Shes lucky cuz her parents can see that she is abandoned, while my parents cannot understand they always pick my young sibling cuz they say when u are the oldest you should have alot of sacrifice, yes thats right, but maybe give some love to the oldest so they can live a happy life and they can love you too, "if you cannot be a good parent then be"
Right, at least they could ask the child how they feel, but of course the youngest child gets the best view of attention which is not fair and so upsetting:(
My parents hate me. I'm the one they always get mad at. They have no expectations for me. They love everyone. And once we were at the table and they were picking favorites and no one picked me. And I told them that and my mom laughed and went to her room....she treats my little sister like the favorite alot more now
My little sister gets away with everything and I feel so stressed and she treats me like a servant, I just want things to be normal. But for me, nothing will ever be normal. My stepdad touches me like I’m his toy and he yells at me for no reason and I just want to feel normal 😔
Sometimes I question myself “ is there something wrong with me?” I never felt a love from a parent I always look at my siblings they always get “ your amazing sweetie” “ I love so so so much” but no one has ever said that to me I always get the “ good job” but nothing else. Sometimes I wish I was aborted... one time they went on a road trip but only my older two brothers and little sister went they left me at my grandparents house I soon was Abandoned by my parents and my guardians are my grandparents and well it’s hard being happy I’m not that talkative or social
Ahh I wish I could give u a hug I never I never had a good live I maybe happy but I am depressed alot when I see my parents only give hug to my sis and I feel left out coz I had to stop my college and had to find a job..
This brings so much sadness to me. As a kid, my parents would constantly favour my brother, they would sometimes serve dinner to my brother but not me and yelled very nasty words and even death threats. My dad didn’t even show up to my graduation and other high school events. This made me very sad and if I ever have children one day, I will always make sure to treat them both equally bc I know how this feels.
Oh my! You don't deserve this! Just remember, one day your own children WILL love you. They will surround you and hug you because you and their siblings are their only family. I don't like how parents do this and it is definitely not good.
I tried everything.. did everything.. to make them proud.. but my sister would get all the love without effort.. sometimes i feel dumb that im trying this much.. i wonder why wont they look at me.. they would never scold my sister even when she disrespect me.. i would always offer to accompany my parents and help them in any way.. and i never get anything in return.. but when i ask for small requests they would question it so much.. and i ended up not getting it. My sister wouldnt have to do much effort since she would get anything she asks for. I even went on a diet and was always unhappy of my weight because my mom kept saying i was fat and i would look better skinny.. she would always ask me to stop eating. Whenever they ordered food they wouldnt ask me what i wanted.. and whenever i ask why they never ordered me food they would say its because i was on a diet anyways so they dont bother asking.. i jokingly said "haha save cost, daily food only for 3 people" :) im not trying to leave negative energy.. i just wanted to share a little and release all my sadness.. i hope yall can understand
@@hycecille402 m overweight too n m always verbally abused by my parents that kind off breaks me , n m often compared to my sibling . Ifeel pain dat can't b explained. Bt I won't give up cause d pain I feel today will lead to my success tommorow
As the eldest child I can relate I feel that my mom loves my brother more than me but I feel my dad loves me and my brother the same and I feel my mom always blames me when something is wrong
They probably do this because they want their younger child to experience what it was like to be an only child but because of it, its making the oldest child like they are nothing
@@rubyskylorrose because they saw how she acted when the little sister asked for more rice and the big sister didn't give it to her even though it was right next to her. At that moment the parents knew that they needed to talk to her and the father insisted on eating ice cream after because he noticed.
@@rubyskylorrose they didn't know what the problem was exactly, but they did know that there was one. That's why the dad suggested eating ice cream. Of course, I'm just going off of what we see in this small clip.
Yes, absolutely. I am watching this video with eyes full with tears. It's okay to tear up. Absolutely normal. I am your bestie,you can talk to me about anything and everything ❤. Waiting for a cute reply from u ... Btw, I am a 13 yrs old girl.
Damn my mom told me 6/5 years ago that she likes my younger brother more than she ever loved me,she randomly told me that ,i didn't even asked her ,those words were so painful to me back then,i used to cry everyday feeling like shit,til this day she likes him more even tho he is yelling at her ,he is mean to her ,he doesnt even care about her ,but she giving him all the attention,she always want to hug him and talks to him ,and when he is in a good mood which is really rare she is like happiest person in the world ,she laughs and even tho he is not funny at all,while with me she is always serious,she never hugged me, i can count on fingers of one hand how many times she hugged me whole this life,when i wanted to talk with her she often says "not now", "you are boring" ,"dont bother me now", "go check what your brother is playing or go to your room" ,etc...so i litterly whole these years havent talk with her like a normal people do ,we just greet say what we will eat and thats all conversation ,except when she talks about negative things, like when i dont do something right for example i cant find some thing and she tells me how stupid i am ,that i will never suceed in life cuz im stupid,etc...she litteraly never said something like that to my brother but me ,like why ? Why ,i dont do anything bad,i always listen and do everything that she says,clean house,make food for my lazy brother when she is at work,throw trash etc... While my brother plays game whole day and dont do anything at all but only yelling at her and stuff ,when she buys something like cake or chocolate ,she only asks my brother if he wants ,she doesnt care about me at all. My brother also have dad (he is to me step dad) so they both love him the same ,and my stepdad(his dad) and me are really distanced because we dont know what to talk about and he is naturally cold person except to those people he has closer contact like mom and my brother ,and i never had real dad in my life and i didnt even lived with my mom i only come here 3 months every year to visit them cuz they live in another country ,so i live whole my life with my granny and she is the best and like my real mom.... damn bro i am glad im an adult now so im not sensitive like before ,so i dont fcking care anymore i litterly dont give shit at all i just wrote this cuz im bored and also to share my story btw sorry for my bad english
why do i feel like my mom is like this.. getting shouted at bcs she is telling me that im the on who made my brother cry. but she doesnt even know that my brother js crying for LITERALLY NO REASON. that is also the reason why i feel like my mom loves my brother the most.
Doesn’t apply for me, when I was in primary school I always think that the reason why parent’s favour my older sister more it’s due to her preparation for college. But now I soon realize it’s just a form of favoritism
Feel ko rin yan, Yung parang pinangak kalang para itrato na stranger ng sarili mong magulang. Kahit man lang tanongin kalang kung okay kalang ba maghapon or ano man ang ginawa mo wala pa. Kahit man lang tawagin para sabay kumain hindi pa nila magawa. Pati narin pag weekends di man sila mag laan ng oras para sa lahat ng family kasi may isang pabor sa kanila. Kahit na mag kasakit ka bigyan kalang pambili ng gamot para lang daw maagapan pero kahit i care man lang ay wala pa. Sa birthday di mo feel kasi wala sila sa bahay para icelebrate.
I just.. for once i wanna feel loved. I have a half sister and brother they're my dad's favorite and my lil brother is my mom & dad's favorite both sides of my Grandparents they're fav are my siblings. My friends they have their own favorites also not any single of them choose me. So Where will I place myself?
In your heart. I know it’s so damn hard. my family hates me so damn much and I will never be a place in their hearts. who cares? even though it’s the pain in the ass we can’t escape. so I place myself in my heart. if you ever want to talk you can here:)
As an older child in the family. I always get treated like trash, my parents love my baby nephew more than me and give him kisses and worse is, my nephew is my mom's favorite grandson and i'm crying and my mom always think that i'm jealous, selfish, moron, and asshole it shows that my mom loved my nephew more than me. Pls parents, love your child equally and don't show the other child favoritism.
I know a lot of our elders say what are parents are doing is for the best, but that’s not always true. If they were actually treating us like this for the best, then we wouldn’t feel depressed, stressed or sad.
I also suffer from this problem, my family treats me differently and hates me. Do not say that I have an illusion because I have lived in this situation for 17 years and I cannot bear it any longer. I want to get out of this house. I want to stay away from my family. They do not care. Sometimes I wonder if I did something wrong? I have not done anything and I will never be able to feel the love of a mother or a father in my life. I have tried everything and I have tried a lot to make them love me and I always do all the housework to make them happy but no matter what I do they will not love me as they love my brothers, I have tried a lot and now I have decided to hate them too that is easier for me so that I do not feel sad any more.
This made me happy and then I realized that it’s not me and I was sad again. I’m the youngest and my mom only focuses on what my brother does right and what I do wrong and honestly I think that’s why I am so like enclosed.
That's literally me too...every little thing i do i always get yelled at and the way she always looked at me...everytime i argue with my mom it always make me feel like it's my fault...They always give the attention to my brother everytime she asked a question the first person she will turn to is my brother she never asked for my opinions.
@@ayo7285 definitely not, them not wanting me, made me want myself even more. so I hope you love yourself even though people don’t. I’m here with you so never forget that:)
@@yannylaurel4 honestly yes , I do love myself . People who go through stuff like that usually grow depressed or sad but it was quite the opposite for me 🥺❤ anyways thankyou I'm there for you too ❤🥺
@@Senntimelz and the sad thing they try and fail to hide it . but im better now we should be thankful to have life whether people want us or not love yourself 😊💫
I'm glad the parents of the older girl favourite her for SOMETHING. My parents always chose my brother over me, whether it was shopping, going to movies, helping with computers, or even organising, which is my favourite thing to do. My birthday falls on Jan 2 and my parents didn't celebrate it, because they were tired from the new year and said they would bring me a cake and let me get a friend from a different neighborhood to our house on my brothers birthday, which is Feb 15. On his birthday, he declined that i would get anything cuz he wanted all the attention. He is older but that also means he's stronger than me. So when he hits me it hurts, when i fight back however it barely hurts him but he just starts calling my mom and she calls me a asshole and when i try calling her to help me, she tells me to stop being a baby and never scolds him. My grades are also much better than his, I got a 97% and my brother got a 76%. My heart goes out to anyone who is experiencing being a less favourite child.💗
This is what happened to me in my childhood. I died by jealousy with sibling . I was bullied in school . Teachers beat me a lot . Parents scold me . They abused me infront of relatives. My whole childhood and teenage was messed up like this . Even today i can see effect of such things in my life . Getting a good parenting is very necessary.
The gifts part is very relatable, BUT instead of 1, my parents bought alot (like 4-7 in total just for me and my brother) and i have 2-3 and my brother has the rest
Omg i found it! Finally a vid i can relate to, yesh i feel like how carla felt, its always one child who is treated differently from the other, in my case my sister is treated as the favorite and it makes me jealous! Aw i wish all children could be treated equally with respect and kindness like shown in the video, thankyou:)
This has been me my entire life, My siblings are athletic and competitive and I just stay out of the way. I'm the only one who does dishes, trash and other chores and my hobby is video games and theater instead of sports. My mom has missed most of my theater performances but she religiously goes to softball with my sister and i've been ignored my whole life.
My mom doesn't hate me but she definitely doesn't like me as a person..... I swear if we were strangers she would openly admit how much she hates me, but its funny how much she loathes me really
Indeed favoritism can destroy families, dahil kapag may batogan sa pamilya at favorite ng parents diyan na magsimula ang pag-wasak ng pamilya.... Im a parent now with two kid, Im told my wife that we should not have a favorite at all cost kasi nakita kuna sa dalawa kung mata kung paano nasira ang buhay ng dalawang kung uncle. Dahil sila ang favorite at tinotolerate na ang mga di mabuting gawain nila.... Isa pa jan ang favorite or spoiled child nananakit din yan sila ng magulang..
I can relate. My dads hate me but welllll i dont really care but i do feel bad but at least i have my mom ill move out to a dorm next year anyways - ill miss my mom
Natatandaan ko nung commercial palang to sa TV bata pa lang ako na ka relate na ko kase ate ako sobrang iniyak ko yun pero ngayon na yung pinag seselosan ko na kapated na laging sya nalang, laging maganda,. Laging bago damet, lageng napapansen, lageng hindi maarte is nag kahiwalay na kame kase kinuha sya ng papa nya 7 years na ata nun nung di na kame nagkikita miss na miss ko na sya babawi si Ate promise ko pag nakapag tapos na ko mag kakasama na tayo
You can say that favoritsm is hard.. but having no sibling is terrible. yes! you may always get attention.. but all the tasks are up on u. what do u think will happen when ur parents die? who'll be there for you? yes you can say friends. but what if ur friend already has a family? Trust me. Its better to have someone than having none at all. When ur only child everything is carried on you. and u will feel pressured all the time bc people expect u to be good and be at ur very best. U can say no one will compare but. no. even if there's no comparison you will automatically be pressured. bc u want to meet ur parents and everyones expectation of u. You can hate me or what ever but. Its better to have a sibling rather than having none..
Never do that again.You don't need to sacrifice your life for the people who don't love you! Enjoy your life.After you die your parents may miss you but after few days it will be back to normal there's no use doing this
Its all because of the favoritism,I know my younger siblings don't do anything wrong but when my parents favor them alot,I honestly get really jealous,and I hate it.
After my baby sister was born I was like invisible to them and they would aways give attention to her sometimes in my bed I cry because of that I feel left out.
Yung babaeng matangkad yung carla siya yung sumali sa Eat Bulaga Little Miss Philippines 2012 diba??????? Franchesca E. Antonio real name niya GRABE NAG GLOW UP SIYA SANA ALL 😭🤚
Bro talaga may parent ako ganito, si Daddy lang yung ginagawa niya, kapatid ko lang siya ay favorite. Pero namatay na si Papa nung 2007. At tas happily, good life na kami ng mommy ko at 2 kapatid ko :).
My mom always tends to treat my brother better, such as he get's away with more things than i can, i'm the only one doing chores in the house, never get any attention and i'm the only one that my mom get's mad at.
Searching "when you feel disposable because you have many siblings" and this came up....looool....hindi na-settle yung issue..oh well ice cream ad lang kasi. Hope parents make efforts to communicate wth their children
When I was young, I always pitied kids who had parents that did favouritism. Now I’m 18 and finally realised that I am one of those kids. My little sister was always the centre stage. I could never be as smart as her. I was always in the last class. Even my grandparents ever only looked at her. I hate her. I hate everyone. I hate this stupid life.
Yeah my siblings is the favourite for shopping, going out, having fun, to joke around with, to buy gifts and high expectations while their favourite to me is they can use like their slave, ignore, blame me and disappointment….great 👍🏻
Ahh ok my mum is different she will kill for us but she wont take it that far but if someone bullys us we need to tell straight after we get home from school or she wont care
If only people looked the way we oldest experience things. I always feel bad and jealous of my little sister. She gets all the attention all the love all the things. And then I feel bas that I am jealous of my own sister. she is great but my father just prefers her over me he always says me see how she studies so well is so excellent in maths. I hope I was loved that way too. I cried so many times at night alone because of all this. I too want to be loved
I'm the youngest and my older siblings always talk bad about me and when I told my dad and mom I ended up getting grounded because I told them and want them to get in trouble..
Nakakarelate ako. I even wished before na sana pinanganak na lang akong lalaki para naappreciate ng mom ko na mabait ako kahit lalaki ako. Kc un lagi nya sinasabi about my brother na super proud sya kc kahit lalaki napakabait nya as if napaka impossible mangyari un kaya ang swerte2 nya sa kapatid ko.
I am elder girl in my family but my parents love my brother also my dad also love my brother more the me I don't get the father and daughter love or mother love my brother is lucky ... :)
You got to show your love to favourite child and your parents will give attention (well that my guess) But sometimes for me it feels weird to get attention
As an adult i can confirm but in my case i was small from all of my siblings they were loved cared and their wish was fulfilled they would get new clothes twice a week and i got clothes once a month they even skipped my birthday because my elder sister wanted to go out with her friends i was treated like i was no one my elder brother's and sister's always bully me and if i complain i would get scolded or beated they always leave me home on trips or thanks givin or any festivals because they say that i am a shame the only person who cared about me was my grandma and i thank her for every thing
I am a younger sibling i have a sister she is older than me 6 years, everyone thinks younger siblings get all attention but in my house its the opposite its always my sister that my parents care about they never pressured her as they did to me they never saw my hard work in my sister's case cause she is the favorite no one says anything to her she has travelled to more than 10 places and me i just got to travel like 3 states when i asked them they told its cause your sister is growing up and she needs to study i really wanted to see the qorld and its not like they're poor they have money they spend it all pn my sister they always boast about how good she is and never scold her for losing things but in my case one single mistake they will scold me and sometimes they even scold so badly i love my parents but i dont think they love me
As a middle child I always felt like my old sister and my younger sister were my mom's favorite cuz all my life she treated me like im a afterthought like i don't mean anything to her
My parents have the oldest as their favorite child when i do something bad they yell and scream at me and threat to hit me with the belt and i hate my life so thanks mom and dad 😊 ❤
But my mother is like devil in my life...all bad things happened in my life due to her..she treat me like trash and my mother loves me my older sister more than me..😢
it's usually the younger one that gets treated partially but different for my family. they love the older one who is so lazy (seriously she doesn't even touch her books) and always slap me because I came a little late for prayer time. she can skip school whenever she wants even though she spends most of her day scrolling and i have to have like 3 symptoms.
Reason why I take the school bus : 1. Used the cafetria as study hour in a safer place 2. I don't have here about nagging me of not doing my homework on time especially on Tuesday night when I have an hour of study hall . 3. My mom or dad starting argument. 4. I made better grades then my brother.
I can relate I’m the oldest. I never heard I’m proud of you Or I haven’t had a hug since I was 11 and I’m 14. And if I don’t want food they said “fuck it” they swear to me. My siblings body shame me I can’t eat. I have anxiety I am scared of socializing but they think I have a problem.... DONT SSAY TO ME TO CALL CHILD SERVICES. I’m not in foster care.
Parents please don't pick favourites by doing that you're destroying your family. Love all your children equally.❤️🙏
My parents loved my little brother more than me
@@mimiloganson6137 same here....but we need to stay humble🙏
God has no favorites. He love as all equally before him. He will not accept any person who commit the sin if favoritism.
As if my parents cared…😔
@@mimiloganson6137 same but my older bro😥
Shes lucky cuz her parents can see that she is abandoned, while my parents cannot understand they always pick my young sibling cuz they say when u are the oldest you should have alot of sacrifice, yes thats right, but maybe give some love to the oldest so they can live a happy life and they can love you too, "if you cannot be a good parent then be"
Right, at least they could ask the child how they feel, but of course the youngest child gets the best view of attention which is not fair and so upsetting:(
@@Nini-vj8sw Yes
My parents hate me. I'm the one they always get mad at. They have no expectations for me. They love everyone. And once we were at the table and they were picking favorites and no one picked me. And I told them that and my mom laughed and went to her room....she treats my little sister like the favorite alot more now
ohh❤️
My little sister gets away with everything and I feel so stressed and she treats me like a servant, I just want things to be normal. But for me, nothing will ever be normal. My stepdad touches me like I’m his toy and he yells at me for no reason and I just want to feel normal 😔
@@bluebxrries9937 Call the cops. On your dad.
I’m scared and I’m kinda young
@@bluebxrries9937 ik you are scared. But as soon as you speak up. The sooner everything will be normall.
Sometimes I question myself “ is there something wrong with me?” I never felt a love from a parent I always look at my siblings they always get “ your amazing sweetie” “ I love so so so much” but no one has ever said that to me I always get the “ good job” but nothing else. Sometimes I wish I was aborted... one time they went on a road trip but only my older two brothers and little sister went they left me at my grandparents house I soon was Abandoned by my parents and my guardians are my grandparents and well it’s hard being happy I’m not that talkative or social
Ahh I wish I could give u a hug I never I never had a good live I maybe happy but I am depressed alot when I see my parents only give hug to my sis and I feel left out coz I had to stop my college and had to find a job..
@@anzu2178 I feel sorry for
I can hug u
@@coldtired1902 thank you ;')
@@anzu2178 have a virtual hug dude. I'm sorry that's the most I can do for you right now.
@@foredee8496 ahh ty that is all i need tysm QwQ
In real life, it will never fix it with ice cream!
Yeah
Sad but true :(
This brings so much sadness to me. As a kid, my parents would constantly favour my brother, they would sometimes serve dinner to my brother but not me and yelled very nasty words and even death threats. My dad didn’t even show up to my graduation and other high school events. This made me very sad and if I ever have children one day, I will always make sure to treat them both equally bc I know how this feels.
Oh my! You don't deserve this! Just remember, one day your own children WILL love you. They will surround you and hug you because you and their siblings are their only family. I don't like how parents do this and it is definitely not good.
I can relate to the oldest.
Hanna, I love you. You know that we are twins, if you love me I love you💖 since I'm 10 minutes older than you I'm the oldest
rel “ate”
budum tssss
I'm the oldest so same
I can too
Me to am 10 so my baby sister is 4 and my dad kinda... likes her more I can tell...
I tried everything.. did everything.. to make them proud.. but my sister would get all the love without effort.. sometimes i feel dumb that im trying this much.. i wonder why wont they look at me.. they would never scold my sister even when she disrespect me.. i would always offer to accompany my parents and help them in any way.. and i never get anything in return.. but when i ask for small requests they would question it so much.. and i ended up not getting it. My sister wouldnt have to do much effort since she would get anything she asks for. I even went on a diet and was always unhappy of my weight because my mom kept saying i was fat and i would look better skinny.. she would always ask me to stop eating.
Whenever they ordered food they wouldnt ask me what i wanted.. and whenever i ask why they never ordered me food they would say its because i was on a diet anyways so they dont bother asking.. i jokingly said "haha save cost, daily food only for 3 people" :)
im not trying to leave negative energy.. i just wanted to share a little and release all my sadness.. i hope yall can understand
U r telling my story 😭
@@alaricarodrigues8817 im so sorry if the same thing also happened to you.. but i hope you can feel better and know that you are not alone.
@@hycecille402 m overweight too n m always verbally abused by my parents that kind off breaks me , n m often compared to my sibling . Ifeel pain dat can't b explained. Bt I won't give up cause d pain I feel today will lead to my success tommorow
@@alaricarodrigues8817 im sure you will overcome it! i hope u will reach the point where u can move on from how ur parents treat u
Tysm dea❤️r u on Instagram?
As the eldest child I can relate I feel that my mom loves my brother more than me but I feel my dad loves me and my brother the same and I feel my mom always blames me when something is wrong
same here im the middle child i always get ignored ༎ຶ‿༎ຶ
Samee this is exactly what im feeling i get blamed for eerything and i think my mom hates me
bro we literally have the same life bcs that's EXACTLY ME
Same me too the eldest
Opposite for me
They probably do this because they want their younger child to experience what it was like to be an only child but because of it, its making the oldest child like they are nothing
I feel bad for her, they could’ve paid more attention to how she was feeling.
They did. That's why the father took initiative to ask if she wanted ice cream. The mother also noticed.
@@OmaOmaO how could they notice?
@@rubyskylorrose because they saw how she acted when the little sister asked for more rice and the big sister didn't give it to her even though it was right next to her. At that moment the parents knew that they needed to talk to her and the father insisted on eating ice cream after because he noticed.
@@OmaOmaO did they even know about it?
@@rubyskylorrose they didn't know what the problem was exactly, but they did know that there was one. That's why the dad suggested eating ice cream. Of course, I'm just going off of what we see in this small clip.
them not wanting me, made me want myself. thank you. always remember this.
Me reading comments with fulla tears , do anyone comfort me?😭
Don't worry Friend if parents don't pay attention to us we have online and offline friends 😀
@@susmitadolai9058 thanks 😭❤️
Yes, absolutely.
I am watching this video with eyes full with tears.
It's okay to tear up.
Absolutely normal.
I am your bestie,you can talk to me about anything and everything ❤.
Waiting for a cute reply from u ...
Btw, I am a 13 yrs old girl.
Damn my mom told me 6/5 years ago that she likes my younger brother more than she ever loved me,she randomly told me that ,i didn't even asked her ,those words were so painful to me back then,i used to cry everyday feeling like shit,til this day she likes him more even tho he is yelling at her ,he is mean to her ,he doesnt even care about her ,but she giving him all the attention,she always want to hug him and talks to him ,and when he is in a good mood which is really rare she is like happiest person in the world ,she laughs and even tho he is not funny at all,while with me she is always serious,she never hugged me, i can count on fingers of one hand how many times she hugged me whole this life,when i wanted to talk with her she often says "not now", "you are boring" ,"dont bother me now", "go check what your brother is playing or go to your room" ,etc...so i litterly whole these years havent talk with her like a normal people do ,we just greet say what we will eat and thats all conversation ,except when she talks about negative things, like when i dont do something right for example i cant find some thing and she tells me how stupid i am ,that i will never suceed in life cuz im stupid,etc...she litteraly never said something like that to my brother but me ,like why ? Why ,i dont do anything bad,i always listen and do everything that she says,clean house,make food for my lazy brother when she is at work,throw trash etc... While my brother plays game whole day and dont do anything at all but only yelling at her and stuff ,when she buys something like cake or chocolate ,she only asks my brother if he wants ,she doesnt care about me at all. My brother also have dad (he is to me step dad) so they both love him the same ,and my stepdad(his dad) and me are really distanced because we dont know what to talk about and he is naturally cold person except to those people he has closer contact like mom and my brother ,and i never had real dad in my life and i didnt even lived with my mom i only come here 3 months every year to visit them cuz they live in another country ,so i live whole my life with my granny and she is the best and like my real mom.... damn bro i am glad im an adult now so im not sensitive like before ,so i dont fcking care anymore i litterly dont give shit at all i just wrote this cuz im bored and also to share my story btw sorry for my bad english
I’m a only child because my mom was mistreated like you and she decided to just have one child
I miss my dad. He was the one who treats me the same as my sisters. But my mom...
Sadly he passed away last year. Love you dad ❤
I wish to had a parent that understand how I feel
why do i feel like my mom is like this.. getting shouted at bcs she is telling me that im the on who made my brother cry. but she doesnt even know that my brother js crying for LITERALLY NO REASON. that is also the reason why i feel like my mom loves my brother the most.
that’s exactly why im crying rn
Same
yea same goes for my younger sister (ಠ⌣ಠ)
same for all my siblings and my mom just screams at me for no reason, for just being myself
He a boy that's why
This emotional roller coaster almost made me forget that this is an ice cream ad
This is how my parents treat me
Me too friends
same
Same
Same here
Same
I’m crying rn because this is so relatable
Fr
🥺
No matter how old you and your sibling get the younger one will always be younger for parents
Yes 😭
Doesn’t apply for me, when I was in primary school I always think that the reason why parent’s favour my older sister more it’s due to her preparation for college. But now I soon realize it’s just a form of favoritism
Yes alas that's true
I get treated exactly like this...
Feel ko rin yan, Yung parang pinangak kalang para itrato na stranger ng sarili mong magulang. Kahit man lang tanongin kalang kung okay kalang ba maghapon or ano man ang ginawa mo wala pa. Kahit man lang tawagin para sabay kumain hindi pa nila magawa. Pati narin pag weekends di man sila mag laan ng oras para sa lahat ng family kasi may isang pabor sa kanila. Kahit na mag kasakit ka bigyan kalang pambili ng gamot para lang daw maagapan pero kahit i care man lang ay wala pa. Sa birthday di mo feel kasi wala sila sa bahay para icelebrate.
Di ka nag iisa.
And this is how you may lead your child to depression and or trust issues and jealousy:)))
Very true
I just.. for once i wanna feel loved. I have a half sister and brother they're my dad's favorite and my lil brother is my mom & dad's favorite both sides of my Grandparents they're fav are my siblings. My friends they have their own favorites also not any single of them choose me. So Where will I place myself?
In your heart. I know it’s so damn hard. my family hates me so damn much and I will never be a place in their hearts. who cares? even though it’s the pain in the ass we can’t escape. so I place myself in my heart. if you ever want to talk you can here:)
As an older child in the family. I always get treated like trash, my parents love my baby nephew more than me and give him kisses and worse is, my nephew is my mom's favorite grandson and i'm crying and my mom always think that i'm jealous, selfish, moron, and asshole it shows that my mom loved my nephew more than me. Pls parents, love your child equally and don't show the other child favoritism.
I know a lot of our elders say what are parents are doing is for the best, but that’s not always true. If they were actually treating us like this for the best, then we wouldn’t feel depressed, stressed or sad.
I also suffer from this problem, my family treats me differently and hates me. Do not say that I have an illusion because I have lived in this situation for 17 years and I cannot bear it any longer. I want to get out of this house. I want to stay away from my family. They do not care.
Sometimes I wonder if I did something wrong? I have not done anything and I will never be able to feel the love of a mother or a father in my life.
I have tried everything and I have tried a lot to make them love me and I always do all the housework to make them happy but no matter what I do they will not love me as they love my brothers, I have tried a lot and now I have decided to hate them too that is easier for me so that I do not feel sad any more.
This made me happy and then I realized that it’s not me and I was sad again. I’m the youngest and my mom only focuses on what my brother does right and what I do wrong and honestly I think that’s why I am so like enclosed.
That's literally me too...every little thing i do i always get yelled at and the way she always looked at me...everytime i argue with my mom it always make me feel like it's my fault...They always give the attention to my brother everytime she asked a question the first person she will turn to is my brother she never asked for my opinions.
relatable, though I’m the youngest. technically I was unexpected and useless.
😀atleast im not alone
@@ayo7285 definitely not, them not wanting me, made me want myself even more. so I hope you love yourself even though people don’t. I’m here with you so never forget that:)
@@yannylaurel4 honestly yes , I do love myself . People who go through stuff like that usually grow depressed or sad but it was quite the opposite for me 🥺❤ anyways thankyou I'm there for you too ❤🥺
Same...
@@Senntimelz and the sad thing they try and fail to hide it . but im better now we should be thankful to have life whether people want us or not
love yourself 😊💫
I'm glad the parents of the older girl favourite her for SOMETHING. My parents always chose my brother over me, whether it was shopping, going to movies, helping with computers, or even organising, which is my favourite thing to do. My birthday falls on Jan 2 and my parents didn't celebrate it, because they were tired from the new year and said they would bring me a cake and let me get a friend from a different neighborhood to our house on my brothers birthday, which is Feb 15. On his birthday, he declined that i would get anything cuz he wanted all the attention. He is older but that also means he's stronger than me. So when he hits me it hurts, when i fight back however it barely hurts him but he just starts calling my mom and she calls me a asshole and when i try calling her to help me, she tells me to stop being a baby and never scolds him. My grades are also much better than his, I got a 97% and my brother got a 76%. My heart goes out to anyone who is experiencing being a less favourite child.💗
They expect a lot from the eldest !! But love the Youngest more!!!
This is what happened to me in my childhood. I died by jealousy with sibling .
I was bullied in school . Teachers beat me a lot .
Parents scold me . They abused me infront of relatives.
My whole childhood and teenage was messed up like this .
Even today i can see effect of such things in my life .
Getting a good parenting is very necessary.
The gifts part is very relatable, BUT
instead of 1, my parents bought alot (like 4-7 in total just for me and my brother)
and i have 2-3 and my brother has the rest
Always love your children the same no matter what their differences or interests.
Yes
Omg i found it! Finally a vid i can relate to, yesh i feel like how carla felt, its always one child who is treated differently from the other, in my case my sister is treated as the favorite and it makes me jealous! Aw i wish all children could be treated equally with respect and kindness like shown in the video, thankyou:)
sad how many kids relate to this :(
Yep
Yep
This has been me my entire life, My siblings are athletic and competitive and I just stay out of the way. I'm the only one who does dishes, trash and other chores and my hobby is video games and theater instead of sports. My mom has missed most of my theater performances but she religiously goes to softball with my sister and i've been ignored my whole life.
My mom doesn't hate me but she definitely doesn't like me as a person..... I swear if we were strangers she would openly admit how much she hates me, but its funny how much she loathes me really
I am a twin and I have 11 sisters and one brother. I usually will not be in family photos because they tell me that I should be the camerawoman.
Indeed favoritism can destroy families, dahil kapag may batogan sa pamilya at favorite ng parents diyan na magsimula ang pag-wasak ng pamilya.... Im a parent now with two kid, Im told my wife that we should not have a favorite at all cost kasi nakita kuna sa dalawa kung mata kung paano nasira ang buhay ng dalawang kung uncle. Dahil sila ang favorite at tinotolerate na ang mga di mabuting gawain nila.... Isa pa jan ang favorite or spoiled child nananakit din yan sila ng magulang..
1:27 is the look of absolute devastation. What a smooth recovery tho. xD
I can relate. My dads hate me but welllll i dont really care but i do feel bad but at least i have my mom ill move out to a dorm next year anyways - ill miss my mom
How you got the confidence to tell your parents straight to the point
Pilih kasih bisa merusak hubungan keluarga dan melukai perasaan anak. Semua anak perlu diperlakukan adil agar tumbuh dengan sehat secara emosional.
Natatandaan ko nung commercial palang to sa TV bata pa lang ako na ka relate na ko kase ate ako sobrang iniyak ko yun pero ngayon na yung pinag seselosan ko na kapated na laging sya nalang, laging maganda,. Laging bago damet, lageng napapansen, lageng hindi maarte is nag kahiwalay na kame kase kinuha sya ng papa nya 7 years na ata nun nung di na kame nagkikita miss na miss ko na sya babawi si Ate promise ko pag nakapag tapos na ko mag kakasama na tayo
I have a big brother but my parents treat us equally ❤
You can say that favoritsm is hard.. but having no sibling is terrible. yes! you may always get attention.. but all the tasks are up on u. what do u think will happen when ur parents die? who'll be there for you? yes you can say friends. but what if ur friend already has a family? Trust me. Its better to have someone than having none at all. When ur only child everything is carried on you. and u will feel pressured all the time bc people expect u to be good and be at ur very best. U can say no one will compare but. no. even if there's no comparison you will automatically be pressured. bc u want to meet ur parents and everyones expectation of u. You can hate me or what ever but. Its better to have a sibling rather than having none..
When there are two siblings, honestly the eldest one seems like the one with more issues
I’m sorry for everyone in the comments with middle child syndrome,as a middle child
" I always relate to this im older " 🙂
same 🙃
Same 🙂
Its always the oldest ones :(
This is my life my sister is the favorite child
This is so relatable I almost commit suicide because I thought my parents dont need me.
Never do that again.You don't need to sacrifice your life for the people who don't love you! Enjoy your life.After you die your parents may miss you but after few days it will be back to normal there's no use doing this
I feel her
Well my WHOLE FAMILY doesn't love me at all my siblings are the ones who are loved so I always rely on my friend who love me more
The ending was cute I guess the parents didn’t realise that they were paying more attention to one of them
They had us in the first part ngl
Parents don't play favoritism it's not nice you should love all your kids equally.
Its all because of the favoritism,I know my younger siblings don't do anything wrong but when my parents favor them alot,I honestly get really jealous,and I hate it.
I feel you with a different situation
I feel so comfortable in here with yall, yes am dealing with sibling getting attention, ofc she's the youngest awww man i tried :(
My parents don’t favourite anyone bc our family is big.We are all little monsters in my parents eyes lol...
Pov: you're the oldest.
After my baby sister was born I was like invisible to them and they would aways give attention to her sometimes in my bed I cry because of that I feel left out.
Me rn
Yung babaeng matangkad yung carla siya yung sumali sa Eat Bulaga Little Miss Philippines 2012 diba???????
Franchesca E. Antonio real name niya GRABE NAG GLOW UP SIYA SANA ALL 😭🤚
I can relate to Ate Carla. Shocking, that I’m also the youngest, I’ve let go because I don’t care anymore.
My parent love my big sister more than after watching this video:(
Oh, your the youngest then? In my case it's the opposite:( i don't like it when a sibling gets more attention than the other, it's sad :(
Feels like a separated member from the whole team...
Bro talaga may parent ako ganito, si Daddy lang yung ginagawa niya, kapatid ko lang siya ay favorite. Pero namatay na si Papa nung 2007. At tas happily, good life na kami ng mommy ko at 2 kapatid ko :).
My mom always tends to treat my brother better, such as he get's away with more things than i can, i'm the only one doing chores in the house, never get any attention and i'm the only one that my mom get's mad at.
Searching "when you feel disposable because you have many siblings" and this came up....looool....hindi na-settle yung issue..oh well ice cream ad lang kasi. Hope parents make efforts to communicate wth their children
When I was young, I always pitied kids who had parents that did favouritism. Now I’m 18 and finally realised that I am one of those kids. My little sister was always the centre stage. I could never be as smart as her. I was always in the last class. Even my grandparents ever only looked at her. I hate her. I hate everyone. I hate this stupid life.
This is so sweet 😻
Favoritism is the roit of evil. You must love your children no matter what. God will not tolerate favoritism because there is no room in his kingdom.
You actually made me cry
Yeah my siblings is the favourite for shopping, going out, having fun, to joke around with, to buy gifts and high expectations while their favourite to me is they can use like their slave, ignore, blame me and disappointment….great 👍🏻
Ahh ok my mum is different she will kill for us but she wont take it that far but if someone bullys us we need to tell straight after we get home from school or she wont care
Favoritism hurts a lot when you arent being favorited equally.
I relate so much to this... I'm crying :/
If only people looked the way we oldest experience things. I always feel bad and jealous of my little sister. She gets all the attention all the love all the things. And then I feel bas that I am jealous of my own sister. she is great but my father just prefers her over me he always says me see how she studies so well is so excellent in maths. I hope I was loved that way too. I cried so many times at night alone because of all this. I too want to be loved
I'm the youngest and my older siblings always talk bad about me and when I told my dad and mom I ended up getting grounded because I told them and want them to get in trouble..
Luh gagi, bat apaka relatable🙂🙂🙂
I'm sorry that you had a bad day little girl 😞 your parents love you and your sister ❤️😊 i hope you are not sad 😊
tbh to me the whole thing was relatable except the end-
By seeing the comments I feel like we should make a community of older child's because...yes we suffered and are suffering alot 🥺
I know this is an ad, but I cried
I wish I didn't relate to the initial this badly.
Nakakarelate ako. I even wished before na sana pinanganak na lang akong lalaki para naappreciate ng mom ko na mabait ako kahit lalaki ako. Kc un lagi nya sinasabi about my brother na super proud sya kc kahit lalaki napakabait nya as if napaka impossible mangyari un kaya ang swerte2 nya sa kapatid ko.
God bless the touched and gifted
I am elder girl in my family but my parents love my brother also my dad also love my brother more the me I don't get the father and daughter love or mother love my brother is lucky ... :)
Bro I wish my family were like the one In the short film, my mom would have said “yeah, of course you realize then huh good then”
You got to show your love to favourite child and your parents will give attention (well that my guess)
But sometimes for me it feels weird to get attention
As an adult i can confirm but in my case i was small from all of my siblings they were loved cared and their wish was fulfilled they would get new clothes twice a week and i got clothes once a month they even skipped my birthday because my elder sister wanted to go out with her friends i was treated like i was no one my elder brother's and sister's always bully me and if i complain i would get scolded or beated they always leave me home on trips or thanks givin or any festivals because they say that i am a shame the only person who cared about me was my grandma and i thank her for every thing
Same I'm the youngest but I am not the favorite my big brother is my favorite of my mom and father and my big bro always bully me and body shaming😂😂😂😅
I am a younger sibling i have a sister she is older than me 6 years, everyone thinks younger siblings get all attention but in my house its the opposite its always my sister that my parents care about they never pressured her as they did to me they never saw my hard work in my sister's case cause she is the favorite no one says anything to her she has travelled to more than 10 places and me i just got to travel like 3 states when i asked them they told its cause your sister is growing up and she needs to study i really wanted to see the qorld and its not like they're poor they have money they spend it all pn my sister they always boast about how good she is and never scold her for losing things but in my case one single mistake they will scold me and sometimes they even scold so badly i love my parents but i dont think they love me
Please reply
Because same situation happened with me...I want to know how u take care of urself..or how u are..
As a middle child I always felt like my old sister and my younger sister were my mom's favorite cuz all my life she treated me like im a afterthought like i don't mean anything to her
Ako and youngest kaso alam ko yung feeling pag ikaw yung older sibling walang attention na papagalitan nakaka hirap ang buhay pag ikaw yung oldest...
My parents have the oldest as their favorite child when i do something bad they yell and scream at me and threat to hit me with the belt and i hate my life so thanks mom and dad 😊 ❤
😢why can I relate so hard
Why I relate myself
But my mother is like devil in my life...all bad things happened in my life due to her..she treat me like trash and my mother loves me my older sister more than me..😢
I swear those comments are so painful
it's usually the younger one that gets treated partially but different for my family. they love the older one who is so lazy (seriously she doesn't even touch her books) and always slap me because I came a little late for prayer time. she can skip school whenever she wants even though she spends most of her day scrolling and i have to have like 3 symptoms.
Reason why I take the school bus :
1. Used the cafetria as study hour in a safer place
2. I don't have here about nagging me of not doing my homework on time especially on Tuesday night when I have an hour of study hall .
3. My mom or dad starting argument.
4. I made better grades then my brother.
I can relate I’m the oldest.
I never heard I’m proud of you
Or
I haven’t had a hug since I was 11 and I’m 14.
And if I don’t want food they said “fuck it” they swear to me.
My siblings body shame me I can’t eat.
I have anxiety
I am scared of socializing but they think I have a problem....
DONT SSAY TO ME TO CALL CHILD SERVICES.
I’m not in foster care.