The whole idea of a cheater trying to shame a man by claiming that they have a “bruised ego” makes no sense to me. Yes, you have emasculated him. Yes, you have emotionally damaged him. The woman is telling on herself. She purposely damaged her man with no regard for his feelings. A wife is supposed to protect her husband’s feelings, just as a husband is to do for his wife, not be the unrepentant instrument of pain. How could she ever be trusted again. She can’t. She broke her vow and justified it. If he lets it go, In the future she will do it again because, “it hurt him, but he got over it last time, this time will be the same.”
Wife: "If you love me, you will let me have this." Husband: "If you love me, you would never think about doing this." Relationship ruined beyond repair.
i dont understand why that is the main wording in nearly every single one of these, its only a few times ive seen the husband say ok well i guess ill go find a woman for the night too just to try snap her out of her sh*t and make her see how much hurt she is doing when she thinks of it in reverse.
considering most of these stories were from lit3rotica, you'd be surprised seeing so many closet cheaters and cucks defending female cheaters by saying,' wOmEN aRe WeAkER to TeMptAtioN tHan mAn' lol infidelity fantasies and temptations don't have anything to do with respect, love and loyalty. Even fucking priest in their own respective religions were also tempted so suddenly relating gender to ACTUALLY being a horrible human being (aka cheater) is just miscontrued justification.
I have been married for 50 yrs to the best woman in the world, for me. It's the casual disrespect displayed twords the husband that I find mind boggling. I would like to think that when she first discovered she was loosing her love for me (or lust) . She would talk to me to fix the issues or request a divorce straight up. If she had the collosal bad taste to make it a battle, when the smoke cleared even if all I'm standing in is a big pile of smoking rubble, it's ok as long as it's me standing there.
I would outright reject the daughter when she came back to me after the wedding. I mean she is a smart grown woman, she cannot cling to such stupid narratives for so many years and so ingrained. This moment of clarity is BS. The expectation of "Hey I worked my stuff out sorry about excluding you, demeaning and cruelly insulting and maligning you for the last decade, I am ready to be forgiven and for everything to be okay now" is BS. I am a father and I would not put up with that "mistake".
Especially if she knows the escapades of her mother in second marriage and of sudden she has epiphany little BS for my taste by call me masochist i like the story anyway i one of the best i listen in some quite time.
Sorry, was good till the end. I know everyone wants happy ending, but No. He should have stayed with only new family. To little, to late from first daughter. He should've told her to piss off. I have no sympathy for someone who cheats, or the kids that side with the cheating spouse.
The fact that both sets of rents tried to convince him that he was in the wrong by saying, "well yea it was bad what she did BUUUUT she did tell you so it's not really cheating and she still loves you so you need to just stay instead of ruining the family"🤯🤯🙄🙄 Totally blows me away lol
I developed plan to deal with this type of situation and a bit more. Because my ex wife screwed me over. I don’t really think about it except when I listen to this type of story. I remarried to a Thai lady over twenty years ago. No worries about the Thai. But the plan is still there and as easy to implement as buying an international airline ticket.
Good story. Was getting concerned toward the end that his sacrifice would not be rewarded. But, he found a good woman and a new daughter that both loved him the way he deserved.
Why move out of the house? Kick her cheating ass out! When you leave, she now controls the narrative of why the marriage broke down. Don't give her that much power
having night, having intem, kick their fifth place - - the absurdity of these references yet accompanied by descriptions of intimate relations between men and women is so childishly ridiculous - - I mean did Mary and Joseph ride into Bethlehem on a "fifth place" in the Bible ? if the word can be used in Biblical reference why can't it be used on You Tube and because practically every one of these stories revolves around sexual relations, infidelity and promiscuity not to mention a mental disorder or two with them always saying "if you really loved me you could let me have relations with someone else and it might actually benefit the marriage" or the classic "it doesn't really affect anything because it was just a physical act done without love " - - anyone who could say something like that and truly believe it should be placed in a rubber room for their own protection. It is a common practice in every day life to use an offensive accusation as the best defense - - to blame the other party to cover for an offense committed by the party whose actions created the whole mess in the first place and many people fall for it as common sense is anything but common these days
@@Jenna-uv9kd what are these people - - 5 year olds ? I know its You Tube dictating policy but its childishly idiotic in the military it was euphemistically referred to as " watch your 6" which referred to your backside - - still wondering what the other 4 parts are before you get to the fifth place. So you can't say SEX and you can't say ASS so what do you call a donkey a jack-fifth place ?? This is just beyond stupid - - hey You Tube grow the hell up
@@williamwallace5545 oh believe me I understand that part but these are hardly topics of discussion for children or bedtime stories for kids and I do not appreciate any entity regulating my speech. So you can't use certain words in a story but they can watch movies on You Tube that show all manner of sexual activity and nudity just shy of "tab D" entering "slot P" so after that censorship of commonly used every day terms is infantile
OP was betrayed by his wife, children and his own parents. how could anyone forgive that?? I would have rejected all of them without any possibility of any relationship, let alone forgiveness. My wife knew from the start that I would absolutely never accept even the hint of what OP's wife proposed and if she ever voiced it to me, there wouldn't be any turning back. And while the fate of the AP , getting cheated on by the lying s--t might eventually prove painful, I would regain my dignity to the point that they would never find his body or recognize it if they did.
Most of these AI's that do the narrations don't have one ounce of intelligence when it comes to sentence structure and the writers rarely proof read anything. They just toss it out there, get paid by the morons at TH-cam and move on to another one.
An oldie but goody. Husband did everything right, and was burned beyond belief by both the ex, Kayla, and the courts. In the end, though, he came out on top. A satisfying story, even if the trip to get there was rough....
Wife: "I've had a long night about need some rest." 😂😂😂😂 Totally clueless and selfish. It's not a small mistake. It's THE mistake.... no coming back from it.
Typical woman humiliating , self centered and viciously cruel. He needs to give her the boot, and enjoy his life with out the heavy burden of her weighing him down.
He took everything like a bitch. he did have choices. to begin with letting Clearance separate his family for starters then live with his kids and help drive the wedge. that is always manageable, the most manageable subject out of all of it and the thing that needed to be dealt with the most. he could establish fear with it without having a court subject for it. he would have to be dumb enough to get caught.
I have been married for just a hair over 40 years, I have been sick all of them with cfs now Diabetes. She has stuck with me all this time, but I fear she cheated on me before marriage and after. I cannot survive with her care now at 68, but I simply must know if she did cheat before marriage and after, what do I do? I as of now before confronting her plan to leave to a cheap motel and write a few things in my computer for her and my son to read at a later date when I'm gone. The pain has just gotten too unbearable to cope with anymore, she has no idea I am doing this. I think I will confront her right before I leave to get the truth, but she is a master at lying, and I doubt I get any truth. Just wish I knew exactly how to do this?
I don't know why they don't throw their words back at them. And inform the them that if she does this that you will be back later this weekend and start getting dressed up and go out and start chasing women. If she can find out if men still wanted her, then it's your right to find out if you are attractive to women and since she decided to cheat your vows have been broken and your not bound by them. And see how much she is content with your going out and sleeping with someone else besides her. And since she started the Bullshit I would tell her whether it was true or not that the lady you met was intriguing and I decided that since she wanted to see me again that I was going too go out again and see where the relationship goes. And that since she broke the marriage vows you are no longer concerned with who she see and when that your going to date others and she can date whomever she wishes but nobody will bring their partners to the house. And your marriage will last until the kids head out to collage then you sell the house split the proceeds and then we divorce. If that is unacceptable then that is something you should have considered before acting unilaterally. Whether other people consider you attractive doesn't matter you married your spouse so if he is attracted to you is the only thing that matters. Anything else is ego stroking and unnecessary in the grand scheme of marriage.
Lots of is already said here just one little thing i cant understand and is his parents what kind of idiot you supposed to be and stand against his own son make him to come out of pity to some not so memorable event and blame him for whatever it is if he doesn't kill you stay with your own flesh and blood is it me or family values are changed drastically.
BLah BLah Blah this guy just talking to himself quoting all the cliches that all other OPs and cheating wives in these stories blab on about. Nothing original here.
Talk about cutting your nose to spite your face.You put yourself through so much crap throwing your hissy fit.You didn't want another partnerYou could have stayed in the guest room and kept your relationship with the kids.
Yeah, he kinda chose the worst path. Although, there is no guarantee that staying would have meant a good relationship with his kids. His wife would have disrespected him and even more than before after he acquiesced to her. She would pass that disrespect on to the kids as she did even before he left. I think going scorched earth on her socially, with family and with her jobs would have been the thing to do. Them Then the kids would know that what she did was not acceptable or tolerated, not just by him, but by society.
It can be a bit of a bother. However, there doesn't exist a system for TH-camrs to check to see whether some other TH-camr has already presented a story or Reddit. It is unfortunately the simple nature of things.
The whole idea of a cheater trying to shame a man by claiming that they have a “bruised ego” makes no sense to me. Yes, you have emasculated him. Yes, you have emotionally damaged him. The woman is telling on herself. She purposely damaged her man with no regard for his feelings. A wife is supposed to protect her husband’s feelings, just as a husband is to do for his wife, not be the unrepentant instrument of pain. How could she ever be trusted again. She can’t. She broke her vow and justified it. If he lets it go, In the future she will do it again because, “it hurt him, but he got over it last time, this time will be the same.”
And what's even more hilarious is that if the same cheaters were on the receiving end of infidelity, they would be royally pissed off.
That is why i adore second wife and more over the stepdaughter that is daughter what would make every father proud.
Wife: "If you love me, you will let me have this." Husband: "If you love me, you would never think about doing this." Relationship ruined beyond repair.
i dont understand why that is the main wording in nearly every single one of these, its only a few times ive seen the husband say ok well i guess ill go find a woman for the night too just to try snap her out of her sh*t and make her see how much hurt she is doing when she thinks of it in reverse.
considering most of these stories were from lit3rotica, you'd be surprised seeing so many closet cheaters and cucks defending female cheaters by saying,' wOmEN aRe WeAkER to TeMptAtioN tHan mAn' lol infidelity fantasies and temptations don't have anything to do with respect, love and loyalty. Even fucking priest in their own respective religions were also tempted so suddenly relating gender to ACTUALLY being a horrible human being (aka cheater) is just miscontrued justification.
It was an absolute choice, not a mistake.
I have been married for 50 yrs to the best woman in the world, for me. It's the casual disrespect displayed twords the husband that I find mind boggling. I would like to think that when she first discovered she was loosing her love for me (or lust) . She would talk to me to fix the issues or request a divorce straight up. If she had the collosal bad taste to make it a battle, when the smoke cleared even if all I'm standing in is a big pile of smoking rubble, it's ok as long as it's me standing there.
I would outright reject the daughter when she came back to me after the wedding. I mean she is a smart grown woman, she cannot cling to such stupid narratives for so many years and so ingrained. This moment of clarity is BS. The expectation of "Hey I worked my stuff out sorry about excluding you, demeaning and cruelly insulting and maligning you for the last decade, I am ready to be forgiven and for everything to be okay now" is BS. I am a father and I would not put up with that "mistake".
Especially if she knows the escapades of her mother in second marriage and of sudden she has epiphany little BS for my taste by call me masochist i like the story anyway i one of the best i listen in some quite time.
My sentiments exactly. I could not agree with you more.
Good story Thankyou
If that was my daughter based on this story I would have never talked to her again in my entire life and never forgiven her
Sorry, was good till the end. I know everyone wants happy ending, but No. He should have stayed with only new family. To little, to late from first daughter. He should've told her to piss off. I have no sympathy for someone who cheats, or the kids that side with the cheating spouse.
The fact that both sets of rents tried to convince him that he was in the wrong by saying, "well yea it was bad what she did BUUUUT she did tell you so it's not really cheating and she still loves you so you need to just stay instead of ruining the family"🤯🤯🙄🙄
Totally blows me away lol
I developed plan to deal with this type of situation and a bit more. Because my ex wife screwed me over. I don’t really think about it except when I listen to this type of story. I remarried to a Thai lady over twenty years ago. No worries about the Thai. But the plan is still there and as easy to implement as buying an international airline ticket.
Good story. Was getting concerned toward the end that his sacrifice would not be rewarded. But, he found a good woman and a new daughter that both loved him the way he deserved.
Perfect narrative and beautiful story
Thank you ❤
good story wife
Call her parents and talk to the kids. Post everything on social media and tell her boss. It was a coworker.
Why move out of the house? Kick her cheating ass out! When you leave, she now controls the narrative of why the marriage broke down. Don't give her that much power
having night, having intem, kick their fifth place - - the absurdity of these references yet accompanied by descriptions of intimate relations between men and women is so childishly ridiculous - - I mean did Mary and Joseph ride into Bethlehem on a "fifth place" in the Bible ? if the word can be used in Biblical reference why can't it be used on You Tube and because practically every one of these stories revolves around sexual relations, infidelity and promiscuity not to mention a mental disorder or two with them always saying "if you really loved me you could let me have relations with someone else and it might actually benefit the marriage" or the classic "it doesn't really affect anything because it was just a physical act done without love " - - anyone who could say something like that and truly believe it should be placed in a rubber room for their own protection. It is a common practice in every day life to use an offensive accusation as the best defense - - to blame the other party to cover for an offense committed by the party whose actions created the whole mess in the first place and many people fall for it as common sense is anything but common these days
I agree, however you can thank TH-cam for that.
They have to do it this way or TH-cam will flag their channel.
@@Jenna-uv9kd what are these people - - 5 year olds ? I know its You Tube dictating policy but its childishly idiotic in the military it was euphemistically referred to as " watch your 6" which referred to your backside - - still wondering what the other 4 parts are before you get to the fifth place. So you can't say SEX and you can't say ASS so what do you call a donkey a jack-fifth place ?? This is just beyond stupid - - hey You Tube grow the hell up
@@williamwallace5545 oh believe me I understand that part but these are hardly topics of discussion for children or bedtime stories for kids and I do not appreciate any entity regulating my speech. So you can't use certain words in a story but they can watch movies on You Tube that show all manner of sexual activity and nudity just shy of "tab D" entering "slot P" so after that censorship of commonly used every day terms is infantile
@@garydoyle7155 Then you should complain to Youytube Admins. If enough people complain maybe they will change.
OP was betrayed by his wife, children and his own parents. how could anyone forgive that?? I would have rejected all of them without any possibility of any relationship, let alone forgiveness. My wife knew from the start that I would absolutely never accept even the hint of what OP's wife proposed and if she ever voiced it to me, there wouldn't be any turning back. And while the fate of the AP , getting cheated on by the lying s--t might eventually prove painful, I would regain my dignity to the point that they would never find his body or recognize it if they did.
@12:44 "She gets a gold mine and he gets a mine." You mean he gets "the shaft"!
Yes,these AI just don't understand what a thesaurus is
Most of these AI's that do the narrations don't have one ounce of intelligence when it comes to sentence structure and the writers rarely proof read anything. They just toss it out there, get paid by the morons at TH-cam and move on to another one.
An oldie but goody. Husband did everything right, and was burned beyond belief by both the ex, Kayla, and the courts. In the end, though, he came out on top. A satisfying story, even if the trip to get there was rough....
Very good 👍 you found happiness,🎉
A good story completely killed by too many ads. On average every 2 minutes.
Wife: "I've had a long night about need some rest." 😂😂😂😂 Totally clueless and selfish.
It's not a small mistake. It's THE mistake.... no coming back from it.
Typical woman humiliating , self centered and viciously cruel. He needs to give her the boot, and enjoy his life with out the heavy burden of her weighing him down.
I would not have left my good liquor.
your correct on divorce Laws....
and she calls him a boyfreind.... and orders and guilts hum into it.... eject eject.... one night ... ya
He took everything like a bitch. he did have choices. to begin with letting Clearance separate his family for starters then live with his kids and help drive the wedge. that is always manageable, the most manageable subject out of all of it and the thing that needed to be dealt with the most. he could establish fear with it without having a court subject for it. he would have to be dumb enough to get caught.
I have been married for just a hair over 40 years, I have been sick all of them with cfs now Diabetes. She has stuck with me all this time, but I fear she cheated on me before marriage and after. I cannot survive with her care now at 68, but I simply must know if she did cheat before marriage and after, what do I do? I as of now before confronting her plan to leave to a cheap motel and write a few things in my computer for her and my son to read at a later date when I'm gone. The pain has just gotten too unbearable to cope with anymore, she has no idea I am doing this. I think I will confront her right before I leave to get the truth, but she is a master at lying, and I doubt I get any truth. Just wish I knew exactly how to do this?
Why are you leaving kick her sorry butt out she's the one who cheated
I think the ungrateful children especially the son, parent & parent in law got off easy. Not enough justice for these people.
I love stories like this that piss me off..that means they're good. To me at least
I don't know why they don't throw their words back at them. And inform the them that if she does this that you will be back later this weekend and start getting dressed up and go out and start chasing women. If she can find out if men still wanted her, then it's your right to find out if you are attractive to women and since she decided to cheat your vows have been broken and your not bound by them.
And see how much she is content with your going out and sleeping with someone else besides her. And since she started the Bullshit I would tell her whether it was true or not that the lady you met was intriguing and I decided that since she wanted to see me again that I was going too go out again and see where the relationship goes. And that since she broke the marriage vows you are no longer concerned with who she see and when that your going to date others and she can date whomever she wishes but nobody will bring their partners to the house. And your marriage will last until the kids head out to collage then you sell the house split the proceeds and then we divorce. If that is unacceptable then that is something you should have considered before acting unilaterally. Whether other people consider you attractive doesn't matter you married your spouse so if he is attracted to you is the only thing that matters. Anything else is ego stroking and unnecessary in the grand scheme of marriage.
Can’t help wishing I could give multiple thumbs up 👍 to this - couldn’t agree more! 👍👍👍👍👍
At the end when they dance. "You should have given one night". "It wasn't cheating, If you loved me.
Tom needed to inform everyone what Kayla demands.all Kayla relatives needs to know what she demands including her children
Never have a conversation without your recorder on
I would just went out and found a date the following day for the same reasons and watched her explode
seen this on other sites. still don't understand why he didn't move her stuff out.
As a suggestion, why not have him grab scissors and start shredding he stocking and black dress ?
Lots of is already said here just one little thing i cant understand and is his parents what kind of idiot you supposed to be and stand against his own son make him to come out of pity to some not so memorable event and blame him for whatever it is if he doesn't kill you stay with your own flesh and blood is it me or family values are changed drastically.
Poured out good wine, why waste good money like that? He is acting petty and childish.
This plot and dialogue is older than Methusalem.
Well you certainly screwed up the ending of this "story" by putting thumbnails over the top of the ending.........what a complete waste!!
BLah BLah Blah this guy just talking to himself quoting all the cliches that all other OPs and cheating wives in these stories blab on about. Nothing original here.
Talk about cutting your nose to spite your face.You put yourself through so much crap throwing your hissy fit.You didn't want another partnerYou could have stayed in the guest room and kept your relationship with the kids.
Yeah, he kinda chose the worst path. Although, there is no guarantee that staying would have meant a good relationship with his kids. His wife would have disrespected him and even more than before after he acquiesced to her. She would pass that disrespect on to the kids as she did even before he left.
I think going scorched earth on her socially, with family and with her jobs would have been the thing to do. Them Then the kids would know that what she did was not acceptable or tolerated, not just by him, but by society.
More narcissistic blah blah
Shame! This is the first blatantly stolen story I have heard on this channel. This story was new at the end of May.
Nowadays every other cheating story is stolen😂😂😂😂😂
God damn repeats man can't yous get your own new stories
It can be a bit of a bother. However, there doesn't exist a system for TH-camrs to check to see whether some other TH-camr has already presented a story or Reddit. It is unfortunately the simple nature of things.
copy story just with change of names. pathetic.
I would never have accepted the daughter back and as for dear old Mom, Never.
A child that was brainwashed by her/ their mother? You are not the sharpest knife in the drawer.