or not. I commend her for speaking on her inabilities…. Not allowing this situation to define you but build you is where it counts. Get yourself right or winning your babies back may not be an option…. Our children are our future & in order to break these curses…. We have to teach & be the change we want to see through them. Life is full of possibilities & we are prisoners of our own mind… we have no time for excuses but need to fight through the struggle and remember our purpose and live everyday to be our best and most present versions of ourselves to help each other build and survive in the chaotic world we live in🙏💪
Props to the host, u asked every question I wanted to hear and I’m definitely going to try those one hits cause of my RA.. I do not judge her r anyone but would like to point out she didn’t use abortion as a birth control and gave her kids the greatest gift of life, my life was messed but still grateful I had one, life isn’t easy.. prayers to this young family that they can b together soon❤
I truly feel sorry for her 💔 and my heart breaks for her babies. They will need DEEP healing to break this generational curse. Being a mother is hard AF and often times thankless but we gotta stick it out for our children ❤️ I hope she gets herself what she needs to raise those babies
She is not all the way there 😢
How can’t no one see threw her everything that is coming out of her mouth is a lie
We don’t know if she’s lying. She just has a hard time articulating
@@liffdoggshe 100% lying about getting pregnant on birth control AND plan b.
@liffdogg she is lying...1st guy she said in the state the law was 5 yrs...if she was 15..he couldn't be 21 or 22 and not be under the 5 yr makr...he had to be 19 /20
@@catherinehanson1106ok so you’re upset it wasn’t statutory r*pe. Plain old r*pe is okay??? Tf are y’all even talking about.
Shit is pissing me she is lying
When said Modeling and Music.. I almost fell out ….Wow I had to go hug my mom after this because this is wild 😅