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  • @mrao3124
    @mrao3124 5 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    Marriage is the most difficult responisibility 😭 may Allah grant us all patience

    • @samihahossain2287
      @samihahossain2287 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ameen

    • @aminahaqzee5038
      @aminahaqzee5038 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      my sister marraige iusess hooms problems so contact Shah abbas + 923414850022. perfect person in alls spiritual helinng powers and sultions

    • @JahannamHellfire
      @JahannamHellfire 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Marriage is a huge responsibility

    • @yousraadly7341
      @yousraadly7341 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The more its harder the more God multiply your reward coz nothing easy in life got benifits and Satan's make Good thing hard to get or do so a human give up on it there for gets denied from paradise eventually .dont give up even if it gets tougher as long as what you do please God/Allah .

    • @AndyQ8
      @AndyQ8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Alhamdollellah it really is difficult
      Remember Allah test us

  • @tboolah1
    @tboolah1 6 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    May Allah forgive and reward jannah for every Muslims read this comment

  • @hammadahmad6312
    @hammadahmad6312 5 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    We really need to understand the importance of Talaq! It is HALAL! It is better to not be married than be miserable!

  • @spillthedeen
    @spillthedeen 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Inshallah i will find a better husband with a stronger deen. My ex husband said talaak so many times in every argument it was so hurtful and traumatic.

    • @iamnaz9
      @iamnaz9 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Are you divorced?

    • @spillthedeen
      @spillthedeen 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@iamnaz9 islamically yes I am

    • @knucklehead4787
      @knucklehead4787 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Blame him 👍🏻 good

    • @spillthedeen
      @spillthedeen 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@knucklehead4787 the blame goes where its due

    • @StayFocusOnYourFaith
      @StayFocusOnYourFaith ปีที่แล้ว +1

      May Allah help you Amine.

  • @niquabispeaksabyssiniaiman9048
    @niquabispeaksabyssiniaiman9048 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Subhan Allah I’m also going through a Divorce we are not compatible but Alhamdullilah
    Please make Dua for us Allah bless you !
    Ameen

    • @UmmAyman0
      @UmmAyman0 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      May Allah make it easy for you. Ameen

    • @niquabispeaksabyssiniaiman9048
      @niquabispeaksabyssiniaiman9048 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Umm Ayman Ameen
      Jaza kha Allah u Karin

    • @mysharahman4566
      @mysharahman4566 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sister I am going through similar situation. I need to boost up my morale. How are you now? I hope you are having a great life.

  • @faisalistic5436
    @faisalistic5436 6 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Brothers and sisters please pray for me.

    • @GuidancePoint
      @GuidancePoint 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      insha Allah

    • @AbdulmalikWasagu
      @AbdulmalikWasagu 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Faisalistic May Allah guide us together....AMIN

    • @louloubelle1330
      @louloubelle1330 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Faisalistic May Allaah swt Grant you sabr, May Allaah swt Grant you wisdom and understanding through whatever it is that your are being tested with. This test make have gone of for a few years but know that you have to pass it and Allaah knows best

    • @reformandpurify4873
      @reformandpurify4873 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      What happened

    • @hossainrubel2012
      @hossainrubel2012 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Insyaallah 🙏

  • @WhiteDervish
    @WhiteDervish 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Finally, someone mentioned the men as well! :'(

  • @ayishaluvsu
    @ayishaluvsu 6 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    What do you do if you as a wife are not wanting divorce but your husband threw you out of the house and says he wants divorce?

    • @shamasiddique9620
      @shamasiddique9620 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      same happen to me

    • @ag135i
      @ag135i 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      The answer is in the video itself watch it again, in the video the honorable speaker says they should be one person with wisdom from each side who should try for reconciliation, or better and best seek an opinion from a qualified trustworthy scholar/aalim.

    • @tboolah1
      @tboolah1 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      The marriage never work if it’s just wanted by only one side ... for both sides woman or man ..

    • @louloubelle1330
      @louloubelle1330 6 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Ayisha Edeline then accept it my dear sister if a man can treat you like that then he’s not worth your tears because for each tear of an oppressed wife xx I’m divorced and it took a couple of years but we’re alryt, and life is so much better without the drama and headache you will find out that Allaah swt is the best of planners, so turn to him and observe your deen sister, you will reap many benefits and Allaah swt shall replace him with someone better but you have to know what it is you want xx Allaah knows best

    • @louloubelle1330
      @louloubelle1330 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      shama siddique then embrace it sister yes it hurts and you will have to get over it but you will get over it, he’s not a man, but a boy. You deserve better and pray, pray for guidance and wisdom because: ‘beware of the du’aah from an oppressed person’ make du’aah (and not for revenge etc) but for a way out of this mess that suits you both because you bothered deserves happiness. And Allaah knows best xx

  • @fazminacareem478
    @fazminacareem478 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Hi dear brothers and sisters. Im facing much more difficulties in my marriage life because of my in laws. And now im in a state that, it is unable to bear my husband's ill treatments because of his family. And on top of everything im pregnant. Im planning to file a divorce case. Please pray for me. May Almighty Allah bless all of us

    • @incredibleindia7916
      @incredibleindia7916 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Dear sister, Divorce is not a solution, please keep patience. We will pray for you Allah fill your life full of happiness with good health and wealth. Ameen

    • @fazminacareem478
      @fazminacareem478 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@incredibleindia7916 Ameen.

    • @JahannamHellfire
      @JahannamHellfire 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      May Allah swt give you the best husband ameen.

    • @stephaniemchh6476
      @stephaniemchh6476 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@fazminacareem478 I know of a powerful doctor who is capable of helping people to bring their ex back he helpe mi also when my heart was broken in 8months. Message him and be free.

    • @stephaniemchh6476
      @stephaniemchh6476 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@fazminacareem478 +1 ,,,.9 14 22 8 , ,20 41.

  • @mercyayoub4966
    @mercyayoub4966 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Kindly need an advice, I have been married for 16yrs now and blessed with 4 children mashallah. But from day one i have been the bread earner and taking all the responsibilities of the kids and myself. My husband has never paid my dowry( mahar), and now am tired of this kind of life. Especially from his laziness not minding to find a job. I had to leave my children and come overseas to work for my kids but life isn't that simple. I asked for divorce but he denied, what should i do? Right now we don't even have a home as i cant afford rent anymore and taking care of the kids. So even when i go back in vaccation i stay with my sister where my kids are and he is at his father's home. Please kindly advice. Jazakallahu khair

    • @maryharrison1838
      @maryharrison1838 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Can someone tell me why my Muslim husband does not want his children to know he is married to an American woman I accept Allah and want to convert

    • @aminahaqzee5038
      @aminahaqzee5038 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      plz call my sister inshallah solve urs problem perfect person in alls spiritual helinng powers bawa abbas sahib + 923414850022 PERFECT person in alls spiritual helinng powers and sultions

    • @keppykeppy5241
      @keppykeppy5241 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Mary Harrison could be that he is still married in a relationship with there mother and using you for a visa this happens all the time and he doesn’t have to tell the other woman about you please come to Islam but run from me that use you it doesn’t get better

    • @JahannamHellfire
      @JahannamHellfire 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      When he dont provide for you its because he have another women!

  • @saimai.915
    @saimai.915 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am going through the same issue Sister I entirely understand your pain. How do we end the marriage legally?

  • @hanifizuha
    @hanifizuha 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I swear to Allah it's too difficult divorce the one who u love

  • @MrHussain1998
    @MrHussain1998 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    This will sound stupid i know
    But 6 months ago i got a arranged marriage from Pakistan and i mainly did it for the sake of my parents.
    At first it was fine we were happy with each other even tho we only knew each other a few months, but i came back to the UK in June and things were still fine a couple of months down the line, i started working and didn't really have much time to talk to her ect and then she told her family and which they told mine and from there it went down hill for me, like yes fair enough im to blame but shouldn't she be talking to me about all that?
    Now further down the line at this point now I'm not happy in the marriage i know its very early to decide but when you have that feeling inside you that it won't work you know, (only some will understand)
    But now she's excusing me of all sorts, meeting women when i dont, always have time for my friends which again i dont, im either working or sleeping.
    I've spoke to my family and they're thinking about a divorce.
    I know divorce should be the last option, but really and truly, you can't force anything that isn't there if you get me?
    Sorry for the rant just had to get it off my chest.

    • @SJMK95
      @SJMK95 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      anonymous UK im also on the same boat and not sure what and how to do it as my family is against it

    • @MrHussain1998
      @MrHussain1998 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@SJMK95 May Allah help you in your situation, everything happens for a reason and i hope you find someone you truly love in the futute inshallah x

    • @SJMK95
      @SJMK95 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      anonymous UK thanks same to u

    • @mnasseri28
      @mnasseri28 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I’m in the same situation I’ve done nikkah but haven’t consummated my marriage so technically im not really married but idk how to make my parents understand this

    • @MrHussain1998
      @MrHussain1998 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mnasseri28 in islam a nikkah means you're married, unfortunately.

  • @rafia8106
    @rafia8106 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Please pray for me. Going through hardship in marriage.

    • @kirtisoma3211
      @kirtisoma3211 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Trust God he will never let you down

  • @shamasiddique9620
    @shamasiddique9620 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    my husband divorce me without any valid reason . i had not did anything wrong with him with his family. i accepted her daughter as mother. i donno what is my fault.

    • @thethankfullservant2206
      @thethankfullservant2206 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      shama siddique it doesn't make sense did you ask him why

    • @tboolah1
      @tboolah1 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Have some pride, why you need a man that show to you that he doesn’t want you !
      There are many good and righteous men on this earth..

    • @shamasiddique9620
      @shamasiddique9620 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      +Ebtehal Al-Subaie yaah i know

    • @NazmusLabs
      @NazmusLabs 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      shama siddique Allah is with you. What ever Allah has written, it is for the best. Remain patient and you will soon get something better than what you lost, Insh’Allah!

    • @louloubelle1330
      @louloubelle1330 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      shama siddique Subhan’Allaah sister but there will be a reason. Pray sister, and make du’aah. I am happily divorced, it took me a while to get over him and to move on but it’s better, no drama no stress, and 3 years later: with 2 young son’s, I do my nikk’aah on Thursday Subhan’Allaah to a fully practising brother. You have to know what you want. Bid him farewell you deserve so much better

  • @nigarfathima2433
    @nigarfathima2433 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I got divorced after just a month of marriage and i lived with him only for a week. The reason for divorce was basically nothing i.e which could have been easily solved by proper understanding and communication. Unfortunately our elders didn't do a good job . They were overprotective of their respective child that the situation snowballed and landed in divorce. I wasn't onboard with it but I had nothing to back me up.
    I really want to get back with my ex husband (which seems so impossible)but i don't know how to . I pray to Allah but have no idea on what action to take as there is no contact between us.
    Please suggest what to do. Please pray that by the will and mercy of Allah subhanuwaltaala that we'll get back together. Aameen!

  • @bilqees786
    @bilqees786 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    My husband might divorce me soon 😢

    • @maryamshuha168
      @maryamshuha168 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      May Allah ease your pain sister 😔

    • @stephaniemchh6476
      @stephaniemchh6476 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I know of a powerful doctor who is capable of helping people to bring their ex back he helpe mi also when my heart was broken in 8months. Message him and be free.

    • @stephaniemchh6476
      @stephaniemchh6476 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      +1 ,,,.9 14 22 8 , ,20 41.

    • @de5iner
      @de5iner ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Update?

  • @AK-kv2fl
    @AK-kv2fl 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Unilateral divorce by wife
    It's allowed, right?

  • @mamunurrashid359
    @mamunurrashid359 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Allah I love your wisdom

  • @salamah8930
    @salamah8930 ปีที่แล้ว

    I no longer can bare this relationship.
    When I tell my decision to my mom,she says have sabr.i had sabr for 7 year.i can't take it anymore .i don't know what to do.
    Should I think of my mom and society or should I think about myself?

    • @Gamerpro08
      @Gamerpro08 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Salaam alaykum sister, May Allah ease your worries and keep you steadfast in his deen ameeen. Pray istikhara many times, increase your ibaada, pray tahajjud and ask Allah swts help and to clear your heart and mind, to purify your heart, listen to more Islamic lectures about marriage, and then talk it out with him on how you can fix your marriage, go through Islamic marriage counselling, that is if he’s interested in fixing your marriage, if none of it works and you’ve already thought all the consequences once you divorced then no matter what other people feel or think, as long as it’s within shariah and you tried everything, there’s nothing wrong with you choosing what’s best for yourself, your mental health and the mental health of your children. If you stay and have sabr and it’s not affecting your deen negatively then you get more good deeds from Allah azzawajal, but if you can’t have sabr anymore and it’s affecting your deen negatively, it’s not haraam for you to prioritize your deen over staying in a toxic relationship. May Allah swt give you peace in your heart and mind, make you get through this test soon and make you both steadfast in his deen ameeen

    • @razamughal4582
      @razamughal4582 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yourself.

  • @chev6392
    @chev6392 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm a Muslim woman. My husband haven't divorce me he left us 2 years now for multiple women and living a wild lifestyle haven't taking care of his son allows his women to disrespect me he as well threatened my life and i give him no problem whatsoever . I have always been a faithful loyal wife only thing i do was talk to him about his infidelities and he disrespected me for the hold 7 years of marriage how do i get a divorce from him i need to move on when Allah send a good God fearing husband

    • @uzmabajwa3944
      @uzmabajwa3944 ปีที่แล้ว

      Your should take divorce from court

  • @devaranipillay9415
    @devaranipillay9415 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Slmz ...im divorce for a month now..and my husband have me the talaq over the phone 3times ..e was very very angry at that moment ..bt after he cut the call e regrets it alot ...we still Wana work our Marriage out ...e didn't mean it ...we speak everyday on the phone...I'm staying with my mum for the 3months and e is living with his family ...I want to know after the 3months period can we make nikah again ..we also registered English way too ...I married into Islam ...so I don't know much ...I was a non Muslim before....so many people is telling me different stories abt how this works ...I need help honestly...we still love each other and want to be together ... because of this lock down is South Africa we can not go see the moulana ...help desperate

    • @umaribnabdullah829
      @umaribnabdullah829 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Assalamualaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh. You must go to Hakim or at least Imam. Depending the school of Fiqh you will have ur answer. May Allah SWT grant you ease in these difficult situation

    • @hajiramuhammad2414
      @hajiramuhammad2414 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Tasleem Omar Ally... May Allah make it easy for you. I am from South Africa (Jhb). Take care of yourself🌹

    • @ashfahrehman8204
      @ashfahrehman8204 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      did u find a solution.

    • @stephaniemchh6476
      @stephaniemchh6476 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I know of a powerful doctor who is capable of helping people to bring their ex back he helpe mi also when my heart was broken in 8months. Message him and be free.

    • @stephaniemchh6476
      @stephaniemchh6476 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      +1 ,,,.9 14 22 8 , ,20 41.

  • @Fareedud-deenPrince
    @Fareedud-deenPrince 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I wish that 😢life go on after 20years of she don't me to c the kids😢😢😢😢😢

  • @NobodyGho
    @NobodyGho 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Well in my case. He just left and Is busy getting to know others even while we married and during iddah. And is lowering his gaze for me who is his wife that's under iddah. But his busy with crazy things and not lowering his gaze for others. What's the logic in that?

    • @razamughal9095
      @razamughal9095 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Are you bloody stupid?? You must be thats why he left you

  • @yousraadly7341
    @yousraadly7341 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    A real Muslims/devoted to God figure loves another motivated by God , hates a God hater ,marry according to God laws divorce who violated God boundaries any thing beside that attitude is gate to hell and its tool called hypocrit.

  • @An_Gha_
    @An_Gha_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Salam bros and sis, why if marriage is kind of sacred and especially divorce is so disliked by Allah all the 4 sahaba divorced?
    Why did they divorce if marriage is such an important issue plus if you have adab you can overcome all issues, if you really want to. And when people divorce usually the reasons are all related to lack of adab and akhalaq

    • @AB-bc3vi
      @AB-bc3vi 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      It’s a good question tbh

    • @razamughal9095
      @razamughal9095 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Easy: divorce TO THIS DAY is not a taboo in arab culture. It is disliked by Allah, so is suicide, so is apostacy. You dont have a point.

    • @abaIdrisiyas
      @abaIdrisiyas ปีที่แล้ว

      Where does Allah say he dislikes divorce? Surely it depends on case by case basis. Sometimes it's wajib other times it can be disliked.

  • @swalehferoz4740
    @swalehferoz4740 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I'm never getting involve in marriage. Alhamdulillah marriage is not the only way to Jannah. Seems the muslim ummah don't guard marriage always talaq. By Allah I wish to stand in front of Him on the day of judgment accounting of myself no one else, of course my parents but never a wife nor children. The sins in marriage are more severe. Alhamdulillah may Allah continue making me strong aganist zinna, Amin. Not demolarizing anyone I speak on my own acct. If u wat to take a chance go ahead may Allah guide you.

    • @saeedafg7415
      @saeedafg7415 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Swaleh Feroz akhi marriage is obligatory on the man who is able to marry.

    • @louloubelle1330
      @louloubelle1330 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Swaleh Feroz that’s just a childish response to someone that doesn’t fully practice his deen, YOU HAVE TO GET MARRIED, Allaah swt commanded it, read the ayahs and hadiths (sahih and bukhari) regarding this. There are many divorces due to ego’s, stupidity, naf’s, always wanting to be ryt and not knowing how to treat one another but miscommunication is the biggest problem in marriage. Or interfering parents and in-laws but marriage is something you have to work at, and is half of your deen so: Fear Allaah swt because you don’t and think you know better

    • @Ss-er5qd
      @Ss-er5qd 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      my brother swaleh feroz I want to remind you marriage is fulfilling half your deen and that's the first benefit secondly IBM mas'ud may Allah be pleased with him said if I was to have 10 days remaining to be alive I would get married and the benefit here is that you will save yourself from fitnah and this time we are living too much fitnah it's only Allah help we seek thirdly I will remind you our beloved prophet swallahu alleihi wassallam will boost to others yaumul qiyammah by the large group of his ummah and that will happen if you get married brother...let the sunnah go forth and don't stop it with your weak opinion ( forgive me for the mistakes that's from me and shaitan , Allah and His messenger are free ...peace

    • @UsmanKhan-uy1jl
      @UsmanKhan-uy1jl 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Brother, one of the wishes of Prophet Muhammad PBUH is to have the the biggest ummah during the day of judgment. He encourages us to have as many children as possible. Have them follow Islam. Everything will come to an end and when it does. May Allah allow your childrens' good deeds will raise your stature in heaven. Its simple multiplication math. 😁

    • @hadji9354
      @hadji9354 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Some of the greatest scholars never got married, I guess those random youtube people know Islam better than actual scholars who dedicated their whole life to Islam.
      what a joke.
      Marriage is a SUNNAH. SUNNAHS are NOT obligations.

  • @sintaibramokha5797
    @sintaibramokha5797 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    No i dont like divorce.. Mary for happiness to complete each others not for noisy like fire.. Allah make different people and heart for one unity and can not separate.. If u can love and mary why decide divorce..its not like tht. If hv be noisy after mary its like salt and sugar.. So no problem bcause its make more close and romance ☺😚 i love to see him if angry but more love if not angry.. Its 2 side between bad and good i will accepted bcause i love him. For me ur always my ocean 😚😍 baby where u.. U hide from me 🙈

    • @stephaniemchh6476
      @stephaniemchh6476 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I know of a powerful doctor who is capable of helping people to bring their ex back he helpe mi also when my heart was broken in 8months. Message him and be free.

    • @stephaniemchh6476
      @stephaniemchh6476 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      +1 ,,,.9 14 22 8 , ,20 41.