He's right: a woman's success isn't necessarily attractive to man. We just want to know that she can hold her own/has her own. But i will ALSO say, that men have been TAUGHT toxic masculinity by men AND women alike. Men have been taught that to be a man is to be the "breadwinner" (which is false). The problem with that statement is that when a man is NOT the breadwinner in a situation, he may feel like less of a man because our community has taught our men that in order to be a "provider" we must make the most money out of the two, and pay all the bills/provide financially by himself, and if he cannot do that, he may feel a false sense of intimidation. So while i can agree that some men are intimidated by women, its because we've done a POOR job of teaching young men what it means to be a man.
I don’t know one successful women that thinks her success is supposed to be attractive to a man. It is not about a man. If a man is intimidated by a woman then she’s not at fault. He’s just not suitable for who she is and what she can bring into a relationship. He needs to go find someone who he feels he can be “a man” for in a relationship.
Take note: "When you're with a man that doesn't feel like he belongs there it shows throughout the relationship". But... You may be able to reassure him once in the relationship. #themoreyouknow
God bless u Professor Jonathan McReynolds 🤣🤗 u crack me up, teach'em something so da people can UNDERSTAND the assignment 📚, keepn it 💯always. I 👀 n feel the ANOINTING on Jonny & Doe💗 u 2 hve Blessed my life so, Thanks keep Singing, teaching n blessing every1 Ps prayn u get 2 Japan🥁🎹🎸🎤🎶
This whole conversation was lovely, and Doe dropped a gem there at the end. I don’t know that I’ve ever heard Paul’s words about singleness interpreted that way! I never thought of it that way. Ever. So. Very. Good.
All this can be summed up with ‘be honest, communicate and try and meet each other’s needs’. That’s what relationships are. Or, find that God is your EVERYTHING. And no other person is going to provide what you’re wishing they will.
Really confused. 1 cor 7 v 34: an unmarried person should worry about the things of God. A lot of verse passage tells to care for the things of God He...seek...for...and all. So y this topic at the first... Dating?? U mean u don't trust the Lord? Testing n trying? Do no confuse yo very word of trusting Jesus. Love you. SA
Well maybe I should stop following you guys I thought it's a Christian platform but I hear somekind of relationship😢... Where is Jesus role in all this😢
@@Funi53946 Alright, In 1cor7, Apostle Paul was basically saying it's cool if you get married or if you don't ... The main thing is the Kingdom of God. And looking at the truth that God instituted marriage, getting married or being in a relationship that will lead to marriage is not outside(not supposed to be outside HIM) so when you follow God's plan for you in marriage : who to and who not to marry-what to do in the marriage, you'll still be all about the kingdom of God
@@IfeTobi_OLANIYAN marriage is all good but let God be the giver as it is a holy gift as well as a ministry so . In the book of Matt Jesus say that do not worry about...for your Father in Heaven...because even the pagan... So I think that Jesus said it in order not be despair when trying so hard to archive our physical desires which can put us in the snare of the davil. It takes a love and trust the lead of the Holy spirit.
Thank you for sharing! I am also learning how to have a cooperative | Collective relationship with the Fruits in the center. Amen! How can you bring value to my life? The goal is to bring Glory to God! Give Grace. Love… 🙏🏽😊❣️🧘🏽♀️🔑🤯
I can tell you that Jonathan has hit the nail on the head. Some Single girls jump into new relationship as a replacement for the lost one, and wants to think this is better and definitely for a marriage. No. Like Jonathan says , single bachelors also blah s their fear and limitations.
I like a man to take control but some of that can be scary for a woman it's like we got to trust the relationship like marriage he is to be the head of his Queen.. we it's maraige that man holds the responsibility more that the woman her job is to hold her down him and the kids.
The gold is to become when in the mind joint that would be my goal in a relationship if it's going to lead to foreverness and happiness and fully getting to know you're made cuz nowadays people can just know I'm offer a lot of times you know a woman or man might just be too straight up honest and it causes them to learn them too early and then they don't see the change start to come cuz I believe that everybody have change and development and gross and their relationship in dating before you know that's the person that you going to marry.
And most important goal is anything that relationship-wise being successful it's always a Time to set aside and pray to God about you know who's for you or who's right for you or who's going to make you know everything secure because there's lot of gross in a lot of relationships the growth and never be finished it's like the rest of your life you going to grow with that person so the goal is to grow and to become one in unity and having a bond with no one else can break.. not even looks and talks from another female or male because there's so many people that is after what you got just like a man got a nice good looking woman a man going to be after that a woman got a nice looking man and a good man a woman going to be after that and you have to hold your emotions down because if you got a man or a woman that's successful and doing a lot of things of course a lot of people don't want to be in her or his face and that can be a challenge if you allowed it immensely emotionally playing your mind.
woooooo. Jon is exactly right man. ARe you looking for a man or to be happy. Whooo. I can def say that I was looking for a man more than I was looking to be happy. I wanted both but was willing to settle for just the man and I became miserable being mistreated and criticized in my relationship. I was not celebrated in any way and when I asked my ex to stop parenting me, he had nothing to add to the relationship. He needs to develop himself to be able to give more but also, maybe there's a woman who likes sitting in silence or likes football that he can act like a bro with. He just wasn't used to abstinence being a part of a relationship so he defaulted to treating me like a bro. I think he also didn't know how to deal with my tomboy side without intimacy. He also would never compliment me when I dressed up and if he did, it was very few and far between. So if someone isn't going to appreciate what you do for them, why keep doing it? idk emotional intelligence and self development Is so important BEFORE dating. Also, not living with your mom still.
How does this work though when statistics say there are more women than men out there? So being realistic there really is not enough men out there for each and every one of us. Top that up with of those fewer women how many are God fearing, how many are good men. Being single is good but what if you do not want to be single but there are not enough men out there how do we go about it or are we doomed from birth
Was Jesus considered to be successful. I have the intimidation of men all the time. And I’m thankful it has nothing to do with what the world defines as success. It’s actually what God defines as salvation. A lifestyle of righteousness and wisdom pertaining to his kingdom. Quote: Success in God’s eyes is not as we see with our natural eyes. Let faith be your vision: Eboni King Quote: Success truly starts when believers capture their identity in Christ: Eboni King Believers men and women doesn’t have a success problem . This is the excuse they use for not being in a committed relationship. Lol. But yet they have chill moments with whatever they current success condition they define it to be. God’s purpose for relationships is for building his kingdom in a world where Satan is stripping it’s sacredness to the core. And from the pulpit to the pew. Believers are going after everything that’s not serving a kingdom purpose
That's so jacked up I feel like he is literally talking about me being in love with a God is not here and then actually dating a guy that really comes around wow God really playing is it because I keep breaking my promises or what is it I'm feeling real guilty by looking at this I want to make it so bad God knows I want to do right .
Yes don't have folks in charge of your own happiness 😊 what they give of course they can take away! Let's let Jesus be our first love and only get with the equally yoked. Being happy single is good ...but marriage is honorable honestly
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He's right: a woman's success isn't necessarily attractive to man. We just want to know that she can hold her own/has her own.
But i will ALSO say, that men have been TAUGHT toxic masculinity by men AND women alike. Men have been taught that to be a man is to be the "breadwinner" (which is false). The problem with that statement is that when a man is NOT the breadwinner in a situation, he may feel like less of a man because our community has taught our men that in order to be a "provider" we must make the most money out of the two, and pay all the bills/provide financially by himself, and if he cannot do that, he may feel a false sense of intimidation. So while i can agree that some men are intimidated by women, its because we've done a POOR job of teaching young men what it means to be a man.
This is so beautiful. I love hearing healthy conversations that touch on real topics. #AUTHENTICITY
Good conversation real talk honestly love it
GREAT conversation Doe & Jonathan!! Jonathan I appreciate your honesty…soo helpful!🌟 Wish this segment was longer🙄
I don’t know one successful women that thinks her success is supposed to be attractive to a man. It is not about a man. If a man is intimidated by a woman then she’s not at fault. He’s just not suitable for who she is and what she can bring into a relationship. He needs to go find someone who he feels he can be “a man” for in a relationship.
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Let the people know!
Take note: "When you're with a man that doesn't feel like he belongs there it shows throughout the relationship". But... You may be able to reassure him once in the relationship. #themoreyouknow
Communication is important in any relationship 💜❤💕💖
God bless u Professor Jonathan McReynolds 🤣🤗 u crack me up, teach'em something so da people can UNDERSTAND the assignment 📚, keepn it 💯always. I 👀 n feel the ANOINTING on Jonny & Doe💗 u 2 hve Blessed my life so, Thanks keep Singing, teaching n blessing every1 Ps prayn u get 2 Japan🥁🎹🎸🎤🎶
This whole conversation was lovely, and Doe dropped a gem there at the end. I don’t know that I’ve ever heard Paul’s words about singleness interpreted that way! I never thought of it that way. Ever. So. Very. Good.
Wow. How did I miss this? Very great topics and discussion. Bless you both.
All this can be summed up with ‘be honest, communicate and try and meet each other’s needs’. That’s what relationships are. Or, find that God is your EVERYTHING. And no other person is going to provide what you’re wishing they will.
Now this was good, informative conversation. Looking forward to more transparent discussions. God bless❤️
love this chat!!! Got some great insights from both Doe and Jonathan.
Gotta have honesty and maturity
Thank you Jonathan and Doe. Love this…
That was actually really good. I'm surprised at the wisdom he shared. This is an interview worth watching.
Lovely conversation. Lovely!
Oh my gosh I needed this so much
I enjoyed every part of the discussion... Good to know that you guys know the word of God .... Well done DOE and JOHNNY❤️
Really confused. 1 cor 7 v 34: an unmarried person should worry about the things of God. A lot of verse passage tells to care for the things of God He...seek...for...and all. So y this topic at the first... Dating?? U mean u don't trust the Lord? Testing n trying? Do no confuse yo very word of trusting Jesus. Love you. SA
Well maybe I should stop following you guys I thought it's a Christian platform but I hear somekind of relationship😢... Where is Jesus role in all this😢
@@Funi53946 Alright, In 1cor7, Apostle Paul was basically saying it's cool if you get married or if you don't ... The main thing is the Kingdom of God. And looking at the truth that God instituted marriage, getting married or being in a relationship that will lead to marriage is not outside(not supposed to be outside HIM) so when you follow God's plan for you in marriage : who to and who not to marry-what to do in the marriage, you'll still be all about the kingdom of God
@@IfeTobi_OLANIYAN marriage is all good but let God be the giver as it is a holy gift as well as a ministry so . In the book of Matt Jesus say that do not worry about...for your Father in Heaven...because even the pagan... So I think that Jesus said it in order not be despair when trying so hard to archive our physical desires which can put us in the snare of the davil. It takes a love and trust the lead of the Holy spirit.
@@Funi53946 Yes, the get married or get into a relationship that'll lead to marriage, let the holysirit lead you ... 💯
This was so open and informative thanks to both 🙌🏾
Glad you enjoyed it!
SO REAL,JONNY AND DOE
agreed!!
Thank you for sharing! I am also learning how to have a cooperative | Collective relationship with the Fruits in the center. Amen! How can you bring value to my life? The goal is to bring Glory to God! Give Grace. Love… 🙏🏽😊❣️🧘🏽♀️🔑🤯
Awesome dialog... insightful; loved it!
Great video!!! Thank you for your transparency!
Big ups to you all! This was good food...for thought👍🏾
Enjoyed this conversation a LOT. 👏👍
I can tell you that Jonathan has hit the nail on the head.
Some Single girls jump into new relationship as a replacement for the lost one, and wants to think this is better and definitely for a marriage.
No.
Like Jonathan says , single bachelors also blah s their fear and limitations.
Good talk Jonthan.
Good conversation with real talk
She has to be secure of who she is! She can help him be all he is and where he is going! Be his best cheerleader!
Great information! Gracias!!!
Yes healthy looks different to everybody but it’s either healthy or unhealthy.There’s no in between.
John Doe 😆
LOLLLL!
😅😅😅
Wait for God's best an protect your heart and happiness yez say that again
Truth about Godly dating
Preach Jonathan
Love it yes cool y'all need to write Godly dating books and rules
Thanks jr
Great people!
I grew up feeling like the ugly duckling so no Jonathan not all of us were given that book that I deserve some fairy tale
I wish John would just cuff her already. He seems so smitten by her❤️
Boy you are true.
Mourning past relationships by girls😮
I like a man to take control but some of that can be scary for a woman it's like we got to trust the relationship like marriage he is to be the head of his Queen.. we it's maraige that man holds the responsibility more that the woman her job is to hold her down him and the kids.
I think you should watch a relationship/marriage series from someone like Jerry Flowers or even Mike Todd. You’ll receive a lot of good nuggets
It’s the ACCURACY 📌 for me… 💯
20:44 wow !
The gold is to become when in the mind joint that would be my goal in a relationship if it's going to lead to foreverness and happiness and fully getting to know you're made cuz nowadays people can just know I'm offer a lot of times you know a woman or man might just be too straight up honest and it causes them to learn them too early and then they don't see the change start to come cuz I believe that everybody have change and development and gross and their relationship in dating before you know that's the person that you going to marry.
And most important goal is anything that relationship-wise being successful it's always a Time to set aside and pray to God about you know who's for you or who's right for you or who's going to make you know everything secure because there's lot of gross in a lot of relationships the growth and never be finished it's like the rest of your life you going to grow with that person so the goal is to grow and to become one in unity and having a bond with no one else can break.. not even looks and talks from another female or male because there's so many people that is after what you got just like a man got a nice good looking woman a man going to be after that a woman got a nice looking man and a good man a woman going to be after that and you have to hold your emotions down because if you got a man or a woman that's successful and doing a lot of things of course a lot of people don't want to be in her or his face and that can be a challenge if you allowed it immensely emotionally playing your mind.
But God in 🙏 in a relationship.
woooooo. Jon is exactly right man. ARe you looking for a man or to be happy. Whooo. I can def say that I was looking for a man more than I was looking to be happy. I wanted both but was willing to settle for just the man and I became miserable being mistreated and criticized in my relationship. I was not celebrated in any way and when I asked my ex to stop parenting me, he had nothing to add to the relationship. He needs to develop himself to be able to give more but also, maybe there's a woman who likes sitting in silence or likes football that he can act like a bro with. He just wasn't used to abstinence being a part of a relationship so he defaulted to treating me like a bro. I think he also didn't know how to deal with my tomboy side without intimacy. He also would never compliment me when I dressed up and if he did, it was very few and far between. So if someone isn't going to appreciate what you do for them, why keep doing it? idk emotional intelligence and self development Is so important BEFORE dating. Also, not living with your mom still.
Admit the truth
Jonathan and doe can make a nice couple....jus a suggestion
How does this work though when statistics say there are more women than men out there? So being realistic there really is not enough men out there for each and every one of us. Top that up with of those fewer women how many are God fearing, how many are good men. Being single is good but what if you do not want to be single but there are not enough men out there how do we go about it or are we doomed from birth
Was Jesus considered to be successful. I have the intimidation of men all the time. And I’m thankful it has nothing to do with what the world defines as success. It’s actually what God defines as salvation. A lifestyle of righteousness and wisdom pertaining to his kingdom. Quote: Success in God’s eyes is not as we see with our natural eyes. Let faith be your vision: Eboni King Quote: Success truly starts when believers capture their identity in Christ: Eboni King Believers men and women doesn’t have a success problem . This is the excuse they use for not being in a committed relationship. Lol. But yet they have chill moments with whatever they current success condition they define it to be. God’s purpose for relationships is for building his kingdom in a world where Satan is stripping it’s sacredness to the core. And from the pulpit to the pew. Believers are going after everything that’s not serving a kingdom purpose
That's so jacked up I feel like he is literally talking about me being in love with a God is not here and then actually dating a guy that really comes around wow God really playing is it because I keep breaking my promises or what is it I'm feeling real guilty by looking at this I want to make it so bad God knows I want to do right .
Seek the Lord and HIS righteousness 1st and ALL these things SHALL be added unto YOU Amen light n 💗💞
Speak go head now
Yes don't have folks in charge of your own happiness 😊 what they give of course they can take away! Let's let Jesus be our first love and only get with the equally yoked. Being happy single is good ...but marriage is honorable honestly