@@tamebunny6389 Whether he's paying your bills or not, knowing your partners preferences is just a nice thing to do. If he IS paying your bills, though, you still have the right to be treated with decency and respect. Do not settle for anything less.
Also maybe suggesting moving to the kitchen so he can make her one too? Possibly using chocolate pretzels to make a log cabin together. Yep. In my dreams lol
And then insist that you share it because there's no way to enjoy it knowing you put in that much effort and don't even have any yourself. Source, also that type of husband.
Same with my partner! I knew he was a keeper, when he insisted on always sharing fairly, yet in the end he always saved the last piece for me. And he still does that after ten years. Like, you can have disagreements or problems, that's just human. But if they don't actually love and cherish you, all the energy is absolutely for nothing. I really hope this is rage bait.
Seconded. If you want things a specific way, do them yourself. If someone tries to do something nice for you, let the thought count even if the result is sub-optimal. It's not a difficult rule.
@@NLTops Third-ed?😅 But really, I'm autistic and would 100% prefer to do my super specific things myself. If anyone is trying to accommodate me, even if it isn't exact, you appreciate the effort and that the person loves you.
@@mocca2sweet Exactly. I've learned to be flexible about a lot of things outside of my control, but there are still things that I feel should just...logically go a certain way... So if I have control over them I do them the way they should be done. 😇 And if I don't I just assume chaos will follow and am mentally prepared if that turns out to be true.
I’d also hopefully believe that it as a skit. I mean… can anyone really be that ungrateful for a snack handmade and delivered to them while a camera is pointed at them?
finally! I've been waiting for this video! Also, he doesn't show it here, but in the original video, it ends with the girl saying something along the lines of "Oh. Well, I hope you enjoy anyways" and he says "I don't know if I'll be able to" If I had a boyfriend, and if he said that to ME, I'd have just taken back the pretzels like "fine then, I'll enjoy them, make your own snacks next time."
@@kimbam7453 Yes. The only reason his reaction seems so bad is because she put an unecessary amount of effort in this and the way she talks about him. Otherwise his reaction is slighty ungrateful, but he seems to be still happy with the food.
Not to mention the treat looks cute but is basically just chocolate sauce drizzled over pretzels (the hardest part was her picking out the sprinkles which she could have avoided buy just buying orange and black sprinkles). She conveniently runs out of chocolate (if she had only a little bit of chocolate, why didn't she run to the store and get sprinkles and chocolate). And makes her point buy sadly eating a plain pretzel for the camera.
@@slenderslayer8203. Or, is it possible that she’s the giant gaslighting, self appointed victim in this relationship and he’s just tired of the whole thing? I was far more annoyed by her than him..
I don't even believe this video is true because literally no one would say that about someone they're still dating and just so happen to film them having this terrible reaction. Yeah I just don't buy this. "He's very particular about plating." Who is he, Gordon Ramsey? Literally no one would ever say that. Especially about a pretzel. If you just dipped regular pretzels into chocolate they wouldn't even be plated they'd be in a bag lol. This video was a bunch of bull.
@mcnamaraky you may be right as probably 95% of the videos are probably phony then because then if you think about it, that's an awfully lot of perfectly placed cameras.
@@jrzydvlgrl711 I don't think all videos online are fake, but I think a ton of these Tiktok and TH-cam shorts like these are. Seriously, who states that their partner is "particular about plating" as if he's Gordon Ramsey? I might've bought it if not for that. And it's always the first thing the person says is a complaint? Not "Oh wow that's awesome! Except..." But always "Oh this SUCKS for all these reasons..." and she stays with a guy who treats her like that? Just none of it makes any sense to me when I think about it logically.
@tjingtjongbil7694 Honestly, that's a hard maybe. Even if it is sarcasm, some people are sarcastic in order to be demeaning rather than being funny. Either way this seems like a boring joke.
Orange and black are the most common, then purple, with red being slightly less common. No idea where he grew up, but purple is DEFINITELY in Halloween. He may as well have said "there's no red in Christmas".
this definitely feels like major rage bait, especially with how she goes "there wasnt enough chocolate so just pretzels for me ig siiigh" when theres a whole bottle of chocolate sitting right beside the pan she was working on..... also if the excuse is that hes 'autistic and needs things to be particular' why wouldnt she just...... ask him? what colors are halloween for him?? and how much chocolate he wants on it???? especially if this is something she works around seemingly ALL the time?????
@@rooknizan2923I have OCD and centering is one of my compulsions. If someone took the time to center the stuff on my plate so I don't have to, I'd start crying
@nadiel42 dude your last sentence is literally just describing executive dysfunction and it's absolute hell to deal with. Do you have any idea what it feels like to not be able to do what your compulsions tell you?? It took me two years of therapy just to not wash my hands 200 odd times a day, and I still have to do it multiple times and whenever I touch some specific things
@supercharliegalaxy that's like saying jesus is a big part of Christmas. My point was the colour purple is associated with Halloween from carving turnips , not from what you said .
She's so sweet to go through all that effort, and to not have her own at the end? That man does not deserve her. - coming from an autistic person who would probably cry if someone went through this much effort for me.
I'm sure if she dipped each and every one of the pretzel sticks in chocolate and then added the other parts of the web than it wouldn't be as disappointing for him. Because yk the purple sprinkles are there.
This is ragebait. The most effort she put into this was picking out the sprinkles (when she could have bought orange and black Halloween sprinkles.) Not to mention she has a full chocolate sauce bottle in frame. Plus, his reaction isn't horrible, he just has no filter and it feels like she knew that and is taking advantage of that for her ragebait.
Ma'am this is being kind to the one you love. It goes off the rails because he made it harder for her, didn't have enough supplies for her to make one for herself, and then criticizes the coloring. He being a jerk. But doing this kind of thing is a sign of affection and if you can't see that you are lost.
@@hitandruncommentorI think you might be confused about why she's calling him a child, it's not about this kind woman making her boyfriend/husband a snack. She's fully calling him a child because of his actions, not hers
@@hitandruncommentor and if you couldn't see that her criticism was of his lack of appreciation and not her offering of love then you should have just run on by the comment because your response was dull and shortsighted.
As someone who grew up with TWO clinically diagnosed narcisstic parents. I could NEVER BE ATTRACTED to that energy in a man period. I don't care how much trauma I'm dealing with. I can read a room and that book is ugly.
I am over it so fast. About three sentences in. So it doesn’t last past the first date with me generally. My antenna goes up really quickly. The older I get.
Sadly I didn’t know my Mother was a Narcissist for most of my life and ended up in 2 Narcissistic relationships. I had no idea what Healthy behavior was and what a healthy relationship looked like and that is why I have been single for years healing and developing my understanding Narcissism how to spot one and how to navigate around my mother without letting her crazy affect me.
Purple is actually more traditional since originally the holiday was celebrated with turnips (pumpkins are native to the Americas and so were not available in Europe at all before the 1500s and not even widely available then) so orange was secondary
Purple is actually more traditional since originally the holiday was celebrated with turnips (pumpkins are native to the Americas and so were not available in Europe at all before the 1500s and not even widely available then)
@@Raven17729 I’d say they are purple to violet, and many are also a bit white they are for sure a spooky root veg: radishes are usually pink to red (they can be other colors) and are smaller and more associated with spring (they make relatively quickly)
If a girl did this for me i would be so unbelievably excited, like "Holy crap you made this for me? You angel this is awesome!" This guy is a piece of work and does not deserve her in the slightest
@@potato6436 how is he a white night because he treats people with respect? If he is a white night you are 💅.. men like you are zesty and want other men. So gross
Same like... If you have to do stuff *THAT* specifically, then you do it yourself. I don't think he has OCD though or if he does, then this isn't a ritual he does often.
yes, as an autistic I'm very thankful when people do stuff for me and I tell them, but deep down having something (a meal, snack) in ways that I did mot expect overwhelms me and I'd very much rather have done it myself
I am formally diagnosed with autism and OCD, and I would never ask someone to do something like that for me and expect it to be done exactly like I need it. That boyfriend is incredibly ungrateful in this specific case.
Same, I have bad OCD. But I would never ask my partner to make me a perfect sorted plate. If something is out of place, I just fix it without complaints, I even hate it when my burgers from McDonald's are messed up, but I don't criticize the employees. Just fix my burger myself and enjoy!
To be honest... is this video real? What person asks for chocolate covered pretzels with halloween sprinkles. That's way too specific, if you want halloween pretzels go to the store? I have ocd, I take venlafaxine for it, it's not about things being specific like that, it's about us repeating a pattern of self soothing behaviors to try to quell intense fear that comes in a form of an obsession. We'd never ask someone to make us spooky pretzels is what I'm getting at.
This is a flashback to my first marriage. I dedicated and sacrificed everything. It took me two years to realize that I was the only one who cared about the marriage. It killed me to end it. Diminishing me was sport for him. I meant nothing to him. Eventually the physical abuse unfolded, because just verbal and emotional abuse becomes old after a while. Don't wait two years, girlfriend. End it now. Heal. Someone who treasures you is waiting.
@@arthurchadwell9267 You brought a smile to my face. Thank you. It is a beautiful thing to meet a whole, sane, and worthwhile man. I'm so glad for each one.
15 years here.when he said thank you then a dis brought back the many times slaved 5 hours plus preparing a meal from scratch only to get a miserable reaction . That's 5 hours cooking not including shopping for specific items,cleanup and planning daily menus. Just one part if my slavery 😢 got discarded after the abuse affected my health and appearance. Free now Thank God ❤
As an autistic guy, I can absolutely understand having the inside thoughts become outside thoughts. What I cannot understand is trying to argue with someone who made me a cute little snack about COLORS. Especially if they're trying their best to adhere to my needs.
I really hope this is a joke. Also yes there is purple in Halloween. The palette is orange, purple and black. Edit someone pointed out also bright green. Especially like zombie green.
people try to claim "he just has ocd!" if ocd makes you an entitled whiny tantrum throwing brat,stay away from us or get help smh. I met people with ocd,and I have autism. Never were they this entitled
When some people get into relationships, they expect their partner to become their parent. And I don't know why, but it seems to always be guys that treat their GF or wife like their mother.
Ive been told ill remain single for a very long time with my attitude. Like sorry i want a partner not a child?? Theres a difference betweem childish and straight out being a child in a relationship
Because they were not raised properly, they were babied by their mothers and told that was right by their fathers, because it's "expected", because that's what society has made people think is normal, meanwhile girls are shamed for everything and taught to be subservient towards men, made to believe that's what they deserve and should be grateful just to be "loved", it's an unfortunate chain of misogyny that just keeps going..
I'm hoping this is just a couple making a silly video like Hannasaur playfully trolling the trad wives 😂 A guy like this wouldn't last 5 minutes with me if he's being serious. Know your worth, you are such a sweetheart and should be appreciated and reciprocated ❤
This video had to originally be satire… I use purple in my Halloween decorations every year! And no way he would have anything bad to say. That spiderweb snack was so cute!
OP - I had the same reaction...😂 @JK-yy5gm I really wish you were right, but I work in an emergency department and I see these people regularly, once they reach the next stage of these "relationships", sweetly explaining how they're "clumsy". When that falls apart under questioning, it becomes "he didn't mean to", "it wasn't his fault", followed by "it's my fault, I know that (enter inane, normal, everyday behaviour here) upsets him" or "he likes it done this way and I forgot. He has (enter health condition that in no way justifies his behaviour here), so he can't help how he reacts, and I'm just really forgetful." I normally respond by throwing his backside out of my department, calling our safeguarding nurse, and ensuring that she has access to all the resources she needs to get away, but normally they don't. I can't tell you what I'd give for it to all be fake... 💕
@@SessmaruKusanagiGaming like Andy Warhol says: "heaven and hell are just one breath away!" It's all right here right now, we just decide what to focus into being🤷♀️
It's the "there's no purple in Halloween" that did it for me. 💀 Like, there's not that much chocolate on them, ok fair enough, but to be picky about a *color* and be *wrong* on top of it? My brother in Christ purple and green have been Halloween colors for a *WHILE*!
Honestly? I would have probably said "these aren't really chocolate covered", but not in a mean or dismissive way. I'm just autistic with the Classic "erm, technically 🤓" mindset. But what I'm certain about is that I wouldn't start off with that, I'd be so excited if someone went above and beyond for me like that. That girl deserved so much praise and excitement from that guy, im glad you gave her a green flag
By definition these are chocolate covered so technically you would be wrong. Js 😂 the coverage ratio can be insignificant and still be defined as covered. The fact that chocolate lay across the pretzel means it is covered. You can even say it is drizzled but that still means that it is covered in chocolate drizzle. 😬🫣😎
Most people would consider "chocolate covered" to mean a fully covered pretzel. The "particular with his plating" made me wonder if he was autistic. Still no reason for him to be like that.
Yeah, I immediately wondered if the guy might be on the spectrum because he seemed completely unaware that what he was saying might be inapprpriate. Especially after that comment aout him being "particular about his plating".
I am SO glad I left my ex who did this. He always had something to criticize no matter how little. My favorite is "I burnt my mouth on the food that you just finished, it's your fault for not letting it sit because I won't wait or won't cool it down myself."
Omg! I get so happy every day when my girlfriend makes dinner. I always clean up the kitchen afterward. I don't get why women think that they deserve this. There is better out there.
I was just thinking about this the other day. My husband will sometimes clean after I cook,but only maybe 25% of the time. However he ALWAYS tells me thank you, and usually tells me how delicious it was..
You're acting like every woman out here has strong self esteem. Guess what: many of us were RAISED to bend over backwards and let people say/ do whatever they want to us, and we pride ourselves on being smiling peace keepers because Jesus wants us to be loving, or all girls will ever be are sl/ wh/ etc. or some other twisted logic that destroys us for being women. And for any Christians out there: Christ did endure pain and torment for us, from both his friends and enemies. But the metaphorical bride and bridegroom in the New Testament is the Savior and His Church, not His enemies. And how demanding is Christ to His church? Yet also how loving and forgiving and supportive? THAT is the example we are to follow regarding personal relationships. When dealing with enemies and opponents, turn the other cheek/ pearls before swine/ salt of the earth/ all the cliche parables that people barely know and take the wrong way. But when it comes to relationships? You are a son or daughter of God. That divine inheritance is your birthright by virtue of being human, all you have to do is prove worthy of it by bridling mortality's passions. (Not squash or hinder, but bridle... control, use for good, steer, leave your body chomping at the spiritual bit to serve others and do His work.) As a Christian you are brought into Christ's fold and family. Follow His example with how he acted with His apostles: loving, clear, harsh when needed, vulnerable, kind, honest, supportive, leads, gives opportunity for others to lead, and always wishing to join and go through eternity together. Turn the other cheek to enemies does not mean be a doormat to your family. Being meek does not mean being weak and harmless. The only way you can turn the other cheek or be meek is if you have the strength to oppose tempered by the wisdom and restraint to not give into impulse. Crumbling like a dog that's been kicked, always belly up, is not turning the other cheek. Turning the other cheek is the end of the movie where everyone stands and says, "I am Spartacus!" You can't stand if you're a coward and choose to let evil and abuse win.
@@Chris-gu1ww Ha. Ha ha ha ha. 1) Tell me you don't understand foundational Christian teachings without telling me. 2) Why are you attempting to shame me for helping de-program abused doormats? For giving context of how to change their world view and defend it when the neighbor or preacher or angry spouse demands compliance? For providing been-there-done-that experience? If you want to fight, we can fight. But know that you are the one assuming and squaring up to a survivor.
That is a concern for everyone. Men get tricked by narcissistic women to: cheated on, lied to, bled for resources... Then those guys become hard, cold and suspicious. (I know because it happened to me. I was engaged for a year-- thank God I found out BEFORE the ceremony!)
@arthurchadwell9267 It's interesting, The states is in an extreme gender wars at the moment.. Everyone is defensive if things are not said exactly right or perfect. But we can assume that both men and woman fall privy to pray.. Narcissism Does not favor one gender or the other. We can cluster it all under the same umbrella as people who exhibit narcissistic traits. But we cannot excuse bad behavior, Because you became hardened From a bad relationship. Then don't be in a relationship to further abuse others around you, Continuing the cycle and living in the victim mentality.
I’ve had to do something similar a few times, my guy has ADHD and I suspect he also has autism. He has ARFID and refuses food with stuff like onion, beansprouts, beans, garlic, and gives me a whole questionnaire on what is in what everytime I make us a new dish. I have some food repulsions myself, though it’s mostly only a problem in meet. (Tendons and weird meat texture.) So I understand how that sense of “I can’t eat that.” feels, it’s why I’m willing to sit down with a bowl of ramen and pluck out every green onion and beansprout that was incorrectly put inside his bowl. He’s picky, but not to be needed, it’s something that makes or breaks his ability to eat. And it isn’t his fault that he’s like it. He’s just disabled, and that I’m more than willing to accommodate.
No, you doing *that* would be handling it the correct way, imo. The girl here really needs to develop some self respect and realize she deserves better than that jerk. 🫤
To be fair. If she was really all that nice. She wouldn't be performing to the camera so hard. Actually, she wouldn't be recording this at all. Truly nice people, for better or worse. Try not to let others see the bad side of their partner. This is more just ragebait.
I genuinely wish someone made me a spiderweb pretzel. His reaction and picking it apart instead of just sticking to the “thanks”, he don’t deserve you honey. 😭
Dump him please 🤦🏽♀️ If I had a girlfriend that made chocolate covered pretzels for me I would of hugged her and said thank you and gobbled that sucker up not caring if it was perfect or not cause what matters is if it tastes good and it probably would cause it's FREAKIN CHOCOLATE COVERED PRETZELS The boyfriend doesn't understand how amazing these treats are
Im extremely nitpicky as an audhd and i keep that ish to myself by being in charge of the cooking and snacks. Its embarassing enough imo, im not dragging anyone else into my neurosis
Ugh! I had an ex like that. I would go above and beyond for him in big and small ways, and he always had something to complain about. Turns out, it was a symptom of his narcissism. 🚩🚩🚩 My husband (current and forever relationship) would appreciate the chocolate covered spiderweb. He wouldn’t care what color sprinkles were on it or if I left the sprinkles off.
The majority of men would be shocked and delighted that you made/brought them anything. Don't let the (expletive deleted) convince you that most men are like this.
Right! My husband would be delighted to get such a treat. He has loved everything I've ever made him because he loves me, and he appreciates my efforts.
Woah I’m early for once lmao I always notice that people who emotionally abuse/manipulate their partner dumb themselves down so it feels like their constant nagging and overwhelming doubt in their partners work is justified for just their own “harmless questions”
I love how she took so much time and effort to separate orange white and purple sprinkles from an entire box full of rainbow sprinkles and this dude had the utmost AUDACITY to say that theyre not really chocolate covered and theres no purple in halloween.
I am picky and particular when someone gives me anything but I wouldn't complain like that, someone who hand picks spooky sprinkles deserves plenty of hugs and kisses
There is no one I would pick through sprinkles for, just for a snack. That's like a fairytale Impossible Task set by an evil king. "Spin this straw into gold! Count every grain of wheat in this room! Sort these sprinkles by color!" Nope. F off my dude.
She went through that much trouble to make him a treat, and he acted like that? The entitlement.... And I'm sure there's quite a few Emos and Goths giving eyeliner-melting glares at the "no purple in Halloween" retort.💜🖤💜🖤
I feel so sorry for anyone who has to live with someone like this....but to love someone with this kind of mental illness is even more heartbreaking and completely draining. They suck all the love out of you and everything else that makes you you....and they never give anything back...they're parasites...emotional and mental parasites and it eventually takes its toll on you physically...you put yourself last in everything hoping that by putting them first you'll finally get something in return or be put first by them but that's a fantasy because it'll only happen when they're wanting something from you. There's no selfless bone in their body...it's always going to be about them....narcissistic personality disorder is not treatable unless they choose to learn a whole new way of life and that's very rare. Anyways. I'm thankful I survived a 10 yr relationship with a man like this and worse...it took many years of working on myself and counseling for me to get healthy enough to not be drawn to men like this. They love women who have past unresolved trauma...they're the biggest abusers out there...and it doesn't have to be physically...
"Particular about the plating" my wife is the same making dinner look like it comes from a restaurant meanwhile i'm just like SPLAT ON THE PLATE LETS GOOOOI
imagine putting in effort to be sweet & cute and have someone completely bash it within 2 seconds .. she deserves better ill be her boyfriend and i’d love halloween themed snacks
I would have snatched the pretzels up and shoved the whole thing in my mouth. I love doing things for my husband and children, but the moment they are not grateful, they dont get anything again.
Typical Narcissist relationship, and me parter goes above and beyond for approval that will never come! Hope she finally realizes she deserves better and gets free from the trauma bond and heals before getting back into dating again😔
yes, as an artist and color theory evangelist, Halloween is black & orange, but purple is often supplemented in place of black for certain applications, and often the color wheel triangulation is filled out with the addition of green. there are specific shades of each that work best for different contexts, and sure white also works, and omg I have so many thoughts about this but yes for sure, *purple is a legit Halloween color;* this guy is just being a complete psycho haha.
I missed the part about boyfriend at the beginning and was 100% expecting her to give it to a child.
She did 😂
@@dawnmichelle4403🤣🤣🤣 so true
Same difference apparently 🤷♀️
Its called a Man-Child. 😂
Lol me too 😂 and I still heard boyfriend
If he's going to complain, he can do it himself.
He would've been wearing that plate on his face if it was up to me.
@@tamebunny6389 Whether he's paying your bills or not, knowing your partners preferences is just a nice thing to do.
If he IS paying your bills, though, you still have the right to be treated with decency and respect. Do not settle for anything less.
@@tamebunny6389If he was paying my bills, I would find a job and get the hell out. Nothing is worth living with an a-hole.
Or he can be by himself. She's an enabler and hes a child
@Kisha_can there's a difference between preferences and his demands.
The correct response was "holy crap that looks awesome!! Thank You!!!" With a massive smile and hug.
The guy gives me autistic vibes. The way autistic people (me included) communicate, can come across as rude to neurotypical people.
Also maybe suggesting moving to the kitchen so he can make her one too?
Possibly using chocolate pretzels to make a log cabin together. Yep. In my dreams lol
😮. Yes. He was underwhelmed and critical. Maybe he needed a nap!
@@AllforoneandoneforallllYou know this is staged… right?
@@potato6436Not everything is staged. Grow up.
My husband would have told me how awesome it was, said thank you, and then been upset to learn that i didn't get to make one for myself.
Agree! 100% and then hubby would have split it with me. ❤
And then insist that you share it because there's no way to enjoy it knowing you put in that much effort and don't even have any yourself.
Source, also that type of husband.
Mine too!
Same!
Same with my partner! I knew he was a keeper, when he insisted on always sharing fairly, yet in the end he always saved the last piece for me. And he still does that after ten years.
Like, you can have disagreements or problems, that's just human. But if they don't actually love and cherish you, all the energy is absolutely for nothing.
I really hope this is rage bait.
As an autisctic person working on my very rigid habits , i can confirm autism is NOT an excuse for being a redflag.
Seconded. If you want things a specific way, do them yourself. If someone tries to do something nice for you, let the thought count even if the result is sub-optimal. It's not a difficult rule.
@@NLTops Third-ed?😅 But really, I'm autistic and would 100% prefer to do my super specific things myself. If anyone is trying to accommodate me, even if it isn't exact, you appreciate the effort and that the person loves you.
4. It is definitely NOT.
@@mocca2sweet Exactly. I've learned to be flexible about a lot of things outside of my control, but there are still things that I feel should just...logically go a certain way... So if I have control over them I do them the way they should be done. 😇 And if I don't I just assume chaos will follow and am mentally prepared if that turns out to be true.
I’d also hopefully believe that it as a skit. I mean… can anyone really be that ungrateful for a snack handmade and delivered to them while a camera is pointed at them?
finally! I've been waiting for this video! Also, he doesn't show it here, but in the original video, it ends with the girl saying something along the lines of "Oh. Well, I hope you enjoy anyways" and he says "I don't know if I'll be able to"
If I had a boyfriend, and if he said that to ME, I'd have just taken back the pretzels like "fine then, I'll enjoy them, make your own snacks next time."
No. It would be "I hope your next housemate is smarter than I have been", then proceed to find another place to live.
Nah it's definitely rage bait
@@nunyabidness6045 not entirely “rage bait” more satire and they’re very cute together
@@snows12152 thank you I was begging for it to be satire
He must have her brainwashed!
This is genuinely sad
For what it’s worth, it’s just a joke. It’s not real lol
@@derp195I hope it’s not real
Its defo not real. Its likely a consensual adult "game" or its rage bate to capitalize on the whole submissive wife thing that is so popular right now
don't worry, it's a joke account
If it's genuine it's definitely genuinely sad🥴
If it isn’t rage batting then she is with man-child who is selfish and lazy and does not deserve her. Dump him girl. You’re too good for him.
It’s absolutely rage bait. Why else would she be picking out individual sprinkles from a mix when they sell spooky blends? 😂
@@kimbam7453 Yes. The only reason his reaction seems so bad is because she put an unecessary amount of effort in this and the way she talks about him. Otherwise his reaction is slighty ungrateful, but he seems to be still happy with the food.
I hope this is fake, otherwise...
Ragebait makes videos go viral
@@lmn6023 I mean if it was real the dude would still be a fracking baby
The way she was talking is such a set up for rage bait 🤣 "I didn't want to keep him waiting" "he's particularly about his plating" building him up
Right like a lot of these nowadays are just rage bait and people keep falling for it
@@BreathingBlack fr
Not to mention the treat looks cute but is basically just chocolate sauce drizzled over pretzels (the hardest part was her picking out the sprinkles which she could have avoided buy just buying orange and black sprinkles). She conveniently runs out of chocolate (if she had only a little bit of chocolate, why didn't she run to the store and get sprinkles and chocolate). And makes her point buy sadly eating a plain pretzel for the camera.
@@slenderslayer8203. Or, is it possible that she’s the giant gaslighting, self appointed victim in this relationship and he’s just tired of the whole thing?
I was far more annoyed by her than him..
@themeekdontwantit you don't know what "gaslighting" means.
"Zach is particular with his plating." Yup, he is, and it should've been plated on top of a tray on a highchair. Girl, you need to RUN, FAST and FAR.
This 😂 My exact thoughts. Her boyfriend is a toddler.
I don't even believe this video is true because literally no one would say that about someone they're still dating and just so happen to film them having this terrible reaction.
Yeah I just don't buy this. "He's very particular about plating." Who is he, Gordon Ramsey? Literally no one would ever say that. Especially about a pretzel. If you just dipped regular pretzels into chocolate they wouldn't even be plated they'd be in a bag lol.
This video was a bunch of bull.
@mcnamaraky you may be right as probably 95% of the videos are probably phony then because then if you think about it, that's an awfully lot of perfectly placed cameras.
@@jrzydvlgrl711 I don't think all videos online are fake, but I think a ton of these Tiktok and TH-cam shorts like these are.
Seriously, who states that their partner is "particular about plating" as if he's Gordon Ramsey? I might've bought it if not for that.
And it's always the first thing the person says is a complaint? Not "Oh wow that's awesome! Except..." But always "Oh this SUCKS for all these reasons..." and she stays with a guy who treats her like that?
Just none of it makes any sense to me when I think about it logically.
@mcnamaraky I agree
He sounds like he is trying to control you by finding fault with everything. Run run as far as you can. He will always be like this.
Yep. I just dealt with this.
@@evapawlowskaI hope you're doing better then...
This is obviously satire
@@_murdocsleftpinkietoeeven if it is this is what a relationship with a Narcissist looks like.
If this is real, he is a douche.
Lmfaoo Dustin got so overwhelmed at the end he reverted to shakespeare insults😭
Nothing you do will ever be good enough for people like that.
Yes 🎉
That's definetly a sarcasme video
@tjingtjongbil7694 Honestly, that's a hard maybe. Even if it is sarcasm, some people are sarcastic in order to be demeaning rather than being funny.
Either way this seems like a boring joke.
Perfectly and sadly true.
@@tjingtjongbil7694I think it’s either a parody or autism. People with autism have a compulsion to “correct” in a similar way as shown in the video.
As someone who enjoys Halloween, I too agree that there’s Purple in Halloween.
Fun Fact: Purple can mean Mysteries and Magic at the same time.
Orange and black are the most common, then purple, with red being slightly less common. No idea where he grew up, but purple is DEFINITELY in Halloween.
He may as well have said "there's no red in Christmas".
Looks like three out of three experts agree. Purple is spooky
Fun fact, did you know that a witches door is usually painted purple even? Purple is definitely a magical and eerie color that belongs in Halloween ❤
@ Ok! That is much better than my Fun Fact! 👀
@@melaniehammers7757 your comment inspired me to reply as a witch myself had to drop that fun fact lol 🥰
this definitely feels like major rage bait, especially with how she goes "there wasnt enough chocolate so just pretzels for me ig siiigh" when theres a whole bottle of chocolate sitting right beside the pan she was working on..... also if the excuse is that hes 'autistic and needs things to be particular' why wouldnt she just...... ask him? what colors are halloween for him?? and how much chocolate he wants on it???? especially if this is something she works around seemingly ALL the time?????
Why is everyone so gullible?
right like no way this isnt bait lmaooo
''Zach is very perticular with his plating''. Are you kidding me. Oh hell nah. Oh hell the nah nah.
@@rooknizan2923I have OCD and centering is one of my compulsions. If someone took the time to center the stuff on my plate so I don't have to, I'd start crying
@@rooknizan2923 There's OCD and then there's entitled. Either way, boyfriend can make his own snacks.
@@rooknizan2923 so,ocd equates to entitled bratty behavior,got it.
@@RavenSutcliffe if ocd makes you an entitled,whiny,ungrateful brat,there is something wrong with you
@nadiel42 dude your last sentence is literally just describing executive dysfunction and it's absolute hell to deal with. Do you have any idea what it feels like to not be able to do what your compulsions tell you?? It took me two years of therapy just to not wash my hands 200 odd times a day, and I still have to do it multiple times and whenever I touch some specific things
Fun fact: Purple during the Victorian Era was a funeral color, so purple definitely goes with Halloween!!
No wonder I love purple so much (I'm a goth) 😂
That has nothing to do with Halloween..
@@thesoul2sqeezeFunerals are about death, dead things are a big part of Halloween X'D
@supercharliegalaxy that's like saying jesus is a big part of Christmas. My point was the colour purple is associated with Halloween from carving turnips , not from what you said .
@@thesoul2sqeeze Yeah it's almost like times change and we adopt things into other stuff. X'D
She's so sweet to go through all that effort, and to not have her own at the end? That man does not deserve her.
- coming from an autistic person who would probably cry if someone went through this much effort for me.
I'm sure if she dipped each and every one of the pretzel sticks in chocolate and then added the other parts of the web than it wouldn't be as disappointing for him. Because yk the purple sprinkles are there.
This is ragebait. The most effort she put into this was picking out the sprinkles (when she could have bought orange and black Halloween sprinkles.) Not to mention she has a full chocolate sauce bottle in frame. Plus, his reaction isn't horrible, he just has no filter and it feels like she knew that and is taking advantage of that for her ragebait.
I was more overwhelmed than a vampire at a blood donation
Ypu sound like my bf😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂That’s a good one, that’s a good one!!!❤️❤️❤️
Way too many of us have been married to children.
It's weird.
Most men are children who expect women to pick up after them, its the patriarchy.
Ma'am this is being kind to the one you love. It goes off the rails because he made it harder for her, didn't have enough supplies for her to make one for herself, and then criticizes the coloring.
He being a jerk. But doing this kind of thing is a sign of affection and if you can't see that you are lost.
@@hitandruncommentorI think you might be confused about why she's calling him a child, it's not about this kind woman making her boyfriend/husband a snack. She's fully calling him a child because of his actions, not hers
@@hitandruncommentor and if you couldn't see that her criticism was of his lack of appreciation and not her offering of love then you should have just run on by the comment because your response was dull and shortsighted.
Sounds like someone didn't get honey mustard with their tendies and is cranky@@hitandruncommentor
"there's no purple in Halloween" is the most delusional statement I've ever heard...
As someone who grew up with TWO clinically diagnosed narcisstic parents.
I could NEVER BE ATTRACTED to that energy in a man period. I don't care how much trauma I'm dealing with. I can read a room and that book is ugly.
I am over it so fast. About three sentences in. So it doesn’t last past the first date with me generally. My antenna goes up really quickly. The older I get.
I will NEVER understand women who stay with this. Never never never. Alone is better.
Had one narc parent. I learned to spot them as a child. This could never be me.
Ok but the video is super fake
Sadly I didn’t know my Mother was a Narcissist for most of my life and ended up in 2 Narcissistic relationships. I had no idea what Healthy behavior was and what a healthy relationship looked like and that is why I have been single for years healing and developing my understanding Narcissism how to spot one and how to navigate around my mother without letting her crazy affect me.
As both a purple enjoyer and a Halloween fan, there is absolutely purple in Halloween
I see dark purple in a lot of Halloween decor, even my Halloween gnome is mostly purple lol. That man is just confused
I agree
💯👍🏿
I agree with Witch_Fairy.
Sincerely,
The bat creature a few channels over 🦇
Purple is actually more traditional since originally the holiday was celebrated with turnips (pumpkins are native to the Americas and so were not available in Europe at all before the 1500s and not even widely available then) so orange was secondary
As someone who absolutely adores Halloween, OFC PURPLE IS A HALLOWEEN COLOUR. FIGHT ME BRO
Purple is actually more traditional since originally the holiday was celebrated with turnips (pumpkins are native to the Americas and so were not available in Europe at all before the 1500s and not even widely available then)
Aren’t turnips more red than purple? The ones I know of here in America are, anyway. I might be thinking of table radishes though lmao
@@Raven17729 You are definitely thinking about radishes
@@Raven17729 I’d say they are purple to violet, and many are also a bit white they are for sure a spooky root veg: radishes are usually pink to red (they can be other colors) and are smaller and more associated with spring (they make relatively quickly)
That reminds me I need to go get evaluated for autism spectrum
"Zack is very particular with his plating" makes it sound as though she's making a snack for a CHILD
I wouldn't ever be that particular for my child, either! They always have two options, every time they eat: take it or leave it.
For some anal-retentive foodie...
Yeah, my kids don't have particular plating. They have "eat or be hungry". All my kids are well fed.
But no one should do that for a child either. Following that pattern creates this adult pattern.
AUTISTIC PEOPLE EXIST??? WHY IS EVERYONE MISSING THAT
I have OCD so I do some strange things--but I NEVER involve anyone else in the weird.
I'd have taken it back and said "I'll eat it so your delicate senses won't have to endure purple sprinkles"
Poor little baby! He was offended!
Same! I just commented how I would eat it 😂
Also, his masculinity is challenged by purple.
@@jenlazee🤣👍
If a girl did this for me i would be so unbelievably excited, like "Holy crap you made this for me? You angel this is awesome!"
This guy is a piece of work and does not deserve her in the slightest
I want to give you a 👍 but it’s at 420! So I’ll leave it here! 😆
Mr White Knight you do realize this is staged right?
@@potato6436 how is he a white night because he treats people with respect? If he is a white night you are 💅.. men like you are zesty and want other men. So gross
As yet another person who was born on Halloween, I too can confirm purple is definitely a color of Halloween.
Once she said 'I don't want to keep Zach waiting, I knew this would be bad...
And he was just up there, laying on the bed. Why couldn't he just make himself a goddamn snack?! Coddled little shit.
Talk about ungrateful. Just be thankful they made you something.
He literally thanked her in his first sentence.
@@owenfautley yeah and then took one look and started complaining the whiny little child.
Omg, that was really cute!
I hope she took it back and enjoyed her handiwork.
No, I mean, as someone with OCD, I understand the particular things, but I would never even ask my partner to do it, I would just go do it myself.
Same like... If you have to do stuff *THAT* specifically, then you do it yourself. I don't think he has OCD though or if he does, then this isn't a ritual he does often.
yes, as an autistic I'm very thankful when people do stuff for me and I tell them, but deep down having something (a meal, snack) in ways that I did mot expect overwhelms me and I'd very much rather have done it myself
I am formally diagnosed with autism and OCD, and I would never ask someone to do something like that for me and expect it to be done exactly like I need it. That boyfriend is incredibly ungrateful in this specific case.
Same, I have bad OCD. But I would never ask my partner to make me a perfect sorted plate. If something is out of place, I just fix it without complaints, I even hate it when my burgers from McDonald's are messed up, but I don't criticize the employees. Just fix my burger myself and enjoy!
To be honest... is this video real? What person asks for chocolate covered pretzels with halloween sprinkles. That's way too specific, if you want halloween pretzels go to the store? I have ocd, I take venlafaxine for it, it's not about things being specific like that, it's about us repeating a pattern of self soothing behaviors to try to quell intense fear that comes in a form of an obsession. We'd never ask someone to make us spooky pretzels is what I'm getting at.
This is a flashback to my first marriage. I dedicated and sacrificed everything. It took me two years to realize that I was the only one who cared about the marriage. It killed me to end it. Diminishing me was sport for him. I meant nothing to him. Eventually the physical abuse unfolded, because just verbal and emotional abuse becomes old after a while. Don't wait two years, girlfriend. End it now. Heal. Someone who treasures you is waiting.
On behalf of decent men, I am sorry.
@@arthurchadwell9267 You brought a smile to my face. Thank you. It is a beautiful thing to meet a whole, sane, and worthwhile man. I'm so glad for each one.
15 years here.when he said thank you then a dis brought back the many times slaved 5 hours plus preparing a meal from scratch only to get a miserable reaction . That's 5 hours cooking not including shopping for specific items,cleanup and planning daily menus. Just one part if my slavery 😢 got discarded after the abuse affected my health and appearance. Free now Thank God ❤
Glad you’re free now. In a good relationship theres give and take. In a bad one there’s just take. Hope you heal 💗
As an autistic guy, I can absolutely understand having the inside thoughts become outside thoughts. What I cannot understand is trying to argue with someone who made me a cute little snack about COLORS. Especially if they're trying their best to adhere to my needs.
This boyfriend is a thief of joy.
He's a thief of all things good. 😢
Real life Colin Robinson, energy vampire
I really hope this is a joke. Also yes there is purple in Halloween. The palette is orange, purple and black.
Edit someone pointed out also bright green. Especially like zombie green.
And maybe some bright green
Yeah me too I can’t trust this videos at all I feel like 90 percent it’s just rage bait
Yeah, hoping it's fake.
@@easolYou're right. Definitely some bright green. I didn't even think of that.
people try to claim "he just has ocd!" if ocd makes you an entitled whiny tantrum throwing brat,stay away from us or get help smh. I met people with ocd,and I have autism. Never were they this entitled
There is no universe in that I would sit there and select sprinkles for my bf😂
You have the best responses, Flag Guy. "Little Tykes' Car" was TOO funny!!!
When some people get into relationships, they expect their partner to become their parent. And I don't know why, but it seems to always be guys that treat their GF or wife like their mother.
Um more like slave!!!
You don’t know why? I can tell you why lol. It’s because of the patriarchy, which in America stems mainly from our association to Christianity.
Ive been told ill remain single for a very long time with my attitude. Like sorry i want a partner not a child??
Theres a difference betweem childish and straight out being a child in a relationship
Because they were not raised properly, they were babied by their mothers and told that was right by their fathers, because it's "expected", because that's what society has made people think is normal, meanwhile girls are shamed for everything and taught to be subservient towards men, made to believe that's what they deserve and should be grateful just to be "loved", it's an unfortunate chain of misogyny that just keeps going..
Patriarchy
„As someone who is born on Halloween, there‘s purple in Halloween.“
I second that 💜
Who‘s born on Halloween? 🎃👻🐈⬛
“Go back to sleep and ✨starve✨.” -some guy on vine
Lmao throwback ❤
I'm hoping this is just a couple making a silly video like Hannasaur playfully trolling the trad wives 😂
A guy like this wouldn't last 5 minutes with me if he's being serious. Know your worth, you are such a sweetheart and should be appreciated and reciprocated ❤
This isn't something you should request, that takes the joy out of it
This video had to originally be satire… I use purple in my Halloween decorations every year! And no way he would have anything bad to say. That spiderweb snack was so cute!
Oh hell nah to all this....🤦🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️
I have to believe this junk is fake cuz when a camera is rolling everyone's an actor. The world can't be this absurd for real😂
@@JK-yy5gmone can only hope.
OP - I had the same reaction...😂
@JK-yy5gm I really wish you were right, but I work in an emergency department and I see these people regularly, once they reach the next stage of these "relationships", sweetly explaining how they're "clumsy". When that falls apart under questioning, it becomes "he didn't mean to", "it wasn't his fault", followed by "it's my fault, I know that (enter inane, normal, everyday behaviour here) upsets him" or "he likes it done this way and I forgot. He has (enter health condition that in no way justifies his behaviour here), so he can't help how he reacts, and I'm just really forgetful."
I normally respond by throwing his backside out of my department, calling our safeguarding nurse, and ensuring that she has access to all the resources she needs to get away, but normally they don't. I can't tell you what I'd give for it to all be fake... 💕
@@JK-yy5gm You'd sadly be very surprised and disappointed in the world.
@@SessmaruKusanagiGaming like Andy Warhol says: "heaven and hell are just one breath away!" It's all right here right now, we just decide what to focus into being🤷♀️
It's the "there's no purple in Halloween" that did it for me. 💀 Like, there's not that much chocolate on them, ok fair enough, but to be picky about a *color* and be *wrong* on top of it? My brother in Christ purple and green have been Halloween colors for a *WHILE*!
Honestly? I would have probably said "these aren't really chocolate covered", but not in a mean or dismissive way. I'm just autistic with the Classic "erm, technically 🤓" mindset.
But what I'm certain about is that I wouldn't start off with that, I'd be so excited if someone went above and beyond for me like that.
That girl deserved so much praise and excitement from that guy, im glad you gave her a green flag
By definition these are chocolate covered so technically you would be wrong. Js 😂 the coverage ratio can be insignificant and still be defined as covered. The fact that chocolate lay across the pretzel means it is covered. You can even say it is drizzled but that still means that it is covered in chocolate drizzle. 😬🫣😎
Most people would consider "chocolate covered" to mean a fully covered pretzel.
The "particular with his plating" made me wonder if he was autistic. Still no reason for him to be like that.
@@lindisease2617"covered" implies that its complete. You wouldnt put a hand towel on top of a car and call the car "covered".
@@pine_demonYou expect people on the internet to know what the word "covered" means?
Yeah, I immediately wondered if the guy might be on the spectrum because he seemed completely unaware that what he was saying might be inapprpriate. Especially after that comment aout him being "particular about his plating".
I am SO glad I left my ex who did this. He always had something to criticize no matter how little.
My favorite is "I burnt my mouth on the food that you just finished, it's your fault for not letting it sit because I won't wait or won't cool it down myself."
It seems like a rage bait. No human can be this...well, this
Omg! I get so happy every day when my girlfriend makes dinner. I always clean up the kitchen afterward. I don't get why women think that they deserve this. There is better out there.
I was just thinking about this the other day. My husband will sometimes clean after I cook,but only maybe 25% of the time. However he ALWAYS tells me thank you, and usually tells me how delicious it was..
You're acting like every woman out here has strong self esteem. Guess what: many of us were RAISED to bend over backwards and let people say/ do whatever they want to us, and we pride ourselves on being smiling peace keepers because Jesus wants us to be loving, or all girls will ever be are sl/ wh/ etc. or some other twisted logic that destroys us for being women.
And for any Christians out there: Christ did endure pain and torment for us, from both his friends and enemies. But the metaphorical bride and bridegroom in the New Testament is the Savior and His Church, not His enemies. And how demanding is Christ to His church? Yet also how loving and forgiving and supportive? THAT is the example we are to follow regarding personal relationships. When dealing with enemies and opponents, turn the other cheek/ pearls before swine/ salt of the earth/ all the cliche parables that people barely know and take the wrong way. But when it comes to relationships? You are a son or daughter of God. That divine inheritance is your birthright by virtue of being human, all you have to do is prove worthy of it by bridling mortality's passions. (Not squash or hinder, but bridle... control, use for good, steer, leave your body chomping at the spiritual bit to serve others and do His work.) As a Christian you are brought into Christ's fold and family. Follow His example with how he acted with His apostles: loving, clear, harsh when needed, vulnerable, kind, honest, supportive, leads, gives opportunity for others to lead, and always wishing to join and go through eternity together.
Turn the other cheek to enemies does not mean be a doormat to your family. Being meek does not mean being weak and harmless. The only way you can turn the other cheek or be meek is if you have the strength to oppose tempered by the wisdom and restraint to not give into impulse. Crumbling like a dog that's been kicked, always belly up, is not turning the other cheek. Turning the other cheek is the end of the movie where everyone stands and says, "I am Spartacus!" You can't stand if you're a coward and choose to let evil and abuse win.
@@Undomaranel So let me ask you something. You go with everything that is in the Bible?
My husband loves to cook and it de-stresses him after work. I will always happily clean up the kitchen after enjoying his culinary masterpieces.
@@Chris-gu1ww Ha. Ha ha ha ha.
1) Tell me you don't understand foundational Christian teachings without telling me.
2) Why are you attempting to shame me for helping de-program abused doormats? For giving context of how to change their world view and defend it when the neighbor or preacher or angry spouse demands compliance? For providing been-there-done-that experience?
If you want to fight, we can fight. But know that you are the one assuming and squaring up to a survivor.
You calling him a harlot was chef's kiss, OMG! 😂😂😭💯
The disappointed parent tone when be said "alright, I'm here, what did he do"
She will learn to stop giving.. Unfortunately.
Just to assholes😂
Absolutely instead of finding someone who's worthy of her time and being generous to them
That is a concern for everyone.
Men get tricked by narcissistic women to: cheated on, lied to, bled for resources... Then those guys become hard, cold and suspicious.
(I know because it happened to me. I was engaged for a year-- thank God I found out BEFORE the ceremony!)
@arthurchadwell9267 It's interesting, The states is in an extreme gender wars at the moment.. Everyone is defensive if things are not said exactly right or perfect. But we can assume that both men and woman fall privy to pray.. Narcissism Does not favor one gender or the other. We can cluster it all under the same umbrella as people who exhibit narcissistic traits. But we cannot excuse bad behavior, Because you became hardened From a bad relationship. Then don't be in a relationship to further abuse others around you, Continuing the cycle and living in the victim mentality.
Maybe.
Agreed on purple belongs to Halloween!
I’ve had to do something similar a few times, my guy has ADHD and I suspect he also has autism.
He has ARFID and refuses food with stuff like onion, beansprouts, beans, garlic, and gives me a whole questionnaire on what is in what everytime I make us a new dish.
I have some food repulsions myself, though it’s mostly only a problem in meet. (Tendons and weird meat texture.) So I understand how that sense of “I can’t eat that.” feels, it’s why I’m willing to sit down with a bowl of ramen and pluck out every green onion and beansprout that was incorrectly put inside his bowl.
He’s picky, but not to be needed, it’s something that makes or breaks his ability to eat. And it isn’t his fault that he’s like it. He’s just disabled, and that I’m more than willing to accommodate.
She probably handled it better than me, I would have taken it back and enjoyed it myself.
No, you doing *that* would be handling it the correct way, imo. The girl here really needs to develop some self respect and realize she deserves better than that jerk. 🫤
Same!
I'm pretty sure the phrase you are looking for is "thank you, babe. This is awesome. You put so much effort into it!!!
The amount of people who would die for a partner this nice is crazyyyyy (including me)
To be fair. If she was really all that nice. She wouldn't be performing to the camera so hard. Actually, she wouldn't be recording this at all. Truly nice people, for better or worse. Try not to let others see the bad side of their partner. This is more just ragebait.
as someone who as experienced halloween, there is definitely purple in it.
I genuinely wish someone made me a spiderweb pretzel. His reaction and picking it apart instead of just sticking to the “thanks”, he don’t deserve you honey. 😭
A Bretzel got it's name from the shape it has and that is not a Bretzel 😅 those are called Salzstangen=saltsticks
This became a red flag the moment her making his snack became an expectation.
RAAAAAH THE DEDICATION IT TAKES TO BE SO NICE
~love~ makes it easyy
Dump him please 🤦🏽♀️
If I had a girlfriend that made chocolate covered pretzels for me I would of hugged her and said thank you and gobbled that sucker up not caring if it was perfect or not cause what matters is if it tastes good and it probably would cause it's FREAKIN CHOCOLATE COVERED PRETZELS
The boyfriend doesn't understand how amazing these treats are
It's FAKE
@sakurauchiha03, how do you know, do you follow them?
@@garystorey6472hes literally done a video on these same people before doing the same type of thing with the same odd behaviour
@@garystorey6472 bad acting....
Im extremely nitpicky as an audhd and i keep that ish to myself by being in charge of the cooking and snacks. Its embarassing enough imo, im not dragging anyone else into my neurosis
I'm hoping their just ragebaiting
Like it's fine to be picky in some things, but at least be grateful when someone goes out of their way for you. What a toddler
Did you not hear him say 'aww thank you' when she gave it to him?
@@owenfautley"Thanks, it's not really chocolate covered, and i don't know why there's purple." Gratefulness is more than just saying a quick "thanks"
God forbid her boyfriend had a normal human reaction and didn’t gravel at her feet for simply existing. And that’s not a chocolate covered pretzel.
purple makes you invisible, it's very spooky
Man its almost like its a skit for this very reaction
Nah he reeks of pessimism 😂
@kristinaadams2745 🤦 bud no they litteraly have a ton of skits just like this. This is there job.
@@Gohomekid99 agreed bud
Still reeks of pessimism 😂
@@kristinaadams2745 or just reeks. 😂
Glad to hear that!
Even red flag guy falls for rage bait.
Ugh! I had an ex like that. I would go above and beyond for him in big and small ways, and he always had something to complain about. Turns out, it was a symptom of his narcissism. 🚩🚩🚩
My husband (current and forever relationship) would appreciate the chocolate covered spiderweb. He wouldn’t care what color sprinkles were on it or if I left the sprinkles off.
I appreciate the snack in any shape or form, period 🤣
The majority of men would be shocked and delighted that you made/brought them anything.
Don't let the (expletive deleted) convince you that most men are like this.
Right! My husband would be delighted to get such a treat. He has loved everything I've ever made him because he loves me, and he appreciates my efforts.
I was waiting this whole time for her to bring it to her toddler because what grown man is like this!!
Considering she said "boyfriend" at the beginning, if she gave it to a toddler we'd have a problem.
@sleepy-emerald LoL facts! But my brain went to the fake "I'm a private chef for a very high maintenance client" trend.
This is not a red flag. It is confusion and misunderstanding. I can tell he appreciated it.
Woah I’m early for once lmao
I always notice that people who emotionally abuse/manipulate their partner dumb themselves down so it feels like their constant nagging and overwhelming doubt in their partners work is justified for just their own “harmless questions”
He’s right that these aren’t chocolate covered pretzels but the color of the sprinkles he can stfu about.
I'm thankful I'm at a place in my life where I refuse to date grown men that act like children and treat me like their mother.
I love how she took so much time and effort to separate orange white and purple sprinkles from an entire box full of rainbow sprinkles and this dude had the utmost AUDACITY to say that theyre not really chocolate covered and theres no purple in halloween.
They were not covered though, what he expected was probably pretzel pocky. This is more confusion that a complaint. It is a rage bait skit.
Who tf doesn't put purple in halloween?
Losers who cannot accept that the Halloween RAINBOW is Red, Orange, zombie Green, black, and ghostly white!
If my girlfriend made that for me I think I'd need to instantly propose actually the spider web chocolate pretzel is so fun
I am picky and particular when someone gives me anything but I wouldn't complain like that, someone who hand picks spooky sprinkles deserves plenty of hugs and kisses
My petty ass would've grabbed it and ate it and been like "tastes like halloween to me" then left and never came back 😂
I would have never made him anything again after that 😢 be GRATEFUL she took the time and effort to make you something 😭
Whatever happened to being grateful and thankful??? The nerve!!!
My boyfriend always said to me it's the thought that counts. And that looks good in my opinion, you don't deserve such a sweet lady
There is no one I would pick through sprinkles for, just for a snack. That's like a fairytale Impossible Task set by an evil king. "Spin this straw into gold! Count every grain of wheat in this room! Sort these sprinkles by color!" Nope. F off my dude.
She went through that much trouble to make him a treat, and he acted like that? The entitlement....
And I'm sure there's quite a few Emos and Goths giving eyeliner-melting glares at the "no purple in Halloween" retort.💜🖤💜🖤
BLESS HER,SOMEONE SEND THIS CUTIE POE A PRETZEL!
sorting sprinkles is crazy :D
I feel so sorry for anyone who has to live with someone like this....but to love someone with this kind of mental illness is even more heartbreaking and completely draining. They suck all the love out of you and everything else that makes you you....and they never give anything back...they're parasites...emotional and mental parasites and it eventually takes its toll on you physically...you put yourself last in everything hoping that by putting them first you'll finally get something in return or be put first by them but that's a fantasy because it'll only happen when they're wanting something from you. There's no selfless bone in their body...it's always going to be about them....narcissistic personality disorder is not treatable unless they choose to learn a whole new way of life and that's very rare. Anyways. I'm thankful I survived a 10 yr relationship with a man like this and worse...it took many years of working on myself and counseling for me to get healthy enough to not be drawn to men like this. They love women who have past unresolved trauma...they're the biggest abusers out there...and it doesn't have to be physically...
You just described my situationship,
I'm STUCK, for financial reasons.
Me yelling, “Hit him with the plate!”
"Particular about the plating" my wife is the same making dinner look like it comes from a restaurant meanwhile i'm just like SPLAT ON THE PLATE LETS GOOOOI
imagine putting in effort to be sweet & cute and have someone completely bash it within 2 seconds .. she deserves better ill be her boyfriend and i’d love halloween themed snacks
SOMEone has clearly never been to Spirit Halloween and it SHOWS.
Girls, NEVER marry a man who doesn't go to Spirit Halloween!!!! 😒
I would have snatched the pretzels up and shoved the whole thing in my mouth. I love doing things for my husband and children, but the moment they are not grateful, they dont get anything again.
Typical Narcissist relationship, and me parter goes above and beyond for approval that will never come! Hope she finally realizes she deserves better and gets free from the trauma bond and heals before getting back into dating again😔
yes, as an artist and color theory evangelist, Halloween is black & orange, but purple is often supplemented in place of black for certain applications, and often the color wheel triangulation is filled out with the addition of green. there are specific shades of each that work best for different contexts, and sure white also works, and omg I have so many thoughts about this but yes for sure, *purple is a legit Halloween color;* this guy is just being a complete psycho haha.
Has he slept through every Halloween. Either black,orange, green, and or PURPLE are on pretty much every decoration there is.
It started off so good when he said thanks in a high pitched voice😔