It’s one thing to ask for help during true extenuating circumstances like accidents or medical issues. These are helping to recover. But to rely upon others for unnecessary things is wrong.
I'd state that due to loans to family not being repaid, I am now unable to meet my mortgage payments. I here bye require the family to step up and cover my costs... 😂
There just comes a moment when you look at your life and realize you could have paid for the first half of your own home if you hadn't spent so many years throwing so much money down the family rat-hole. But to the fam, that realization invariably makes you selfish and greedy, and they accuse you of thinking you're better than or "above" them. 🥺🥺🥺🥺
@kathleenbrowne8738 Yeah, I agree. But how long are people willing to suffer for the convenience of others? I am one of those who has boundaries and once you crossed them, you are out of my life.
Good job on taking control of your life.
It’s one thing to ask for help during true extenuating circumstances like accidents or medical issues. These are helping to recover. But to rely upon others for unnecessary things is wrong.
You are their doormat ,you should have left ages ago .Never let people walk over you. Disown these vipers .
Block them .and don’t pick up the phone with an unknown number
I never answer calls from an unknown number. I'm not in an abusive relationship, but I set boundaries and keep to them.
I'd state that due to loans to family not being repaid, I am now unable to meet my mortgage payments. I here bye require the family to step up and cover my costs... 😂
There just comes a moment when you look at your life and realize you could have paid for the first half of your own home if you hadn't spent so many years throwing so much money down the family rat-hole. But to the fam, that realization invariably makes you selfish and greedy, and they accuse you of thinking you're better than or "above" them. 🥺🥺🥺🥺
sop was so weak and desperate she allowed this
Guy you took control of your life .
From Mark to Jamie
What happened to the end?
Change your phone number and get housing in another part of the city or in another town entirely.
You let them treat you like doormat
Boring
You were their enablers, it's all your fault for allowing your family's control of you. No sympathy and certainly not empathy.
Lol. When you're raised in a dysfunctional family, it can take years to recognize a toxic environment. Taking action requires strength.
@kathleenbrowne8738 Yeah, I agree. But how long are people willing to suffer for the convenience of others? I am one of those who has boundaries and once you crossed them, you are out of my life.