Met a dude off tinder and he took me to have sushi then afterwards kept trying to emotionally ramraid an invite into my house, while we were eating he casually mentions he just got out of the psych ward a few weeks ago.. anyway, there was no chemistry and he had to ask me for a hug then texts me "when we hugged it felt like we got married" when i said thanks for the date however i felt no chemistry on my end, he spams me with threats then told me the way my eyes were looking at him was misleading... long story short i ended up having to get a tresspass because he started calling, texting, stalking on socials then turning up hyperventilating outside my house. 💀 the kicker is after all that i got a final rant via text saying "f you I'm a nice guy i don't need all this drama" 😆
My experience with the "nice guy" actually happened when I was 18-19 years old. This guy was interested in me after finding my Instagram and got my snap and we were dming there. At the time of this happening, I was very shy when talking to other guys, since I've never truly talked to any guy that was openly interested in me, so a lot of what happened is a result of my shyness and my tendency to avoid conflict as much as possible. So he began sending me snaps and each snap was a photo of his muscles because he was a workout buff. I didn't really care, mainly because I am a personality girl and so far the guy hasn't given me anything to work with. So he kept sending me photo's of his muscles before I began noticing that the photo's were getting lower and lower each day. So I made it known that I was not looking to do anything and that I didn't want to see anything. He said no problem. Two "Slip up's" later, I am cussed out and he is blocked as a result of him not respecting my boundaries. I think it was more rough because he didn't believe I was a virgin as a black woman because I guess the expectations is that every black woman must have some sexual experience.
OMG!!! When I was a virgin, NO ONE BELIEVED ME! I have a whole backstory for this but it’s TMI.😂 but honestly it’s so sick as if being a virgin is really crazy… we’re all born that way.
I hate when "men" say "I don't want a woman with a high body count". But wants to do the deed on the first date. Like bruh it can't be both , choose one or the other 🤔😑🤡🤡🤡
My ex openly identifies as incel. I was mortified when he first said it but it was a matter of mere months until I was able to connect all the dots. He behaved exactly as described in this video. He believed sex was owed to him because of his appearance, his economic status and how much he 😮💨. He thinks that everyone who’s alone with him should essentially throw themselves at him and if not he will find a way to force the other person in a corner where they can’t refuse. That was me. He would constantly talk shit about himself but he’d say the most jarring shit about his appearance and his personality that would force you to think something positive to say to him. Then I was able to piece together all the passive aggression, racist nonsense and flat out abusive manipulation he was on. The epitome of pretty face bad character incelism.
I agree, all this bs behavior is the worst. But how do you combat that? Psychoanalize them? Like "aww that's so sad that you think that of yourself, I remember a time even I also struggled with that feeling" and then maybe even rambling on an on about your fake or real past insecure feelings and going into OVER-SHARE details to the point of annoying them and not letting them talk ✨politely✨ until they excuse themselves from the conversation? - basically just feign ✨ignorance✨ to realizing that they're trying to flirt? Or maybe just blankly stare at them and not with an almost fake "understanding" look and not saying anything until they say something different because awkward silences are gold! I've always struggled with social anxiety and being awkward and the awkward silence one has definitely worked for me even though I kinda did it on accident bc I hate lying about someone's attractiveness if I don't really think they're attractive but I also don't want to say nothing to have them feel bad, but almost always I used to end up saying nothing anyways because of my awkwardness and anxiety other that the "understanding" look and then they themselves would change the topic LOL
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You are SPOT ON. I've been happily married for 15 years and when my girlfriends tell me stories about their experiences I'm like nope...I couldn't, I wouldnt...I love your content. You're lovely and fantastic:) God Bless!
I think this same concept can be used for guys who catcall women on the street. They may think it’s a nice gesture but then when the woman obviously doesn’t see it the same way, they become disrespectful, usually calling her out of name and insulting her appearance.
Lmao "nice guys" complain about being nexted when women just don't want to date a man who has low self esteem and doesn't love himself. Being genuinely kind with boundaries and self respect is hotter than a guy who does anything and everything because he's desperate for ur approval and attention.
This is the story of my life. And don't forget the "you're so beautiful. I wish I could have a woman like you." I say I'm not interested then... "OH! So you're a lesbian? There's no way you wouldn't pick me!" (I am not a lesbian)
I remember this boy in college who was a pick me type and had a crush on me. He sometimes would offer me rides back home since I was a commuter student and I would agree since it was faster to get home than taking the bus. He took me out to lunch and I would even offer to pay my portion of the meal, but he wouldn’t let me. The boy even brought food to me at my PARENTS house - even though I told him not to because I didn’t want to get in trouble. (Most) Asian parents don’t play around when random boys are dropping things off for their daughter so I had a big talk with my dad later that day SMH I made it very know that I didn’t like him the way he liked me and I just wanted to focus on school from the very beginning. Even told him that he’s a great friend for all the things he did for me. He supposedly understood, but then come to find out, he was spreading rumors about me! He was saying how I used him for his money + car and that I was a gold digger. I was so shocked and disappointed, but I knew the truth and I had better things to worry about in college.
i feel like part of it is like when i was growing up i and other guys around me were always told a girl just wants a nice guy so it puts the idea into the minds of young men that a girl or person will want them based solely on the idea of them being nice and as they grow up and see not checked on that behavior or learn that kindness warrants nothing from anyone it makes them feel entitled to it
I made it here entirely by accident but I don’t think it was. I was just talking about this with one of my friends but I couldn’t quite put what I was feeling into words and this did it PERFECTLY! Nice guys ain’t really nice & a nice guy wouldn’t even say he was, he would just exist like every other person.😂 well put!! Also loving how the title is just “ew…” exactly.
i'm only 20 soon to be 21 but i've given up on using dating apps for now. mostly cuz of where i live. i live in the south so you can probably guess what kind of men are on dating apps
It's funny to me how these pick me boys will constantly use self-deprecation as a way to get more attention because that doesn't really work on someone like me due to my 'tism. Every time they do shit like that I either agree or shrug it off because I don't realize immediately that they're expecting me to disagree. It's one of the few things I like about my neurological condition because it shuts these guys down fast without me even realizing it. I have gotten threats from guys, but it doesn't really affect me the way they want it to because... I really don't have the emotional or mental capacity to care. Though despite this, I still get into relationships with even crazier people. Damned if I do, damned if I don't I guess.
Duuuuude! I used to give guys chances just based on them telling me how they are a 'nice guy' or by other people telling me that they are one and that was the *wrong* move. There is a difference in dating a genuine nice person and a 'nice guy.' The reason why I went for them is due to a lot of times I would allow them in my inner circle and I didn't wanted to seem like a bitch because I wasn't attracted to them. They usually ended up being on the same level if not worst than any fuckboi and treated me like utter shit once they knew that they had me, and then gaslight when they would try to entertain someone else while getting extremely jealous if another guy glanced in my direction. Then they would boast how they are such a feminist when they themselves tried to do the worst towards the person that they claim to be a s/o. Hell, my half sister, her half sister, and their friend all talked me into dating a 'nice guy' because they were tired of him getting them blackout drunk and him being on top of them and they thought that if he had a girlfriend that would stop him, but no, it didn't. They are still friends with him because he is a 'nice guy' but know exactly who he is and that's scary af.
I'm loving the videos and excited for this new start for you but (just my opinion) I really think you should work on the titles and editing (and maybe the thumbnails too) of your videos ?? I'm always confused on what it's supposed to be or what this channel is even supposed to be before and after i watch or see a video in passing on my recommended. It's probably just me though but yeah 😅 🤷🏽♀️
Loved this video!! LoL, I also went on a date with a guy that I met online a while back who didn't put his height on his profile. Girl, he was like 5 ft tall and no more than 100 pounds. 😂 I'm 5'6" and was a big girl at the time ~ he could have passed as my child if he had been black too. But he had a really nice sports car and was pretty cool and confident. We both did a mutual ghosting of each other after the date, thank god cause I used to be really bad at telling folks I wasn't interested in them. 😅 I don't mind dating someone shorter than me, but no shorter than 5'3", and definitely not short and skinny.
This guy I had a crush on for work, started basically telling me all the bad stuff that was going on in his life and how he broke up with his girlfriend. I gave him a ride home cause he was injured at the time. On the drive home he kept mentioning how he would be lonely since everyone at his house was out of town for the weekend 😑 I lost my interest
I find it interesting ppl who feel they are owed something for being nice or respectful. As one should be. The ting these guys don't understand is, it's nkt the fact that your nice or not. It's the confidence. The way you hold yourself.its not like in the movies. Ppp Luke nice guys, nobody wants a bad guy fr. Yes ppl are attracted to the " bad boys" because of their adventurous nature. But a lot of bad boys are actually very nice ppl. If u consider yourself a nice guy, than keep being a good person but carry yourself with confidence. That's what a lot of ppl find attractive. There's nothing wrong with being nice.but don't feel like ppl owe you something for it
Gurll I’m about to check for your social bc man do I have a screenshot 😂👌🏻👌🏻 Btw, def a personality girl, pansexual so I like all types of people, diversity is welcome so my dating pool has always been large lol but I’m always in long term relationships (last one was 19-26yrs old) and my new one might be my last 🥰 probably the sweetest most genuine guy ever, and he look nerdy af but that’s how I like it. And once I graduate, ye I’m bringing home the most 🍞 so that ain’t it either lol he’s just a keeper❤
I dated my man cause he looked like a said puppy. Then he said the first time he saw me I looked like I was going through some shit (which I was, but I hid it) now we are married and both act like children 😭
I'm not a personality girl either and my expressions will tell it all ( No Poker Face 🙄)! I stand 5'9 and I don't like short dudes! What does it look like me bending down kissing you 🤨! My husband is 6'2, I love a man with height! You can't even put heels on with a short guy, if yall are going out. I just can't do it! 🤔🤨🙄😄😄
So what I'm understanding is you dislike men with a good personality? As long their 6 feet or damn near the size of building is what matters most, I mean congratulations on having a tall husband, but I don't know... that seem rude to the short kings out there, I like seeing tall women and short men together I think they're cute as long their relationships is happy and healthy is what matters most, but I think if a guy only has height and zero personality is a waste of a man
@Poppi Lu having a good personality doesn't mean they're entitled to a relationship. If she likes tall men, she shouldn't force a relationship with a short guy just because he's decent. Obviously there are guys with good personalities that are also tall.
@@poppilu5532 No need to criticize her preferences/ type. When it comes to dating, it's best to date people who youre compatible/vine with than those who aren't. It's a waste time to entertain someone who want you
@@puppyprincess2822 One you took what I said out of context, everyone is allowed to have preferences, what I'm not understanding about Shaq comment, was how can you not like personality despite height, Obviously a good personality doesn't Equal dating that person. Just means that person inside is a cool soul,
@@125loopy You took what I said out of context and that's fair, If she likes Tall men kudos, I'm not forcing anyone to do anything nor do I have that power lol.... everyone is allowed to have preferences. BUT I believe the inside matter most than the outside. If someone just has height and no substance that's a waste of height. Because at the end of the day it's those two people soul connecting. Same goes for a short man who has a shitty personality common sense just don't entertain that person, I just don't understand the statement "I don't do personality" so is Shaq saying she only cares about physical attraction? That's my question
Oh my. I went on a few dates with this man who pursued me for years. We had nothing in common and he had zero conversational skills but he was always willing to take me out. We would sit at the restaurant table in silence. I would drive all conversations. He wouldn’t share about where he was in his dating life or what he wanted and his justification was he didn’t believe in opening up about his past relationships and he’d tell me later - yet he wanted to be together and get the benefit of touching me. One time he drove me nowhere and he said to me “I don’t wanna do anything to lose you” sir how did we get here..then he asked to massage my feet I said no respectfully. He skipped so many processes and I hardly knew him yet he expected me to fall into a relationship with him. It was a strange experience. I suggested we try friendship to try and get to know him more and I hoped he’d loosen up. He got resentful and refused. It’s like he expected his “niceness” to reap him a relationship. It’s like he didn’t realise to get there you need to enjoy each other, talk, laugh, engage, connect - it was transactional for him. Wild.
Goodness, i literally just had that experience... I hated it but i didn't label the behaviour, he proceeded to insist that we go 'drinking'. self deprication is such a turn off, I'm not your mother dude
This guy who i thought was my friend since 9th grade has been liking me this whole time. He kept confessing to me even tho i told him i don’t like him like that. He’d say he’s fine to be friends with me and then turn around and confess again. When he had finally wore me down, he acted super obsessive. Yeah I cut him off and blocked him.
Since when?Lol don’t be delusion women have faced centuries of oppression and still face it now men will never know how it feels to be treated like a second class citizen based on their gender besides you’re probably not even a woman so who are you tell us what’s easy for us and what’s not? Don’t speak on what you don’t know and never experienced yourself.
Shut the fuck up you ignorant ass male. You know damn well its harder for women than it is for men. Men are the ones who claim women value go down after 30. Y'all are the ones that only go for looks and treat ugly girls like they're subhuman trash.
The dating pool these days is TRASH.. no more dates for a while lol. let me know you craziest "nice guy" or pick me boy story lol.
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Met a dude off tinder and he took me to have sushi then afterwards kept trying to emotionally ramraid an invite into my house, while we were eating he casually mentions he just got out of the psych ward a few weeks ago.. anyway, there was no chemistry and he had to ask me for a hug then texts me "when we hugged it felt like we got married" when i said thanks for the date however i felt no chemistry on my end, he spams me with threats then told me the way my eyes were looking at him was misleading... long story short i ended up having to get a tresspass because he started calling, texting, stalking on socials then turning up hyperventilating outside my house. 💀 the kicker is after all that i got a final rant via text saying "f you I'm a nice guy i don't need all this drama" 😆
@@M_Kru I'M SCREAMING RN!!! you've gotta be kidding me.. the last text though.. he said lemme add some pizzazz.. lol
@@M_Kru not him feeling like y’all were married to threaten you moments laterrrrrr
I got the classic “im not like all the guys u dated” speech
It’s so uncanny how practically every woman understands this phenomenon but the other side of the planet totally doesn’t or refuses to acknowledge.
My experience with the "nice guy" actually happened when I was 18-19 years old. This guy was interested in me after finding my Instagram and got my snap and we were dming there. At the time of this happening, I was very shy when talking to other guys, since I've never truly talked to any guy that was openly interested in me, so a lot of what happened is a result of my shyness and my tendency to avoid conflict as much as possible.
So he began sending me snaps and each snap was a photo of his muscles because he was a workout buff. I didn't really care, mainly because I am a personality girl and so far the guy hasn't given me anything to work with. So he kept sending me photo's of his muscles before I began noticing that the photo's were getting lower and lower each day. So I made it known that I was not looking to do anything and that I didn't want to see anything. He said no problem.
Two "Slip up's" later, I am cussed out and he is blocked as a result of him not respecting my boundaries. I think it was more rough because he didn't believe I was a virgin as a black woman because I guess the expectations is that every black woman must have some sexual experience.
OMG!!! When I was a virgin, NO ONE BELIEVED ME! I have a whole backstory for this but it’s TMI.😂 but honestly it’s so sick as if being a virgin is really crazy… we’re all born that way.
Girl same😂 not your same but ew meeting a "nice guy" is something I would not wish upon anyone.
I hate when "men" say "I don't want a woman with a high body count". But wants to do the deed on the first date. Like bruh it can't be both , choose one or the other 🤔😑🤡🤡🤡
"if you wanna talk shit, we gotta be eye level" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
When I tell you I am LOVING the content of this channel. Go ahead girl 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 2023 is. Your. Year.
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THIS TIMES A BILLION.
My ex openly identifies as incel. I was mortified when he first said it but it was a matter of mere months until I was able to connect all the dots. He behaved exactly as described in this video. He believed sex was owed to him because of his appearance, his economic status and how much he 😮💨. He thinks that everyone who’s alone with him should essentially throw themselves at him and if not he will find a way to force the other person in a corner where they can’t refuse. That was me. He would constantly talk shit about himself but he’d say the most jarring shit about his appearance and his personality that would force you to think something positive to say to him. Then I was able to piece together all the passive aggression, racist nonsense and flat out abusive manipulation he was on. The epitome of pretty face bad character incelism.
My jaw is on the FLOOR 😭
I'm stopping my Twilight audiobook for this lol
I'm honored lol I hope it's worth the interruption.
I never thought I'd be able to sit through a sit down video. I was begging for more when this ended
I agree, all this bs behavior is the worst. But how do you combat that? Psychoanalize them? Like "aww that's so sad that you think that of yourself, I remember a time even I also struggled with that feeling" and then maybe even rambling on an on about your fake or real past insecure feelings and going into OVER-SHARE details to the point of annoying them and not letting them talk ✨politely✨ until they excuse themselves from the conversation? - basically just feign ✨ignorance✨ to realizing that they're trying to flirt? Or maybe just blankly stare at them and not with an almost fake "understanding" look and not saying anything until they say something different because awkward silences are gold! I've always struggled with social anxiety and being awkward and the awkward silence one has definitely worked for me even though I kinda did it on accident bc I hate lying about someone's attractiveness if I don't really think they're attractive but I also don't want to say nothing to have them feel bad, but almost always I used to end up saying nothing anyways because of my awkwardness and anxiety other that the "understanding" look and then they themselves would change the topic LOL
The dating pool is just NOPE 😭😭😭 I want someone special, why is it so hard
your voice is so calming ans addictive 🤎❤
i've met to many " nice guys " who are just nice for something out of it.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂🤷🏾♀️🤦🏾🙅🏾♀️ PERrrrrrFeeeeCTly said ✌🏽☝🏽🤎🖤🌿 togetherness makes sense to stand firm morals and principles on point 👉🏾 PERIODT togetherness makes sense 💃🏽 HALLL'LA 😂🤣😂🤣😂 blessings to you and your boy's San Fernando Valley Tujunga California USA appreciate you sharing and caring
You are SPOT ON. I've been happily married for 15 years and when my girlfriends tell me stories about their experiences I'm like nope...I couldn't, I wouldnt...I love your content. You're lovely and fantastic:) God Bless!
I think the craziest fact about the incel movement...is that it was started by a woman with the complete opposite message
I think this same concept can be used for guys who catcall women on the street. They may think it’s a nice gesture but then when the woman obviously doesn’t see it the same way, they become disrespectful, usually calling her out of name and insulting her appearance.
Shoulda told him you don’t like men with a short temper 😂 the only thing closer to the ground than him was his self esteem.
Damn 💀💀
he would've died on the spot
Cerose I'm feeling your lip color. 💜 Finna watch, just finished dinner perfect timing 😄
Lmao "nice guys" complain about being nexted when women just don't want to date a man who has low self esteem and doesn't love himself.
Being genuinely kind with boundaries and self respect is hotter than a guy who does anything and everything because he's desperate for ur approval and attention.
If anything the nice guy and "alpha male" tropes help make the red flags larger
This is the story of my life.
And don't forget the "you're so beautiful. I wish I could have a woman like you."
I say I'm not interested then...
"OH! So you're a lesbian? There's no way you wouldn't pick me!"
(I am not a lesbian)
As soon as I heard, "The 'Nice Guy Trope," I immediately understood the title of the video. xD
I remember this boy in college who was a pick me type and had a crush on me. He sometimes would offer me rides back home since I was a commuter student and I would agree since it was faster to get home than taking the bus. He took me out to lunch and I would even offer to pay my portion of the meal, but he wouldn’t let me. The boy even brought food to me at my PARENTS house - even though I told him not to because I didn’t want to get in trouble. (Most) Asian parents don’t play around when random boys are dropping things off for their daughter so I had a big talk with my dad later that day SMH I made it very know that I didn’t like him the way he liked me and I just wanted to focus on school from the very beginning. Even told him that he’s a great friend for all the things he did for me. He supposedly understood, but then come to find out, he was spreading rumors about me! He was saying how I used him for his money + car and that I was a gold digger. I was so shocked and disappointed, but I knew the truth and I had better things to worry about in college.
Good thing you have a great head on your shoulder. Sigh… hope you had better experiences, later on.
Cerose I just want to say, I love hearing you speak. You are so real and intelligent and I just think you're the coolest. Much love to u
i feel like part of it is like when i was growing up i and other guys around me were always told a girl just wants a nice guy so it puts the idea into the minds of young men that a girl or person will want them based solely on the idea of them being nice and as they grow up and see not checked on that behavior or learn that kindness warrants nothing from anyone it makes them feel entitled to it
I really enjoyed this video 👏🏾 not only did i learn something, i also laughed so much. So thank you for that 😂
I love this content ! And the editing >>>> keep doing you Cerose! This is exactly my niche too! Love it !
Yasss I agree Cerose as a Gay woman it's sad and even my community does this sigh folks were never taught right and cannot work on themselves
I made it here entirely by accident but I don’t think it was. I was just talking about this with one of my friends but I couldn’t quite put what I was feeling into words and this did it PERFECTLY! Nice guys ain’t really nice & a nice guy wouldn’t even say he was, he would just exist like every other person.😂 well put!! Also loving how the title is just “ew…” exactly.
i'm only 20 soon to be 21 but i've given up on using dating apps for now. mostly cuz of where i live. i live in the south so you can probably guess what kind of men are on dating apps
Love this!! Cerose spitting facts 💯
It's funny to me how these pick me boys will constantly use self-deprecation as a way to get more attention because that doesn't really work on someone like me due to my 'tism. Every time they do shit like that I either agree or shrug it off because I don't realize immediately that they're expecting me to disagree. It's one of the few things I like about my neurological condition because it shuts these guys down fast without me even realizing it. I have gotten threats from guys, but it doesn't really affect me the way they want it to because... I really don't have the emotional or mental capacity to care. Though despite this, I still get into relationships with even crazier people. Damned if I do, damned if I don't I guess.
Omg I love you.. I need you and Aba and preach crossover. That would make my day
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thank you for watching babe~
@@cerosecedoux1704 np! Bestie❤️💅
Duuuuude! I used to give guys chances just based on them telling me how they are a 'nice guy' or by other people telling me that they are one and that was the *wrong* move. There is a difference in dating a genuine nice person and a 'nice guy.'
The reason why I went for them is due to a lot of times I would allow them in my inner circle and I didn't wanted to seem like a bitch because I wasn't attracted to them. They usually ended up being on the same level if not worst than any fuckboi and treated me like utter shit once they knew that they had me, and then gaslight when they would try to entertain someone else while getting extremely jealous if another guy glanced in my direction.
Then they would boast how they are such a feminist when they themselves tried to do the worst towards the person that they claim to be a s/o. Hell, my half sister, her half sister, and their friend all talked me into dating a 'nice guy' because they were tired of him getting them blackout drunk and him being on top of them and they thought that if he had a girlfriend that would stop him, but no, it didn't. They are still friends with him because he is a 'nice guy' but know exactly who he is and that's scary af.
genuinely i am two videos in, made my boyfriend watch, and now we’ve both subscribed. your energy? a vibe.
I'm loving the videos and excited for this new start for you but (just my opinion) I really think you should work on the titles and editing (and maybe the thumbnails too) of your videos ?? I'm always confused on what it's supposed to be or what this channel is even supposed to be before and after i watch or see a video in passing on my recommended. It's probably just me though but yeah 😅 🤷🏽♀️
Loved this video!! LoL, I also went on a date with a guy that I met online a while back who didn't put his height on his profile. Girl, he was like 5 ft tall and no more than 100 pounds. 😂 I'm 5'6" and was a big girl at the time ~ he could have passed as my child if he had been black too. But he had a really nice sports car and was pretty cool and confident. We both did a mutual ghosting of each other after the date, thank god cause I used to be really bad at telling folks I wasn't interested in them. 😅 I don't mind dating someone shorter than me, but no shorter than 5'3", and definitely not short and skinny.
I love this vid so much 😂😂 THE WAY YOU WERE GOING AT HIM LMAOOAO “GROW UP” I love this channel smmm
This guy I had a crush on for work, started basically telling me all the bad stuff that was going on in his life and how he broke up with his girlfriend. I gave him a ride home cause he was injured at the time. On the drive home he kept mentioning how he would be lonely since everyone at his house was out of town for the weekend 😑 I lost my interest
nah fr why are men like this? Do they think we're stupid?
I tried to be a personality girlie, it flopped miserably. Like it ended in heartbreak for me. 13:59
I love your commentary
You verbalize wonderfully my thoughts and experiences
Gave the "nice guy" a chance and it was a huge mistake. Never again.
We've been broken up. We interact sometimes because we have a kid together. He still doesn't get that he isn't actually nice.
I find it interesting ppl who feel they are owed something for being nice or respectful. As one should be. The ting these guys don't understand is, it's nkt the fact that your nice or not. It's the confidence. The way you hold yourself.its not like in the movies. Ppp Luke nice guys, nobody wants a bad guy fr. Yes ppl are attracted to the " bad boys" because of their adventurous nature. But a lot of bad boys are actually very nice ppl. If u consider yourself a nice guy, than keep being a good person but carry yourself with confidence. That's what a lot of ppl find attractive. There's nothing wrong with being nice.but don't feel like ppl owe you something for it
Gurll I’m about to check for your social bc man do I have a screenshot 😂👌🏻👌🏻
Btw, def a personality girl, pansexual so I like all types of people, diversity is welcome so my dating pool has always been large lol but I’m always in long term relationships (last one was 19-26yrs old) and my new one might be my last 🥰 probably the sweetest most genuine guy ever, and he look nerdy af but that’s how I like it. And once I graduate, ye I’m bringing home the most 🍞 so that ain’t it either lol he’s just a keeper❤
I love your videos sm 🤗🤗🤗🤗
I dated my man cause he looked like a said puppy. Then he said the first time he saw me I looked like I was going through some shit (which I was, but I hid it) now we are married and both act like children 😭
Can you pleeeeeeease do a video on Skippy? I'd love your opinion on him and his whole scary dating history
I feel like I might be in this situation but idk somebody help a girl outtt 😭
Cerose i enjoyed ur contents these days sooo so much . Lots of love from India❤
I'm not a personality girl either and my expressions will tell it all ( No Poker Face 🙄)! I stand 5'9 and I don't like short dudes! What does it look like me bending down kissing you 🤨! My husband is 6'2, I love a man with height! You can't even put heels on with a short guy, if yall are going out. I just can't do it! 🤔🤨🙄😄😄
So what I'm understanding is you dislike men with a good personality? As long their 6 feet or damn near the size of building is what matters most, I mean congratulations on having a tall husband, but I don't know... that seem rude to the short kings out there, I like seeing tall women and short men together I think they're cute as long their relationships is happy and healthy is what matters most, but I think if a guy only has height and zero personality is a waste of a man
@Poppi Lu having a good personality doesn't mean they're entitled to a relationship. If she likes tall men, she shouldn't force a relationship with a short guy just because he's decent. Obviously there are guys with good personalities that are also tall.
@@poppilu5532 No need to criticize her preferences/ type. When it comes to dating, it's best to date people who youre compatible/vine with than those who aren't. It's a waste time to entertain someone who want you
@@puppyprincess2822 One you took what I said out of context, everyone is allowed to have preferences, what I'm not understanding about Shaq comment, was how can you not like personality despite height, Obviously a good personality doesn't Equal dating that person. Just means that person inside is a cool soul,
@@125loopy You took what I said out of context and that's fair, If she likes Tall men kudos, I'm not forcing anyone to do anything nor do I have that power lol.... everyone is allowed to have preferences. BUT I believe the inside matter most than the outside. If someone just has height and no substance that's a waste of height. Because at the end of the day it's those two people soul connecting. Same goes for a short man who has a shitty personality common sense just don't entertain that person, I just don't understand the statement "I don't do personality" so is Shaq saying she only cares about physical attraction? That's my question
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love that!!
Oh my. I went on a few dates with this man who pursued me for years. We had nothing in common and he had zero conversational skills but he was always willing to take me out. We would sit at the restaurant table in silence. I would drive all conversations. He wouldn’t share about where he was in his dating life or what he wanted and his justification was he didn’t believe in opening up about his past relationships and he’d tell me later - yet he wanted to be together and get the benefit of touching me. One time he drove me nowhere and he said to me “I don’t wanna do anything to lose you” sir how did we get here..then he asked to massage my feet I said no respectfully. He skipped so many processes and I hardly knew him yet he expected me to fall into a relationship with him. It was a strange experience. I suggested we try friendship to try and get to know him more and I hoped he’d loosen up. He got resentful and refused. It’s like he expected his “niceness” to reap him a relationship. It’s like he didn’t realise to get there you need to enjoy each other, talk, laugh, engage, connect - it was transactional for him. Wild.
HEYYY GURLLL😘❤
hi honey~
Wow this was so on point
Noti gang as always love to see ur videos
puuuurr noti gang gang~ love to see your comments!
I need all your notes on this. Please send the link.
Yup this is how we get into abusive narcissist relationship
Goodness, i literally just had that experience... I hated it but i didn't label the behaviour, he proceeded to insist that we go 'drinking'. self deprication is such a turn off, I'm not your mother dude
I like this video,thnx for opening my eyes ❤
Am loving this new content, l feel spoilt ☺️
My stupid African ex did that and I fell for it and I found him out quick and I broke up with him in November.🤗🥺😥
Living for the content on this channel
This guy who i thought was my friend since 9th grade has been liking me this whole time. He kept confessing to me even tho i told him i don’t like him like that. He’d say he’s fine to be friends with me and then turn around and confess again. When he had finally wore me down, he acted super obsessive. Yeah I cut him off and blocked him.
You look beautiful!
cerose is fr my goto channel when i’m about to eat some food
LOVE the Janis Joplin shirt Chica
There are Short kings
And then there are Short jokers
Choose wisely
YESSSS i'm loving this content!!!
Kindness coins! 🤣🤣🤣💀💀💀
I looooove me some clay Jensen tho!
heyyyy cerose🙂😄😄
hi cutie!
Saw this a month ago. Should’ve taken this as a sign😂, just broke up wt a nice guy.
No lies detected here
Hey Cerose Cedoux Sis🤗😇🖐🏾
Height doesn't really bother me but...teeth on the other hand do.
No teeth can be missing and no yellow please😂
Ma belle tu ne plus avec ton compagnon korean?
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I shouldve told him to grow up 🤣🤣🤣
You are looking good mama how are the boys?
Couldn't have said it better myself
I don't like pick me guys/trash men😎
Oh my goodness, why is this my ex🥴
You’re soooooo funny
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#shortkings lol!
Heyy ceroseee🤍❤️🤍
hi sweetie!
Ily but pls dont become a video essay channel 💀
Would you suggest what she can do though??
Shes funny asf tho 😭😭
Shoulda told him you “don’t like talking DOWN on people” 🫤🛼 and skated outta there
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hi honey~
Being a woman is easy, beauty standards for women are low
Since when?Lol don’t be delusion women have faced centuries of oppression and still face it now men will never know how it feels to be treated like a second class citizen based on their gender besides you’re probably not even a woman so who are you tell us what’s easy for us and what’s not?
Don’t speak on what you don’t know and never experienced yourself.
Shut the fuck up you ignorant ass male. You know damn well its harder for women than it is for men. Men are the ones who claim women value go down after 30. Y'all are the ones that only go for looks and treat ugly girls like they're subhuman trash.
You look beautiful!