VASECTOMY VLOG... OUCH!
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The fact that Arie says it’s the least he can do and is taking one for the team says sooo much about his character and how much he loves Lauren. I’m literally never settling now 😂
My hubby said the same thing after two c-sections!
Just remember not to have unrealistic expectations. Arie is a good husband and dad, but he did make a mistake in the beginning of their relationship and chose another woman over her for weeks before he went back to her. She forgave him because she knew he was a good man that just made a mistake/did a bad thing, and I think that’s REALLY important for people choosing partners to understand. People are not perfect, so be realistic on what kind of person you want as a partner and realize in the end they are only human ♥️
My thoughts exactly 👏 Arie set the bar to high!
Arie is clear that he doesn't want to have any more kids, that is why he is getting the vasectomy done in the first place. I think Lauren wants more kids but Arie does not.
It is the least guys can do after all we women go through. So many women get tubes tied and noone ever praises them.
Greatest thumbnail on TH-cam ! Can’t get over the scissors 😂😂
Haha thanks guys!
yess
😂can’t forget the emoji
Our twins are 7 months old and I have a 3 year old daughter and I’m sending my husband 😂 Thank you for the extra push, guys! Lol
Thank you for this video! More men need to get vasectomies instead of women always having to have invasive tubal ligations. There has to be give and take in a marriage. Glad all went well! 🙏🏽
SO, SO, SO true it is a breath of fresh air seeing the way these two make it work.....SO many people could benefit and learn from Arie and Lauren!
What if you don’t want a period again?
He’s not out of the woods yet… he needs to recheck his sperm count! Or they may find a surprise!!! Been there, also never say no to a reversal!!! Biggest blessing of our lives!!!!
So wrong. Us poor dudes are being oppressed
@@J52d-g It can always be reversed. Tubal ligation for women is unfortunately permanent. It makes sense for the guy to do it since it’s less invasive and not permanent, so the couple could always decide to have another child if they change their mind.
Arie you don’t look a day over 30! You guys are so sweet, have 3 beautiful babies! ♥️♥️♥️
You're the best!
So brave of you guys to share your experiences. I'm sure it's spurred many couples on to move forward with this. Also you 2 are just such a beautiful , sweet couple. I enjoy seeing how sweet and respectful you are to each other. Beautiful.
I love that we can all agree that even as adults, we want ice cream after a doctor’s appointment or operation
Arie i love that your mindset is that laurens been through a lot with pregnancy and birthing your children and now its your turn to do something that makes her feel more comfortable, rather than putting herself on birth control. A lot of people dont get on with birth control and most men dont get it. They think its easy and they shouldn't do their part to avoid pregnancy. Such a balanced great couple 👍
White as a ghost 😂😂
You might not want to go horseback riding soon. 😉
Guys please don’t do this research the side effects and long term complications plus it’s a huge turn off
And this is why women carry the babies and give birth… can you imagine how men would react if they went through what we have. Lol
Love that you’re just being real about a real situation. Glad things went relatively smoothly.
I love this vlog! My hubby had his vasectomy 26 years ago and we used to joke "anytime, anywhere" (obviously I'm well past childbearing years now) but with three young boys it wasn't always possible, lol but still so glad we went this route. My hubby always said he would be the one to go through the procedure as I did nine months of pregnancy, labor, delivery and recovery multiple times...so he thought it was the least he could do. It really was nice not having to worry about birth control when we were in our 30's and 40's!!
Just had it done last Friday (May 20th) and I would agree, uncomfortable does not accurately describe the feeling. I too, had to have an extra injection of lidocaine to offset the pain. You can feel and hear them cutting the tubes, and you can visually see and hear the cauterizing process. The procedure took :30 mins or less, but it wasn't a "stroll in the park" process. I'm now 5 days in and I still have some residual pain/discomfort. Initially, I stayed in bed for two days, but by day 3, I was ready to get moving again. No major meds needed; just Tylenol occasionally. I will tell you, as a Black man, I was worried whether or not the Dr. had conducted this procedure on someone of my color, given the fact he was located in a predominantly Caucasian town...lol. I never asked him, but it certainly was in the back of my mind. He was very professional, while having a great sense of humor, so the worry factor went away...well about that at least... I would do it again if I had to, but I'd strongly recommend that any guy considering this procedure, make sure you do your research from a macro to micro level...meaning, gaining perspective to what goes into this procedure, while also researching the physician who is performing the procedure. Maybe I should post a vlog about my experience...
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2022: people congratulate for a vasectomy. Your brains are all gone.
I love how he said it was his turn to do something since Lauren carried the babies!♥️♥️♥️
Not an easy decision but the reasons make sense .Troy sounds a bit too excited describing the potential pain. I loved when he started to get explicit and Lauren says “ Hi Troy, I’m here too” 🤣🤣
Make sure he gets it checked. My husband was checked at 8 weeks failed and then tested again 6 weeks later. It then was a failed Vesctomy It also eneded up causing nerve damage. And 6 months later he had to have a surgery and be put to sleep! But after 10 months he's finally cleared!
I had my twins at 39 and it was really hard going to take them to kindergarten and they would ask if I was their grandma so I get it Arie. I also married a man 14 years younger and yes they think he is my son! Heck with them all I’m very proud of you stepping up.
I'm so glad Lauren brought up depression and birth control. I have the same problem with birth control...
Lidocaine sometimes doesn't work on some people.. so maybe you weren't even numbed, that might have hurt.. good job Arie..
I had no idea they would even do a vasectomy without putting you under, etc. and I have not been sensitive to those with that kind of pain in the past. Glad I watched this and learned! I know someone who had a vasectomy after their final child and his wife says it was one of the best things they could have done for their relationship when they had little ones. Her words are, "when you have little babies and toddlers running around, you have so much less energy and interest in being intimate that when you do feel that you want to have that with your partner, you need to act, because it could be short-lived" and I think about that concept and am like, "yupp".
Love your honesty and ability to self-reflect in a positive way and share that. Also, I'm jealous of the trees with leaves blowing in the wind in the reflection. I am in Canada. It is cold. There is snow. Trees are naked. It's as abominable as a snowman.
A vasectomy at most is two small incisions. Now, a lot are two small pokes. They get more meds for these than people do who get iuds when they literally clamp the cervix into place with prongs.
@@amandasmusicful Yeah, I think the reality is men just have a lower pain tolerance than women. And they’re not used to doctors poking and prodding down there like women are.
@@LaNoturna yeah but people who get iuds still pass out from the pain. I had one abnormal Pap smear and I passed out from the pain. The planned parenthood doctor seemed annoyed at me. I’m also a chronic pain patient and have an extremely high tolerance for pain. Just pointing out the hypocrisy in male and female family planning care.
Why is this in my recommended???
I still watched it though and it's very interesting 🤔
Never getting a vasectomy though
I am confused. It seems like Arie was not sufficiently anesthetized before surgery. My husband has done it and he said he could not feel a thing! Just some pain afterwards...
Arie,
OMG do NOT feel bad for being anxious or any of the things you were feeling before you had your surgery, many people are the exact same way I know I am, I start to pass out just thinking about medical procedures even when it is someone else! LOL It is what it is, some people are ok with it and some are just not, that is how the world revolves there is nothing wrong with the fact you had stress.
I applaud you for going through with the procedure and for being honest and open..... I have to ask, though, do you have the same reaction to having dental work done with Novocaine?
I ask because I have 3 sons that Novocaine does NOT work on, they have to be put under for any kind of procedures where Novocaine would normally be sufficient, and here is the strange thing I am 64 when I was very little up until I was in my 40s Novocaine always worked, now that I am older it does not work on me if I have dental work done they have to give me so much Novocaine and then keep stopping to give more I just wonder if that might be happening to you?
Thank you again for being so honest and open, you and your beautiful family are so loved.....please upload more videos when you can, I always look SO forward to them :)
Arie you are real man... Lauren and kids you are precious.... Love your family....
Good for you, Arie. It's the healthiest and least invasive way to permanently prevent pregnancy. Wise move. It's the best choice and it cracks me up how men act like it's so traumatic and such a huge deal. Your wife had freaking twins. That was a huge deal. Ouch. More men should be like Arie and just get it done.
My husband just had a vasectomy right before our third child was born. Definitely the most fear I’ve ever seen in him but we are so glad to have it done and we agreed it was fair that he be the one to go through the sterilization, since I carried and delivered three kids!
wow-it was no biggie for my husband, like going to the dentist.
You should have some swimmers frozen just in case you want more kids later.
Thank you so much - my hubby has his consultation in a couple weeks! You’re so right - why should it be the woman’s responsibility to take birth control that totally messes with our hormones? We have been through enough!
Try billings together. Has it's challenges but its the best!
Vasectomy messes with his hormones, so stop that talk now. This argument of "he doesn't matter cuz I matter" has to stop, it's literally abusive & selfish. Reproductive surgeries is a decision that both husband & wife need to be joint on & both need to fully be vulnerable & talk about the consequences, risks, benefits, costs, what you're willing to do & go through in your body & what those changes have for yourself & your family. Don't treat your body like a dispenser to shut down & turn on. Stop this mentality of "I have issues and that means your issues are non existent & don't matter." Sheesh, it's not a good marriage if you only care about yourself and completely ignore your husband's body. That's so toxic & abusive. His body is not yours to control. Your body is not his to control.
Arie has such a great personality. The fact that he talks, and shares so much of your life with us is admirable. I would never have imagined this about Arie from (formerly) watching that TV dating show. Glad you two met. You guys are good together, & have a beautiful family.
Why is it admirable to share so much of their lives?
I was referring to Arie when I wrote “admirable” because men don’t usually talk about their personal lives or personal matters. I have been married a long time, & my husband would rather have his eye poked with a hot needle than share intimate or personal details of our lives.
@@AS-yz2iz It was just my observation about Arie. It has been my experience that men don't like to talk about personal matters (they like to solve things). I have been married a long time. My husband needs to be told if a conversation is a debatable one a general one, or one that involves a problem that needs a solution. Actually my comment was meant to be a compliment to Ari. I didn't mean to offend anyone. These days it is difficult to know; people are easily displeased by simple comments.
@@pvvillemar1 Gotcha. So you're praising his ability to share these things with his wife and loved ones. I absolutely agree, as someone who has been married a long time also. I'm not and wasn't offended. Sorry I came off that way. Have a great day!
My husband’s Dr played Living on a Prayer during the procedure. 😂😂😂
I literally forget they have an age gap because Arie looks 30 😂😂
I’ll never forget it. When my bro in law went the doc’s name was Vanderslice. So funny.
That's the best 😂
Omg 🤣
Lauren is the most beautiful woman on this planet. Arie is blessed.
I love you two. I was laughing so hard out loud! When my husband had his, he tricked me. When he came out of the room where he had it done, he looked at me all hunched over in dying pain. I was like OMG! What have they done!!! He stood up and started laughing. Just kidding!!! I’m fine.
Not all done until you test negative for sperm.
I wish you had one more baby but you have to do what's best for y'all!!! 💖
Arie could possibly be allergic to lidocaine. My husband has the same reaction and there are other methods/meds they can use to numb so that you do not have that reaction. Love your vlogs and your super cute family!!! P.S. My husband and I made a bet that if our second child was a girl that I would have my tubes tied and if we had a boy he would get a vasectomy. My hubby lost!!! He came home after and drank whiskey, and had a frozen bag of peas on his crotch. Bless their hearts!!!
Honestly, I am a bit disappointed that Arie's Dr did not either give him more Novocaine and time for it to kick in or maybe offer to put him out, sorry folks but these Dr's are NOT the ones who have to go through it or feel the pain, it is no skin off of their back, they simply do not want to waste their time to ensure the patients are comfortable they want to get in and get it done, I am not saying this is the case with Arie, but the fact he felt SO much of the procedure really weighs heavy on my heart and soul
You two are SOOOO FUNNY!!❤️😆I LOVED this video!! My husband described it the same!! And Lauren, I compared the tubes to an elbow noodle lol 😂
Good job Arie!! Love you both!!
O my good ..you have 3 kids very pretty ..
Ouch! Good for you for making this decision and taking one for the team, Arie. More men should be brave and be willing to take birth control responsibility. Happy healing. 😁
My husband just got his done. 5 is enough
And that’s why men don’t have babies!! Lol 😂 I promise you that a 27 hr labor hurts much worse than a couple kicks in the nuts. But kudos on taking the initiative to do it at all. Lots of men won’t. God Bless! 🙏🏼
The fact that he was more drugged up for this than women are for iud placements 😂 ovary up Arie! But seriously, good on you for doing this for your wife and family
Both of my girls are adopted and it’s the most wonderful thing! I was in the delivery room for our first daughters birth! Amazing
Just remember to get re checked when your supposed to bc as an OB nurse I saw many come in w ooopss.. vasectomy didn’t work..
Thanks for sharing your experience. I’m glad your ok
LOL I have seen more than once where the husband thinks his wife cheated when after getting a vasectomy his wife became pregnant....it is highly unlikely but does and can happen.... God knows what he is doing though!
Out of curiosity, why a vasectomy over getting your tubes tied?
Well hmm I thought that wasn’t a concern for birth control .. great I took my birth control for 5 years .. currently pregnant but I do wanna use a progesterone pill after birth for a year or who knows maybe I’m the kind who doesn’t have their cycle while breast feeding but that worries me about getting a higher chance of cancer with my mother passing away a year ago from breast cancer .
Thanks for sharing your experience Arie! Love your "sprinkler system" comment Lauren! LOL!
My husband had to be put under anesthesia because it was painful for him. The doctor said he had some scar tissue in the area.
I don't blame him! Twins is A LOT.
You got this, prayers with you. The key family decisions. I do have to say, ya had me laughing. ❤❤❤❤❤🙏
I can't believe your friend didn't go for his follow up visit! Be sure to go because I'm pretty sure they check to be sure that it worked!
Um yea birth control is not good for anyone!!! So many side effects and complications that is not needed! Is women go through enough! Estrogen containing birth controls are the ones linked to cancer but now most brith controls on the market only contains a small amount of estrogen or there are options without estrogen now!! But yea I agree this is the best option to prevent having kids! And tying your tubes is more scary for women cus it’s another major surgery and u can still get pregnant and then it’s even more traumatic cus obviously the baby can’t grow if ur tube is tied and they die! So vasectomy is the best option in my opinion honestly!
Ya laughing gas doesn’t put you under it just makes you super loopy and happy lol
Glad all went well. Now we all know why women are the ones who have the babies in the relationship. 😉
Why is this in my recommended?
I was just watching hearts of iron 4 videos of artillery only and funny Garry's Mod videos
I don’t recommend getting a vasectomy because in case your kids happen to be in an accident GOD FORBID and pass away you’d want more kids
I know it happened to a friends of ours … so think abt it before !
Thank you for sharing this video with us u guys
Haven’t watched in a while but Lux looks EXACTLY like alessi!!!
I’m not trying to scare you but please please go for the post v check up’s regularly. I’m telling you this because I’m a 43 yr old mom and grandmother and my husband is 53 and had a v and we had a baby in 2020..
Great job arie!! But men are babies lol “didn’t pick up babies in three days” I was carrying my baby after a csection 😂 men are funny.
Aww! So glad Arie shared this! You guys make such cute babies. I was a teen mom, now weve been married for 30 years. We adopted our little, and she is 15 years younger than our older two. It is crazy but so fun to adopt. Although, I was 33 when we adopted. Such an amazing journey.
I love your honesty. I really believe Arie has a low tolerance for pain.
My dad chugged a bottle of whiskey before his 😂.
I can’t with how Lauren is describing it 😂😂😂😂😂😂. I love y’all so much
I work in a urology clinic and we had a gentleman get one side done, faint, vomit and then refused to complete the procedure!
This morning I looked up your channel to comment how much I miss your bachelor episode reviews bc one of his front runner (Rachel) reminds us of Lauren 😍
My husband had a vasectomy , he usually faints when he has to give blood, they gave him a Valium & he did absolutely fine. Dont stress it men 😉
wow Lauren saying this was like crazy cause I am 50 and I had twins at 41 and they are 8 now. lol so my daughter and I were pregnant at the same time hahaha. Father of the bride movie for real. my twin boys are 19 years younger than my daughter lol
Still a scary thing to go through but happy it was only 15 mins and that the after care was pretty easy! So thank you for telling us your experience with it😊 I’m excited for you guys and potentially maybe adopting if you want to expand on the fam🥰 love you guys
Glad Arie got to experience painnnnn similar to birth Lol the Lidocaine probably didnt work on u, probably should stop it and ask them to use sthg use.
I cannot emphasize the importance of getting checked!!! I had a vasectomy baby I was pregnant 3 months after he never got checked
Lauren, I can’t believe that you watched! Wow! You are very strong! ❤️
My hubby has had 2 vasectomies! He had his first one after he and his ex had 2 children. 13 years later after I (second wife) find out I’m pregnant he gets tested and he had low mobility and low sperm count but he had shooters LOL. His vessel grew back together, his vasectomy was just cut, no tying or cauterizing. Needless to say that was done with the second vasectomy… we have a beautiful 17 year old daughter who is a senior in HS and will be going off to college in the fall to be a teacher!!
Congratulations Arie taking one for the team of your beautiful family!!
Hi Lauren and Arie. God bless your beautiful family ❤️
I never knew that Luke was 17 years younger than Lauren! I thought my 4 year age gap with my sister was big😅😂
THATS SAD NO MORE BABYS
Arie is so...sweet ! I can see why you are attracted to him ! I just love his personality! ❤ He seems like an amazing man & you both seem so happy & you have a perfect little family 👪 ❤
We love y’all’s family..no matter how many kiddos y’all have…I have 5…I found for me it was pretty easy with 3.. it got hard with 4..and I don’t recommend 5 for anyone 😂..it was pretty crazy with 5.
Surprised u felt it. I was told by others that when numbed the procedure wasn’t painful, it was afterwards that they had discomfort.
I think a vasectomy is sooo extreme.
Oh man...so much to add here.
My brother is 50...having children..late to the game.
My ex had the V and a year later fathered a child.
My friend had a reversal and had fathered a child in his late 40's.
God has a plan for everyone...follow your gut feeling what is best for yous. 🙏 ✌love watching you guys. ❤
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My husband had a vasectomy on my 40th Birthday!
Lol this came around the same time, as Shenae Grimes (TH-camr) video and her husband said the same thing as Arie, taking one for the team 👏 . It’s a sign for my hubby 😋
how many water bottles can 2 adults use 😧🤭
What you referred to as 'sleeping gas' is twilight anesthesia. It's not the same as going under for surgery. It's similar to what Michael Jackson was given every night to sleep 🤪
Jeans link - the ones you’re wearing in the kitchen while the girl is organizing 👖💙
You guys are awesome! 😂😂 this convo reminds me of bachelor brunch!! You guys are the cutest! And so are the kids! 😁
Yay for being open about health issues - these things should not be taboo! Arie, if you ever have to get another type of procedure done, you may want to ask your doctor for a one-time anti-anxiety med. I have also broken out in shakes and sweats during a procedure, and trying it next time with an anti anxiety med helped tremendously. (And my husband thought I was hilarious on that med 🤪)
Did you know you have to go back and get checked to make sure your shooting blanks. It’s not working right away.
Sorry to hear it hurt…when I had mine 15 minutes later I was walking thru the mall shopping for my trip to Jamaica..my wives treat
3 is a great number you guys, Im proud of you
I am never going to look at my sprinkler system tubing the same again...
TMI this is your business.
I think Arie was unlucky that the numbing agent didn’t work as well for him. My husband was uncomfortable but not much pain.
Everyone I know who is 40 doesn’t want kids because they don’t want to be too old as their kids get older & wont have the same energy
a fish tank tube, oh my gosh, you both are so real- I love you all your stories- Love watching your beautiful family grow- Thank you for sharing
Make sure you go to your follow up appointments!
I’ve never heard of a vasectomy being this painful. It sounds like something didn’t go quite right with the actual procedure. Maybe the numbing medicine wasn’t effective. Your friend Troy really should do a follow up with his urologist. Testing the semen is super important to know if the vasectomy worked.
My husband, who is a doctor, was so weirded out by another man putting a needle in his balls that he brought his own syringe and lidocaine to his appointment and numbed himself in the parking lot before going in. 🤦🏻♀️ He ended up having to have the doctor do it again anyway. 🤣
Omg top comment 🤣