It may not be "nice". But I remember what she said. That Rachel may not have married Barry, but she married hers. She's unhappy and gave up her happiness for comfort and luxury. And she thought that was the better option, so she taught her kids that. Seeing Rachel struggle AND succeed, it showed she could be wrong. Living in an unhappy marriage isn't self-less. It's toxic.
Well, you gotta own your mistakes. Take the responsibility. You wanna leave? Fine. But you don't have to act inappropriately. Rachel didn't go to smoke pot, find out what's new in sex and do another reckless stuff after leaving "her" Barry. She owned it to Barry, her family and her friends, got a job, a place to live and start taking control of life, even though with mistakes. Now her mom didn't even talk to her husband, Rachel has the greatest point there.
@@user-ck5rh4ky6u True, but her mom is older. More than likely it's not born out of excitement of freedom, but excitement at trying to have the youth she never got to experience since she was the "proper wife". I agree, she definitely needs to reel it in. But it's an understandable, though... uncomfortable part of her decision.
@@vivekp4854 Nope. And that's a good thing. Being nice to each other is the bare minimum for human interaction. In the same way that just staying fit and supportive isn't enough for women, having money and being a provider isn't enough for men. If relationships are built on the extraneous perks, then there's nothing in the actual relationship. It's hollow. It can be fun if everyone's okay with that, but it's not the best if you're looking for long term.
True, Leonard gets a lot of well deserved scorn for spoiling his daughters. But Sandra also permitted his toxic behaviour, and pressured the girls into marrying for money and comfort, not for love.
Its because it's really hard to get out a mentality of your era that you were raised with, your parents practiced, society practiced and then you practiced. There was no alternative for her. But Rachel broke the cycle and she finally saw the other option.
Honesty, dedication to a promise declared before witnesses, is inspiring, empowering, beautiful. But, sadly, sometimes, you have to break promises. But every time you do, you die some.
I know many women who married for money and the security more than for love. They're led to believe that having a husband, a house, kids, etc. leads to happiness. But, they're still not happy, and the kids ultimately suffer for it😢
I agree with Chandler, technically it was Rachel's fault because running out on her wedding triggered the domino effect by causing her parents to get divorced
2:19 - Ummm, with that kind of dicing, we are supposed to believe that Monica is a chef? Do you think Courtney Cox could have studied AT ALL to prepare for playing a chef? Pathetic.
Penny's making a huge mistake. Rachel was at least sure she wanted to make something of herself, but Penny seems like she's not passionate enough to work for anything, in any field, up to 65...
Doctors are only rich if their in the medical industry for like 2 decades. New doctors who just graduated arent rich cos the pay is low. Callcenter agents earn more than them. So if ur gonna marry a doctor, pick the old ones those are the ones highly paid.
1:35 well every other Western woman att tried to (and most white women loved it)... *The Rachel...* ... and this whole episode made me feel bad for the whole family.
It may not be "nice". But I remember what she said. That Rachel may not have married Barry, but she married hers.
She's unhappy and gave up her happiness for comfort and luxury. And she thought that was the better option, so she taught her kids that.
Seeing Rachel struggle AND succeed, it showed she could be wrong. Living in an unhappy marriage isn't self-less. It's toxic.
Well, you gotta own your mistakes. Take the responsibility. You wanna leave? Fine. But you don't have to act inappropriately. Rachel didn't go to smoke pot, find out what's new in sex and do another reckless stuff after leaving "her" Barry. She owned it to Barry, her family and her friends, got a job, a place to live and start taking control of life, even though with mistakes. Now her mom didn't even talk to her husband, Rachel has the greatest point there.
@@user-ck5rh4ky6u True, but her mom is older. More than likely it's not born out of excitement of freedom, but excitement at trying to have the youth she never got to experience since she was the "proper wife".
I agree, she definitely needs to reel it in. But it's an understandable, though... uncomfortable part of her decision.
Barry seems to be a good guy, so a good average guy with enough money is not enough.
@@vivekp4854 Nope.
And that's a good thing.
Being nice to each other is the bare minimum for human interaction.
In the same way that just staying fit and supportive isn't enough for women, having money and being a provider isn't enough for men.
If relationships are built on the extraneous perks, then there's nothing in the actual relationship. It's hollow. It can be fun if everyone's okay with that, but it's not the best if you're looking for long term.
@@user-ck5rh4ky6u And what? She can do whatever she wants, she doesn't live under misogynistic Russia.
"I'm dicing,I'm dicing,I don't hear anything" 😅😅
2:47 this is the best line in this entire show, my opinion.
Agree...
True, Leonard gets a lot of well deserved scorn for spoiling his daughters. But Sandra also permitted his toxic behaviour, and pressured the girls into marrying for money and comfort, not for love.
Yeah, literally made for each other.
Its because it's really hard to get out a mentality of your era that you were raised with, your parents practiced, society practiced and then you practiced. There was no alternative for her. But Rachel broke the cycle and she finally saw the other option.
I played that part on repeat. Each single time, my heart breaks the same way.
wow the last line really broke my heart... 💔
Yeah it was really heartbreaking
Monica's timing hahaha
0:51 I think I just heard Lisa laughing
Me too
The way Phoebe said😂
"lesbian wedding, chicken breast"
Hahahahhahaha
Lol Rachel's mom was the only woman in America who didn't copy Rachel's haircut
Guess I am the only one who feels bad for Dr Greene. To find out he was nothing but a provider she used until she no longer needs him.
and u dont feel bad for sandra where she was actually forced to marry him simply because thats the norm of the society as a woman
Dr Greene is aggressive and cantankerous, look at how he yells at people, the lady had to live with him, anyone would want to run away from him
Lol..... this comment is the perfect example of male privilege and patriarchy.....
@@gaurynair7639whatever excuse you wanna give yourself lol
"What's new in sex?" is one of the best lines ever.
1:03-1:12 HELLOOOOO?!!! Rachel, that’s one of the biggest signs right there!
I will always love " That Girl " !☺
2:41-2:53 In other words, Rachel-GET A CLUE!!!!
I always laugh when watching friends video... But this one got me to cry...
Lol Chandler's last line was savage
Honesty, dedication to a promise declared before witnesses, is inspiring, empowering, beautiful.
But, sadly, sometimes, you have to break promises. But every time you do, you die some.
Marlo Thomas....That Mom❤
Yes the mother is Marlo Thomas.
The last line😢😢
Rachel should be more understandable to her mom though.
You should understand Rachel more
I know rachel isn't a saint but why do you people always make rachel seem like the bad guy in every situation? she is not that bad
The last line is so sad ☹️
1:55 that line killed me 😂😂
0:46 that IS in fact, really cute 😍
1:58
Rachel: What the hell mom
Monica: The hell I just heard?
I know many women who married for money and the security more than for love. They're led to believe that having a husband, a house, kids, etc. leads to happiness. But, they're still not happy, and the kids ultimately suffer for it😢
No concern for the man who was manipulated into thinking he is loved but was only used? The usual I guess.
Thank God, there's no Christopher Bingham here
“So, what’s new in sex?”
Wat is this comment section
Thank god i wasn't the only one
@@shrutikoli7174 nah sis we all here
They are making TBBT jokes that I don't get.
PURGATORY
I dont get it either
I agree with Chandler, technically it was Rachel's fault because running out on her wedding triggered the domino effect by causing her parents to get divorced
1:36 couldn't she just copy my haircut?
Did Jennifer Aniston made a jab at that famous “haircut” at 1:36 ?
More than likely….she hated that haircut
It was named, THE RACHEL
I blame Penny personally. The way she treats Leonard is almost certainly why these two are splitting up.
TBBT
I deadass thought my yt page was glitching and i got the wrong comment section 😹😭
@@LunaAngu Same
Hahahaha. Naughty.
"You Didn't marry your Barry honey, I did.
Everyone will be unhappy with Rachel's dad.
Her mother is totally not right when telling all this stuff to Rachel
Episode number?
She doesn't look bad in those Asian dresses.
It's called qipao.
WARIOO CHEATSS
Oh u guys are finally moving out I'll have the stuff u came with ready for u
2:19 - Ummm, with that kind of dicing, we are supposed to believe that Monica is a chef? Do you think Courtney Cox could have studied AT ALL to prepare for playing a chef? Pathetic.
disgusting thing to say about someone you married. how dare she live such a lie
🤣🤣
I can't believe women marry men they don't love just because they are doctors...it's not like they gonna their husbands qualifications 🤪
Its the financial security and social respectability that comes with being a doctor, i guess.
Penny's making a huge mistake. Rachel was at least sure she wanted to make something of herself, but Penny seems like she's not passionate enough to work for anything, in any field, up to 65...
And some men marry for looks so..
Doctors are only rich if their in the medical industry for like 2 decades.
New doctors who just graduated arent rich cos the pay is low. Callcenter agents earn more than them.
So if ur gonna marry a doctor, pick the old ones those are the ones highly paid.
@@antithoughtpolice7497
Rachel's mom is called Sandra, not Penny. The comment you saw before was a joke.
What.
Yeah ..
Though I did not watch the show, I always knew Rachel was a total b-tch for not considering everybody else's feelings ...
watch the show before passing judgements
The mom was a total bitch for saying this stuff to rachel and people act like the other main characters were saints
1:35 well every other Western woman att tried to (and most white women loved it)... *The Rachel...*
... and this whole episode made me feel bad for the whole family.
Feminism smh
Divorce is a sin
She was being very irritating though.
I hope you are talking about the mom and not rachel
marlo thomas ????