How my stolen watch changed my life.

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  • @BarkandJack
    @BarkandJack ปีที่แล้ว +673

    I've seen this episode about 4 times... I was there in the room... and STILL it gives me the chills. Marcus is that man for sharing this story!

    • @marcusflack1523
      @marcusflack1523 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      Massive big hug to you Captain. Was such a comfort sharing this storey first with you guys at the table and now to the world.

    • @franklucente3517
      @franklucente3517 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      My wife heard bits and pieces from another room, walked in and asked, “What are you listening to? Aren’t they talking about watches?” (As in, why so emotional about a watch?) I said, “Yes…and no. It’s a watch, but…it’s never just a watch.” I guess that’s real beauty of it.

    • @pgrjones
      @pgrjones ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Certainly just got a bit dusty in my lounge … 😢

    • @frontbum
      @frontbum ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Powerful stuff!! Well done guys

    • @levi_hart
      @levi_hart ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Moments in time encapsulated in the tool for measuring time. They are the keystones to memories like a photograph only so much more. Keep bringing the heat lads! Marcus you are legend for sharing. Andrew, Adrian and George you are what we all seek to find in the brotherhood of camaraderie.

  • @Trapvision3D
    @Trapvision3D ปีที่แล้ว +231

    I've consumed watch related content for well over 15 years and this is the most legit and heart felt episode of any podcast/content on any platform. Sharing your life moments with the world puts you in different class my friend. I've already enjoyed this channel for what's been put out already, but this episode hits number 1 in my book. You just helped me with something, so I greatly appreciate you being transparent!

    • @marcusflack1523
      @marcusflack1523 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Wow. This is pretty awesome to read. And I’m really glad the ep has been helpful to you. That’s def the reason I pulled the trigger in sharing this difficult journey. Was always my hope that it could make the difference to someone that they needed. Great to have you along for the journey

    • @Trapvision3D
      @Trapvision3D ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Well Marcus, this episode just helped forge my day. Thanks again for keeping it 💯

    • @benmoore7946
      @benmoore7946 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      yeah, not just a great watch podcast episode. A great podcast episode period.

  • @bjs548
    @bjs548 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    One of the great bits about this episode is watching Andrew watch his mate be vulnerable and tell his story. Simultaneously protective, proud, encouraging. Just a real mate there for a mate. Well done everyone.

  • @andrewwalker5384
    @andrewwalker5384 ปีที่แล้ว +92

    Marcus, you are living proof of my favorite quote: “ Life shrinks or expands according to one's courage”.

    • @AboutEffingTime
      @AboutEffingTime  ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Marcus is about to explode by this logic

    • @marcusflack1523
      @marcusflack1523 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Hahahahaha this is the second time today someone quoted this line to me via a different line of communication. Wow. It’s a powerful one.

    • @kbarnbrook4993
      @kbarnbrook4993 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Anais Nin quote

  • @myishacherry
    @myishacherry ปีที่แล้ว +46

    I cried so much during this episode. Thanks Marcus for being so vulnerable. And thanks to George, Adrian, and Andrew for being an amazing friends. Glad to be part of this community.

  • @chadshen
    @chadshen ปีที่แล้ว +115

    This is such a powerful episode.. still watching it but some parts of the story really resonates. Being vulnerable is frightening but sharing it like this, kudos to you, Marcus! This ain’t just a watches podcast, it’s true mateship!

    • @chadshen
      @chadshen ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Not the ending I expected.. such a great moment!!

    • @marcusflack1523
      @marcusflack1523 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Yeah it was def not the ending I was expecting either. It nearly knocked me off my seat. And yes this is Nate ship at its core. Thanks for the comment means a lot.

    • @chadshen
      @chadshen ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@marcusflack1523thank you for sharing your story!!

  • @EFAMILIO
    @EFAMILIO ปีที่แล้ว +43

    I would never have the balls to share something like Marcus did. Such a powerful story. Get him on the round table more often!

    • @EFAMILIO
      @EFAMILIO ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Just found the time to finish the last ten. My favourite episode of all time. Marcus obviously works so hard to make these happen, not to mention all the other t&t content. Most deserving owner of a Pelagos of all time.

  • @desi.viking
    @desi.viking ปีที่แล้ว +48

    Dear god.. I absolutely loved this episode. Marcus - a massive shout out to you - not just for opening up the book of Marcus for all of us, but for making us ( atleast me) renew my belief in the power of resolve.
    Adrian, George, Andrew - what an amazingly beautiful gesture. We all have to thank this amazing camaraderie for making AET what it is…
    THANK YOU!

    • @marcusflack1523
      @marcusflack1523 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks so much for your kind words

  • @nicknicola1009
    @nicknicola1009 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Of all the watch TH-cam shows i've ever seen (and it's a massive number) none has ever touched me the way this one has. A massive thank you to Marcus who bared his soul to us in such a moving way and showed how you can overcome the biggest adversity. I'm not ashamed to say my eyes were watering when Marcus was presented the Pelagos. The moment was so genuine and the affection palpable. You can never script moments and reactions like these so thank you, thank you, thank you for baring and sharing this with us and here's to the next tokens to fall into place for Marcus. Simply beautiful

    • @marcusflack1523
      @marcusflack1523 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wow, thanks so much for your kind words. And yes this was a very special moment for us all. Super glad it hit the mark for you and so many others in the watch world.

  • @josephpetty369
    @josephpetty369 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    As a 'watch guy', who is also currently struggling with the fact that I may have an alcohol problem, this resonated. Thank you so much for sharing this story. The fact that i cried whilst watching, probably highlights my issues more than I realised.

    • @marcusflack1523
      @marcusflack1523 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah lean into those emotions. They can guide you more than you are aware half the time.

  • @stringoes
    @stringoes ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Way to make a bunch of grown men cry 😢 Credit to Marcus for making the tough decisions and overcoming his challenges. So happy for Marcus to get the watch back so he can hand down to his son. As someone who wants to do this one day, I see the connection and importance of sharing memories. Also, so great to see the support in this team and the special gift for Marcus! Love this team and tuning in every week.

    • @marcusflack1523
      @marcusflack1523 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      This ep is such a pivotal moment for us mates. Truely sums up so much that’s great about the world. And sometimes letting emotions tip you over the edge is just what we need as men. Super glad it hit the mark with you.

  • @forwidur
    @forwidur 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This is the most real video I've ever seen on TH-cam. So much genuine, raw feelings. The guts Marcus has to expose himself, to open up to this extent... Here's to him passing both of his new watches to his kids!

  • @rick_wayne
    @rick_wayne ปีที่แล้ว +21

    This was the most human, beautifully poetic talk of a couple guys. I said I would never sit for an hour watching this and I was hung on every word. Thank you for your vulnerability and being so cool f’ing guys.

    • @marcusflack1523
      @marcusflack1523 ปีที่แล้ว

      Freakinig great words to read my friend. Super glad it held you for an hour but more to the point hit the right marks for you.

  • @The-Watch-Kavern
    @The-Watch-Kavern ปีที่แล้ว +17

    The way Andrew's looking at Marcus.......good bond right there.

    • @marcusflack1523
      @marcusflack1523 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Our understanding goes mega deep. Many hours together under all kinds of pressure. This experience solidified our bond forever. Love him to bits.

    • @BarkandJack
      @BarkandJack ปีที่แล้ว +4

      That's true brotherhood.

  • @notenoughtime7274
    @notenoughtime7274 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    Amazing episode
    Huge respect to Marcus for his honesty and vulnerability. What a top guy. Lovely to see the friendship between you and Andrew too.
    Mesmerising story telling. My wife and I were both glued watching this to the happy ending. Third time lucky, and hope this is the one you give to your son!

    • @marcusflack1523
      @marcusflack1523 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yessssss. That’s incredible that she enjoyed the journey as well. And I’m convinced about that inscription now. Def getting George’s team to do it for me. Thanks for the comment. Means a lot!

  • @watcheswithabdullah
    @watcheswithabdullah ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I'm literally in tears by the end! Marcus, you are an absolute rock star! Like many, I have my own struggles and your story is an inspiration. Congrats on the 2 new Tudors! May you and your kids wear them always in safety and in good health!

    • @WestCoastAce27
      @WestCoastAce27 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I wonder if Son #1 will want the Pelagos 39 now! 🤣

    • @marcusflack1523
      @marcusflack1523 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wow so overwhelming to read the comments. This has hit the mark with so many people out there. And yes my boys are getting extra meaning attached to these tudors now. Wow. Thanks for sharing means a lot.

    • @marcusflack1523
      @marcusflack1523 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@WestCoastAce27hahahaha son one hahahahaha. Nah he knows the S&G is his. Was fantastic to return back to amsterdam to show my youngest the one he will get eventually.

  • @tomwoodcraft_gfx
    @tomwoodcraft_gfx 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    fuck me dead, this episode, so much love in the room, just watching Andrew listen and understand his mate is everything

  • @onselfdestruct
    @onselfdestruct ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is huge. A perfect example that your mate sitting in the same room as you can be internally going through it and you might be totally unaware. It’s great these friends are sharing and being vulnerable in this way. Thanks for sharing. I’ve been sober for more years than I was drinking and using now and this reminded me so much of an AA share. Andrew and Adrian’s facial expressions while Marcus was telling his story tells it all. Good on you guys for putting this out there in the community. If you see a friend struggling, lend an ear. It can go a long way.

    • @marcusflack1523
      @marcusflack1523 ปีที่แล้ว

      Fantastic feedback. And well done on your sobriety. Encouraging to hear the long termers stories as well.

  • @localheroEd
    @localheroEd ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Buying a watch you intend to pass down takes the stakes up a notch. I’m tearing up listening to Marcus. Thanks for sharing! And thanks for the quality of the show overall.

    • @BarkandJack
      @BarkandJack ปีที่แล้ว +5

      It's so powerful isn't it. It's easy to label the watch a watch, an item, but as soon as you connect it to your kids, it completely changes it.

    • @marcusflack1523
      @marcusflack1523 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Still gives me shivers. And super glad it’s hitting the mark. Thanks for the comment. Means a lot.

    • @localheroEd
      @localheroEd ปีที่แล้ว

      Absolutely. I look forward to the credit on your heirloom episode Adrian 😉

  • @shanghaiffgg
    @shanghaiffgg 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I have only discovered this channel and working my way through the episodes. I absolutely loved this one. Marcus was real, honest, vulnerable and forthcoming and its to be applauded. A fantastic gesture from the boys towards him at the end. Bravo everyone, this episode was a massive victory for Marcus and for us all.

  • @aspringer2
    @aspringer2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Marcus you are an inspiration. As a recovering alcoholic of 6 years. Hearing your story reminded me of where I came from and where I am at now. I really needed this thank you for sharing your story.

    • @marcusflack1523
      @marcusflack1523 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wow. If we were together now. We would shake hands (probably do a wrist check) then look each other in the eye with that knowing look of where we have come from and would not need any more words. Super glad it was an encouragement for you. Stay strong. Peace love and success to your life my friend.

  • @razordefined
    @razordefined 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    dude....this is the best thing ive seen in a long time...thank you for sharing that beautiful story and a look into your personal life..those are some precious friends..some true gentlemen..well done

  • @Podcastage
    @Podcastage ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Marcus - Thank you so much for sharing your story, and congratulations on 1 year and 3 months. Not only have you made a positive change for your life, but a positive change for your family as well. It’s not easy to admit you have a problem, change your habits, and change your social life, but it gets easier every single day. You’re on the right path man. Keep it up.

    • @marcusflack1523
      @marcusflack1523 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thanks so much for the encouragement. Means a lot. I really does.

  • @themightysquid
    @themightysquid ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What a moving story, and a great bunch of mates! I wasn’t crying! The screen was bright, and the air conditioner was blowing in my eyes, and I had some spicy food, and ……. Aw heck, today I’m wearing my BB58 with a new appreciation.

  • @germcevoy
    @germcevoy ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I’m coming up on two years sober. I never had ‘that’ moment but I was on a similar path. It’s utterly amazing to hear such similar stories and seeing myself in them despite being blind to it at the time. Thank you Marcus for your honestly and vulnerability. Some will benefit from hearing it.

    • @marcusflack1523
      @marcusflack1523 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Wow. Well done on your journey. And yeah. I felt like sharing this story is somehow opening up a crack of light in this sometimes pretty dark world. Great to have you in the comments.

    • @germcevoy
      @germcevoy ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I can agree with your sentiment of missing it. But it is ‘missing’ it rather than craving it that should be the distinction. Alcohol is a right of passage in the modern age. Some come and go and others get eaten up by it. I’m glad I went there but proud to have got out the other side.
      Life doesn’t get better without alcohol but when you consider the absence of the negatives that come as a result of cutting it out then you really have swung the pendulum back in your favour. I bought a Tudor Black Bay 36 at the six months no drinking mark. Every time I look at it, it reminds me of all the pints and shit situations I haven’t found myself in for the last two years.

    • @marcusflack1523
      @marcusflack1523 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@germcevoy bloody awesome to read. Wow. You have nailed that distinction between missing and craving. Yessss that’s a perfect way to put it. Wow. Again thanks for the words. Means a lot.

    • @germcevoy
      @germcevoy ปีที่แล้ว

      @@marcusflack1523thanks for taking the time. My thoughts are with you.

  • @adamlincoln509
    @adamlincoln509 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    We have such a difficult time talking about feelings and it is so encouraging to see the support that you have for one another. I love the watch talks but it’s a “hobby” that brings so much joy to people and this story of real care for one another is so incredible. Thank you for sharing this story!

  • @i.am.hodgie
    @i.am.hodgie ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Gents. It’s Thanksgiving weekend here in 🇨🇦. Little did I expect to watch you guys over coffee and be crying on the couch. Many lessons to be thankful for in Marcus’ story and in your generosity as well as respect for him. Thanks for everything all of you do and for this community.
    Marcus, you’re accountable to all of us now. Stay clean and strong for your family.

  • @3hreEC
    @3hreEC 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I was incredibly moved when Marcus opened the surprise and it was a Pelagos 39. It's the first meaningful watch I bought to commemorate the birth of my son and give to him one day. Great episode.

    • @marcusflack1523
      @marcusflack1523 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      then that makes 2 of us that will pass it on. I will give my Pelegos to my second son.

  • @chrisrouse3673
    @chrisrouse3673 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Guys, this is probably the most powerful episode I’ve seen across all of my subs. Kudos to all of you, especially Marcus (and Andrew for his decade long friendship). You guys are luck to have each other, others not so much so embrace the warmth you have, as it is transferred to the watching audience.
    Beautiful, and the ending……jus t wow!

  • @mrgee007
    @mrgee007 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow, I got something in my eye, very powerful, and a beautiful gesture that you will all remember forever ❤

  • @mrjt1209
    @mrjt1209 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you for raising the awareness around alcohol abuse. I have countless stories like Marcus’ and took me far too long to address it. I hope people see this who needs help and gives them the courage to seek the help to get back on track.

  • @gtrca
    @gtrca ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I know we shouldn’t compare podcasts, but I came to this episode after watching Ben Clymer’s new video podcast on a halo project we won’t ever see and an hour of talking watches with celebrities. This episode is so much more thoughtful and engaging than anything else out there right now and hearing Marcus’s story and his connection to a watch as he goes through different chapters of his life and ascribes meaning to this inanimate object was really powerful. Not once did he talk about the specs or the typical stuff we hear from other pods out there and yet it’s the type of stuff that makes me open up my watch case and put away my Apple Watch. Additionally, I really liked the ending with the special gift for Marcus. That was so thoughtful and generous. It’s great to see vulnerability and honest storytelling today.

    • @marcusflack1523
      @marcusflack1523 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wow. Thanks so much for the in-depth feedback. It’s super encouraging for us in the group to read. I sent this message to the fellas to make sure they caught it. Really glad it’s hitting the mark for you.

  • @Arseization
    @Arseization ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you, really, for letting us be a part of this - having a view in your friendship and of course in your private life, Marcus.
    Best example of why watches invoke emotions in us and why we can invoke emotions through them.

  • @AnthonyEspositoTheStallion
    @AnthonyEspositoTheStallion ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I've been watching this channel for the last couple of days, probably because I watched a few of your videos and now TH-cam recommendations them for me. So this morning I clicked on this particular video not knowing the content, just that someones watch changed their life. I needed to see this, today is my sober date, January 9, 1995 !! A DAY AT A TIME, that's all we have !! Great video !!

    • @marcusflack1523
      @marcusflack1523 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Bloody awesome my friend. COngrats on your anniversery. Means a lot huh?

    • @AnthonyEspositoTheStallion
      @AnthonyEspositoTheStallion ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @marcusflack1523 Bro, we both have today, that's all that matters ! Every morning I say to myself, "drinking isn't an option today", and tomorrow I'll wake up (God willing) and say the same thing. It's that simple. And if no one told you that they love you today, I do. That was an awesome video, and I'll bet super hard but really good for you, DAY AT A TIME BROTHER .

    • @marcusflack1523
      @marcusflack1523 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@AnthonyEspositoTheStallion ma man!!!

  • @a97b18b
    @a97b18b ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I had pretty much lost everything to a 17 year heroin addiction. Sold everything ended up homeless for a while. I sold all of my parents jewelry including my dad’s Rolex. Now I have almost 6 years clean and have rebuilt most relationships. I think the most important thing is that I’ve become reliable. The bad, I’m now addicted to watches!!

  • @TheProblemUnique
    @TheProblemUnique 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Powerful conversation, 4 top blokes and such a great thing to see. Bravo gents!

  • @jamesallen2953
    @jamesallen2953 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again: THIS sort of content is what makes AET special. No bullshit. No pretence. No hype about value or prices.
    Just 3 (and now 4) likeable relatable dudes talking about watches and more often than not. Life.
    Thank you all, and especially Marcus.

    • @jamesallen2953
      @jamesallen2953 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh I hadn’t watched until the end and now I’m in floods. You guys.

    • @marcusflack1523
      @marcusflack1523 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah and you know what. Its what we like the best as well. Thanks for your thoughts James. Brilliant

  • @rickwarden9913
    @rickwarden9913 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That’s a very special episode that crosses over from watch to life and back again. Very important sharing. Thanks to all of you.

  • @kingminh
    @kingminh ปีที่แล้ว +71

    I am not crying, marcus is crying.

    • @BarkandJack
      @BarkandJack ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Who's cutting onions?!?!

    • @marcusflack1523
      @marcusflack1523 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I’m not crying. It’s just raining on my face. Hahahahahaha

    • @AboutEffingTime
      @AboutEffingTime  ปีที่แล้ว +11

      It’s dusty in here 🧹

  • @robertluten92
    @robertluten92 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Absolutely the best episode of any watch podcast, genuinely so moving.

  • @joewhite6875
    @joewhite6875 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Holy bleep. Best episode, not only on AET, but best watch TH-cam episode I’ve ever seen. Marcus, the story is such an agonizing yet beautiful one, and your story-telling had us rapt. Major props to you for sharing something so vulnerable. And kudos to all 4 of you for producing this one. Incredible.

    • @marcusflack1523
      @marcusflack1523 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wow wow wow. Just wow. I’m really blown away reading comments like this. I had no idea what this ep would do. But super glad it’s hitting the right marks in people like yourself. I’m super pleased to share this story (even though I was super nervous before it dropped) and see it connecting us all together. Thanks for your thoughts. Means a lot

  • @B32FILMS
    @B32FILMS ปีที่แล้ว +1

    WOW! What an amazing eppisode and heartfelt story. Well done on your sobriety, I was in tears watching this and glued to the screen. I am 13 days clean myself as of watching this on Sat 21st Oct 23. I had the opposite problem I would get hammered blackout and not remember ordering watches the night before (all my drinking happened at home). Then two days later an expensive watch would turn up and I would have to send it back. Bloody nightmare! Thank you for sharing this, all of you guys are awesome. I look forward to more video content, this is the best watch video I have seen in the last 10 years of any channel I have viewed. Thank goodness for second and third chances! 🙏🙏🙏

    • @marcusflack1523
      @marcusflack1523 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      WOw .....thats quite a story indeed. Incredible what can happen in a blackout. Only people like us will really understand it fully. And hey thats great news re your sobriety. It will pay off. Find something incredible to replace it with. Then onwards and upwards. Thanks for being on the journey with us

    • @B32FILMS
      @B32FILMS ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for personally replying to me that means so much and is incredibly kind of you. I will keep going I promise you that, I have two kids and am married also. I have ADHD and ASD as well as really loud tinnitus which was the thing that got me drinking in the first place. I find great joy in watches and the watch community and am glad I came across your channel. You do amazing videos and are all really genuine which is so refreshing. Take care Marcus and keep on inspiring people your story is amazing! Have a great weekend. Johnny@@marcusflack1523

  • @jordiblancosancho8686
    @jordiblancosancho8686 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    All of you are AWESOME!!!!! Great family. Love this feeling you share with us. Amazing friendship. No words.

    • @marcusflack1523
      @marcusflack1523 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You are sooo very welcome. So glad the friendship comes access so transparently. And super glad to have you along on the journey with us.

  • @ajh5407
    @ajh5407 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Family, friendship and self improvement. That’s what life’s about right there.

  • @jim.travis.youtube
    @jim.travis.youtube ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The insight about the difference between seeing a watch and touching/handling a watch is sooooo spot on. I can't count how many times I've loved a watch on sight but not in real life, and hated a watch on sight but had an epiphany once I touched and wore it. Then there's the ones that grow on me slowly as I wear them day in and day out.

  • @bimezgabe4804
    @bimezgabe4804 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    we came here to hear about watches - and now we've heard soooo much more about life in general. thank you marcus. this is going to change some peoples lifes for sure.

  • @Minntality
    @Minntality ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Best part of this episode is the friendship. All of the guys, but especially Marcus and Andrew. We all need that one friend like Andrew that will stick with us through thick and thin and push us to be the best version of ourselves. Well done chaps! 👏👏👏

    • @marcusflack1523
      @marcusflack1523 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Im very very greatful for Andrew. A true friend whos been to hell n back with me

  • @jt5261
    @jt5261 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Here you see the definition of Friendship and Respect. Thanks for sharing your story. Great job guys

  • @ge48421
    @ge48421 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Marcus' kids need a father who is present way more than they need a watch that reminds them of a father who was always hungover. A watch is a great gift, but spending time with your sons is the greater one. It's the memories of great times spent together that gives meaning to those two watches.
    I hope that Marcus, his wife, and his two boys get to have many happy memories.

  • @jamesnguyen859
    @jamesnguyen859 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is one of your best episodes --thank you, Marcus, for sharing.

  • @UserKR13
    @UserKR13 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    This is hands down the best episode so far. Marcus was like a guest but the bond between all the members allowed a genuine story telling that consisted of a massive down, getting over it, an unfortunate event and a warming ending. It was a movie-like episode. 👏

    • @marcusflack1523
      @marcusflack1523 ปีที่แล้ว

      wow....I think youre right. What an arc huh! still shaking my head when I watch it. Thanks for your comment bro...means a lot

  • @VMIyanks04
    @VMIyanks04 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you for sharing your story Marcus. It has helped out so many people, you’ll never be able to count. Gents, you all are so generous and awesome in supporting your friend. This podcast just went to a whole other level for me. Massive kudos and I really hope you all come back soon for Season 5!

    • @marcusflack1523
      @marcusflack1523 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thanks heaps for your encouragement. Glad to hear it hit the mark. I’m now 2 years sober. Just had the anniversary.

    • @VMIyanks04
      @VMIyanks04 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@marcusflack1523 Congratulations man, that’s awesome! Always be grateful! God is amazing and can work wonders through us!

    • @VMIyanks04
      @VMIyanks04 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@marcusflack1523 congratulations Marcus!!!! That’s so wonderful! God is great! You never know how He will use our struggles to help others. You have helped others by sharing your story. God bless you!

  • @fstopandwatch3846
    @fstopandwatch3846 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    My father recently lost his battle with alcoholism. I bought a watch to commemorate him and to also help me, not choose the same path. Well done Marcus...fucking legend! You've done your boys proud 👍 wear both pieces in good health.
    Mark

    • @marcusflack1523
      @marcusflack1523 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Bloody hard to hear Mark. It’s such a potentially dangerous path for many people. But great that you drew a line in the sand with your watch to remind you. Super glad to have you along the journey with us.

  • @LRSTGS
    @LRSTGS ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I am actually crying watching this. I've also overcome struggles with alcohol...I also have a Pelagos 39...Love this show. Love to you Marcus. X

    • @marcusflack1523
      @marcusflack1523 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thomas. Well done to you and your journey. What a crazy coincidence we now both have the 39. Let’s shake hands one day and give each other that knowing look of what’s in the past. 🎉🎉🎉

  • @elliot_shooting
    @elliot_shooting 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Im not crying, you're crying! Thanks for sharing Marcus! Absolute respect and wishing you all the best!

  • @DarrenBates
    @DarrenBates ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This episode is a paradigm shift from what was very good watch content into potentially prize winning modern masculinity content. An absolute tour de force of honesty and brotherly friendship on display here. Yes it's a story of a watch but a man and his watch. And it's not aspirational magazine ad watch stuff, it's a great man telling his redemption story. And the kindness and attentiveness of the three guys was there for all to see.
    When they were talking about the engraving and George said (about getting his guys to engrave the watch), he said, with absolutely no hesitation, "it's done". What a guy.
    Marcus, both watches look absolutely amazing. Here's to many more amazing days for you and your family.

  • @charlieneil4269
    @charlieneil4269 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi Marcus, as a fellow member of the fellowship this episode really choked me up. Man when they gave you that watch I was done. Really brave of you to share your story so publicly. I can also track some of my drinking and recovery with watch purchases, losses and re-buys so I was with you all the way. Massive congrats on your sober time, keep coming back!

  • @stephengarratt8027
    @stephengarratt8027 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Grown men are useless at sharing their problems so well done to have the courage to express yours Marcus.

  • @Brianl83
    @Brianl83 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I just love these guys. Like I needed another reason to watch these videos. Thank you all for the content and lessons.

  • @mortenjespersen7594
    @mortenjespersen7594 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    What a boss move to share your story Marcus!! And what a gesture from the rest of you. First time a watch video has me crying, tears rolling down my cheeks. I'm not jealous of the things you've been through, but I am that you have TWO watches with so much meaning crammed into them. Keep the good things happening....in life and on this wonderful channel!!

    • @marcusflack1523
      @marcusflack1523 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hahahahaha wow you summed that up so well. These Tudor heaters on my wrist have so much more value in them due to this story. Will be super glad to finally hand them down to my boys when the time is right.

    • @mortenjespersen7594
      @mortenjespersen7594 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@marcusflack1523 I hope I can bring meaning to my children in the same way in the future. Wearing my most meaningful watch today with your story in mind: My grandfather's old Eterna tuning fork watch. This one has all happy memories in it: Hugs, stories at camp fires, ice cream and eternal summers 😊

  • @cinzomi07
    @cinzomi07 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So emotional. Surely a different vibe here. Wear both in good health Marcus.

  • @karnankannan
    @karnankannan ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Guys, these kind of stories are such a big part of why we love watches. Thank you for such a great episode. And thank you Marcus for sharing your story with us.

    • @marcusflack1523
      @marcusflack1523 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Indeed. The Meaning behind the watch is what gives it its value. And that’s not because of some in house movement. Haha.

  • @Joacimbylehn
    @Joacimbylehn ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’ve been catching up with the episodes and this one was on a whole other level. It’s beautiful to watch so much genuine emotion, and to see the friendship between yourselves.
    I really hope more guys dare to speak this openly among their friends, because we all have our struggles and we all need someone to lean on from time to time.
    Thank you.

  • @aapeaape
    @aapeaape ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Guys - thank you for this episode! MARCUS is a superhero, the amount of courage he's showing is incredible!

  • @Olovia12
    @Olovia12 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’m a watch collector and a recovering alcoholic and I am so fucking proud of you Marcus, keep going, it is such a wonderful gift you are giving your family!!!

    • @marcusflack1523
      @marcusflack1523 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wow. Thanks for the light up. Means a lot. It really does.

  • @jonhernandez1200
    @jonhernandez1200 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Tears be flowing…appreciate the vulnerability and incredible heart of this episode. Thanks again guys!

  • @nicolaiherrmann3643
    @nicolaiherrmann3643 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    One of the best episodes yet! Huge respect to Marcus for talking openly about this. So happy for him that he has such amazing friends as you guys. This was beautiful!

  • @kalivar01
    @kalivar01 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Tough session, as a medic and someone who sees the after effects, welldone guys for raising and educating folk. Most genuine TH-cam team out there. ❤

    • @marcusflack1523
      @marcusflack1523 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      wow thanks for your words. Pretty sure you have seen all kinds of stages in poeple. scarey stuff indeed.

  • @gordo1002
    @gordo1002 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks Marcus. You just shared what it is to be a genuinely good human being: acknowledge when you f*ck up, aspire to be better, change something to make it happen.

  • @VibrantMango
    @VibrantMango ปีที่แล้ว +14

    A masterclass in fragility, humility, friendship, redemption, and storytelling that elevates beyond the standard fare. Marcus, wear your Tudors in good health and get them insured! 😂

  • @lucaom
    @lucaom 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    A man, his life, his struggles, his heart... his true friends. And a watch. Great episode. Thank you guys.

  • @adamk8451
    @adamk8451 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Wow. I don’t even know where to start on this one. Huge hug to Marcus for sharing his story and for the massive strides he’s made in his life over the last year or so. I’ve been sober since 2004 and his story was an incredible reminder that it doesn’t matter how long you’ve got under your belt - it’s all about staying strong today, because all that darkness can come right back if you lose the resolve. A great and unexpected reminder against complacency. But the positive takeaway is that every day is infinitely better without the chaos and hurt of the way things were before. Every time I put on a nice watch now - especially the most special one from my wife - it’s a small symbolic reminder of how I’ve been able to get my sh*t together and turn life around. I hope anybody out there listening to this who feels the darkness today hears Marcus’s story and will know that, however hard the first steps might be, a better life is definitely on the other side. Life can be bright and happy again. Love you guys and love you for giving this kind of thing the space and time in the community 🙏✊

    • @marcusflack1523
      @marcusflack1523 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wow you have wrapped the scenario up so well complete with a bow on top. Your right re your comment about complacency. Its an everyday resolve and decision that you have to keep making. But, we just gotta keep asking that same question. Which life do you want and how much are you prepared to risk. If you can answer this question it will get you closer to figuring out which side of the line you are on. I really cant explain how much has changed since I changed coarse. I am so grateful that I have made it to this side and given up with the constant excuses and justifications. Life can be better. Life is better. BUT Life is still a challenge. But I wanna win this race. SO I keep getting up, and keep running. Thanks heaps for your thoughts Adam. Means a lot. And so great hearing that your still resolved in the world of sobriety.

    • @adamk8451
      @adamk8451 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@marcusflack1523 ❤️

  • @georgegiesbrecht8224
    @georgegiesbrecht8224 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This episode is the very definition of “I’m not crying, you’re crying” thank you for having the courage to share your story. I pray that you conquer this challenge and become the father and husband that you have always wanted to be

  • @toms8517
    @toms8517 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    A powerful episode. It takes a lot of guts to share this with a audience. I’m like everyone else here am glad that you’re heading in the right direction.

  • @7rslender
    @7rslender ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Guys you are pure gold! This all goes so much deeper than just watches! Wow!
    Thank you for sharing this story.

  • @millersx9
    @millersx9 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    We need more of Marcus! ❤❤ What a lovely episode. You’re all such sweeties…. Very very good to see in this day and age. Love it. Keep it up!!

  • @jamesrichards7626
    @jamesrichards7626 ปีที่แล้ว

    ‘Watches should mean something’ and this story and it’s fantastic ending couldnt encapsulate that simple sentence more perfectly. Thanks chaps, this one warmed my cockles!

  • @bobmclennan1727
    @bobmclennan1727 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Kudos to Marcus, both for improving his life and for having the courage to share his story. Hopefully anyone with similar issues who sees this will know that they're not alone. Friends and family can be a big help, but finding inner strength takes power and determination.

  • @leebogi
    @leebogi ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is what it's all about gents. Community, love, support, passion, family. Thank you Marcus for sharing your story with us - you're inspirational - complete legend! I love the brotherhood on display here 🙏

  • @WornDownCrown
    @WornDownCrown ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This episode was an absolute emotional rollercoaster. Marcus’ story is so wholesome, devastating, and hopeful too. Awestruck does not even begin to describe my reaction to this video. Thank you guys for sharing stories like this.

  • @matthewrusso1350
    @matthewrusso1350 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Marcus is awesome for sharing his story, makes everyone think about their habits and what is important in life. You boys buying him a different watch was totally awesome! Good for everyone involved!!!

  • @JackG7786
    @JackG7786 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This is by far the best episode of the show. So much humanity, and honesty throughout… got me feeling a certain kinda way. Fantastic to hear he got a new S&G to fill the void, and the boys came through with the 39. Just incredible to hear

    • @marcusflack1523
      @marcusflack1523 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      that moment blew me completely away. Incredible to have it on camera

  • @IndiJan1
    @IndiJan1 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have been on TH-cam since almost the beginning.
    Making and watching videos.
    This is the most emotional and beautiful video i have watched.
    I have myself a small collection that is going to my son.
    One for when he turns 18, one the day he gets married and my "Batman" for the day i pass on.
    The tought of loosing just one of them is heartbreaking, and this video just hit me like a ton of bricks.

    • @marcusflack1523
      @marcusflack1523 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wow. Some very lucky kids you have and the dna that you pass on with those pieces will live on. Glad this hit the right notes for you. Thanks for coming along on the journey.

    • @IndiJan1
      @IndiJan1 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@marcusflack1523 Thank you.
      My sons name is Marcus by the way :)

    • @marcusflack1523
      @marcusflack1523 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@IndiJan1 a wonderful name indeed

  • @sammitchell6355
    @sammitchell6355 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    One hell of a story that could not have been an easy one to share. Watching this at work fighting back the emotion that was overwhelming.
    Massive respect to Marcus for sharing this story and yes third time is the charm!

  • @moleculesofyou
    @moleculesofyou ปีที่แล้ว

    I’ve spent hours enjoying “watch content” here on TH-cam and this must be the most incredible story and beautiful moment to witness. Inspiring, heart breaking and valuable.

  • @Conaire_Mc
    @Conaire_Mc ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Wow that was a very powerful episode. I didn’t see the ending coming at all. What a great gesture from the team for a guy who has faced his demons and has chosen the right path for him and his family. It couldn’t have been gifted to a more deserving person IMO

  • @RichardH7229
    @RichardH7229 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have watched all of your videos and listened to all of your podcasts and this one was at the top. We are obviously here to hear about watches but the way Marcus talked about his battle was truly amazing. His heartfelt thoughts about the loss of his watch showed how much more important it is than just a timepiece. It was a pleasure and privilege to be allowed to be a part off. Thank you.

  • @mkeeperb
    @mkeeperb ปีที่แล้ว +4

    My heart... my poor heart... Marcus, Stay strong! You´re one hell of a man, and I just know you´re an amazing farther as well. I have the greatest respect for you and all that you have powered through!

  • @CarlosGomez-is9dh
    @CarlosGomez-is9dh ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi, I wanted to say this was probably one of the best videos i’ve seen on youtube. Very glad I was working from home that day as I was very moved by story and seeing a great group of friends sharing such a personal story. Thank you for sharing.

    • @marcusflack1523
      @marcusflack1523 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wow, thats a massive encouragement. Thanks so much . And gald it hit the mark for you on your day off

  • @las_qolqas
    @las_qolqas ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Speechless... This is an ode to watches and FRIENDSHIP. Thank you guys.

  • @pammoore8963
    @pammoore8963 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Best episode EVER! I’m 15 years sober and rode it until the wheels fell off! Fortunately, I started my luxury watch collection journey after I got sober. 🤗
    Go Marcus…keep doing the whole deal! It just keeps getting better and better!!
    ❤❤❤

  • @raymond-thecrumpledlecturer
    @raymond-thecrumpledlecturer ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Amazing, Marcus. Good things come to those that deserve them, and all of your experiences resonate with not only the watches but also, most importantly, with the Hamlet quote on your chips. Congratulations Marcus. You have been true to yourself, and the dedication and care from the boys shines through. Brilliant. Haven't cried that much since the last time I watched Dead Poets Society.

    • @marcusflack1523
      @marcusflack1523 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Holy smokes Raymond. It’s been such a journey. I’m really glad the message hits the mark. Meaning is everything. In the watches we buy to the AA tokens that remind us of life changing decisions. For me this was so big. And to bring the story to the world stage was very nerve racking but the effect this decision has had on my life is so positive that if the story can cast light on shadows out there then I’m glad to contribute. As always Raymond. Fantastic to read your thoughts. ❤

  • @realmacoy5708
    @realmacoy5708 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Marcus, Marcus, Marcus,
    The Best effing True to life Watch Story!!!
    I’m glad you chose a Tudor Black Bay Watch and I feel you bro with regards to passing it on to your children…! Same here…. I’m a Tudor freak myself😅
    #abouteffingtime Get those watches insured now, so you won’t have to worry about a thing.😉
    All the best to you guys! 🙏🏽

  • @richardmurphy9635
    @richardmurphy9635 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    What an amazing story, it made me cry when you presented
    Marcus with the Pelagos. All the best guys. Keep up the good work 👍

  • @EdwardHTilley
    @EdwardHTilley ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This isn’t just a story, the way it connects to the whole AET chronology is incredible; I feel sad that Marcus carried that burden through that first series, it never ever showed, that time was really special. It’s so great that you’ve shared this now and the bond of you 4 is just wonderful, I was on the edge of my seat watching this. Sending love ❤️

    • @marcusflack1523
      @marcusflack1523 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ohhh thanks heaps for your kind words!

  • @morganwood967
    @morganwood967 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Quite possibly the best thing I’ve seen on TH-cam!

  • @stevecotterill7981
    @stevecotterill7981 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I must admit I’ve never really engaged in any of your content before (Adrian excepted) … but this was a real tear jerker. Marcus is to be applauded for his honesty and vulnerability… and the final reveal of your gifted Pelagos was a lovely heart-felt moment. It great to see such a close bond between you all. I’ll have to pay closer attention to your work in future. All the best… Steve 👍🇬🇧

  • @aaronmittnacht6939
    @aaronmittnacht6939 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Such a fantastic story and a 2 years clean alcoholic, MASSIVE respect for the share! Purely uplifting, go Marcus!!!

  • @MtGam1ng
    @MtGam1ng ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Well then, that touched some feels. That was just an amazing story and nice to see that good from something that haunts some people. Amazing job guys. Bravo to Marcus for being a brave fella on today's episode

  • @danielvijay3520
    @danielvijay3520 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’ve never opened up a watch content video expecting to have a cry. I guess there’s a first for everything. Beautiful episode and beautiful friendship. Love