I have been an independent person since I was 21. I got my first apartment when I was 24. I am 28 now. I have friends but I still do things by myself when I feel like it.
6 Ways to Become More Independent, Less Codependent👇 Get to know yourself. “You can't be independent if you don't know who you are,” Challenge your beliefs and assumptions. Become assertive. Start making your own decisions. Meet your needs. Learn to soothe yourself.
Yeah I am an independent person, i resolve problems myself and i like writing, drawing, or thinking to myself to express my feelings, and it is like i am in in my own universe, i dont need people’s help usually, because i have tactics to solve them myself. Who else is like this?? Is it just me???
It's so relevant to me exactly!!! I think the independent person can be both introvert and extrovert. Frankly, I am extrovert who was raised from the warm family. As the youngest kid of the family, all members keep supporting me a lot. But my youngest brother concerned about my future. Then my family started to reinforce me to reliance on my own. At the beginning, I feels sorrowful, why they didn't help me as they did before. After more than 20 years of living as independent person, I feels so proud and confident to solve any problems no matter what how complicated it was. When get back to my beginning of self-reliance, I really appreciated what my family did to me. I know how hard they have to keep ignoring my feellimg and convincing me that I can do it. Now if I were them, I will do it absolutely. 😤
Aww, this helped me understand my little brother more. As the middle oldest child I grew up to be very self reliant and independent. I couldn't understand why my little bro was so dependent at first. Now that he's older he's really growing into himself and is becoming much more independent and proud of his accomplishments. Best wishes to you!
I love the idea how that little-plant-on-the-head man open the book titled with the topic of this video, like he is one of us, the audience. And at the end close the book, and go handle with something need to be handle, independently.
i just cut the world off for a while recently...havent spoken to friends in a long time trying to do me right now...might reconnect in the future or might not we'll see...leaning to be independent as i go
@@pikalee3492 I've always put people first and that made me miserable now im in the pursuit of my own happiness im just trying to make myself smile doing stuff i enjoy havent paved it all out yet but as i said just learning as i go
I really love your voice, narrator! Whoever the narrator is, I think they should become an ASMRtist or do voice work on the Calm app, if they don't already do that.
I LOVE amanda's voice. Its so soothing. And the content is informative and stimulating. I realize I have some work to do but am encouraged to maken changes. Thanks Amanda and Psych to go team. Please keep up the good work!
So basically that's someone who's not even a Human Being cuz as far I know NO Human Being is 100 percent completely independent and "independence" seems kinda of overrated somehow
@@monabohamad2242 I interpret it moreso as not solely relying on other people. Needy people aren't the healthiest of people and often strain relationships of any kind due to insecurity.
I wouldn't say I'm completely an independent person but over time I am slowly becoming more independent every year, its tough some days but I'm getting there
I found that my anxiety has greatly undermined my independence. Its going better now, but I could still use some tips. Or maybe a video about improving your independence?
I have all these signs and I've always felt very independent, this just made me feel 10000000 times more independent lol😅 that I for the video I love your channel and idea of spreading awareness about mental illnesses and making phycology a lot more accessible to everyone💖💖 also btw the animation is FANTASTIC!!! I love animated videos and the person talking seems to nice and kind lol😂
Honestly I can relate a lot to these points. After my grandmother's passing, things have been very rough for me. She was very dear to me and have raised me since I was 2 by herself. That alone should tell you how much she loved me and how much she meant to me. And because of that I subconsciously feel like I'm on my own and I need to take care of myself despite the people around me and maybe that's how it shaped me to feel this way. Once again, thanks to psych2go for making yet another video this relatable. It's hope you keep this up!
I'd say that I am pretty independent, I check off most of these things on the list. I haven't had the most smooth upbringing so took it upon myself to become independent
I live by myself for years, I cook my own food, i clean up my own home, I never allow anyone into my home, I depend on one but myself. I own a business.
Everyone really is independent there’s nothing wrong being that way. You just be yourself. I was like that way and still am. But sometimes you gotta express yourself.
I never really thought of my self as an independent person, but I very surprisingly relate to all of these! I have been told I'm very independent, but I didn't really see how till watching this video..
I used to had 5 of these but now I regret of myself bcs I changed and give up on some of myself for my past relationship. He always wanted me to be more dependent. I see more insecurities in him when I talk about my independent nature. So I thought no more hurting him, but that was Biggest mistake I ever done. Now I'm struggling to accept and move on and still I get the criticism from my ex kind of haunting me. I know it takes a lot of time again. No matter what i will rebuild myself more better.
i have anxiety so i don’t like asking for help and tend to come across as independent, but i am very much dependent on some people, i’m just an introvert ....basically i come across as a walking paradox and confuse everyone including myself
The question is, if independence should be a goal at all. Or if one should instead put his energy into getting relationships to rely on. I think, the middle here is good.
So I am texting my friend this moring she was being very ''depressd''. She self diagnosis herself with depression. I do not like what she is doing its getting me feel mad. Please pyshc2go help and if you ever happen to you feel welcome to repley. Thank you have a wonderful day!
Okay okay...I AM an independent person,TOTALLY. I can relate with all of these signs. I'm just....glad.. Being the first child always so hard and stressing.. But sokay,I had got and experienced many valueable things that my siblings don't..✌
I definitely will be independent when I’m old enough to live alone. Although I have social anxiety and will need some time to adjust, I believe I can be independent.
I try to solve my own problems but often, especially in the work place, this is not possible. IT has a protocol and a standard for things. What might make sense in one shop won't necessarily be OK in another. IT is very fragile and fickle. I have no choice but to rely on others. Yet, arrogant leadership and HR people still have the nerve to request for someone who's a self-starter. What a load of crock.
It would be nice if you made a video about signs that someone is pushing you away. I think a lot of people would want to know that. I'm loving all your videos, by the way!
i have been called independent more than once i watched this just to see if i'm really actually independent and it looks like i am but i think people call me independent cause of my attitude and stuff
I love that you guys are making psychology more accessible.
Aww. Thank you for the kind words! It means a lot! Though we are running out of ideas and need some! Feel free to suggest any that comes to mind!
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When I was younger I didn’t like being seen as needy or dependent and truthfully I still don’t.
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I have been an independent person since I was 21. I got my first apartment when I was 24. I am 28 now. I have friends but I still do things by myself when I feel like it.
Lucky you.
Congrats! I've been on my own since I was 19 and I love it too! Wasn't always easy but I love the journey and growth. ☀️
6 Ways to Become More Independent, Less Codependent👇
Get to know yourself. “You can't be independent if you don't know who you are,”
Challenge your beliefs and assumptions.
Become assertive.
Start making your own decisions.
Meet your needs.
Learn to soothe yourself.
Yeah I am an independent person, i resolve problems myself and i like writing, drawing, or thinking to myself to express my feelings, and it is like i am in in my own universe, i dont need people’s help usually, because i have tactics to solve them myself. Who else is like this?? Is it just me???
Me lol I'm also an INFP
It's so relevant to me exactly!!! I think the independent person can be both introvert and extrovert. Frankly, I am extrovert who was raised from the warm family. As the youngest kid of the family, all members keep supporting me a lot. But my youngest brother concerned about my future. Then my family started to reinforce me to reliance on my own.
At the beginning, I feels sorrowful, why they didn't help me as they did before. After more than 20 years of living as independent person, I feels so proud and confident to solve any problems no matter what how complicated it was. When get back to my beginning of self-reliance, I really appreciated what my family did to me. I know how hard they have to keep ignoring my feellimg and convincing me that I can do it.
Now if I were them, I will do it absolutely. 😤
Aww, this helped me understand my little brother more. As the middle oldest child I grew up to be very self reliant and independent. I couldn't understand why my little bro was so dependent at first. Now that he's older he's really growing into himself and is becoming much more independent and proud of his accomplishments. Best wishes to you!
Of course I’m none of these. But when it comes to the “bad” videos such as “10 reasons why you’re co-dependent”, I’m 13/12.
Smh.
Lmao! It just means you are our perfect audience ;)
Lol I can relate 😂
I love the idea how that little-plant-on-the-head man open the book titled with the topic of this video, like he is one of us, the audience. And at the end close the book, and go handle with something need to be handle, independently.
I passed my expectations of being lazy, independent and introvert. With flying colors
That’s good to know! How many signs did you resonate with?
Now, regardless to the fact i dont like to ask for help always, i want to thank you for this 😤
i just cut the world off for a while recently...havent spoken to friends in a long time trying to do me right now...might reconnect in the future or might not we'll see...leaning to be independent as i go
That's great that you are taking time for yourself ☀️
@@pikalee3492 I've always put people first and that made me miserable now im in the pursuit of my own happiness im just trying to make myself smile doing stuff i enjoy havent paved it all out yet but as i said just learning as i go
i think im pretty good with that being said always looking to grow there's no limit in knowledge
Thanks for this. I recognise myself in 4 of 5.
And thanks for not putting background music or sounds in, as it can be distracting.
I really love your voice, narrator! Whoever the narrator is, I think they should become an ASMRtist or do voice work on the Calm app, if they don't already do that.
I love her voice!!!!!! She can narrate a horror story and I’ll still hear it and fall asleep peacefully!
Thank you for your kind comment :)
Horror runs on deception. So no, you will not sleep.
"Nobody owes you anything" seems to get me in trouble sometimes lol
I LOVE amanda's voice. Its so soothing. And the content is informative and stimulating. I realize I have some work to do but am encouraged to maken changes. Thanks Amanda and Psych to go team. Please keep up the good work!
Could you please do how to stop being irritable
Love you guys your doing some really great things
Love the new art style :D
Hope you notice this :)
I'm independent but life circumstances always stand in the way of my independence
Also, not relying on/thriving off of friendships, relationships, blood relations, etc
So basically that's someone who's not even a Human Being cuz as far I know NO Human Being is 100 percent completely independent and "independence" seems kinda of overrated somehow
@@monabohamad2242 I interpret it moreso as not solely relying on other people. Needy people aren't the healthiest of people and often strain relationships of any kind due to insecurity.
I am a very independent person, and I intend on staying that way. I am introverted, and want to be an author.
Very good episode! I really needed to hear this!
I wouldn't say I'm completely an independent person but over time I am slowly becoming more independent every year, its tough some days but I'm getting there
The art in this one is next level, great vid!
All but the last one, which personally can only happen if you trust and have a good relationship with the person giving the criticism.
The voice is soothing AF,I can listen this for hours 🤩
I found that my anxiety has greatly undermined my independence. Its going better now, but I could still use some tips. Or maybe a video about improving your independence?
I have all these signs and I've always felt very independent, this just made me feel 10000000 times more independent lol😅 that I for the video I love your channel and idea of spreading awareness about mental illnesses and making phycology a lot more accessible to everyone💖💖 also btw the animation is FANTASTIC!!! I love animated videos and the person talking seems to nice and kind lol😂
Thank you so much for your feedback! It means a lot!! How many of these signs did you relate to? Also, is this animation your favorite one so far? :)
🎵 We’re independent together 🎵
Your voice makes me so calm.
Omg this is just the cutest and most wholesome animation. Perfect for after work entertainment and learning
Thank you so much
@@Psych2go oh yes absolutely! I love your channel so much! Good job team! This channel help bring me out of so many dark places
Awesome. I'm new to your channel, and I watched some of your videos. Thanks for making phsycology so accessible. Keep it up
2:53 thats the spirit
Honestly I can relate a lot to these points. After my grandmother's passing, things have been very rough for me. She was very dear to me and have raised me since I was 2 by herself. That alone should tell you how much she loved me and how much she meant to me. And because of that I subconsciously feel like I'm on my own and I need to take care of myself despite the people around me and maybe that's how it shaped me to feel this way. Once again, thanks to psych2go for making yet another video this relatable. It's hope you keep this up!
i really have to say this but all the animations on this channel’s amazing:’)
I'd say that I am pretty independent, I check off most of these things on the list. I haven't had the most smooth upbringing so took it upon myself to become independent
Your voice is so relaxing to listen to
is it normal to relate to everything and also having a small business being only 16
also, thank you for your content, you help so many people 💕
I live by myself for years, I cook my own food, i clean up my own home, I never allow anyone into my home, I depend on one but myself. I own a business.
Everyone really is independent there’s nothing wrong being that way. You just be yourself. I was like that way and still am. But sometimes you gotta express yourself.
*You are amazing, you are my example to work hard on my channel because seeing all the great thing you do inspires me*
Who you talking to?
I never really thought of my self as an independent person, but I very surprisingly relate to all of these! I have been told I'm very independent, but I didn't really see how till watching this video..
I can never get over the art, it's my favourite
Thank you! They are getting better aren't they?
@@Psych2go yep I always love watching your videos for the art and of course for the information's too
I relate to all and I’m working on the last one :)
I used to had 5 of these but now I regret of myself bcs I changed and give up on some of myself for my past relationship. He always wanted me to be more dependent. I see more insecurities in him when I talk about my independent nature. So I thought no more hurting him, but that was Biggest mistake I ever done. Now I'm struggling to accept and move on and still I get the criticism from my ex kind of haunting me. I know it takes a lot of time again. No matter what i will rebuild myself more better.
Best wishes to you! I'm so sorry you endured that emotional abuse 😔
@@pikalee3492 thank u love💛💛💛
@@abhiramik8801 you're most welcome 💜💜💜
I am still needy but I am becoming more independent.
i have anxiety so i don’t like asking for help and tend to come across as independent, but i am very much dependent on some people, i’m just an introvert ....basically i come across as a walking paradox and confuse everyone including myself
I'm working on it
Congratulations... you have just described a healthy introvertive person. I want 4 minutes of my life back.
I still need to learn this
That video made me happy and positive well i have ocd and anxiety but in the other part i knew now that i'm an independent person
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Thank you so much, you as well!
I subbed
God bless you too and stay safe as well
Whyyyyy
The question is, if independence should be a goal at all. Or if one should instead put his energy into getting relationships to rely on. I think, the middle here is good.
So I am texting my friend this moring she was being very ''depressd''. She self diagnosis herself with depression. I do not like what she is doing its getting me feel mad. Please pyshc2go help and if you ever happen to you feel welcome to repley. Thank you have a wonderful day!
Maybe you can suggest to her to do meditation...either still or moving meditation will help to a certain extent.
I'll admit, watching this has shown me traits that I have developed in life but I still need to work on alot more.
Okay okay...I AM an independent person,TOTALLY. I can relate with all of these signs. I'm just....glad.. Being the first child always so hard and stressing.. But sokay,I had got and experienced many valueable things that my siblings don't..✌
Who else feel like her voice is so peaceful and charming... Or it was only me ...
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I definitely will be independent when I’m old enough to live alone. Although I have social anxiety and will need some time to adjust, I believe I can be independent.
Whatchu mean "independent enough to live alone"? You cant own a home and still depend on others for happiness and validation
Mr Diamond I said “when I’m old enough” I’m not 18 so I can’t legally live alone
What’s up with the dates of these comments >_>
Yea ik its weird 🤔
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i still have some stuff to work on but then again i am child
Me a 17 year old who's doing these past 3 years!
Yeah.... I must say that I'm indepedent in this age, waiting when I reach the real age of life.
I do relate to 5 of these but I'm still jobless so I couldn't say I'm independent.
I still have some work to do
Good Video My Friend! I want to be an Independent Person for all of my life.
For me still have work to do
I try to solve my own problems but often, especially in the work place, this is not possible. IT has a protocol and a standard for things. What might make sense in one shop won't necessarily be OK in another. IT is very fragile and fickle. I have no choice but to rely on others. Yet, arrogant leadership and HR people still have the nerve to request for someone who's a self-starter. What a load of crock.
Me at 14 searching up stuff like this
I don't know why my mother wants to make me dependent on my brother. That sucks!!
All ticked ✔️✔️✔️
I can use a little work on number 5. Everything else....I think I'm good...
It would be nice if you made a video about signs that someone is pushing you away. I think a lot of people would want to know that.
I'm loving all your videos, by the way!
I can already give 1 sign:
You can there hand in your back and they pushing you
Sorry if that was too harsh
Excellent sharing
Wow! This is motivational!🤗🌱 I'm still learning how to be independent.👍🏼✌🏼
My mother refused to help me study as a child because she thought I should be independent and responsible.
This is soooo adorable
Hi I have been watching your videos lately and you helped me a lot!
I can relate to every points 😊
I relate ro the majority of these points.
Nah, I'm definitely not. Existential crisis plus feeling unprepared
Definitely independent!!!
Just want to say, Psych2go really gives animators a chance at there every video, that's kind
Running towards to become one
what if i don’t ask for help... ever?
Yup I'm an independent person
I'm not an independent person yet but i'm trying my best to be one✊
It's ok, don't rush it, just be patient with yourself, you'll get there, just take it one day at a time.
clicking this video knowing damn well that I’m not an independent person
Me: sees title
Me: I love psych2go
Independence is so hard to get.
Hey, do you think you guys could cover hyper independence?
i have been called independent more than once
i watched this just to see if i'm really actually independent
and it looks like i am
but i think people call me independent cause of my attitude and stuff
I don't ask for help for personal problems because people make my problem worse lmao
I watched this type of videos before I came 18 to be prepared
Always love to see the videos
.. I get so happy like a kid going to Walmart lol
I related to all of the 5 points
i love your videos so much :))
they make me so happy :>
I seem to be. Good.
Perhaps I am single because I meet your whole list all tick boxes for me.
The animation 😍