I'm glad my nikah was simple, me and my wife are listening to this. And she's just smiled at me and said Masha Allah, I replied the same. I wonder when she will realize I'm just a tight wod ;D
Wallahi the ending is just what I needed to hear alhamdulillah. In Sha Allaah when it's my time I shall approach my parents just how the Shaykh has advised in the end.
SubbahanAllah everytime I listen lecture/talk about marriage according to Islamic way I get so happy and optimistic but unfortunately it seems like very hard to find a family or a bride who would be happy to get married with following Sunnah WAllahi it's a very sad situation May Allah forgive us All and protect us from wrong doing Amin!!
I heard of one sister who, for her dowry, made her husband to be to memorize a certain portion of the Qur'an. On the day of their nikah, he recited the portion in front of her and a shaykh (and whoever else was there), and after he finished they got married. =)
This is a very educating lecture! I Inshallah I hope to have a sunnah wedding in the future and not be tempted to have a cultural wedding like most people do these days.
i have reached a marriageable age and i m afraid my folks are not going to go for the Sunnah wedding though it appeals me more than the Cultural Wedding..
Negative comments are because the truth hurts! My nikkah was in Madina Shareef Alhamdulillah. I was a made up bride in front of my mehrams and my pictures are private etc even though I wore hijab. So sisters put ALLAH swt first not people Insh' ALLAH Protect yourself from the bad eyes and evil nazr
"blessed is a wedding wich does not entail any financial burdens" - Prophet MOHAMMED [peace be upon him] sunnah weddings are best, may ALLAH all give usall these inshaALLAH Ameen
For South Asian men we must satisfy the religious Islamic demands, femenist philosophy demands, Desi culturals demands of a woman to get married. Marriage has become impossible.
Alhamdulilah I got married on my own terms and followed just what is sunnah. I only cared my rabb , not what people will think . My childhood story of a man, his son and the donkey was very useful in real life. When they went to sell the donkey how different people had different opinions.
salaam yes very true i'm passing for a hard moment right now where the sister she wanna marry me and she told her parents that she will not marry nobody else than me she was crying but her dad insist in merry her with other man and i asked her hands already first than the other man and i give him my imam number phone to contact him and ask about me but well she is sad i'm sad but alhamdolillah everything come from Allah our creator and i know behind all this something Good will come because my lord don't lets us alone.
I will have a simple marriage and spend the money I couldve spent on the wedding on making my wife happy and saving up for hadsch inschallah I hate such a waste of money on marriages tbh
Assalmu Alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh. I have a question in regards to other things that happen during the Nikkah/wedding. Such cake cutting, rings, and especially Photography what are the rulings on those. In terms for Photography, Let's say for example if the Nikkah is done in only the Sunnah way is it still permissible to take photos if everything is still segregated. Hope that question makes sense. Jazak'Allahu khair
In culture Dowry is demanded by boy's family and is given by girl's family.Thus causing emotional and economic pressure... But In Islam Dowry is given by boy's family to the girl in form of Mehr(gift).And Curse be on those who say Women are treated Interior in Islam. Further So many mairrages break because of lack of money and difinitely following Islamic mairrage is the solution. Further in so many customs Girls aren't asked whether they like the boy or not.But Islamic mairrage can't be done unless both like each other. Further there is a lot more...
Girl's people are often helpless. Prospective groom should declare " No bidah, no lunch or dinner from girl's side, only nikah and walima as per financial position of boy, no loans for big bidah wedding." All customs and rituals are designed to defy Allah who forbids putting expenditure on girls and the customs seek to put huge expenditure on girls.
may Allah bless this man. Its so true the advise he gives at that end. On my conditions. Because I did that I cut down on 85% of the usual cultural bullshit that is unislamic. Unfortunately I couldn't go all the way they crept some cultural stuff in
Imams or people who do nikkah's should have their terms too- create a committee - you should refuse to attend haram customised events, including ones where the music is switched off just for the imam but not for Allah.
loool so true.i think the girls should be given wear dress of her own chouce on the wedding day.i regret so many things on my wedding which i didnt want.the elders organized everything.i hate wasting money.
When a Muslim learns Tawhid, have knowledge of Allah his Names and attributes and his Majesty, people will not dare to step out of line. Subhaan Allah what has come of this Ummah faykh shaykhs are running the Ummah
injustices + such topics are all addressed in Islam simultaneously. Never in the history of Islam have the scholars abandoned the talks on marriage, friendship, kindness, etc etc just because people are being killed. All issues are addressed properly and simultaneously. Btw, food for thought: because of the abandonment of such issues, increase in westernization, and the increase of evils all over the Muslim lands are the main reasons why massacres are occurring in the first place.
Walahi Shaykh,all that glittering on the weddings is of no need, when Islam teaches modesty which is a branch of faith. Don't they feel any remorse while doing that around miskeen,needy right next to them. I am pro modest Nikkah. Those who opt for grandiose Nikkah must not be shy and fear the evil eye.
Brothers & sisters quick question.. Is it sunnah just to have nikah and walima?? is there no such thing as a wedding day really? just a nikah and walima? someone shed some light insha'Allah
Sheiks can wear the same clothes nobody will say a word in case he makes a negative pray 50k madness which guest out of the 300 are gonna help pay the rent, bills or mortgage after marriage? Nobody! but make sure you for the rest of your life invite all these guests over to your home at your expense
Whoever thinks about Islam, thinks about homosexuality. The Islamic cultures are known for their love relationships between men and men and boys. I am convinced that if the Prophet Muhammad would still live, he would marry homosexual couples. "
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I'm glad my nikah was simple, me and my wife are listening to this. And she's just smiled at me and said Masha Allah, I replied the same. I wonder when she will realize I'm just a tight wod ;D
Lol.... My husband is probably one also brother 😂
It would be interesting to you know if you're bengali or not? Lol
If only every wedding could be done in the sunnah way. May Allah guide all of us. Ameen
Wallahi the ending is just what I needed to hear alhamdulillah. In Sha Allaah when it's my time I shall approach my parents just how the Shaykh has advised in the end.
SubbahanAllah everytime I listen lecture/talk about marriage according to Islamic way I get so happy and optimistic but unfortunately it seems like very hard to find a family or a bride who would be happy to get married with following Sunnah WAllahi it's a very sad situation May Allah forgive us All and protect us from wrong doing Amin!!
Ameen
I love how straight up and frank this shaykh is! Man u want to meet him now!!
I heard of one sister who, for her dowry, made her husband to be to memorize a certain portion of the Qur'an. On the day of their nikah, he recited the portion in front of her and a shaykh (and whoever else was there), and after he finished they got married. =)
tehtapemonkey marriage is farz ,memorising quran is sunnah or mustahab.so make marriage easy
salaam alaik thst was a beautiful example of mahr, shukraan
Marriage isn't fardh, and she said it was the girls dowry.
That’s smart of her because it’s good for her too when he manages to memorise that portion.
Imagine he is a hafiz of the quran 😏
This is a very educating lecture! I Inshallah I hope to have a sunnah wedding in the future and not be tempted to have a cultural wedding like most people do these days.
i have reached a marriageable age and i m afraid my folks are not going to go for the Sunnah wedding though it appeals me more than the Cultural Wedding..
Salamo alaykoum sister where are you from
Negative comments are because the truth hurts!
My nikkah was in Madina Shareef Alhamdulillah.
I was a made up bride in front of my mehrams and my pictures are private etc even though I wore hijab.
So sisters put ALLAH swt first not people Insh' ALLAH
Protect yourself from the bad eyes and evil nazr
you can go to hajj or umrah with those money they put in those weddings and you will keep money in your pocket for the hard times
Excellent Lecture from Shaikyh
JAZAKALLAH HU KHAIRUN
"blessed is a wedding wich does not entail any financial burdens"
- Prophet MOHAMMED [peace be upon him]
sunnah weddings are best, may ALLAH all give usall these inshaALLAH Ameen
Im going to show my family this, jazakallah khayr for uploading!
In Sha Allah I will make my Nikah simple. :)
subhanAllaah excellent advice,
start your marriage with the blesings of Allaah.
I have worn the same suite 6 different weddings. Now im gonna get it dry cleaned.
For South Asian men we must satisfy the religious Islamic demands, femenist philosophy demands, Desi culturals demands of a woman to get married. Marriage has become impossible.
Islam is nice, simple, and practical :)
Alhamdulilah I got married on my own terms and followed just what is sunnah. I only cared my rabb , not what people will think . My childhood story of a man, his son and the donkey was very useful in real life. When they went to sell the donkey how different people had different opinions.
i wish this lecture was in bengali/urdu/ for our parents
Love this Shaykh for the sake of Allah. So forward:)))))
Every time , man talks sense Alhamdulillah
Shiekh Has Spoken The Haq Loool!
MashAllah...Jazakallah hu kharun
inshaallah i will try do in mosque
mashallah ill try my best to make it simple inshallah!!
Mashallah keep good lecture keep up the good work..... Ignore the negatives they are nothing lost people fear only almighty.... Peace
salaam yes very true i'm passing for a hard moment right now where the sister she wanna marry me and she told her parents that she will not marry nobody else than me she was crying but her dad insist in merry her with other man and i asked her hands already first than the other man and i give him my imam number phone to contact him and ask about me but well she is sad i'm sad but alhamdolillah everything come from Allah our creator and i know behind all this something Good will come because my lord don't lets us alone.
Did it work out for you bro?
I will have a simple marriage and spend the money I couldve spent on the wedding on making my wife happy and saving up for hadsch inschallah
I hate such a waste of money on marriages tbh
very nice lecture... Youngsters should make a change now!!!!
Alhamdulilah! very true!
Many girls remain unmarried as they can't afford marriage expenditures. Allah will take Muslim men folks to task
"I DONT CARE" I like when the Shaykh said like that.. haha~
I just go to weddings to eat
Same😂
Assalmu Alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh. I have a question in regards to other things that happen during the Nikkah/wedding. Such cake cutting, rings, and especially Photography what are the rulings on those.
In terms for Photography, Let's say for example if the Nikkah is done in only the Sunnah way is it still permissible to take photos if everything is still segregated. Hope that question makes sense. Jazak'Allahu khair
This is very true, unfortunately.
Excellent! Beautiful!
jazakallahokhair
Subhanallah, but most girls expect a lot more these days
Allah rızası için bir arkadaş bu sohbetleri Türkçe alt yazıyla çevirebilir mi?
Please upload soon
MashAllah
Excellently explained
In culture Dowry is demanded by boy's family and is given by girl's family.Thus causing emotional and economic pressure...
But In Islam Dowry is given by boy's family to the girl in form of Mehr(gift).And Curse be on those who say Women are treated Interior in Islam.
Further So many mairrages break because of lack of money and difinitely following Islamic mairrage is the solution.
Further in so many customs Girls aren't asked whether they like the boy or not.But Islamic mairrage can't be done unless both like each other.
Further there is a lot more...
Girl's people are often helpless. Prospective groom should declare " No bidah, no lunch or dinner from girl's side, only nikah and walima as per financial position of boy, no loans for big bidah wedding." All customs and rituals are designed to defy Allah who forbids putting expenditure on girls and the customs seek to put huge expenditure on girls.
so true should do it in bangla, urdu so they can understand the sunnah ways of wedding.
may Allah bless this man. Its so true the advise he gives at that end. On my conditions. Because I did that I cut down on 85% of the usual cultural bullshit that is unislamic. Unfortunately I couldn't go all the way they crept some cultural stuff in
Definitely sis... Even i wish the same...
this is amazing!
no problem you can show them it and explain it to them, and back up the points with the hadiths
1000% true
where does the shaykh do the do the lectures ???
Insha Allah
when will the full video be uploaded Inshallah
Imams or people who do nikkah's should have their terms too- create a committee - you should refuse to attend haram customised events, including ones where the music is switched off just for the imam but not for Allah.
please i cant stop looking at that dent on the wall help me
Quote "I know and you know your not going to wear these clothes again because it is SHAME ON YOU to wear these clothes again"
loool so true.i think the girls should be given wear dress of her own chouce on the wedding day.i regret so many things on my wedding which i didnt want.the elders organized everything.i hate wasting money.
does anyone know where the full lecture
what a topic to discuss wile people are massacerd all over the place,
and if he talked about ppl massacred in palestine, you'd be saying what about burma... always one
When a Muslim learns Tawhid, have knowledge of Allah his Names and attributes and his Majesty, people will not dare to step out of line. Subhaan Allah what has come of this Ummah faykh shaykhs are running the Ummah
isnt walima supposed to be next day after the nikkah night ?
mashallah!
injustices + such topics are all addressed in Islam simultaneously. Never in the history of Islam have the scholars abandoned the talks on marriage, friendship, kindness, etc etc just because people are being killed. All issues are addressed properly and simultaneously.
Btw, food for thought: because of the abandonment of such issues, increase in westernization, and the increase of evils all over the Muslim lands are the main reasons why massacres are occurring in the first place.
Abbas ra said that the drum is haram but in wedding it’s sunnah, brothers im confused someone help me
He meant publicizing the valimah... Not the music
I think if Hindu men would give gifts (dowry) to the bride and bride's family, maybe the killing of baby girls would stop.
Urm, he said you have to wait three nights after having a walima. Iv never heard of this, is this a specific believe to a specific type of Muslim or?
Allah help us
He keeps saying its in a hadith.. But which hadiths my brother?
OMG at 10:34 SOO TRUEEEEEEE..
lol Mashallah.
Can someone explain how to differentiate betwewn something that is bi'dah and a 'custom' and an example.
Jzk
WhiteGuyPlays customs come from culture but it becomes a bida when they associate it with Islam
oh trust me i wish it was aswell
It can be done but nobody wants to which is the truth
14 likes on my comment so far Alhamdulilah, that tells us something lol
I had a hindu wedding. My Allah forgive me it wasn't my idea.
pls translate it to them.sis
hahah i love this!!
i found it
Us Turkish people we spend 30-40k dollars for wedding for one day lol i hate it
Walahi Shaykh,all that glittering on the weddings is of no need, when Islam teaches modesty which is a branch of faith. Don't they feel any remorse while doing that around miskeen,needy right next to them. I am pro modest Nikkah. Those who opt for grandiose Nikkah must not be shy and fear the evil eye.
mmm...you a carpenter, designer?
If django rage says what he has said then Allah will curse him please Nasar Mahmood don't swear at him as he will say more and you will get the Gunnar
Forgive me for the languge here but...WHY THE FUCK WOULD YOU MAKE A WEDDING FOR 70,625 US DOLLARS!!!!???? To me 10,000 (7,079 pounds) is to much.
MuslimNinjaAssassin
Cuz the intention isn't good. People want to show off their wedding. It sucks
MuslimNinjaAssassin You're impulsive
Nowadays there’s too much extravagance people take loans to make it a big day
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etc and any other language!
Brothers & sisters quick question..
Is it sunnah just to have nikah and walima??
is there no such thing as a wedding day really? just a nikah and walima?
someone shed some light insha'Allah
yeah but if u can afford it a wedding still a good thing because it gets everyone together
i wish it was in dutch haha
Soo TRUE!! haha
Sheiks can wear the same clothes nobody will say a word in case he makes a negative pray
50k madness which guest out of the 300 are gonna help pay the rent, bills or mortgage after marriage?
Nobody! but make sure you for the rest of your life invite all these guests over to your home at your expense
this sheikhs pretty cool.
and true. Muslims need to smarten up and stop all this cultural unislamic bullshit.
hhehee
Gunnah
😂😂😂
LOL
lol
Lol
Whoever thinks about Islam, thinks about homosexuality. The Islamic cultures are known for their love relationships between men and men and boys. I am convinced that if the Prophet Muhammad would still live, he would marry homosexual couples. "
Hassle Ali you are a joke, you need to learn your deen from the Ahlul Hadith and from Tawhid scholars not Taqlid scholars
Tanzila Hussain ur the joke mate! If you don't like his lectures don't watch it or comment. Go on watch ur scholars lectures.
Average Wahabi😂
Hasan Ali you are a joker preacher,
If Muslim learn Proper Tawhid they would not involved in this extravaganza
MashaAllah very gud talk