BLKBX: The backstory with Gaustad - Red and sexuality

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  • @tamaratravels44
    @tamaratravels44 3 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    wish I had someone like you to look up too when I was younger. Love your music, new fan here!

    • @DreamChuckie
      @DreamChuckie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      My thoughts exactly! ❤️

    • @glennlee6987
      @glennlee6987 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me too! :)

    • @journeywithme6760
      @journeywithme6760 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same it crazy the world then and the world now I grew up in a rural ky town and I wish we had someone like her then

  • @katyajohanna
    @katyajohanna 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I love the song so much already, but after I heard the backstory, I love it even more. As a gay women, who came out to herself in 2018/2019 and wants to come out to her parents soon, this is so inspiring and precious to hear Graces story.

    • @shirley2285
      @shirley2285 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I hope it goes well! No matter what happens, you've got a loving community thats here for u 👍🌈

    • @katyajohanna
      @katyajohanna 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@shirley2285 That is so sweet. I don't really now, how to do it yet. My parents are separated, what makes it harder. I think I'll try to come out to some friends, who don't know it yet, so that I am a little more experienced.

    • @shirley2285
      @shirley2285 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@katyajohanna thats a great start :) gl

    • @katyajohanna
      @katyajohanna 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@shirley2285 I owe you guys a little update. So I am open about my sexuality with a classfriend of mine now. We went to a party the other day and I just openly talked about ny attraction towards women very openly.
      Then about 20 minutes ago, I came accidently out to my mom, even though I am not exactly sure, if she really got it. It is a kinda funny story, so I want to share it.
      My mother tried to give me a book, that I was not really interested in. She eventually said: "But there are some hot boys in it", so I replied: "I am not interested". She then asked, "well are you a lesbian then?" and I saw her dead in the eyes and said "YES". She then asked me, if I was in love with my best friend? (Which I am not) and if I don't like a single "hot book guy". (I mean, there are some good "hot book guys"). This also made me laugh. She then went to bed.
      I wonder if she is going to ask more questions tomorrow and if she really got it. Let's see, what future brings....
      My adrenaline is very high up now anyways, but at least thecoming out letter I prepared for her can stay in my drawer for now...
      .

    • @shirley2285
      @shirley2285 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@katyajohanna nicee at least she didnt seem mean about it

  • @marianaegger9539
    @marianaegger9539 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Thank you for sharing Red with us and for showing the story behind it, I really loved this song and I will continue to listen to your others songs as well. This video made me cry, I think I really needed to hear that. Thank you so much. Kisses from Brazil 🇧🇷❤

  • @laura-ashley6781
    @laura-ashley6781 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    At a time when I feel like I’m drowning. You’ve made me feel like I’m not alone. I love you Grace🥺thank youuu🙏🏼. A true blessing

  • @sharonadhiambo5994
    @sharonadhiambo5994 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Omg😭😭😭😭 I still have that fear & it's really breaking me I don't know how to come out. I love you Grace❤️ lgbtq for LIFE 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈💝

  • @picassosdaughter3626
    @picassosdaughter3626 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This is beautiful 🌈 love your story. I cried a little watching your music video 😭

  • @teresamagbanua6515
    @teresamagbanua6515 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Hayley Kiyoko or Lauren Jauregui should do a collab with you.

  • @Ari_Days
    @Ari_Days 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Can relate on many layers.

  • @joannequirimit283
    @joannequirimit283 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I think Im lucky too... I have found you, and maybe I will follow the way of truth for them to know who really I am... I might really be RED gotta love you now!🙂 ohh btw, Im 15yrs old fighting.

  • @nubedealgodon311
    @nubedealgodon311 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I'm so glad i have found her? (does she? go by she/her pronouns???) like aaaaaaaaaaag thank your for existing

  • @nicoles.4825
    @nicoles.4825 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good Story and Song, thx. But some ppl can't change those things or don't want to. I mean, what u said at the end.

  • @jessejames258
    @jessejames258 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I can't wait until she sings this live. Such a powerful voice.

  • @sheryllyngwi8239
    @sheryllyngwi8239 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You are so brave and inspiring ✨♥️

  • @rachelbeamon6390
    @rachelbeamon6390 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for singing so beautifully darling! Ur my favorite artist right now! I came out last year later in my life as bisexual and it's been a struggle! I got burned twice already by women! My one strength is my fiance who supports me! I told my mom and she's old fashion and still lhvs me! It was interesting! Lol!

  • @Nicole_727.
    @Nicole_727. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm 15 and I recently came out to myself as bisexual in May this year. When I came out to my friends I was a little nervous but I'm glad that my friends except me for me and it was really comforting. I have a non binary and gay, that have gone through this experience themselves. I came out to my sister but not my parents yet I'm still nervous to tell them.

    • @gnemec768
      @gnemec768 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm in a very similar situation, I'm 16 and recently discovered I am Bi, I have only come out to my sister and my best friend, who are super accepting, but I'm afraid to tell anyone else, because I know that most of my friends and family aren't supportive of the LGBTQ+ community. Sending love 💗💜💙

  • @sophua
    @sophua 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    this is so beautiful

  • @SeaGullArt
    @SeaGullArt 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    check out a Singer Talking iso Singing - GO GRACE ! ! !

  • @veslemysmoehuglen428
    @veslemysmoehuglen428 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love this! And is your ancestors possibly from Frøya in Norway? Gaustad is my grandma´s family name so it would be really cool if we were distant relatives:)

  • @nicoleashley6146
    @nicoleashley6146 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amazing gal.!

  • @elnaaz.kn78
    @elnaaz.kn78 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ily 💕

  • @marianneaarseth5055
    @marianneaarseth5055 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @carlsexton
    @carlsexton ปีที่แล้ว

    Grace have you forgetting m your so wanted by me❤

  • @linashomali6141
    @linashomali6141 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Niceeee