ASMR for the touch-starved

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  • @Mel-qh6zr
    @Mel-qh6zr 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +301

    ‘Are you alone tonight?’ Me in my apartment living alone: ‘Well I sure as hell hope so’

    • @chantaldobson713
      @chantaldobson713 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

      Hahaha this made me laugh so much

  • @Angel-is-ok
    @Angel-is-ok 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +326

    "That doesn't mean your needy it just means your a human being"
    I needed that revelation ty for such a calming video

    • @headofathousandsheepswool
      @headofathousandsheepswool 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +15

      for what it's worth, though, being needy isn't a bad thing either. it's also human to be needy, and it's nothing to be ashamed of.

  • @loudco
    @loudco 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +105

    all the video felt like a long warm hug, i love it

  • @GellieBean._.
    @GellieBean._. 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +165

    This lightning is phenomenal holy guacamole

  • @silentluvr
    @silentluvr 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +76

    i love that men can be vulnerable through asmr :) you're a very gentle soul

  • @sebASMR
    @sebASMR 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +67

    this really helped me feel better, thank you so much

    • @AdriansWhimsicalASMR
      @AdriansWhimsicalASMR  12 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

      @@sebASMR thank you too! been watching your stuff for years, means a lot

  • @i_am-in_ur-walls.
    @i_am-in_ur-walls. 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +36

    "Love is on the way" thanks i hope so too

  • @heidijj2005
    @heidijj2005 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +320

    hi whoever you are you really helped me feel better, I was really going through an intense crash out until I came across this video, I just want to thank you for it because I can tell you really do know how I feel and it makes me feel less alone. really thank you.. 💜

    • @Blize-Red
      @Blize-Red 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +25

      The Purple Heart you put... it reminds me of someone I know of but don't actually know, their position in my life is significant & scary, just an odd coincidence to come across atm.

    • @AdriansWhimsicalASMR
      @AdriansWhimsicalASMR  14 วันที่ผ่านมา +30

      appreciate you 🫶

    • @vhexiez
      @vhexiez 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      “crash out” shut your corny ass up

    • @dopelol-v1f
      @dopelol-v1f 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      ​@@Blize-RedI love this

  • @johnny-r-uk
    @johnny-r-uk 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +97

    Such a great video! I can tell that ASMR means a lot to you. The understanding and care you have for it makes you stand out.
    You have a calming, sincere and very likeable personality that is special. It's fantastic to see your channel growing

  • @exquisitegentlebibble
    @exquisitegentlebibble 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +30

    12:26 he’s getting eepy together with us🥹

  • @soph6539
    @soph6539 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +36

    Damn.... i put off watching this video bc i wasnt sure how id feel about it, but you just had to punch me right in the feels huh 😂😭 you're such a sympathetic individual and you have a very honest way of coming across. You are a great comfort to many, thank you for your ramblings and ASMR.

    • @AdriansWhimsicalASMR
      @AdriansWhimsicalASMR  11 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      thank you for listening to them ramblings too :P hope you're doing well, and I appreciate your comment

  • @caspianhardin7521
    @caspianhardin7521 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +48

    3:58 I agree- I think people only think of that saying in a romantic context, but romantic relationships can be complex, and even outside of a romantic context, I think that saying is bullshit. Everybody needs comfort and love, and deserves to not be alone.❤❤❤❤

    • @Lemon_1724
      @Lemon_1724 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Thanks for confirming a different view of something I've been living by my whole life 🙏🫶🫂

  • @NajlaHasouni-qp9ce
    @NajlaHasouni-qp9ce 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +14

    The way I cried in the minute😭 I don't know how to thank u man😂❤

    • @AdriansWhimsicalASMR
      @AdriansWhimsicalASMR  10 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@NajlaHasouni-qp9ce maybe SMASH that sub button? 🥹👉👈

  • @ismydesignthis
    @ismydesignthis 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    The warm lighting and the look in your eyes are immensely comforting ❤️‍🩹

  • @ari-ne4lk
    @ari-ne4lk 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    this is so kind and gentle (so yes i cried 4 separate times)

  • @starfryyy
    @starfryyy 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +41

    i've been using this video the past couple of days to help me sleep. i'm going through some very rough depression. i recently had my best friend move away, my divorced parents lost their jobs in the same week, i'm barely making ends meet and my hours got cut, and my mother is no longer the woman I knew growing up because of her brain tumors and it kills me. my dad who treated me bad as a kid always seems to try to worm his way into my life when i'm at my worst to keep me under his finger and turn me against the few people who have ever done right by me. i dropped out of college last semester and feel useless. i can't even do basic things without spiraling out of control. i often feel like i am only here because other's want me to be and that my death would be an inconvenience. so, i'm here, living in misery. i am incredibly lonely, have no social life, and see no reason to keep going for myself. i lack the constitution to end my own life, but am just so overwhelmed by my own apathy at the same time. i don't sleep at night and it causes me to have no energy for the occasional small thing i can look forward to. this video has provided some level of comfort to me and has eased some of the pain i feel for a brief moment in time. thank you for this.

    • @AdriansWhimsicalASMR
      @AdriansWhimsicalASMR  10 วันที่ผ่านมา +19

      @@starfryyy hey, thank you for opening up. Next video is for you.

    • @asmronlyyy
      @asmronlyyy 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

      My heart hurts for you! I just came from the recent video he made specifically for you. I’m glad someone else is publicly looking out for you. And I hope you will soon overcome all the obstacles that are worrying you and complicating your life. So you can enjoy life the way you want to. My comment might not do much but maybe enough to help you push through a little while longer. Take care and try to fill your life with more people, things/activities that fills your heart and soul with joy and healing energy. Sending you virtual hugs🫶🏾

    • @bipanic_420
      @bipanic_420 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@starfryyy hey, I’ve been there. Many times, for different reasons. And I won’t say “I know how you feel,” but I will say I can relate to what you’re experiencing. I can confidently say that there is another side to all of this suffering. There will come a day when it’s behind you, only a memory. I know I’m just a random, faceless stranger on the internet, but I truly believe that your existence is bestowed with inherent value and dignity just because you’re a living thing, and that means that you matter. Sending you love and light.

    • @everitalukjanova9714
      @everitalukjanova9714 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I'm so sad for you! I really am! If it matters at all what strangers say to you, I would just wish you peace before anything else!

  • @moisthedeer
    @moisthedeer 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +16

    This is my first time viewing a video of yours and i’ve got to say, you seem like such a kind and understanding soul. Really, i haven’t felt so much humanity in one of these until now. Thank you, i hope you have a wonderful life.

    • @AdriansWhimsicalASMR
      @AdriansWhimsicalASMR  11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      i really appreciate your comment and i'm grateful for your arrival to the channel :) thank yoU!

  • @AkiraAkuma66
    @AkiraAkuma66 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +20

    I do love how raw your videos are Adrian, thank you for this whimsical asmr

  • @alittlebittiredasmr
    @alittlebittiredasmr 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    You are so caring and comforting 💛 thank you for making this video. I’ll definitely sleep safe and sound because of you 😌

  • @ollietaro
    @ollietaro 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I always wanted the hair model from the shampoo commercial to caress my face 😌

  • @marnwn22
    @marnwn22 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    the lighting is making it feel so warm oh my 😮 great video!!!

  • @n30n_futur37
    @n30n_futur37 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +51

    Hey Adrian, I don’t know you personally, but thank you for making this video. You said a lot that I needed to hear, and I really appreciate you opening up to us about what’s been on your mind. Thank you. You are not alone in your struggles, and I hope you know that we (your fans and subscribers, myself included) support you. I hope you have people you love and trust in your life who you can talk with about the details of what’s going on. You deserve as much in person support as you need.
    Please keep going. This too shall pass.

    • @AdriansWhimsicalASMR
      @AdriansWhimsicalASMR  12 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      Thank you for taking the time to comment and put thoughts into words.. i appreciate you

  • @somenerdgirl6888
    @somenerdgirl6888 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Thank you for this video. You clearly have experienced your own sadness, heartache, and depression. It felt good to be with someone who is honest and understands.
    As far as this video, I think you are doing right. I’m proud of you. I’m rooting for you. Take heart and know you have helped many.

    • @AdriansWhimsicalASMR
      @AdriansWhimsicalASMR  10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      This means so much, I really appreciate it a huge ton. Hope you're doing well too!

  • @jazziegreens9453
    @jazziegreens9453 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    This appears to have been a session that you needed just as well as us, thank you so much for sharing this.. 💜

  • @theeyeofday
    @theeyeofday 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I have been really struggling and your words make me sob (but in a good way). Thank you for putting yourself out there and making this kind of content. It is really lonely out here.

  • @kyli3_png
    @kyli3_png 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +23

    (Just for anyone out there like me- you don't "need" a romantic relationship. You don't "need" to be touched like this, while it is pretty great- we're meant to exist as who we are ourselves, and whatever comes along the way, comes. If that makes sense. Yeah I might be watching asmr vids to cope with wanting to have someone care for me like this, but in reality I'm not really a physical touch person. Hugs and all that make me feel awkward, and that's fine

  • @BRA1NSLUDGE
    @BRA1NSLUDGE 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    you are so wise and have an amazing way with words. this made my night a lot easier than it was 20 minutes ago. thank you, you kind soul :3

  • @rejectsal
    @rejectsal 22 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    This is my first time here and omg this is amazing. I grew up loving physical touch now i only like it from certain people within my life but this is truly amazing. I was very shocked with how you worded your sentences because all of them make me understand what you're trying to get acrossed thank you for posting this and existing. You are loved and cherished by many i just know it 💕

  • @Lemon_1724
    @Lemon_1724 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Thank you so much. I really really needed this, I really hope you're okay 😭😭😭❤️❤️ much love and strength 🫂🫂🫂

    • @Lemon_1724
      @Lemon_1724 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Also, something I found funny is that my tummy made a sound at the same time as yours in the video HAHAH

  • @elishavelez8746
    @elishavelez8746 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +22

    He may not be there in person,
    but he's still there in spirit.
    And he'll be there for as long his videos exist. ⏳📽️⏳
    (Same goes for every TH-camr. ▶️)

  • @king_salamander3938
    @king_salamander3938 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    thankyou adrian for this. i hope that youre doing alright and if you arent i wish everything good your way. you deserve it!

  • @sophi_w11
    @sophi_w11 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    This made me cry in the first minute….

  • @ismydesignthis
    @ismydesignthis 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Can't let gang know I fw this 🙂‍↔️

  • @lily_700vx
    @lily_700vx 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Thank you for your care of the details.. the lightning, the voice tone and your kind words 💛💛

  • @lane1985
    @lane1985 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

    Adrian! You have a talent to connect to your audience and an amazing aura about you. Thank you as always for your presence and these gems of videos! I look forward to them! ❤ 💤 😴 🛌

  • @galinsavov2097
    @galinsavov2097 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Adrian's Whimsical Starvation

  • @sleepytASMR
    @sleepytASMR 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    This is beautiful. Like poetry.

  • @desertstorm2016
    @desertstorm2016 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    This video made me cry

  • @jax99888
    @jax99888 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Thank you, I really needed to hear this. ❤

  • @eduardojefferson8736
    @eduardojefferson8736 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    such great lighting im in love

  • @ShamiWaller-i2v
    @ShamiWaller-i2v 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    Man can i a use a hug

    • @soph6539
      @soph6539 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      Everyone here is totally giving you a hug man

  • @Harlow92
    @Harlow92 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    I really needed to hear this message tonight. Thank you. ❤

  • @Michellusschellus
    @Michellusschellus 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I have a fear of physical contact irl so maybe this will help make up for the hug and physical contact that I lack

  • @f4ndomh0pper
    @f4ndomh0pper 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    He reminds me sm of young basim (ibn ishaq) which makes this 10x More comforting for me 😞💜

  • @MiscellaneousOpal
    @MiscellaneousOpal 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +14

    I started crying because of the relatability, but I really needed to hear some of the things in this video. Thank you for the comforting video. I hope things can get better, not just for me, but for everyone reading this. 🫂

    • @AdriansWhimsicalASMR
      @AdriansWhimsicalASMR  12 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      ❤ thats so sweet.. glad you feeel comforted

  • @strwbrry.m1lksz
    @strwbrry.m1lksz 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Thank you very much (whimsically)

  • @anamaria-db7pq
    @anamaria-db7pq 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    that is so cute

  • @bombeproductions4216
    @bombeproductions4216 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    “Touch me while your boys play grand theft auto”

  • @Alice-g8u4t
    @Alice-g8u4t 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    You litearly saved me, i had total mental breakdown i cried like 3 hours i feel so empty, i feel so lonely but im thankful that you made this video❤️‍🩹

    • @AdriansWhimsicalASMR
      @AdriansWhimsicalASMR  13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@Alice-g8u4t im glad we found each other then.. it gets better :) thank you for commenting

  • @scottsmith-gm4lr
    @scottsmith-gm4lr 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Thank you 😊

  • @agr8guywv
    @agr8guywv 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    ✨💖🌟💕thanks Adrian 🫂 nice video💕🌟💖✨

  • @D.W.520
    @D.W.520 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    Thank You❤
    And you take care of yourself too.

  • @Blize-Red
    @Blize-Red 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Thank you 😭

  • @mij6304
    @mij6304 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I hope so many men watch this and heal

  • @J-xp3gf
    @J-xp3gf 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    you’re so nice

  • @KirisWhimsicalAdventures
    @KirisWhimsicalAdventures 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Really off topic but you look alot like jayce feom arcane, but this video is really comforting ❤

  • @anary2281
    @anary2281 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Your eyes on the cover of the video look identical to those of Frank Iero, guitarist of My Chemical Romance 👁️👄👁️

  • @ayyyyyyyyyyy_t
    @ayyyyyyyyyyy_t 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    ❤❤❤ Sooo good

  • @magamyra
    @magamyra 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    You here, I came to see you again. To be honest, I like touch ASMR 🥰

  • @Will_Tree
    @Will_Tree 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Never have I clicked on a video so fast

  • @catherinesanders1111
    @catherinesanders1111 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Thank you for comforting me tonight. I am going through such a difficult time. I feel lonely and so broken. This is helping. ❤️🥹

    • @AdriansWhimsicalASMR
      @AdriansWhimsicalASMR  12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      this too shall pass, my friend. happy to have been a comfort ❤

  • @river-r1v
    @river-r1v 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    i’m gonna freak tf out

  • @lucaluvbugz
    @lucaluvbugz 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    whatever you say jayvik lovechild sir

  • @shiraisasu
    @shiraisasu 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    I am trans and I’m very afraid. My rights are currently being taken away in my country and I’m afraid no one will love me or touch me since it might be impossible to transition now. Thank you for helping me believe it could be possible, or, at the very least, thank you for pretending with me. I needed it

  • @dreamylein1
    @dreamylein1 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    thank you..

  • @maryweather
    @maryweather 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Good night 😴

  • @charlie-jd3ls
    @charlie-jd3ls 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    …..I’m extremely down bad…….. Thank you

  • @malehands8322
    @malehands8322 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Oh damn the video for me

  • @Voidname96
    @Voidname96 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Bro chill

  • @timothybitela1155
    @timothybitela1155 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I'm alone 😢

  • @madsfiedler3884
    @madsfiedler3884 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    hi best friend, we r making quesadillas!! for keeping me company, i will give u one ^-^

  • @desertstorm2016
    @desertstorm2016 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I haven't been ask if someone wants hang out in 5 years idk what to do

  • @itsjustclaire3844
    @itsjustclaire3844 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

  • @sofiatorricini8465
    @sofiatorricini8465 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hi to whoever is reading this! Big hug to anyone who doesnt get hugged on a regular basis! 💕 i get it, i dont get hugged either but we got stuffies and blankets for that! 💕⭐️ ur doing great! Have a good day!

  • @GrianaArande
    @GrianaArande 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    You know me so well bestie

  • @Nana-uh3ez
    @Nana-uh3ez 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    You look so familiar like someone i saw in a lucid dream

  • @michellefoster9402
    @michellefoster9402 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    This gave me tinglies but also felt like such a call out. Asmr for the touch starved? Sir, lower your voice.

  • @ivystaar
    @ivystaar 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Off topic but you look sort of like Sebastian Croft if he had a beard lol

  • @ttvgirll
    @ttvgirll 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Omg first I think :3

  • @Meganisthebest._.fr.
    @Meganisthebest._.fr. 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    i feel like this is a trap

  • @lexinoelle7217
    @lexinoelle7217 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Hey y’all I just wanna say God loves you so much, he sent his one and only son to die for your sins (where we fall short of Gods righteousness) he took the place of us so we could have relationship with God and through faith go to heaven instead of hell. Repent (to change your mind ) and truely believe in Jesus sacrifice and experience Gods love❤

  • @sierrac9671
    @sierrac9671 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    5ish hours ago, I found out I got cheated on. I can't even begin to describe how lost and broken I feel. Almost half a decade together, washed down the drain. Here's to hoping for at least a little rest tonight 🥲

    • @AdriansWhimsicalASMR
      @AdriansWhimsicalASMR  11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      it hurts but it happened for a reason. I believe in you and your ability to cope and move forward. Stay strong and don't give up on love

  • @Okk-wq2ge
    @Okk-wq2ge 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    As a person who's love language is physical touch and people around me are the opposite, this really healed me so much and i am so thankfull for that, thanks🫂💙

  • @Pippi-rippi
    @Pippi-rippi 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1