Hey Claude!! I am Jamaican so I am aware of the cultural differences but honest opinion is this, you and your fiancé just purchased land which cost money! You have built your brother a house which took money, then your grandmother got sick and I am sure you spent money for her hospitalization. My opinion is you don’t have to have a lavish wedding which will cause a lot of money. As long as you are seriously in love then do a private wedding. Remember your intention is to build your dream home! This willl cost a fortune. Having a big wedding doesn’t count! Is the life you live after. Don’t hang your hat where you can’t easily take it down. If you CANNOT easily afford a big wedding DONT stress. Even elope. A house is more important than a. Just saying 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️❤️❤️🇯🇲🇯🇲
My husband always says, Keep your feet under your blanket.🤔Don't hang your feet outside, you will be cold. Live within your means. Don't live for others, follow God's plan for your life.🙏🏾
Don’t get me wrong EVERY woman would LOVE a lavish wedding on her special day day just to shine. But since some of us weren’t born with a gold spoon in our hand we have to do things the smartest way.BEST of luck to both of you.❤🙏🏾
Min Hawi you sound just like your mother. She is a wise woman. She would not be doing you guys justice if she didn’t tell you how she feels from her heart. I think the advice about the church is a very important point. The Bible says “Two cannot walk together unless they be agreed.” Good idea for mama to start a TH-cam channel. I’m waiting to subscribe. God.bless you all.🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️
Haha i am from Kisii, and The Kisii people dont love cornering cornering. 😂😂 They dig deep to establish who you are...and if you gonna take good Care of their daughter ❤🎉❤
Congratulations guys. I think you guys should sit down and decide on which church you want to ge married in. Like Claude said there is one God. The two of you will be staying together and doing your stuff together away from your mother in laws Kisi home so i feel you should do whats convinient for you and your wife to be....dont be subjected to confusion or to being forced to do what you are not comfortable with....this is just an opinion guys...good luck and once more congratulations on your engagement❤❤❤❤🎉
@LifestyleGardener yes mom can't deny God's and his teaching or rejecting the 10 commandments. If you disobey 1 of my commandments, you're guilty of all.
A small wedding so you can build your house and have a baby. Those need money so no need of lavish wedding guys. True love is the greatest and can be blessed by a church and be ok.
Am back like i never left. Wishingyou well in everything. What i understand when it comes to marriage you should listen to your parents you can't ignore them because they have a lot of wisdom especially the God fearing parents. That is my opinion though.
Hi beautiful couple, I believe in God and the bible. Although we believe in one God, God also set his laws that we should obey, and the 10 commandments is some of his laws.
@Christian_lifestyle church issue can be very difficult, I just watched an episode on afrimax English, and that's why the bible teaches us concerning, unequally, yolk ,later on it will become a serious issue. Sda, don't find it hard. They believe in God's teaching about marriage. Listen to God and your parents. Watch that episode. God's words stand true every time. Yes, only 1 God, but which is keeping the commandments
@@VeghshBdhe Thankyou,you say they follow God's teaching,just prove from the Bible where it states that you hould marry from your religion.lets put our churches aside and worship God from our hearts .
@Christian_lifestyle 2 Corinthians 6 :14 If you are not on the same terms or path with each other, there will be conflicts. Madam, religion, faith is an issue, one doesn't eat pork the other does, then the wife has to cook the unclean meat in her pot and handle it, she told the husband no she's not cooking it, then that causes conflicts. where does the children go to church. Religion is vital to discuss before marriage. God comes first before anyone. Without him, we fail the marriage fail
Take Wode Maya 's advice (A wedding is not an investment) you just need the witnesses, no giving of goats, cows or whatever it's time for that to stop. ❤
CJ , you must now oreoare to pay the dowry, No disrespect to your culture guys , when do you kenyans referto your partners as wives, ? Is it after engagement or just when you guys share living space without paying anything, please no offence just asking? .The reason im asking in the siuth african african /black cultures a wife is a wife when you have paid lobols or you went to a magistrate to get married, and there is traditional weddings as well where it must also be registered to the home affairs to be recognised , that's not all but in a nutshell, so guys educate us that side how you do things
Don't change the church CJ. That's not good, i'am catholic too is whay me and mye husband we did not marry in church. My husband is from Lutheran church. Mye children are not members of anny church
@CatarinaAntonioFerrao hi, he will change. Why? Because he will realize that the Catholic changed the day of worship from Saturday to Sunday, please Google it. POPE CONSTINE. If you're serving God and obedient to him, you will follow him and not the pope.
@floritaprospere4369 is the same God, but some disobey the laws of God. Not everyone worshiping God is obedient to his will. If you obey the laws that are set by men or a country, why can't you obey the laws God set for us . Like the 10 commandments. You can't make it to heaven it we continue to do as we please. Mom is guiding her daughter to obey God. God is first in every decision we should make.
Claude you have your own home now you and your wife ❤ GOD CALL A MAN THEN A WOMEN TO BE HIS HELP MATE. ❤ 50 /50❤ BUILD YOUR OWN HOME THE WAY YOU THAT MAKES YOU HAPPY. I LOVE THE WAY YOU BOTH LOVE EACH OTHER. GOD MADE SALVATION ❤🙏🏾💯. MAN MADE RELIGION, GOD SAID BE YE HOLY FOR HE IS HOLY. MAN MAND THE CATHOLIC RELIGION AND SEVEN DAY RELIGION NOT GOD YOU CAN NOT FIND IT IN THE BIBLE ❤SET DOWN WITH YOUR WIFE TO BE AND READ ABOUT IT . 1)❤ THE CATHOLIC CHURCH WAS FIRST BEGAN ABOUT 334 C.E. IN THE ROMAN CHURCH THE COUNCIL TURNED THE JUDEO CHRISTIAN IDEOLOGY INTO A RELIGION. IN 325 C.E. BYE THE EMPIRE CONSTANTINE IN THE CITY OF CONSTANTINOPLE NOW TODAY IT IS CALLED TURKEY. ❤ THE SEVENTH DAY ADVENTIST CHURCH (SDA) WAS STARTING IN 1863 BY JOSEPH BATES , JAMES WHITE. AND HOW IT ALL GOT INTO AFRICAN WAS THE WAS ALL THEM WHITE RELIGIOUS MISSIONARIE THAT GAVE YOU A WHITE JESUS WITH BLONDE HAIR AND BLUE EYES. ❤ THAT YOU ALL STILL HAVE PN ALL YOUR WALLS IN THE MOTHER LAND ❤ .AND JESUS WAS A BLACK MAN HE WAS NOT WHITE READ YOUR BIBLE FOR YOUR SELF THAT PHOTO THAT YOU HAVE ON YOUR WALLS OF JESUS IN MOST OF THE HOMES IN AFRICA IS THE PHOTO OF CESARE BORGIA . HE WAS MADE A BISHOP AT AGE 15 AND A CARDINAL AT AGE OF 18 . HE IS THE REAL LIFE MODEL OF JESUS THANKS TO HIS FATHER RULED OVER A KINGDOM THAT DOMINATED CENTFRL ITALY FROM ME ITS CAPITAL OF ROME ❤ GO GOOGLE ALL THIS INFORMATION FOR YOUR SELF IT IS TIME TO WAKE UP . THE ONLY ONE THING GOD TOLD ALL OF US TO DO IS TO BE HOLY FOR HE IS HOLY THAT S AND TO LOVE HIM WITH ALL YOUR HEART AND SOUL AND TO LOVE JESUS ST JOHN 3:16-17 AND THE TEN COMMENTS AND READ IN THE KING JAMES THE BOOK OF ROMAN ❤ THANKS TO HIS FATHER WHO BECAME POPE ALEXANDER VI IN 1471
@@antoinettevalentine4868 it cannot. That's a big decision before going into marriage. That definitely will show its ugly head later in the marriage. Put everything on the table before getting married.
Love the words of wisdom from Mama Hawi she's truthful and direct. Listen careful I pray for clarity on your path to marriage God's divine blessings and provision.
Hey Claude!! I am Jamaican so I am aware of the cultural differences but honest opinion is this, you and your fiancé just purchased land which cost money! You have built your brother a house which took money, then your grandmother got sick and I am sure you spent money for her hospitalization. My opinion is you don’t have to have a lavish wedding which will cause a lot of money. As long as you are seriously in love then do a private wedding. Remember your intention is to build your dream home! This willl cost a fortune. Having a big wedding doesn’t count! Is the life you live after. Don’t hang your hat where you can’t easily take it down. If you CANNOT easily afford a big wedding DONT stress. Even elope. A house is more important than a. Just saying 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️❤️❤️🇯🇲🇯🇲
Best advice ever Valrose.
I love min Hawi's Mom,she is very brilliant lady and well informed like her daughter Min Hawi.
Your mother is loving❤
Grace🇺🇸
My husband always says, Keep your feet under your blanket.🤔Don't hang your feet outside, you will be cold. Live within your means. Don't live for others, follow God's plan for your life.🙏🏾
Don’t get me wrong EVERY woman would LOVE a lavish wedding on her special day day just to shine. But since some of us weren’t born with a gold spoon in our hand we have to do things the smartest way.BEST of luck to both of you.❤🙏🏾
Not every woman...
@@spikybuttrue8569 🙄😳
Wow Mama Faith's TH-cam channel cant wait to subscribe ❤❤❤❤❤❤
No wonder why Min Hawi is smart and just straight forward. She comes from smart and intelligent people.
Mama wisdom should be her name
Congratulations 🎊 on your union CJ and Min pray for God's coverage over your lives. Blessings to you❤❤❤❤❤❤. 😊 Love you both
Claude was put into a tight spot. She is so clear in her thinking.
Min Hawi you sound just like your mother. She is a wise woman. She would not be doing you guys justice if she didn’t tell you how she feels from her heart. I think the advice about the church is a very important point. The Bible says “Two cannot walk together unless they be agreed.” Good idea for mama to start a TH-cam channel. I’m waiting to subscribe. God.bless you all.🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️
I love this mama the way she ask questions straight to the point .Am just enjoying the vibe while I watch.
What a straight forward mum l love you mum keep your Good work
MH CJ Blessing to see your mother the wise woman she is.❤👍🏾❤
Big up mama HAWI much respect you have spoken like a wise woman. Claude I see how nervous you were! Sweating bullets😂😂😂😂
Haha i am from Kisii, and The Kisii people dont love cornering cornering. 😂😂 They dig deep to establish who you are...and if you gonna take good Care of their daughter ❤🎉❤
Congratulations CJ and mini 🎉
She looks like mom beautigul smile
Congratulations guys.
I think you guys should sit down and decide on which church you want to ge married in.
Like Claude said there is one God.
The two of you will be staying together and doing your stuff together away from your mother in laws Kisi home so i feel you should do whats convinient for you and your wife to be....dont be subjected to confusion or to being forced to do what you are not comfortable with....this is just an opinion guys...good luck and once more congratulations on your engagement❤❤❤❤🎉
Mom with the SDA!😂😂😂
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@LifestyleGardener yes mom can't deny God's and his teaching or rejecting the 10 commandments. If you disobey 1 of my commandments, you're guilty of all.
A small wedding so you can build your house and have a baby. Those need money so no need of lavish wedding guys. True love is the greatest and can be blessed by a church and be ok.
Cj and Mini congratulations again, love mini mum .
Congratulation cj and min I'm super happy for you both my god bless u along the way watching from Jamaica 🇯🇲 big up u self nuff nuff love ❤❤❤😁👏
Hello CJ am out of internet from yesterday am still without just using data just to catch up love you and Min Hawi🙏❤️
CJ your mother in law, is good and strong woman l like her,
❤CJ and MH❤
Congratulations 🎉🎉🎉🎉
Congratulations are in order from Botswana 🇧🇼 CJ & MH! Much love ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ more blessings 🙌 🙏 🎉
I'm seeing where Min got her personality. She's just like her mom😊
I love mama, she will be a great Mother In Law. God bless you all.
Much love
Greet meme. I like encouragement from her.
Please like and share the video guys
Can’t wait for the wedding 💒 woto woto views
Kisi the best!👍
Am back like i never left.
Wishingyou well in everything. What i understand when it comes to marriage you should listen to your parents you can't ignore them because they have a lot of wisdom especially the God fearing parents.
That is my opinion though.
Congratulations in order to min and cj from mzansi south africa
Omulembe CJ💞💞
Hi beautiful couple, I believe in God and the bible. Although we believe in one God, God also set his laws that we should obey, and the 10 commandments is some of his laws.
Mum is soo fanny.aki ready as from yesterday
Kissi is also where Korree the traveller is from
CJ👊
Mwanamke hana dini cj.the lady should follow u
Kabisaah
❤❤❤❤ SDA good for family life. Will revisit the channel again to give a testimony. Busy with something for now
Hello min hawi mummy. Love you guys❤❤❤❤❤❤
Retired mama
Wow u ar a true love man to mini hawi😍
Min hawi looks Pregnant,and tired
Congratulations to you both
Congratulations to CJ and MH
RETIRED TEACHER LIFE
do what your inner spirit tell you to do both of you
Kisii is similar as our area in central kenya called muranga.food grown there is similar
Isn't Kissi where Dr.Kibe lives? His mom has a very beautiful property.
Am sorry but SDA families ,find it hard to accept other religions .so long as we serve on God there is no problem to talk about church issues
@Christian_lifestyle church issue can be very difficult, I just watched an episode on afrimax English, and that's why the bible teaches us concerning, unequally, yolk ,later on it will become a serious issue. Sda, don't find it hard. They believe in God's teaching about marriage. Listen to God and your parents. Watch that episode. God's words stand true every time. Yes, only 1 God, but which is keeping the commandments
@@VeghshBdhe Thankyou,you say they follow God's teaching,just prove from the Bible where it states that you hould marry from your religion.lets put our churches aside and worship God from our hearts .
@Christian_lifestyle 2 Corinthians 6 :14 If you are not on the same terms or path with each other, there will be conflicts. Madam, religion, faith is an issue, one doesn't eat pork the other does, then the wife has to cook the unclean meat in her pot and handle it, she told the husband no she's not cooking it, then that causes conflicts. where does the children go to church. Religion is vital to discuss before marriage. God comes first before anyone. Without him, we fail the marriage fail
Am SDA as well 🎉🎉🎉
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❤ SDA in 🇺🇸 ❤
I am an SDA too❤
wisdom mam hawi
See; that’s one word I’ve learnt about your in-laws language 😜😜
Age is just a Number😂😂
Take Wode Maya 's advice (A wedding is not an investment) you just need the witnesses, no giving of goats, cows or whatever it's time for that to stop. ❤
CJ , you must now oreoare to pay the dowry, No disrespect to your culture guys , when do you kenyans referto your partners as wives, ? Is it after engagement or just when you guys share living space without paying anything, please no offence just asking? .The reason im asking in the siuth african african /black cultures a wife is a wife when you have paid lobols or you went to a magistrate to get married, and there is traditional weddings as well where it must also be registered to the home affairs to be recognised , that's not all but in a nutshell, so guys educate us that side how you do things
Don't change the church CJ. That's not good, i'am catholic too is whay me and mye husband we did not marry in church. My husband is from Lutheran church. Mye children are not members of anny church
@CatarinaAntonioFerrao hi, he will change. Why? Because he will realize that the Catholic changed the day of worship from Saturday to Sunday, please Google it. POPE CONSTINE. If you're serving God and obedient to him, you will follow him and not the pope.
We know the Catholic change the day of worship from Saturday to Sunday. Google it.
Min Hawi is Prego?
She seems ,she's hiding hiding something
Mama don t impose your beleave on other people let them chose they beleve in the same God
@floritaprospere4369 is the same God, but some disobey the laws of God. Not everyone worshiping God is obedient to his will. If you obey the laws that are set by men or a country, why can't you obey the laws God set for us . Like the 10 commandments. You can't make it to heaven it we continue to do as we please. Mom is guiding her daughter to obey God. God is first in every decision we should make.
She looks pregnant
Yes she does
Are you married??
Claude you have your own home now you and your wife ❤ GOD CALL A MAN THEN A WOMEN TO BE HIS HELP MATE. ❤ 50 /50❤ BUILD YOUR OWN HOME THE WAY YOU THAT MAKES YOU HAPPY. I LOVE THE WAY YOU BOTH LOVE EACH OTHER. GOD MADE SALVATION ❤🙏🏾💯. MAN MADE RELIGION, GOD SAID BE YE HOLY FOR HE IS HOLY. MAN MAND THE CATHOLIC RELIGION AND SEVEN DAY RELIGION NOT GOD YOU CAN NOT FIND IT IN THE BIBLE ❤SET DOWN WITH YOUR WIFE TO BE AND READ ABOUT IT .
1)❤ THE CATHOLIC CHURCH WAS FIRST BEGAN ABOUT 334 C.E. IN THE ROMAN CHURCH THE COUNCIL TURNED THE JUDEO CHRISTIAN IDEOLOGY INTO A RELIGION.
IN 325 C.E. BYE THE EMPIRE CONSTANTINE IN THE CITY OF CONSTANTINOPLE NOW TODAY IT IS CALLED TURKEY. ❤
THE SEVENTH DAY ADVENTIST CHURCH (SDA) WAS STARTING IN 1863 BY JOSEPH BATES , JAMES WHITE.
AND HOW IT ALL GOT INTO AFRICAN WAS THE WAS ALL THEM WHITE RELIGIOUS MISSIONARIE THAT GAVE YOU A WHITE JESUS WITH BLONDE HAIR AND BLUE EYES. ❤ THAT YOU ALL STILL HAVE PN ALL YOUR WALLS IN THE MOTHER LAND ❤ .AND JESUS WAS A BLACK MAN HE WAS NOT WHITE READ YOUR BIBLE FOR YOUR SELF THAT PHOTO THAT YOU HAVE ON YOUR WALLS OF JESUS IN MOST OF THE HOMES IN AFRICA IS THE PHOTO OF CESARE BORGIA . HE WAS MADE A BISHOP AT AGE 15 AND A CARDINAL AT AGE OF 18 .
HE IS THE REAL LIFE MODEL OF JESUS THANKS TO HIS FATHER RULED OVER A KINGDOM THAT DOMINATED CENTFRL ITALY FROM ME ITS CAPITAL OF ROME ❤
GO GOOGLE ALL THIS INFORMATION FOR YOUR SELF IT IS TIME TO WAKE UP . THE ONLY ONE THING GOD TOLD ALL OF US TO DO IS TO BE HOLY FOR HE IS HOLY THAT S AND TO LOVE HIM WITH ALL YOUR HEART AND SOUL AND TO LOVE JESUS ST JOHN 3:16-17 AND THE TEN COMMENTS AND READ IN THE KING JAMES THE BOOK OF ROMAN ❤
THANKS TO HIS FATHER WHO BECAME POPE
ALEXANDER VI IN 1471
keep religion out of your decisions.
@@antoinettevalentine4868 it cannot. That's a big decision before going into marriage. That definitely will show its ugly head later in the marriage. Put everything on the table before getting married.
@@VeghshBdhereligion is important in marriage u have to decide early❤
congrats,channel name @mama hawi
Drop mom, youtube channel in your subscription
Ahh I just wish you a good beautiful love and a very big comfortable house of your choice ❤🙏🏿
Love the words of wisdom from Mama Hawi she's truthful and direct. Listen careful I pray for clarity on your path to marriage God's divine blessings and provision.
Claude you don't understand 2 cannot walk together except they be agree. ,says the Bible, and this is the belief of the S D A church.
Enjoying moms vibes. She gets straight to the point. No corner cornering
Mincj junior onthe way mabroook❤❤❤❤