Shannon Beador Tells Jeff Lewis John Janssen "Blindsided” Her | SiriusXM
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- Real Housewives of Orange County' star Shannon Beador tells Jeff Lewis about her breakup with boyfriend John Janssen and why she felt "blindsided."
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Shannon Beador Tells Jeff Lewis John Janssen "Blindsided” Her | SiriusXM
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Shannon seems like a genuinely kind woman. I hope she finds true lasting love in the future.
It is very sweet they also have the same birthday. Like soul twins. ❤
She's such a awesome woman, i hope she meets someone that loves her and isn't afraid to love such a lovely woman.
KEY WORD "SEEMS" LIKE A NICE PERSON.
IF HE OR THE RELATIONSHIP MEANT ANYTHING TO HER, SHE WOULD STOP PUTTING ALL THEIR PERSONAL BUSINESS OUT THERE! I GET SHE IS HURT BUT I FEEL LIKE SHE IS TRYING TO CREAT THIS NARRATIVE THAT HE IS BAD AND SHE IS A VICTIM. IF U TRULY LOVED HIM AND RESPECTED THE RELATIONSHIP, U GRIEVE, PROCESS AND MOVE ON. IF ITS TO MUCH, GO TO THERAPY! DO NOT TURN TO SOCIAL MEDIA! WHAT ARE U HOPING TO ACCOMPLISH? ITS NOT COOL.
@@brookwagner1493 Heartbreak is one of the most severe emotional pain, A human expirience. Under pain you will make a lot of "dum" choices, That you might look back at and think you should have perhaps done differently.
Though this does not really hurt anybody, And people will still have splitted opinions about their break up just as her and him....
Non celebs post their heartbreak...
And the fact that she probably do not even have completely "free will" on what she should share and not of her personal life , I dont think she is "bashing" the guy just explaining from her point of view which is fair.
It’s heartbreaking to see her so upset. I don’t care that she’s on a reality show she’s still a human. To see her like this is just so sad.
You don’t care that she is on a reality show, she’s still a person 😂😂😂 Glad you could get past it 😅
@@hallieshouse13 why is this funny to you seeing another human suffer? That’s not rational if you take enjoyment from this
@@thehillsarealivewiththesou8293 that's not what they said at all; did you actually read it that way or did you make a conscious choice to twist what they wrote to try and make them look bad and, if that's the case, was it because you didn't appreciate that they laughed at how you phrased your comment?
@@cathyannis83 I commented on something two months ago about a woman whose visibly upset and I showed empathy.
I’m British not American so don’t try to correct my grammar we may speak the same language but we phrase things differently.
@@thehillsarealivewiththesou8293 I’m British too, never mentioned your grammar.
My heart breaks for Shannon. Jeff, thank you for being a beautiful friend ❤
It’s lovely to see conversations deep like this
@@australiamyway 🤣🤣🤣
Agree ❤
Not trying to be rude but did Jeff do something to his face? Just wondering. And I’m praying for Shannon.
👍thank you Jeff!
I love Shannon, she’s been hurt so deeply she deserves to be loved and respected.
Totally agree!💯
I completely agree 💯 👍🏻
You are right 💯👍
I had a husband that did that to me.Then remarried to sneaky cheater.Men are dogs.Souless!
Of course- she needs to be picky from now in- felt bad for her
I feel bad for her cause she really thought she found true love. You can actually see and feel her pain. I wish her luck.
Oh Shannon, you deserve someone who treasures the love and tenderness you have to share. Sending you lots of positivity and healing energy.
Only God can do and give that,so pray to him with a sincire and open heart and he will heal her. ❤
I just want to say how much l love & adore Shannon! Since the moment she walked into the scene! So relatable! I HATE that she is having to survive heartbreak because thank God not everyone gets to experience true heartbreak! People think they have but I’m talking the kind that leaves you sick just trying to get through the hour trying to learn to live without your love! Sending her nothing but love, respect & prayers from TN! And please don’t let those evil ladies on the show gain from this because they will love it & use it against her! I hope that she don’t let Tamra Grudge con her again along with Emily & Gina!
Did one of her children die? That’s about the only reason to be that upset! After all,it’s just a show that she gets paid very well to be on!
Not everyone experiences true heartbreak to this degree? Sorry, but this is just not true. Everyone experiences true loss and deep pain at some point. It may not be specifically about a romantic relationship, but everyone experiences tremendous loss through death of loved ones, domestic violence, watching someone you love fall into addictions, being betrayed by family or someone you love and many, many other situations. That is just life and everyone will experience it at least once in their lives, if not multiple times.
Sunflower, you’re a very mean and disgusting human being. Heartbreak comes in many ways. I hope you don’t have to deal with it. Devastating! So sorry Shannon. A huge fan.
@@SingingInTheRainToo 💯% AGREE 🙏🏻 Your completely correct.
i adore Shannon and her life. She has had so many ups and downs and has taken them head on. She will survive because she is strong. Love will come to her. All the best Shannon.
My heart hurts for Shannon. Now is the time she needs TRUE FRIENDS, thank you Jeff for being a true friend
Love Jeff and Shannon’s friendship 💚
I know everyone has their opinions of Shannon but I feel so badly for her each and every time she has that difficult to talk cry. It always just seems like it’s her actual pain coming out in that moment. Certain people when they get upset like that just make me feel so badly
If what kelly and tamra said about shannon...how she would call at all hours and obsess over stuff. I'm sure she is difficult to date if her anxiety and loving doing the show
Did one of her children die? That’s about the only reason to be that upset!
@@michaelrichardi6047 call all hours and obsess over things sounds exactly why she would cry like this. She definitely feels every moment deeply good or bad. Probably also why she is cast as a housewife. Its all about holding nothing back. If you are pissed off at someone in the room, you are encouraged to confront it etc.
You’re not used to all her crying yet?
@@michaelrichardi6047 Tamra probably exaggerated some of that lol
I'm so sorry to hear this, Shannon. You do not deserve the pain. You know it will pass, not that hearing that helps right now, but it will. In the meantime, make yourself a priority. You are the most important.
Well said!
Aww Shannon, break ups are hard, especially when you seemingly go from one extreme to another. You got this girl! You deserve so much love & it's out there for you somewhere.
Just so horrible :( I feel your pain and I’m so sorry you’re going through this. It’s one thing to go through a breakup in private but another for it to be in public. I hope ppl are kind and understanding because this has to be devastating:( sending love and light
These men and women, primarily the women that are on the Real Housewives, have to realize that it is not healthy on their relationships. There is a lot of forced drama because that is what the network wants. And that drama trickles into their marriages/dating lives. Statistics are high on divorces occurring on or after the women are on the show. The RH is a toxic program. I am not shocked one bit on this break up.
Your exactly right!
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These women will do anything to be on TV and they obviously don’t care about how their man thinks, just look at the examples of Kenya’s husband Marc, or Dr. Jen’s husband Ryne, lots of the men were forced to be on camera by their wives even though they don’t want to, this is just sad (although there were men that wants to be on the show even more than their wives do such as Slade, Patricia, Joey, PK, or Angie Harrington’s husband😂)
Tamra and Eddie are still together. What's up with that?
Priorities of money/fame or close, loving, REAL relationships.
I loved when MJ was sweet to Shannon at the end. So kind . 😢
she didn't want to hear...she never does
MJ is special in that way. She adds some compassion to what otherwise is a runaway train wreck of a radio show.
Good to see mj love her too
I LOVE love love Shannon. Always have! I feel her pain. I just wanna hug her. She deserves the world. ❤️
Shannon is so awesome! Wish her nothing but the best, she deserves all ghe happiness in the world ❤
Shannon’s always been my favorite. Her and her daughters I wish nothing but the best for them! They deserve it !!
I love that Jeff and Shannon are friends
Shannon is my favourite housewife - I genuinely want her to be happy.
Same
Shannon, my story is so much likes yours. Married 24 yrs, 3 daughters - husband left, had 2 sons ( he ended up dying with his youngest son was 6 mo old ) ANYWAY I connected w/ a friend from HS and I fell head over heals - we were together for 5 yrs. I considered him my best friend/love of my life. We never lived together - BUT he was here so much I was ready to tell him he was here too much ( I work from home ) and then I find out he married someone else a few months prior (which was 4.5 yrs into our relationship ) I've never told my friends and family what happened and to this day am still angry and hurt and question why I believed he was not only my best friend but the love of my life.
You should have told his wife!! He’s disgusting and dont think he wont do this again to his “wife”. Does she have money? Pity her!!
You dodged a bullet. Sounds like a sociopath or narcissist who lies and uses people. There was nothing you did or didn’t do, those people aren’t like the rest of us. They are great performers and have no remorse for anything they do.
@@dollymadeson3963 I agree! Tell his wife put him on
Blast everywhere and show receipts 🧾!
What an awful person to get married behind your back and not tell you. He allowed you to believe that your relationship was good, solid and strong. I hope that your trust in love has not been effected by this terrible man.
I hope u find everlasting love and happiness, soon!
Idk. People are strange but look on it with knowledge,maybe signs somewhere of his issues
I just want to hug her and tell her she's worthy of love.
Sending so much love to Shannon!!! You are an amazing woman and deserve the best!!! ♥️♥️♥️
Shannon, be strong. You deserve better! You will find someone who is worthy of you. In the grand scheme of things he's just a pebble in your shoe, toss him out and keep going. It's his loss, not yours.
Poor Shannon. She should have listened to Kelly and she should have kept her friendship with Kelly who’s ALWAYS been there for her. ❤
Hopefully, with time, she can move forward. This guy always seemed like an opportunist to me...he came into her life and swooped her off her feet. Reminds me a bit of "Dirty John" where he knew that Shannon was vulnerable and had money. She made it seem as if she did not foresee any major issues and they were in a good place. I bet he had a girlfriend and needed to keep his "face" for the cameras. It will all come out eventually.
backgrounds are too different
Oh damn.... I'm so sorry Shannon. :-(
I am so sorry Shannon. My heart goes out to you. Jeff, I am glad that you are her friend & is there for Shannon.
I feel so bad for Shannon. She’s a good woman and deserves all the love 💗 in time I hope she heels and she can go back to enjoying life again.
Don't go on TV if you want a lasting relationship!
Rachel thank you ..the voice of reason … exactly ! Everyone is cheering for Shannon , but she needs to be off reality . She’s to volatile! I feel and I’m going to be on of the least liked comments her but i think reality tv destroyed her life . Had she worked it out with David without the cameras, would they be together now .. most likely I think so … well that is a strong possibility, but ever since she started RHOOC , it’s her being constantly upset , crying , sad. Very short period of her facing fun but with alcohol , obviously this women is numbing her issues with alcohol . She needs to stop blaming everyone and playing the victim and move on with her life
Keep shining, Shannon.🌞
You're alive, privileged beyond most, and the mother of wonderful daughters.
Please do your best NOT to ruminate on who, why, what if, etc.
You're in the trenches of grief---and these stages are butt kickers.
Get to new workouts and start planning your personal and family travels.
If you find yourself wallowing, volunteer your time to go and keep company with elders who are too old to travel and need at the minimum the company of a good citizen such as yourself.
Best wishes beautiful 💞
𝑨𝒎𝒂𝒛𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒂𝒅𝒗𝒊𝒄𝒆 ! ❤️
Yea, what she said !!!
When one ends a relationship no matter how crushing, they are doing you a favor and appreciate their honesty. I hope you feel better Shannon, only time will heal ❤
Finally posting more Jeff! Please let him have his own channel steaming these!!!!!
I adore Shannon
God Bless her
I pray she finds happiness
Shannon definitely wears her heart on her sleeve
I hate seeing anyone struggle in this way. Hoping she finds the love she deserves. ❤
Awwwww Shannon. I was praying that the relationship with you and John would last especially after how your ex treated you. You are such a beautiful person inside out. I pray you will meet someone who truly deserves your love. Sending you loooooads of love and light!!
I hope Shannon is able to find true, everlasting love. My heart breaks for her watching this interview.
Shannon's daughter said she wasn't sure about their relationship, Long ago. She knew it wasn't going to last. Count your blessings, and move on.
Well THANK GOD he was HONEST with her, most men woulda dragged her along and had their fun on the side for years until they get caught. At her age she does not have time for that bs, so as sad as it is im glad john was man enough to be honest with her.
He did drag her along
I get what you're saying - it's better that he cut his ties if he didn't love her for life, but it sounds like he did blindside her, and I think three years is dragging along.
Weird to say. I saw this coming! U can get through this Shannon! Shannon you are an independent woman. Show them how strong you are. Don't let anyone break you down. Shannon and Vicky are like on the same boat with love.
I saw it coming as well. Shannon should strengthen her relationship with Christ. I know she's a believer. Praying for you, Shannon!
@@danilaroche1156 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@danilaroche1156. She isn’t 😂
@@hana-belle I believe she is but it's not enough to believe. She must completely surrender and obey the Lord. Prioritize righteousness and love Christ with all her heart. Let's pray for Shannon.
I was blindsided by a relationship also. We were in love and happy and he kept asking me to marry him. One day he just vanished and I found him on dating sites within a week of him "dissapearing". I was devastated and in shock. Turns out he is a raging covert narcissist and he plays this game with many women. Hang in there Shannon, sometimes God takes the trash out for you. ❤
Yeah...got to watch out for the love bombers, usually narcs. Yep narcs do disappear. Such babies
Her oldest shared that she didn’t think he was right for her mom. She said there were things he did that her mom covered up for him. It was toxic.
Always two sides to every story. And then there is the truth.
You cannot make someone love you. I feel her pain and know there is nothing more painful then to be with someone who does not genuinely loves you.
Shannon, when she said the nights are not your friend and suggests going out it's concerning you immediately thought she said go our and drink at a bar. She tried to redirect you, but you couldn't even see she didn't mean drinking at a bar. I haven't had alcohol in 13 years. Go to a friends, go to a bar with friends, go dancing with friends, go to a movie, for coffee, for dinner, educational event, take a course...do anything with people...don't drink alcohol! I think alcohol was the biggest problem for you both.
I feel for her. I had a cheating husband who left me with three small kids. I’ve never found anyone since. I don’t want to be alone, but I must look at all sides and think you never know
Praying that God will send a good man to love you and your kids like his own! Stay hopeful and keep your heart free from bitterness.
Be alone by yourself or be alone with someone else. Think about that a bit.
@@mickyo7171 If I had to answer that question I would choose to be alone with myself.
I’ve been married for 25 years and have two grown kids but I was also an only child.
I’ve always enjoyed my own company.
@@tracylalonde4972 also only child, one child…and many things similar to yours.
so glad that Shannon has a friend like Jeff, poor Shannon
Mercedes looks like she’s going to burst with laughter any moment
Don’t let this discourage you 😢, he didn’t deserve you .. things happen for a reason
Shannon needs to learn how to be alone
I agree with you. I feel sad for women who are afraid to be alone. Being alone is the only way to know who you are and what you're capable of.
Yesssss... I would love to see a single and stable Shannon. She was raised traditionally though so she “has” to have a man. @@Vanessa180
A remember a show where the RHOC guys were out together and talking about when they might propose. John seemed hesitant to answer...
shannon was not blindsided, stop it. she knew. people warned her.
I do feel bad when anyone goes through a breakup. But i think Shannon needs some intensive therapy. There were obviously problems we don't know about.
Depends on the couple and situations like Ashley and Michael Darby from Potomac or Theresa and Joe G. from NJ etc. the list goes on
I agree. Something doesn’t sound right😢
Shane with those glasses ....omg dying
hangover glasses
I feel both have a drinking problems and both denial that they have one. A lot of everything they did drinking is always a part of what you do. He has made comments about we aren’t getting married for a long time a few times on the show. I’m sorry Shannon that this was easier to go through the pain and in there it will get better.
I agree..
I agree with you 100% Her drinking came up several times on the show and cast members talked about it with concern, especially since she drinks when she's alone and calls them. The level that she gets to be so wasted so often that we've seen is something that you'd expect a younger adult to do, but at some point you grow out of it unless you have a problem. As a recovering alcoholic I recognize the behavior of it. Even when her children were very young they talked about her being drunk that they witnessed a lot. When she was still married and they moved into that home, they showed the family walking inside and there were unpacked boxes everywhere and the first thing she did was say she needed a drink and had to look for the alcohol. Everytime she went to a party or event she would immediately say sheneeded to get a drink. She's in denial.
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Wow, I never thought about that. You might be right! Maybe he left her because of that?
@@cynthiagoldstein1133
Maybe.. This will be the second man to leave her.. Granted David is a doucebag but everyone assumes that it is always the man's fault but maybe Shannon is a drunk and the men get sick of dealing with her behaviour?
I remembered someone suggesting Shannon’s relationship was shaky, but couldn’t remember who. It was Jeff on WWHL 💀💀💀💀💀
Shannon the right person will come for you at the right time please believe this.
If she stops drinking.
She will never find a man she's too needy and insecure that's a fact she needs to live herself first
I feel so bad for Shannon she does not deserve this at all! It’s going to take time for her to heal ! When she is in love she gives her whole heart❤! I hope she takes time and one day finds someone so special for her she deserves that
This poor lady has really been through a lot. Keep your head up Shannon
I never thought he was interested in her. Something about their wasn't real it felt really forced
Same here. John never seemed totally invested in Shannon or their relationship and did seem forced. He never seemed happy.
I agree. He was faking it with Shannon.
I saw them at Barnes and Noble in Newport Beach in April. John Jansen was soooo bored and miserable. They were not a good match. She was all glam and attention, and he looked like he wished he was on a sailboat. He was done in April.
Geez that’s a massive amount of work done. Wow.
I'm close to your age and went through the same thing. It was one of the hardest things I have ever been through. My best friend wouldn't be there for me because my best friend was gone. So hard Shannon. I'm so sorry! It's like a death!
Jeff can relate. He had six breakups in just the past year.
😂🙌🤣
Dang. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I love Shannon. It’s just making room for your real soulmate to come into your life, girl!
Sometimes you are so in love so and don’t want to see what is obviously happening, she said it, she wanted this to work SO MUCH. People drop clues and attitudes and we choose not to see them for what they are. People rarely blindside others, we choose to ignore the signs.
Much love to you Shannon..❤
I love Shannon! I hope she finds her happily ever after some day 💕💕
Shannon I still love you!! She's one of thee most genuine housewives.Many make up plots don't blame them ..but this is sad!
Blindsided is never really true. People come out and say they saw the signs but ignored them.
Ugh I hate this for her, we just want Shannon to be happy. She’s gonna come out of this and find someone who’s gonna be there for her forever
Shannon, I know you’ve probably heard this from your friends and families but it’s so true. Take time for you sometimes we have to really do a deep dive on our self in our soul to help us to move on. Right now you have dealt with two horrible break ups, and you were hurting very bad and I’m sorry to see that. I will tell you spending time by yourself and your children as the weeks and months and maybe year goes by it will get easier trust me it will. Much happiness to you.
her pain is palpable. 🙏🙏praying for your strength and healing! Cry and move on gurl! Know your worth! His loss!
Same thing happened to Vicky Gunvalson 😮💨
Break ups always lead to some level of trauma
Just love Shannon. ❤
Her $75,000 face wasn't worth it like everyone else that does it. She was naturally beautiful 💕
She breaks my heart. I so know how she felt at that moment!
John was a better relationship than his predecessor- now the next relationship will be even better! Shannon has never looked better.
Was she blindsided or ignoring all the clues like Lisa Hocstein?
She probably was ignoring all the signs.
Jeff let her talk!!!!!!!!!😒
Glad you are there for her Jeff. Love Shannon. Same with Vicky.
My guess was Shannon’s bf was showing signs of leaving but she’s too narcissistic to notice. She appears so needy and only aware of herself.
They were just drinking buddies
Shannon…looking back, do you see that there were red flags you ignored? Just curious because SO MANY women don’t want to open their eyes at the time they are “under the spell”. Girlfriends sometimes try to tell them very carefully but the smitten woman just plunders on, with blinders attached, and walks right into the same boo boos she’s already been through before.
we love you Shannon 🫶
This is heartbreaking. Love you Shannon x
Hang in there Shannon because you will be with whom you should be with when you least expect it. Love yourself Shannon, don’t expect others to make you feel happy. Hugs and good vibes your way from Texas!
So many visible problems here. I hope she gets the help she desperately needs.
What do you see ?
I always knew this relationship was off. Something wasn’t right there.
I really feel for Shannon. Gosh, her and John were so happy.
Shannon I’m hurting for you. Take time for yourself. Friends are so important.
Shannon had no idea her husband was cheating and she didn’t see this relationship ending. I would say Shannon is really out of touch with what is going on with her partners.
A big Shannon supporter since day one on the show,you are a great,person I hope you heal from this and find happiness
I like Shannon and I feel bad for her but, i feel she probably is very difficult to handle sometimes and we have seen her outbursts on every season she's been on. We dont know how she is when the cameras are gone. Maybe a lot worse. Maybe he just couldn't deal with another off season or the maniac behavior.
Everyone deserves love ❤️
The way that Jeff describes Shannon and John caring for each other protecting doting over that doesn't sound healthy we're supposed to be ourselves and come together in love but I'm guilty of exactly the same thing your heart feel happy Shannon!!🤗
I hope Shannon finds true happiness and love. She deserves good things in her life as much as everyone else does.
Love both of them Shannon and Jeff !
I think he decided during filming & didn't want the break up during filming,so he might of thought he was doing right by her. Heck maybe he was.. sometimes things just do not work out better to end it than drag it along.
👌love Shannon. Glad you are there for her Jeff.