Singaporeans Try: Relationship Dilemma Questions

แชร์
ฝัง
  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 7 พ.ย. 2024

ความคิดเห็น • 368

  • @TheSmartLocal
    @TheSmartLocal  5 ปีที่แล้ว +273

    BACK BY POPULAR DEMAND: #bobocharchar will be hosting a relationship advice episode really soon!
    all advice to be taken lightly. extremely lightly. stay tuned!

    • @keing6256
      @keing6256 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Can't wait! They're a great pair! Weilun's pretty enlightening as well

    • @vanyeo1137
      @vanyeo1137 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      TheSmartLocal looking forward !

  • @TheXDayDreamerx
    @TheXDayDreamerx 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2467

    BOLIN AND SEW ARE SO AGGRESSIVE, I LOVE IT.

    • @Prankzterstarr
      @Prankzterstarr 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      They damn cute and most entertaining bunch of the lot! Bolin's unnecessarily triggered is damn cute!

    • @odilletan3013
      @odilletan3013 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      ¿ IKRRR SAMEE

    • @BeachBoi1000
      @BeachBoi1000 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I love their reactions! Definitely feels so much real. If it’s not ok... don’t say OK OK.

  • @izamancostanza2199
    @izamancostanza2199 5 ปีที่แล้ว +787

    I feel sad for xenia damn she went through alot and when she said “am i not interesting enough for u?” Wahhh sad sia

    • @danielong1153
      @danielong1153 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Izaman Costanza yea I pray the emotional scar that’s haunting her till today will be healed real soon

    • @shupple0609
      @shupple0609 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      what happened to Xenia?

    • @danielong1153
      @danielong1153 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      do ods th-cam.com/video/8w5uIj0_YZw/w-d-xo.html

    • @xJayteee
      @xJayteee 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@danielong1153 i thought she's in a rs with fauzi?

    • @danielong1153
      @danielong1153 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      isiahvic no that’s TSL* couple, created based on pop demand and maintained since it’ll help boost viewership

  • @meekayluh
    @meekayluh 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1252

    bolin is my best friend when i like someone new HAHAHAHAHAHA

    • @turner-ing
      @turner-ing 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Bolin Chen Can I be your friend.😂😂😂

  • @blehfizz6194
    @blehfizz6194 5 ปีที่แล้ว +341

    Xenia's "am I not interesting enough for you" made me feel some type of way

  • @SHAJR
    @SHAJR 5 ปีที่แล้ว +830

    Everyone else: many different variables...
    Bolin: they together PIAK PIAK Friend sit outside eat maggi mee WHAT THE HELL
    WHAT THE HELL!!!!
    I’m dead

    • @thanhvuduong599
      @thanhvuduong599 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      hello there, i would love to know you

  • @retrorider7521
    @retrorider7521 5 ปีที่แล้ว +464

    bolin + sew needs to have their own show called 'relationship advice with Bo and sew' LOL

  • @chu2348
    @chu2348 5 ปีที่แล้ว +402

    Bolin and Sew are literally friends I need. LOVED THEM, MORE OF THEM PLEASE.

  • @krysdiary6615
    @krysdiary6615 5 ปีที่แล้ว +384

    more of bolin and sew please

  • @conniekam1074
    @conniekam1074 5 ปีที่แล้ว +791

    Bolin is so funny! Made me laugh!

  • @blackboy1604
    @blackboy1604 5 ปีที่แล้ว +801

    Omg Bolin is fkin hilarious 😂😂😂😂

  • @icemilo21
    @icemilo21 5 ปีที่แล้ว +92

    tsl members : members calmly explain their opinions
    bolin : *slams table* *speaks aggressively*
    i don’t mean anything offensive btw !! i love tsl ☺️

    • @TheSmartLocal
      @TheSmartLocal  5 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      @Bolin Chen are you replying fan comments during work get back to work

  • @RoyalCaoCao
    @RoyalCaoCao 5 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    After experiencing 3 cheating exes. You'll realise none of these questions matter. If they want to cheat, they'll find a way no matter how protective or restrictive you are.

  • @cassandrachoo488
    @cassandrachoo488 5 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    My thoughts are is exactly like Bolin and Sew and Xenia!

  • @SA-cg3kg
    @SA-cg3kg 5 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    For the people who seemed to be so against the concept of cheating and answered question 6 yes, are you really against the concept of cheating? It certainly comes off like cheating is alright as long as you’re not at the receiving end of it.
    Where is the empathy?
    And if he can cheat on her with you, he most likely will cheat on you with someone else.

    • @babydino2919
      @babydino2919 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      couldnt agree more. I was thinking about it too! Its selfish. I would be concern about his/her ex because what if one day he/she gets bored of me and cheats on me like how he/she did previously.

    • @masaki199
      @masaki199 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Couldn't agree more , well said @SA

  • @allisonlim1749
    @allisonlim1749 5 ปีที่แล้ว +204

    Bolin = savage
    Sue = GET A FAN IN HERE! WE GOT AN ANGRY BOLIN!!!!!!!!!

  • @giselletan8176
    @giselletan8176 5 ปีที่แล้ว +195

    bolin + sew best duo ever

  • @whynotyoutubewhynot
    @whynotyoutubewhynot 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    bolin and sew have an amazing chemistry they feel like brother and sister the more TSL videos i watch the more i enjoy their dynamic now i get the hype lol

  • @mayyo4018
    @mayyo4018 5 ปีที่แล้ว +96

    I like Bolin , I am exactly think like him!

    • @mayyo4018
      @mayyo4018 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Bolin Chen and I love your reactions , Made my day !!! Thanks!

  • @hohoberto
    @hohoberto 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    The way rainer replied, thats why his relationships never last more than 6 months. BECAUSE HE IS TOO EASY ON HIS GF

  • @Valenced
    @Valenced 5 ปีที่แล้ว +235

    Bolin is the true MVP of this video

    • @TheSmartLocal
      @TheSmartLocal  5 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      @Bolin Chen the word 'shy' got exist in your dictionary meh

  • @terebiomimasu
    @terebiomimasu 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I overthink things so I'm no good with hypothetical situations. But for the general theme of these 'dilemmas', first off: for me, cheating is not ok. It is not an accident. It is not a 'stupid mistake in which you got swept up in the moment'. It is a choice. And in that moment you chose to be unfaithful to your partner. Not cool. Completely cruel to your partner and speaks volumes about your character--and not in a good way.
    I try to keep things like these in mind to be my guide(s):
    -treat others how you want to be treated
    -don't do anything behind your partner's back that you wouldn't do in front of him/her
    -if it 'feels' wrong, to some extent it most likely is
    Communication is key in relationships. Talk things out. Set boundaries for your relationship that you both can agree on and stick to them.

  • @wenhuilim7986
    @wenhuilim7986 5 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    wei lun and renee are so matured and measured in their responses :)

  • @turner-ing
    @turner-ing 5 ปีที่แล้ว +119

    Bolin rage quit sia this episode. Damnnnnnn funny

  • @yewxiangtan6797
    @yewxiangtan6797 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    this episode is really nice and a good friendly debate about different opinions!! PART 2 PLEASE

  • @Lololol555x
    @Lololol555x 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Bolin and Sew's answers are exactly as mine! "U think try clothes ah" YES TOTALLY AGREE!

  • @iVengeancee
    @iVengeancee 5 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    To the people who says that cheating is fine
    11:09

    • @EvilEscape
      @EvilEscape 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      YES, to all those Jay Chou's fans, better think twice before continuing being a fan of that shit guy.

  • @couchpotato5423
    @couchpotato5423 5 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    bolin is the friend i need in life HAHAHAH

  • @retrorider7521
    @retrorider7521 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    wei lun and renae are like counsellers, so calm

  • @yosephinealexandra8420
    @yosephinealexandra8420 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    "A relationship that starts with hurting somebody, will never grow."
    dat, if not ya not leh.

  • @sethryanchin
    @sethryanchin 5 ปีที่แล้ว +192

    Don’t worry renae I’ve been trying to slide into your dms since before this video

    • @sethryanchin
      @sethryanchin 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      0mgRenae sorry who’s this

    • @sethryanchin
      @sethryanchin 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      0mgRenae im joking pls use my face as a trampoline

    • @ProtoKJ
      @ProtoKJ 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@sethryanchin looool

  • @meekayluh
    @meekayluh 5 ปีที่แล้ว +209

    what is my current relationship status?
    me: what is a relationship LMAO HAHAHAHAHA
    relationship with my bed :)

    • @kexinn4887
      @kexinn4887 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @-- youtube tot it was too personal😂😂👌

  • @tantessa4318
    @tantessa4318 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    during the whole video, the only thought I have is WHY IS BOLIN SO AGITATED HAHAHA

    • @tantessa4318
      @tantessa4318 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Bolin Chen my first thought was Bolin seems quiet...then suddenly BOOM HAHAHAH

  • @currypuff4379
    @currypuff4379 5 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Living for bolin's monologue.

  • @a.fikhry389
    @a.fikhry389 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    can we just talk about how bolin and sew is the combination we never knew we needed

  • @ahahxx7068
    @ahahxx7068 5 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Bolton & sew their reactions r so cute

    • @ahahxx7068
      @ahahxx7068 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      HAHA damn auto correct

  • @meekayluh
    @meekayluh 5 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    but i don't understand how single people (me) can give the best relationship advice what

    • @bellla6831
      @bellla6831 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      You get the third perspective in the relationship, and it’s not skewed by previous relationships.

    • @KeithLeeMH
      @KeithLeeMH 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Coaches don't play

  • @TheSmartLocal
    @TheSmartLocal  5 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Is being drunk a valid excuse for cheating in your relationship? Sound off below; we'd like to hear your thoughts! ;)

    • @amiraumie1801
      @amiraumie1801 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      nope !

    • @t.riciaaa
      @t.riciaaa 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      no !

    • @ExerFlame
      @ExerFlame 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Be responsible of knowing drinking will let you get drunk lmao, so nope

    • @irenetan830
      @irenetan830 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      No

    • @lishaohlisha
      @lishaohlisha 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      N.O.

  • @aniq5989
    @aniq5989 5 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    95% of the comments:
    Bolin and Sew
    5% Others

  • @cc-co3gk
    @cc-co3gk 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Singlish is interesting and cute. I like how they put lor, lah and sia at the end of sentences. I watch so much Singapore videos that I’m starting to say “Sia” at the end lol.

  • @GraceTanx3
    @GraceTanx3 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wah I really love this ep. Please come up with a new segment talking about relationships and advices!! Include Bolin inside also hahaha xD

  • @walaoeh_
    @walaoeh_ 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is so unexpectedly funny and interesting ! MORE PLS WITH THE SAME CAST

  • @hugonlyme
    @hugonlyme 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    BOLIN I LOVE YOUUUUU

  • @raudhahmendes2745
    @raudhahmendes2745 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    when bolin sang 'one call away' iCOULDNT HOLD MY LAUGHTER ANYMORE JAJAJAJAJJAA

    • @raudhahmendes2745
      @raudhahmendes2745 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Bolin Chen it was so unexpected HAHAHAHA

  • @charisseyl
    @charisseyl 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I super love watching TSL vids when bolin is inside. DAMN FUNNY! u made my day man! hahahaha! Please appearin more videos!

  • @Koillei
    @Koillei 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Need more Bolin. So funny!

  • @lavagal1244
    @lavagal1244 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You should have jade rasif on your channel for this topic. She will give very interesting answers

  • @adrianphung3615
    @adrianphung3615 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Enjoying this video from Malaysia. Good stuff TheSmartLocal. Keep it up. All pairs are very interesting especially Bolin and Charmaine.

  • @snowman99ful
    @snowman99ful 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'd love a part 2 of this! BoSew is life

  • @ThatTashaNasir
    @ThatTashaNasir 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    We all need a friend like Bolin.

  • @aaricpoon6381
    @aaricpoon6381 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Bolin looks like he had been cheated on many times😂

  • @warzone147
    @warzone147 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    wow after this video , being single aint that bad at all. Not too many things to think about, free and easy

  • @daniell8580
    @daniell8580 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Just watched this video & I found most of your stuffs are interesting. For this video specifically I'd like to say that it does help me see relationships in quite a different light especially when I used to have my first one before we broke up start of this year. Anyways, keep making that awesome content!

  • @2o1j3s
    @2o1j3s 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    “Am i not interesting enough for you” 😌 wtf you’re damn cute , funny and pretty lah you’re a perfect circle sia 😌

  • @skyboy1988
    @skyboy1988 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Bolin's explanation very concrete and full of persuasive that it is so funny..

  • @leechong2291
    @leechong2291 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    To our dearest Renae: pls forget ur ex n find someone worthy for U🙏🙏

  • @geraldmoncano
    @geraldmoncano 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Xenia: Single very single
    fauzi: Am i a joke to you?

  • @sohsaraaa
    @sohsaraaa 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Sew: this like piak in your face
    Bolin: oww wtf
    Sew: 其实...
    Bolin: uh
    Sew: 我是背着我的前男友跟你在一起的,让后我跟他分手. 你还要我吗?
    Bolin: 要
    HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHA IM DED

  • @rizell2004
    @rizell2004 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You all are so cool and funny! 👍😂😂 Came across this video and totally love it! Keep up the good work! 👍😄

  • @yxinz
    @yxinz 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The girl with ash hair has so much wisdom and maturity. NO PLATONIC FRIENDSHIP ONE OKAY

  • @GavinMiracle
    @GavinMiracle 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Just can't stop replaying Bolin and Sew jokes! xD

    • @GavinMiracle
      @GavinMiracle 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Bolin Chen Yea man HAHAHAHAHA 😂 PIAK PIAK HAHA

  • @amberho2096
    @amberho2096 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Bolin is soooo aggressive & real I LOVE IT HAHAHAHAJAJJAHAHAHA

  • @takoyakix3
    @takoyakix3 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wah this Bolin and Sew.... IM ON THEIR TEAM MAN! HIGH FIVE GUYS OMG

    • @takoyakix3
      @takoyakix3 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bolin Chen HAHAHAHAH HIGH FIVE!!!! ✋🏻

  • @dorisgan2171
    @dorisgan2171 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    you know primary sch people are starting to date and then it actually HURTS when u break up then he likes another person. thats what is happening to me.

  • @GSquadAgent
    @GSquadAgent 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I feel that some of these questions are so specific that it won't ever happen in reality...but still a good way to get minds going for some advisory

  • @geraldineang2139
    @geraldineang2139 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Gg Bolin is so funny omg

  • @lyw5345
    @lyw5345 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wah hearing Sew say "in a LDR for 3 weeks out of 3 years" really puts time into perspective, just came from the ZULA LDR video where she said that the LDR was ending soon. Made me realise how fast time passes 😭

  • @fee604
    @fee604 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Bolin and Sew highkey made me laugh sia, stomach damn pain now

  • @还没出绝招
    @还没出绝招 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Producer: What is your current relationship status?
    Xenia: SINGLE, VERY SINGLE
    Hurt someone with the truth, but never make them happy with a lie

    • @chappali38
      @chappali38 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      What u mean?

  • @2801km
    @2801km 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Bolin is ME whenever someone asked me about relationships advice when they knew i'm SINGLE 😂 cast him more for Singaporean Try!!

    • @2801km
      @2801km 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Bolin Chen i bet if we both were to give advices, i bet it'll be the bomb

  • @ryuzuko1863
    @ryuzuko1863 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    PART TWO PLS I LOVE THISSS

  • @ancillalarasati4262
    @ancillalarasati4262 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Bolin and Sew ahahahaha I cant stop laughing at those two AHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
    And I wonder why is Bolin still single while he is super funny ahaha

  • @bchuayilong
    @bchuayilong 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    THEY BOTH IN ROOM PIAK PIAK THEN THE FRIEND OUTSIDE EAT THE MAGGIE MEE HAHAHAHA WTFFF DIEDED

  • @ninapalany8537
    @ninapalany8537 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Bolin killed me

  • @shintayu101
    @shintayu101 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    BOLIIIIIINNNN.......LOVEEEEE HIM!!!

  • @713idontknow
    @713idontknow 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Legendary Bolin + Sew.

  • @davhooper1710
    @davhooper1710 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I would say 90% of us much agree with Bolin...

  • @mythsiprototype1739
    @mythsiprototype1739 5 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    I didnt know xenia is single

    • @megaredkentadate9834
      @megaredkentadate9834 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She wants a rich man....apparently Thomas K is not rich enough for her LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    • @bzb85
      @bzb85 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Go watch her on zula; there’s a whole story abt it

  • @awerrabella
    @awerrabella 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    mah god y’all trending 👑

  • @eeniminiminimo
    @eeniminiminimo 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    since when did xenia become single?

  • @Matthew-zp1zo
    @Matthew-zp1zo 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bolin is that one friend that tells you what you need to know not what you want to know

  • @krislovey4685
    @krislovey4685 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Bolin and sew are DAMN FUNNY !!!!

  • @fpeople1975
    @fpeople1975 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    bolin deserves all the love in this world :(

  • @audthepotato1134
    @audthepotato1134 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    More of Bolin AND Sew PLSSS

  • @TheJournalClubSG
    @TheJournalClubSG 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I love Bolin like its so entertaining to watch HHAHAHAHAHA

    • @TheSmartLocal
      @TheSmartLocal  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      he is equally entertaining in the office :D

  • @Jessica-ze7lj
    @Jessica-ze7lj 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    It's always the 'I trust you but i don't trust her' hahaha same tho

  • @aidokoga
    @aidokoga 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    honestly, the biggest reason i broke up with my ex is because he was too untrusting to me to even ask me about the facts, and jumped to the conclusion that i was borderline cheating on him with my best guy friend.

  • @david50b1
    @david50b1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I dont know why but now there is many ships that i would like tsl to have more ships!!!

  • @kyjellykoh2930
    @kyjellykoh2930 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I LOVE BOLIN OMG, HIS OPINIONS ARE SO TRUE

  • @winnielarh7833
    @winnielarh7833 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    bolin is my spirit animal eh........... laugh until i tear sia HAHAHAHAHA

  • @ieliang
    @ieliang 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Haha the ending is so funny. Sew is too cute.

  • @mkmk-po3yh
    @mkmk-po3yh 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Omg I love bo Lin's energy!

  • @horololosquid9309
    @horololosquid9309 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    "you cannot un-virgin someone"
    This video is recommended and I like it

  • @cameylim2512
    @cameylim2512 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I freaking love bolin and sew Hahahaha

  • @heohyunjoonuh4423
    @heohyunjoonuh4423 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    bolin's aggressiveness is highkey such a mood

  • @Prankzterstarr
    @Prankzterstarr 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Qn: what about people that gave you the illusion that you are exclusive or even together. like always hang out with you, 1 on 1. fetch you places, buy you stuff, practical like two siamese twins but then told you sometime later that s/he interested in another common friend? this one how to accept? how?

  • @foxedrose
    @foxedrose 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Bolin is so hilarious! 😂

  • @ライオン-c7m
    @ライオン-c7m 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You should make the ones who are single have a partner example: xenia and rainier

  • @mk-qp9sf
    @mk-qp9sf 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    bolin is a whole mood

  • @des883
    @des883 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    1:53 I just had a bad day cause my boy cousin 10 months older than me hit me with a cane cause I was in his room and he wanted to sleep and I told him to wait but he couldn't wait it's painful there's a mark on my hand :'(