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Exactly… It’s crazy with the parasocial hate, these ppl needs to touch grass bc there’s no way they don’t know this… it’s concerning and ironic how they keep saying therapy when they’re the ones needed that
true but u can’t sit there and watch her call Jeremiah a pussy ass bitch and a bitch multiple times on camera and think “oh there was so much more to it”😭 nobody should ever talk to someone like that. I do understand tho like I think a lot of the season especially in the beginning was edited to make everything abt her look bad and it wasn’t fair and i wish we could see more especially in tense moments
Exactly insane fan doesn’t understand how production manipulation work how they paint these islanders give edits to villainize them and show them in a bad light.
I am SOO GLAD Alex goes into personal development questions first!! Understanding someone’s psychology and the way they think helps so much to understand why they way they react. It doesnt make it okay, but it gives it more sense because we are literally all human.
Agreed. Your childhood is the biggest part of why you are the way that you are. I honestly feel as though everyone would have more empathy for each other if we knew each others story
fom what we saw on the show, the way she handles her relationships and treats her partners is undoubtedly worrisome. Her constant need for validation, how she belittles people, curses them out, lies, etc. the way she handled things with Chris AND Jeremiah shows she self sabotages with the hopes of self preservation. its an issue, none of which she should be vilified for as its a product of her upbringing, but also her behavior should NOT be admired. With that being said she should NOT be hated. I worry for those who worship someone like this as well as those who judge and hate her (send her hateful dms). We should have empathy for her, but we also shouldn't idolize her behavior. two things can be true
This… I feel like she’s always had to dismiss her emotions and have some kind of excuse instead of being allowed to cry when she feels sad. It sucks to watch.
I worry about the way she handles her relationships and treats her partners. Her constant need for validation, how she belittles people, curses them out, lies, etc. the way she handled things with Chris AND Jeremiah shows she self sabotages with the hopes of self preservation. its an issue. none of which she should be vilified for as its a product of her upbringing, but also should not be admired.
this is a perfect example of never judge someone because you never know what someone’s gone through. I don’t condone her behavior but who are we to judge her to the level that she has been judged
Just because her pain is understandable, it doesn’t make her behavior acceptable. She just has a lot of personal development and it’s understandable, she’s young.
I knew I resonated with huda for some reason but god I hate that it was this one😭 knowing that pain of not being believed and losing family over it is something a child or anyone should never have to feel😞
I was SA’d as an adult and it was traumatizing. Can’t even bear the thought of that happening as a kid. My cousin spoke out when she was a kid about her mom’s bf and no one believed her. So I get it. Huda is misunderstood and so are we. I hope we can all one day fully live happily
Thank you alex for being the ONLY one to ask someone why they didn’t stand up for amaya! The silence was LOUD and no one can claim girl’s girl esp after that
Her explaining postpartum and not doing anything for yourself to make sure baby doesn’t cry 😭😭😭 thank you Huda, thank you for speaking on it. I know exactly how that was!!
@monicahernandez4364Hang in there babe. Be gentle with yourself & know you are doing an amazing job. Every emotion you might feel right now it’s absolutely valid. I know it sounds cliche but time does fly, my daughter is now 13 years old & this teenager phase comes with different challenges I was not ready for. Sending you a big hug 🫂🫶🏼
from what we saw on the show, the way she handles her relationships and treats her partners is undoubtedly worrisome. Her constant need for validation, how she belittles people, curses them out, lies, etc. the way she handled things with Chris AND Jeremiah shows she self sabotages with the hopes of self preservation. its an issue, none of which she should be vilified for as its a product of her upbringing, but also her behavior should NOT be admired. With that being said she should NOT be hated. I worry for those who worship someone like this as well as those who judge and hate her (send her hateful dms). We should have empathy for her, but we also shouldn't idolize her behavior. two things can be true
This is the first Call Her Daddy podcast I’ve ever watched, and I must say that Alex is great at being so impartial while still holding people accountable, and is overall a very effective interviewer. I can see now why she’s been so successful, I’ve never watched an almost 2 hr podcast through before but she asks all the right questions.
(00:03) - Introduction and Discussion of Post-Villa Life (05:05) - Childhood Experiences and Family Background (10:06) - Abuse, Family Dynamics, and Personal Struggles (15:01) - School Bullying, Self-Identity, and Emotional Challenges (20:03) - Meeting the Father of Her Child and Early Relationship (25:00) - Pregnancy, Relationship Challenges, and Family Reactions (30:03) - Ending the Relationship and Becoming a Single Mother (35:01) - Financial Struggles, Independence, and Moving On (40:05) - Transition to Reality TV and Love Island Opportunity (45:00) - First Impressions and Relationship with Jeremiah (50:04) - Red Flags, Jealousy, and Relationship Dynamics (55:00) - Sexual Tension, Past Relationships, and Villa Conflicts (01:00:04) - Exploring the Dynamics of a Relationship and Love Bombing (01:05:01) - Communication Breakdown and Emotional Reactions in the Relationship (01:10:04) - The Impact of Betrayal and Emotional Distress in the Relationship (01:15:03) - Reflections on Personal Behavior and Accountability in Relationships (01:20:01) - Transitioning to New Relationships and Expectations (01:25:04) - Navigating New Relationships and Misunderstandings (01:30:06) - Balancing Friendship and Romantic Pursuits in the Villa (01:35:01) - Challenges in a New Relationship and Personal Boundaries (01:40:01) - Emotional Struggles and Disappointments in a New Relationship (01:45:06) - Reflections on Past Experiences and Personal Growth (01:50:06) - Closing Thoughts on the Experience and Future Outlook - I’m truly honored to provide chapters of this video. - If this helped you, like and comment so more folks can see it, y’all!
I hope she gets the support her soul needs… a lot of guidance and intense therapy. It hurts my heart to see how much pain she still lives with. You’re doing the best you can Huda ❤
Huda having an abusive father makes so much sense. I can completely relate to her story. I’m in therapy and have been for 2 years. Healing takes a long time.
from what we saw on the show, the way she handles her relationships and treats her partners is undoubtedly worrisome. Her constant need for validation, how she belittles people, curses them out, lies, etc. the way she handled things with Chris AND Jeremiah shows she self sabotages with the hopes of self preservation. its an issue, none of which she should be vilified for as its a product of her upbringing, but also her behavior should NOT be admired. With that being said she should NOT be hated. I worry for those who worship someone like this as well as those who judge and hate her (send her hateful dms). We should have empathy for her, but we also shouldn't idolize her behavior. two things can be true
This was deep. Honestly, I wasn’t expecting to get emotional but the way you opened up about everything, it hit hard. You’re so brave for sharing all that, and I know it’s not easy. I really respect how real you kept it. You’re not just telling your story, you’re helping people feel less alone
@@JonathanMiamiibro what? How did she affect anyone else’s mental health? And regardless that’s such a weird thing to say about someone you don’t even know 😂
@@bayanne5159she literally said in the podcast she is aware of how toxic she is because of her childhood therefore she takes herself to counseling and therapy. I’m just repeating what she said and hoping she can continue to seek metal help. And she verbally abused jermaih and was known to be a bully in the villa.
I feel like Huda is currently in her healing journey. She’s going to do so many great things and will be sooo successful!!! Mark my words, this woman is going to be unstoppable ❤️🔥
Yes she is and this shouldn't have ever included her being on such a huge show in her current journey.. at least not yet..she has so much healing to do first
@@Daniel-pd8gj I agree but she most likely wasn't as self aware about it until now. One of the good things that came from her being on the show in her own words are, "using it as an opportunity to grow from"
Huda’s recollection of things…Pepe told her he didn’t want to pursue her because of her behavior not because of Jeremiah. The whole island said they ruined everyone’s experience the first 2 weeks. Everyone was exhausted. Huda isn’t a terrible person but she needed to be in therapy and heal before going on reality tv. Yes it was entertaining to watch but man…
@@EA-uv1ci in the beginning but when Huda sat him down and asked if he’d explore her when Jeremiah wasn’t there anymore…he politely told her she’s attractive but he’s big on personality and it wouldn’t work
100% agree. She's young, and I think with intense therapy, she will grow and realize she was a problem. Watching it back will be cringe in five years. I just really hope she will look past the hate and instead see some of it as a chance to learn and grow. She's beautiful and low-key funny af. I can see the good in her, but I also see the trauma and many traits of borderline personality disorder. I hope to see lots of growth in a few years.
@@ashleychole exactly! Shes likable which is why a lot of guys were into her at first but she hasn’t healed yet and it shows in her behavior which turned them off. She really needs to heal without the limelight.
Wow this episode just fixed my attention span. Watched the full thing start to finish on normal speed and I still want a part 2. Omg I’ve never related to someone more in my life. Hudas emotions are soooo genuine and she got me crying, she didn’t deserve that childhood.
@@gloryshorty So a GROWN woman starting a countdown after a man says NO to having sex (confirmed by the party in question) with her or he’ll pay for it basically is not coercion? Pls explain
@@AnaliaLoaizago ahead, explain how threatening a man to make his day hell tomorrow if he doesn’t have sex with her In 3 seconds is not coercion? Or is it because she’s a girl so she can’t be an abuser ? And Chris confirmed that’s what she was asking for 😘
Huda and Amaya are two young ladies that are connected to their spiritual side. They wear their emotions on their sleeve, and they had to navigate their emotions on Love Island. What a ride
Honestly I just don't think she was emotionally ready for a show like this. Learning about her childhood makes it make a lot of sense, with how toxic and attached she got
@@GrunesGemuse the trauma she has aligns perfectly with the way issues she has, I just hope she gets help. It genuinely isnt fun to watch someone get triggered on reality tv
Totally agree. However, her reactions are due to the abuse she got ( yes, Jeremiah is a narc*iss*t) and Chris definitely plays with emotions, it drove Huda crazy. Poor girl. Yes, she needs healing, but those two guess abs the girls in the villa, bullies.
@@melodyquintana9988 Jeremiah was super immature, but he didnt love bomb her any more than she love bombed him. They were equally intense and she was extrmeely nasty to the bombshells over him. Chris is just a classic uninterested douchebag though. I dont think either of them were mature enough to handle Huda
That part and than there's there ones (me included) who understood her actions a little, not saying they were absolutely right, but we understood them. There was something a few of us watching resonated with without even knowing her back story. There was that connection. Regardless of race or color. I hope she gets amazing grand deals and heals from everything she's been through🥺
Some of us really aren’t that sensitive and are more sensitive on our periods. I think she wanted it to make sure no one took away a false perception of her.
I wish we got the same type of interview with Amaya! I wanted to know more about her childhood too. But appreciate Huda being honest and sharing so much!
I feel like Amaya expressed so much of that during the show though!! And as the winner too I’m sure there weren’t things she could get into and that wouldn’t have been conducive to her future success. I’m not saying Amaya never went through anything during childhood but as the winner, it’s a different vibe.
When huda was talking bout her as a child i thought of Amaya talking bout her on a play ground inserting herself laughing spinning on a swing and huda was surviving and in some trauma and to me that really comes through in their current personalities
@@kierramarie5018the fact that you see it that way shows your lack of empathy and emotional intelligence… huda has been getting nasty hate for reactions that of course aren’t valid but this interview humanized her and shows why she is the way she is. she has a lot of healing to do, she is not perfect, and she is working on it. no one in this interview excused her reactions to anything, it was all addressed and taken accountability for like what more do people want? dial down the hate. like amaya said, if she’s not your cup of tea then don’t watch her solo interview? simple as that hope this helps 💖
I am likely not the typical demographic that watches Love Island, but my wife and I discovered it during the pandemic and got hooked. We don't follow the online gossip while the show is on, but we hear about it later. It is just so easy to understand that these islanders are at the mercy of the producers and editing for the sake of entertainment and viewership. Understand that there is so much more truth to these people that is not evident to the viewers. it is pointless and stupid to hate. It is so much easier to respond with Grace and understand that we the viewer is being manipulated. All of these islanders including Huda seem to be wonderful people. As a single father raising my children from the age of 2 to 21, I have so much respect for Huda.
unpopular opinion: your past doesn’t matter it’s how you treat people in the present that does matter. I’m sure plenty of people who’ve done. Terrible things have had dark things happen to them in their past like Trump or Andrew Tate. But that doesn’t matter in the context of how they treat people today you’re supposed to use your pass to remind you on why it’s important to treat people nicely not as a crutch to justify why you behave the way you do.
@@woahwoah3600 The past - especially negative experiences - is of enormous relevance to a person's development, both in the psychological, neurological and social sense. It acts like an invisible code that affects our perception, our behavior and our relationships.
@@Dr.miYagi-030Exactly people are ignorant af. The past ESPECIALLY unresolved childhood issues will shape how a person operates throughout their adult life. Like Carl Jung said until you make the unconscious conscious, you will perceive everything as fate. Integrating the shadow to become whole is the key!
@@Dr.miYagi-030 i believe it is a persons responsibility to take accountability of how their past affects them and how they operate in their relationships. You can talk about your trauma all you want but if you dont understand how your trauma is making you behave then you’re not using your trauma to help you change. I also have an extremely similar childhood to her and although ive never behaved in the same way as her, i have thought similarly to her at some points in my life.
@@woahwoah3600as a child if you went through something terrible it messes with your development and the way you think so. So the way they react may seem justified in their eyes or just the way it’s suppose to be.
from what we saw on the show, the way she handles her relationships and treats her partners is undoubtedly toxic. Her constant need for validation, how she belittles people, curses them out, lies, etc. the way she handled things with Chris AND Jeremiah shows she self sabotages with the hopes of self preservation. its an issue, none of which she should be vilified for as its a product of her upbringing, but also her behavior should NOT be admired. With that being said she should NOT be hated. I worry for those who worship someone like this as well as those who judge and hate her (send her hateful dms). We should have empathy for her, but we also shouldn't idolize her behavior. two things can be true
@@lukeglantonstuntdriverDead ass what the fuck does anything you said have to do with the original comment. If you want to hate on this woman go somewhere and figure it out
Hats off to Huda for being able to bare it all in front of the world, people are so quick to say trauma this trauma that.. her behavior this her behavior that.. as if they are all extremely aligned people with no flaws.. the hypocrisy of the judgment towards Huda is maddening. Do you guys except people on TV to be picture perfect all the time? Huda is real, she is strong, she is patient, she persevered through a lot and kept that beautiful smile on her face. Her flaws make her who she is just like your flaws make you who you are. At least she is likable unlike a lot of people with their holier than thou personalities. Keep your head up Huda, all these people can do is judge and they lack emotional intelligence to understand different perspectives.
I definitely never saw this from watching the show. I actually found myself wondering if she had any real positive male role models based on how often she fixated on “a real man would…” or “I want a man that…” speaks to more of never getting something and trying to figure out what and how a man should be or how it actually looks.
@@laudtv-3810she explained this. Her idea of a man came from how she saw men behave in romantic tv and disney and from watching other happy couples, but not from any of the men in her life
@@Justina-qp3sm Okay Justina the middle eastern. Everyone processes trauma differently. Did you also have to raise a newborn with colic as a single teen mom? How many other traumas does she have that she didn’t get into that added to childhood experience?
Yeah that still doesn’t make her actions ok, she has a lot of trauma and she has a lot healing to do love island was not the place for this and she should’ve never been on it
from what we saw on the show, the way she handles her relationships and treats her partners is undoubtedly toxic. Her constant need for validation, how she belittles people, curses them out, lies, etc. the way she handled things with Chris AND Jeremiah shows she self sabotages with the hopes of self preservation. its an issue, none of which she should be vilified for as its a product of her upbringing, but also her behavior should NOT be admired. With that being said she should NOT be hated. I worry for those who worship someone like this as well as those who judge and hate her (send her hateful dms). We should have empathy for her, but we also shouldn't idolize her behavior. two things can be true
@@idontwannahearitidontknow7223 Let me dumb it down for you ‘idontwannahearitidontknow7223’ trauma gatekeeper. I never dismissed her trauma, I said I’ve been through the same and I understand her. But understanding someone doesn’t mean excusing every choice they make or blindly loving them. That’s called critical thinking. So let’s not twist what I said just because you’re emotionally reactive to anyone. having trauma doesn’t automatically make someone lovable or above critique. and my comment wasn’t a cry for empathy it was a comment of clarity. Try reading it slowly this time. keyboard warrior😂😂😂
1:47:00 CLOCK THAT. Some of us aren't idolizing her, we Recognize she's a human, and she's flawed,but we can see the hurt was deep. Honestly even as a viewer this experience was, wild, I thought we all needed a therapist afterwards, I can only imagine their experience.
Some are idolizing her and being racist and bullying everyone else in the process because everyone has some kind of trauma but hers is not more important than her bad behavior towards other people on live tv . Be fr
It’s weird why are all these comments saying “but there are people idolizing her and being racist to other people”… no baby they not idolizing Huda, Huda has never once been racist to others. Those people are people using huda name as an excuse for their own racist agenda. Every woman on that show except the white people have experienced racist comments from the outside world. Let’s stop blaming Huda and clock those racist individuals please! I’m not defending her actions in the beginning but she was never racist or was bullying people because their skin color or because she got off on doing it. She was reacting to peoples actions but she wasn’t right in no way. Almost Everyone on that show meaning the woman and man have done or said something out of control because of someone’s actions (even our favorite girl Amaya but she even apologized and we moved on). Like let’s hold people accountable without bullying. I love all these girls and they aren’t perfect but we see they are all friends and hang out so why are the fans so divided.
Yesss! I agree like we love Huda bc we can relate and we realize we don’t know her personally so why hate her ? ppl hate a girl they don’t know bc of actions she did to another person they don’t know while not realizing she’s STILL human and nobody’s perfect and even tho she went about it in a kinda toxic way she was still valid in the way she felt 💯
I saw a younger me in Huda. I also was molested as a child. She’s 24, she will go to therapy and be ok. She will thrive. She has some growing up to do but she will mature. I’m 45 and just now able to talk about my abuse without crying. Therapist once described the lashing out as a PTSD response.
I wish more people would realize that isn’t something to just “heal” or “fix”. I’ve seen so many comments on Facebook saying everyone goes through things and shouldn’t be an excuse. While I agree that it’s not an excuse, we can’t ignore the fact that it’s not an overnight fix, but a journey.
@@bittersweetpandaaayes. I also give grace to the ppl making judgemental comments because their is a reason they are also they way they are. Life has a way of humbling all of us. They too will learn with time. We don’t have to condone what she does or says but we can voice our opinions without the horrible name calling. It’s definitely a journey. I do hope she goes to therapy she does seem like she wants to grow and learn.
Me too and I’m 25. It took having a stable relationship that brought up all my trauma to get me into therapy. Everyone heals so differently and at a different pace. It pains me that people are diagnosing her and making her out to be villain.
huda opening up about her childhood + trauma made everything make sense. the way unhealed wounds have her clinging to men bc of her dad… that’s not “crashing out” that’s literal ptsd. ppl judge so fast off tv edits but never ask why. even the bullying she went thru in school shaped how she sees other women… that kind of pain sticks w/ you. i got so much respect for her being this raw on camera. she’s real for that.
I said to people it looked like a PTSD episode to me and they said she was manipulating me 😂 as someone who has similar trauma I knew wtf was happening.
What happened to her and what she went thru definitely not her fault but it is her responsibility to heal it and not project those unhealed wounds onto others 🫤
@@katalystttI agree, but Jeremiah isn’t healed either, their relationship was toxic because they had a very pull pull then pull push dynamic. Its triggering to anyone, but especially someone with trauma. I don’t think he was doing it on purpose, but it is hard to deal with whiplash. Shes in therapy for a reason though, she is trying to heal and I am sure he is too since he is also in therapy.
A lot of things explain behavior, but doesn’t excuse behavior. Her traumas definitely align with her behaviors, I really hope she gets the support she needs to heal.
That part!! There are tons of people who have trauma and don't do what she has done. And to continue the bully narrative against people of color doesn't sit right with me.
She said that though. She said “was that the best way to handle it, no.” She apologizes and takes accountability many times in this interview and also acknowledges that she has to heal, grow, and learn.
@@happybananapandaThis comment wasn’t written to start a debate. What this person said is true and should be heard and received. A rebuttal isn’t necessary. Huda’s past reflects the behavior she exhibits today and we all hope she heals because it’ll be better for her moving forward. The end.
Fr. Feel like I watched a different show. It’s good to have grace for people and all but there’s was a lot of problematic behavior that people really just push out of their minds
“There was a point I got really scared.” As a victim of child SA and grooming, I understand that kind of fear the overwhelming sense that things are escalating and becoming more unsafe. That deep pit in your stomach feeling. Huda leaving her dad’s home that day may have saved her from experiencing something far worse than what she had already gone through. She’s still healing, and that’s why I love Huda she shows what it truly looks like to heal and move through those big emotions as a victim of Child SA/Grooming.
Omg yes!! Being groomed/SA is already scary enough. Add on seeing the escalation and not being able to speak up is terrifying. As a girl that has experienced SA from a family member, I remember dreading being alone with the person bc of what has happened in the past. I cannot imagine living with them under the same roof. I see her totally different.
Just finished the interview and you can tell Huda is a nuanced person with so much depth, humor, and love. She’s 100% herself, right or wrong, and is continually trying to make the best of what she has been handed in life. I have so much respect, love, and admiration for this young woman. You can tell she won over Alex too.
Her upbringing explained a lot; however, she really didn’t take a lot of accountability! She doesn’t like to feel/appear as though she was the one in the wrong…she tries to justify everything. She is really dealing with the root of rejection. It’s absolutely nothing wrong with desiring a man to love you well, but she is expecting her partner to make her whole. Until she’s honest with herself, sadly she may stay in these cycles.
The thing that nobody talks about is that Jeremiah was ALL IN with Huda - until the boys started giving feedback and opinions on THEIR relationship. You can literally WATCH the switch happen for him when the boys insert their perception and then BOOM he starts acting cold to Huda. Why is nobody addressing this?! I genuinely think they would have worked it out on their own, or moved on on their own. Naturally. But the whole house was insistent on being all up in their personal business. And you can literally TRACK Jeremiah’s switch to treating her differently when he got the social cues from the boys that they disapproved. Also to that point - YES Ace was light weight obsessed with THEIR relationship. Idk if it’s because he saw them as a threat to winning OR because he had a thing for Huda and wanted her from the jump and was rejected… or both. But he then went on a crusade to slander them and manipulated the rest of the boy crew to take on his opinions. Period.
That is a valid point even Huda doesn't blame the boys for the pressure that they put on him not saying he is without blame but his experience was also ruined I think they would have worked or wouldn't have worked and maybe at least been friends if they would have been on a different season where they could have did things on their own their own way
Her behaviour on the show was indicative of someone who experienced traumatic events, and it is also edited heavily. Six weeks is 1008 hours, and we only get about 40 of those. She is also someone who is clearly trying in ernest to grow. Respect doesn't even begin to explain what I feel towards her now. Huda has fought hard.
1000%. I saw my past self in many of those moments & immediately knew it was so much more deeper than that. Especially adding onto it as a single parent.
Absolutely, but she struggles to acknowledge or apologize for her behavior until it's too late. I feel for her story, but I can't absolve her of the way she treated people in the villa.
@@relaxaingsleepchannel8541 she’s not getting attacked people are just critiquing the fact that she has taken zero accountability and seems to have switched up on Chelley and Ola after just being up Nicolandria but.
It makes me really sad that it sounds like she didn’t get to unpack her trauma until she talked to the show’s psychologist. I hope she continues to meet with a therapist and gets the support she needs. Makes me sad that her family doesn’t believe her about her dad 💔
The saddest thing for me to hear was that she felt like she couldn’t confide in the girls (except for Amaya). Like omg how alone did she feel in there while they were all creating cliques and talking about her behind her back constantly. I hope her and Amaya continue to be there for each other and distance themselves from these people that switched up on them once they realized how popular they really were.❤️❤️❤️
You ate this UP omg you let her express herself, validated her experience, while still pouring wisdom into her. THATS how you do it. that’s grace and accountability ❤ keep going!!
huda, you don’t understand how strong you are for talking about this. i had a similar childhood and im still figuring it out for myself and seeing you be able to speak on this and being strong about it gives me hope for myself and my future 🤍
Agreed! We love you Huda but please do a 30 hour binge and watch your season before part 2 and def before the reunion! Ace’s influence was the reason you started feeling Jer pull away. He also DID come to see you that night but you were in the shower and didn’t know it. Wish Alex remembered that. He heard you saying stuff about him and walked away. :( I really think you two are just misunderstood because so many people interfered with your relationship! Jer’s fault in allowing them get into his head about you…. It just spiralled from there. Much love, girl!!! ❤
@@KeepingItGWithGigihuda was never fake lol. She was real in her emotion…a little too real that people hated her for how raw her emotions are. Move round
I’ve loved Huda from the moment she stepped into the villa, but after hearing her on that podcast, my respect for her has grown even more. I can relate to so many of the things she’s been through it’s heartbreaking how many women experience the same. She’s not only beautiful on the outside but also strong, real, and raw on the inside. That kind of honesty is rare and so inspiring. Wishing her nothing but the best and sending big things her way. She truly deserves it all. 💕
exactly. most women think its being a bad mother. but they dont understand, at the end of the day. your kids wants a happy mom & im sure her daughter will be proud of her mom.
Great interview! I like her even more than I already did! No way should the haters walk away from watching this and still have a lack of empathy or understanding of her. It was worth the wait! She deserves to receive double for her troubles! God got you, girl!
Clearly she took advantage of therapy in the villa...I said long ago this show has to stir up things from their past...Im glad she went to talk to them on her own.
She's in therapy. She said in another interview that she has a therapist. Healing and growth don't happen overnight, even with therapy. It will take time.
This interview really humanized Huda and was desperately needed. By watching Huda’s behavior on the show, it was obvious she had childhood trauma that still has a hold on her. People are quick to judge others not knowing that everyone has a story. She doesn’t deserve the hate. I hope she works through her trauma and becomes better.
@@JonathanMiamiiwell boo people were saying CRAZY stuff ab huda being a “bad mother” and that shes abuses her daughter, so nobody cares ab the “what if the roles were reversed”
i do think that she should be given the grace given what she went through, BUT that never excuses or justifies the way she treats others. I just hope that she focuses on herself and her mental health before starting dating again.
@@JonathanMiamiithe roles aren't reversed though are they? The whole internet gave this girl shit and defended 2 men from her even though both were being sneaky behind the cameras and playing pr on camera so they could win the audience and they succeeded! So stop with the "if the roles were reversed" card cz it's just not valid
That literally made no sense to me because the following thing was to move in with the bf and continue hooking up and other sinful acts…selective faith?
I really feel bad for the trauma Huda experienced, however as the saying goes “your trauma is not your fault, but your healing is your responsibility”. I hope she watches the show, does serious introspection which leads to her working on her mental health.
Thank you ! I’ve sooo much childhood trauma & someone once told me “your trauma is no longer a excuse for your actions at one point you must admit you’re wrong & get help” & when I became a mom I finally understood how true that was
EXXXACTLY!!! Im sorry she went thru all that BUT alot of people go through things and its her job (especially as a mother) to get the healing to be better. Huda NEVER takes accountability. Everything with her is someone else’s fault. I really dont like this girl, she is such a manipulator and narcissist.
This is the point that we’ve been making when it comes to holding her accountable. Huda doesn’t deserve what she went through. It gives context and i understand 100% why she acts the way she does. But understanding DOES NOT mean she gets a pass on toxic behavior enacted. This is the message she needs to focus on, all other hate is totally unwarranted.
This woman made me watch Love Island for the first time. I saw her edits on TikTok and fell in love. Everyone constantly hating on her and I found out she’s only 24 and a mom. Yet they relentlessly keep attacking her rooting for her to breakdown. Very sad. She seemed so misunderstood. I’m rooting for her to proper. Huda and Amaya remain my favorites.
from what we saw on the show, the way she handles her relationships and treats her partners is undoubtedly worrisome. Her constant need for validation, how she belittles people, curses them out, lies, etc. the way she handled things with Chris AND Jeremiah shows she self sabotages with the hopes of self preservation. its an issue, none of which she should be vilified for as its a product of her upbringing, but also her behavior should NOT be admired. With that being said she should NOT be hated. I worry for those who worship someone like this as well as those who judge and hate her (send her hateful dms). We should have empathy for her, but we also shouldn't idolize her behavior. two things can be true
@lukeglantonstuntdriver its easy to see it that way when the two men were also extremely manipulative and in my opinion exploited her emotional state for their own benefit.
@@lukeglantonstuntdriver this is also true but it’s so unfair everyone blaming only huda I agree she’s toxic and definitely need to work on herself. But people are hating solely on her and not the men especially Chris (I need your opinion on him 👀)
How she said people in the villa wouldn’t care about what she said and dismissed her feelings so she’d rather just talk to the psychiatrist instead because she couldn’t trust the other girls is really sad. I hope she reads all these comments and knows she’s loved. And that she stands 10 toes down at that reunion and stick up for herself.
Yea but she left out a lot and wouldn’t bring it up for her to explain or react to. She had a lot of contradictions and the excuses she made for herself that could go for everyone else in the villa
people do not realize how difficult it truly is to break cycles and work through the difficult times in your life while being someone who wears their heart on their sleeve. she's a very strong woman who's committed to being the best mom she can be to her kid and you can see by the way people around her love her, that she's a very genuine human being. everyone makes mistakes and she's taken accountability time and time again, both in and outside of the villa but people just refuse to see it. glad to see she doesn't pay any mind to the people who keep pushing certain narratives on her cause she knows who she is as a person. she's learning and growing and that's commendable.
I already loved Huda before but seeing her like this makes me love her even more her strength her resiliency and her vulnerability are so comforting resonates so much with me we love you Huda 🤍
Agreed. Her trauma is definitely relevant and explains her feelings and reactions, but doesn’t excuse them. I was waiting for a little bit more of accountability or difference in perspective about Jeremiah…but it’s just the same narrative.
@@cnp53 Y’all want her to like Jeremiah so bad but she doesn’t have to. He’s been using her name since he left the villa… all she said is she doesn’t want to associate with him and she doesn’t care to catch up. She’s protecting her peace… we’ve only seen the edited clips of the 72 hours of him and her. We’ll never have the full story so.
@@unknown4957no one wants them together lmao… and i’ve never seen a clip of jeremiah bringing up her name. not exactly his fault people question him about huda all the time.
@@cnp53 I went through something very similar and it wasn't until my early 30's that I could truly heal and reflect. When trauma happens at a young age, you get stunted. People without trauma can regulate emotions and feelings more easily. To be so cruel to someone who is being so open and honest is just bizarre and parasocial. Let's give some grace the girl is being bombarded by creeps who wish her harm. Of course she's going to be defensive. She's only 24 and has never experienced being in the limelight like this. Grace should be extended to all men and women on Love Island. Some of ya'll going out of your way to be cruel is just sad on your part.
@@unknown4957Huda doesn’t get to abuse Jeremiah and expect him to stay quiet! He has every right to talk about what happened in that Villa with Huda! He is not playing the victim-She is!! She should take responsibility and seek therapy immediately!! She is poison!
They can never make me dislike Huda, her and Amaya are so real they literally can help it. The fact that she’s so genuine just makes her shine above all these PR trained ppl.
Exactly. With this we finally got the why she is the way she is and you really could tell she wasn’t having a „crash out“ just to have it there were very valid reasons for it. Not excusing it but UNDERSTANDING IT. And I am rooting for her so much.
@@ivazzzz688crashing out is a behavior. She is valid for her feelings but her *behaviors* certainly were not valid and your comment reads to me as excusing them
Wow, I knew I liked Huda but now I know I LOVE her. Hearing her story and her side shows how real she is. ❤ Thanks so much to Huda for sharing all this.
She really just needs someone to talk to. I love how open and real she is in this interview. It's beautiful ❤ Great job to the interviewer it's my first time here and it was an excellent experience
I think it give perspective but despite what you go through there is a level of personal accountability you have to have and how you display yourself that’s inexcusable
Why do I already want part 2, I need more of Huda and Alex. I honestly loved how she interviewed her and about how was honest with Huda with some questions
i'm so pleasantly surprised at how real this was and how much huda was willing to share. i'm sure a lot of us can relate to some of the things she's been through. ❤
The fact that she was so real really shows that there is nothing to hate about her, and this is what really happens in real life. And for people to say stuff that they have not experience this are just ignorant. Social media really changes the narrative
The LACK of accountability is crazy after every moment of “can you see how you went wrong” from Alex is an excuse for her behavior. This was everyone’s first time on tv and being on Love Island that doesn’t absolve you from your behavior. & the voice change to the innocent tone is crazzzzyyyyyyy
I have to admit this I usually fast forward podcasts to good parts but I have watched the whole thing laughing and smiling while crying because Huda you deserve the WORLD
I remember reading a tik tok comment about a guy who went to school with her and said that she really worked hard to be where she’s at. that she would edit videos to post and people would make fun of her. she’s come a long way and I love this for her so much
Perfect example why people should focus on healing their trauma or seeking therapy to learn how to have better relationships with others. This doesn't mean she doesn't deserve love while she heals, but her childhood trauma is bleeding into her relationship dynamics. Everything we go through will eventually mirror back to us so we can see ourselves more clearly. I hope she goes back to watch the season so she can begin her learning/healing journey.
I agree. We all have the moments we live and learn unfortunately hers was broadcasted on a reality tv show for the world to see and judge. That’s why it’s important to extend kindness no matter what bc we all would value it if we were in her shoes.
Huda: talking about how important her daughter is
Alex: HIDDEN VALLEY RANCH IS NOW IN A SQUEEZE BOTTLE
Lol😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂
Dyinggg
and i always thought it was in a squeeze bottle 😭😭
She's SUPER HYPE over that Hidden Valley Ranch!!!😂
I really feel like many people forget how insanely edited Love Island truly is.
Exactly… It’s crazy with the parasocial hate, these ppl needs to touch grass bc there’s no way they don’t know this… it’s concerning and ironic how they keep saying therapy when they’re the ones needed that
true but u can’t sit there and watch her call Jeremiah a pussy ass bitch and a bitch multiple times on camera and think “oh there was so much more to it”😭 nobody should ever talk to someone like that. I do understand tho like I think a lot of the season especially in the beginning was edited to make everything abt her look bad and it wasn’t fair and i wish we could see more especially in tense moments
Sure they edit each episode, but they aren’t editing words into the islander’s mouths or puppeteering their actions.
@@lilballas28and she owned up to that and said it wasn’t okay when she did it.
Exactly insane fan doesn’t understand how production manipulation work how they paint these islanders give edits to villainize them and show them in a bad light.
I am SOO GLAD Alex goes into personal development questions first!! Understanding someone’s psychology and the way they think helps so much to understand why they way they react. It doesnt make it okay, but it gives it more sense because we are literally all human.
Yes made me respect her so much! As someone who never watches CHD people’s behaviour always go back to how their child hood shapes them
@@bev-oz1okyes 💯 !!! Peoples behavior is a result of their upbringing, their childhood
@@hadassah22yes I studied psychology too and every class this was emphasized
Agreed. Your childhood is the biggest part of why you are the way that you are. I honestly feel as though everyone would have more empathy for each other if we knew each others story
fom what we saw on the show, the way she handles her relationships and treats her partners is undoubtedly worrisome. Her constant need for validation, how she belittles people, curses them out, lies, etc. the way she handled things with Chris AND Jeremiah shows she self sabotages with the hopes of self preservation. its an issue, none of which she should be vilified for as its a product of her upbringing, but also her behavior should NOT be admired. With that being said she should NOT be hated.
I worry for those who worship someone like this as well as those who judge and hate her (send her hateful dms). We should have empathy for her, but we also shouldn't idolize her behavior. two things can be true
the fact she kept crying and saying it was her period.. It’s okay to feel babygirl! it’s your life and your trauma! you’re safe here!
This… I feel like she’s always had to dismiss her emotions and have some kind of excuse instead of being allowed to cry when she feels sad. It sucks to watch.
She’s the definition of “you know her name, but not her story.” Such a strong woman.
This
Honestly it explains why she reacts the way she reacts she just seems extremely anxious and too confrontational
She’s not strong, she’s back stabbing, mentally unstable manipulative, sexually coercive/abusive and antiblack
I worry about the way she handles her relationships and treats her partners. Her constant need for validation, how she belittles people, curses them out, lies, etc. the way she handled things with Chris AND Jeremiah shows she self sabotages with the hopes of self preservation. its an issue. none of which she should be vilified for as its a product of her upbringing, but also should not be admired.
For reals!!
this is a perfect example of never judge someone because you never know what someone’s gone through. I don’t condone her behavior but who are we to judge her to the level that she has been judged
Exactly 😢
!!!
Exactly 😢❤
Just because her pain is understandable, it doesn’t make her behavior acceptable. She just has a lot of personal development and it’s understandable, she’s young.
So sad to hear her childhood trauma I never expected this 🥺💔💔💔💔💔
My heart sank when she said people don’t believe her about her dad. Poor baby. The little girl in her doesn’t deserve that.
SAME. The little girl in me who also wasn't believed broke for her...
I knew I resonated with huda for some reason but god I hate that it was this one😭 knowing that pain of not being believed and losing family over it is something a child or anyone should never have to feel😞
i relate to this so much as someone SA'd by a family member :/ .
I was SA’d as an adult and it was traumatizing. Can’t even bear the thought of that happening as a kid. My cousin spoke out when she was a kid about her mom’s bf and no one believed her. So I get it. Huda is misunderstood and so are we. I hope we can all one day fully live happily
@@briannewondra4552 I so agree as someone who had the same thing happen it sucks
Thank you alex for being the ONLY one to ask someone why they didn’t stand up for amaya! The silence was LOUD and no one can claim girl’s girl esp after that
Her explaining postpartum and not doing anything for yourself to make sure baby doesn’t cry 😭😭😭 thank you Huda, thank you for speaking on it. I know exactly how that was!!
Same currently going through it is so hard 😢
@monicahernandez4364 so sorry it’s so tough will pray for you ❤
I literally wanted to cry when she was talking about it, I was in the same boat and i thought i was going insane. Not many people talk about it
@monicahernandez4364Hang in there babe. Be gentle with yourself & know you are doing an amazing job. Every emotion you might feel right now it’s absolutely valid. I know it sounds cliche but time does fly, my daughter is now 13 years old & this teenager phase comes with different challenges I was not ready for. Sending you a big hug 🫂🫶🏼
@monicahernandez4364same
Her saying the fakest in the villa was Cierra was so fucking satisfying give me MORE👹
with ZERO hesitation lmao
RIGHT UGH
🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
which minute was it
What’s the time stamp pls!!
Her talking about her dad BROKE ME, she went through so much
Yes bro, so sad
And she’s still going through so much😢
Me too started crying so hard
from what we saw on the show, the way she handles her relationships and treats her partners is undoubtedly worrisome. Her constant need for validation, how she belittles people, curses them out, lies, etc. the way she handled things with Chris AND Jeremiah shows she self sabotages with the hopes of self preservation. its an issue, none of which she should be vilified for as its a product of her upbringing, but also her behavior should NOT be admired. With that being said she should NOT be hated.
I worry for those who worship someone like this as well as those who judge and hate her (send her hateful dms). We should have empathy for her, but we also shouldn't idolize her behavior. two things can be true
@@lukeglantonstuntdrivernobody asked you to write all this, you clearly just needed something to say
This is the first Call Her Daddy podcast I’ve ever watched, and I must say that Alex is great at being so impartial while still holding people accountable, and is overall a very effective interviewer. I can see now why she’s been so successful, I’ve never watched an almost 2 hr podcast through before but she asks all the right questions.
My first time as well ... Alex really have good energy❤
This felt like watching Huda talking to a therapist
Same here and I thought the same them added her on Spotify 😂
Huda shedding light on her childhood had me in tears. Huda & her siblings and especially her mom are incredibly strong for what they have been through
I was like damn I’m only 11min in and crying 🥲
I felt that, my heart☹️
Literally same. 13 minutes in I’m crying with her
It really puts into perspective some of the extreme reactions she had to feeling abandoned and rejected
Yes omg it was only 8 mins in and she got me tearing up 🥲
Her saying Cierra was the fakest in the villa without any hesitation 🤣🤣
Time stamp?
1:52:39
@@taylorwaggoner6427 1:52:37
No fr with the quickness 😂
We all saw it though😭
(00:03) - Introduction and Discussion of Post-Villa Life
(05:05) - Childhood Experiences and Family Background
(10:06) - Abuse, Family Dynamics, and Personal Struggles
(15:01) - School Bullying, Self-Identity, and Emotional Challenges
(20:03) - Meeting the Father of Her Child and Early Relationship
(25:00) - Pregnancy, Relationship Challenges, and Family Reactions
(30:03) - Ending the Relationship and Becoming a Single Mother
(35:01) - Financial Struggles, Independence, and Moving On
(40:05) - Transition to Reality TV and Love Island Opportunity
(45:00) - First Impressions and Relationship with Jeremiah
(50:04) - Red Flags, Jealousy, and Relationship Dynamics
(55:00) - Sexual Tension, Past Relationships, and Villa Conflicts
(01:00:04) - Exploring the Dynamics of a Relationship and Love Bombing
(01:05:01) - Communication Breakdown and Emotional Reactions in the Relationship
(01:10:04) - The Impact of Betrayal and Emotional Distress in the Relationship
(01:15:03) - Reflections on Personal Behavior and Accountability in Relationships
(01:20:01) - Transitioning to New Relationships and Expectations
(01:25:04) - Navigating New Relationships and Misunderstandings
(01:30:06) - Balancing Friendship and Romantic Pursuits in the Villa
(01:35:01) - Challenges in a New Relationship and Personal Boundaries
(01:40:01) - Emotional Struggles and Disappointments in a New Relationship
(01:45:06) - Reflections on Past Experiences and Personal Growth
(01:50:06) - Closing Thoughts on the Experience and Future Outlook
- I’m truly honored to provide chapters of this video.
- If this helped you, like and comment so more folks can see it, y’all!
God bless you
no thank you!!
Doing the Lord's work ❤
You are the goat
Thank you cause gotdamnnn I just want the love island takes😅
I hope she gets the support her soul needs… a lot of guidance and intense therapy. It hurts my heart to see how much pain she still lives with. You’re doing the best you can Huda ❤
Huda having an abusive father makes so much sense. I can completely relate to her story. I’m in therapy and have been for 2 years. Healing takes a long time.
Yeah she just needs healing because the way she crashed out on tv was a big cry for help
And her own father abused her too
@@jellisocrazyTHIS
from what we saw on the show, the way she handles her relationships and treats her partners is undoubtedly worrisome. Her constant need for validation, how she belittles people, curses them out, lies, etc. the way she handled things with Chris AND Jeremiah shows she self sabotages with the hopes of self preservation. its an issue, none of which she should be vilified for as its a product of her upbringing, but also her behavior should NOT be admired. With that being said she should NOT be hated.
I worry for those who worship someone like this as well as those who judge and hate her (send her hateful dms). We should have empathy for her, but we also shouldn't idolize her behavior. two things can be true
Yet she refuse any accountability
This was deep. Honestly, I wasn’t expecting to get emotional but the way you opened up about everything, it hit hard. You’re so brave for sharing all that, and I know it’s not easy. I really respect how real you kept it. You’re not just telling your story, you’re helping people feel less alone
Yeah hopefully huda gets help and stops mentally affecting other people in a negative way
@@JonathanMiamiibro what? How did she affect anyone else’s mental health? And regardless that’s such a weird thing to say about someone you don’t even know 😂
@@JonathanMiamii i think youre the one who needs help tbh
@@bayanne5159she literally said in the podcast she is aware of how toxic she is because of her childhood therefore she takes herself to counseling and therapy. I’m just repeating what she said and hoping she can continue to seek metal help. And she verbally abused jermaih and was known to be a bully in the villa.
@@JonathanMiamiishe literally says shes in therapy and has a psychologist.. you just want to hate
I feel like Huda is currently in her healing journey. She’s going to do so many great things and will be sooo successful!!! Mark my words, this woman is going to be unstoppable ❤️🔥
I hope she really does heal. No shade I really think she could benefit from therapy.
I guess, she did since she mentioned in the live (w/ Amaya) about her therapist.
Yes she is and this shouldn't have ever included her being on such a huge show in her current journey.. at least not yet..she has so much healing to do first
@@Daniel-pd8gj I agree but she most likely wasn't as self aware about it until now. One of the good things that came from her being on the show in her own words are, "using it as an opportunity to grow from"
Praying she gets the professional help she deserves
Huda’s recollection of things…Pepe told her he didn’t want to pursue her because of her behavior not because of Jeremiah. The whole island said they ruined everyone’s experience the first 2 weeks. Everyone was exhausted. Huda isn’t a terrible person but she needed to be in therapy and heal before going on reality tv. Yes it was entertaining to watch but man…
Ace and Taylor both wanted to explore but did not because of Jeremiah. They said that in the beginning of the show.
@@EA-uv1ci in the beginning but when Huda sat him down and asked if he’d explore her when Jeremiah wasn’t there anymore…he politely told her she’s attractive but he’s big on personality and it wouldn’t work
100% agree. She's young, and I think with intense therapy, she will grow and realize she was a problem. Watching it back will be cringe in five years. I just really hope she will look past the hate and instead see some of it as a chance to learn and grow. She's beautiful and low-key funny af. I can see the good in her, but I also see the trauma and many traits of borderline personality disorder. I hope to see lots of growth in a few years.
@@ashleychole exactly! Shes likable which is why a lot of guys were into her at first but she hasn’t healed yet and it shows in her behavior which turned them off. She really needs to heal without the limelight.
This needed to be said.
Wow this episode just fixed my attention span. Watched the full thing start to finish on normal speed and I still want a part 2. Omg I’ve never related to someone more in my life. Hudas emotions are soooo genuine and she got me crying, she didn’t deserve that childhood.
Sameee
Me too!!!! I can honestly say it's my first time completing a video without skipping!
@@kimpossible12 & Amayas lol the only two ive watched like if i was at the movies lmao
EXACTLY it really hit home
SAME
Huda continues to be alot more relatable than we thought she would be. sending her sm love
Then pls learn the law about consent in relationships before you end up in jail 💗
@@SarahMary1232/10 rage bait
@@SarahMary123your weird
@@gloryshorty So a GROWN woman starting a countdown after a man says NO to having sex (confirmed by the party in question) with her or he’ll pay for it basically is not coercion? Pls explain
@@AnaliaLoaizago ahead, explain how threatening a man to make his day hell tomorrow if he doesn’t have sex with her In 3 seconds is not coercion? Or is it because she’s a girl so she can’t be an abuser ? And Chris confirmed that’s what she was asking for 😘
Huda and Amaya are two young ladies that are connected to their spiritual side. They wear their emotions on their sleeve, and they had to navigate their emotions on Love Island. What a ride
Having no emotional regulation and wearing heart or emotions on your sleeve are sooooooo different 😭🤦🏼♀️ she has no emotional regulation skills
Clocked it as soon as she said she prayed for a fresh start and her bullies moved after. That's real manifestation right there ✨
You can feel their entire energy.? Like you know them personally.
@@averyhughes6090😭🤣 real manifestation or REAL DELULU
She grew up in an abusive environment and now she’s acting just like her abuser, and now we’re praising her for that? 😭
Honestly I just don't think she was emotionally ready for a show like this. Learning about her childhood makes it make a lot of sense, with how toxic and attached she got
Literally. She was a lot more toxic than she let on here but I don’t blame her
@@GrunesGemuse the trauma she has aligns perfectly with the way issues she has, I just hope she gets help. It genuinely isnt fun to watch someone get triggered on reality tv
Totally agree. However, her reactions are due to the abuse she got ( yes, Jeremiah is a narc*iss*t) and Chris definitely plays with emotions, it drove Huda crazy. Poor girl. Yes, she needs healing, but those two guess abs the girls in the villa, bullies.
@@melodyquintana9988 Jeremiah was super immature, but he didnt love bomb her any more than she love bombed him. They were equally intense and she was extrmeely nasty to the bombshells over him. Chris is just a classic uninterested douchebag though. I dont think either of them were mature enough to handle Huda
That part and than there's there ones (me included) who understood her actions a little, not saying they were absolutely right, but we understood them. There was something a few of us watching resonated with without even knowing her back story. There was that connection. Regardless of race or color. I hope she gets amazing grand deals and heals from everything she's been through🥺
She didn’t find love but she found herself. This show was necessary for her healing journey✨
I hope it was an eye opener for her to start some real and serious therapy
The greatest love of all ♥️
Yes 😢😊
No. It ruined my summer yet again. Stop the toxic BS.
Lol, did you not see the last episode same behavior?
You know what hurt me, when she kept blaming her period for being sensitive because she’s afraid of being judged for being sensitive 😔😔
🙁🙁 feel so bad
😢😢
Soo sad
Some of us really aren’t that sensitive and are more sensitive on our periods. I think she wanted it to make sure no one took away a false perception of her.
I feel like that stems from her dad always asking her mom and the women in his house about their period for why they were so emotional
An almost two hour long episode for Huda is crazy. She really is made for reality TV because love her or hate her, her entertainment value is crazy!!!
the engagement on her posts and videos is insane tbh
But you both sure watched it huh.
@@jasminenoell2136not sure how you took either comment as an insult they meant that in a good way😂
SO GLAD SHE HAD THE OPPORTUNITY TO BE HEARD
She's already at 1.3 million views. This is going to be one of their top viewed interviews of all time.
No it’s not because she’s a hudrat and needs more class. Catherine Paiz video did numbers quicker
I have been watching this on and off since 11am est and it was at 850k then !!!!
Her Catherine mcbroom interview is at 10m views I wonder if this will surpass that
literally i’ve never watched chd and i haven’t watched this season of love island yet BUT here we are
@@LeahChristina95yes she 10m in 1months’ let’s see how huda get in a months
The way I've been STALKING your page for this interview!!!!!!!!
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SAME
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SAME !!
😂 same
I wish we got the same type of interview with Amaya! I wanted to know more about her childhood too. But appreciate Huda being honest and sharing so much!
Realll I loved Amaya and her interview is bubbly and nice but she needs to be back on the show or something
I feel like Amaya expressed so much of that during the show though!! And as the winner too I’m sure there weren’t things she could get into and that wouldn’t have been conducive to her future success. I’m not saying Amaya never went through anything during childhood but as the winner, it’s a different vibe.
Alex did this to enable and victimize Huda’s narrative. That she’s always a victim. It was def calculated
When huda was talking bout her as a child i thought of Amaya talking bout her on a play ground inserting herself laughing spinning on a swing and huda was surviving and in some trauma and to me that really comes through in their current personalities
@@kierramarie5018the fact that you see it that way shows your lack of empathy and emotional intelligence… huda has been getting nasty hate for reactions that of course aren’t valid but this interview humanized her and shows why she is the way she is. she has a lot of healing to do, she is not perfect, and she is working on it. no one in this interview excused her reactions to anything, it was all addressed and taken accountability for like what more do people want? dial down the hate. like amaya said, if she’s not your cup of tea then don’t watch her solo interview? simple as that hope this helps 💖
I am likely not the typical demographic that watches Love Island, but my wife and I discovered it during the pandemic and got hooked. We don't follow the online gossip while the show is on, but we hear about it later. It is just so easy to understand that these islanders are at the mercy of the producers and editing for the sake of entertainment and viewership. Understand that there is so much more truth to these people that is not evident to the viewers. it is pointless and stupid to hate. It is so much easier to respond with Grace and understand that we the viewer is being manipulated. All of these islanders including Huda seem to be wonderful people. As a single father raising my children from the age of 2 to 21, I have so much respect for Huda.
Huda talking about her childhood and dynamic with her dad , makes a lot of sense with how she is and she has a lot of healing to do. 😢
Yep. She is very unhealed.
@@JasmineBrianaYCMit’s crazy how many women are saying this young lady is unhealed. That’s so cringe.
@@asmmaliabdi no shade but counting down for a man to have s*x with you isnt okay so i really dont think saying that is crazy ( not trying to be rude)
@@imayex_rshe was asking him to CUDDLE HER. After he hit her hard as hell on the nose with the pillow.
@@JasmineBrianaYCM And there’s nothing wrong with that why do you all make it seem like its a crime to go through trauma?
her “thank you for asking” i can tell so few people ever ask her the whys behind what she does and it’s so important
unpopular opinion: your past doesn’t matter it’s how you treat people in the present that does matter. I’m sure plenty of people who’ve done. Terrible things have had dark things happen to them in their past like Trump or Andrew Tate. But that doesn’t matter in the context of how they treat people today you’re supposed to use your pass to remind you on why it’s important to treat people nicely not as a crutch to justify why you behave the way you do.
@@woahwoah3600 The past - especially negative experiences - is of enormous relevance to a person's development, both in the psychological, neurological and social sense. It acts like an invisible code that affects our perception, our behavior and our relationships.
@@Dr.miYagi-030Exactly people are ignorant af. The past ESPECIALLY unresolved childhood issues will shape how a person operates throughout their adult life. Like Carl Jung said until you make the unconscious conscious, you will perceive everything as fate. Integrating the shadow to become whole is the key!
@@Dr.miYagi-030 i believe it is a persons responsibility to take accountability of how their past affects them and how they operate in their relationships. You can talk about your trauma all you want but if you dont understand how your trauma is making you behave then you’re not using your trauma to help you change. I also have an extremely similar childhood to her and although ive never behaved in the same way as her, i have thought similarly to her at some points in my life.
@@woahwoah3600as a child if you went through something terrible it messes with your development and the way you think so. So the way they react may seem justified in their eyes or just the way it’s suppose to be.
what’s crazy is how quick people were to judge about her sisters visiting her vs her parents. can’t judge a book on its cover! What a great mama ❤
from what we saw on the show, the way she handles her relationships and treats her partners is undoubtedly toxic. Her constant need for validation, how she belittles people, curses them out, lies, etc. the way she handled things with Chris AND Jeremiah shows she self sabotages with the hopes of self preservation. its an issue, none of which she should be vilified for as its a product of her upbringing, but also her behavior should NOT be admired. With that being said she should NOT be hated.
I worry for those who worship someone like this as well as those who judge and hate her (send her hateful dms). We should have empathy for her, but we also shouldn't idolize her behavior. two things can be true
@@lukeglantonstuntdriverDead ass what the fuck does anything you said have to do with the original comment. If you want to hate on this woman go somewhere and figure it out
too bad her one sister couldn’t go because she’s banned from flying for threatening to kill everybody on a plane she was in 💔
@@lukeglantonstuntdriveris it that people are worshipping her or just relating to her
@@rubyyy325good thing they are two completely different people 😓 (get a life hating on people yet keeping tabs on people you do NOT know)
Hats off to Huda for being able to bare it all in front of the world, people are so quick to say trauma this trauma that.. her behavior this her behavior that.. as if they are all extremely aligned people with no flaws.. the hypocrisy of the judgment towards Huda is maddening. Do you guys except people on TV to be picture perfect all the time? Huda is real, she is strong, she is patient, she persevered through a lot and kept that beautiful smile on her face. Her flaws make her who she is just like your flaws make you who you are. At least she is likable unlike a lot of people with their holier than thou personalities. Keep your head up Huda, all these people can do is judge and they lack emotional intelligence to understand different perspectives.
hate how people automatically assumed she was the daddy’s girl and was so spoiled.. just for her to reveal she went through an abusive childhood.
she almost became daddy's girl😭😭😭
I definitely never saw this from watching the show. I actually found myself wondering if she had any real positive male role models based on how often she fixated on “a real man would…” or “I want a man that…” speaks to more of never getting something and trying to figure out what and how a man should be or how it actually looks.
@@Shorty2xsthis is high-key fucked up and I can't believe im reading this but that's how crazy it is 💔
@@laudtv-3810she explained this. Her idea of a man came from how she saw men behave in romantic tv and disney and from watching other happy couples, but not from any of the men in her life
@@RoyalkGamesyes I caught that part. I was only speaking from my thought process while watching her on love island
God I just knew it. People who love her could feel her sorrow. She's so strong for being so honest and vulnerable with her story.
I had the same childhood she had and I am too middle eastern but I dont like her actions, u dont have to love her to see right through her as a person
@@Justina-qp3sm Okay Justina the middle eastern. Everyone processes trauma differently. Did you also have to raise a newborn with colic as a single teen mom? How many other traumas does she have that she didn’t get into that added to childhood experience?
Yeah that still doesn’t make her actions ok, she has a lot of trauma and she has a lot healing to do love island was not the place for this and she should’ve never been on it
from what we saw on the show, the way she handles her relationships and treats her partners is undoubtedly toxic. Her constant need for validation, how she belittles people, curses them out, lies, etc. the way she handled things with Chris AND Jeremiah shows she self sabotages with the hopes of self preservation. its an issue, none of which she should be vilified for as its a product of her upbringing, but also her behavior should NOT be admired. With that being said she should NOT be hated.
I worry for those who worship someone like this as well as those who judge and hate her (send her hateful dms). We should have empathy for her, but we also shouldn't idolize her behavior. two things can be true
@@idontwannahearitidontknow7223 Let me dumb it down for you ‘idontwannahearitidontknow7223’ trauma gatekeeper. I never dismissed her trauma, I said I’ve been through the same and I understand her. But understanding someone doesn’t mean excusing every choice they make or blindly loving them. That’s called critical thinking. So let’s not twist what I said just because you’re emotionally reactive to anyone. having trauma doesn’t automatically make someone lovable or above critique. and my comment wasn’t a cry for empathy it was a comment of clarity. Try reading it slowly this time. keyboard warrior😂😂😂
1:47:00 CLOCK THAT. Some of us aren't idolizing her, we Recognize she's a human, and she's flawed,but we can see the hurt was deep. Honestly even as a viewer this experience was, wild, I thought we all needed a therapist afterwards, I can only imagine their experience.
Some are idolizing her and being racist and bullying everyone else in the process because everyone has some kind of trauma but hers is not more important than her bad behavior towards other people on live tv . Be fr
Y’all understand her but that no other person on the show is human
@@chibaby800THANK YOU !!!!
It’s weird why are all these comments saying “but there are people idolizing her and being racist to other people”… no baby they not idolizing Huda, Huda has never once been racist to others. Those people are people using huda name as an excuse for their own racist agenda. Every woman on that show except the white people have experienced racist comments from the outside world. Let’s stop blaming Huda and clock those racist individuals please! I’m not defending her actions in the beginning but she was never racist or was bullying people because their skin color or because she got off on doing it. She was reacting to peoples actions but she wasn’t right in no way. Almost Everyone on that show meaning the woman and man have done or said something out of control because of someone’s actions (even our favorite girl Amaya but she even apologized and we moved on). Like let’s hold people accountable without bullying. I love all these girls and they aren’t perfect but we see they are all friends and hang out so why are the fans so divided.
Yesss! I agree like we love Huda bc we can relate and we realize we don’t know her personally so why hate her ? ppl hate a girl they don’t know bc of actions she did to another person they don’t know while not realizing she’s STILL human and nobody’s perfect and even tho she went about it in a kinda toxic way she was still valid in the way she felt 💯
I’m glad the interviewer asked her about her upbringing because from that we could learn a lot about Huda 😊
I saw a younger me in Huda. I also was molested as a child. She’s 24, she will go to therapy and be ok. She will thrive. She has some growing up to do but she will mature. I’m 45 and just now able to talk about my abuse without crying. Therapist once described the lashing out as a PTSD response.
I wish more people would realize that isn’t something to just “heal” or “fix”. I’ve seen so many comments on Facebook saying everyone goes through things and shouldn’t be an excuse. While I agree that it’s not an excuse, we can’t ignore the fact that it’s not an overnight fix, but a journey.
@@bittersweetpandaaayes. I also give grace to the ppl making judgemental comments because their is a reason they are also they way they are. Life has a way of humbling all of us. They too will learn with time. We don’t have to condone what she does or says but we can voice our opinions without the horrible name calling. It’s definitely a journey. I do hope she goes to therapy she does seem like she wants to grow and learn.
Me too and I’m 25. It took having a stable relationship that brought up all my trauma to get me into therapy. Everyone heals so differently and at a different pace. It pains me that people are diagnosing her and making her out to be villain.
huda opening up about her childhood + trauma made everything make sense. the way unhealed wounds have her clinging to men bc of her dad… that’s not “crashing out” that’s literal ptsd. ppl judge so fast off tv edits but never ask why. even the bullying she went thru in school shaped how she sees other women… that kind of pain sticks w/ you. i got so much respect for her being this raw on camera. she’s real for that.
I said to people it looked like a PTSD episode to me and they said she was manipulating me 😂 as someone who has similar trauma I knew wtf was happening.
THANK YOUUUU
What happened to her and what she went thru definitely not her fault but it is her responsibility to heal it and not project those unhealed wounds onto others 🫤
@@katalystttI agree, but Jeremiah isn’t healed either, their relationship was toxic because they had a very pull pull then pull push dynamic. Its triggering to anyone, but especially someone with trauma. I don’t think he was doing it on purpose, but it is hard to deal with whiplash. Shes in therapy for a reason though, she is trying to heal and I am sure he is too since he is also in therapy.
@@myafield4039Yup!! it was both of them, they weren't good for eachother. I hope they can both heal and grow from that experience.
A lot of things explain behavior, but doesn’t excuse behavior. Her traumas definitely align with her behaviors, I really hope she gets the support she needs to heal.
That part!! There are tons of people who have trauma and don't do what she has done. And to continue the bully narrative against people of color doesn't sit right with me.
She said that though. She said “was that the best way to handle it, no.” She apologizes and takes accountability many times in this interview and also acknowledges that she has to heal, grow, and learn.
@@happybananapandaThis comment wasn’t written to start a debate. What this person said is true and should be heard and received. A rebuttal isn’t necessary. Huda’s past reflects the behavior she exhibits today and we all hope she heals because it’ll be better for her moving forward. The end.
@@happybananapandashe didn’t really apologize.she called jeremiah bitch and justified counting down 321 to chris while in bed. You are delusional
How many times does she need to take accountability for yall to shut up?
I love when folks scream how much they love her. Thank y’all for not hiding your red flag, but waving it loudly.
Fr. Feel like I watched a different show. It’s good to have grace for people and all but there’s was a lot of problematic behavior that people really just push out of their minds
“There was a point I got really scared.” As a victim of child SA and grooming, I understand that kind of fear the overwhelming sense that things are escalating and becoming more unsafe. That deep pit in your stomach feeling. Huda leaving her dad’s home that day may have saved her from experiencing something far worse than what she had already gone through. She’s still healing, and that’s why I love Huda she shows what it truly looks like to heal and move through those big emotions as a victim of Child SA/Grooming.
❤ wanna say you’re strong for sharing this and I hope you heal from all of the things you’ve been through and have only bright days ❤
Omg yes!! Being groomed/SA is already scary enough. Add on seeing the escalation and not being able to speak up is terrifying. As a girl that has experienced SA from a family member, I remember dreading being alone with the person bc of what has happened in the past. I cannot imagine living with them under the same roof. I see her totally different.
Her dad already wasn't living in the home when she moved out.
Just finished the interview and you can tell Huda is a nuanced person with so much depth, humor, and love. She’s 100% herself, right or wrong, and is continually trying to make the best of what she has been handed in life. I have so much respect, love, and admiration for this young woman. You can tell she won over Alex too.
💯💯💯
I love love love how Alex clocked Huda’s behaviors but in a respectful way. Say what you want about Alex but she was born to interview people
She was lowkey still biased
@@r0396well she's not going to go and attack the person she's interviewing in front of their face lol
@@r0396exactly ?
I thought she sounded more like a fan. Her questions almost provided excuses for Huda's behavior.
@@morganmiller7197 hmm not attack but a good interviewer is going to make you sweat at least a little. that's what makes a good journalist
Her upbringing explained a lot; however, she really didn’t take a lot of accountability! She doesn’t like to feel/appear as though she was the one in the wrong…she tries to justify everything.
She is really dealing with the root of rejection. It’s absolutely nothing wrong with desiring a man to love you well, but she is expecting her partner to make her whole. Until she’s honest with herself, sadly she may stay in these cycles.
She took accountability through the whole season. She apologised to Amaya and Iris. She apologised to Jeremiah too before he left. Let’s not do that
The thing that nobody talks about is that Jeremiah was ALL IN with Huda - until the boys started giving feedback and opinions on THEIR relationship. You can literally WATCH the switch happen for him when the boys insert their perception and then BOOM he starts acting cold to Huda. Why is nobody addressing this?!
I genuinely think they would have worked it out on their own, or moved on on their own. Naturally. But the whole house was insistent on being all up in their personal business.
And you can literally TRACK Jeremiah’s switch to treating her differently when he got the social cues from the boys that they disapproved.
Also to that point - YES Ace was light weight obsessed with THEIR relationship. Idk if it’s because he saw them as a threat to winning OR because he had a thing for Huda and wanted her from the jump and was rejected… or both. But he then went on a crusade to slander them and manipulated the rest of the boy crew to take on his opinions. Period.
The boys opened Jeremiah’s eyes to hudas red flag and manipulation. As days passed she exposed herself as well. Pretty simple
Its not slander when its true, nobody wants to date a crash out single mom 😂😂😂
Same thing with Chris. His biggest high point was playing ball with the boys FR? 😐
this
That is a valid point even Huda doesn't blame the boys for the pressure that they put on him not saying he is without blame but his experience was also ruined I think they would have worked or wouldn't have worked and maybe at least been friends if they would have been on a different season where they could have did things on their own their own way
Her behaviour on the show was indicative of someone who experienced traumatic events, and it is also edited heavily. Six weeks is 1008 hours, and we only get about 40 of those. She is also someone who is clearly trying in ernest to grow. Respect doesn't even begin to explain what I feel towards her now. Huda has fought hard.
1000%. I saw my past self in many of those moments & immediately knew it was so much more deeper than that. Especially adding onto it as a single parent.
👏👏👏
@@Macncheeks21this right here . I knew I saw myself in her
i’m really hoping in the reunion they show us a few things that really shed light on the truth
Absolutely, but she struggles to acknowledge or apologize for her behavior until it's too late. I feel for her story, but I can't absolve her of the way she treated people in the villa.
I RESPECT HER FOR BEING SO OPEN. That’s got to be extremely hard for her to do
I know right?! I don’t think I would ever be able to open up again if that happened to me. She’s so strong 🥺🥺🥺
Now she is getting attacked
@@relaxaingsleepchannel8541because she is a manipulative person and yall are her fans so yall don’t see it
@@relaxaingsleepchannel8541 she’s not getting attacked people are just critiquing the fact that she has taken zero accountability and seems to have switched up on Chelley and Ola after just being up Nicolandria but.
@@keekssssshe never switched up. The girl was explaining Chris faking and this was how Chelley name came up.
To all the HUDA HATERS saying she didn’t take accountability, because atp yall just hate her cuz she’s jealous:
1:06:12 HUDA TAKES ACCOUNTABILITY
1:07:05 HUDA TAKES ACCOUNTABILITY
1:07:41 Huda takes accountability
1:46:04 Huda takes accountability
1:46:39 - Huda takes accountability
49:11 Huda takes accountability
53:51 Huda takes accountability
54:37 Huda takes accountability
1:05:22 Huda takes accountability
1:09:15 Huda takes accountability
1:09:56 Huda takes accountability
1:15:14 Huda takes accountability
It makes me really sad that it sounds like she didn’t get to unpack her trauma until she talked to the show’s psychologist. I hope she continues to meet with a therapist and gets the support she needs. Makes me sad that her family doesn’t believe her about her dad 💔
The saddest thing for me to hear was that she felt like she couldn’t confide in the girls (except for Amaya). Like omg how alone did she feel in there while they were all creating cliques and talking about her behind her back constantly. I hope her and Amaya continue to be there for each other and distance themselves from these people that switched up on them once they realized how popular they really were.❤️❤️❤️
I'm getting to know who Huda really is and from her talking about her childhood and before Love Island, this is a fantastic interview
@@lukeglantonstuntdriver stfu why are you copying and pasting your comment under everyones comments fan ass
@@lukeglantonstuntdriverI really hope she does heal
@@lukeglantonstuntdriverwhile I agree with this I don’t believe the comment your replying to is idealizing her behaviour
@@lukeglantonstuntdriveryou have made this same comment 25 times. It’s extremely odd
omg i haven’t seen u in so long 🤣
You ate this UP omg you let her express herself, validated her experience, while still pouring wisdom into her. THATS how you do it. that’s grace and accountability ❤ keep going!!
“Don’t sin twice” really make me sigh. I respect others beliefs but wow that’s a tough moral situation.
huda, you don’t understand how strong you are for talking about this. i had a similar childhood and im still figuring it out for myself and seeing you be able to speak on this and being strong about it gives me hope for myself and my future 🤍
Same and you will be able to heal it takes a lot of patience and love for yourself I hope you truly heal and find happiness and strength
“Do not sin twice..” I balled😭
Right ? It was so touching. Great momma she is
dunked that
LITERALLY
sad af
Should’ve aborted tho lol
We need a part 2 IMMEDIATELY!!!! Best interview hands down Alex!!! You & Huda are a vibe and I'm soooo here for it!!
😂😂
Part 2 when?
Agreed! We love you Huda but please do a 30 hour binge and watch your season before part 2 and def before the reunion! Ace’s influence was the reason you started feeling Jer pull away. He also DID come to see you that night but you were in the shower and didn’t know it. Wish Alex remembered that. He heard you saying stuff about him and walked away. :( I really think you two are just misunderstood because so many people interfered with your relationship! Jer’s fault in allowing them get into his head about you…. It just spiralled from there. Much love, girl!!! ❤
@@ainhasri87idk if they are. But everyone is wanting a part 2!
@@itskayleeariayessss yesss yess! Say it louder for them ppls in the back ❤❤❤
She was QUICK with the “who is the fakest”😭☕️I LOVE HERRRR
The fakest: Cierra!!! We all saw that THE WHOLE SEASON. I’m glad you saw!!
They run a close race
@@KeepingItGWithGigihuda was never fake lol. She was real in her emotion…a little too real that people hated her for how raw her emotions are. Move round
@@imareezy_she lit was calling girls name behind their backs but never to their face hmm 😂😂
@@elizabethdavid98did you even watch the interview if you watch it you could see why she did that like bro
@@elizabethdavid98at least she apologized 👌🏼
I’ve loved Huda from the moment she stepped into the villa, but after hearing her on that podcast, my respect for her has grown even more. I can relate to so many of the things she’s been through it’s heartbreaking how many women experience the same. She’s not only beautiful on the outside but also strong, real, and raw on the inside. That kind of honesty is rare and so inspiring. Wishing her nothing but the best and sending big things her way. She truly deserves it all. 💕
being a single mom doesnt mean your life is over. women can do what ever they want. i'm glad Huda can do things that she loves
exactly. most women think its being a bad mother. but they dont understand, at the end of the day. your kids wants a happy mom & im sure her daughter will be proud of her mom.
Only black women get bashed for being single moms everyone else get praised
Clock that 🤏🏾🤏🏾🤏🏾
@@aquarius-woman5364can you stop
She is a mom that is single. Her daughter is fortunate enough to have an active father
Great interview! I like her even more than I already did! No way should the haters walk away from watching this and still have a lack of empathy or understanding of her. It was worth the wait! She deserves to receive double for her troubles! God got you, girl!
I am so glad she’s had the opportunity to tell her story straight out the villa to give perspective into her life apart from love island
We don’t hate Huda, we just think she needs therapy 🫶🏾
Clearly she took advantage of therapy in the villa...I said long ago this show has to stir up things from their past...Im glad she went to talk to them on her own.
“Clearly” …. What’s clear about it? Lol.
@@TyBbby818talking about how she said she always went to the psych in the villa to talk about her problems
@@TyBbby818 she said it in the video.... that is what makes it clear that she took advantage of it
She's in therapy. She said in another interview that she has a therapist. Healing and growth don't happen overnight, even with therapy. It will take time.
The jump scare with the Hidden Valley Ranch ad 😂😂😂
All the ads lol
Literally read you comment right as it started😂
😂😂😂😂
As if we haven’t been knowing about hidden valley ranch 😂
It was very clear that Huda grew up in an abusive household but it is not an excuse to abuse others
This interview really humanized Huda and was desperately needed. By watching Huda’s behavior on the show, it was obvious she had childhood trauma that still has a hold on her. People are quick to judge others not knowing that everyone has a story. She doesn’t deserve the hate. I hope she works through her trauma and becomes better.
If roles were reversed tho and Jeramiah was the one acting that way yall would say he hits women behind closed doors and abuses people.
@@JonathanMiamiiwell boo people were saying CRAZY stuff ab huda being a “bad mother” and that shes abuses her daughter, so nobody cares ab the “what if the roles were reversed”
i do think that she should be given the grace given what she went through, BUT that never excuses or justifies the way she treats others. I just hope that she focuses on herself and her mental health before starting dating again.
@juliat.6261I agree
@@JonathanMiamiithe roles aren't reversed though are they? The whole internet gave this girl shit and defended 2 men from her even though both were being sneaky behind the cameras and playing pr on camera so they could win the audience and they succeeded! So stop with the "if the roles were reversed" card cz it's just not valid
32:27 “don’t sin twice” hit me 😭😭
literally same
Literally read this comment and heard it at same time
I got goosebumps
@@marilyn7945me too lol
That literally made no sense to me because the following thing was to move in with the bf and continue hooking up and other sinful acts…selective faith?
I really feel bad for the trauma Huda experienced, however as the saying goes “your trauma is not your fault, but your healing is your responsibility”. I hope she watches the show, does serious introspection which leads to her working on her mental health.
i hope you do the same
Thank you ! I’ve sooo much childhood trauma & someone once told me “your trauma is no longer a excuse for your actions at one point you must admit you’re wrong & get help” & when I became a mom I finally understood how true that was
EXXXACTLY!!! Im sorry she went thru all that BUT alot of people go through things and its her job (especially as a mother) to get the healing to be better. Huda NEVER takes accountability. Everything with her is someone else’s fault. I really dont like this girl, she is such a manipulator and narcissist.
This is the point that we’ve been making when it comes to holding her accountable. Huda doesn’t deserve what she went through. It gives context and i understand 100% why she acts the way she does. But understanding DOES NOT mean she gets a pass on toxic behavior enacted. This is the message she needs to focus on, all other hate is totally unwarranted.
This entire interview made me realize even more how emotionally unintelligent Huda is
This woman made me watch Love Island for the first time. I saw her edits on TikTok and fell in love. Everyone constantly hating on her and I found out she’s only 24 and a mom. Yet they relentlessly keep attacking her rooting for her to breakdown. Very sad. She seemed so misunderstood. I’m rooting for her to proper. Huda and Amaya remain my favorites.
No hating on her but her actions are weird like her trying to sexually coerce chris
from what we saw on the show, the way she handles her relationships and treats her partners is undoubtedly worrisome. Her constant need for validation, how she belittles people, curses them out, lies, etc. the way she handled things with Chris AND Jeremiah shows she self sabotages with the hopes of self preservation. its an issue, none of which she should be vilified for as its a product of her upbringing, but also her behavior should NOT be admired. With that being said she should NOT be hated.
I worry for those who worship someone like this as well as those who judge and hate her (send her hateful dms). We should have empathy for her, but we also shouldn't idolize her behavior. two things can be true
@lukeglantonstuntdriver its easy to see it that way when the two men were also extremely manipulative and in my opinion exploited her emotional state for their own benefit.
@@lukeglantonstuntdriver this is also true but it’s so unfair everyone blaming only huda I agree she’s toxic and definitely need to work on herself. But people are hating solely on her and not the men especially Chris (I need your opinion on him 👀)
@@lukeglantonstuntdriverwhy are you watching this though ?
How she said people in the villa wouldn’t care about what she said and dismissed her feelings so she’d rather just talk to the psychiatrist instead because she couldn’t trust the other girls is really sad. I hope she reads all these comments and knows she’s loved. And that she stands 10 toes down at that reunion and stick up for herself.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 yall are so naive
@@Reign-zi9qhyou're just a hater, pls get out
Do you really believe this woman doesn’t stand up for herself? What show were you watching. Huda was the scariest person on that island!😂😂
@@sillybrainmah5310because she’s CLEARLY misunderstood lmao are you dumb
we watched her vent for hours many times, sooo shes upset she couldn't OVERWHELM them
" There was alot of times I was alone with my dad and there things that like my family doesn't believe me about" ....Huda baby😔
That statement broke my heart oh poor Huda
HEARTBREAKING!!
"You got me crying on this show" like our girl wasn't crying in the villa😭
Alex does such a good job at interviewing and knowing how to ask certain questions at certain times! Hudah is such a strong woman.
Yea but she left out a lot and wouldn’t bring it up for her to explain or react to. She had a lot of contradictions and the excuses she made for herself that could go for everyone else in the villa
people do not realize how difficult it truly is to break cycles and work through the difficult times in your life while being someone who wears their heart on their sleeve. she's a very strong woman who's committed to being the best mom she can be to her kid and you can see by the way people around her love her, that she's a very genuine human being.
everyone makes mistakes and she's taken accountability time and time again, both in and outside of the villa but people just refuse to see it. glad to see she doesn't pay any mind to the people who keep pushing certain narratives on her cause she knows who she is as a person. she's learning and growing and that's commendable.
I completely agree, i just think she shouldnt have tried to go on reality tv where they purposefully cause drama and triggered her over and over.
I already loved Huda before but seeing her like this makes me love her even more her strength her resiliency and her vulnerability are so comforting resonates so much with me we love you Huda 🤍
yes❤
All these negative comments yet yall still took the time to come and watch this girl 😂😂😂 #Huda4L
Huda has a lot of maturing to do, her trauma is not an excuse for her behavior. Wishing her a lot of growth and healing!
Agreed. Her trauma is definitely relevant and explains her feelings and reactions, but doesn’t excuse them. I was waiting for a little bit more of accountability or difference in perspective about Jeremiah…but it’s just the same narrative.
@@cnp53 Y’all want her to like Jeremiah so bad but she doesn’t have to. He’s been using her name since he left the villa… all she said is she doesn’t want to associate with him and she doesn’t care to catch up. She’s protecting her peace… we’ve only seen the edited clips of the 72 hours of him and her. We’ll never have the full story so.
@@unknown4957no one wants them together lmao… and i’ve never seen a clip of jeremiah bringing up her name. not exactly his fault people question him about huda all the time.
@@cnp53 I went through something very similar and it wasn't until my early 30's that I could truly heal and reflect. When trauma happens at a young age, you get stunted. People without trauma can regulate emotions and feelings more easily. To be so cruel to someone who is being so open and honest is just bizarre and parasocial. Let's give some grace the girl is being bombarded by creeps who wish her harm. Of course she's going to be defensive. She's only 24 and has never experienced being in the limelight like this. Grace should be extended to all men and women on Love Island. Some of ya'll going out of your way to be cruel is just sad on your part.
@@unknown4957Huda doesn’t get to abuse Jeremiah and expect him to stay quiet! He has every right to talk about what happened in that Villa with Huda! He is not playing the victim-She is!! She should take responsibility and seek therapy immediately!! She is poison!
They can never make me dislike Huda, her and Amaya are so real they literally can help it. The fact that she’s so genuine just makes her shine above all these PR trained ppl.
Sameeee
Exactly. With this we finally got the why she is the way she is and you really could tell she wasn’t having a „crash out“ just to have it there were very valid reasons for it. Not excusing it but UNDERSTANDING IT. And I am rooting for her so much.
She didn’t even mention that Amaya was always there for her… she said she was always alone she keeps victimizing herself
@@ivazzzz688crashing out is a behavior. She is valid for her feelings but her *behaviors* certainly were not valid and your comment reads to me as excusing them
Huda and her fans are racist this girl is so gross
This is by far the best interview I’ve seen from call her daddy
LITERALLY
Wow, I knew I liked Huda but now I know I LOVE her. Hearing her story and her side shows how real she is. ❤ Thanks so much to Huda for sharing all this.
trying to focus on what she's saying and being BLINDED by her absolute face card!! she's so beautiful
Omg same!! I had to rewind a handful of times 😭😂😂
Same very beautiful woman very misunderstood
Sameee I was mesmerized
her dimples are sooo cute
Blinded by the face card, can't see clearly the behavior. Tell me you're playing into pretty privilege without telling.. wait you just did
She really just needs someone to talk to. I love how open and real she is in this interview. It's beautiful ❤ Great job to the interviewer it's my first time here and it was an excellent experience
Shes got the world's attention for at least a year or 2 luckily.😂
Came in as a hater, left having more respect because of her past. This woman will heal. I can count on it.
Amen really hope for her, she’s only in her twenties there’s time!!!
I love that you said she will heal. It’s nice to give people that grace. Not excusing bad behavior. But allowing them to heal. Love that!
I think it give perspective but despite what you go through there is a level of personal accountability you have to have and how you display yourself that’s inexcusable
Thank u so much hater 😂😂😂😂
Some still hating her and saying she is jealous of Chelley. They don’t understand what she said before she mentioned Chelley is what I am so confused.
More than 2millions view not even 24 hour this girl is iconic
Out of all the love island people this is the best interview hands down
Yes 🙌🏽 it is
This is the only one that I watched all instead of just clips
@@Adrienne2018same
Amayas interview was good with Alex!! Made me love her even more lol
it’s because huda is 100% her genuine authentic self love or hate her
shes being so vulnerable and i hope no one uses that against her 😢
Then You don’t know the internet and it’s hateful people 😢
But i hope that she will be fine 😊
Sadly they will they hate when this poor girl breathes I will be here to defend her
They already are, they hate when you’re not “perfect”
Oh they will
They are going to say shes weaponizing her trauma and mass manipulating. Thats all they ever say as they try and diagnose her with narcissism 😂
Why do I already want part 2, I need more of Huda and Alex. I honestly loved how she interviewed her and about how was honest with Huda with some questions
This was honestly such a good interview, she went so much deeper with her than any other person she’s interviewed before I feel 😭
Yes!!! I was like yes please!! Let’s do another interview more please! I love her so much!!
i'm so pleasantly surprised at how real this was and how much huda was willing to share. i'm sure a lot of us can relate to some of the things she's been through. ❤
Honestly this was some insanely smart marketing and turnaround. The number of people you have up past their bedtimes is wild 😂 Taking notes
@@kindlykaren1313your slow asf 😂 not literally bro ppl been said this
@@kindlykaren1313LMAO man I’m from new york and have a baby deff past my old ass bedtime😂
@@JocelynDuran-k7olmao im in OH and have 5 kids, one which is a new baby, I am also DEFINITELY up past my bedtime 😂😂
@@kindlykaren1313it’s 2:12am est
I had a wild night at work and finally got to sit and calm down and sleep. I see this and I’m like ok never mind I’ll sleep later. It’s 2 am😂
Huda talking about her childhood broke my heart.
not me obsessively clicking and hitting the jackpot when the interview is finally live
The fact that she was so real really shows that there is nothing to hate about her, and this is what really happens in real life. And for people to say stuff that they have not experience this are just ignorant. Social media really changes the narrative
The LACK of accountability is crazy after every moment of “can you see how you went wrong” from Alex is an excuse for her behavior. This was everyone’s first time on tv and being on Love Island that doesn’t absolve you from your behavior. & the voice change to the innocent tone is crazzzzyyyyyyy
litterally
Thank you. The rest of these comments are pure delusion
people like you needs to be jailed fr. always finding fault in everything
I have to admit this I usually fast forward podcasts to good parts but I have watched the whole thing laughing and smiling while crying because Huda you deserve the WORLD
I remember reading a tik tok comment about a guy who went to school with her and said that she really worked hard to be where she’s at. that she would edit videos to post and people would make fun of her. she’s come a long way and I love this for her so much
I saw that as well 😢💯 she deserves everything l
pause - this made me so sad for her lol but also happy she went on love island cus the brand deals about to be crazy.
Perfect example why people should focus on healing their trauma or seeking therapy to learn how to have better relationships with others. This doesn't mean she doesn't deserve love while she heals, but her childhood trauma is bleeding into her relationship dynamics. Everything we go through will eventually mirror back to us so we can see ourselves more clearly. I hope she goes back to watch the season so she can begin her learning/healing journey.
Exactly and thank you for saying this without being weird
Realist comment I’ve seen so far
I agree. We all have the moments we live and learn unfortunately hers was broadcasted on a reality tv show for the world to see and judge. That’s why it’s important to extend kindness no matter what bc we all would value it if we were in her shoes.
Well said
I love how huda wipes her tears off then tucks the tissue in the couch lmfao